mattebball Archive

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63	Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help? Being an optimistic, bubbly person is extremely underrated. who doesn't love being around a person like that, its contagious. Negatively really does bring down the person you are talking to and positivity lifts people up. It is incredible value and it doesn't require any hobbies or talking points. You will win girls and guys over by being congruent with positive self.	/r/seduction	26/02/17 05:59 PM
2	STOP SMILING Sorry man, but this is just stupid. I'll take a genuine smile with men or women any day of the week. So will women.	/r/seduction	05/08/16 05:54 AM
5	If you're a virgin or heavily unexperienced, should you take the "gimmes" (aka girls who are unnatrractive, but are into you)? I wouldn't. Leading people on is never a good thing. Plus you will score a girl that is semi attractive to you eventually. The wait is worth it.	/r/seduction	17/06/16 08:30 AM
1	How To Memorize The Name Of Every Girl You Meet I have an amazing mnemonic device, by which I have now memorized all of your names. shirty, mole, lazy eye, Mexico, baldie, sugar boobs, black woman. How am I doing?	/r/seduction	26/02/16 07:25 AM
1	Anxiety regarding the kiss... [never kissed a girl] She definitely wants to be kissed. During your next date just physically escalate, keep up with the hand on her at various points, even walking close with her at some point that slightly invades personal space is a good thing. You will be surprised at what you have picked up watching people kiss at the movies and all of your experience leading up to this point, you are kind of naturally born to know how to kiss. Error on the side of no tongue, and less aggressive is better. Build up that fake co…	/r/seduction	24/10/15 07:52 PM
4	IS late teens-mid 20s the best time to get with girls? Oh man I studied a bit of everything and they all kind of helped shape how I view the dating world, how I view love. So like I said what I list will range from pick-up to marriage counseling to being able to build rapport with women or men. I will list a few here: Bang - by Roosh. The Five Love Languages - by Gary Chapman. The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011 - by Athol Kay. Stephen Erdman's audio books - (Found on Youtube, although they are pricey and I wouldn't recommend purchasing based on pr…	/r/seduction	25/05/15 08:07 PM
18	IS late teens-mid 20s the best time to get with girls? I warn you this will be long. I don't expect anyone to read this whole thing but you U-Conn-U. What caught my eye about your post is that you talk about yourself so negatively. no game, not good looking, my situation is hopeless, I'm a pussy, I'm bitter and depressed, etc. This is really bad inner dialogue you are having with yourself. I firmly believe if you say to yourself I am ugly 5,000 times in your head even if you are Brad Pitt you will start to believe it. The second thing I noticed is t…	/r/seduction	25/05/15 09:00 AM
3	Just a little tip when you have eye contact. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8ce-0BArfs	/r/seduction	16/02/14 08:53 AM
21	Kissless virgin here, how do I stop that from keeping me down? Honestly I think its both. Lack of confidence contributes to awkward situations with women who won't feel comfortable kissing you. In the same vein, past experiences (or in this case failed/no experiences) affect how confident you feel in similar situations. It's a vicious cycle, but once you break out of it you feel like the world is your oyster. It is doable and like Laktik said, you really have to work on yourself first. My suggestion is knowing how to let women (or men for that matter) feel …	/r/seduction	02/12/13 07:11 AM
4	So, I can't even talk to people let alone women, can I do this? To be honest I find that when guys struggle talking with women they tend to struggle with social interaction in general. They may think that they are fine around other men but they tend to be just as awkward around them as well, so don't feel that you are in a unique situation, there are many people like you who just need to practice learned social skills. I would recommend starting off trying to improve your social interactions with men, coworkers, as opposed to women first. Ease your way into …	/r/seduction	06/09/13 06:40 AM
1	Why Men Have the Power During an Approach Unless she gains a confidence boost from every man that approaches her. I still firmly believe that the time commitment is more of a waste for the approacher. We are also assuming that girls are inept at approaching as well, which is a pretty big leap. In economics it is really hard to measure the value for things like a confidence boost, or shame in rejection, but both play a role here in who has the upper hand in modern pickup.	/r/seduction	19/06/13 10:05 AM
0	Why Men Have the Power During an Approach Well, I retract what I said about zero-sum, it really isn't. both people can benefit in an ultimatum game and in zero-sum games the sum has to be zero. What I meant to get at was that I had a problem with OP's assertion that the guy in this game is always better off, or at the very least ties with the girl. How is that the case if I get rejected by a girl who i perceive to be higher value? I have options to talk to other girls, but what about the wasted time? What about the confidence boost the …	/r/seduction	19/06/13 03:15 AM
2	Why Men Have the Power During an Approach I had a freudian sliip. I was thinking about zero sum games because this post tickles the economist inside of me. You are right that the ultimatum game isn't one, however I fail to see that no matter what outcome she takes, accepting or rejecting makes both players better off? If I'm a sex rank of 7 and I have a rank 9 of perceived higher value reject me, how am I better off? I have wasted 5-10 minutes of time I could be generating value elsewhere. Now I have to attempt again with another girl. …	/r/seduction	19/06/13 02:55 AM
2	Why Men Have the Power During an Approach Exactly. I explain the economics behind the supply and demand problem with the ultimatum game below.	/r/seduction	18/06/13 01:32 AM
57	Why Men Have the Power During an Approach I disagree with your ultimatum assessment. You have to look at the supply and demand as well as the actual approach dynamic. Your argument may hold up if it is an isolated event that isn't reoccurring. To back up my argument I need to explain why the "slut double standard" exists. There is way more supply for girls in choosing a mate then for guys and I will explain. In general men have a much wider range of acceptance for girls they will bang than girls do. For example, If we were to rank indiv…	/r/seduction	18/06/13 01:28 AM
1	First date confusion. Just remember to gauge her reactions to kino. You are testing her every time you do it. If she seems comfortable with it than you can continue. If she reacts negatively, either by pulling away physically or gives you a weird look than you need to lighten it up until later and test the reaction again. If she's really into you she will start reciprocating her own kino, even initiating some of it back to you. This would be a great sign. Also don't be afraid to go somewhere after coffee that is unpl…	/r/seduction	20/02/13 06:14 AM