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I originally found out about this story on facebook when this video of David Bryant confronting the child's mother was a shared by a friend. For all the attention that David's mugshot has received as a top post in /r/cringepics, the least that can be done is to share his story. Edit: Adding a screenshot of an alleged conversation between David and his ex Both the picture and video could be NSFW as they contain images of the battered child.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 02:29 PM
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It comes off as a kid asking his mommy if it's ok. When others comment on their actual experience with verbal consent and how it made them seem as socially adept as an autistic 10 year old, they can't even accept that. I would never date someone who doesn't value consent. I also recommend that other people don't date people who don't value consent. Consent and open communication is key in having a safe healthy sexual experience.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 09:34 PM
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I would actually appreciate that, I'm not on either side of the debate, but empirical evidence even if isn't a large amount of information will be taken into account.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 02:00 AM
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Personal confirmation bias.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 01:46 AM
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I think she is saying he cheated on his fiance, by going on "Dates" with her. I guarantee they were not considered dates and they still have never had sex. She is delusional beyond belief.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 10:48 PM
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It also doesn't apply to the kind of relationship where the sex is explosive but the woman is drama out of the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 02:36 AM
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are you rich? because in case you are, it's not your girlfriend, it's a whore which takes your money and lives the life she wants to. His answer I'm well off, yes, however she's well able to support herself in a well paying job. That's all there was to really know, he's not even getting as much sex as he would like to from her. I would feel sorry for him if he wasn't so eager to be so pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:11 AM
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It's a pretty common misconception, just educating.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 11:58 PM
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The hymen doesn't affect the elasticity of a vagina. The hymen is a piece of tissue that lines the vaginal opening. It has an opening that can be of any size – it can be thin or thick..
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 08:57 AM
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I swear reddit has no fucking bounds; bring your diseased, your dog fuckers, your former sluts, your fat chicks, your whatever. Men get "informed" your dealbreakers are shallow.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:28 AM
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Exactly for Blizzcon she was asking for donations to go everyday her goal amount would increase I think towards the end she was asking for $50k. Not to mention if you ever actually watch her stream she has no idea what she is talking about.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:42 AM
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Meh no man wants to constantly have to reign someone in. If I were to constantly shit test my husband and push boundaries just to see if I can my husband would quickly get tired of my shit. Why put up with that kind of behavior when he could have a girl come over, fuck and not deal with the drama. It's nice to have someone challenge me and remind me that I have a lot to learn but there are standards expected of me. I'm chalking it up to OP being 18 and thinking this kind of behavior is endearing…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 12:18 PM
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You know I really want to know what the hell is Reddit's problem with admitting sexual satisfaction is important to a relationship. Why is that a bad thing. I grew up hearing two things from older women "Leave his balls empty and his stomach full" and "What you're not doing someone else will", is this a hard concept? Is it really a leap to believe that if you are in a monogamous relationship that the person has some duties so to speak? I never knew this was such a taboo subject until reddit, may…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 08:03 AM
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Yup and they got downvoted to hell, the people defending her either admit to not having read the original thread or claim it's ok to be disinterested in sex for 2 months and he should have dealt with it. If you're in a relationship where the person pisses you off so much that you don't want to be intimate with them and you can't come to an agreement within 2 months then you are using sex as a way to push them into seeing things your way. Of course they'll never see it that way. They both behaved…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 07:54 AM
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I actually agree with you, I think the post is fake but only because I can't understand how someone can be this idiotic. There's an update and it just gets worse. I just felt like some of your red flags are things I had experienced before and things I wouldn't really notice until pointed out. It was nice to see another perspective.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:13 PM
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I've seen trickle-truth discussed in that sub many times, usually in conjunction with accusing the person of gas lighting. Not sure what parts you felt were masculine, if you would like to explain. Actually this is quite common, it's makes the poster seem to own up to things they have done wrong in the relationship but still to say it's not bad as being cheated on. Usually "I may have been wrong but he is much worse" kind of thing. I used to work in a cell phone store and I've had quite a few wo…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:37 AM
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I like to do my squats with a weight, preferably a kettlebell centered in front of my chest and squat as low as possible. Higher weight, means lower repetitions but it's effective. This is my favorite youtuber for exercises, her body is proof in itself. She doesn't use any weights here but in most of her routines weights are included.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/14 10:35 PM
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Hey I frequent /r/redpillwomen and there are a few things that you can start to teach your daughter which may avoid her becoming this. For one get her involved in extra curricular activities, help her find a passion, as I've seen on this sub many times no man wants a woman who thinks her greatest contribution is just being a woman. Let her be cultured, feminine and respectful, teach her to be humble and appreciative, volunteering is pretty great for this. When she is old enough be honest with he…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:21 AM
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At first I disagreed with your comment, not knowing how to do something doesn't defeat it's purpose but then I had to applaud it because you found a way around it. With that being said I really want a clothes steamer, my husband's uniforms need to be ironed (even if it's just the way I like them) and a steamer would make it so much easier.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 12:06 AM
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I'm trying to get some tips from this thread, I have until next week to figure it out because he works all weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 10:23 PM
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We're the same but he just surprised me with a spa certificate, I mean I was really surprised, so now I'm thinking of what I can do for free for him in such little time, I really didn't expect anything. .-.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 08:23 PM
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Yup my mother is an entitled and selfish woman, funny enough her current husband said she behaved very feminine and kind while they were dating. Once they were married she let the shrew that she is out. He regrets the marriage but can't afford to leave, I'm also pretty sure he is cheating on her but she keeps him around as a "status symbol". I never wanted a relationship like hers that much I knew, she essentially taught me to be the opposite of her. Hell, the reason I learned to cook was so I w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 09:09 AM
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Just like most feminists, they are also probably middle class. Every time I see that crap about "intersectionality" between other minority groups I laugh, feminism offers nothing but a way to whine on a massive scale. There is a reason why the people with real problems to solve as a group aren't looking to feminism for answers.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:02 AM
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You couldn't drive up to the entrance and you get out while he parks the car?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 09:19 AM
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Look at the women here saying that he abandoned her, FOR MAKING HER WALK IN THE RAIN, what has become of this sub. It's not lack of respect or lack of shit, if she didn't want to walk that far she could have asked to be dropped off at the door, unless he is some sort of asshole I don't see why she didn't ask.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 09:18 AM
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Found the article, can not believe this and it's from 1996.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 05:34 AM
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I think your best bet is to date relatively close friends, people who understand your situation already and are willing to make things to make things more comfortable if necessary. That way you've already told them about your health or you should feel more comfortable with telling them. If they are a stranger to you I would tell them on the first date unless the first date is something you physically not do. If you are going to tell them make sure it's not a swan song, don't harp on being a vict…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 05:28 PM
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It's hard to want something when the actions leading up to can cause pain. Albeit there are ways she may be able to avoid this, it's going to make it harder to find a partner who enjoys a limited sex life. While I don't think an open relationship is her solution, I've actually saw a guy in /r/trp talk about a similar relationship he has with his disabled wife.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 05:21 PM
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Once again a feminist solution to make women look like rational adults, ends up making them look immature.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 08:00 AM
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The problem isn't figuring out if he's right, the problem is their "solution" to it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 07:57 AM
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I think something that should be added to this while they are saying all women cheat, what should be taken from it is all women can cheat, it's all apart of dispelling the pedestal that women are automatically placed upon.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 07:22 AM
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Moving across the country! I lurk but posting things on my phone would lead to massive downvotes for lack of comprehensive statements.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 10:49 PM
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What exactly are you allowed to do, no socialization, no computer, no out of the home activities, no reciprocal sex, no interaction and no support. I'm all about giving in a relationship but you sound like you're in a completely one sided relationship. What are the redeeming qualities of this relationship other than the fact that he works. This just sounds like a really bad stereotype of what people think a submissive wife should be and what a dominant husband behaves like. Being submissive does…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 10:44 PM
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He hasn't learned from his first sham of a marriage, maybe the second time around can kick some sense into him not jumping into this shit too early.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 10:23 PM
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You're thinking about marriage before you have even lived together? Have you learned nothing from this sub? I also see that your girlfriend said that you are both in college currently, this is not the time to even think of marriage. Two things people underestimate in a marriage are financial troubles and getting bored. Get yourself secure and then think about this again.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 08:40 PM
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That money is for adoption agency administration fees, the biological parents will never see a dime of that.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 06:49 AM
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We celebrate birthdays, anniversaries and Christmas. Occasionally, he will bring me a single peach colored rose for Valentine's and I'll get a cute little gag gift for him. I think sex can be a treat. Sometimes when we get ready to go out to dinner I'll get dressed in private, and throughout the night give him a peek of lingerie I'm wearing. It always leads to some fun antics when we get home. I really don't feel this is manipulative he enjoys the surprise and it's not exclusive to special days.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 04:16 AM
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Lmfao her name would be Sexy Crabtree.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 07:20 PM
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If a woman is to keep her numbers low while trying to acquire commitment it is going to require her to wait until there is at least some sign of exclusivity or interest in a long term relationship. I see it often that women have to be worth staying after the sex happens but wouldn't that inevitably lead to a large number of partners? I do agree that withholding sex will lead to frustration but I feel that waiting at least allows a woman to see if a guy shares the same interest for her. So I disa…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:59 PM
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Exactly she had time for a bar night out, but not 30mins for sex? It's all about priorities.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/14 04:20 AM
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I think you're both a bit right, while they may have been joking there was a slight bit of truth behind it. They probably didn't expect you to take a such a serious response to it, while your tone may have been joking what you said was taken seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 07:55 AM
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I think it is a lie, to outright tell someone what's really wrong with them and why they can not date is usually impolite. Whether women want to admit it or not we are socialized to be the comforters to be the one who is emotionally supportive. Look at /r/askwomen it's an echo chamber of feel good bs with no real truth behind it. I have a friend who is overweight, has some interesting body odor and some severely lacking social skills. Now when I broke it down to him and explained he needs to pre…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/14 05:02 AM
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Someone in that thread pointed out a black women will receive more replies on average that any male of any race, just less that women of other races.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/14 03:36 AM
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Yeah where is this belief that being self employed means you answer to no one? You're trading a boss for clients, and while you may have more executive power the submission is still the same if you want a successful business.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/14 08:46 PM
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Just because they messaged her doesn't mean they consider her relationship material. But yes attractiveness can have some of your shitty nonphysical qualities overlooked and this is what breeds entitlement in certain women.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/14 04:39 AM
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His mother and grandmother but his grandmother is another very slim woman, but she is short.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 02:51 AM
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My husband's mother is tall 5'9" and fairly slim she weighs a bit more now but has always be very thin. He likes them short and curvy and loves a woman with a small waist and wide hips. Not that he would kick a woman out of bed for being slim but that's his thing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/14 01:28 AM
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I agree with all the others here, talk to him and be objective about what he wants and what you want, if you're intentions don't line up time to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 08:53 PM
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But that's a risk she may be taking there are a few women here, and a few men who suggest it, that maintaining that sex is something you are only comfortable with doing within the confines of a relationship, is beneficial. Of course she could just outright ask him but let's not pretend he may lie or deflect the question altogether. Not to mention seems like he is spinning plates and isn't looking for exclusivity. I feel his intentions are pretty clear since whenever sex is taken off the menu he …
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 07:17 PM
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You'd think if he appreciated me for anything other than sex he'd have stayed. I think you already have your answer, he's not interested in a relationship and you're not interested in just sex.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 11:35 AM
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4 is her showing she is one of the women who believe once the kid comes and they realize they have nothing else to show for their lives; failed marriage, shitty job, and deteriorating/absent attractiveness(i.e. they got fat and saggy), their kids are the only thing they've created so they better damn well be proud of it. She's one of those women who stay at home all day, with the kids, with them glued to the T.V., pumping them full of sugar and thinks being a mom is the hardest job on the planet…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 11:35 AM
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That must have been one impressive venue and dinner to garner $15,000
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 11:01 AM
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You know what is most interesting part is that the article itself is trying to spin this positively, they put sexual assault in qoutes, as if to imply it was anything less than that. If two strangers are walking down the street and one was male and the other was female and the male begins to antagonize the female and then kisses her, there wouldn't be a question on anyone's mind if it was a gesture of love. I'm from NY I'm surprised she was even able to get that close to a cop without being laid…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 11:58 AM
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Oh I definitely agree now is the time to really get out what you two see in your future and how close that future is for you. She should begin talking about things like marriage and kids but in a very general sense, it can be kind of off putting if it seems like she is just inserting him into her timeline especially if he doesn't want children/marriage so soon. Hell they aren't even close enough to say I love you yet. Right now is the time to ask questions to make sure they share the same opinio…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/13 02:55 AM
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I am of the opinion that being that open puts everyone in a weird place. I've had male friends describe it as a little desperate. The relationship is young, give him some time but definitely show that you are committed and hope for a future with him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/13 02:13 AM
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I agree that this question is probably best suited for /r/asktrp and for advice from guys who have life altering disabilities. Being blind can put them in a weird spot for dating, but unless they are physically deformed attraction still works the same. There are greater barriers to overcome but I wonder if right now their confidence and fear of rejection is the larger part of the problem. I mean one guy teaches some bad ass form of Martial Arts and the other is Mathematician, both situations see…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 01:24 PM
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Of course there is a little ribbing in a relationship but damn that seems cold and bitter.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 07:10 AM
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Exactly maintaining a frame that she isn't allowed to throw temper tantrums and be rewarded will stop this behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 10:30 PM
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Why would they conflict? Express that you are upset without being combative. If you notice there is a problem, address it first with yourself, organize your thoughts and present them in a nonconfrontational manner (this should work wonder in any social settings, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar). The bullet point is to not be a bitch about it. Don't take the fact that you're upset as a free pass to hostile. Secondly, expressing when you are happy shouldn't conflict with expressing, e…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 10:24 PM
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Or /r/picsofdeadkids. Can't let women be offended on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 02:46 AM
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This is coming from a socially anxious person she needs to do whatever hobbies she does at home by herself with other people. I am a huge Game of Thrones fan so I found a meet up group that watched the show every Sunday in a bar. It took the pressure off, I met some cool people and actually had something I wanted to talk to people about. So now I do things like this from time to time, I go to cons or meet up groups and it's actually pretty fun. Part of my social anxiety is identifying situations…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/13 12:03 PM
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Girlfriend's surprise ends in sex. Boyfriend's surprise should end drunk and asleep, then he has to wake up early to make her breakfast. I don't get this nothing he said was sexy. Can it be nice to be pampered? Sure, but isn't the goal here to be sexy therefore leading to sex? Do these people even know how to get laid?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 11:02 AM
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What's that saying about the mountain? Men will climb it and women will declare wherever they are the new mountain top.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/13 08:56 AM
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You're right and I never thought of it as offensive, just clinical a little cold but it's not intended to offend.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/13 05:55 AM
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Feminism, fighting stereotypes about women like being overly sensitive by being overly sensitive.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/13 05:53 AM
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This isn't satire?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 08:43 PM
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Whenever someone blames their lack of a sex life on erectile dysfunction or vaginimus I feel it is a cop out. There are so many options when it comes to sexual interaction you are not limited to vaginal penetration. But the response to this guy is that his wife is lucky to have him, a guy who feels miserable about his intimacy with his wife should be happy because at least she is lucky.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 11:07 AM
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I'm done with /r/sex now after i read the thread about the guy who found out his wife had sex with a dog for 7 years, before they were married, and was told to be nonjudgemental, accepting and if he is having difficulty accepting it he should talk to a therapist. Like what the fuck is wrong with reddit?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:51 AM
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On top of using MyFitnessPal to track calories a good way to cut useless calories but still feel full is to substitute carbs for veggies. Let's say I make chicken parmesan, I leave out the pasta and get an extra serving of veggies. If I make steak and potatoes for my husband I leave out the potatoes and eat extra broccoli. If I am hungry enough to snack I keep it at 100 calories no more, if I am hungrier than that it is time for a meal. I don't drink any calories, that means no alcohol, juice, s…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 11:07 AM
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A short and sweet message is usually reassuring. I'm not saying leave him a poem in his voicemail. But it's like having a little note that out there someone is happy that you are alive and ok, and is waiting for you. Sometimes my messages to him are as simple as "Good morning, hope you have a good productive day, talk to you tonight I love you.". With a new relationship I would caution against saying I love you to early but I think you get the idea.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 08:06 AM
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I say start small with something almost unnoticeable but meaningful. When my husband was in training a few months ago, I would do one of two things everyday. Either I wrote him a letter (on the days I couldn't call him) or I would call and leave a good morning voicemail wishing him a good day and telling him I loved him. He loved getting those small reminders, and it meant a lot to him. Find something small that cheers him up on a bad day, if it's a little thing you say to him or an offer of a b…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 06:52 AM
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I would also like to add the jeans and heels thing is not masculine, especially if your jeans are curve-hugging (which is what your OP implies) and heels are definitely sexy and feminine. My husband doesn't like that I wear much make up, he loves a little lip gloss, some eyeshadow and mascara but likes it to be kept simple.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 05:33 AM
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IMO there is no homogenized answer to what is attractive. It's not like he is asking you to get fat or tattoo your forehead.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 05:25 AM
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For one I would question the girl's ability to choose a suitable partner, no one is a complete victim, this article was posted just a few days ago outlining signs that he is a player. I think we are all aware that some guys are players and not looking to settle down, make yourself someone worth settling down for, try to identify any behavior in him that would show he is not interested in a ltr and move on if necessary. The worst mistake I see in women is they waste their time on someone who clea…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 05:22 AM
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Some guys are different, my husband doesn't sit by the fireplace, smoking cigars, drinking scotch and listening to jazz. I think what we should take from TRP is that in relationships we should do what can bring happiness and pleasure to our partners so if he likes your hair short why not? RPW need to maintain whatever sex appeal they have and if he finds you sexy in jeans and heels there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 05:19 AM
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Read the stickied post it explains the differences between what an RPW wants at the TRP, I'm assuming you are a troll and not even going to address you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 07:10 PM
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Yup this is pretty much it, I love it when he tells me about women who approach him. The hotter the girl is the better it's like, yup you're hot but you're mine! He's never given me a reason not to trust him so we take it we a decent bit of humor.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 05:46 AM
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I don't disagree that marriage is a terrible investment, I just don't see how a ltr can conflict with TRP. If a man doesn't want it, then I am not trying to convince him otherwise. I also try to keep in mind, that most of the posters are young and some are a little bitter from being burned or cheated on in the past. Of course a ltr will be unappealing but that doesn't mean it's unreasonable for any man who may be interested. One poster suggested by not spinning plates you are encouraging your gi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 12:11 AM
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I have to agree with this, I don't start arguments over it but there is an obvious bias that not only marriage is unimportant but so is any long term commitment. I see some bitterness but then again I see a lot of insight into what I should be doing to maintain my relationship. I would like to think there are more men in long term commitments there, with a successful redpill relationship but I rarely see them respond.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/13 08:09 PM
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Her voice is what got me, it was so loud and abrasive and you just want her to shut up.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 12:20 AM
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Why isn't there a bald option!?! I like short or bald, very rarely long. I have seen a few guys with luxurious hair and I just want to run my fingers through it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/13 09:31 PM
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I really think your response is quite insightful. Did you know from the beginning that your wife was asexual? Did you always have an open relationship arrangement? Do you ever have sex with your wife at all, or is that something that is provided exclusively outside of your relationship?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 08:39 PM
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It means she thought she could do something without consequence and blame it on her feelings. Of course his feelings of neglect don't matter. They both behaved childishly and if the situation was the exact opposite and she cheated, this excuse would be no more valid. She wanted to manipulate him and she failed.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 11:10 PM
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I'll be getting the book in a few weeks for Christmas, I did continue to read up on him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/13 02:09 AM
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Was lurker, no longer a lurker. I mostly come here to decompress from all the other crap I read on reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/13 01:13 AM
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It's been a while since I've made friends but the ladies that I do meet seem to be so toxic. Last best friend that I've made we have grown apart because she had a child and I'm moving out of state, she may not be red pill but she does value family and her husband so she understands where I am coming from. At this point I'm not even trying anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/13 12:45 AM
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My grandmother is one, she is loyal, hardworking and loving. She maintained a family and a marriage through a lot of struggle and I've learned a lot from her.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/13 12:42 AM
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Will you warn any potential guys she brings home, beta or not?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 05:23 AM
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Since we are going the GoT route, most of the male characters come off as very alpha but the timeframe of the books seems to foster that. It isn't uncommon for men to be masculine and women to be feminine in the way that they are in the book. But my favorites would have to be Khal Drogo, Tywin Lannister, and Eddard Stark.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 09:58 AM
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I didn't intend on commenting on his thread but I had to say he shouldn't be ashamed to be upset about this. If he is upset enough to leave her, that is completely up to him he is justified. I hope my words were of some encouragement, I hope he doesn't cave in.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:09 AM
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To be honest, after reading through his comments, it sounds like he has found his balls.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 08:50 AM
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As religion becomes less important to younger generations they are keeping what they want to keep, the chaste religious woman you think religion creates is no longer the case. It's one more thing they will rationalize as something that is no longer required to hold their faith.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 07:03 AM
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Honestly I know women who are not gay but think opening their legs, lying still and allowing you to penetrate her is the pinnacle of sex for them, that's intimacy, that's passion and the rest of that fun stuff is for porn and sluts.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 08:06 AM
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has a high degree in something Didn't realize being alpha required a "high degree".
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 10:46 AM
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I want to see OPs response to this, not once in her story does it seem like her boyfriend actually took control of the situation and led her to believe he is worth the risk because he is so valuable.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/13 10:43 AM
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Oh I hope her fiance does find out, this is an indication of compatibility issues but I didn't really want to have that discussion right now. There were other things that I wanted to hear some opinions on.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/13 09:02 PM
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I was on a voice chat call with a couple of friends and we began discussing it, it was interesting to hear their speculation.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/13 02:01 PM
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I just read your comment thread on /r/relationship_advice, and it reminds me why I never comment. We are the minority, we will not be received well and with enough people validating their shams; no one will ever listen to us.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/13 08:18 AM
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Ahh I guess my understanding was a bit skewed because it's been called branch swinging a number of times but I understand when it applies and when it does not.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/13 04:22 AM
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Would you, as red pill women view me as beta for favoring LTRs over multiple one night stands or short term flings? No, how would I have found my husband had he not clearly shown interest in a serious committed relationship. With that said I understand that some men would prefer casual relationships and I would prefer not to waste their time since it's not what I'm looking for. I would say though I prefer a man with experience doesn't necessarily have to be older than me but experience is defini…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 03:23 AM
3

I had to think of my first date with my husband. We were broke high school students, skipped school to catch a matinee and eat at a chinese buffet cost us about $20 all together and walked home in the rain. Good times. The funny thing is I am the frugal one in the relationship always trying to find free/cheap stuff to do, it makes for excellent adventures.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 02:53 AM
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The way he went from treating her as an adult to the child she became when she tried to slap him was spot on. I love Gordon Ramsey, he takes no shit. The way everyone rushed to her aid as if she was the one who was threatened just pisses me off.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:38 PM
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My husband and I are thinking of doing the same thing, not sure if we can fit the saying on our fingers so we may go with our wrists or something else instead.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/13 06:42 AM
4

I kind of think of it as branding. I wouldn't do initials but I would and have gotten matching tattoos with my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/13 03:10 AM
4

Actually being able to count all my partners on one hand is comforting. My husband knows my body well, orgasms are pretty much standard and we get to have condomless sex, I have yet to find a down side.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/13 12:36 AM
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I don't think you understand the Red Pill view of unwanted pregnancies by men, most here want to be able to opt out so I don't know what you want help with. If she is 6 months in she is to far into the pregnancy for her to get an abortion. If she wants to she can give up the child for adoption (I feel at this point she went this far she should take responsibility and not add another child to the system). If she really isn't going to ask him for any assistance that's her choice, as a friend try t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/13 08:26 AM
3

My mother always said idle time makes for idle hands, definitely get them involved in interesting extra curricular activities.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 08:08 PM
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Am I the only person who feels like rape and sexual assault is becoming anything a woman can later object to?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/13 09:25 AM
14

Someone made a parody of this in a song it is called fuck me in the ass because I love Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 06:40 PM
8

Terrible risk/benefit analysis but she knew he was afraid to lose her so she preyed upon it. This is female dread game, it's crazy what some men will do to keep a woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 07:23 AM
2

Some judges can throw out prenups depending on how long you have been married.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/13 07:02 PM
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Nope whatever works for you, some people love the attention, if my husband felt comfortable with that kind of attention I would pour it on. But I think it is important to do those kinds of things for each other. I never hesitate to compliment him or praise him when he accomplishes something. We have enough people outside of our relationship to give us negative attention I would rather we build each up.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/13 08:49 PM
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I just read the thread, for a moment I thought I could identify. Like when I see a picture of me caught off guard and I wonder do I look that grumpy all the time? But I've never looked like I sprouted a double chin and added 20lbs. She sounds like she is in denial about weight gain. I can almost guarantee all her profile pictures, are angled selfies, from the first chin up.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 07:15 AM
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I've read enough /r/deadbedrooms to know that while self improvement may help a dead bedroom, it usually on the low libido partner to initiate admit there is a problem and admit a need to change. From a RP perspective, giving her the impression that the relationship may end or you may stray elsewhere if things don't change can spark her libido but that's temporary. It's great to better yourself but nothing will change until she decides that sex is an important part of your relationship and she n…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 11:22 PM
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You keep saying you are not conventionally attractive, most things can be worked on. Stop wasting your time on someone who isn't going to ever step up to the plate. All the money and effort you put into him can be spent on increasing your own SMV. Believe me there are tons of things you can do to change your attractiveness no matter how unconventional you are. Start a fitness and exercise program, work on your hair, skin and nails, get your teeth whitened/straightened (people really underestimat…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 06:36 PM
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I found my way here through /r/askwomen; every now and then someone asks if anyone has ever dated a Red Pill guy. Of course all the top comments are "they are lonely bitter virgins". Sounded biased, especially since no one ever really answered the question, so I just came here instead. Then I understood why they all were willing to pretend like no one has ever dated a Red Pill guy, it would be an admission that they were gamed. Oddly enough the women who did admit it, painted it as emotional abu…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 06:40 AM
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Depends on how open minded she is about male sexual submission, kind of goes against everything TRP says about female sexual submission/rough sex though. You would have to maintain a serious frame to not let her dominance bleed into the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 04:06 AM
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I wanted to comment so badly that the only reason why he so nonchalant about it is because he would just be happy to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 07:39 PM
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Not enough single moms.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 02:32 PM
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Thanks I will look into it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/13 10:12 PM
3

Oh no, I am still at a point where I don't fall directly into any political group. I am conservative on some ideas (usually economic so this guy is right up my alley) and a bit more liberal on others (usually social issues). But seriously I rarely ever hear about black conservatives, guess that's my own fault, I need to do more research. Reading through some of his book descriptions has gained my interest and I've added a few to my wishlist.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/13 09:59 PM
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I just read the article and his wikipedia page, and I was wondering how I've never heard his name before. Then I figured it out he is conservative and libertarian.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/13 09:49 PM
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I would like to see more information about this if you can dig it up. The only people in my family who are still married to the person they had children with are my grandparents and anyone in their generation. I should also add that I am a first generation American and my entire family is from Jamaica but the experiences seem to be similar.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/13 09:30 PM
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Heterosexual marriage is a tremendously antifeminist institution. Is homosexual marriage more feminist? And they wonder why people call them lesbians. I agree with /u/FleetingWish, as a black woman, as least in most black communities feminist ideals is not what's keeping minority women unmarried and lower class. I haven't really seen the effects of feminism until black women attend college, until then feminists ideas aren't really discussed. This position of lower class single mother is one of t…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/13 08:55 PM
1

I have to disagree but my issue with "I deserve respect" usually is with the elderly. I've worked with older people and they will be down right disgusting to deal with but the first thing they demand is respect. I'm sorry but the fact that you have been alive longer than me does nothing for respect for you. You will be treated as you treat me.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/13 09:32 PM
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5 children? How do balance it all?
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/13 03:18 PM
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There was a thread recently in which people told their stories of leaving one partner for another and whether or not they felt remorse. They didn't know that they didn't want what they had until they saw better. The other person is always in comparison to the original partner. They are nicer, prettier, calmer, etc but they are always a step above (in some way usually not in terms of finance) the original partner.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/13 01:48 AM
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Yeah I am not sure where he is getting, forgiving an indiscretion = we all approve of open relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/13 03:26 PM
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I'm 22 and will be 28 around the time we start. I'm not really worried about my body if I take care of it the way I should and not become a fat ass while pregnant. I kind of want have 2 kids back to back, get the early years out of the way as fast as possible. I don't know how much I would enjoy having a toddler in my late 30s.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/13 06:40 PM
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If I knew I could have an accident it would be a bit easier, but for me when we have a child it will be a concentrated effort. For me life has gotten so much better, I have so much freedom and money and time, and it feels like a baby wouldn't enhance that. That's why it feels selfish, I don't want to share my time with my husband yet, or my ability to do whatever I want whenever I want. I'm wondering if there will ever be a moment when I just think that a child would be the a welcome adventure.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/13 06:16 PM
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The song, Simple Life by No Doubt, kinds of sums up my feelings about kids. One of the lines is "The longer that I wait the more selfish that I get". I am getting used to all the money and time that I have available to me. We are still 6 years away from when we want to officially start trying and I wonder if time will only make it more difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/13 04:04 PM
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And they give their babies MT DEW IN THEIR BOTTLES. What the hell, is this something people do?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/13 01:00 AM
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I'm 22 and recently married, I keep hearing I am married to young (even though we were together for 6 years before getting married, seriously if I didn't know if I wanted to marry him then when would I?) Why would I wait until I am 30 and everyone is dealing with baby mama drama, massive debt, and the onset of early aging. I imagined I’d spend my 20s having a string of dramatic, ill-advised love affairs and generally gallivanting, There is nothing remotely attractive about this idea. I would pre…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/13 02:35 AM
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I am assuming you are her husband so I will explain how I got into the red pill. I started reading reddit a year or so ago but I've been with my husband for 6 years now. I knew the dynamic of our relationship was different, something I preferred but I didn't know that there was a name for it. Anyway I found a short synopsis of /r/trp on /r/askmen and it quite accurately described much of my husband's behavior. While I agree with most of what I've read it was seeing it work in my own relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/13 12:26 PM
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I do feel there is a balance that be found even if you are a housewife. It will take work and some planning but it can be worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/13 10:00 PM
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I think that's the reason why most people want to adopt babies more time to influence and bond with them. Adoption isn't for everyone but parenting shouldn't be limited. I guess we differ on this but success isn't genetic.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/13 02:25 PM
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I'm 22 now and the only reason we are waiting is for my husband to leave the military. Hopefully in 6 years we can start trying. I have PCOS so we may end up adopting but I do want kids before I'm 30.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/13 10:59 AM
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You literally took the words out of my head. I've been trying to describe this without sounding like I am suggesting they neglect their child and be selfish. But this is exactly what is happening.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/13 11:27 PM
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That's great advice, and something I will have to remember.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/13 06:46 PM
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Yeah I am probably reading too many horror stories.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/13 06:45 PM
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I guess the extent to which my life orbits around them is my main worry. I read stories about women who shower once a week, haven't had sex in a year, and haven't done anything for themselves in years. I know kids are time consuming but I've seen other women in my life who manage to find the time. It's not often but they don't completely forsake themselves. Like I said maybe my perspective is extremely selfish, but for the women who don't let mode-mom take over how do they do it? If there is any…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/13 06:31 PM
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Where I am at right now, I love the idea of becoming a mother, experiencing pregnancy, birth and parenting but I feel like I have a jaded view of what parenting is right now. I really don't want to become that woman whose life orbits around her children, saying that feels selfish but it's why I am on the edge. My husband is ready but we decided to wait a few more years, and I am hoping that with time I can gain a better idea of what motherhood is.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/13 05:37 PM
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I hope all of my rambling helped. I've been in that place where I found myself unhappy and it started to affect our sex life. I caught myself getting upset at him because I was uncomfortable with my own body. I knew then and there I had to take responsibility. You'll find your way and some positivity can't hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/13 11:31 PM
2

I know it is not the easiest way to approach it but if you are feeling dissatisfied with who you are now, putting yourself down is not going to help how you present yourself. I can't tell you where to find your confidence but finding it can do a number for your self esteem. I'm not saying you should accept the things you are unhappy with but accept this is who you are for now, assess the things you feel need to change and begin working on them. Change won't come overnight so hating yourself duri…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/13 11:21 PM
1

Nothing brings you down in the eyes of others like insecurity and lack of confidence. Own who you are, strive to be better and remain humble.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/13 11:08 PM
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I would say a I am in a similar place but handling it differently. My husband is my motivation but it doesn't worry me and he is extremely supportive. Working to better myself is bringing up closer together. I want to get more active, he will take a boxing class with me. Better eating habits means learning lots of recipes and he's my recipe guinea pig. We've been learning to properly save and invest, since we're a pretty young couple. We're both going to be learning a second language starting ne…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/13 10:04 PM
3

Pancakes are deep man.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 09:56 AM
2

I agree, sex is high on the totem poles of needs. But I'm not asking him to fall in love with me, not before sex. But to just give me some time to get to know him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/13 09:50 AM
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Exactly, at some point something will have to be sacrificed; either your family, your marriage or your career.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/13 05:05 AM
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How will you approach parenting as the get older, gain more independence and start dating?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 06:10 PM
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Just be straight from the beginning and you can get what you want. This is exactly why I make it clear what situation I feel comfortable in. I wouldn't want to give mixed signals on what I am looking for and hope sex would be an incentive for a relationship. I would rather not waste their time. How would you feel if, from day one, a woman you are interested in makes it clear that casual sex is not something she is interested in. She is not trying to withhold or use it against you but feels most …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 03:22 PM
1

I should have added this to my OP but by commitment I only meant a serious relationship not marriage. I don't put an arbitrary amount of time for when I should feel ready for sex. It could be a number of weeks or around 2 months. If I am not sure by then, I probably will never be and I would stop wasting his time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 01:16 PM
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A risk I am willing to take, if he isn't looking for a relationship having sex any earlier isn't going to change that. This way we won't waste each other's time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 01:13 PM
1

My grandmother would keep my grandfather's food in a ceramic dish with a a lid in the oven. Of course it is still leftovers but it still feels like the effort was there.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 11:46 AM
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Lol, well at least she aims high. I have "friends" who don't even put that much effort in. But now you know who you can bring her around.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 10:07 AM
2

Lol, you're either a sexually repressed prude or a lesbian. You just can't win.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 09:58 AM
2

I am not saying it needs to be in marriage only, of course. I guess I should have made that clear in my OP but I am not looking for a marriage kind of commitment but still something serious with boundaries on romantic relationships with others. I don't set a timer on it, like I will have sex with them 3 months after I am their girlfriend, but I do need to be in a relationship to feel comfortable and secure in the relationship. That could be a few weeks or longer, it really depends. And as worrie…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 04:22 AM
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This is exactly the kind of perspective I wanted on it. And this seems like the best approach.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 08:45 PM
2

I'm not exactly sure how having sex before you are in a relationship solves that. /R/Deadbedrooms is proof that sex can change in irreparable ways even when the relationship started promisingly. I can understand the reasons for wanting to have sex as early as you can to see where you stand. I'm just wondering if where I stand is uncommon.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 08:03 PM
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I've always wondered what people mean by sexual compatibility. I've been with my husband for 6 years. The sex was pretty good and standard in the beginning but it wasn't until we opened up (later on in the relationship) that we really realized how compatible we are. And even if there were bumps in the beginning why not help teach them what you do like? That's why I am ok with waiting and letting that information be revealed. If the person isn't unwilling to learn or sexually repressed for the mo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 07:34 PM
1

So she has children from another failing marriage, chose to allow a man with little knowledge on how to manage finances and a household run her life and now she won't consider divorce? Ok, I see two options here, she tells him they will discontinue their D/s relationship until there home is stable. This obviously runs the risk of emasculating him or creating other severe relationship problems. The other option is to be coy about getting her life in order. This option will suck the most because s…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/13 05:51 PM
1

We are high school sweethearts as well, met when we were 16, we always knew marriage and kids were in our future but we both wanted to take it slow. Well in a few weeks we are getting married! I never expected to find someone so special to me so soon but I always took relationships very seriously. We both were not marriage material when we got together, I knew he loved him and I loved him but we had a lot of maturing to do. To be honest I am glad it worked out this way, it feels like I've always…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/13 05:19 AM
2

Well this is mostly a problem with myself but it does affect the relationship. When I get stressed or anxious, I pretty much try my best to disconnect from the world. I sleep for as long as I can and when I am awake I try to distract myself as much as I can. Occasionally this means gaming a lot, or just going on really long walks, sometimes it's sex marathons (he loves those days). This doesn't happen often but it has been happening for years I know it's a problem and I am trying my best to solv…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/13 05:10 AM
2

I had something similar happen last year. I shouldn't have even told him about it but he kept asking. After I told him he smashed his phone. He doesn't bring it up but I feel like the tension is there, we just haven't had a big enough fight yet. Last year was just a really bad time, but I am not sure how we go about repairing it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/13 05:04 AM
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This is drivel and I won't even address it. The interesting article is the one about girls who are never getting married. Her list is basically; drug addicts, pretty women (who will of course be cheated on), immature and entitled women and anyone who is a size 0. Her list is essentially useless, just like the other article. Most women aren't drug addled, starved women with a princess complex. The two articles coupled together give me the impression that the author wrote them as an ode to herself…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/13 07:43 PM
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That's exactly what I thought when I read the first one. Not RP in the least.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/13 07:34 PM
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My SO is in the military and if both parties are intoxicated and servicemembers whoever reports it first is the victim. Of course that tends to be the woman. I can ask him more about this if you want a better explanation.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 07:16 PM
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Just a question are you implying he would react violently or physically?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 09:53 AM
1

Does it ever get weird when you buy presents for him? I know it is for me. So I try my best to surprise him, although he is paying for it I go out of my way to make it as spectacular and fun as I possibly can.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 09:02 AM
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That's what is important to realize, although traditional gender roles in marriages are important if you assign yourself to a relationship like this, you have to be realistic about what can or can not work. I read a thread on /r/trp about Dread dating in which a woman is constantly at her best in fear of losing you to other women, while it works short term it can quickly wear someone down. Anyone with any hope in having a long lasting and healthy relationship has to take care of the emotional he…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/13 08:59 AM
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And as someone who was molested as a child, it makes me sick to think this is what they do to absolve themselves of guilt. I know a lying sack of shit who did this. She invites 3 guys to a party who are all interested in her. Guy #1 is the typical beta who she has no interest in but is leading him on, Guy #2 doesn't know about the other two guys and Guy #3 has a girlfriend. She gets pretty wasted and makes a fool out of herself so guy #2 leaves. Mr. Beta tries to take care of her but falls aslee…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 01:28 AM
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I rarely turn him down but it is usually made up within a day or two. He isn't much of a blow job guy, so I can't really use it as a trade off. To be honest he is very dominant when it comes to sex so he is rarely denied. Even when he is it usually leads to kinky BDSM sex and we all win. Oh I guess I should add that we do play with consensual nonconsent. And after about a week of no sex he is on edge.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/13 02:41 PM
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I think what you have failed to take away from all the other comments, is that while it is extremely important to have an education your family will be primary to your career. And you simply can not be the master of both domains, one area of your life will have to take precedence.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/13 01:55 PM
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And since I did promise we’d be talking about sex, consider the studies showing people in traditional marriages have better sex lives than their feminist and progressive friends. That's interesting considering the most common answer for a lack of sex is that the woman wishes he would help around the house more.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 04:50 AM
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You know I've been seeing this crop up in /r/relationships quite a lot. They even suggested to people who are looking to have children in their late 20s to wait it out and it will be fine even if they have children in their early 40s.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 03:07 AM
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This is the most important part, what a woman should know is how she is presenting herself. Does she look approachable, dressed appropriately, and does she look like she put effort into her appearance. Regardless of what you look like, there is likely someone out there who will like it. What she needs to know is if she is presenting herself in the best way that she can.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/13 05:15 PM
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I have a friend right now who is more or less red pill who asks me for dating advice from time to time. We are both black and he admits that he is particularly attracted to black women but can not see himself in a relationship with them. He is running into all the problems listed here; unmotivated, unattractive, loud, aggressive, angry, used up, "Christian" black women. He's kind of stuck between wanting to date inter racially or continuing to look for the unicorn of black women. He's kind of in…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 01:27 PM
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I am rather attention craving
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 09:44 PM
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You know in all the subreddits that discussion romantic relationships, they discuss honesty, open communication and rational approaches to problems in your relationship. A guy come here talks about how something he was uncomfortable with his girlfriend doing and gets berated and accused of trying to control her. What the fuck is wrong with these people, a committed relationship is one in which you are able to compromise.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 09:54 PM
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