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3	Imprinting women is legit? Dude, that's how you train a dog. You want to create a bond with a human being? Find ways to spend time with them and form a friendship. At the very least, take measures to not come off as actively creepy.	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/19 06:40 PM
1	What are some actual good advice that the red pill gives? That's a trap set by your own mind. I'm not saying let him go. If he is good for you, keep him. If he isn't that good for you but you love him and he brings you happiness, keep him. If he is bad for you, belittles you, inhibits you, beats you, or keeps you from growing, walk away. I had to do this a few times, and it sucks, but it was for the best.	/r/ExRedPill	28/09/19 01:39 PM
9	Go fired after walking out of therapist Office. Is there any point in trying to be attractive anymore. Getting fired over a basic misunderstanding sucks. Getting fired over a basic misunderstanding while you're trying to take better care of yourself REALLY sucks. But, you are still moving in the right direction, and you can and should be proud of that. Take your meds, move on to the next gig, and keep advancing. You can do this, OP.	/r/ExRedPill	05/09/19 04:44 AM
12	How to get those "red pill lessons" out of my head? Start with the assumption that you know nothing. Rebuild from scratch. Read up on body language and how to build networks of friends (yes, really, start with that). Start carrying this out in practice, slowly. Are you in school? Start with introducing yourself to a new classmate each week. Join a club you find interesting. Make friends, both male and female. Get to know people as people, regardless of what stereotypes you might have about them. People are often surprising. Consider going to ther…	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/19 06:24 PM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? The difference is that you do it because it improves you every day, not because it satisfies some checkbox that you think needs to be checked to start dating. Here's another thing: there are lots of women who don't care whether you've hit a bunch of arbitrary points or not and will just like you if you're a good companion. Improving yourself and building real confidence goes a long way towards being a good companion. So does building a good circle of friends.	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/19 05:22 PM
3	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? Making yourself better and improving your mood are two different things. Making yourself better happens every day. But the trick is, you have to keep doing it, every day, or you'll become slightly worse every day you don't do it. You won't notice the effect at first, but it builds up. And here's the other piece of hard advice: you have to do this without having the idea in mind of doing it for a girl. Because: once you get the girl, you will stop improving, and start getting worse again. And the…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 08:34 PM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? If you raise your head Up and look around society there is a certain type of male that is expected to be emulated by most men. I'm going to give you some tough advice about this: ignore them. This kind of ill-defined, peer-determined, rigidly-adhered-to masculinity is very toxic and will just drive you nuts. Focus instead on what used to make a man in the 1950s: getting a good job (anything from construction worker to doctor or lawyer) that lets you build a middle class or better life. Then the …	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/19 07:55 PM
5	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? Is living a happy life but finding yourself being rejected and single/virgin for years really worth it? it wasn't until I managed to untie my self worth from validation from women that I really started to understand how to be successful with them This is crucial, u/defo18. You have to have self-esteem that's centered in something else besides your relationship or lack thereof - ultimately you're not in control of your relationship status, as that depends just as much on other people as yourself. Your self-esteem has to be based on things that are ultimately under YOUR control: education, career, h…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/19 07:35 PM
34	I found out my entire marriage has been a lie at 53 years old. Look into suing her lovers for alienation of affection as well. Consider suing your youngest kid's biological father for back child support. Sell the house ASAP and put her half in escrow until she returns your half of the rest of the marital assets.	/r/MGTOW	30/08/19 07:24 PM
14	Thoughts? Short answer: [citation needed] Long answer: this claim is BS. Anyone who actually gets to know women as people realizes that women are not a monolith and every woman has different wants and needs. Some women are drawn to adventuresome types, others to creative types, others to nurturing types, and so on. Some are drawn to sociopaths, sure, but after a while they realize that this is bad for them and they stop.	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/19 09:49 PM
10	My sex drive is driving me insane, is it an actual addiction or is it a real need that must be fulfilled? It's caled being in your twenties and it sucks. That said, I am firmly convinced that, since you're not in a relationship, there's nothing wrong with seeing a (consenting, adult, not trafficked) sex worker if you want. Why don't you tell us more about your circumstances?	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/19 07:25 PM
2	MGTOWs views on marriage are probably the only thing left that might still make me believe in the red pill? Can someone help me out of it? If you're so scared of marriage that you advocate avoiding it in order to live your own life, are you really living your own life?	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/19 03:49 PM
3	If game doesn't work, what does? Generally? That's fine. Treat women like individuals and respect them as human beings and you'll go a long way toward attracting relationship material. There will be women for whom one or more of these is a deal killer. You're fine for the 18-22 range. 23-30 you're gonna want your own place.	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/19 12:31 AM
5	The red pill fucked my life up Therapy for sure. Consider going back to college. You flunked out your final year. If you're attending school in the United States then you ought to be able to transfer and finish your degree. It might mean taking some classes over again or going part time. Stay focused, plan ahead, and err on the side of taking a lighter courseload. Don't bite off more than you can chew. Once you finish college, you will probably have to start your career at the same entry level as any other schmuck with a degr…	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/19 10:08 PM
4	I get depressed over my looks and blame them for my lack of success with women Like the others here, if you're getting dates on Tinder, then you're probably attractive. Have you considered talking to a couple of friends of yours about the lack of second dates? You might also consider changing your approach. Tinder is usually for easy hook-ups. It sounds like that's not what you're looking for, and if that's the case, then Tinder isn't a good bet. Consider waiting a while until you've settled into your post-college life (about three months after you get a job and find a pla…	/r/ExRedPill	12/05/19 09:57 PM