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My overall tinder experience has been satisfactory. Although the first date was with this gorgeous girl who was really nice but she was super bottom heavy. That's when I figured out girls who only have facial profiles are usually hiding something.
/r/seduction14/03/16 08:44 PM
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Well, if you were 5"10, you'd want to be 6'2.. then you'd want to be slimmer, then you'd want more hair on your head... then you'd want.. etc.. Focus on things you can change, not what you can't.
/r/seduction12/02/16 03:36 PM
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From the story you've told, it really seems you are lacking some self confidence which is probably the root why you're hesitating. THIS IS OKAY! Why? Because you can CHANGE! Confidence is a state of mind. It's not hard coded. You can work on this. No to surprise, start with going to the gym. Get a personal trainer. You're 34 and have a career then it's money well spent. People who don't go to the gym don't understand this... but it's not only about looking good, it's the confidence that comes wi…
/r/seduction12/02/16 02:25 PM
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Rome wasn't build in a day. Rather than whining about it, do something about it. Learn how to dress, work out, pick up a hobby do something constructive, bit by bit you'll start building a better you. Let the haters hate, don't worry about them. When you look back on how far you've become and reflect on the tough times and how you got through it... that my friend, is living. Life is a beautiful struggle. Only when you stop caring about how you're perceived in other people's eyes and do things fo…
/r/seduction09/02/15 04:53 PM
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hug? I find that so weird, i consider hugging 'friendly' and if a girl came up to me and hugged me when I first met her, I'd honestly kinda freak out lol. Cheek to cheek hasn't failed me ever.
/r/seduction05/11/14 07:58 PM
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It goes back to my initial comment. By asking her questions you're directing the conversation to whatever you want. By answering a question you're simply reacting to whatever is asked. That's why I always, always ask tons of questions so I can gauge the girl. Less is more. Your eye contact, smile and confidence communicate much more effectively than your voice.
/r/seduction04/07/14 03:19 PM
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I respectfully disagree. The one who isn't talking is controlling the conversation.
/r/seduction03/07/14 05:41 PM
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Just ask questions, keep asking questions until you find something you're both interested in talking about... It doesn't matter if you're quiet or not, but women enjoy talking about their thoughts, what happened in their day and everything in between (technically who doesn't) so keep hammering out questions. Try to ask her questions which you might have a story about or know about the subject and the conversation continues like that. Getting 'along' with girls isn't the same as them being attrac…
/r/seduction03/07/14 12:03 PM
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