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Inner Game matt_ify/r/seduction29/12/20 03:25 PM
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k
/r/seduction29/12/20 03:41 PM
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🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:36 AM
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Somehow the username checks out.
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:47 PM
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Not necessary. My text game is absolute trash. But I’m still able to get first date F-closes.
/r/seduction10/09/19 07:17 PM
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Then so be it. You should not even feel like youre not good enough in the first place. Work on yourself, keep hustling, live your life for you. You are your own boss. Everyone that comes and goes is temporary.
/r/seduction09/09/19 10:30 AM
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That honestly makes sense. I’ve been trying to get my brothers to stop depending on porn so much. They masturbate to it almost every other night like some sort of release ritual. And basically virgins. As for my big brother, he has never had a gf before, and he too isnt exactly the player type so I’m pretty sure he doesnt sleep around as much as I do. But I know for sure they spent most nights wanking. It correlates really.
/r/seduction09/09/19 02:38 AM
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wow. i’m mind blown.
/r/seduction09/09/19 01:51 AM
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Username checks out. But yeah I get where youre coming from. Plenty of guys have these so called trophies. And well if it was taken with consent at the time and youre the only one with access to it, why the hell not. Had one ex gf that always loved to film us fucking. She never sent them to me, so only she has the videos of her doing dirty shit to me.
/r/seduction08/09/19 12:24 PM
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What about watching yourself fuck a girl?
/r/seduction08/09/19 12:16 PM
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25 this year. But I have been dating taller girls since I was 17. The shit tests dont usually come up, Honestly the shorter girls are the ones giving me the heigh shit tests. But when they do, I say something along the lines of “Perfect, I like to rest my head on a girl’s shoulder” or “Yeah but yet here you are..”
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:38 AM
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Yeah whole height thing shouldnt bother you. Im 5’5” which is super damn short, and I have no problem dating taller women.
/r/seduction21/08/19 06:52 AM
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both. it doesnt just apply to dating. it applies to mostly everything else. You are your own person, and as long as you dont depend on your parents financially, you go do you. Break out of that toxic bubble your parents put you in. And learn to tank whatever they throw at you for disbelieving. That said, its a very common thing. religion is slowly dying out and many of my friends and relatives are slowly breaking out of it. The whole point you have to remember is, to just keep doing what you tru…
/r/seduction16/08/19 06:53 AM
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ah the good old “religion fucked my personality up” Youre agnostic now, do agnostic things. It took me awhile too to shake off religion out of my body. I honestly dont know what the best advice is. But don’t let it bring you down. What happened before may have affected you, but thinking about it never helped anyone. Go out, meet people, date. Even if you fail, good. Failing is a good thing. And while you do about all this, do not ever think about religion or the whole celibacy thing.
/r/seduction16/08/19 06:41 AM
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By the third hook up she seems distant.. Hey! That sounds exactly like me. Anyway, you recover the same way everyone else does. Just live your life and forget about her. Theres no easy way out. Just keep working the grind and keep building yourself.
/r/seduction11/08/19 06:55 PM
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better yet, screenshot that nude, put it as your computer wallpaper and take a selfie with it, with the caption “sup dude”
/r/seduction11/08/19 04:49 PM
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Different people respond differently to height differences. I’ve had a friend with benefits who was 170 and i’m 165. (And yes she was pretty fucking hot) And I had a ONS who i’m pretty sure was around 175. But yes i’ve been rejected by plenty more taller girls. But i implore you it does happen.
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:09 AM
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Well I hope you keep at it man. it’ll get easier.
/r/seduction22/07/19 10:23 AM
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Was the quest reward 200 gold?
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:05 AM
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I met a really cute girl, and she mentioned a wife. She is now my boyfriend.
/r/seduction27/05/19 05:28 AM
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Oh boy. Don’t do that again. And move on buddy. Go see more people, make more friends, don’t fall in love.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:53 PM
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I like this one
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:34 PM
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That’s cool man. I was just clarifying about “cheating”.
/r/seduction18/05/19 07:20 PM
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It’s cheating because you can be an unattractive white male/female and asians will still find you attractive.
/r/seduction18/05/19 07:13 PM
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I’m like the opposite, I can’t text for shit.
/r/seduction12/05/19 06:26 PM
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Dude. Hang in there. I totally feel you. I would recommend meditation for starters. I know its hard, but try. You have to. Start reading books like “How to talk to anyone”, start watching some self love or self help videos on youtube. Figure yourself out. I get you because I too am pretty fucking boring myself, at times. But I do know how to have fun, and that didn’t just come outta no where. I had to grow, I had to do what I had to do to change myself. No doubt, at work, nobody really makes con…
/r/seduction08/05/19 01:48 PM
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approach anxiety
/r/seduction05/05/19 12:02 PM
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I used to take ritalin and alcohol together. idk why it worked, but it worked. I don’t do that anymore.
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:43 AM
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Oh yeah absolutely this. I myself recently broke up with a really attractive girlfriend i’ve had for 3 years. We hook up occasionally since then, even though I was devastated for awhile I didn’t stop myself from moving forward and meeting more attractive women. If OP wants to have a fwb with his ex, that can happen. But manipulation is just bad, man.
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:00 PM
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same.
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:53 AM
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Don’t micro manage it. Just do your thing. If she wants to be fwb with you, she will.
/r/seduction29/04/19 04:28 PM
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I poke fun at myself all the time. I guess as long as you say it in a proper tone, people find it funny.
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:49 PM
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i’ll do it
/r/seduction24/04/19 09:39 AM
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I dont intend to sound like an ass, but move on.
/r/seduction19/04/19 04:25 PM
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Great advice. Change your mindset, change your life. If you do it for them, then youre doing it all wrong. Do it for you. Do things for you, and stop looking. Look no further than to be the best you.
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:10 PM
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Brilliant post. Which reminds me of this one particular time I was out waiting for my bus to get home. Just a normal day. Saw this pretty cute girl selling insurance. She approached this one guy, and the guy shut her down hard. I was probably 7 feet away from her, I was leaning next to a pole. Just casually said “It’s not easy isnt it..” (With a little smirk.) She shook her head and giggled. I gestured her to come stand next to me and she happily hopped over, shy as fuck though. We continued tal…
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:59 PM
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Making great progress man!
/r/seduction16/03/19 05:15 PM
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Could be anything. They like you, they wanna bang you, they wanna impress her boyfriend’s friend for approval.. Have a chat with them and figure it out. Personally I’ve had looks like those too. But I dont have sex with friend’s girlfriends. But I have slept with an acquaintance’s girlfriend before, so there’s that. Sometimes though, theyre just curious and wanna get to know you more. Or maybe they’ve never met somebody like you.
/r/seduction15/03/19 08:53 AM
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I’m at the point where sex with someone I dont have feelings for is boring and makes me feel empty. And I’m only 24. Don’t get me wrong I mean lust is lust. But over time you kinda realise that love really is a choice. And you know you’ve hit that point when you love somebody unconditionally, and even when your eyes see somebody else better than them at every fucking way. It doesnt matter.
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:31 AM
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I made the mistake once of negging/challenging the wrong woman. Turns out she was very well to do and very mature. All she wanted was respect.
/r/seduction11/03/19 05:59 AM
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Instructions unclear. How do I get rid of a dead body?
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:17 AM
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My clothes are torn and i still get noticed.... For being a broke bitch. sadface.
/r/seduction15/11/18 07:48 PM
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Nice.
/r/seduction03/10/18 05:09 PM
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It all begins with your inability to understand specific social queues women convey. Start from there seriously. Give a shit about every word they say. (I mean don’t take it seriously, more like, be involved and understand the underlying messages). There’s more to it, but yeah that’s a start.
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:48 PM
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ESCALATE. I used to be exactly like you guys. But I learned to be open about my sexuality, and start escalating towards the bedroom. You can be the cutest most charismatic fuck ever, and girls are dying to bang You. But if you don’t escalate, they’re never gonna end up fucking you.
/r/seduction14/09/18 12:36 PM
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Just my input on this. I’ve had a couple of FCs with girls in a few social circles. What usually happens is I got to know a fuck buddy’s social circle. Hang out a couple of times with them and I will only most absolutely only pursue another girl in that same social circle when I know 98% she wants to shag. Otherwise I won’t do anything (unless she makes the real obvious moves first), because I would rather not taint that shit. Always assume they talk to each other about it because they actually …
/r/seduction09/09/18 03:21 PM
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Well I was disagreeing to the fact that good looks give you any game at all. It didn’t help me (I mean yes I have gotten laid purely from looks alone) But getting easy girls is just.. well boring.
/r/seduction22/08/18 03:06 PM
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Fair point. That is the case if people are straight forward and just wanna hook up with a hot dude. Good looks is still way down there when it comes to bringing HBs home.
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:44 PM
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Dude probably had good text game to get that shit happen.
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:02 PM
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Great post. I would say 20% is good looks, 80% is everything else.
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:58 PM
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I would say, dance like nobody’s watching. No really. I’ve been to dance floors with no mood, I take a good look at the lights, the DJ, the people around me just having a blast. I’ll think to myself, “If they can do that, what’s stopping me?”. And then I let the music guide my body.
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:11 PM
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I read that as “three others”. Totally thought you were making a joke about a Hindu god with multiple arms. I need sleep.
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:08 PM
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Groom yourself, go to the gym, get ripped. Just kidding, I’ve seen a lot of ripped guys being all fucking creep mode and DMing girls like they’re 12. Some of them get laid, good for them, those girls were probably easy and just wanna get pounded by a swole bro. Although grooming is very important, you gotta work on inner game the most. Walk like you own the world, and in a sense, work without intention. There’s more to this, but if you keep working on it, everything will fall into place.
/r/seduction27/07/18 11:38 AM
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I feel really good Mr Stark..
/r/seduction09/07/18 07:29 AM
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Well anything tastes better than fish.
/r/seduction09/07/18 07:29 AM
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I hope people don’t skip reading this, because this is important.
/r/seduction03/07/18 01:34 AM
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Quality post. I completely agree with you my dude. I think mostly all of the girls I’ve hooked up with follow my Instagram. Either it’s through mutual contact sliding into DMs or they asked for my Instagram after I’ve gotten their number. Of course, content is king here. Nobody wants to see lame dumb shit in your story or posts. Dumb funny shit is good. Chicks dig that. But not lame shit. It came to a point that some girls DM me first. It also gives you the potential to reconnect with someone af…
/r/seduction28/06/18 05:57 PM
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Don’t need a wingman when you can have red bull.
/r/seduction28/06/18 09:20 AM
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Exactly the point I’m trying to get across to those who are willing to try and understand. And I especially love how you’ve mentioned that you’re not gonna present the girl at the bar a list of questions. Sometimes people forget that everybody has the right to invite, just as everybody has the right to refuse. It stems from being a man looking for a girl to get laid with or to grow old and have kids with. People aren’t objects, you down own anybody. The girlfriend you’ve had for 2 years and now …
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:15 AM
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I get you. I really do. There was a point in my life when I wouldn’t reciprocate. Fact is some of my buddies don’t either. But not everybody is the same. Mostly everybody is gonna disagree with me when I say this, but as a guy, you need a little push in which you must understand when to walk away. The girl wants to cheat. Whatever reason it is, whether because her guy is boring her the fuck out or she’s just naturally polyamorous. She wants to cheat. Now as a guy, seeing your girl talking and fl…
/r/seduction25/06/18 08:36 AM
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I’m probably the worst to ask for text advice. Give her a call and shoot the shit there.
/r/seduction25/06/18 08:24 AM
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It has never happened before, but if one of them does come up to me then I’m ready for what’s coming. I don’t mean to sound like I’m some big sized swole guy that can fight, I don’t care if I lose either. Whatever it is, it’s yo girl that chose to do what she did. (I have been cheated on before but I never blame the guy even if they knew. She chooses, you either walk away or you don’t.) Edit: I have been verbally attacked before because the guy’s Girlfriend was sending me nudes. I tried talking …
/r/seduction25/06/18 07:25 AM
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She obviously wants to fuck. Probably. Don’t let the whole bf thing get in your head though. Unless you’re someone that doesn’t wanna get in the middle of relationships (and if you do, I applaud you). I’ve had several girls hit me up even though they had a boyfriend. You’ll never know if you don’t try.
/r/seduction25/06/18 06:37 AM
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Some kind of mix between Hispanic and aboriginal
/r/seduction24/06/18 09:07 AM
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I don’t know what the fuck I am but indian chicks dig the fuck out of me for some reason. I totally get you.
/r/seduction22/06/18 08:21 PM
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Dude. I feel ya too. I’m terrible at text game. Seriously. My advice here is. Stop going to fucking tinder. I deleted my tinder because I got fed up with how fucking bad I am at that bullshit. Ever since, I’ve been keeping texting at a down low, just to make dates and shit. But the rapport is always fucking always built up in person. I know you can do that too.
/r/seduction02/06/18 03:39 PM
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Holy fuck this advice needs more attention.
/r/seduction02/06/18 03:34 PM
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Basically inner game beats everything. That’s why naturals are so good at what they do. Because they have strong inner game. Because they grew up that way. OP, if you wanna start somewhere, start with inner game. I mean sure as fuck you can go ahead and spill some canned routines but end of the day, an insecure man with lines and routines is still an insecure man. Just be who you are, but better. Way fucking better.
/r/seduction02/06/18 03:29 PM
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An insecure man with lines and routines is still an insecure man.
/r/seduction31/05/18 02:22 PM
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Don’t think. Just do.
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:38 AM
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Man I totally feel you. I’m like the opposite though. My text game is garbage. I Guess what I can tell you is, you need to be a little more playful than on text. I know converting text to in person is some weird shit. You need to kino. Like a lot. I can’t tell you much though cause there isn’t much that you say you’re doing. Can’t exactly tell what you’re doing wrong. Just keep trying. Eventually you’ll have texted a 100 girls and get to fuck close 1, that’s still something. Basically you’ll lea…
/r/seduction01/05/18 06:12 AM
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Highlight of my day.
/r/seduction01/05/18 06:01 AM
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Ghosting is my specialty lmao. In a bad way.
/r/seduction01/05/18 01:17 AM
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Had this happen to me once. Went to a club crawl I don’t remember the half of and woke up next to a girl I don’t even remember talking to.
/r/seduction01/05/18 01:11 AM
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