mattpayne Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Beyond pickup – 20 Psychological Life Hacks that can help you gain Advantage in Social Situations I think so. Can't get there. Edit: Got there but it took a while LoL	/r/seduction	16/06/14 05:24 PM
1	Not a seduction question, but when I see a really pretty girl, I don't fantasize about "banging" her. I crave other forms of intimacy. He's like 30 LoL and a father to three.	/r/seduction	09/06/14 01:14 PM
22	Not a seduction question, but when I see a really pretty girl, I don't fantasize about "banging" her. I crave other forms of intimacy. That's what I said. "How would I look her in the eye after that?" A buddy's response was, "Who's lookin' at her fuckin' eyes?" Still pisses me off. This is the mother of his child.	/r/seduction	05/06/14 08:54 PM
2	Not a seduction question, but when I see a really pretty girl, I don't fantasize about "banging" her. I crave other forms of intimacy. You seem more normal and healthy than the more outspoken ones who claim to wanna "bang chicks." For them it's a masculine conquest thing, nothing to do with intimacy. There's a strong correlation between sex and power. However, there's also a strong correlation between solidarity and power!	/r/seduction	05/06/14 06:45 PM
54	Not a seduction question, but when I see a really pretty girl, I don't fantasize about "banging" her. I crave other forms of intimacy. I had a friend try to show me nudie pictures of his wife, who is a friend of mine. He was showing them to the whole lunch table at work. I fucking wouldn't look and everybody got pissed. "What are you gay?" But these people are desperate to prove their manliness.	/r/seduction	05/06/14 06:44 PM
3	How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same time Seems like OP's got a conscience, and his friend's cognitive dissonance is causing him some of his own cognitive dissonance. It's hard to be a guy, it's even harder to be a decent guy who is able to get what he wants.	/r/seduction	04/04/14 10:26 PM
1	I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspective Thanks	/r/seduction	02/04/14 04:02 PM
2	Question on emotional honesty vs. complaining State clearly that it was "a little bit odd" and give her the opportunity to bridge the gap? Then take it from there?	/r/seduction	31/03/14 02:59 PM
1	How do I keep abundance mentality? When the truth is I just really want to go on a date! I respect that, and I think "seduction techniques" are not the best way. Just keep introducing yourself to girls, and people in general. Make some good jokes, have fun with life, and be constantly brave! Fear and doubt are your only enemies. Conversations, pursuing your passions, sharing stuff with people, and being brave are all your friends! Also, if you are in a place without many women, find ways to hand out with more people. Also, ask some girls out! It's fun to date, even when it "leads to…	/r/seduction	30/03/14 08:46 PM
2	How do I keep abundance mentality? When the truth is I just really want to go on a date! Just make a personal connection. What are your goals? Relationships? Do you want partners in your ambitions? Or are you just trying to get laid? Don't let seduction techniques drag you into "the game" at such a young age. If you've got all this stuff going on, maybe you need a girl with the same kind of abundant personality as you. Just keep going for it and making connections.	/r/seduction	30/03/14 08:23 PM
3	You and a girl are at a music venue. Older, more attractive, and more "alpha" dude walks up and starts hitting on the girl. What do you do? Wow. Wisdom.	/r/seduction	28/03/14 10:23 PM
1	Im a 28 yo virgin who has hit rock bottom. looking to begin this journey and am in serious need of encouragement/motivation. any at all LoL. It seemed out of place. Humour doesn't always come across on the net.	/r/seduction	28/03/14 07:20 PM
1	Im a 28 yo virgin who has hit rock bottom. looking to begin this journey and am in serious need of encouragement/motivation. any at all Thanks for having the guts to post this. I can relate. But don't call it a "bitch's pussy," LoL. Be more respectful.	/r/seduction	28/03/14 11:58 AM