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agree to a certain point, employees might screw me over, business partners might screw me over, but do I have to meet them on my private space (i.e. my home) so I dont have time to think anything about it whenever I happen to have conflict with them? I dont think so. If your wife screwed you up and you realized this when you already got married then it’ll prolly go downhill from there, just couldnt imagine my closest person to me screwed me up, and I lose trust to her, then I get depressed. Busi…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 07:55 AM
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doubt it, relationship takes more effort rather than business and bodybuilding. Its more uncertain and you dont know what your wife hidden agenda is, they might screw you over anytime they want it their way
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 07:37 AM
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but I feel happiest when I have options/freedom. Most of my time is only spent doing 5 things: working, gym, sleeping, eating (and fucking, when the opportunity arises). You're not alone bro, I'm on the same page as you even I'm still 25. I don't really enjoy committing in relationship either, tried to get into dating apps, dated some of the hb5-ish women, and I wondered if I have sex with them it wouldn't be fulfilling either since I'm not attracted to them in the first place, just to get my fe…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 06:24 AM
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This, OP. should be the most upvoted, trust me ive been there done that, one of coworker acted flirty around me only to found out she backstabbed me for her own interest.
/r/seduction11/07/26 03:01 PM
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is it like trying to get one of em in a female dominated environment? so you have to face their drama too?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/26 06:22 AM
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are you rich? haha
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:03 AM
11

how did you get all of these fwbs lol, are you rich?
/r/seduction21/04/26 10:02 AM
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forgot to put [serious] on the title?
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:26 AM
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nah im asking seriously, wdym?
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:16 PM
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wdym lil bro
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:02 PM
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I used to have penpal, she always begging me for 1-2 hours sleep call, then I asked her what are the motives behind this, she always redirect my question, and my gut feelings told me that she just bored and need someone to talk with her. Immediately cut her off since that Edit: I DID 2 times sleepcall with her, but she just wont show her face and wont tell why she always beg for sleep calls, so I ditched her
/r/seduction27/11/25 09:04 AM
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Girls also do this btw, as same as my case. She's way way below my league, I dont even like her at first, but she did all the things to make me chase her (cared about me, asked about my days, even treated my wound. She's a nurse btw). After I reciprocated her behaviors, she started pull back, but I stayed firm on my frame. As a man who's long time silent lurker in this sub, I know where this was going, either she tried to make me as her orbiter or make me want to chase her. At this time, it is w…
/r/seduction14/11/25 08:21 AM
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Girls also do this. Several months ago, I dont like this girl but after she did all the things that made me pay attention to her, I reciprocated her interest, but she started to pull back once I reciprocated her
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:57 AM
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yeah, I did experience this 1 month ago. Leave me no explanation, no closure
/r/seduction20/09/25 02:19 PM
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8 is very dependable on the context. If her behavior is hostile and it's bothering you should know how to point it out and set a boundary
/r/seduction29/08/25 09:20 AM
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Yeah I tend to be wary to this kind of girl. They're just seeking attention and exploiting men. If you feel something weird and she's overwhelmingly flirty in the early, something is not good.
/r/seduction11/08/25 06:41 AM
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this is the answer
/r/seduction15/07/25 01:32 PM
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bro i wholeheartedly agree with u almost all the points on your first post even if the comments says the opposite cause I did experience all the things you said! The betatization that I experienced is a fucking pain in the ass, glad that is just a volunteer experience (my group consists 7 women and 2 men, including me) only for 1 month, but man cant imagine if it were longer
/r/TheRedPill02/07/25 12:52 PM
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not exactlyy, the initial phase is kinda interview but once you see some green lights, starting to litmus test by flirting could be great start
/r/seduction18/06/25 09:30 AM
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this is the most proper answer, OP. Agree with this 100%.
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:15 PM
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what are the motives behind this?
/r/seduction06/03/25 08:26 AM
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I would say money is the most latter not the first one
/r/seduction03/03/25 10:30 PM
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idk why it's downvoted, but this is a proper advice, women just want men to initiate, not them. Once you put the decision making on her, she will be less interested
/r/seduction01/03/25 07:09 AM
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I often pass the initial phase, the long term phase that is hard for me to keep the attraction
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:03 AM
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I get it I know what you mean, that is not my point
/r/seduction27/02/25 08:33 AM
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I take care of my body and skin religiously by bodybuilding and having a skin care routine. I admit it does really help in first impression phase, once you pass the initial phase, games matter in the long run.
/r/seduction27/02/25 07:47 AM
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yea i mean look is just a first impression, doesnt really matter in the long run
/r/seduction27/02/25 07:36 AM
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They just there for your attention and their ego boost. Never ever pay them attention, act indifference, assume she's not exist. Move on next. I've been there and this is most effective ways to response to this kind of women. Girl that likes you genuinely, act flirtatious a bit and more dense to you, also she's acting feminine around you, not the ones who blatantly flirt you in front of many people.
/r/seduction26/02/25 07:14 AM
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depends on the circumstances
/r/seduction24/02/25 12:35 PM
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What I get from here, if a girl makes rule for you, then just don't bend for her and find another girl who is more receptive?
/r/seduction24/02/25 01:28 AM
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but if I keep insisting assuming things about her, isn't it bothering her? I don't get it could you elaborate more on this?
/r/seduction24/02/25 12:44 AM
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Damn youre so god damn genius! how do you tune the LLM to predict the score loll
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:49 AM
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some girl just want the attention not you, beware of this behavior
/r/seduction10/02/25 03:59 AM
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proly just an innocent cherub guy or similar broken guy lol
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:46 AM
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Not only influencers have that lifestyles. I know a lot of rich people that I know, they post travel to overseas and many interesting life in their social media but they are people who tend to be reserved or more private, they have few followers, don't want strangers to bother their life so they share their life only with people they are comfort with.
/r/seduction15/01/25 05:17 AM
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you're so true, I once met a nurse stud, damn theyre so feminine and caring
/r/seduction10/12/24 10:32 AM
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No cap
/r/TheRedPill09/12/24 02:35 AM
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even Brad Pitt got divorced bro
/r/TheRedPill09/12/24 02:34 AM
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yeah and you are indeed delusional and not realistic
/r/TheRedPill01/12/24 04:25 PM
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There are always perfect women when I first meet them Obviously, first impression phase. They change into this over time, when they believe they can leverage me for marriage, attempting to turn me into someone I am not Also obviously, typical pattern I've seen in manipulative women after you pass the first impression phase. They love bombing the shit out of you, so you can enter her frame, and then she tries to exploit you by manipulating or controlling you into something they want. This is why,…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/24 07:26 AM
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Harsh truth post, I do relate in those scenario. Women use men for tools, hoping that we're going to make their life easier, and using us as disposable. What women can offer is only sex anyway, if you realize this earlier, you don't want to focus on women anymore, what focuses you only your value that you want to achieve besides women.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/24 06:03 AM
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Gut feelings and experiences help a lot in long run to identify which one is genuine and manipulative
/r/TheRedPill24/11/24 08:41 AM
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tf are you talking about lil bro?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/24 12:28 AM
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what dating books did you read?
/r/seduction24/10/24 05:44 AM
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Lol said someone who never encountered a girl. They can be extreme, until you realize it's not a shit test anymore, and you're being used by her, by making you as her doormat. Shit test are okay, until you feel tested to do x y z to her, then it's not worth the time and just move on.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/24 03:14 PM
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I agree with you. Sometimes, shit tests can go too far, and it can feel like she's trying to make you look like a 'dancing monkey,' in other words, attempting to belittle you. All I did in this kind of situation was willing to walk away and start to play the dread game.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/24 11:18 AM
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I'm not even echoing the typical Reddit cliché of 'marriage nowadays isn't worth it.' I've seen this patterns firsthand through my male friends and my own experiences. It's not even marriage—it's the dating scene. Most of my male friends are in their early to mid-20s, and many of them have felt used by their exes like disposable men, left feeling miserable afterward. (Fortunately, I haven't been used in that way—buying treats, dinners, or giving rides. I always left girls quickly once I see some…
/r/seduction14/10/24 06:42 AM
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the girl may seem don't like the guy, but the girl always try to use the guy to treat the girl as a princess, while the girl do the "monkey branching"
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:21 AM
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This is one of the reason I assume marriage or having a commit relationship these days is not worth it. I heard a lot of my male friends got used by their girlfriend to buy x y z and then left them afterwards. The girl always gaslights my male friends, so my male friends got miserable, then proceed to treat the girl with princess treatment but got flaked afterwards. I almost got used when I was close to a girl but just left her afterwards, seems like a clear red flag.
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:19 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly at point 2. Women these days have extremely high standard. I'm as a man still thinking that men act as a provider, but even you have a b c thing that you already have your shit together, sometimes women always want the man that can do d e f and make you miserable
/r/seduction14/10/24 04:41 AM
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Oh yeah I get it. I thought a girl who friendzoned from somewhere. If that scenario is what you mean, yeah that could be a possibility.
/r/seduction13/10/24 02:07 PM
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Recently I wrote a post here on Reddit that if a girl, friend zones you out, you gain more if you keep talking to her as nothing happened and you keep her as your friend because you have a female friend. Tbh, it depends lol. Sometimes some girls just want to keep some men to be their emotional tampon and simp for their confidence boost lol, and no they don't introduce the man with their other female friends. You know kind of "dancing monkey" man. They always make fun of the man. Kind of no go fo…
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:27 PM
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men also like attention you know, we as a man also need confidence boost too!
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:23 PM
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agree with this, kind of helping OP for the starting point. Once OP get used to it, he could go alone.
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:35 AM
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I hate that MBTI myth too lol. Those thing just like zodiac and it's bullshit.
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:28 AM
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in my experience, the more we give a fuck about people who don't like ourselves, the more they give a fuck about disliking ourselves. The more we don't give a fuck about them, the more they respect us.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/24 06:08 AM
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yeah kingg 🫡
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 04:31 AM
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grateful yes, content where you're at life is a nope. Try your best, always improving, try new things
/r/TheRedPill22/06/24 12:54 AM
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already content with his life that is so-so. Not having ambition.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 10:31 AM
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there are exist but subjectively. Someone perceived as high value by a person, could be not by another person. Just try your best.
/r/seduction16/06/24 12:20 PM
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Bro just copied from GPT response💀
/r/seduction14/06/24 07:52 AM
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They like to be slutty but dont want to be perceived as slut. It's like they want you to just "get it" without you passing the judgement to them.
/r/seduction14/06/24 07:04 AM
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correct 💯
/r/seduction02/06/24 05:14 AM
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No thats not what I meant. To be able to provide some good experiences at least at certain extent you have the money to afford something and also to impove your standard of living. Kinda giving a sign that "I have an interesting life" Not just flaunting that you have a lot of money, of course this kind of attitude only attracts gold digger ones. In conclusion, to have an interesting life, you at least have the money to afford many experiences in life.
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:01 AM
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No, I'm still living with my parents. That's why I hate every second of my life when I'm at home. Just gonna finish my college, then find a secure jobs (hopefully) and live an independent life even though I will be renting a house or an apartment.
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:47 AM
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yeah except looks. Still matter
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:12 AM
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yeah I mean social anxiety and confidence can be improved by experiences. To have some good experiences, at least you can bring some good stuff into the table (looks, money, social skills) to provide good experiences to the woman.
/r/seduction01/06/24 12:37 AM
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and also me, thats why I always hate my parents for suppressing my sexual desires 😡😡
/r/seduction01/06/24 12:28 AM
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lack of money, lack of resources, lack of looks
/r/seduction31/05/24 11:44 PM
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thanks for your insight, really appreciate your response as a woman
/r/TheRedPill18/05/24 12:17 PM
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yeah you know the typical obese pub guy that watch sports? that's what I'm talking about.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/24 02:17 PM
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Yep red pill concept tend leaning towards improving all aspects which make it long term investment and will take a long time to achieve. Surely people who excel at one thing is (probably) faster and more successful but only appealing to a certain niche. Improving all-around aspects will take a long time but once you pass a certain point or at least you can bring something that most average can't bring to the table you'll be more appealing to others rather than people who are excelling one thing …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/24 10:18 AM
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true, people perceived you as more "professional" in my experience. Looks help a lot in social dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/24 10:08 AM
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a lot of my men friends who like to watch sports are severely obese and don't do the sports that they like to watch. I don't get the idea these guys like watching sports if they don't like to do the sports by themselves.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/24 10:04 AM
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I agree with you, from what I've seen most guy in my computer science major are typical introverts that only focus on grinding some hacker rank, leet code, you name it, without caring about their hygiene for like days. Those aspects are important I know, but they just don't really care about improving other fundamental aspect like social skills, grooming, other self improvement that can be learned to make it into habits overtime until they get used to it. Pretty sure those aspect can boost them …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/23 02:35 PM
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it depends on the mindset of the person. But man, I'm computer science student and most of my friends are lonely guy who rarely go out, and just watching anime all day long.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/23 06:20 PM
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I agree with you. I'm computer science undergrad stud and I fucking hate the people who use "introvert" as an excuse while doing group capstone project. It's like talking to a brick wall every time I do group project. My chat rarely got responds.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/23 06:15 PM
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Indeed so true. I often ended up in bad decision on the past for not trusting my own guts. Better to be safe than sorry.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/23 05:52 AM
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so true, I've seen many average people live their life not on their full potential. Having community like redpill makes us more mature, more knowledge how world works, and how to navigate through it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/23 12:56 PM
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Me either man. I hate strict parents. Once I got money, and not depending on my parents, I'll start to rearrange my masculinity ASAP. My father is pretty much blue pilled too, he just work, get home, watch TV until asleep. Thats it all day and I was like SMH. Never teach me any masculinity or any sort of men bonding. One of the reason I start to go gym is this community. I learned a lot of masculinity by reading this sub mostly.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/23 11:43 AM
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This dude. Idk why, the more I get older, the more I get selfish (prioritizing myself more), and depend on other people much less. Fuck impressing other people, validation makes you high but it's just fleeting moment then it get dissapeared, you cant control other people reaction, you cant always get positively validated / complimented by other people.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/23 06:33 PM
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is it trm scale? cant open it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:03 PM
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lol dat teehee tho😅
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:42 AM
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I agree with the mother part
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:40 PM
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I'm a man and I also agree with this. It's rooted to your childhood parenting that affect your attachment style and mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:49 PM
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Yeah bro indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:49 PM
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whoa sorry didn't notice it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:48 PM
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Indeed! I'm a man, joined both redpill and purple pill (I'm more purple pill side btw). That's actually my main focus, to have a good self awareness to fulfill good relationship so that I can please my future partner by reading perspectives from women and other men opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:14 PM
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Agree with this, but man can be improved further by learning from others and not just stagnant focusing solely just a few aspects on life that has been teached by their parents or societal conditioning. Surely, someone can be more excessively attractive by improving other aspects such as looks, status, fitness, etc (overall aspects), but otherwise it depends on each individual standard. Some have lower standard and they don't pursue such a very high standard and just want to have mundane life, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:12 PM
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beautiful wisdom dude, agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:03 PM
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Me either, but I'm the man side, so I hope learning as much as I can get from women perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:56 PM
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Agree with this. There is a sweet spot, find what works best for you. It's just a tool to help or give us some hints.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/23 07:07 AM
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That's actually the way, brother. Try to improve your connection, but don't try to go further if someone is not working out for you.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/23 11:41 AM
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Yes, this, don't try to fit in only to please others.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 10:21 AM
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Actively seek to spend more time with strangers. This has been the advice that works for me. I'm an introvert, but social skills are skills that can be improved. Spend more time with people that have the same interests, join some community that reflects your interest. Whether it be gym, or any community, talk to the other person, be genuinely interested, ask some questions.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 10:21 AM
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What's exactly vape is? Sorry, don't get it. Edit: Someone just commented a few minutes ago, deleted it, but it still exist in my email. Thanks for informing.🙏
/r/TheRedPill22/03/23 07:03 AM
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Keep improving ma man. You're on the right path🤜🤛
/r/TheRedPill12/02/23 08:19 AM
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Some men just want to have privacy I guess🤷‍♂️. I know, showing a bit of your life can connect people, but too much of it can come across as someone who thirst people's attention. Don't get me wrong, I do post my interest (photography, fitness sometime but not much) because I want to be recognized by some my peer friends (and maybe other people who look at my profile) as someone who likes photography and maybe someday my friends (or maybe someone that I don't know who look at my profile) can inv…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 04:46 PM
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It's normal I can say. It's like you were pretty unfamiliar with all the topics that talked in this subs. Once you start to implement this in real life and you start to see how it gets real you going to get familiar with all of this. Don't take it with grain of salt, but try it by yourself. Also don't get too much angry after you know all the harsh reality that might be true from this subs. You should have the balance imo.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/22 08:01 AM
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You did great man, I admit it.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 12:35 PM
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💯. Just great dude, this hits hard.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 02:52 PM
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Actually, IMO porn has some direct negatives like how it affect your self asteem as OP mentioned and how porn viewers view woman as whole (I mean not in red pill context, but more about how porn viewer view women as objects).
/r/TheRedPill09/07/22 11:48 AM
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it's called novelty seeking.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 04:06 AM
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yeah dude that's why needy is unacttractive. Men need that abundance mindset.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 03:57 AM
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The third scenario, you are being alpha. Appreciate your manner dude. In my opinion, you can be alpha/beta depending on the situation, but as long as you keep improving, not expecting anything in return, and doesn't have oneitis rationalization you'll always be better overtime.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 01:31 AM
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Valuable and practical post. Appreciate OP. Indeed, I encountered this when I met toxic friends and it was pretty similar to what OP has explained in this post.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/22 08:47 AM
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You got some nice dedication and perseverance right there man, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 02:28 AM
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Yes, kind of sunk cost fallacy
/r/TheRedPill05/05/22 04:54 PM
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Nice advice, agree with this. It just takes time.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 10:43 PM
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It can, it just needs some momentum/willpower muscle to build that habit overtime.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 09:25 AM
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This💯
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:24 PM
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I have similar issues with you. My mum is a narcissist. It made me act avoidant towards woman but also pedestal when I meet any woman that reflects my mom narcissist behavior. Several years back, I act codependent, people pleasing with hopes that people will like me if I act nice excessively (without prioritizing myself, having no boundaries). Then at 19, just realized the reason why I act nice and have no boundaries is rooted to my parenting issues. Lesson learned the hard way that it's pretty …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 10:03 AM
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Yes. This is what I like from reddit apart from other social media. You can find any supportive group that has similar experience to you in order to recover from trauma
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 09:50 AM
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I like your perspective. More towards proactive approach. Not just some incel raging with "victim mentality" mindset.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/22 05:57 PM
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Yeah agree with this one. I don't think people generally use social media with much effort seeing each other posts. A lot of people just mindless/no effort scrolling using it as coping mechanisms.
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:47 PM
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Good attitude my man. Outcome independence, similarly close to psychology terms that called "secure attachment style". You enjoy your time alone, but you also enjoy spend time with the person you want to spend with without worrying about them all the time.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 12:20 PM
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People use words to convince you they are acting on your interest to make you DO things in their interest. It's just a matter to reverse the order and make them DO things in your interest. Not words. Agree with this one. World is full of exchanging, manipulating behaviour. Should beware of that obviously. Have purposes, do what you want. Don't let other people dictate.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 11:06 PM
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You can't make everyone likes you tho. Find new better friends that value you as you are.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 07:34 AM
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This is the way. My guy right here🤜🤛
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 07:17 AM
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Yeah same feeling. I don't think OP should consider them as "friends".
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 07:12 AM
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