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| 1 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?You're back to using the "bodily need" definition like food or water. And I said "involuntarily celebate", meaning he can't get any. If he's getting some with you he's not involuntarily celebate. Unless of course you have a dead bedroom...then I'd ask "wtf?". I've lived my entire life up until now without it. I can't see why it would be so terrible to continue on with the same lifestyle. You're not a man. We literally have different biological drives regarding sex. As a woman you don't have horm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Chore division with a WFH boyfriendFair point. I'll take the lesson. I'll try to be more self aware in the future. To my defense I'm nuerodivergent (ADHD) I often misread or misunderstand some nuances in communication. My apologies to anyone for any confusion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Chore division with a WFH boyfriendOh cool. Well I guess the experience of stress is subjective. For me, I am a software engineer (10 years experience) and it is always stressful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Chore division with a WFH boyfriendCan you point out to me how you think I'm being condescending? Seriously not trying to, so I wonder what about what I said sounds that way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?Ok I see we have different definitions of "need". You're defining it as "will literally die without it". I am defining a need more broadly: something you have to have in order to not cause you mental or physical health problems. Under my definition, a father figure is a need, but a "wealthy father" is a want. Sex is a "need" (seriously please try convincing me that a life of involuntary celibacy wouldn't cause you mental health problems), but really good sex with someone hot is a want. A relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Chore division with a WFH boyfriendWhat specific job may I ask? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/22 06:52 AM |
| 3 | You can't be the "stability guy" and expect the "casual sex guy" treatmentThis is a false dichotomy. Let's stop with the distinction between casual dating and relationships. All relationships start casual. You don't know each other: all you have is physical/chemical attraction. You either want to bone them or you don't. If you "get into a relationship" with someone you don't want to bone: then likely you're using them for something else: provider/commitment/safety, and then sex becomes a tool for your manipulation. Again: you either want to bone someone or you don't. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 06:21 AM |
| 6 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?This is where I think your wrong. Sex should be there from the beginning as sexual compatibility grows with romantic compatibility. This isn't a buffet line but a banquet: you need all the food at the table at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 12:53 AM |
| 8 | Women have said they make "relationship material" men wait for sex because they care about them and they didn't care about the other guys or see a future with the other guys. What's the logic?Sex is a need for men AND women. If you don't believe that then you might be asexual. If you view sex as a chore and not a burning passionate desire, then you shouldn't be dating any men who see it just as much as a need as having friends or falling in love. Maybe she doesn’t want a boyfriend who sees sex as a need? To put this in your own format: "Maybe he doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who views a relationship as a need." See how dumb it sounds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Whats some legit benefit to a man for dating a woman that is 35+So the only place where a 10 year age gap is reasonable is in a very traditional marriage. If a woman wants to be a housewife instead of going to college and building a career: her best financial plan is to find a traditional husband that is successful and well established in his careers. He needs to be older for this to happen: very few men have a decent amount of career success before 30 years old. So, yes if a young woman wants to be a traditional housewife, she better marry young: because in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Plenty of women cannot believe average men cannot get laid because of what they seeOh I'm plenty horny. But porn and toys do enough for me to fulfill the addictive dopamine rush part of orgasms. The other part of sex maybe I just suck at sex (which doesn't surprise me I don't have much sex), but closeness, skin to skin contact, emotional experience: that can be only really that good in a relationship. I don't think casual sex is something very fulfilling. All you will get is the dopamine rush and maybe a small wiff of oxytocin. You get skin to skin contact, but it's empty and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 08:35 AM |
| 5 | Plenty of women cannot believe average men cannot get laid because of what they seeI'm a software engineer. I don't get laid cause I never go out. Tinder is a joke for anyone not a Chad. I could get a hookup on tinder if I wanted to fuck really disgustingly ugly women. But the average plain girl on tinder: she's looking for the chads, because "that'll do" is good enough for them. In real life, I have no idea how to get a hookup or cold approach a girl. I was never successful at it in college. Only time I was was with a really unintelligent dumb girl that happened to be a virgi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Wants to buy a house together, doesn't want marriageSure ok. But do you really need the courts for that? With cars: he keeps his car she keeps hers. With stuff in the house:handle it like rational adults. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Wants to buy a house together, doesn't want marriageThis is weirdly fun, so let's continue our imaginary marriage negotiation: So yes let me clarify, alimony and child support are two separate things. But together they could not be more than 50% on paying spouse's post tax income. As to child support: absolutely it would be necessary. No question. But it would be a separate shared account that we both draw from and both contribute to. We would both contribute to it preportionally to our incomes (in the case of not working, alimony would be the pa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Wants to buy a house together, doesn't want marriage70% of divorces are initiated by women fyi. Marriage is just a legal contract that makes things more complicated for no reason. You want to buy a house together, buy a house together as tenancy in common. You want an alimony agreement? Set that up as a separate contract that you both can agree the terms to. What I would put on mine: alimony is only to be granted if the following conditions are met: 1. Permanent Separation is due to proven and verifiable infidelity. 2. Spouse receiving alimony wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Wants to buy a house together, doesn't want marriageNot if you set it up as tenants in common. The buyout agreement is usually set up in advance, and most banks will absorb the buyout into his or her mortgage (whoever is keeping the home). It's not as difficult as it sounds. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 07:42 AM |
| -6 | Wants to buy a house together, doesn't want marriageHi, so I share your boyfriend's viewpoint. So maybe I can provide some insight. I am all for getting married, but I do not want to get married. Let me explain: I want to settle down with someone, and maybe have kids. But I don't want to take the legal risk of marriage: possibilities of alimony, wife taking half my assets in a divorce, et cetera. So I would go through a wedding ceremony but I wouldn't sign a marriage contract. I don't want that hassle and I'd want to protect my assets. Not do I t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/22 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Do nice guys actually exist?Sorry I think you misunderstood. By doesn't value her as an individual, I mean he jumps into romance/ I love you mode right away without getting to know her. He likes the idea of her but not her specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | how you know when you've won the debateLol and now I just got banned from that sub | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/05/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | how you know when you've won the debateYou know you've won the debate when all they got is insults. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/05/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | how you know when you've won the debateThe original comment thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/umjucs/getting_into_discussions_with_white_male_students/i822gu1?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/05/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Honesty about cooking for himYou can take classes at your local community college to learn to cook well. (This is also a great way to meet guys). | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/22 09:20 PM |
| 11 | Do nice guys actually exist?It's possible he's like me, and doesn't view casual sex worthwhile and spent his 20s becoming that attractive guy because he focused on himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:55 PM |
| 28 | Do nice guys actually exist?Obligatory obvious distinction whenever anyone says nice guys: When people speak of "Nice guys" they are blending two definitions into one: Fake nice, but secretly an asshole. Real nice, but has lots of bad luck with other aspects in dating. Doesn't understand what he needs to improve about himself. Puts women on pedistool. Immediately treats any girl that gives him affection as a goddess. Doesn't really value the woman as an individual. Both of those suck. 1 is just trying to manipulate, and 2.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:53 PM |
| 5 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?Software engineer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?No matter how good you get, he stays just a little bit better than you at it just to spite 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:11 PM |
| 0 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?No I was pointing out your hypocrisy. If a 9 turns out to be a 4 without makeup: it's terrible if it's a guy, but all good if it's a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?It would be like dating two different people Unmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 0 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?https://qunki.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/make-up-transformations-wtf-16.jpeg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Abortion Mega-ThreadOk so what's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Tinted moisturizer or foundation Extremely Subtle blush to add some contrast Concealer stick under eyes to hide dark circles. Brow brush Beard filler / volumizer Moisturizing lip balm That's at least all I'm thinking of at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Not all make-up my friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Yep I'm working on that too. But until I am low low body fat, I'm going to do what I can. I also like the look of a stubble beard regardless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Abortion Mega-ThreadSo you at least agree with me on when consciousness comes about. Cool. As to dna: there's plenty of tiny fertilized eggs in IVF. But we throw 99% of them away after one forms a placenta. Well the body throws them away, we just jam then in there and see what sticks. Those fertilized eggs are "human" by your definition. So in your definition that's mass murder. In your definition plan B is murder. Please take time to understand the female reproductive system. And then we can talk about dna. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Please stop reading people's post history. It's stupid that reddit doesn't let me turn that off. And I don't wear any makeup...yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:29 PM |
| 10 | On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see?You probably work in a male dominated industry. Go to a female dominated industry there's plenty of cute nurses, plenty of cute teachers, childcare workers, receptionists, and whatnot. Typically (and this sub may give me flac but whatever), in a male dominated industry: if it's an office environment it's knowledge work. The guys in that environment care less about their looks. Women in that environment don't really see the guys as attractive either so they too don't care as much about their look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:22 PM |
| 6 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Then I don't want to meet those girls. So it's mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?I do. My real friends have literally been there since childhood for me. I could literally end up in prison one day and they'd be there with the bail money. If your friends judge you for experimenting with your looks: those aren't your friends. As to work....I'm not really one to dress up for work anyways so that's a non issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Veard vs very short beard. I'm wearing a fuzzy stubble beard in a chinstrap beard shape. I wear it because it defines my jawline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:09 PM |
| 0 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?And hitching my steer to that wagon is a good thing? Sometimes it's fun to be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:07 PM |
| 5 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Dude a real man doesn't give a shit about what other men think of him. So I'm not sure what you're getting at. Women are the ones who fear being socially judged. Men are perfectly fine standing alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?I think you're picturing obvious and pronounced makeup, rather than just subtle and natural looking. Most guys don't like it when ladies do that over the top makeup either. We like the natural look too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:04 PM |
| 22 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?I'm actually thinking for myself how I can subtly but unnoticeably improve my look. I've bought some makeup for men called "warpaint" (just a tinted moisturizer) and also bought a concealer stick (I'm in my 30s and occasionally get little skin issues like bumps and a tiny bit of acne), and a brow brush (make my eyebrows slightly darker / add volume). I also have a small beard that's a tiny bit too light in some spots, so I used the brow brush on that too and it seemed to make my beard (my beard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?DM me, I'm curious what you think makeup could improve for my face. I've already started using a brow pencil to make my eyebrows slightly and subtlety more volume / darker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Abortion Mega-ThreadYes and that genetic makeup forms a prefrontal cortex. Without it you wouldn't of been able to type or think that thought sir. We, and a few other animals (all primates) have a prefrontal cortex: so I guess you could say more accurately that's what makes us primates. But a lot of the other brain parts: many other species have those, and they aren't special. But my point about the prefrontal cortex: that's where higher thought occurs. Planning, speculation, self awareness, emotional awareness (no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:52 PM |
| 5 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?If a beard turned me into a Chad I'd die with that beard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Depends on the makeup. They do make makeup on for men. Mostly just concealer and tinted moisturizers. But we can hide wrinkles and scars, we can do contouring too if we want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:09 PM |
| -9 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?So you wouldn't be mad that the hot guy you met at the bar ends up being an ogre when he takes off his makeup? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:08 PM |
| 7 | Abortion Mega-ThreadAre we talking religion or science here? Because yes, science would say that the prefrontal cortex is what makes us "human" compared to many animals. https://www.science20.com/news_articles/what_makes_us_human_lateral_frontal_pole_prefrontal_cortex-128592 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:06 PM |
| 9 | Abortion Mega-Thread??????? Ok I'll take the bait. What the hell you on about? Prefrontal cortex development isn't until third trimester | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Both men and woman prefer more feminine faces in rich/healthy countriesLol my heart shape face. Yeah I only recently tried to grow out this chinstrap beard because my jawline often gives me a double chin. So I thought this would define it better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Both men and woman prefer more feminine faces in rich/healthy countriesWhat about a beard without a mustache? Give me your honest opinion. https://imgur.com/a/oJ2DTKI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Both men and woman prefer more feminine faces in rich/healthy countriesWhat about a clean shaved man that decides to grow a beard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyWell marriage used to be more a religious think, attached to laws. Now more people are agnostic or atheists. So now marriage is not that great of a deal to many men especially if women are going to act self serving and vapid (80% of divorces are initiated by women, and something like 60% of divorces are because of female infidelity) So a lot of guys don't want marriage for that reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyYes feminism has taken it too far. Instead of "let's have equal opportunities in laws and in the workplace" which I fully support, they have taken it to be "let's act entirely vapid and self serving as 'men' do" (which actually many men aren't vapid and self serving, plenty of good guys who want relationships; they ones that are most vapid and self serving are usually genetically blessed however). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyI don't want children and I still desire sex and marriage. What does that make me? I think you're not thinking this through. You need to divorce your religious beliefs from sex itself. Sex isn't spiritual. Maybe it is, but that word is such a vague term it's meaningless fluff. A long term relationship is one where you legitimately feel love for the other person. Marriage is just a legal contract, nothing more. I have friends who've been with their partners for decades, but they just don't want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyAnyways, yes to some degree you have the right idea. Just I think you need to be more discerning between casual sex and relationship sex. Good for you realizing this now. I don't think casual sex is fulfilling. I'm sure you've tried it too and hate it just as much. I do think that it's ok for people to have casual sex, but those who only date casually are doing themselves a disservice because they'll feel empty and vapid by the time they reach their 30s. Anyways yes it's fine for single people t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyCasual sex and sex within a relationship are NOT the same thing. Yes casual sex is shallow and basically enhanced masterbation. But having a one night stand is not the same thing as making love in a committed relationship. Not everyone wants to date casually or have casual sex. Some people do some people don't. Sex is also a biological need that doesn't necessarily align with where we are in life or society. Single men on vacation in Cancun might not be able to sustain a long distance relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyThen I don't know where you got these thoughts. A relationship should be having sex on a regular basis irrespective of procreation. I feel bad for your boyfriend. Let me ask, are you religious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyThis is a debate sub for red pill vs blue pill and sometimes blackpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | If you are having sex with a partner while using any forms of birth control to prevent pregnancy, you are basically masterbating with the other persons bodyOMG this post is so cringe. Dude, go out and actually have sex. You will see why people have it rather than just masterbate on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 04:03 PM |
| 0 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?Male in my 30s here. I've been one of those guys for most of my life. Not finding it success, and if there's one thing I've learned is that those us who struggle with dating don't want to swallow some hard pills (some or all may apply to you): You're not as attractive as you think you are. Being attractive takes making a genuine effort to become a more complete person and not just a shy guy online. You need a full life, a woman should only be complimentary to it. Many of us expect women to think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?And that's a shitty attitude you have. Instead of treat others as you want to be treated, your attitude is "I got mine who gives two shits if you got yours" That's not civilized | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?You basically agreed with me and then added not to rely on other's kindness. So I'm not sure what is being argued. I said to treat people with compassion. I didn't say to depend on people for compassion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Having Career/Degree is Important to MenFrom someone who went from lower lower middle class (like food bank paycheck to paycheck people) to upper middle class (saving 50% of my income) I can tell you I care a great deal about my potential wife's career and education success. If I fall Ill I would want someone to be able to take over as the breadwinner, and similarly for her. We both serve as each other's safety net. Especially in DINK marriages. Secondly in dating, if I make substantially more money than my girlfriend, then I would al… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | your drunk self is the same as your sober self, just more extroverted. If this is true, then doesn't make the argument of "drunk rape" (or I wouldn't of had sex with him sober) as null and void?Note, please read the link first. It talks about the study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 08:11 AM |
| 2 | One of the many ways the patriarchy oppresses women -- giving girls higher marks than boys just for being girlsThe other trick I hate. The one that just pisses me off: is when they start with the waterworks to get their way. You could be having a perfectly rational argument, make solid points, and then when she realizes she has nothing she starts sobbing like a baby. Everyone naturally feels bad for her, and little baby gets her way. I've seen women do this ALL THE TIME. Especially in a relationship. I'm freaking tired of it. I'm slowly trying to train my brain to just walk away whenever I hear a woman c… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/04/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.The height thing was actually part of a smear campaign. It's amazing how propaganda can persist through history books | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I use FaceApp to experiment with slight tweaks to my face to see if it improves how many matches I get. it informs me what attractiveness features I'm lacking or at least don't show in photos.How does it not fall under machiavellianism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.No I didn't change my tune hun. I clarified it. Nevertheless, even if I did change my mind, isn't that the purpose of a discussion? Or are we arguing just because we're bored? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:57 PM |
| 0 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Not a disengenous argument. It was only an argument on probabilities. If you truly felt you were in mortal danger, you would never drive a car, regardless of necessity. Which means you don't feel in mortal danger. By the transitive property, this means you to don't fear for mortal danger (or at least shouldn't) anything that is less probable than dying in a car acciden Also: they got planes, trains and cars, you can walk to Delilah if there was no other way🎶 It's not about feelings. It's about t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.You threw an insult at me, so here goes: This "nerd" is making $300k a year. This "nerd" and others like him are the very reason you have the modern internet and technology in you have today. This "nerd" may not have success right now, but that's because our of all the women: I go for people at my same financial level ($100k+). There's not a lot of women in that area. (If you're not at a similar financial level it creates a huge power dynamic and I would rather be single than to deal with that, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.And feminists throw that insult when they no longer have an argument. Please refrain from ad hominems. This isn't kindergarten. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I use FaceApp to experiment with slight tweaks to my face to see if it improves how many matches I get. it informs me what attractiveness features I'm lacking or at least don't show in photos.That's a dumb rule of thumb. Not all ethics are strait forward. And it depends on which school of philosophy we're talking about. If we're machiavellianism, then it's 100% as long as it serves me, it's good. If we're talking about Kantian ethics: as long as the ends survey a greater good than the means, it's justified. If we're talking st Augustine: as long as it glorifies God or is harmless, it's justified. Ethics was never ever a mindless thing. Take a philosophy class or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.Ok, no. As someone who's dealt with machine learning before, we have a very good definition of confidence. Take, IBM Watson (which I did some small parts of some stuff within Watson). When it plays Jeapardy, it has a confidence score as to how accurate it's answer (err question) is. That confidence score is a probability between 0.0 and 1.0 We're literally saying based on the machine learning algorithm, the answer is x, and the probability of that being the answer is 0.79 (for example). The prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts?You've been watching way too much game of thrones. Go to bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:30 PM |
| 14 | If a husband claims “Ever since we had a kid, my wife cares less about me”, he’s automatically the problem in the relationship.Just because you have a kid doesn't mean you don't have to be a wife also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 12:35 PM |
| 0 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.Why don't you give me an argument then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 12:30 PM |
| 3 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.The funny thing about confidence: and this comes from red pill and blackpill stuff: Confidence is usually a manifestation of one's circumstances. Low self esteem is the same thing. If someone is constantly rejected, do you really think they're going to have genuine confidence? Heck no. He's likely to feel like shit about himself until he has a few consistent wins. Think about confidence in any other setting. Do you feel confident when you lose many many bowling games in a row? Of fucking course … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 11:55 AM |
| 3 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.Napoleon wasn't as short as you think. He was 5' 6" when he died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | What constitutes a 'bad boy'? A lot of posts have been about bad boys recently.A "bad boy" is a Chad with attitude and no chance of settling down. He sleeps around, never ties himself to one woman, has hundreds of options in the dating / sex market. And likely isn't planning on settling down untill well into his 40s or 50s Women like em because they think they can tame them. They take it as a challenge. Basically he's someone who doesn't play by the rules, and tells women "no" all the time. He's the exact opposite of typical pushover "Eric" (I'm just going to call all push… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts?Eh. Not anything a lawyer can't handle. What else you got? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?I would say that's taking risk management too far. You have a much greater risk of getting in a car accident and dying yet you drive everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts?Aside from the tax benefits there's nothing else of value that requires the government to be involved. If you want to call your spouse husband/wife, then you can go ahead and do so. Nothing is stopping you. It's not a sacred word. (The only point it may come is in medical power of attorney, and financial power of attorney that spouses have when their significant other is incapacitated....but you can easily get those and revoke those separately from a marriage) If you want the cultural benefits: … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Can anyone give examples of prenups being ignored by divorce courts?Such as?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersNot manipulation but moving the goal posts. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersMen looking at you sexually is fucking biology. Honey I think you have some issues with how you view men. Maybe talk to a therapist. I mean this sincerely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersA gesture can be a kind gesture and it can be a nice gesture. Gestures are actions. Please tell me I'm not taking crazy pills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersAgain you're speaking backwards. You find certain people attractive and certain people not attractive based on looks alone. That's not a lie, that's biology. Secondly I didn't say anything about lying to them, I said don't be an asshole. You know there's ways to communicate the same thing with kindness. And boy are you only thinking from you current perspective and your time and place in "now". Let alone when he leaves you and you find yourself 5 years older and less men are noticing you. You'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersSo a guy the perforce nice actions for you is different from a guy that performs kind action for you? I'm sorry but those are literally interchangeable words. I don't know why you're attaching special meaning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersI understand trying to be assertive, but a simple "sorry I'm not looking right now " would suffice. Those phrases you used are assertive yes, but a bit hostile and aggressive. The nice guys will probably think the "absolutely not" to mean they're extremely unattractive. Damaging their self esteem, while completely unnecessary. The assholes will only invite more conflict with more aggression. Also, if your dream guy was by happenstance in the same bookstore as you and saw that behavior he would t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersSo you associate kindness with actions. Sure. But I would also call your kind stranger a nice stranger too. He did a nice thing for you. Vs he showed you kindness. The words are interchangeable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersOK, if it's that same guy that keep harassing you, yes. But if a guy in general went up to you, kindly asked you if you'd want to get to know him. Would you still be mean? That's what I'm asking. Obviously if Guy A doesn't accept no and continues to persist, then I can understand. But if guy B then comes along and is a perfect gentleman, he should not be cursed at or mocked; he didn't do anything to you to deserve that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | I use FaceApp to experiment with slight tweaks to my face to see if it improves how many matches I get. it informs me what attractiveness features I'm lacking or at least don't show in photos.So I use faceapp to tweak small things on my face: remove a freckle here or there, contour cheekbones to be more well defined, and make my face slightly skinnier or give myself a small tan. I do this so that I can see how it improves my matches on OLD apps. I only change things that I can change in real life without major plastic surgery. So adding bigger cheekbones? No. But can you add makeup to your face to make your cheekbones more defined? Yes. (Guys can wear some makeup. There are guys that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:37 AM |
| 14 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?There's no such thing as alpha and beta. Get that shit outta your he'd. Stop drinking the red pill kool-aid. And no. You don't just broadcast to 5 ladies and hope 1 will respond. You go, you try, you assess, you improve. It's a skill like anything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:15 AM |
| 13 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?It's a numbers game. Not every woman is interested in you. In fact majority of them 79% won't be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | do Chinese women care more about career success and earning potential?I found American girls care next to nothing about income. As long as you make enough to pay the bills comfortably, that's not something they care for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersNo. Sorry. That doesn't excuse your behavior. You don't get to be mean and nasty to someone just because others didn't accept your rejections. Men are individuals. The current guy asking you out is not the previous person you rejected. They are not deserving of your hate and vitriol. Get that through your head. If you're being an asshole you're being an asshole. There is no "I'm being an asshole because"....no honey. Own up to being an asshole, don't try to fairy dust it to try to make it accept… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersPlease explain to me the difference between a kind stranger and a nice stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:19 AM |
| 19 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?News flash: you're playing minesweeper no matter where you go. If you think there's some magical place where all women will welcome you hitting on them, that doesn't exist. Only chads get that kind of world and even they don't 100% get accepted. Stop living in a fantasy and just get the fuck out there and actually TRY. You seem to dismiss every single person here. Whatever magical place you're thinking of doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:15 AM |
| 13 | Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman?Farmer’s market? You’re trolling. There’s millions of posts about woman complaining about men trying to talk them at grocery stores, albeit not the same thing but similar. You need to realize the guy that listens to those posts and the guys that ignore them and proceed anyways: those are the ones who get the girl in the coffee shop, the girl in the grocery store. You should know by now that what women say they want and what they actually want aren't always the same thing. You should know by now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersHold on. I said I insult them if they were mean to me to were essentially bullying with the rejection. If they were nice and treated me with respect, then no insults at all. It's a simple principle: you disrespect me you open the floodgates for me to disrespect you back. Is it the higher ground? No. But women also need to know that kinda behavior is not tolerated and is not acceptable. And no, kind and nice are synonymous in the dictionary. It's people putting special meaning onto the word when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?No that's not a plan. That's just leaving the door open and not burning a bridge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Most Niceguys are are Legitimately Alright Men and Not Manipulative PlayersI think you're giving a bad faith argument to that comment. Clearly we're talking about guys who have the belief that being kind or nice (the words are synonyms, come on dude) and being a "classic gentleman" is the way to get dates. It's not disingenuous unless that's also not part of your personality in general. I'm kind and generous to everyone I meet. But I'm unsuccessful in dating. Do I insult a women who reject me? Most of the time, no. I only insult someone if they were mean or bullying in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?Lol I would not ask that. That would be a decision up to her. The most I would do is when I get home send a message "thanks for helping me and all your advice. I enjoyed the practice date, and getting to know you as well. If you're interested in being friends or anything, let me know. Until then, thank you and TTYL" That leaves an open invitation to contact me but it is not aggressively or specifically asking her out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?What if we both hav0e roofies in our drinks? Does it become a princess bride moment? 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?Ha, get a female friend to send the request for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?I'm not afraid of women. I'm afraid of more than 1 woman at a time that I don't know in a social setting like a bar but that's irrelevant. And why not? I get like 2 matches a month on OLD. 1 of them might might want to meet me for coffee. I'm not exactly getting 1000s of opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?I always thought they were a euphemism for a fancier version of a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?P.S. almost all my matches that want to meet are 30 - 34 year old career or academic women that have at least a bachelor's degree. I don't even ever attract anyone younger than 28, even when I turn every filter off. (I'm 34) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?I don't think I'm on the spectrum. It runs in my family...but I'm highly successful career wise, and interpersonal stuff within my career like leadership and giving a presentation I've no problem with. My soft skills at work are awesome. I'm not a robot like Zuckerberg. Where I fail at is in dating and maintaining friendships (I'm naturally introverted and most of my friends are introverted so we don't see each other often). Dating: attractiveness: I am overweight, (240lbs) but I have a pretty a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?Well fake in the sense that escorts are far more willing to um do more than just a date. Boundaries and barriers are even less real with them (at least that's how I imagine. I don't really know) because you're paying them to allow you into boundaries and barriers they wouldn't otherwise consent to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?I would pay an escort to. But a.) I have no idea how to legitimately find one that doesn't involve going to red light district type area. B.) Her consent would be fake and not real to regular dating. Escorts have a different view on men than regular women do. It would be a very poor simulation on how an average woman would react. I like intelligent and career focused women (careers that aren't transactional with desperate men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?I've done the "your hands are so small compared to mine" thing to break that touch barrier. Is that inappropriate? And the neck, yes there are erogenous zones on the neck but I was moreso referring to the small of the back near the neck. As in a comforting pat on the back if they say something that needs sympathy. I have done the too much touch too soon thing...oddly that actually didn't work out too bad 30% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:04 PM |
| 0 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?I suppose it's a tall ask. What if the guy compensated you for it like $100 per date or something? I have shitty dating skills. And advice from my female friends have been way too generic and stuff my grandma would say, that it isn't useful. Well nevertheless do you have any useful, actionable advice on how guys can do better on first dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:00 PM |
| 0 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?Why do people always "read between the lines" and assume people are not what they say they are? I am a person that mostly trusts other people at their word as long as I don't personally put myself in an unsafe situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 3 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?Exactly. Thanks man. Me particularly is only with strangers I find attraction to. I have no issue talking to regular strangers. Only in the context of dating do I become not so great. Also things like initiating touch (still part of a first date) I tend to do extremely awkwardly. (Again, I'm not even talking about even as far as a kiss, I literally mean pats on neck and other small things to break touch barriers is what I struggle with). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?This isn't asking or even really intending to be anything beyond coffee or dinner type things. Why does everyone assume my intentions are about sex here? Why can't you all realize sometimes when a guy says something he is saying directly what he means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?I will admit I was watching way too many red pill and black pill videos when I posted this question. I realize how much too much of that can warp your world view | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:48 PM |
| 0 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?What you’re trying to do is get a pity fuck from random women hotter than you under the guise of just wanting help. Huh? I would never. That's an awful assumption. I very very much said I will not even initiate anything beyond light touches without direct and unambiguous consent (meaning it has to be verbal consent or otherwise initiated by her). I am legit needing to practice social skills. I do this all the time for interviewing skills for software engineer interviews (mock interviews is extre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:47 PM |
| 0 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?Lots of dating coaches I've found online are mostly in the red pill space. I don't want to get trapped in that rabbit hole as a lot of red pill people (not all) have a very "one size fits all" view on women and overgeneralize or they're basically PUA advice. I want an unbiased experience in the real world that doesn't rely on generalizations or misogynistic world views. Also, I just said they'd get compensated in the form of activities, food, et cetera. (Normally I take the view that unless you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:42 PM |
| -1 | [question for women] if a guy you weren't that attracted to, asked you to help him with a practice date...would you do it? why or why not?Why do you feel that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?That's sweet of you, but I will still say That's probably still immoral if your intentions were not to actually go in unbiased. What would of been the more ethical approach: tell the guys ahead of time "hey I don't consider you to be my type, but I think we could both benefit from a practice date. Would you be OK with that?" Then no feelings would be hurt, and the guys know it's just for practice. I've done that a few times, and the girls that I practiced with were appreciative of my transparenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?I mean isn't that morally questionable? I mean these guys aren't robots. They're real people with real feelings. I hope you at least kept an open mind when you were on those dates? There's a number of studies that show if you decide rather you like or don't like something before interacting with it, that will influence how much you enjoy that thing. Take eating at a new restaurant: if you hear a bunch of rave reviews before going to eat there, you will be more likely to enjoy the food, whereas i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Haha me too. I get super excited oddly when a date cancels. My introverted self is weirdly relieved. Why js cis male the only risky ones? I mean, assuming you're bisexual, there definitely could be some scary lesbians right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Isn't that the attitude most women younger than 27 take? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?I have had dates go out of their way to make themselves look unattractive. Spend an equal amount of time picking out the ugliest outfit, not shower, and wear makeup that obviously clashes. So in terms of effort...I have no idea what some people's motivations are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issueOp phrased it horribly and opened himself up for a verbal beat down lol. If I were to rephrase the message: yes we've all had bad experiences that make us apprehensive if that situation is going to occur again. That's why there's an epidemic of anxiety disorders (including and especially among men): https://swampland.time.com/2013/11/05/anxiety-disorders-on-the-rise-in-the-ranks/ An anxiety disorder is usually either genetic or environmental/learned. For the ones that are learned: it's usually d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 11:27 PM |
| 2 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Pity sucks for everyone involved. Like pity sex is worse than starfish sex. A pity date is worse than getting stood up. Only the loneliest of lonely people accept pity dates or pity sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Wow just wow. I'm sorry to hear that. People can be such assholes sometimes. 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Dafuq? Someone that threatens suicide doesn't actually mean it. If they were going to off themselves they would legitimately be depressed and not actually care about anything in life. Suicide isn't some thing anyone can randomly decide. It takes a sustained period of ongoing depression. Basically someone who is going to kill themselves was already depressed long before they attempted it. So yeah this wad plain and simple manipulation. If a gut ever tries this again, record him saying this and go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:59 PM |
| -1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Most stalkers aren't violent or dangerous, just they have a misguided view of love and don't understand boundaries. I wish the media would stop it with the "violent dtalker" archetype....they're not that common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:44 PM |
| 10 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?As someone who was a stupid young man once (this story is 15 years into my past when i was barely 19). I didn't realize it at the time I was stalking, but I obsessed over a girl so much that I did stuff like wait at her house for hours for her to eventually come home. That was creepy stalkers shit! But I was obsessed. I thought if I just kept at it she would eventually like me. (Note I was never the type to harm anyone or hold them against their will or even follow anyone anywhere; so please don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?My mother along with me was constantly verbally and physically abused by my step dad. I was, as a child often the mediator and counselor for her emotions and irrational behavior (a role a 12 year kid shouldn't be doing). My step dad and mom were in constant fights and home was not a safe place. I stayed away from home most days except to come home to sleep. Sure read my fortune cookie, what does it say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?So maybe boosting ego might be the wrong word. But certainly people do do things just to make them feel above others in the social hierarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?How do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?So you were going to use rejection as a shit test? What if he just said "that's fine, have a good day"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:53 PM |
| -7 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Guilt? Hmm wow I didn't think about that being an emotion with rejection. Interesting. Are you an empath? Was the guilt you felt because you knew you'd be causing emotional pain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:02 PM |
| -5 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Insistence isn't necessarily a red flag. I mean if you're heavily crushing on someone, and all it takes is a couple more asks to get a date....that might be worth it. Think about a guy you've been crushing on heavily. Someone you were really into....would you say "well that's too bad" the moment he said no? I would think you would spend sometime at least trying to persuade him. The only thing Insistence means is that he's heavily into you. If that's a red flag itself for ya, fine. But to answer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:00 PM |
| 0 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Many people waste time on dating apps just to feel good about themselves, men included. Dating apps are ego boosters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:36 PM |
| 6 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?This is the worst lifetime supply ever. I would rather have a lifetime supply of used condoms than a lifetime supply of stalker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:34 PM |
| -2 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Understood. Yeah but the subconscious behavior does apply though. If a woman is feeling good about herself she will be more likely to accept an invitation to a date than if she is having a bad day. If she instead got excluded or rejected she will feel less accepting of someone asking her out or trying to befriend them. (I'd be willing to bet this also applies if she's Hangry too). Basically good moods/ego create pro-social behavior, bad moods/ego create anti-social behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:33 PM |
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