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Yup you do, you will get 20x better results if you have. People on Reddit like to 'feel special' and they will tell you that you don't need social media to be successful yadayada. Which is true. But it's way harder if you don't have it. The truth is that every girl and their mother is using Instagram and if you speak their language you already have a headstart. Just make sure to be a social media CONTENT PRODUCER to reel girls in, and not a social media CONSUMER that masturbates on his classmate…
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:34 AM
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In my opinion you approached that bootcamp with the wrong frame of mind. You went in there, expecting it to be like a "self improvement vending machine" in which you'd put money and immediately receive a result. The biggest tell? You were not willing to push yourself once you were back home. Even though, you say it yourself, the bootcamp showed you what was possible and how to do it.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:51 PM
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Yes you are wrong trying to save face over trying to get what you want. But most advice that you will find on the internet will tell you to save face because "it's more alpha". Personally, I'd rather date a 10 over a 6, even if that means she'll flake on me twice and generally be bitchy. Because that's just how the world works, girls are less invested in a guy before having sex. Then the dynamics change.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:46 PM
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It's a waste of time since you will have to let her know you like her at some point. So why wait?
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:45 AM
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Alcohol is a crutch. Just like paying money for hookers. Hey, on a more serious note, alcohol lowers your ability to be social at a high level and makes you extremely tired very quick during the night and the next day(s). It's definitely better to learn how to not use it.
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:17 AM
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Why is there an empty post? I can't see anything.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:38 PM
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Basically, a nice guy puts other people's needs above his own hoping to be rewarded for it and a good guy puts his own needs above everyone's needs and only is nice to those who earned it when he has time to.
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:29 PM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy. Don't listen to those that said "you want to change your personality because a girl say yadaya don't worry you king, go get that pussay". This is bullshit. You got valuable feedback from a girl who cared to listen to you. Act on that feedback. It has been proven times and times again that girls like GOOD guys, not NICE guys. Read No More Mr Nice Guy.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:05 PM
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Dude there's no secret with this. There's 1 girl for every 4 guys on Tinder in the US in 2022, and studies tell you that 80% of the girls only get with 20% of the guys, so do the math about your odds. It's not surprising that you get no matches if your profile is old and unflattering. But then again, so is most guys' profile. Tbh nowadays it's extremely easy to stand out because most guys are clueless and LAZY. All you gotta do is invest A BIT of work (yes, whoa, WORK) but then you'll start beat…
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:57 AM
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If you're scared of being rejected by a girl, it goes to show them that you're not very brave and yes able to protect them
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:13 AM
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Those are not showing interest or even remotely close from hinting at it. Do the same but times 10x "LOL you're so sexy when you laugh" is the proper way to flirt, for example.
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:41 PM
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Most girls prefer tall guys, some girls hate short guys. It's clearly an overall advantage to be tall. But so is being rich. And smart. And witty. And ripped. And popular. And confident. And successful with business. And socially calibrated. You get where I'm going? Height is one of the only factors you can't change. So bitter guys who are too lazy to work on themselves make it the scapegoat of all of their problems. Focus on what you can change and the girls who love what you can become, not on…
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:24 PM
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To put it simply, men generally handle the pressure of the unknown and the possibility of rejection better than women (there are many evolutionary reasons as to why). I'll also add that in today's society, it's a great way for women to filter out confident men from weak guys and simps.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:09 PM
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Either build a friendship or a romantic interest. You can have both, to do one you have to do the opposite of what makes the other.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:05 PM
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The thing about valuing family, emotional vulnerability and so on is that most people do it from a position of scarcity and not from abundance. They do it as a QUICK FIX for something that's fucked up about themselves. - Want a stable life because unable to handle discomfort? Try hard to fund a family. - Hate being single because too afraid to approach women? Be a caring nice guy to make up for it so she hopefully won't leave you (she will anyways). - Can't handle your emotions like a grown-up? …
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:02 PM
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Check that video out, it's a full breakdown of how I got an extremely flaky girl to come over and it's a textbook example of all the things that you want to do.
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:12 PM
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Why try to have lengthy texts conversations instead of an actual date? Don't waste your time with that.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:24 PM
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Do you really need me to tell you to go to the gym / make more money / practice social skills? And to also go out and approach pretty girls anytime you see one?
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:11 PM
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You're acting as a friend to girls who want a lover. You get treated like a friend by girls who wanted a lover. That is to say, you get rejected. You gotta make clearer moves and have an actual direction, not just wait for a 2nd or 3rd date for things to magically happen. Girls won't have the patience to wait, they'll just go back on the app and find another guy who's sure to make a move on the first date.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:09 PM
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Ya man don't worry, it's something anyone can learn :)
/r/seduction26/03/22 08:04 PM
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Hint at your interest for her
/r/seduction26/03/22 08:03 PM
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Become more attractive + meet more women
/r/seduction26/03/22 08:01 PM
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You're welcome. If you want girls to reciprocate interest you must display attractive qualities. If you don't they will not show interest. DM me if you wanna talk more about this bruv
/r/seduction26/03/22 08:00 PM
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Yo OP here's the complete answer you need: work on money, gym and social status at all times (it takes years to build so start yesterday) stop seeing your worth through the amount of people who like you start seeing your worth through the amount of successes you make happen. Not enough success right now? Then take more action. To be truly honest with you, you're acting like a baby who is discovering how the world works and who isn't happy about it. Okay, you're mad. But you'd better stop being m…
/r/seduction26/03/22 07:53 PM
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Girls get approached constantly man, the fact you don't see it with your own eyes is irrelevant. Befriend a pretty girl and ask her how often she gets approached by guys. As I said it's a skill, practice properly and you will get results. Send me a DM if you're curious to discuss that further.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:24 AM
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Instead of getting bitter, why don't you get better? I'm not saying this to put you down but it's just a skill like any other. You not "playing" the game well doesn't mean you suck as a person, it just means you need to practice more. For starters, if a girl is startled, you show empathy. If a girl asks if this is for a youtube video, it's because you've not been relatable enough. Figure those sticking points, one by one, and over time improve. And if right now you feel burnt out, just take a br…
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:14 AM
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Andrew Tate IS full of hate, frustration and anger towards women and successful men lol. Really not a good mentor, he only resonates with negative guys. I mean you do you, but if I were you I'd take my advice from more positive people.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:10 AM
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Just ask for her number wtf lol. If you talk to a girl because you like her and would like to see if she's a good fit, it makes 0 sense to not try to close and propose to get the number to see her again.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:04 AM
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If you don't have options that are closer from you, I'd recommend you solve that problem instead. Is your profile bad? Do you live in a rural buttfuck nowhere place? Then get better photos and move to the bigger city.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:03 AM
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That's not a great way to market yourself lol. Think about a bottle of shampoo that says on its label : "usually people don't buy our brand"
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:02 AM
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Anything you can think of she might enjoy doing back at your place Look at your cat photos. Smoke a joint. Have a drink. Watch a movie. Play guitar. Whatever, it doesn't even matter, it's all about giving her a good reason to stay with you that doesn't directly say you're gonna have sex so she doesn't feel trapped.
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:00 AM
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"did someone kidnap u?"
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:59 AM
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Be normal and fun, you can't make moves in a group setting anyways. If you feel she is interested in you after the group hangout, ask her out on an actual 1on1 date. If she doesn't say yes, assume she isn't interested and move on.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:58 AM
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Ask her out? Why complicate things
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:57 AM
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If you had other focus than this one specific girl you'd freak out less. Meet more women and focus on other life goals.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:57 AM
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To flirt better you just hint at your interest. To keep a conversation going you make small talk (ask questions about her + give your opinion on what she just said)
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:56 AM
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Well maybe start talking to girls? You said yourself that you don't approach girls whatsoever. If you want to learn anything, you have to practice. You can't just complain that you don't know how to if you don't even try to get better at it.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:54 AM
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There's nothing specific to do to make a girl aroused. Be attractive around her for a longer period of time while building a connection and escalating properly and she's gonna get more and more aroused. Escalate 3 things : the emotional connection through more personal topics the topics, talk about more sexual stuff the physicality, touch her in more and more intimate places
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:53 AM
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Honestly don't go in with huge expectations especially if you're never dated before. Start going for what you want. Is it sex? Is it a girl who's into the same activities as you? Personally I look for girls that are educated, positive and sexually open.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:51 AM
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Your view of flirting is from the point of view of a woman. Basically, you flirt like a girl, lol. A man make moves, a girl reacts. Right now you're only reacting. Show more of your interest. Make more proactive moves to figure out whether or not it can work between you and a girl. Don't be afraid of rejection.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:46 AM
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There's no way a girl who lives far away is ever worth it. What if you text with her for days and tomorrow she meets a guy on tinder who lives in her neighborhood and she goes to his place? You could meet a model in the club, on the streets, today. If you're not happy with the idea of letting go a woman who lives far away it's probably because you don't meet enough attractive women who are interested in you, and you should work on that in priority.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:44 AM
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You might be doing too many things that indicate you want a relationship without you knowing you're doing those things. Think about what you're doing and try to do more of the things a "fuckboy" would do, and see if that makes a change. That's how you get good at dating, trial and error of different behaviors :)
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:42 AM
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If you're on a date but there are other people around you and her to interrupt whatever connection you're trying to build, you're putting yourself in a bad spot. Get a TV in your room homie
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:39 AM
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What's the matter? Instead of pushing away someone who's not 100% what you're looking for, why don't you just enjoy what she can gives while letting her enjoy what you can give? You don't have to commit to anyone that you date. Unless that's specifically what you're looking for, but hey, monogamy is overrated anwyays :-)
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:37 AM
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If you don't like what a girl suggests, suggest something else :) It's all about finding a middle ground that works for the both of you, not "something that you think she will like"
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:36 AM
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If girls give you immediate excuses when you approach them it's because you came in too strong. Try to chill and have more of a small talk conversation.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:28 AM
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Make small talk when she isn't busy with work (otherwise she'll be super uncomfortable). Then let her know you'd like to talk to her more and ask for her IG.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:27 AM
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The more you do it the easier it gets, and the less you do it the harder it becomes. Honestly it's all about getting into the momentum of not caring about whether you get rejected or not. I explain more how to get over the approach anxiety in this video. But basically it's all about letting go of the outcome and shooting your shot because it's either trying and having a chance or winning, or not trying and having 0 chance of winning.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:26 AM
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There's a lot of hate, frustration, and anger towards women and successful men in what you write. Maybe you want to address that first.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:24 AM
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The more you get rejected, the more you become numb to it. For having been in the game for over 10 years I can tell you that there is no way around rejection. Understanding that most of the time you get rejected because of things that are outside of your control also helps. And you know what they say, whatever you resist persists :-) So instead of resisting it, embrace it and let it go through you. And when it's too hard just take a rest and get back to it with a clearer mind later.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:43 PM
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Congratulations, you just met two guys with actual 0 self confidence and who rely on substances to forget they are insecure when talking to women. Not the best mentors in my opinion.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:40 PM
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Coffee Bubble tea Ice cream Crepe Drink in a bar Play snooker etc etc etc
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:39 PM
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Make small talk If you don't know how to make small talk, learn how. But you don't get girls with - Hi - Topic 1 - Ask for number I mean you might get a number, but no way she's gonna be invested enough to go on a date. Most of your interaction should be a normal regular conversation. Do this for 5 to 10 mins and then ask for her number.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:38 PM
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Don't be direct at the gym. Unless you're the one only top dog there and everyone loves you this will not work. Instead build rapport a little bit over time (with small talk) and see if she shows any interest in talking with you.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:36 PM
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Honestly the biggest problem young guys have is that they are too fucking afraid to be rejected. So they don't make moves. So they don't get sex. Either this, or they are so afraid to get rejected that they rush the whole thing and just ask girls for sex way too soon. But either way, still afraid to be rejected.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:35 PM
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Simple. You ignore them. If they get mad, they lose. If they get physical, they lose. Just make sure to leave right before they actually do try to punch you (but honestly in 10+ years of game this only almost happened twice and only with drunk guys).
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:33 PM
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You're basically going to have to text her the same way you'd post stories on IG to stay top of her mind. That means sending her frequent updates about your life that makes you look cool and attractive (except that if you have enough time to waste on sending a girl such texts all the time over 1+ month it means you're life isn't that attractive). And it's also extremely risky of an investment of your time since the first guy she meets IRL will immediately have a stronger emotional impact than yo…
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:31 PM
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An easier way to do this is to first practice saying hi while passing by and once you're comfortable doing that you say hi + give a compliment while passing by. And if you still can't do this, well, you will have to force yourself because it means there is a massive block right there. And whether you tackle that block with this specific exercise or another, it will still be the same "hard".
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:26 PM
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The person who said that is most likely insecure and immature. There is nothing wrong with trying to improve. And if people make fun of you for trying to improve, well, they are not good friends. So maybe the guy who told you that is the kind of guy who'd make fun of those trying to improve. Idk :-)
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:23 PM
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In your case tbh it's most likely that you don't touch girls enough and that you're not straightforward enough. If you want to really get good at this without wasting years of your life hitting your head against the wall in trying out to figure out what advice works from what advice is shit you gotta have a proven system. It isn't rocket science but there's a way to convey sexual interest and to bring girls from stranger who finds you cute to acquaintance that is curious about you to a girl who …
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:20 PM
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I used to have the same problem (handsome but shy) and what helped me the most were 2 things : A specific exercise: talking in front of the mirror for 10mins every morning for a month Realizing that not everyone will like me and stop giving a fuck about whether or not people liked the stuff I wanted to talk about
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:15 PM
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Have small talk with everyone Keep having small talk with people who like you Sleep with the girls you're having small talk who like you But fr just start conversations with people and you will end up meeting girls.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:13 PM
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Like they say in my countryside hometown : YOLO
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:12 PM
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Hint at your interest for example ask sexual question and qualify her on her reply. "Hey btw can you do the reverse cowgirl?" "Yes lmao" "Hey can you do the reverse cowgirl?"k sexual questions and qualify her on her reply.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:11 PM
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Why don't you join the game global telegram groups and ask the guys who live there? Also to be fair, NY is pretty average in that regard. You will find everything.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:10 PM
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The more you avoid approaching the easier it is to not approach, the more you approach the easier it is to approach. So force yourself and approach. There is no magic thing that we will say that will convince you. The only one who can do this is you, and it starts by forcing you to do the thing you don't want to do.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:08 PM
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Easy fix : don't wait of girls to give you permission before you make moves. Sometimes you will get rejected and you will learn, some other times you will succeed and you will learn. Either way, you learn.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:07 PM
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To be fair you might have some misconceptions about women and what they react well to. Girls who go out at night are not all sluts who like to party and have drunk sex. Girls you meet during the day are not all bothered by your approach. Those are things you'd discover naturally by yourself if you approached more girls to be honest.
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:05 PM
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I don't think age matters if a girl is attracted. Worst case she gives you shit and you deal with it like a shit test
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:04 PM
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Why don't you join the French game global group in Paris? They were very helpful when I was there last year and they are still very active. I found cold approach a bit harder in Paris than abroad because all girls were in a rush but other than that it's pretty much the same
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:03 PM
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If you're into polyamory I recommend More than two and The ethical slut
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:01 PM
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Comment on her stories, it's one of the best ways to start a conversation IG
/r/seduction21/03/22 01:01 PM
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