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maxd/r/seduction17/09/11 02:40 AM
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LOL way to resurrect a dead thread! And yes, I still disagree with the "sure thing" sentiment. What I'm saying is that if there are two girls side by side, one of whom is an HB7 and will definitely sleep with you, and one of whom is an HB9 and is a challenge, why not go for the challenge? If that fails, then sure go back to the HB7, but don't just rest on your laurels man. Notches on belts are dumb. Having easy sex isn't improving you at all, but trying to attract better women definitely is.
/r/seduction29/05/12 03:46 PM
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You can call me if you want. I'll report back to seddit how well you performed. (PS I'm a dude, so don't sexualize me bro)
/r/seduction19/05/12 01:57 AM
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She may be the most amazing girl you've ever known but how many girls are out there waiting for you to know them? Don't hang around for her, go out there and find Miss Right. Don't fuck dozens of girls if you don't want to, but talk to them, flirt with them, take them on dates and you will feel awesome.
/r/seduction06/05/12 03:59 AM
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Those are good words man. The one thing is though, try not to classify your ex as a bitch. Perhaps she is, in which case that's fine, but frequently relationships just don't work. It's no ones fault, even if it seems like it is, and having animosity towards your ex makes it harder to move on. It wasn't meant to be. Wish her well and carry on. That said, if she fucked your best friend and broke up with you while on vacation in Hawaii then sure, fuck that bitch.
/r/seduction06/05/12 03:57 AM
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That's an afternoon's work. I envy your life being so simple.
/r/seduction20/04/12 03:35 AM
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I summarized your post for the lazy. Feel free to append it to your original content. Girls like guys who punch nails into their dicks. If you want an awesome girl, punch a nail into your dick. Waffles.
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:23 PM
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Well, I never said this was during the approach. I agree that opening with your job is not a wise idea.
/r/seduction12/04/12 07:15 PM
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I disagree about getting off the subject of yourself ASAP. I feel it's important to distinguish yourself so that you are memorable, and THEN get off the subject of yourself. Don't dwell on yourself, but don't completely dismiss yourself either. EDIT: And wait a second; your MI3 link shows precisely what I was saying. You should make an interesting comment about what you do, and then move on.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:41 PM
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I agree about answering the question with a question, and showing interest, however I think you should show more conviction in what you do for a living. The way you worded it shows you really don't care about what you do for 40+ hours a week, and that shows weakness in my opinion. Here's a little "choose your own adventure": Job you don't enjoy "Well I'm an accountant; sure it pays the bills but it's not who I am on the inside." "What I really want to be doing is creating my own successful busin…
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:26 PM
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You can use "I make video games" to gain social proof with their male friends. If she's not keen on video games, that's cool, you should be able to downplay the fact that video games aren't your life and you are an interesting human being for other reasons too.
/r/seduction12/04/12 05:14 PM
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I absolutely agree with you! The whole point is to be pushing yourself to be better and to attain higher rewards. Settling for a "sure thing" is giving up and saying "that's as good as I can do".
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:39 PM
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phone number/date/kiss/ass grab/tit grab Hey friend. Stop concentrating on that as the goal. The goal is to be outgoing and talkative and friendly. Add to your social stature. At the end of your 30 day challenge you should consider it a success if you can look back on your failure today and think "woah, that me was useless". And please don't consider "ass/tit grab" as a success. You're meant to be seducing women, not molesting them.
/r/seduction26/03/12 08:43 PM
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I have insight into this that I learned over the weekend. I was walking through Santa Monica, and there were small groups of people trying to get you to sign something (I have no idea what, probably some charity thing). Their techniques were pretty standard; most basically make a compliment, ("hey cool guy"), ask for a moment of your time, ("you got a minute?") and when you decline they thank you ("thanks dude!"). However one stood out, it was a girl, and if I hadn't been legitimately in a hurry…
/r/seduction26/03/12 02:36 AM
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That's nowhere near cougar age. Cougars are in their 40s. If she's old enough to be your mom, she's a cougar.
/r/seduction14/03/12 05:58 AM
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Late 20s is not an "older" woman. :P
/r/seduction14/03/12 05:24 AM
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I've made a fantastic number of contacts in totally random places because I always approach everybody. I have friends in unnaturally high places because I've struck up a successful conversation with them on a plane, at a coffee shop, whatever.
/r/seduction14/03/12 05:24 AM
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If the group is having fun, you're clearly doing a good job. The challenger may be jealous of the attention you're getting, and standing up to him will further solidify your position. Him: "who is this guy?" You: "I thought I'd already introduced myself, I'm Jeff. Who are you?" Him: "I'm Billy Bob" You: "pleased to meet you Billy Bob, are you having a good time?" Own the situation, be the leader.
/r/seduction10/03/12 04:51 PM
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I am still amiable with them but I now see them more as simply roommates, so they're judgement holds no weight. Dude I love that attitude, more people need to be like that.
/r/seduction25/02/12 02:47 AM
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This is absolutely the correct answer. However it's also extremely important that you continue to be "the new you" around your friends, because that is "hard mode" if you will. As Nickerz says, it's easy to fake it around people that don't know you, but faking it around people that do know you will turn you into that "new" you much more quickly. And, as others have said, if they judge you for trying to be better, they aren't true friends.
/r/seduction25/02/12 02:47 AM
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That's not true; when I was younger it's not that I didn't love myself, but I wasn't happy and confident with myself. And no, I never contemplated suicide. In my old age (hah, I'm 30) I fucking love myself and who I am today, and this encourages people to like me, even without me making an effort. Of course it's worth seeing your own faults and how they can be corrected; that is part of loving yourself! If you don't love yourself, there is no impulse to better yourself. You shouldn't have to "ma…
/r/seduction22/02/12 04:53 PM
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What on earth do you mean by "proper seduction tips"? The whole mechanism of finding great women is by being great yourself, which means having a high value of yourself. Yes, clever ways to make a woman want you more are all well and good, but ultimately the first thing you need to do is love yourself.
/r/seduction22/02/12 03:50 AM
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Why stop at 30 days? Why stop at one stranger a day? Seriously, if you see a stranger, just say hi. Every stranger. If you're at a bus stop, ask the dude next to you where he's going. If you're at Starbuck's chat to the barista, ask them what their favourite coffee is, buy the guy behind you coffee, just keep going! And congratulate yourself on every approach you do. It's a big deal.
/r/seduction18/02/12 03:27 AM
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The whole point of seddit is that it's not about helping you pick up chicks, it's about making you a better more confident person, to which women will be attracted as a happy side effect. I also have a great girlfriend, but I love reading this place for ideas on improving myself even more.
/r/seduction18/02/12 03:24 AM
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Don't worry, you only have to stop when you want to. The game changes as you get older though; it gets a lot less complex, and a lot more fun. When everyone knows what they want and how to get it, magic is made.
/r/seduction17/02/12 06:03 PM
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You should be a poster child for seddit. This group gets a lot of shit from people but you took all the advice in exactly the right attitude; have fun, be friendly, outgoing, and confident, and girls will flock to you. I hope she is the girl of your dreams; if not, I'm sure you'll take your experience and continue on your journey. :)
/r/seduction29/01/12 11:45 PM
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Indeed.
/r/seduction31/12/11 05:28 AM
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Lots of great advice from people but I've not seen this yet so let me throw it out there. You're not a fucking loser. The old you was, but don't hate on him for that. The new you might be fat and a virgin but so the fuck what. You sacked up and want to take charge of your life; that does not make you a loser. You're also only 24, you're still young! Now going forward, celebrate your accomplishments, and assume that you're going to have many more. Look in the mirror, realize that while you may no…
/r/seduction28/12/11 06:05 PM
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Totally with you. My life is too busy to create and handle negativity. If someone is overly negative towards me, in any walk of life, then I'll just cut them out and move on. It works 10 times out of 10.
/r/seduction26/12/11 04:18 AM
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The "chivalry" thing is interesting; does seddit suggest that's not correct to be chivalrous? I think perhaps chivalry has a bad press and while I was brought up (I was educated at an expensive British boarding school) to be extremely chivalrous I've realised over the last decade (I'm 30) what aspects of it are important. Look at James Bond. He is one chivalrous motherfucker. But he's also a "cad"; he teases women, he doesn't let them walk all over him, he encourages strong women. Chivalry is im…
/r/seduction08/12/11 02:44 AM
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I keep recommending people to seddit and they fall into the two obvious camps; those who get it and those who don't. Those who don't think it's a creepy community about picking up women. Those who get it realise it's about making yourself the best person you can be, which as a happy side effect means it'll be easier to talk to and date women. Personally I'm not here for the pick up - I have a great girlfriend and I'm confident with myself - I'm here to read about filling the little holes in my l…
/r/seduction07/12/11 05:31 PM
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I agree, and I think that becoming hateful towards a girl who has rejected you and calling her a bitch is counter productive. She wasn't interested in you; there are girls who will be interested in you. Move on, don't dwell. Wish her well in her future relationships, the end.
/r/seduction01/12/11 07:35 AM
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The whole "nice guy" syndrome keeps coming up, and you touch on the problem in your second point. There was also a great post a few days ago about how "nice" guys are actually frequently manipulative and just "nice" on the surface. Recently I've started correcting friends who say that I'm "nice"; I'm not nice, I'm kind. A nice guy complies with a girl's demands, bends over backwards to seem cool and does things with ulterior motives. A kind guy does whatever the fuck he wants, but is considerate…
/r/seduction08/11/11 08:19 PM
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I think he's realising that life isn't all about picking up women, and is trying to get his house in order first as it's clearly a more important task.
/r/seduction08/11/11 12:53 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction31/10/11 03:08 PM
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Don't ask for a kiss, be commanding. The word "titty" is used by teenagers. I get that you are a teenager, but stop using it. :) Good work!
/r/seduction10/10/11 07:54 AM
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Great additional points and well written, thanks for the input. Interviews are very similar to seducing women, but I agree that they are more difficult, and dangerous.
/r/seduction17/09/11 04:03 AM
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Check it!
/r/seduction17/09/11 02:54 AM
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I made an attempt!
/r/seduction17/09/11 02:54 AM
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I'll have to check out that Laws of Power, sounds interesting. Dominating the problem and not the person is a great way of putting it. I'll make a post on seddit this evening unless you get there before me, your input will be awesome! :)
/r/seduction16/09/11 11:43 PM
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Agree on the "superiors' game" point, perhaps someone should attempt it. I'm actually excellent at handling with superiors too but I really spent a few minutes trying to vocalize how I do it in my previous post, unsuccessfully. I have friends who are far above my station in life and I'm somewhat bemused how I manage it. Some thoughts: I actually don't think submissive body language is a good idea, unless we are talking about holding off on the kino which is probably unwise unless the superiority…
/r/seduction16/09/11 11:16 PM
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Yup, that's great. I think your first paragraph is an important qualifier to this whole (excellent, by the way) discussion and it rings true in relationships too. You may be able to bluff your way into a job, or a relationship that you are "unqualified" for, but it's almost certainly going to end badly. "Fake it to make it" is really a little deceiving; what you really need to do is fake it to make people realise you've made it. (And congratulations on your job by the way, I hope it works out we…
/r/seduction16/09/11 11:05 PM
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I'm with you here, and posted something similar lower down. It's a careful line you have to tread if you're taking this approach. I have voted "no hire" on more than one person who was overly confident; it can be very easy to see that they are hiding insecurities or inability. Don't write checks that you can't cash, I will notice. :) Having said that, a lot of the PUA techniques are applicable to interviews just as they are in all walks of life; setting your frame, opening, social proof. Anyone …
/r/seduction16/09/11 09:17 PM
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I almost totally agree, and certainly the techniques used here are applicable in lots of places including job interviews. However, as someone who has interviewed a good number of candidates, please use the OP's advice carefully. Judge the situation you are in, your seniority in the group, and so forth. Being the first one to talk is a good call, but don't push it. These people already know more about you than you think, certainly more than is on your resume which hopefully is pretty descriptive.…
/r/seduction16/09/11 08:17 PM
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"Fake it til you make it" is absolutely true. I've done this in business and personal settings frequently, and it's got me a long way. A few years ago a very good friend made me realise that I am fucking awesome and that I should always get my way. I have changed my interaction with people to recognise this, and it really works. It works as both a preparation and a response; before doing something I remind myself I'm fucking awesome and that I will prevail, and if while doing something I get kno…
/r/seduction08/09/11 12:21 AM
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This is correct. The course of action the OP should follow is: "That's cool. Later." Wait some time (A week? Two?) "Yo I'm going to see a band tonight, you're coming."/"There's a bistro in X I've been wanting to try, you're the perfect person to try it with me."/whatever works for you.
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:59 AM
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"Take care" could be part of a shit test, too. Either way, you're right that the correct course of action is to do nothing, or at most reply with something as simple as "later".
/r/seduction15/08/11 09:43 PM
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Not sure that he's two faced, however he IS bitter and self loathing, which probably doesn't do him any favours.
/r/seduction03/08/11 03:47 PM
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As always, this is actually good advice everywhere in life. I do this when I'm writing emails to people at work, when I'm writing blog posts or papers, pretty much always. Being brief is more powerful.
/r/seduction30/07/11 06:14 PM
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I've gotten out of more tickets than I can remember by just being frank and friendly to cops.
/r/seduction01/07/11 02:58 AM
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This just about sums up my outlook on life.
/r/seduction07/06/11 07:19 AM
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I need to remember "reflection of your own self-loathing". What an excellent retort.
/r/seduction05/06/11 11:23 PM
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Thanks for your kind words! I am a computer programmer! :) I don't live in a basement. :( I don't have "asspergers" as you implied in the private message to me. :( I don't give a shit! :) People do care about me. :( I'm not a hobo. :( I trust you enjoy giving a fuck!
/r/seduction05/06/11 10:30 PM
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Wow didn't realise I'd made such a controversial point! It was slightly misstated, or at least not exactly as I had intended, which I'll put down to be half asleep at the time. Mr RaptorButts below restated it more precisely as I had intended: "External influences have no effect on your identity and self esteem." Suffice to say, degor3's external influence had no effect on my identity or self esteem. I wish him luck in future anger management courses that I feel I should be attending, and I'll b…
/r/seduction05/06/11 10:22 PM
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Just don't give a fuck. Realize that external influences should have no effect on your life, and you won't give a fuck about them.
/r/seduction05/06/11 06:41 PM
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I think it should be seen not as a comic but a checklist, of personality traits to remove from yourself. A lot of the points double up (like panels 1 & 4 for example), but overall it's not a bad analysis of "if you wonder why you don't have hot chicks all over you, check this list".
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:28 PM
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Dumb animals that wait around for you to feed them? Things that should be flushed down the toilet soon? Something you picked up at the local fair?
/r/seduction13/05/11 11:36 PM
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Huh. I actually like it untucked, I just think the straining on the top button looks off. I know what the idea is ("my pecs are so big they are bursting out of this shirt"), but I disagree. Perhaps tucking it in would be better, know I think about it.
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:17 AM
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Great talk, although your shirt is like 5% too small mate. :)
/r/seduction18/04/11 09:23 PM
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It isn't necessarily a lie that she really had a good time, she just isn't following up because he's not being alpha enough to set the time for their next date.
/r/seduction06/04/11 02:44 AM
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You're completely right here! There's a huge difference between being a nosy twat and introducing yourself, and getting it right is key to being a good person.
/r/seduction05/04/11 04:20 PM
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That's what seddit is for.
/r/seduction16/03/11 01:38 AM
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Indeed. Things change in bed anyway. Stay alpha outside the bedroom and you're golden.
/r/seduction05/02/11 06:42 PM
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I had a friend who told me a very similar story, except he was happily engaged and didn't take things with the stripper as far as you did. He came to me the day after asking for advice, he'd felt a connection, had her number, yada yada. I told him to drop it, his fiancée was awesome and the stripper was just playing him. He ignored me, followed up with the stripper and, after a couple of weeks, realized that she was just after his money. I'm not saying it's the same for you, but strippers make m…
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:09 PM
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Don't go with "I just had to meet you". She needs to believe that you are a confident person, and that's one of the most desperate things I can think of someone saying. She needs to believe that you are positively inundated with propositions from attractive women. In a random 2 second public opportunity, the key is absolutely to get her attention. Asking her for directions to somewhere you know, preferably innocuous. A coffee shop is a great idea. Even if you live around there, you can be moment…
/r/seduction26/01/11 03:31 AM
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