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| 1 | Need help to stop this urge to find women for sex.Now you're on the right track. Read the Book of Pook. Read the predatory female, rev shannon. Read female psychology for the avg man, Joe south. You were conditioned regarding the ethics, and perhaps that conditioning led to being used. At 31, the sex drive is formative. It's when you hit you're 60s like me you truly don't give a F. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 05:21 AM |
| 1 | I’m losing interest in ever wanting to be in a relationship again after my divorceYou used to idealized relationships etc.... that why it's called the blue pill. You are trapped in the notions of romantic courtly love which is conditioning from an early age so that you behave, think and conform to expectations that benefit society. Try dating for fun and not giving a duck. You have to rewire your brain becuase it ain't right. Youmight want to start with a guy on you tube, skills of attraction. He's good. I also sugguest you read the predatory female by rev shannon, and the ma… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 12:00 AM |
| 4 | There's hope.Awesome. Ghost her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 11:45 PM |
| 6 | I’m Slipping: Getting Myself into TherapyYou know what you're doing. Great job on no contact, blocking, doing your own thing. Never let her back. She wants you as a continued support system. That's how they think. Life is ducking hard. Accept it. You're handling it great. Stay on that path. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Talk me out of it.You should go hard core no contact to demonstrate strength. It's the only thing they understand. How much she's hurt you, will come off like a girl. After a good 1-2 years of no contact, you will snap that emotional bound. You are operating from extreme weakness in your post, that smacks of a 1970s love ballad that contributed to putting men in this bind. Don't Ducking do it. It's the wrong move which you will greatly regret in 2 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/26 05:04 AM |
| 15 | Well, now I am in the clubThis is how women work. Women are consumers of relationships. Your relationship has been consumed. Her consumed benefits was you providing for a single mother and dishing out your resources for a ready made family that wasn't yours. She found someone who she thinks can provide greater benefits by offering more. She's had this option around for a while. A back ground guy. She measured you ag this option for a while. People don't switch jobs without having a new one lined up. Up the corporate ladd… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/26 03:46 AM |
| 6 | “Are we Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook GroupsYou guys have a lot of power. Why be one of the sheep playing nice, according to their rules like a trained seal, on a dating app. If All of you guys simultaneously drop the apps and OF, what happens. You stop giving free attention in exchange for nothing. This has been turned into a biz model. Free attn lowers your value. Boycott it, your value automatically increases. Lowered supply. Facebook is the free attn homeland. Think before you leave that like or that ridiculous message . It's should f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/26 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How long to fight for a marriage? 3 years, no kidsNo. This is for finding solid long lasting ltr only. Let use a 1-100 scale. You are around 83 in being into her. You want her around 87 or higher in her emotional connection to you. This is the foundational pillar to achieve long term success. How many guys do it the opposite. They are at 90 and the girl is around 75. Then the guy claims how lucky he is. He's on a high at first, but reality hits slowly. Back in the 1940/50s you might be able to get away with this but not now. ‐‐-----‐---‐-------… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/26 03:36 AM |
| 3 | How long to fight for a marriage? 3 years, no kidsI was obsessed with her and she knew it. She was out of my league. When I read the horror stories on this sub it's pretty obvious the themajority of guys, around 80% marry the wrong girls. It's simple as that. I'm going to give you guys the foundational principle for the best shot of a solid LTR. Without this, your odds are greatly reduced. First, How many married becuse she was hot, We're any of you friendzoned first, then married in your 30s years later when she finally recognized she loved yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/26 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Ex-Wife has brought new boyfriend into our house and refuses to make him leave; Can I do anything?Well done. As Confucius said, "When husband lacks backbone, wife brings boyfriends into man's home who bought house and pays the bills." | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/26 04:05 AM |
| 14 | Does anyone else feel like "a looser" despite "winning" at most things in life?You feel like a loser bec you've lost confidence are not displaying it. You've made the mistake of allowing the gynocentric society dictate to you what is success and what's not. Success in that world is serving woman. Success in my world is playing by my rules. It's served me well. I hope you see the light. Years of conditioning is hard to shake, like it's hard to cut ties with a religion or cult | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/26 03:49 AM |
| 3 | What was the point of it all?Yes. Here is a man who is worth listening to. What he says is time old wisdom of don't follow the herd. The herd always loses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/26 03:33 AM |
| 10 | What was the point of it all?The point: you bought into a false belief system. Not until you see that clearly will you understand. Unplug from the main stream narrative. Basically it's not you. Most guys are place holders, the 'x' variable in an algebra equation. IOW some orher guy just like you could have been 'X', to solve the problem. Once you find your true role as a man, you'll no longer ask questions like this. This kind of servitude you refer was never the point. Male servitude is imposed by institutional structures … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/26 03:30 AM |
| 5 | Posting this for a friend. Just over 2 years post divorce and his ex ended up exactly where he thought she would.Biggest mistake you can make is keeping the peace. Its been said one million times it seems like a clitche, but you need to lead the show, set the agenda, rules and boundaries, provide her with positive feedback on occasion ( your occassiinal approval makes her happy and seeking more). You cannot tolerate being the house cleaner or stay at home dad. First comes the disrespect and next contempt. If sees incorrigible, confrontational, lazy, uncooperative, you have to cut losses. You can't win the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 07:44 AM |
| 1 | How to recover from a brutal divorce?It's called an uncontested divorce. Try to push this through asap. She doesn't even have to appear in court in your state. As for your savior role. This is called a 'white knight'.. somehow this has gotten into your system. Flush it out. It's deluded fantasy. Your not Sir Lancelot. It's a mind virus, planted by years of conditioning, in which your mind is its host. Single mothers tend to target white knights, btw Post you story at a web site called, 'talk about marriage'. They'll give you straig… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Affair revealPost your story on a website called "talk about marriage" in the infidelity section. Those guys will give it to you straight and what you need to hear. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 12:08 PM |
| 2 | How to recover from a brutal divorce?5 months. How many red flags during those 5 years. Sounds like you married a single mother. Youll get stuck paying for the kid for years. Your lucky your not 5 years into marriage. Dump her azz and go scorched earth no contact. That means wiping her out of your life. Biggest mistake you'll make in life is taking this one back after the new guy doesn't marry her. And her future is in her mothers home. Is there a father figure in her life? If she comes back, your the safety net. The Provider. You … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 11:44 AM |
| 3 | A little bit of hopeThe thing you missed is scorched earth no contact. After a sufficient amount of time, they realize you checked out and dgaf. The more time that passes the stronger you become and she will feel the loss of your presence (,even if that presence was a weakling) believe it or not so long as your around your still a low level possible fallback with other orbiters. As long as they think they still got you. If she corners you, Why you acting like this. You, I've moved on. We're over. Throw in, I wish w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 11:07 AM |
| 1 | I guess it's over.Most modern relations tap out inthat 5 - 15 year range, yet the men are held accountable for the extinct lifetime model. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Just found out I was the side guy💯. However a lot of guys can't pull it off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 02:24 AM |
| 11 | Here we go again. Divorce number 3This guy is following the 1970s playbook | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Celebrated our last anniversary….Bad move. You don't leave any door open. You'd do that in a business negotiation with a man, or an old guy friend with whom you had a falling out. But not women. They don't operate like this. You ghost her. Thats what gets their attn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Celebrated our last anniversary….It's about testing whether you can still be counted on. If youre still in the orbit just in case. They live in a low level state of fear thats hard for us to imagine. You're take on it is accurate about being strung along. A lot of guys fall for this crap. Better to go invisible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Move in alreadyWhat kind of a man moves right in with a woman and her kid this soon. These aren't men, they are substitutes. Resources, emotiinal, and do its. Women are afraid, thats why they do this. Men with options don't want insta families. Read the predatory female, rev shannon. There's an entire class ofmen ready and willing to serve the m atriarchy. I.e. weak beta males. They can't land younger single women, or single woman. Your ex picked this guy bec he's easy, and controllable. This guy has everythin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/25 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Dating after 1 year post divorceSkills of attraction. This guy knows his sht. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/25 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Is This The Right Mindset To Have?Chasing women is a boomer concept. Chumps do this. You pursue to get the ball running. Poor response, bad attitude, excuses, you drop like a dead weight and disappear. Never give free attention is a fundamental rule. FOUR categories of women. 1. Chick's you're not into. 2. Chick's not into you. Doesn't matter how terrific you think she is. Both categories are big Avoids. You don't become friends with women either like pals.dint waste time. Now you are in charge not your undisciplined approach st… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/25 03:40 AM |
| 5 | When your STBXW bangs someone elseThis is what they do. Its their go to becuase down deep they understand it's their primary value. Tips. You ghost. That means you are not in her life. You can't be relied upon for the stuff she relied on you for. Make her a stranger. If you have kids, keep everything short, biz, only. To a minimum. No kids - completely disappear. The longer it goes the more joyous it is. It's over from your point if view. You detach. Believe it or not once she realizes your aren't an option you become more attra… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/25 03:26 AM |
| 6 | Dating after 1 year post divorceYou don't know how to date. Your probably thinking in terms of relationships instead of just go out and have fun. If you fail to display confidence, you won't be attractive. Most of those old matches won't pan out. If you can't converse with women you have no game. Avoid being the provider male. Be the lover. Check out a guy on you tube skills of attraction. He's the best I've seen on this stuff. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Bankruptcy during divorceGo for half the practice. Bezos wife claimed she was a big part of supporting her husband. Woman play this all the time. Have proof, your written manuals, etc....pursue this claim like a junkyard dog. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/25 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Like a sap I keep falling for itYou miss her and feel powerless. That's normal. She left. Nothing you can do about it. Accept it. Your former relatiinshio is over. Detachment begins with no contact. You need to demonstrate you don't need her or even want her. No contact isn't a silver bullet or teaching a lesson. It's a reset that let's the man regain his power, strength and independence. Ex-husbands who stick around hoping for her to change mind are lowering their attractiveness in the process. Its needy behavior. And turns w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/25 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Trying to move on….Two of the alltime greats. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 01:10 AM |
| 5 | Like a sap I keep falling for itThis is how they operate. Very different from us. Partly to guage if you are still in her circle. Gauging whether you can be counted on. This works a high percentage of time. A scorched earth no contact policy. This is all we got - our main tool. It doesn't work with a chick who just wants a guy gone, like a dude whose bothering her. When us men withdraw our complete presence and support, emotional, leadership, reliability, guidance, etc.. they feel it. This is what we bring. It has great value … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Self-confidencePotential partners. Change your thinking. Be the guy who takes women out and has fun. That's it. Dont be the relationship guy. Date Multiple women once you start thinking clearly in a year or so and understand this shit. Learn how to vet them bec thats what theyre doing. A man must attract first before nice (comfort). A guy who can't attract ends up with women friends. You don't want that. . You need to convey a reserved confidence to women. But itsmore than that. Woman need to be reciprocally c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/25 12:55 PM |
| 17 | Like a sap I keep falling for itMiss her. Fella in your predicament you ghost her. There's a joy in it. She'll take a while to catch on, then she'll realize you've moved on. Eventually she'll get curious and wonder if your the same easy sap that she can count on. Then she'll get a little worried, even concerned that you may not be a viable fallback plan in case everything in her life falls apart. There's a good chance it will based on her decision making. Then your bday will come around and she'll contact you. She'll reach out… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/25 06:09 AM |
| 2 | How to navigate daughter meeting ex wife's new boyfriend?Everything you need to know is right in front of you. New guy taking on your wife and daughter to a cottage. Sounds like a provider male. Guys who are more advanced (with lots of options) in the art stay away from single mothers and wouldn't consider raising another's man's child. They don't take their chick and her daughter to cottages. Sounds like a security guy/beta bux/chump. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/25 05:23 AM |
| 10 | Lawyers…only for themselves.I'm a retired lawyer. Divorce, family law, is considered a nightmare. I handled a few easy ones early on and went no where near it as my practice grew. Its what's called in the trade shit law. Stay away from the family court, all courts for that matter. But family court is the most dangerous place any man can enter today. Far worse than a battlefield. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Keep yourself #1They are looking for a chump. Plenty of weak guys out there. Fortunately you're not one of them | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Ex wife going on big trip with new manSounds like your itching for round 2. Stop watching the hallmark channel. Its make believe. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?If it were 1843, and they were on the Oregon Trail in a covered wagon heading west to start a new life, I can assure you shed be incredibly attracted to that guy. Marriage is not a rational option for many men in this reality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?Once that stuff doesn't control you it's amazing howmuch power you have. The masters throughtout history loved them and leaved them. They didn't give a fk. Yes it requires a somewhat selfish guy to operate this way, but there is a self preservation built into it. And the irony is how crazy it makes many women, especially the hot ones. A great relationship may last 5hours, days, weeks, months, years or decades. Accept them on that basis, and its a different ballgame. She's a two time loser man. B… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 11:47 AM |
| 5 | Post Divorce GuiltThe compliment is great. Thank her. Now you ghost her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | How is it legal that I have to pay my wife’s lawyer to build a case against me while I still pay for everything elseIt's known as the severance. The final bite of the apple. The golden parachute. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How is it legal that I have to pay my wife’s lawyer to build a case against me while I still pay for everything elseMarriage: heads she wins, tails you lose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Wife filed for divorceLove conquers all. Not how women operate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 12:12 PM |
| 2 | AdviceWomen do that to test whether you are a reliable fall back plan. You should go 💯 percent invisible on her.i mean dissappear. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Going through the fear of not finding love again "phase"This sounds like something a boomer would say. The bus left you at the bus stop. Apparently you havnt gotten the memo. Check out John griffin on youtube. He might set you straight. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 11:35 AM |
| 1 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Tldr. Dating women Sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Can Older Men Succeed On Dating AppsThe dog and vacation. I was off base. I'd get off those apps. Those things are like playing 3 card Monte in NYC. Designed for women who get Tons of free attn. It's a bad place to put yourself. If I were dealing from that position, I wouldn't have gotten squat in Lauderdale. Attract first. And stick with chick's who are interested in you or who are at least maybes.. avoid chick's who give no positive signals regardless of how terrific you think they are. Square the odds better in your favor. Apps… | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Can Older Men Succeed On Dating AppsI used to pick up a lot of chick's in Lauderdale bars. Really good looking girls with hair down to their azz. Focus was on the locals during the summer not spring break which was a zoo. My place was in Hallandale. This was before the days of Miami. We used to refer to the guys in Miami as euro trash. I'd get off those apps for starters and work on attracting chick's in irl and understand how the game works. Your pics are conveying a husbandy nice guy vibe. Got to attract the first. Attract then … | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Best attempt at game so farFor the most part you did fine. An elaborate parsing of each word response is giving her far too much credit. If she was 35 not 25 she'd have met up without much issue. She's in her prime time at the moment. The last stage was pulling teeth becuase her resistance was built up. She wasn't showing when she started with the friend shit. Good move by not showing up. This is the safe zone, her frame, her rules, and a place you don't want to start from. Her attraction/interest just wasn't high enough … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/24 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Lack Of Emotional Intelligence Is What’s Halting Your GrowthI don't buy this at all. Red Pill at its core is having insights into female nature and developing viable strategies to contend with it. RP is also, and most importantly, not being Blue Pill. I agree that the enemy isn't women. What most guys don't get is that that modern women post 1980 were created by the men of our past. Our fathers, grandfathers, great gfs. They created the special treatment slopisistic entitled princesses. Failed to set boundaries , bent the knee, raised them to goddesses. … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | 💊 Guide to Ending a First Date EarlyAs I understand it some of these dating with intentions obnoxious luxury chicks will outright ask how much money you make and think nothing if it. And qualify it with, she only dates guys making X amount per year. At this point she's demonstrating that she's a prostitute. Looking to pimp out a mate to work for her. The typical weak guy might take this seriously. I propose the following response. "We'll I don't know. How much do you fuck. Are you any good in the sack or are you a plain vinella mi… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/24 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Psychology of taking action in the age of Social MediaUnless the man owns the McDonald's which used to be a a super good gig. No so much today. Re consumerism. Assume all the women in just the US disappeared for 1 yr. When they returned, they'd find Hollywood and celebrity culture destroyed and erased. Those beloved celebs would be found landscaping and working as baristas and waitresses. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/24 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Single women buying more homes than men is seen as "good" but not a growing gap that needs to be fixedGo to south America. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/24 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Single women buying more homes than men is seen as "good" but not a growing gap that needs to be fixedYour missing the point. Men aren't buying houses because they are grossly overvalued. They arent stupid. Woman buying outrageously overpriced homes with the banks money because they dont understsnd basic economics. It just feels right. Women are voluntarily entering slavery that was previously reserved for men. These single women somehow have to maintain these homes which is where the financial drain begins. Good luck ladies. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/24 08:42 AM |
| 7 | Careers worth getting into.Yep. Probably has to do with her maternal instinct where the client is her substitute child. It's a struggle to settle cases with women. Men are practical and open to do business. Meaning find a compromised settlement. Great point about LA law. Very true. I've always said women who get into law have just won the booby prize. Now their lives will center on trying to save an insurance co. money. It's sad really. What's sadder is these girls don't see it until it's too late. Another thing, this car… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/24 02:40 AM |
| 8 | Careers worth getting into.True. But theydo not practice law. Many still get the degree at a top ranked school. John Kennedy Jr. Charlie munger, a lawyer whose smartest move was hitching his wagon to a genius, Warren buffet. Munger was trading stocks on the pacific stock exchange buying undervalued stocks. Hed never have made the money he made without his buffet connection. Elites are never engaged in the daily grind of law practice. Pre 1960 they were still somewhat active in law. Post 1960 thecommon man started to enter… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 04:31 PM |
| 74 | Careers worth getting into.Retired lawyer here. Big law is loaded with beta males and women. Rule followers and yes men are preferred who suck up to senoir beta male attorneys above them.very few have ever had an original idea I'm not being dramatic when I say death beats big law. Lawyers don't make anywhere near the kind of money they are purported to make. Lots of wokeness, women judges, female colleagues, and a conformist mindset prevails. Start your practice to gain freedom you say. You better have a lucrative practic… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 09:41 AM |
| 0 | Christianity dumping menThis is a thoughtful reply and got you thinking. Dont be so fast to jump to conclusions. Maybe I'm a nut on the internet or just maybe im on the right side. You have preconceived notions that start with a primary belief. I hit a nerve with that primary belief. It's far deeper than simps from yesteryear pushing some laws through. Johnny Depp is a very weak man and didn't have a clue how to shut down his woman. That is a given. This is a big problem with Christian men. they have been programmed to… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/24 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Christianity dumping menWhat you say is accurate for the most part. But you seem to believe that an outside force created these conditions. Men did this to themselves. They voluntarily enslaved themselves to be more precise beginning in the 19th century. Men not only promoted but believed notions of romantic love and chivalry and passed it on to the younger generations. Weak men did these things for female acceptance and in doing so demonstrated weak masculine traits. In short, men can not be submissive and expect to b… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/24 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Christianity dumping menGo to the Latin mass. It's your only viable option. Your lucky this is an option. Your getting smarter. The BP is dispensed through the beliefs of romantic love and chivalry. We inherited the BP from our ties with England. It's a mind virus that is very slowly being dismantled. The churches will never abandoned this since they mold mens minds to conform with the values that benefit society. Weak complient men - betas. Men, the past generations of men, are to blame for this. Your fathers grandfat… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/24 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Coffee Is For ClosersNothing wrong with that. No one aspires to be 35 or 42 doing day game and Playing the #s game. Running around the street or park introducing youself to chick's doesn't signify higher status. Those outgoing guys at the supermarket kinda rub me the wrong way. Sugar daddy game is even more pathetic for older guys. Hey let's buy a gf. Pretty Sad. As you age, women will approach by talking to you in innocuous ways. They will never speak let alone converse with the gamma male or questionable male perc… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/24 06:57 AM |
| 2 | You guys are some entitled fucksThis should have been learned when you were 19/20 years old. Thats the world checking us. We're equivilant to spit on the street as i tellmy nephews. Look at frank sinatra being sent on stage to perform as a dottering senile old man. The producers had to tell bruce willis' family to stop bec he cant function. My uncle was an unwitting plow horse who worked till he was 89 years old to support his whale task mistress. The nicest greatest guy you ever met. But most guys held on to BP beliefs. Hey w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/24 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Things I knew when I was a teenager. (Wall of text)Law is a shit hole | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/24 04:07 AM |
| 7 | Analysis: What Happens When Men Show Women Too Much InterestYou may find yourself in a world of hurt down the road. In the future vet for HSE. The rule is only High self esteem girls for ltr. LSE is OK for short term as a general rule. Strippers, attention whores, high social media presence, are almost always LSE. Learn to recognize the difference. This is the difference between great relationships and crap. If she's threatening self harm she might be using it as a ploy instinctively, its not premeditated, to get power over you bec it works for her. Once… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Once the Old Generation is gone...I'm a year late but you suffer from the good old days fallacy. The problems facing you today were created by those great traditional men of the past. Who do you think created and reinforced the BP. those dudes didn't have 1% the understanding that you do of female nature. And if you think the grandma's back then were attracted to the men they married your fooling yourself. Life today is exponentially superior to life 250 years ago, when you'd be cannon fodder for a western monarchy; it's better … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/24 09:17 AM |
| 12 | Analysis: What Happens When Men Show Women Too Much InterestSome of the best advice I've seen here is not to frontload investment. It's a logical thing for the guy to do showing he cares. But it's usually too much where interest can become lopsided. The reason being that guys fall faster than girls. No wonder guys steeped in the BP myth keep digging a hole for themselves. A BP guy is his own biggest enemy. At some point, the girl will pull back. Its better if you do it first all of a sudden going cold. Impossible for the average guy to pull off. But Its … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/24 06:07 AM |
| 2 | What's the point?The RP has helped you a lot because you have a notion of social dynamics.so you know something is off. Your not there yet. You seem like a good guy with a really big heart. First with the 2 relationships with wealthy girls. The RP allowed you to avoid marriage bec that's what would have happened if you were under the BP spell. And brother they would have owned your azz as you catered to their every whim. Trying to placate these spoiled children and replace daddy. And theyd go fuck that hot barte… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 11:16 AM |
| 2 | King Ahab and Jezebel: A Modern Example?Churches turn budding alphas into betas. It's a training ground for nice guys and friendzone (foolzone) guys. Men are taught that women deserve special treatment through the edicts of romantic love and chivalry. A RP guy must eliminate all notions of both chivalry and romantic love. Both are con jobs designed to serve the woman's agenda. Don't think nonsense like "my better half". Through out history, churches have promoted state policy. When the masses were less educated it was all fire and bri… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 08:52 AM |
| 2 | What started your RP journeyNumber 3 is the cornerstone. Guys can't seem to figure this one out and it's so obvious. Women are the selectors. BP media conveys men as the selector which is a lie. Being BP alpha was so common during the 80s and 90s. And probably 100 years prior. This is where you'll find the white knights who are a dangerous lot. Congratulations on breaking the spell. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | What started your RP journeyI was on that site at that time giving hard wake up calls to guys. For you to get that recommendation, you were quickly recognized as a clear cut nice guy. You can't imagine the number of BP NGs who showed up there. Many were hopeless causes. Really nice to see how you have taken charge and turned things around. My go to recommendation was -- female psych for the practical man by Joe west. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/24 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How should a RPW treat simps?Simp is the guy who gives and gives receiving nothing in return. Most are virgins generally designated to the foolzone to be used like tools. The older ones tend to patronize the asian spas happy release and a lot of these dudesform relationships with the working girls who use them unmercifily for money and favors. They will Help you move, pick up at airport, take you shopping, listen to your bs, pay your bills. It's been said thst they have no game and this is true. But in reality simping is th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/24 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Dating Without Attraction: Can it work? What if the Pros outweigh the Cons?The advice your getting from your family is the advice young girls got in the 1920s. Does anyone truly belive thst our nice looking grandmothers were attracted to our grandfathers. Ah but grandpa at 25 was a stable reliable guy with a good paycheck. Times have changed . This guy doesn't do it for you. That's why you date. Girls typically friendzone these guys. Dad doesnt want to see you get hurt and find stability. Can't force what's not there. Not fair to either of you. Sometimes itd better to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/24 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Why do some women get proposed to a lot?You know too much lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/24 11:08 AM |
| 0 | I'm sorta fascinated by this text exchange and wonder what you would do differently?Lighten up ladies. You all want hv guys who are on their mission. And you want them texting you like one of your gfs. As if they have nothing better to do. Texting is for setting dates. That's where we get to know you. And are willing to give you our undivided attention. Men are pulling back on texting. Its a losing proposition for guys. Genuine Betas, distinguished from the BP alpha, will text you all day long, then they'll put you up on the pedestal. And in a week you'll ghost them bec you wan… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/24 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itMen: plumbing. Electricity, the combustion engine, mathematics, philosophy. Religion, currency, democracy. Economics, rock n roll, fire, the wheel, the great pyramids, the roman empire, fishing, sea travel, exploration, computers, the integrated cuircit, Every single bridge, house and road, gunpowder, medicine, the airplane, printing press, etc.. Women : white out (the mother of one of the guys in the music group the monkeys invented it). Ps. Madam curie's husband didmost of the heavy lifting. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | should I tell my father about the redpillOf course. The guy talking about his grandparents era is talking out his azz. Women turned men into plow horses back in those great times of lure and heroics. I was born in the 60s and alpha men willingly turned themselves into beta chumps. We had no info except the BP. It took 20 more years for a small fraction of guys to try to figure some things out. Not only were there betas back when men grew to 10 feet but there were incels too. Men lied. They didn't talk about it. They held everything in.… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | should I tell my father about the redpillYes you are on the right path. The guy above about the greatest generation is a historical reconstructist. Where the he'll did the BP originate. It came from our predecessors who passed it on. It's a myth created by men. Like the southern belle. The bp delivery system was tv and movies aided by religiin. They were the biggest blue pill guys around who were alphas no doubt. Hate to break the news but there were countless women who despised their heroic husband's but stayed married. There were inc… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/24 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Alpha Widows and Dead Bedrooms is not entirely a choice for them.These women even have their own movement that they don't understand. They call it decentering. It's really an alpha widows club. They are on youtube. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/24 07:59 AM |
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