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| 1 | CMV: Female dating advice is useless because what women find attractive and who they want to have sex with are two totally different things.Mostly, it sounds like a very romantical, idealistic view (the 'Disney-fied' view) of how sex/love/relationships work, but YMMV. HAHA, maybe! I've had two relationships and both were very unorthodox. With both of them the friendship and beginnings of romance developed online, which I know most people would not even consider real. My current BF and I were "friends" one second and then confessing being deep in love with each other the next, then immediately started dating. So my perspective is eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/16 09:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female dating advice is useless because what women find attractive and who they want to have sex with are two totally different things.That's a good point about comfort, and I would agree that sense of familiarity can be induced really quickly. You're able to easily create a sense in other people like "Oh wow I feel very comfortable speaking with this person in a very limited amount of time." Whether it's an artificial sense of familiarity after just a single meetings or one that comes after a few weeks of extended meetings, though, there's a pre-requisite of familiarity that some women need before automatically desiring sex wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female dating advice is useless because what women find attractive and who they want to have sex with are two totally different things.Well, I think the point that person is trying to make is that a level of comfort, and knowing what someone is like over an extended period of time, is one of the pre-requisites for her (or him, not sure) to want to have sex with someone. That whatever attraction they might have for someone after just meeting them isn't sufficient for them to have sex. I don't think the person meant to claim that familiarity always leads to sexual desire. That would make no sense, because there are plenty of peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Female dating advice is useless because what women find attractive and who they want to have sex with are two totally different things.I’m not the person you responded to, but that situation is possible because human interaction doesn’t exist in a vacuum in which we’re evaluating people based on one trait and one trait only, one at a time. You seem to have this interpretation of attraction in which a trait is only attractive if and only if sex/lust/whatever occurs in ALL possible conditions where that trait exists, regardless of any other variable present. But there is literally no such trait that, if present, ALWAYS leads to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/16 04:43 PM |
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