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photofeeler.com
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:04 PM
1

You ned therapy first and foremost my friend. Best of luck.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:36 AM
1

I don’t see why you can’t do both.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:28 PM
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Why not?
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:25 PM
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My man night clubs are one of the places where women are most open to getting approached. The best openers are “Hey how’s it goin?”, “Hi I like your {insert something she’s wearing you like, best thing is jewelry, be authentic}”, or “Hi I’m jstv7”. If it’s noisy don’t yell. Speak calmly and slowly into her ear. Noisy night clubs give you an excuse to get close to her when talking. Also try out some bars.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:03 PM
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You just have to start going up to girls, introduce yourself, and start talking to them. Be respectful. Don’t try saying some sexy or witty because you’ll just come off as trying too hard and desperate. Just start off by being friendly. Start talking about whatever, that’s appropriate, comes to your mind. And really pay attention to what she’s saying. Don’t spend the time that she’s talking thinking of what you’re going to say next, just listen to what she is saying. After you get more comfortab…
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:50 PM
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You’ve been on three dates before this and talk almost daily for 3-4 months and you haven’t even kissed her yet. There’s your mistake. Always go for the kiss on the first date unless you’re just not feeling it and don’t want to see her or it’s obvious she doesn’t want to see you again. Also how old are you?
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:56 PM
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You need therapy man. Women are amazing and bring beauty, joy and a certain perspective to your life in a way men can not. Which is not to say men don’t either. Just that you really should have strong bonds with both men and women. Yes there are a lot of shitty women out there, just like there’s a lot of shitty men. And yes unfortunately the shitty women get a pass by society way more often than the shitty men. And yes there are a lot of men’s issues that need way more attention and effort to fi…
/r/MensRights15/04/22 01:50 AM
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Then start hitting the gym and eating right so you put on some muscle.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:54 PM
1

There will be girls you want to hook up with that won’t want to hook up with you. And there’ll be girls that want to hook up with you that you don’t want to hook up with. That’s life man.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:39 PM
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I can’t downvote this enough. If you can’t trust your girlfriend to behave respectfully to you and your relationship when you go to a club together then she shouldn’t be your girlfriend.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:03 PM
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There is such a thing as toxic masculinity. Just like there’s toxic femininity. And their harmful worldviews actually overlap in some ways. And Will Smith’s actions are actually a perfect example of both. Advocating for men’s rights and issues does not mean we have to pretend like men do no wrong or turn a blind eye to men acting violently or wrongly because of their idea of what it means to “be a man”. It’s really a shame when I see shit like “there’s no such thing as toxic masculinity” on this…
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:11 PM
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Got a link to the blog?
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:23 AM
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He’s allowed to have a preference and other people are allowed to tell him his preference is hypocritical and comes from a bad viewpoint, a viewpoint that will likely lead to failed relationships that will likely be his fault.
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:22 PM
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Again, stand up =\= punch in the face. He could have stood up and said something or called Chris Rock out. He could have talked to him after the show. Do you not understand that there are a whole host of ways to respond to perceived slights that do not involve violence? How old are you? Also. The joke was not really that bad. I’d tell me wife to learn to take a joke and stop taking herself so seriously in this specific instance.
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:41 PM
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Standing up for your wife =\= Punching someone in the face for a joke. What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:00 PM
5

Yea. You’re a piece of shit dude.
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:30 PM
2

Do you at least tell the boyfriends about it after so they can decide if they want to be with a cheater? I think what you’re doing is shitty but if some sleaze-ball like you can get my gf to cheat on me I’d want to know so I could dump her.
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:28 PM
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You’re an idiot. Please get off this sub with your dumbass advice.
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:26 AM
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Please don’t listen to this guy. He is an idiot. Girls absolutely want you to go down on them and will respect you for it, especially if you’re good at. The issue here is that she is not committed to returning the favor. Sex is an activity enjoyed by two people (let’s ignore threesomes and orgies here). Both people are supposed to give and take. Sounds like she’s just taking.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:52 AM
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That’s some sweeping generalizations and a seemingly prissy approach to sex.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:49 AM
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This kind of shit is what gives MRAs a bad name.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 03:14 PM
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Dude she sent you a picture of her lifting up her shirt and showing her tits. How tf can you think that’s not sexual? Sorry sorry. You escalate by just commenting on how nice they look or how much you like the picture and then setting up a hang out with her. It’s really hard to come off creepy here. She is making it blatantly obvious she’s interested.
/r/seduction20/03/22 01:21 AM
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This ain’t it chief. This is pathetic.
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:56 PM
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This is good stuff right here!
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:06 AM
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Let her do what makes her happy. Some girls are just like that. If it’s not affecting your relationship then it’s not a problem.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:01 PM
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Ask her nicely, but directly. “Is everything ok between us? I ask because it’s not common for people I know to work 17 straight days. If everything isn’t ok I’d rather you just be honest with me.” Before you send that consider what she does for work. Is that normal in her line of work?
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:10 AM
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Is it just the angles she took the pictures at? Or are they obviously deceitful? If she looks nothing like her pictures (e.g. way fatter) than I think it’s reasonable to point that out. It’s completely unfair to make a dating profile and post pictures that are essentially lies about what you look like.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:27 PM
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Lol. You’re over-thinking this way too hard. That’s not really a long time to respond. If she’s clearly into you in person and she is easy to set up plans to meet up with then I wouldn’t worry too much. I know I just would grow tired of texting someone every 30 minutes of every day pretty quickly.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:33 AM
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How much longer? Maybe she’s just trying to spread out the conversation. Idk I’d find it really hard to come up with something new to say every 2 hours.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:30 AM
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How quickly do you usually respond when she texts? I’m just saying it can get exhausting trying to keep up with texting someone all day every day.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:28 AM
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Maybe she’s just not that into texting? If she’s not flaking or bailing on you, and she’s into you and shows strong interest in person, then what’s the problem? Try setting up times to facetime. Facetiming is so much better. I honestly prefer to facetime than text when I know a girl a bit better. Also maybe you’re texting her way too much? You don’t need to be in contact with her all day every day.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:18 AM
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Bro. Stay far away from her. If this is how she behaves after one date, a time when you’re supposed to be putting your absolute best foot forward, just imagine what she is like when she’s been dating someone for a while and is completely comfortable with them. Likely physically and emotionally abusive from the sounds of it. No contact her. She is not someone you want to be involved with. Any woman who does something and then says she “was testing you” is a woman you need to stay away from. That …
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:32 PM
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No. And as someone else replied, if you become a “high value guy” you won’t be chasing girls who rejected you.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:05 PM
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Just like she’s under no obligation to date you or have sex with you, you’re under no obligation to be friends with her if you don’t want to. Just say something along the lines of “Thanks for your honesty! However I don’t want to be just friends with you and I’m not willing to pretend like I do so it’s best if we go our separate ways. I wish you all the best.”
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:16 AM
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It doesn’t matter that you had sex with her. You’re still harassing her. She blocked you and you made a new account to message her. That is grade A stalker/creeper behavior and you need to stop it immediately. She told you to leave her alone. I don’t think she can make it any more clear that she is not interested in you anymore. Why you would even want to pursue someone who blocked you and told you to leave her alone is beyond me. Pursue women who want you to pursue them.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:06 AM
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No don’t play mind games. Don’t date or have sexual relationships with women who want to play mind games.
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:42 PM
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Dude you should NOT have done that. You double texted her, she ignored you, and then you texted her friend who you also just met asking about her. At best that just comes off as desperate or too eager. At worst it comes off as creepy.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:13 AM
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I….I…..I just can’t with this post lol. Her behavior is not acceptable. You should break up with her.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:37 PM
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Ugh this is just so stupid. This kind of shit is also what gives MRAs a bad name.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 01:12 AM
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It’s on both of them? Fucking the girlfriend of a teammate who looks up to you is a shitty thing to do.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/22 04:04 PM
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Damn if that’s true then he’s a straight up shitty person.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/22 03:20 PM
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I think we should be able to make these kinds of jokes about both men and women.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 02:11 PM
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Thank fuck someone gets it. I always hated the “ask a fisherman” bullshit. Women are people who want emotional, romantic, and sexual connections with men. They aren’t brain-dead fish. You shouldn’t always take advice from women, but the same applies to men. It’s true that there’s things that women can’t quite “put their finger on” when it comes to attraction that a man who is successful with women can give better advice on. But there’s also a lot of things that women absolutely can put their fin…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:41 PM
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I do think it’s childish and immature. And silly. Just how you’re splitting hairs over what exact words I said when the message is the same. You can disagree, and you’re entitled to your opinion as I am mine. It’s just from anecdotal experience the guys that care so much about their partner’s sexual history don’t end up in happy relationships. Sit down and think why that is and why you care so much about whether your girlfriend had a single night stand or 5 or 10. Like really think about it. And…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 08:47 PM
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I never said there weren’t people who place value on non-casual sex. Just told you I think that’s silly. That’s my opinion. You can date whoever you want, you don’t need to listen to me. And in regards to the comments here, a lot of them are just woman hating. I’m not fine with that. Because this is a sub where we should be raising awareness about men’s issues and rights, not hating women. And it’s just a shame that’s what it’s becoming.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 07:36 PM
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But you are allowed to have personal preferences? That also doesn’t mean other people can’t judge you for them. Just like you judge others for what they like and do. Other people don’t have to agree or like your preferences any more than you have to date someone whose sexual history bothers you.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 07:29 PM
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I think judging your partner’s sexual history is extremely childish and immature in most cases, unless it’s something truly ridiculous which makes you question their mental health, or on the flip side experience (i.e very few sexual experiences). What do you mean by “random guys”? Like one night stands? I don’t have anything against that. I’ve had plenty of one night stands. Yea if she was just walking around the street going up to random dudes like “hey wanna fuck?”, then that would make me que…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 07:23 PM
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I have witnessed it over and over again Anecdotes are not evidence of how an entire demographic of millions of people behave and think. Especially not when it comes to something so complex as what someone thinks about others. Are you in every man and woman’s head in your anecdotes? This is ridiculous. Actually the point was This is the same thing as I said. Has man-hating stopped feminism. Yes it has lmao.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 02:18 AM
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Actually women distrust each other far more than men do. Do they? Where are you getting this information? The point stands that being a misogynistic man is not the way to advance equal treatment for men or for women.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 01:29 AM
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This sub absolutely have a significant amount of men who hate women or have a negative view of women.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 01:07 AM
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Men mistrust each other too. What’s your point?
/r/MensRights02/01/22 01:06 AM
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You just let a girl like that go and go find another girl who won’t do that to you. And I know this is easier said than done, but that’s the best thing to do. What would really make you look weak is desperately trying to “win back” a girl who just shit on you like that. Strength means having respect for yourself and not letting things like this shatter your ego. Choose people who choose you. If you’ve put in effort into someone and they don’t choose you, then there’s nothing else to do.
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:02 AM
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No I didn’t accept that he accepted offers. I specifically said that’s not what he did or is “in trouble” for.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 01:47 AM
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How is that making your point? Did you not read the part where I said: he pressured women into sex by threatening their careers ? Or do you really not see the difference between a consensual (albeit ethically questionable for both parties) exchange of sex for something, and being threatened into sex? And did you also not read the part where I pointed out that he was accused and convicted of rape, i.e forcibly having sex with someone against their will?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/21 11:12 PM
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First of all, 20 women accused Weinstein of rape, i.e. sex by force. And he was convicted of rape in NY. Second of all, Harvey Weinstein didn’t just accept the offers of women who wanted to exchange sex for career success, he pressured women into sex by threatening their careers. There’s a massive difference between accepting an offer of sex for career advancement and saying “have sex with me or your career is over”. Pretending that women aren’t sexually harassed, assaulted, and raped by men in …
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/21 10:25 PM
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The fact that somebody decided to disrespect me is enough of a reason to beat somebody up This is not how real men behave. Real men are sure of themselves and secure enough in themselves that they don’t let someone else’s words or actions rile them up enough to fight them. The guys that want to fight over any perceived slight are extremely insecure about themselves, and so they always feel like they must prove themselves to others by showing how tough they are. You just look like a fool when you…
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:57 PM
1

The idea that you need to physically beat someone up for any perceived slight against you stems from a place of deep-seated insecurity about your own self-worth. I suggest you work on that.
/r/seduction21/12/21 08:45 PM
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You come from an insecure and childish background then.
/r/seduction21/12/21 02:56 PM
1

OP, don’t take advice from guys who call women “females”.
/r/seduction16/12/21 02:39 PM
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The point of the article is that to have a happy relationship you need to be able to truly be happy being single. If you’re not happy because you can’t find a partner, then when you do you will be relying on that person for your happiness. That is an unhealthy relationship and an unfair burden to put onto someone else. This is simply saying, in many more words, that you should not rely on others for your happiness, you should rely on yourself for it.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:18 PM
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I’m not following. OSHA has no authority outside the US.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 03:43 AM
1

OSHA? Lol what?
/r/MensRights10/12/21 02:50 AM
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What country are you in?
/r/MensRights09/12/21 02:31 PM
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This is in Australia, doesn’t surprise me one bit.
/r/MensRights07/12/21 08:38 PM
5

Why is “whereas” written in all caps multiple times?
/r/MensRights04/12/21 04:15 PM
2

Did you think it was a scam or something at first?
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:03 PM
1

That’s great but you are still completely wrong lmao.
/r/MensRights30/11/21 02:43 PM
1

You tried to do something there but you failed :(
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/21 12:16 AM
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No guns zones are absolutely policies of private entities. Please go sue a company for infringing on your 1st amendment right or 2nd amendment right. Tell me how that goes lmao.
/r/MensRights30/11/21 12:14 AM
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It’s a straight up people repellant. You may like it, but everyone else around you hates it. It’s loud, annoying, obnoxious, and inconsiderate to those around you. Nobody thinks you’re cool because your shitty honda civic can be heard 5 blocks away.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/11/21 05:03 PM
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No it doesn’t. Companies can and do “infringe” on your constitutional rights. That’s why private companies can refuse to allow firearms on their premises, or fire you for what you say or post on social media, for example. You are so confidently wrong it’s laughable.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 04:22 PM
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If social media companies discriminate against men, or any protected class, then you could still, under current law, sue them for that. The first amendment does not apply to private entities, it applies only to government, as does the rest of the constitution. The first amendment actually protects the right of social media companies to police their own platforms however they wish to. Your understanding of the constitution is just utterly wrong.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 04:13 PM
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It does mean that though. You simply don’t understand the concept of free speech. If you can sue me for my opinion and the government enforces that suit then I don’t actually have freedom of speech. Each and every single post does not go through a check before being allowed to post because that is just impractical. Your understanding of how posting on social media platforms is wrong.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 02:15 PM
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No. Free speech means the freedom to speak and to not speak. It also means the freedom to not have to host speech you don’t like, whether that speech is correct or not. Social media companies are private entities and can police their platforms however they want. If you don’t like it you don’t have to use their platforms.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 01:52 PM
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You are so cringy.
/r/seduction27/11/21 02:17 AM
1

To be honest with you, I see and hear it all the time.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 03:30 PM
1

My only point is that women can wear whatever they want and that doesn’t give men, or anyone, an excuse to sexually harass them. Same goes for men. No I don’t think women can complain about guys looking at them or politely expressing interest when they dress in a sexually provocative way either. But I was pointing out that most women don’t. The complaints I most often hear are about crude comments and inappropriate behavior.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 03:24 PM
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No dude. You clearly just have a lot of hate towards women for some reason. That’s not what this sub is about. This sub is about bringing attention to issues and injustices men face, not about hating women. And again. Most women are not complaining about being looked at. They’re complaining about being harassed. These are two completely different things.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 03:04 PM
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I just want to highlight to everyone reading this that this guy thinks we should ban women from wearing certain clothing out in public.. This is what this sub is becoming. We need to fight against this. It is you who is disgusting sir.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 02:23 PM
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Ugh this post is just so stupid and I can’t believe people are agreeing with this. The attention most women complain about is catcalling, lewd comments, and harassment (e.g. not accepting rejection). Most women are not complaining about guys politely hitting on them in bars, even if they’re not interested in them. They’re complaining about guys who come up to them and say stupid shit like “Wanna fuck?” or “I wanna motorboat then titties” or just straight up grab their ass. They’re complaining ab…
/r/MensRights19/11/21 08:27 PM
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Dude you’re clearly on this sub for the wrong reasons and it’s people like you who give us a bad name.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 02:42 PM
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Is this really what this sub has come to?
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:51 AM
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Go up and introduce yourself. Tell her you think she looks nice and that you’d like to hang out/get to know her better sometime.
/r/seduction09/11/21 04:57 PM
9

Just move on. If she’s flaking on you twice in a row for no real reason then she clearly doesn’t respect you or your time. You don’t need to put up with that.
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:22 PM
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Wow if only we evolved something that lets us communicate our thoughts and feelings to another human being easily. Seriously though. That thing is called your mouth and language. Just tell her.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:28 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:25 PM
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Thank god someone fucking gets it.
/r/seduction24/10/21 05:22 PM
1

You’re only 20 my guy so that’s the good news! I know it seems like it might be “too late” but it’s just the opposite. You have your entire life ahead of you and at least 10 years of being young. And it’s not like life ends at 30 either. Also you’re in college, you learn other languages, and you can repair cars. You’ve already got a lot going for you dude, so be proud of that and keep doing that! You just need to improve your social skills, and that’s totally okay. Plenty of people, in fact I’d …
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:27 AM
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No I never noticed that because it almost never happens. I seriously think I have gone my entire life without hearing a woman refer to a man as a male, and especially in the context of dating. Calling women females just makes you sound like an absolute idiot.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:04 AM
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Bruh stop calling women females.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:31 PM
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If a woman is in a hurry she’ll be more annoyed that you wasted her time by asking for directions you didn’t need than she will be by you just shooting your shot. Sure the whole asking directions thing works for some guys, but I really just think it’s just not genuine and a waste of time.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:29 AM
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No problem. I’ve needed it myself.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:26 AM
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Why are you asking for directions? Stop beating around the bush. Be a man and be forward. And by “forward” I do not mean creepy or pushy. So avoid calling her strong words like “sexy” or “hot” or saying “I want to fuck you”. But do immediately express your interest in her, in a polite way. Go up to her and say something along the lines of “you looked nice so I want to get to know you a little bit”. Comment on something she’s wearing (again, nothing creepy or strong). “You look like a hip hop dan…
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:56 PM
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Can we have a little more context here? Do you know this girl? How have you had her number for 5-6 months and not texted her? Why have you spent so long hung up on this one girl? That may be kind of weird depending on the situation. Also I really need to push back on your “throw her ass to the curb” mentality as this sounds like you’re mad at her because she didn’t answer your text. This is not a healthy way to respond to situations like this. Just because some random guy texted her out of the b…
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:41 PM
2

“Only on Tuesdays”
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:32 PM
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The advice in this comment went right over your head. The point was that you should socialize and make connections with everyone, not just women you want to fuck. This not only makes your life happier and fuller on its own, because we are social creatures who enjoy social interactions, but it also makes you more attractive to women.
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:40 PM
3

Dude you clearly just don’t understand women, or other human beings in general. You need to get outside more.
/r/seduction03/10/21 11:16 PM
2

Nobody “wants” sex more. Women just generally have more and easier access to sex because in our current society men are generally expected to be the ones to pursue women.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:46 PM
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Nobody said women and men are the same. But both women and men have emotions and desire sex and emotional intimacy. Look bud this is golden advice right here I literally laughed reading this. This is shit advice. Male/female relationships are not just power struggles where parties withhold something from the other party. At least not healthy ones. This is such an absurd and warped view that I really feel sorry for you.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:43 PM
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Women don’t want to be in sexless relationships either…..
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:37 PM
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Jesus christ what a stupid take. Women want sex because they enjoy it just like men want sex because they enjoy it. Some women want commitment just like some men want commitment too. Different people want different things and your goal should be to find women who want the same thing as you, and want that from you. You’ve read too much PUA bullshit.
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:36 PM
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Don’t bring it up. If she brings it up then say something along the lines of “yea that wasn’t cool”. And then move on. Treat her as just a coworker. Don’t sulk or ignore her or do anything passive aggressive because that’s immature. Her ignoring you day of after scheduling a date is just blatant disrespect. Unless she’s literally in the hospital there is just no excuse for this. A simple “hey I’m not up for it anymore” is the proper way to go when you change your mind or if something comes up. H…
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:13 PM
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Dude WHAT!? You mustered up the courage to confide in her that you were raped and she tried to say “it’s not the same” and you don’t know what it’s like to “be violated”. Forget all the feminist bullshit. That in and of itself should make you run far away. You opened up and made yourself extremely vulnerable to her and she showed zero empathy and belittled you. That is not who you want as a partner. She is a self-centered asshole. Feminism is just what she uses to excuse her behavior. She doesn’…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 01:32 PM
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No it’s literally not for the reasons I laid out above which you didn’t address. Clearly I was not referring to a regular zit but was making a hypothetical comparison which obviously went over your head.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 03:30 AM
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The two are not really comparable. For one both conjoined twins depend on each other for survival. This is not the case for a mother and a fetus inside her. Conjoined twins have also been conjoined from birth, and in many ways are, are and always have been, one entity. A woman has been an autonomous person her entire life, it’s later in her life that a fetus grows in her body. The fetus has not always been prt of her body. This is really a poor comparison. A better comparison would be if you wen…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 12:22 AM
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Children can most certainly physically survive on their own without needing to be in a womb, you seem to have not understood what I meant by “physically”. I’m not sure what you’re getting at with conjoined twins.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 07:37 PM
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You’re being semantic here. Human fetuses are incapable of physically surviving outside the womb before viability. And before a certain point they are incapable of any kind of thought and at inception they don’t resemble anything remotely human. Therefore we do not offer them the same legal protections as humans that are not fetuses, particularly because they are within another human’s body who does have full legal protections and autonomy over their own body.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 06:58 PM
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Latin? Really? That’s your argument? Lmao. A human fetus is not a full human.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 04:48 PM
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No it’s not.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 04:34 PM
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Yea women can totally go around shooting kids in the head without any repercussions! /s
/r/MensRights02/09/21 02:38 PM
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Plants are life on earth. You can still kill plants at your leisure. Animals are life on earth, you can still hunt. Just because something is “life” doesn’t make it a human life with fully human rights.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 02:35 PM
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The only way you’re know how to do it is by doing it. So go out there and do it and don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re not going to find some secret code on the internet and immediately go out and seduce every dime you go up to. You’re going to be awkward, you’re going to get rejected, and you’ll occasionally make a fool of yourself. Start going out to bars, solo or with friends, and make it a point to just start a conversation with any girl that catches your eye (within reason obviously). Th…
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:29 AM
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Well don’t hold out on us what’s the link
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/21 11:51 PM
1

How? Body language. Eye contact. Posture. When you go up to her face her, stand up straight, maintain strong eye contact, smile and say hi/what’s up/etc.. Idk why you seen to think being confident and relaxed are at all mutually exclusive. When you’re confident you’re relaxed. When you’re not confident you’re nervous and therefor not relaxed.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:35 PM
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Lol what? Too formal? Any simple variation of “hi what’s your name” or “hey how’s it going” is usually sufficient and is not formal at all. You have to say it with confidence but in a relaxed way, hence why I’m saying don’t try so hard. It’s hard to be relaxed if you’re so worried about what this girl will think. If a girl thinks you’re attractive and you come up and say hello 9 times out of 10 she will be happy to talk to you. If a girl thinks you’re unattractive then it usually won’t really ma…
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:46 PM
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Honestly “hi what’s your name” works for me most of the time I’ve tried it. Then just start talking to her about the bar or whatever else. You really don’t need to go up and have a zinger to start a conversation with a girl. Obviously if you actually can say something funny that comes to you in the moment, that’s great. But if you go up with the mindset that you have to say something funny you’re just gonna try too hard and that will push her away. Girls are just people and so many guys try so h…
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:27 PM
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To be fair the Taliban were extremely oppressive towards women during their rule. That’s not to say that men did not suffer too, the Taliban were oppressive and just crazy in general (IIRC they banned music and television). But women really had it especially bad. They were not allowed to go to school while men were. They were not allowed to work while men were. They were not allowed to even leave their homes without completely covering themselves and being accompanied by a male guardian at all t…
/r/MensRights24/08/21 04:17 AM
2

You already know you need to forget about her and move on. How do you do that? One of the best things you can do is talk to other women. Go out to a bar, solo or with friends, and just introduce yourself to women you find attractive. You don’t need funny openers or anything. Just a “hey how’s it goin” or “hi what’s your name”. The hardest part is overcoming your own fear. Talk to women during the daytime. Just a simple “hey I thought you looked nice so I wanted to stop and talk to you” is a good…
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:09 PM
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Hey man good on you for trying! It’s really hard to overcome that fear. I totally get the talking too fast or saying something stupid, because I have that problem too sometimes. As others have pointed out, you’re coming on too strong and too fast. Start out with something more tame like “you look nice”. Also something that has helped me immensely is intentionally trying to speak in a calm and low pitched voice. By that I don’t making your voice deeper than it is. But you know when you get excite…
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:40 PM
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This is a great outlook!
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:02 AM
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This is a toxic attitude. Don’t be this guy OP.
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:43 PM
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Good job on getting over the anxiety! What I would suggest though is that you avoid approaching women at work, especially in the service industry. At least not as directly as you did it. She was your server and she kind of has to be nice to you and talk to you, so you really put her on the spot when you asked her out. That’s why I stick to approaching women at a bar/social event or on the street in public, because they don’t need to talk to you and can walk away at any time. Next time just talk …
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:41 PM
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What do you mean by “collaborating witnesses”?
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:56 PM
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No you didn’t. This is pointless and ridiculous. You need to re-think your world view.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:08 AM
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Testimony from multiple witnesses is very much reliable unless, and the more witnesses from more backgrounds the more reliable that is. Disregarding testimony is an absolutely ridiculous standard in sexual harassment and assault cases because, again, that’s typically the only available evidence even in 100% legit cases. Should one woman accusing a man of something be immediately taken as proof of guilt? No. Should multiple women coming forward with multiple corroborating witnesses backing up the…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:56 AM
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Idk wasn’t there an entire investigation that interviewed a bunch of witnesses that corroborated multiple stories? Besides video evidence, which is extremely rare to have in such a case, that’s all you’re really gonna get in any sexual harassment or assault case, even a 100% legitimate one. I agree that such claims should be intensely scrutinized but I also think jumping out and immediately calling any sexual harassment or assault accusation false is a problem. In this case, there is substantial…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:05 AM
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Why is this labeled as a false accusation?
/r/MensRights04/08/21 10:38 PM
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I highly doubt that a concerned citizen reporting “a man with a child” would hold up as reasonable suspicion in a court of law.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 01:42 AM
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For a person to be detained there needs to be reasonable suspicion of a crime. A man eating ice cream with a child is not that at all.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 12:52 AM
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The police? For touching the boy and traumatizing him? It’s definitely a long shot, but better than not putting up a fight at all. Maybe a local newspaper will pick it up if he’s lucky and maybe shed some light on these kinds of issues. Doing something is better than doing nothing.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 12:50 AM
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Lodge a formal complaint. This is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 12:49 AM
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This is just a woman-bashing post. Women are able to do this because men pay them to lol. It’s simple supply and demand. Also I think you’re underestimating the social aspect of doing that for a living. Also don’t pretend a similar amount of men wouldn’t do it too if they could make the same amount of money.
/r/MensRights02/08/21 08:02 PM
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You don’t owe her a friendship anymore than she owes you a relationship or sex. Just be honest with her. Tell her you don’t want to be just friends. Tell her you can’t pretend to be okay with just being friends because you will want it to be more and that’s not what real friendship is. That wouldn’t be fair to her or you. And then actually do that. Stop being friends with her. Don’t expect her to come running to you. There is very little chance she will. Just move on, work on yourself, and talk …
/r/seduction21/07/21 11:34 PM
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Ehhh not really. I’ve had sex with girls who I’m not that attracted to and it’s nowhere near as much fun or as enjoyable. It feels like I’m just faking it. Then I nut and I’m like “why am I with this girl”. It’s just not worth it imo. When I’m with a girl I’m attracted to it’s just so much more passionate and enjoyable, both during and after. In fact when I’m with a girl I find attractive I enjoy the post sex cuddling, kissing, and touching almost as much as the sex itself. That’s why I only go …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:09 PM
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OP this is the best advice, follow it!
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:03 PM
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Dude are you new to this sub? There’s plenty of guys who do daygame on here. There’s mass amounts of videos on youtube of guys doing it and being wildly successful. There are a massive amount of guys who are successful at this. You don’t need to limit yourself to bars or your social circle, because you’re limiting the amount of women and type of women you’ll meet. You’re just scared of rejection lol, do you.
/r/seduction11/07/21 10:00 PM
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Rejection is not humiliation lmfao. This is such a dumb mindset. You should stop caring so much about what other people, especially strangers, think about you. All the guys you see seamlessly talking to and picking up women probably still get rejected all the time, and I’m sure they’ve felt humiliated at some point. Yet without that rejection they never would have learned what works and built confidence.
/r/seduction11/07/21 05:30 PM
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I mean what’s so bad about what happened? So she made a disgusted face. So what? He’s never going to see her again. She’ll probably forget about him in a bit, and he’ll forget her. Nothing happened to him. He didn’t die. The sky didn’t fall. Life just goes on lol. I don’t see the big deal. OP I wish I had the balls you have at 18!
/r/seduction11/07/21 02:30 PM
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I’ve also had a girlfriend and sexual partners before, so I guess I assumed just as much as you did. The only sexist explanation here is your continued insistence on gendering a negative word specifically towards men, when a gender neutral and actual word for what you’re trying to convey already exists. But thank you for further demonstrating your sexism by continuing to use it. My opinion is as valid as anyone else’s here Except yours Your cognitive dissonance here made me lol. Please point me …
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:43 AM
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By gendering the word patronizing specifically to men you’re implying that only men patronize others. That is untrue and is just plain sexist. That’s an irritating trait you may want to reconsider if you ever actually want to be successful at attracting a mate. It’s clear you’re here to offer up your warped and idiotic view on things you don’t understand. This is evidenced by your clear lack of understanding of what I meant by “non-overt advances”. If you had spent any time actually reading thin…
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:05 AM
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The word you are looking for is “patronize”. Stop gendering words that don’t need to be gendered. Can you hear yourself? Again, plenty of people meet their SOs in a provider-client setting or just at work. There’s nothing wrong with that. And trying to make it sound like men are the only ones who do that and implying they need to be shamed for it just makes you sound like a sexist moron. Why the hell are you even on this sub?
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:44 AM
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Yea definitely a big difference here my guy. According to the post the guy is just walking around the house with boxer shorts. In the other post the girl is in her own room with her door shut, where she has a reasonable expectation of much more privacy.
/r/MensRights03/07/21 05:07 PM
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I disagree. I think he made it clear that it should be light touches in line with the mood and conversation. He’s not saying you should go up and start groping women (in fact he said specifically to not do that). Rather when you’re flirting with a girl and she’s into it you should work in non-sexual touches on the arm or elbow, and if she responds well maybe escalate a little to touches on the stomach or something like that. Idk why it needs to be clarified that “touch women” doesn’t mean “go up…
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:27 PM
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I send that text to both male and female friends. Typically if they’re driving home. I actually just want to make sure they got home safely. Especially if they’ve been drinking a bit. Doesn’t really have anything to do with gender for me.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 09:14 PM
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Dismissing anything that isn’t bashing women as “feminist dogma and ideology” and “feminist mantra” isn’t going to get you anywhere. I didn’t repeat anything and I never called women victims. You’re not even arguing the point anymore, more proof you’re just completely wrong. I see you’ve commented that whole “fourth of the epithets” bit before. It doesn’t make you look smart. It makes you look like an idiot who thinks he can come off as smart by using big words but not actually saying anything o…
/r/MensRights26/06/21 10:51 PM
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They are readily available to fathers though. And simply re-copying and pasting quotes that you already shared before doesn’t make that not so. You’re just completely wrong here.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 03:28 PM
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Because until the fetus is viable it’s not a human and therefore not a child, and thus it is the woman’s body.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 07:58 PM
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Do you have a scientific source for this?
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:08 PM
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Something that can be beneficial is more experience, which can translate to much better sex, which can translate to a happier and healthier relationship. Obviously this does not mean that people who have “low” body counts can’t have good sex or happy relationships.
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:50 PM
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Perhaps you’d be so kind to point to where I said they were... Yes right here: None of these options are readily available to the fathers of children How is ensuring men have access to and the right to exercise those legal parental rights as the mothers of their children being 'unfair' to women? It’s not, I never said it was, and I in fact said that in my last comment. But that’s not the point I was referring to. You said: There is or should not be any ‘cutoff’ point for the father, as there is …
/r/MensRights25/06/21 12:43 PM
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Do those laws also not apply to men? Can mothers give up children for adoption without the consent of the father? Can a mother simply kidnap her child from the home and drop it off at safe haven without telling the father?
/r/MensRights25/06/21 12:46 AM
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Yes. It is. No. It's not. Viability in the context of pregnancy is the point at which the child can survive on its own outside of the womb. This is generally the cutoff for abortion outlined by the legal statutes you mention. I.e. it is illegal to abort a child past this point. Whatever the cut-off is for abortion is, that should be the same cut-off for fathers denying financial responsibility. That, again, is my point which you clearly missed in your effort to sound smart by defining things whi…
/r/MensRights25/06/21 12:44 AM
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Lol what? What are you talking about? That’s not irrelevant. If a mother has an abortion then she has no more parental responsibility because that child no longer exists? If she births the child then she can’t just throw it away whenever she feels like it. So she can not just poof and give up responsibility. She is legally responsible for the child. So I’m not seeing the point you’re making here. Honestly you’re making zero sense.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 11:45 PM
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But there is a cut-off point for mothers? It’s viability. In most states this is around 26 weeks if I’m not mistaken. My point is the father should not be able to financially opt out once the mother can no longer legally have an abortion. This is fair and I don’t see a problem with it. It is simply also giving the mother the chance to make a sound decision about whether she wants to birth the child or not. Whether or not the father will help pay for that child’s upbringing would be an important …
/r/MensRights24/06/21 11:28 PM
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A father can and should have rights. However that should not be veto power over abortions, which amounts to control of the woman’a body. Fathers should be able to opt out of financial responsibility for the child before a certain point. Obviously this would also mean the father gives up any parental rights. This is the most fair way to go about this for both men and women. The mother has sole authority over whether to birth the child or not, and the father has sole authority over whether he want…
/r/MensRights24/06/21 10:47 PM
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Just because you don’t like talking to men at the gym doesn’t mean all women don’t. If you don’t want to talk to someone then just say so when they start talking to you. Obviously I agree it’s wrong if they keep talking to you after that. But criticizing someone for even daring to speak to a woman at the gym is just absurd. Plenty of people met their SOs at the gym or some other “normal” place you’d probably also criticize men for talking to women. Unless he raped a girl, then all 70 of his “con…
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:35 PM
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This is disgusting.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 01:17 AM
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r/thatHappened
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:51 PM
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Yea don’t do this.
/r/seduction20/06/21 02:45 PM
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Many states have been fully re-opened for at least a month now.
/r/seduction20/06/21 02:44 PM
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I’m sorry but I just don’t think children should be undergoing sex changes. That is a huge decision and the risk that they’ll regret it later in life is far greater for a child than for an adult. Children are way too easily influenced.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 04:03 PM
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You need to contact a lawyer immediately.
/r/MensRights06/06/21 02:23 PM
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Your first sentence makes no sense. You’re again pointing out a way in which men were and still are discriminated against and then using that to say that women were never oppressed. Again, this isn’t zero-sum. The idea that voting was or is tied to conscription has no basis in fact or history. Conscription only covers 17-45 year olds under federal law, yet men 45+ are still allowed to vote. You don’t lose your right to vote if you are disabled at birth or otherwise unfit for military service. Fe…
/r/MensRights06/06/21 02:09 PM
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Just in case you didn't understand what was ridiculous. It's this: being conscripted to fight and die as the price for voting You're giving an example of men being treated unequally and drawing a conclusion of "women were never oppressed because men were/are discriminated against" from that. Hardly an "irrefutable example". Again, this isn't a zero-sum game. Men and women can both be oppressed and discriminated against in different ways and at the same time.
/r/MensRights05/06/21 08:41 PM
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What an absolutely absurd statement. Not being allowed to vote is being oppressed, other gendered benefits notwithstanding. Sometimes I really worry for people on this sub.
/r/MensRights05/06/21 07:23 PM
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Dis I say 70 years ago? You said Women were not oppressed period. Maybe learn how to express your thoughts with nuance?
/r/MensRights05/06/21 02:49 PM
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How is being barred from voting not oppression? We can fight against discrimination against men without discounting the fact that women were oppressed and are still discriminated against in some cases. It’s not a zero-sum game.
/r/MensRights05/06/21 02:47 PM
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Hey man. The way to condemn sexism is not with more sexism.
/r/MensRights16/05/21 09:02 PM
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Dude gtfo outta here with that sexist bs. This is a sub dedicated to talking about issues that men face in society, not a place for backwards woman-hating attitudes. People like you give this sub a bad name. Be better.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 06:34 PM
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But he wasn’t just making a statement. That much was obvious after continuing the conversation. Please explain how I was being belligerent and rude.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 05:25 PM
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No incel typically refers to men who can’t get laid and instead of working on themselves they start hating women for it as if women owe them sex. There’s some people on this sub that are like this, and if we want to be taken seriously we need to condemn this kind of behavior.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 05:22 PM
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I was responding to his original self-pity comment. So calm down there mr keyboard warrior because you’re wrong here. He may have changed his diet but his attitude is still clearly shit.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 04:11 PM
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Yea that’s the attitude that you need to lose. If you come on here with that incel bs you will get called out.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 03:33 PM
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Downvote me all you want this is the truth it sounds like you need to hear.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 03:28 PM
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Then keep at it. You’re not going to achieve your goals in a month. And lose that attitude. You’re not going to have any kind of success in dating, or life in general, with that woe-is-me attitude.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 03:25 PM
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You either need to keep at it or try harder. 30 days isn’t shit. Take a look at your diet maybe? Drink only water and nothing else. It doesn’t matter how much you exercise, if you’re not running a caloric deficit you won’t lose weight. Remaining thin is a matter of lifestyle. I don’t know you or your lifestyle, so these are all just guesses. But countless others have done it, so can you. Don’t fall into the trap of self-pity, nothing good will come of it.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 03:22 PM
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You can lose weight and make yourself more attractive if you actually tried. Exercise, grooming, and how you dress go a long way. So does confidence. Wallowing in self pity isn’t going to make your life better.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 03:15 PM
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Ehhh to be fair he was specifically barred from communicating with his ex and “her dependents”. I don’t know the merits of that order, but the headline is misleading.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 02:28 PM
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It’s morons like you who give us a bad name. Get the fuck off this sub.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 10:47 PM
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“What motivates you to support men’s rights?”. Is this a serious question? Can you not see how absurd this sounds? Maybe because we support equality? Would you seriously ask someone why they support women’s rights?
/r/MensRights03/04/21 09:31 PM
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Why was there no option for legal until viability (which is around 26 weeks), which is currently the law in the US? This honestly seems the most reasonable approach to abortion. At viability, the fetus/baby can survive on its own outside the womb and is thus considered fully human and is entitled to the same protections as other humans, so you can’t have an abortion after because the baby’s right to life prevails over the mothers right to bodily autonomy. Before viability the fetus is not fully …
/r/MensRights01/04/21 02:45 PM
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Idk man there’s plenty of families, particularly in the south, that still have very outdated views on gender roles. Obviously she could be lying or omitting something, but if what she says is taken at face value I get what she’s saying and her frustration. It seems like they just expect her to drop everything to come back and take care of her home. Also yea your parents aren’t obligated to pay for your college, but paying for one child and not the other is not really fair and is a clear sign of …
/r/MensRights23/02/21 01:01 AM
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