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| 3 | Sorry ladies: There’s a double standard in the dating world that none of you like talking about, but sorely needs to be discussed: Toxic Femininity. | mathzak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:32 PM | |
| 1 | Let’s talk name-calling, you projecting little sh!ts. | mathzak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 06:13 PM |
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| 2 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?No. Laws have never prevented people from practicing risky and unfulfilling behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Sorry ladies: There’s a double standard in the dating world that none of you like talking about, but sorely needs to be discussed: Toxic Femininity.Then you’ll be fine when I turn women down when they show overbearing and/or manipulative qualities such as clinginess, insecurity, gaslighting and trust issues. Glad we’ve got that sorted out. Now nobody can call me a bigot because I dump girls who are unwilling to work on themselves. That’s just called “me not wanting to date girls who act in ways that I find undesirable”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Sorry ladies: There’s a double standard in the dating world that none of you like talking about, but sorely needs to be discussed: Toxic Femininity.So moral of the story: Most people don’t actually grow up, and have the debating/reasoning skills and therefore moral compass of a f#cking toddler. What a surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Sorry ladies: There’s a double standard in the dating world that none of you like talking about, but sorely needs to be discussed: Toxic Femininity.So it’s basically unfalsifiable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:42 PM |
| -1 | Sorry ladies: There’s a double standard in the dating world that none of you like talking about, but sorely needs to be discussed: Toxic Femininity.That is entirely an excuse by women in 2022. You may have had a point before modern society came along. No such reason exists anymore. I could say the same thing about toxic masculinity still existing in today’s society. That guys now only feel they have to continue doing these things because women keep shaming conventional traits, like a man showing emotion or doing loving/caring things or not being the “breadwinner” (conventionally seen by society as “soft”). So they must “prove” they’re a “re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Why all men should be hitting the gym regardless of what some women “preferences” areThis applies to women too btw. It’s not “body shaming”. It’s called having standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Do women feel insulted if a man expresses that he wants to hookup?There’s a mutual obligation from the seller, but not necessarily the buyer outside of providing the exchange of value. In other words, the buyer has innate power within any business transaction. Because “good service” is required from the seller in order to make the sale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relationsThat’s fair. The trend suggests men don’t try in relationships overall. Smh, doesn’t make my job any easier 😕 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Do women feel insulted if a man expresses that he wants to hookup?I get what you’re saying, but comparing a sales-to-customer interaction with a mutual partnership isn’t exactly the best comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | “Dual Mating Strategy” doesn’t matter if you’re not young and hotTf is TRP or this “Dual Mating Strategy” shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relationsMan who’s nothing like you’re describing here. Maybe change your dating preferences? 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relationsif they were most men wouldn’t get rejected so often This is a misnomer. If a guy gets rejected, he’s going to likely keep asking, creating multiple no’s from one guy continuously asking. Whereas the guy who “gets some” is likely done for the night (at least for the time being). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Do women feel insulted if a man expresses that he wants to hookup?That’s exactly the point. He’s only interested in his own sexual gratification. Yes. As he stated before even talking to you, and as he’s allowed to do. He’s not required to desire you emotionally in order to desire you sexually. That’s why we usually call it “hooking up”. That makes the woman’s role no different than the man’s hand So how do you feel about women who do the same thing w/ men they find sexually attractive? Do you have similar things to say to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 10:22 PM |
| 6 | Do women feel insulted if a man expresses that he wants to hookup?Except he didn’t claim he wanted to get to know you. So expecting that and not getting it is your fault. Not his. Infact, he did the exact opposite, by telling you upfront he only wants to have sex with you because you’re physically attractive. You’re conflating a man’s desire for a LTR w/ his capability of being in one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Do women feel insulted if a man expresses that he wants to hookup?Literally what I was going to say lol “Ugh Mike only wants me for my body how shallow and objectifying, but jeeeeez look at Derek’s nice ass tho 😳 should I let him smash?” - Women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women feel insulted if a man expresses that he wants to hookup?Women (especially physically attractive women) are offended because they’re accustomed to the luxury of fucking whoever they find attractive for looks alone, and don’t like when they’re utilized for the same purpose by someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk name-calling, you projecting little sh!ts.😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 06:15 PM |
| 4 | This subreddit feels like it's become almost entirely Q4W at this pointWomen develop narcissistic tendencies at a very young age in today’s society, unfortunately. Which can also lead to echo chambers among them and their contemporaries. The main culprit/reinforcer? IMO, it’s the “Disney Princess” life little girls are promised in Cinderella movies. It leads a lot of grown women to believe that they’re immutably deserving of the “better life”. So when a man is incapable of providing that to/for them: In her mind, It’s the man’s inadequacy that’s to blame, not her u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 12 | Realistically speaking, what kind of women do men here expect to even get?If she’s really smart and focusing on her career, making a lot of money most men are intimidated by that Fym? I’m looking for a woman like that. Independent, strong and ready to tackle life, with or without a partner’s help? Sounds ideal as f#ck to me. That sh#t’s sexy to a guy who values self-worth, honesty and hard work. So if the men you’re with are turned off by that: That’s their problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Women who do not get abundance of male attention. Why?“When a group gets used to privilege, equality can feel like oppression”. It’s not that women arent getting an abundance of attention: It’s that woman are just now realizing how much of an excess of that attention they’ve been getting their entire lives, because of recent global circumstances that have cut off said excess attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is a long term relationship the end game for you?Because a short term one isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Men who care the most about women's sexual habits don't really care about women. They just use women as a scoreboard for their competition with other men.Guy here. Never understood the need to “compete” like that w/ other men. Who gives a fuck what other guys think of my sexual endeavors? Like, seriously? Who allows their life to be that affected by mfers’ opinions that have no direct bearing on you? Every single time, it comes across to me as cringy af and gives me vibes like a desperate, sweaty high schooler, who gets none and needs to be liked by everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?I don’t really have any “requirements” per say, outside of really wanting my partner to practice a healthy lifestyle like me that promotes happiness and positivity (eating well, regular exercise, treating people well, sobriety etc). I don’t have any real “preferences” for the woman I’m looking for. IMO, it feels too much like car shopping when you set an expectation for how wowed you should be by the opposite sex, instead of letting the wowing come naturally 😂🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?Single dude here. Define “RP”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 05:27 PM |
| 1 | The only reason to have sex with someone is if they're sexually attractive.Love between companions and love between contemporaries is not the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?Ah. Makes sense. Society/Other people’s validation has never been a part of my decision making, that’s probably why it seems so bizarre to me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?You mean because of a global pandemic? Yeah, that’s entirely unrelated to fertility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?95% of convicted child molesters are male Fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?Please stop fucking women you hate or are disgusted by. …Men do this? Regularly? As a guy: W H Y? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:10 PM |
| 6 | Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyleDoes this also apply the other way to women? Or as an example, do you deserve me, an independent, healthy and well put together 26-yr old who’s spent considerable time working on himself, unless you also exude some of these qualities? Or am I a woman hater for asking that the woman I’m with also practice the same lifestyle she requires of me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongThis is why I hate modern dating. With a burning passion. Men like this are trash. “WhY dO u ThInK i OfFeReD lOl”. Yeah, that’ll sit well w/ her. Knowing you only offered to pick her up so you could hook up later. 95% of guys only offer to do nice things to get into women’s pants. So as a result, any genuinely nice dude who offers something to a woman, even if it’s not with the expectation of a date or whatever in return, is looked at as “only doing so to get into women’s pants”, and all men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?That constructive criticism part hit the nail on the head and is the crux of what I’m getting at. This obviously isn’t indicative of everyone, but it is very common for women to choose what they constructively criticize about the people they interact with, largely based on gender. A man is lazy if he’s fat, but a woman is proud of her body if she is. It’s a complete double standard we openly accept and perpetuate in our society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?It’s not a matter of “thinking”, it’s true, I see groups of women justify their overweight friends’ weight by saying “yas you go girl, these people who say they care about fitness or health are just narcissistic attention seekers, you do you”, enabling the unhealthy lifestyle and justifying the behavior. This is basically used as a way of also invalidating any and all constructive criticism about women and their character flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?For being “proud of their bodies”, and the praise comes from the person’s respective social circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 08:33 PM |
| 6 | Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided?Not the same. Men are shamed for their lack of fitness within modern society. Women are accepted and praised, and are protected from “body shaming”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | What is the “inherent value” women have that men don’t?Reproduction. Men’s is protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 07:38 PM |
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