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ADVICEmatsugamy/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 06:13 PM
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I wonder, how is a virgin woman supposed to wait for a relationship to have sex, if most men and women expects to have sex by the third date? Is she supposed to disclose her preference by the first date? I'm a twenty two years old virgin and I'm not sure how does someone gets into relationship without enganging in casual sex, but I dislike it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:11 PM
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Nose. The nose is short and downturned, and the nose philtrum is too long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:04 AM
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Her side profile that is not pretty/does not fit beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:01 AM
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What type of relationships/partners a 4.5 woman is capable of getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:45 PM
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What type of relationships/partners a 4.5 woman is capable of getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:44 PM
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Is it a terrible idea to marry in my early twenties? For context, I'm not religious and I don't plan on converting to Christianity, despite the fact I had a Christian upbringing. I would like to build my life alongside someone I'm deeply in love with them and rely on their emotional and financial support. What keeps me from doing it is the fear that it's a stupid idea to marry someone before properly building a prosperous career, one that makes me capable of acquiring property and etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:44 PM
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I mean, maybe their interest in the attractive woman is enough of a reason to break up with me so they can make it clear for the attractive woman that they are available for her (?) I don't know. I once heard the story of a man that started to be really rude to his partner and to give money to attractive woman just because he was interested in her and I don't want this to happen to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:31 PM
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An average woman is a woman more attractive than me. I'm not contracting myself, I'm stating my personal opinion about prostitution, but the fact that I consider prostitution to be problematic for plenty of reasons doesn't change the fact that paid sex is an alternative for unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:17 PM
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They are either introduced for me by my acquaintances/semi friends (we talk constantly but I don't feel emotionally connected to them so I don't think it's fair to consider them to be my friend) or I met them at my tennis club. I'm not open to approaching people anymore, at least, not men because of a common pattern that I noticed in relationships that derive from courtships initiated by the woman is that the relationship is carried by the woman, while the men don't really put the effort to keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:06 PM
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They could have exchanged me for an average woman, as far as I know. Getting sex from desperate men that are willing to sleep with anything is not as fulfilling as you think because these men are not willing to put in the work that must be done for a woman to get an orgasm. Besides, men can get paid sex if they are so desperate for it, even though prostitution is highly unethical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:01 PM
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It's far more likely that they exchanged me for an attractive woman lol there's no reason for me not to be a good relationship material, considering my personality and lack of baggage/promiscuous past
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:51 PM
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I don't want them to sleep with me, though. I want a relationship and they ghosted me after a few days
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:44 PM
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I don't want a high tier league and I have tried to be with men that are just as attractive as me and they ghosted me, despite the fact I'm skinny and dress feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:38 PM
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I'm skinny and I already do my makeup and it didn't change anything. An unattractive man can build a successful career that they can use to get an attractive woman in the future, and I don't want this to happen to me. Besides, I have tried to be with them and they ghosted me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:37 PM
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Twenty two
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:15 PM
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I don't think all people are that shallow, but most of my age are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:11 PM
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Not really, considering I'm not looking for casual sex or for a partner that will leave me for a attractive woman when they can afford to do it and that will settle for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:10 PM
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The unattractive man that wanted a wanted a beautiful partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:55 AM
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They do, but I have never seen a ugly woman in a long term relationship with partners that didn't settle for them, that doesn't disrespect them and that actually like them. They are used more often than they are loved and I don't want to be one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:04 AM
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If I was actually attractive, I would have been approached or got a boyfriend that I met in person already, I have been a adult for quite sometime now. No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:58 AM
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Don't men dislike being approached? Usually, approaching a man is advantageous only to a beautiful woman and I have yet to see a relationship that was initiated by the woman in which the woman is valued by her partner, more often than not, the men in these relationships don't really make an effort to keep the relationship alive and settle for them because it's convenient for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:57 AM
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Unfortunately, I'm telling the truth, I have never been approached by men or had a relationship with someone I met in person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:54 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:53 AM
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The fact that I have never been approached by men in public or had a relationship in person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:53 AM
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I'm looking for relationships only. Assuming your last affirmation was a question, I'm looking for a man that is attracted to me and that likes me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:45 AM
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Is it worth it to try to date men as an unattractive woman? I'm pretty sure I'm below average, considering that I have never received male attention in my entire adult life / after I stopped being a teenager, and as much as I'm curious about relationships, I'm really unsure about them because I know it's likely that I'll be used as a placeholder until a more attractive woman appears. So, should I try to date men or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:30 AM
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Why? How do I know if they are comfortable with waiting or if they are pretending to so they will cheat on me with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:50 PM
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How can I vet men, as an inexperienced woman? I have been thinking about waiting until marriage or engagement to have sex to ensure I won't be used for sex and I already know the basics (don't chase a man, don't be with promiscuous men and etc) but I'm afraid I don't have enough knowledge to date and that I won't be able to find a man my age that is comfortable with waiting that will be faithful for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:40 PM
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That's so cute, congratulations on your marriage! Out of curiosity, how many time did it took to you to propose to her? After how many months in your relationships or daily talking did you discuss sex and adjacent subjects with her? If you consider this information to be private, it's okay to not answer my questions
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/25 11:06 PM
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