masterflappie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Hookers?	masterflappie	/r/seduction	03/09/19 11:26 AM
1	Please help how do I stop thinking about women?	masterflappie	/r/seduction	20/11/19 04:12 PM
0	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive	masterflappie	/r/seduction	10/10/19 09:53 AM
0	MBTI in seduction	masterflappie	/r/seduction	14/07/19 07:07 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	Is it true, young men will vote for Republicans? I'm a simple man, I see politics in a non political subreddit? I downvote	/r/MensRights	20/08/24 08:33 AM
1	Please help how do I stop thinking about women? 23 and I hate to sound so negative, but I just haven't got the strength anymore to fake the abundance mindset. I need to get out of this depression, until then there's nothing to do dating wise.	/r/seduction	20/11/19 04:36 PM
1	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive No, they've said that it IS needy, but not WHY it is needy. Luckily a helpful user came around and explained it for me. None of it was defending my actions, as I said before, I acknowledge that I'm not good at the whole dating thing. My emotional skills are... immature, lets say. It's the whole reason I'm on this subreddit. But I can't grow and learn if I don't understand why my actions are not acceptable, so I ask questions until I fully understand what's happening. As for you, you haven't brok…	/r/seduction	11/10/19 11:01 AM
1	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive Thank you, that was the explanation I was looking for. I guess I went wrong when I got too excited for the date. I'm still confused about how I should've handled it instead though. I don't think that getting excited for a date is "wrong", right? So it's not the excitement, but the mental investment I put into it? As in, if you give me a cookie, I'll be excited about eating a cookie. But if you then take the cookie away I'll shrug and live on. I got too invested and wasn't able to just shrug and …	/r/seduction	11/10/19 10:46 AM
0	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive Are you calling waiting in despair the "easy" way? I know you're going to say that the easy way is to uphold my pride and just let go and that sounds great, but I can't just flip an apathy switch in my head. I did give her the ultimatum. Pretty sure she still isn't going to respond, but at least I have my closure	/r/seduction	10/10/19 02:58 PM
1	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive could you explain why ultimatums are needy? To me a message like "Hey if you're not going to respond I'm going to leave" doesn't sound needy to me. If I had to come up with a needy message it would be something like "Hey please respond plz plz plz"	/r/seduction	10/10/19 01:42 PM
0	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive I get that you think that it IS needy, my question is WHY it is needy. Of course I saw everyone else saying ultimatums are needy, hence my question to which I'm still awaiting an answer for. I'm also not saying that I'm not needy, I am needy and desperate and I'm being very conscious about it to not let it show too much, hence my question. Now you can call me a stalker again, or you can just answer my question please. "Despite clear signs that that there is NO interest", a few days ago she sent …	/r/seduction	10/10/19 01:16 PM
-1	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive I've been on one date 5 years ago. That's pretty much it. And how is an ultimatum needy? Begging her to return my calls is needy, telling her that I'll leave if she won't respond doesn't sound needy to me at all. I don't think I tried calling her too much either. Before she gave me her number we had spend two weeks talking every day. Then I went to giving her two calls in one week, how is that too much?	/r/seduction	10/10/19 12:44 PM
0	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive 2 times initially, then I send her a chat asking what's up. She said that I just called at wrong moments and that it would be better if we made an appointment over chat first. I send her 3 messages over the course of the following week asking if she would've time. Didn't respond to any of them. I called her once after that week. I decided to go with the ultimatum anyway. I told her that I felt ignored and that if she wanted to still meet up it would have to come from her side. If not, this would…	/r/seduction	10/10/19 12:26 PM
-2	Girl agrees to date, becomes unresponsive I see what you're saying, it just hurts to let yet another one go. I've been on this app for well over a year and haven't managed to get a single date. I've had two others who also agreed to a date and both of them unmatched literally a day before we agreed to meet. I have asked her about her unresponsiveness, she explained that she has a mild long lasting depression so she avoids her phone as much as possible. She actually ignored me for a week before and then heavily apologized. I'd much rathe…	/r/seduction	10/10/19 10:18 AM
1	Hookers? Yeah I don't really feel like I learned much from dating apps. I've been trying for a year and got on 1 date with someone who was more desperate than I and it's her desperation that repelled me from her. But getting ghosted doesn't give any feedback whatsoever, so I figured I had to get off the dating apps anyway. My plans are to figure out some more hobbies that I can enjoy, see if I can develop more of a personality. I ordered No More Mr Nice Guy, I've heard about it a lot and I do have that n…	/r/seduction	03/09/19 01:34 PM
1	Hookers? I can blame mental illness and take responsibility for it at the same time. The amount of anxiety I managed to drop last year surprised both my therapists and friends. Women are different though, because it's not about getting myself to do something, but getting someone else to do something. I'm not sure how to even take ownership over that, but I heard a nice quote about it recently: If there are no butterflies in your garden, you don't force them in, you improve your garden. I guess I have som…	/r/seduction	03/09/19 01:22 PM
2	Hookers? Yeah that's what I figured. It was either this or just getting off of dating apps and do some soul searching. The hard way usually is the best eh? :/	/r/seduction	03/09/19 01:15 PM
3	Can we help these INCEL guys? I'm sort of incel, I never really fully identified with them, but I used to visit their message boards every once in a while and just meme and shitpost with them. I'm 23 and I've never had a gf, never spoke much with women and never had any meaningful interaction with them. About a year ago I started therapy and since then I've begun to understand how my childhood and upbringing made me the man that I am. I've solved a lot of my problems by now, but I don't think I'm even halfway of repairing th…	/r/seduction	19/07/19 11:41 AM