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i have a friend who does this. He hangs out and eats at Twin Peaks and friendzones all the girls there. So many of them want to bang him and he's a total monk- Celibate for over a year. They go crazy, but he just honestly wants to be friends before fucking and none of them seem to be able to handle the fact that he's judging them and they don't measure up to his standards.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:48 AM
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Not a good response. You saying you're the only one who will put up with her b's is showing you're bothered. Not the IDGAF response you're looking for. It actually sounds like something an old married man would say too his post menopause wife of 40 years.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 01:20 AM
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Thanks a lot makes sense I have a lot of bad habits and that needs to Change I've had 7 plates since may this year after a 10 year LTR that ended in January. 12 in my life. I'm now spinning 2. I don't get all the sex I want but I am doing ok.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 09:48 AM
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I do lift but I don't compete really in anything. Sometimes I pretend I'm in a competition at work to do the most and best work though
/r/askTRP21/10/17 05:45 PM
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Wow very thorough. So much useful
/r/askTRP21/10/17 12:15 PM
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Well you fucked up by not using oxy clean. Blood comes out easy with that shit
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:41 PM
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I have had good numbers with my dinner date thing. Good logistics split the bill go home and smash
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:17 AM
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Thanks for that. I'm actually feeling quite proud of my dealings with this one so far. She is a shit test princess and I have kept frame like her King. 😁
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:09 PM
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Yup. It's all about that posterior chain. Squats and deadlifts should be your first priority. Bent over rows and chin ups are amazing as well
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 02:38 PM
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Say it like this: "the short answer: no. The long answer: Nooooooooooooooo." She'll get the idea
/r/askTRP05/10/17 07:51 PM
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Your acne problem may be caused by or exacerbated by your diet. Increase high water content food intake, eliminate sugary things and chocolates. As for approaching 5s just for the sake of getting the reference experience yes. Absolutely. But I wouldn't necessarily do it to begin a friendship. You should actually just talk to as many people as you can- guys, girls, old ladies, it don't matter. Approach with one goal in mind - adding value. Have good energy and broadcast that onto everyone you mee…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 06:23 PM
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No not really. I'm a 5'10" 135lb skinny nerd. I put on a front like I'm that dude but then I try to get to know the girls and it weakens my frame. Maybe you are intimidating to them and they don't get the comfort they need to hamster?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:51 PM
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I have the opposite problem. I can easily get short term hook ups but when I let them get to know me they fall off
/r/askTRP04/10/17 04:34 PM
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Stop trying to troll me it's not working. Google iud strings you'll see
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:17 AM
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I guess I was feeling the strings from it not the actual device. Happened with 2 different girls with iuds.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:02 AM
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Ever fuck a girl with an iud?
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:47 PM
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She has a kid. I felt the iud. It's pretty obvious.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:41 PM
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I just don't want to trigger her asd
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:06 PM
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B6 and ginko
/r/askTRP03/10/17 03:54 PM
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This is somewhat related. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6ynkw7/my_experience_with_having_a_sugarbabe/
/r/askTRP02/10/17 10:00 PM
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Either way you might be traded for a new model after you pop out a litter and hit the wall. Maybe to maintain your kept status you could be ok with your provider male having a girlfriend or 2
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:58 PM
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I think if you want to get where you want to be you are going to have to take a risk. No risk bo reward. What I mean is if you go after a man who is already successful he will be perfectly happy to fuck you, give you gifts treat you to dinners etc but will see you as a gold digging whore. if he's smart (he didn't become successful by being not smart), he won't invest emotionally, and will not consider y'alls' relationship as a permanent arrangement. This is the safe bet, financially, but the rew…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:44 PM
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Getting back with an ex is like digging through a dumpster. You're not going to find anything good and you don't want anyone to see you doing it
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:13 PM
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Don't wait too long. That emotion you built will fade if it hasn't already. Get her attention ask her out to do something if she gives some bullshit excuse she's not into you
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:35 PM
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Feature what you can't fix. Point them out before they even notice. Make a joke tell a stupid story about how they got that way, whatever. Act line you don't give a damn, better yet, that you like the way your teeth are.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:33 PM
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the most dangerous play thing...
/r/askTRP14/09/17 02:30 AM
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yes sir, I do. I love them in that moment. There has so far been no reason for me to love them beyond that moment because I haven't seen anyone for longer than a month. Gotta keep it logical.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 02:26 AM
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I'll speak from my personal experience of going from falling in love with any pretty little thing that opened up her legs to me to becoming iced over and shielded from my own lying heart. I had oneitis for 10 years with my ex wife. She left me for someone else. Over the following months, I proceeded to give my heart to a handful of other girls. This attachment always led me to suffering. I learned from pain that if I want to not experience that pain again I need to change my approach to women. Y…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 08:35 PM
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Ok another plan - go approach other girls. Fuck a different plate on Tuesday, and not contact her at all
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:57 PM
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Yes I know. I'm gonna just text her tomorrow lets do xyz tomorrow night
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:13 PM
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Didn't read. My answer is YES
/r/askTRP03/09/17 10:11 PM
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I get more out of watching and listening, and the in-field footage is great. But the main thing I'd suggest is you have to be more entitled and more clear in your intent - man to woman. Seems like you're also coming from a mindset of scarcity. That may be a hard thing to change, but you need to hammer into your head that you are an attractive man who is capable of getting girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 01:26 AM
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have you seen any RSD videos?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 01:02 AM
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There is so much overlap its scary
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 12:12 AM
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Don't ask for a kiss lol
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 12:10 AM
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Too late? Are you joking?!?!? Seriously, get out of your head. I'm 32 and spent an entire decade being a tied down beta servile bitch to a female. My dad is a total simp and i must have learned that behavior from him. I just got redpilled like 8 months ago. Start fucking life in the ass, and just take action.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 06:42 PM
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Update, just had her over for dinner and smashed. Full story: I got back to her after a few days, then waited for a few more days with some insignificant texts back and forth, and asked her to come over to my place for dinner on friday. She eventually replied, "no, I have plans." To which I responded, "no problem. It seems that your interest has waned a bit. That's fair. I have contingency plans for this weekend, but wanted to check with you first. If your interest picks back up, feel free to te…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 12:22 PM
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Performance Anxiety. Get out of your head. I had this happen with 2 different hb8's but once I got more comfortable and relaxed about the whole thing It worked. try L-arginine and Ginseng supplements
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:56 AM
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sounds like she's just not that into you... there's plenty of fish in the sea. Learn what you can from this experience (where you could have improved), and up your game for the next one.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:09 PM
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So I am being cautious and messaged her a few days after the Incident and she actually responded. Dropped a Value adding message, into a mention of a free concert that I thought she'd be into... then the next day threw her another value adding message. Trying to keep her a little engaged. I'm going to go quiet now with her til sometime next week and then push for a date.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 10:23 PM
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yeah you're right if i wait much longer the feelings she had for me could fade
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:08 PM
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That makes no sense unless you're saying that the responses are bp
/r/askTRP19/07/17 12:20 PM
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Yeah I realized after it all went down I should have but in the moment i lost my shit
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:37 AM
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Women are attracted to behavior, not as much looks. Take an acting lesson lol
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:47 AM
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I think a better plan would be to make her think its her idea to break up. Become whatever she is not attracted to. Cause her to lose interest in you. Also, if she kills herself it's not your fault.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:23 AM
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pics or it didn't happen
/r/askTRP21/05/17 10:55 PM
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I vetted her through her Instagram which is linked in tinder and found her Facebook
/r/askTRP21/05/17 12:50 PM
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Entirely possible. Which is why I'm not going to sext without meeting first
/r/askTRP21/05/17 12:49 PM
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I over think things a lot. this is a random tinder whore, yes, but out of all the tinder whores I'm working on, this is my absolute first choice. Preferences are ranked ordinally, brother. Also my fingers still smell like pussy from last night so yeah... nbd if I don't get this one I know I'm capable of finding others.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 12:31 PM
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did you just say hi in passing or did you strike up a conversation? You gotta get the conversation flowing bro!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 03:22 PM
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don't wait just go for it man, you are probably more attractive than you think. Rule number 1 for learning pickup is Approach! If you don't approach then how can you learn!? Your body image is only a poor excuse for not pushing your comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 03:20 PM
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any vegetables? You might be missing vitamins and minerals
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:37 AM
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I just made my first actual approach since being single. (tinder dates don't count as cold approach) I failed so horribly and miserably that it was hilarious but I'm happy I tried. Dancing at a concert I motioned to a girl that I thought was cute to have her take my hand, but instead I totally slapped her drink and beer went flying everywhere. I put my arm around her and laughed. Said you're cute whats your name, she told me she liked dancing next to me, liked my energy... Success in boosting my…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:35 AM
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Why are you negotiating for sex? Obligatory sex is like a deadly sin in the church of redpill. Kill your fucking oneitis and soft next her until she comes begging for your dick.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 07:50 PM
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"ok" or "ok sounds good" Its either agree and escalate or ignore the shit test.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 04:17 AM
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's what I did... Though I broke mine in a fit of rage. Being poor, I chose that the purchase of a $40-50 gaming mouse was not worth it. Haven't played any games since - that was 10 months ago.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 09:49 PM
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break your gaming mouse and buy a crappy $5 logitech mouse that lags you'll never be able to game again.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:18 AM
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For lifting - Get the app and the book called "Starting Strength"
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:23 AM
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break your mouse buy a $5 shite mouse that lags in game and don't get a gaming mouse ever again. Games will become unplayable. If you're a console gamer you suck anyway just sell your shit.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:05 AM
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yeah I'm giving her zero investment of my time at this point
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:18 PM
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i make it even more dumbed down- "I make shapes with colors and letters for money"
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:14 PM
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her response this morning: "What? I just did"
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:22 PM
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lol I just told this other girl that on my days off I raise llamas her response: "I really hope that you're telling the truth I've never seen a llama in real life"
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:57 AM
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Another question I get asked a lot in text is "what do you do for work" I get that this is a normal question to ask but you might as well ask "what's my alimony check going to be like when I file for divorce?" I'm a graphic designer but I don't really think that's relevant to the conversation prior to meeting and seeing if there's chemistry/attraction.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:33 AM
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and be met with a " What makes you so great that I should beg to go out with you " I'm confused only by the wording of this part, everything else sounds like gold advice. Do you mean she will respond with "what makes you so great?"
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:13 AM
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this is interesting... so it puts it in her court to be submissive and beg me for my details.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 02:06 AM
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Def get some good hate fucks in her before she's gone.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:45 AM
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Did not smash.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:54 AM
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what I'm hearing is I should be creative and think of my own lines good idea
/r/askTRP02/04/17 01:04 PM
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lol
/r/askTRP02/04/17 01:03 PM
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Yeah I'm doing starting strenght - its a program with compound movements with the bar only. But until I gain what do you think I should say to my date TONIGHT if she brings it up?
/r/askTRP02/04/17 12:29 PM
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I KNOW THIS MANNNNN! I wasn't asking for fitness advice. Give me a witty retort or GTFO
/r/askTRP02/04/17 12:07 PM
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That's what you want me to say to a girl? Lame
/r/askTRP02/04/17 12:07 PM
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YESSIR! This chick is kindof a freak but I'm always expecting LMR, gotta work on those skills for sure
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:45 AM
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Such a faggot! I take the dick in the butt on the regs
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:43 AM
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lol sorry for the clickbait!
/r/askTRP02/04/17 05:42 AM
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just realized you wrote play place but probably just meant my place ... same thing lol
/r/askTRP01/04/17 07:16 PM
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My "play place" doesn't have much to offer - I have my computer that I use for work, a bose music system, and my 3 year olds toys (he'll be at his mom's). Trying to be creative...so far listen to music worked on one female, and another one needed no excuse to tag along I just told her flat out I want to take you back to my place
/r/askTRP01/04/17 07:16 PM
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I'm pretty new at this myself, but TBH opening with "I'm gorgeous you're gorgeous" Sounds fucking stupid as shit. Start with something that will make them laugh, work in some sexual hints to set the frame, then like Dadondabs said tell them I gotta go but I'd talk to you some other time. what's your number? The fact that you gotta go = busy (be busy). i'd talk to you more = i'd give you another chance at getting ME = setting higher value. You're the prize.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 05:21 AM
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From The Rational Male - Plate Theory : "A Man needs to have a lot of simultaneous prospects spinning together. Think of each plate as a separate woman you are pursuing. Some fall off and break, others you may wish to stop spinning altogether and some may not spin as fast as you’d like, but the essence of plate theory is that a man is as confident and valuable as his options." Rollo Tomassi I'd say I used the term correctly.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:44 AM
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yeah hahaha but i want pussy nowww!! I'm so fucking addicted. Good news is I have another date lined up for saturday with someone else. I think I'll probably like her better anyway just from what I've seen of her profile pics and her taste in music
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:27 AM
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hmm, i see your point, by bringing up "lets just booty call" the subtext of that is "lets not ltr" and thereby I'm indirectly bringing up a conversation about relationships. I just get the feeling that she might be down for the booty call regardless, but there was some major LMR going on last night.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:22 AM
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Should I just be straight up and honest with her and tell her I just want a booty call? She seems to have responded well to my honesty - told her I wanted to see my cum all over her face and she didn't run away.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 11:55 PM
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Good comment - I'll probably do this. but then again there's always my needs that I'm feeling, and what's a good reason for me to turn a sure thing down, even if she's a 5 and a 2 kisser? lol
/r/askTRP21/03/17 11:21 PM
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I'm just using it as a term in my context - i just started talking to girls again not too long ago. Maybe I'm not using the term correctly, but what would you call the girls that you have lined up, but haven't fully "plated"
/r/askTRP21/03/17 11:17 PM
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Yeah, but I can't fuck 10 women if I don't start with one... I don't have oneitis that's for damn sure- I had oneitis until "the one" monkey branched, now I have fuckemallitis. I'm thinking about chucking this one away and moving to the next 3 who want to meet up before I even get laid. I just wanna get my dick wet and to practice. I really don't give a shit about these women they are pieces of meat to me.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 10:49 PM
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Can you be vulnerable, but strong?
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:45 PM
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Perfectly normal. Don't worry about it. I sometimes do fantasize about having a girl put my whole cock in her mouth while it's still soft though...lol
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:26 AM
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OK I've realized I can be non-invested if I want, but still talk to women. I realize its just a choice to let my desire for women get in the way of my ambitions. Fuck that noise! I'm going to build my life and plate mad women, no fucks given!
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:32 AM
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It has been my experience that women destroy my ambition. Maybe I can avoid that if in conscious of it. Thank you you have given me much to think about
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:07 PM
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Dude. Why do I envision this? Beef up, 'homes. I've joined a gym and I'm lifting and eating more I go to the gym 5-6 days a week broski! And how did you know I'm Jewish?! （＾ｖ＾）
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:48 AM
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You don't see how that could possibly get in the way of my personal growth? My hesitation is that I might feel like it's enough of an accomplishment and that I can rest easy now that I've gotten female validation. I question my internalization of the concept that I don't need female validation after so many years of conditioning.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:44 AM
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Great thought. Maybe I'll just text her nevermind on the phone call I just got slammed at work and leave it at that. Solid strategy
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:29 AM
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Shit, I'm thinking just taking to a woman I have a chance to fuck is messing with my head. That's part of why I want to just go radio silent. But I also don't want to lose a potential plate. Maybe I'm still in the mindset that I don't have the capacity to attract more women. Or, maybe I just want to keep all my options open-including the hb8 with the 8yo,because why not?
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:26 AM
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I married a Virgin thinking she was pure and different, a unicorn. I was wrong
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:17 AM
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Shit well I already built up a big phone call for like a few days of phone tag. I was going to politely back off but now I just don't know what to do. I want to have sex with her lol
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:13 AM
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So you think I should nix the "I'm not ready" thing and just go for it? This is encouraging.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:04 AM
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You think that I'm in any type of position to be opening girls? I'm not so much afraid of the rejection as I am of being accepted!
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:02 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I was looking for thoughts on how I should put it to her that I'm needing space. Does that sound pathetic, we aren't even that close, but I'm like at a point where I need to just not be involved at all in women I'm interested in sexually. I don't want to just ghost her.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:59 AM
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Dont think that virginity is a good thing. Golden pussy syndrome alert!
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:56 AM
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Seltzer with Lime
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:36 AM
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I think she actually does still like me, which is why I want to give more time than 1 week of no contact to give her a greater sense of loss.
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