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It sounds like her frame of mind has changed pretty drastically, either she is truly disinterested or trying to mindfuck you with games to get you under control. It sounds to me like a lot of undue stress. You know how to keep your cool and do what's right for you. I think you pointed out clearly that you keep lowering your value and she keeps ignoring you. Also you state that you want more control over the situation. You can't get that kind of control, even in a happy marriage sometimes shit wi…
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:59 PM
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I trust that your good efforts will soon pay off and you'll find an awesome group of friends + a girl you're interested in. If you ever get discouraged after making an attempt feel free to message me here and I'll remind you of how far you've come and how much better you're doing than most guys out there.
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:50 PM
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You're making sense. I'm making an assumption here based off of our limited conversation, but it could be that you're too interested in just getting your ego boost + sexy pics and not invested enough in her as an awesome 10 that she is. What I mean is that it may be worth your while to reinvest in her on a more meaningful level and be the part of her life that she wants you to be via text messages. If that's too much to ask, maybe it's time to let her go find something real and see how it plays …
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:17 PM
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I put in my two cents above, hopefully that helps. If it's not specific enough to help your situation let me know and I'll be glad to help further.
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:08 PM
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You: "How's your day?" Her: (sends tits) Seems like a low investment for what you want! But really, it's going to be difficult to maintain what you want from this situation. Are you trying to string her along just for the tits?
/r/seduction18/05/16 09:38 PM
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Being social is difficult, especially in an environment such as the one you're in. So far it sounds like you're doing much better than most people would do in that context. Keep this in mind when you get discouraged, you're doing great compared to where you were before. You're going to have to keep at it and build up a tolerance for the negative outcomes and find ways to practice resiliency after a negative experience. Remember, even the smoothest, handsomest mother fuckers will run into brick w…
/r/seduction18/05/16 09:33 PM
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If you like this girl, and you like where things are going, why not? Are you worried about balancing being aloof and being invested? Give us more data to work with.
/r/seduction18/05/16 09:23 PM
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It's difficult to offer the correct advice without knowing a lot more about your situation, but here goes: You're already genuinely curious about who they are, and that's a good thing. From what I gather you're looking to add sexuality to that. Practice getting in touch with a feeling of being sexually aroused. Similar to meditating, clear your mind, focus on your breathing, then conjure up an idea or experience that gets you feeling sexy. While you're doing this, feel your body and notice if yo…
/r/seduction18/05/16 09:15 PM
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What do you need help with?
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:54 PM
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What's preventing you from starting a conversation with these girls?
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:49 PM
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So to clarify, you're meeting women you find attractive but that you're not necessarily feeling sexual toward, then you find out that you are interested in them but it's too late because you didn't build up any sexual tension? I am trying to clarify because you state that you're okay being a guy who doesn't care about sex as much as the next guy, but that if you were more sexual upfront you'd have more success. So what is success to you? Let me know and I'll try to help.
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:05 PM
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Elaborate please.
/r/seduction04/05/16 03:05 AM
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I agree, glad you found your groove. I'm trying to find out what books, programs, etc didn't work for you before you got to where you are, or even that you currently disagree with. Got any?
/r/seduction03/05/16 10:35 PM
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I should have worded my question differently. I should have asked specifically to guys who aren't where they want to be or doing what they want to do, "What hasn't worked?" I totally agree with you, however I really was looking for what didn't work, can you tell me about some books or programs that just didn't work for you? Thanks :)
/r/seduction03/05/16 10:34 PM
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Yes the self-sabotage was strong with this one because of the context. It's getting easier though, thanks for the input.
/r/seduction01/12/15 08:24 PM
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