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You don't. She does. But if this is a new girl of yours. Be careful, be very careful. She knows you'd like something like this and she might be manipulating you. #borderline Think about the crazy-hot matrix. There's a reason there's a "no-go zone".
/r/seduction25/10/22 06:09 PM
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Obviously. And no, people dont think the otherway around.
/r/seduction23/10/22 12:52 AM
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Women are very oblivious to their own emotions and how their attraction works. They will self-sabotage relationships quite often. Just how it is. For example. I dated a girl who had a massive fear of abandonment. Problem was, to protect herself against this she was constantly in contact with 4-5 backup dudes if the relationship were to end. And of course, this behavior of protecting herself was also the cause of why the relationship ended. Who wants to date/be with a girl who is constantly talki…
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:59 PM
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Moved it to WhatsApp and had chit-chat over the month Bit long bro. Should schedule a date fairly quickly, if you can 't just don't use the service. What you have to understand about women is that they can go on any number of dates they want, some just go on dates because it's fun to get out and meet people or just get a free meal. They don't care, they're probably not even looking for anything serious. Just go with the flow. This is why you have to adopt the abundance mindset, whenever one of t…
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:22 PM
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It's much better if you build up some rapport before you ask her out. Key is to know what's going on in your city, different types of activities... Then you can ask her "What do you like doing on your spare time"? And if she says something like dancing you can say "Oh, there's this dance thing going on at X, I'm going, would you like to come?" So like, Art exhibitions, dance places, live music, pub quizzes, some sport activity maybe... Of course you have to know 5-6 different things that are goi…
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:58 PM
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That can definitely hold true.
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:10 AM
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You need to talk to a therapist my man. You've gotten stuck in a loop of thinking about her over and over again, reinforcing feelings that weren't really that deep to begin with. But each thought is reinforcing the feeling of love and longing. In the end, what you really want is validation from your ex. But as you said, she has moved on... And you need to as well. See a therapist. If not, the next girl you're hooking up with. Force yourself to become more intimate. And by that I don't mean sex, …
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:10 AM
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I like hanging out with these girls. It's fun. But atm I'm not really dating anyone serious, last relationship broke down about two months ago and I'm mainly working on myself atm. Maybe one or two dates a week.
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:13 PM
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You could get a hobby or two instead. Something that gets you out of the house that you can't cancel. Maybe squash or such with a friend. Bu8t the abundance mindset is important.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:54 PM
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Depends on your schedule. Say you meet the woman you actually like twice-thrice a week, the other 1-2 you can meet on two other days.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:34 PM
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TRT hah
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:23 PM
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Same. Which is why I continue to date 1-2 more women I kind of like.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:23 PM
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Lol... And people actually agree with this utter bullshit?`Some people had good upbringings and never had the need to develop charisma or charm to get their way.
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:38 AM
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After the age of 35. Good fucking luck. Seriously, isn't going to happen at all.
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:36 AM
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Some people just require constant validation. It's quite sad. He is flirting, but no, you shouldn't pursue this. If you do, and if it works out, he will do exactly the same thing to you that he is now doing to his gf. Stay away.
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:17 PM
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Link us your photofeeler profile 😅😅
/r/seduction30/09/22 06:35 AM
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c'est la vie, c'est la guerre.
/r/seduction30/09/22 06:35 AM
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Hahahahahahahahahae
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:45 AM
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Hahahahahahahahahae
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:45 AM
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Start slow. Just walk up to someone that's watching something and ask what they're looking at. Take the answer and walk away. Do that 20 times. Then try to start a small conversation after you got the answer... After that conversation is done - walk away. Do that 20 times... Then work in some flirting during the conversation... And then walk away... Do that 20 times... Then try to get their number after there's some type of rapport built.
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:50 PM
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The moment you invest more into a girl than she is investing into you... You're done. So ask yourself: Who has been initiating most of the messaging? Who has validated the otherone more? Who has taken the most initiative to meet up? If the answer is You every time, you're done. Ignore her and try to reset it. Keep it at 35-40% you and 60-65% her.
/r/seduction25/09/22 08:30 PM
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Ofc they do... You have a phd and you're a physician... That's also quite good looking... Your advice is useless. You could basically do whatever and still get them.
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:01 AM
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If that vibe is that she don't want a kiss. There isn't going to be a second dare 😅
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:58 PM
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Kind of my analysis of op aswell. He needs to date more and learn how to not give a fk
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:57 PM
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That's pretty good. Let's see what I get. 9.7 :) But I put a girl on photofeeler that's around a 7-8 I'd say - she got 9.9 there so yeah there's that. Photofeeler is shit. If you don't mind, can we continue this conversation in private? I think I could learn a thing or two from you.
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:22 AM
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Everyone focuses on physical appearance. I think you should maybe have a reality check made.
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:20 AM
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Tbh I havent watched anything. This is just my personal experience with relationships. It's also human emotional psychology. When someone pulls away every so slightly, we counter by trying to push harder. Which makes them pull away even more.
/r/seduction22/09/22 08:20 AM
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Interesting. I never compliment her at all. But sure I could drop some about personality, however complimenting looks meh... I don't date people that are 5s or 6s, and those that are above know they look good.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:47 PM
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It's a numbers game. Great that you found the courage to walk up to her 💪💪💪 Think of it this way: You lose 10 minutes of your time, if you do this 10-20 times, you've lost 3 hours. And maybe you've found the love of your life. That's a pretty good time investment instead of sitting on tinder for hours upon hours... chatting with girls that get literally ten messages per minute from horny dudes.
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:06 AM
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It's about finding out what she likes to do and then asking if she would like to do X at Y.
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:38 AM
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Why would you open up with validating her exterior? Makes no sense. Please read a book.
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:32 AM
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That seems to be his hobby and he seems to be quite good at it
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:34 AM
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Great post
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:33 AM
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There's no shame in being fat. Why would me not wanting to date fat women be "fat shaming"? It just is what it is. You have your preferences in men/women as well. Don't you?
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:48 PM
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Sigh fat shaming. What are you? An internet keyboard warrior?
/r/seduction29/08/22 12:59 PM
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Man I don’t know what it is you’re smoking. Usually when someone opens like that, it's meant that they don't agree with something said earlier. But w/e, have a nice sunday afternoon.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:28 PM
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Maybe the subreddit can describe to you what the books don't. What the actual loved ones feel. Not what a therapist thinks. I think adults should be held accountable for their actions. And if those actions are evil, then by definition you are... a... monster. Sorry. I know the reasons and I know why they become the way they are when they're in these "states of mind" - but that does not minimize the damage they do to others through their actions. Sorry once again.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:27 PM
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Cool - good for you. I did 40 in about a year... But I lowered my standards to maybe 5.5-ish. I just don't smash fat.
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:25 PM
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Man I don’t know what it is you’re smoking. Women chase attractive men constantly lmao, get out of here. That's exactly what I said bro. Did you just wake up and your reading comprehension is a bit meh? And bro, I'm not jealous. I've been where OP is and it's not a great place to be. You just keep fucking these pseudo whores and after a while it gets fairly boring.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:25 AM
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Is what it is. I can just stand outside a bar at the closing hour and get invited to an after-party. Women are horny too... But yet, my self-esteem last 2 years has been absolute trash. And I've also racked up a horrible body count of low-quality women. This last one I fell hard for, probably because of my savior complex, and her being so vulnerable... She looked good though, like an 8, but... mentally a 2, wife material a 1, horrible person. Since that ended I have been working on myself and co…
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:52 AM
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If your standards are low, you sleep with those that hunt you. Most guys that are decently attractive get hunted by women constantly.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:52 AM
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😂 c'est la vie, c'est la guerre.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:22 AM
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Kind of is. You'll be able to see this more clearly when you get slightly older and you meet different people with personality disorders, depression, anxiety, etc - and also personally have been in different states of self-esteem yourself. The lower your self-esteem is, the more validation you require, the more you sleep around, and the lower your standards are.
/r/seduction28/08/22 08:19 AM
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Except if she has slept with 200 guys... You should probably bail because this woman has severe self-esteem issues, probably depression, anxiety, borderline... Gtfo 😂 The same goes for men. We're different - but oh boy are we the same. I've personally noticed over the years that the higher my self-esteem is, the higher the quality of women I actually sleep with is.
/r/seduction28/08/22 08:15 AM
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It's not fucking impressive. Just lower your standards and you get to sleep with as many as you want. Really that simple. Having a high body count just shows low self-esteem, poor emotional state, not really able to keep relationships. It's exactly the same for women, what do you think if a woman has slept with 200 guys by the age of 30? Right - exactly the same things that fuel women to do that also fuel guys to sleep around with everything that moves. We're different, but oh boy are we so much…
/r/seduction28/08/22 08:12 AM
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I say that's private. Even though - I know that I'd want to know if she had slept with 100> guys. I just came out of a relationship with a person that I think had around 200 guys under her belt. And well, that relationship ended in a dumpster fire of emotions and agony. The more you sleep around the more you show that you have low self-esteem and value yourself quite poorly. It's really that simple. That it's somehow a bragging point for guys is a tremendous joke and a satire of reality. Most me…
/r/seduction28/08/22 08:06 AM
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My post is about picking up women outside a psychiatric clinic. Not about ADHD.
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:18 AM
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Perhaps. You could also try reading r/BPDlovedones a bit.
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:08 AM
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Go read r/BPDlovedones
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:07 AM
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I think you're severely paraphrasing me now. I never even compared ADHD to BPD. I call BPDs psychopaths because their behaviour mimics it. Of course in a clinical sense they're not.
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:03 AM
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Indeed. But people want to sugarcoat it and think it's not so bad... All they have to do is go to the subreddit r/BPDlovedones and read for an hour. Then they'll understand.
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:02 AM
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I live in Sweden, different society here.
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:01 AM
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Guess you haven't dated borderline women or men.
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:21 AM
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Just fucking google it bro. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/personality-disorders/symptoms-causes/syc-20354463#:~:text=Cluster%20B%20personality%20disorders%20are,disorder%20and%20narcissistic%20personality%20disorder. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder https://www.mentalhelp.net/personality-disorders/cluster-b/ Also the Dunning-Kruger effect is a joke and was just a meme paper that has no significance. But you'd know that if you actually read. https://www.nature.c…
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:23 PM
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Bipolar and/or borderline personality disorder is not the same thing as psychopathy, you idiot. They're all three Cluster-B disorders. Sorry but that's just how it is. And if you've never dated one of these people for a longer period of time. THEN WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK DO YOU KNOW ABOUT IT? There is a reason there are help groups for men and women that have after years managed to rid themselves of their borderline spouse/SO. Do you think these groups are there because this break was EASY? I agree…
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:19 PM
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Most men with ADHD are in jail? No most men with Borderline, Psychopathy, Sadistic traits - are in jail. You can't medicate these disorders, only treat them with Dialectical behaviour therapy - which teaches these people to handle their emotions. ADHD and ADD are not violent traits at all. That's just caused by a dopamine deficiency in the brain which causes these people to not be able to concentrate. Instead, they procrastinate.
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:13 PM
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You'd think. Imagine they have a lifetime of experience doing it and you've only met a couple... And they don't start with it right away. At start they're the best woman/guy you've ever met. After 4-5 months that's when it starts, and it goes quickly. They become literal monsters. I've never seen such pure evil ever. Most men with these diagnoses are in jail - lucky for most women hah.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:47 PM
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Pretty sure you cannot find a worse place to pickup women you actually want to date. Dating borderline women WILL destroy you. Seriously, there are help groups for men that have dated these psychopaths. Please don't do it. Sure this time you got lucky that she has ADHD... The next one might not. Please understand that women with borderline or even any type of Cluster-B personality disorder you NEED to stay away from. They will destroy you. They will feed on your savior complex all men have and t…
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:55 PM
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EXTREMELY real.
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:29 AM
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Remember that the instant you start investing much more into the relationship than she does - she's gone.
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:40 AM
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Nope.
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:58 AM
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There are asexual people you know... You might be it.
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:56 AM
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Great job.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:51 PM
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Because there's a risk of pregnancy with having sex. Becoming pregnant with someone's child that's the wrong guy is and has always been a very bad decision. That's why. #evolution
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:53 AM
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Getting ready is a process for a girl. Not for a guy. Can literally take 2 hours. If not 5.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:20 PM
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zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz I fell asleep
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:16 PM
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Nope
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:14 PM
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I think so too. It could have been a shit test, problem was, she was into already OP and she's older. And as such, she feels she has a lower value already. If a woman feels she already has lower value by default, she won't do shit tests. It's when they don't know they try to hone in on it. If the girl was younger and good-looking. Then yeah, probably would have been a shit test.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:04 PM
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It's not important. However, what is important in any relationship is that you try to be nice to your partner from time to time. But lingerie is definitely sexy.
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:10 PM
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Sadly the truth. If you keep juggling three girls constantly you can't be arsed to think about X too much. And thinking about her too much means you're going to start sending her text messages too often which will drive her away.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:50 PM
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Bro... You barely knew this girl. Why hung up on her? Channel that feeling into other women, weight lifting, personal improvement...
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:09 PM
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Right. Much better word to use "assertiveness" instead of forcefully. Not native English speaker :)
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:30 PM
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When I say forcefully I don't mean rape-ish but just with some force. As if you really crave her, with some passion. Not in any way that she can't escape.
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:14 PM
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It's so fucking absurd though. But yeah, pretty much... Sigh... The thing they want the most is for you to just say I'm horny, and then start feeling her up, then having sex on the spot - in the kitchen. Then on the floor. They fucking love that shit. Forcefully.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:21 PM
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You missed one crucial detail. What is your sample size?
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:17 PM
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It's just so sad that that's actually true sigh. The problem is however... I'm dating a girl with an "almost" borderline-esque personality. This means if I pull away to get her to pull closer - she'll actually bail hard. I'm stumped haha. Think I'll still pull away, if it dsnt work it dsnt work. C'est la vie, c'est la guerre.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:03 PM
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yes
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:13 PM
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One wonderful loyal woman.
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:36 PM
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Get a guy, but not keep him though. That's the problem.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:07 AM
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Works if you're average and above tbh. For a guy - yes - it only works if you're very attractive. But this post was made by a woman so yeah there's that...
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:46 AM
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Tbh we all fit somewhere in the dating hierarchy. Just how it is. To acknowledge this is not toxic. It's reality. That it however sounds toxic, that might be true. But the reality of the situation can both be toxic and true.
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:34 PM
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Can something be true and toxic at the same time though?
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:02 PM
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You'd think. But she really can't. Sometimes people just can't do better, is what it is. She has borderline personality disorder which makes the relationship very difficult.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:51 PM
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I said "hunt", not hurt. I'm definitely not gods gift. But this girl has more red flags than China. But for some reason she managed to steal my heart.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:01 PM
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Have you never heard about the proverb Love Conquers All?
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:07 PM
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You're downvoted because it really really reads like sarcasm. Mainly because "seldom" is not in any way a "big word".
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:40 AM
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Please correct it.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:45 AM
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Bro those concerns you have are HUGE red flags. Please don't get back together with this girl. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you're very young.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:38 AM
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Not the biggest fan of a theory from the early 20th century by a guy who based this entire theory on his own childhood without any empirical data or evidence outside n=1. Also the theory can be debunked easily... But sure... There's something going on, and maybe if the attachment style theory could be reworked to a more modern society it could bear some fruit.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:36 AM
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Can be multiple reasons bro. It's easy to sit on the sidelines and rationalize feelings, but men have feelings too and they're very seldom rational.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:35 AM
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Indeed.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:34 AM
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I'm atm in such a situation. I feel she's pulling away... So I'm going to pull away even more so she can feel how it feels. This girl I'm dating cannot, under any circumstances, do any better. 100%. Figuratively and literally impossible. I just need her to understand that with the entirety of her being. Thus I'm now pulling away so she has to hunt a bit.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:33 AM
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Think it's " a reflection of your inner self"... Nonetheless. Instagram and social media fucks with women so hard nowadays. They don't understand how manipulated they become.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:58 AM
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True. Problem is, that almost all women have low self-esteem in this Instagram day and age.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:54 AM
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Fall for: She was crazy. Fell out of: She was crazy.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:10 PM
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I understand that while this works, isn't this the antithesis of seduction?, as in trying to manipulate someone into finding you attractive? Trying to have fun because that in itself is attractive is the manipulation. You're actually trying to get laid.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:05 PM
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Good question. Same here, I'm fucking done with these idiots. All they do is talk about guys, talk about themselves, talk about their friends, or talk about how hard life is. So fucking done listening to it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:01 PM
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You're not flirty enough.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:59 PM
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It's totally normal for most first dates to not go to 2nd dates. It's not necessarily a reflection of you. It's actually kind of rare for 2 strangers from the internet to click in person. Don't take it personally. I'd love to say you're right about not taking it personally, you shouldn't, but yet, you should... It just shows your charm was really trash that night. Of course, there's a possibility she was just impossible, but it's a numbers game and if "most dates don't go to a second date" - you…
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:50 AM
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Many studies have shown that women rate men lower in pictures than in real life. Of course. As long as you're not short.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:57 AM
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Playfully teasing is what negging is. Just some bros thought it was something else and they successfully taught everyone it was being "rude to women". Obviously dsnt work.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:26 PM
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Sure. And also thus a charming person would never say "I'm charming" - as it in itself is not charming.
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:58 AM
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If you come off that way, you're not especially charming though 😂 Charm is being able to read the situation correctly and adapt to it.
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:32 AM
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Indeed. But it can be worth it if it's a 3-month summer fling - which this was. But breaking up is always a bit emotionally draining. Think the next girl I actually going to jump into a relationship with is going to be fun and interesting. She's probably not going to be a 9 because those women are usually dull and boring. Rather have a fun and interesting 6 for the next 10 years than a booooooooring 9 or 10.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:59 AM
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compliments Give the wrong compliments and you just come off as a used car salesman. Also, the more attractive the woman is, the fewer compliments she wants to hear - as most idiots just shovel compliments at these women.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:56 AM
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They're good looking. They have poor standards They manage to fake confidence whilst having none. They're flirtatous And they're horny as fk and seek validation. <--Proof they don't actually have that confidence...
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:43 AM
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Indeed. You are 100% correct about that. Just broke up with my girlfriend yesterday just because mainly her personality was self-obsessive and just uninteresting.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:22 AM
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Of course. You are what you are. But women are 60% mental attraction 40% physical (ballpark). Men however are 90% physical 10% mental... This is why charm is not really something women worry about learning - because it does not get them anywhere.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:18 AM
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Sure. But the more charming you are the more people will find you attractive. But sure of course, some won't. Always going to be those outliers.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:11 AM
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But with dating the only thing women look for is someone they actually get along with who they also find fuckable. Sure. The problem here is that most men don't understand what "she finds fuckable" is. It's mostly about confidence.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:08 AM
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Why would you tell her that? 😂😂 cmon it's the same thing as a woman telling you she has had 200 sexual partners.
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:15 PM
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Sometimes people just dont care to answer straight away
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:14 AM
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Why would you want to talk to someone that's boring? That's really the question you need to ask yourself.
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:12 AM
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Don't limit yourself to hot women either. So fucking true. Really CBA with the fucking instagram women Zzzzz
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:13 PM
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Here's the thing. If everything you're saying is true. Then it's either: Your personality is shit. There's nothing interesting about you. You're well below average when it comes to looks trying to hit on 8-10s... Professional pictures on tinder are shit, you not even understanding this shows how far you still have left to go. You dress down whilst you should dress up. Guessing t-shirt and jeans whilst not having the arms, back, or pecs to be able to pull it off. When you're out your main objecti…
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:10 PM
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Depends a lot on the personality. Guys approach women that seem are very social and flirty. They think they have a shot then, even though they're usually not trying to pick up said guy at all. They're just being social.
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:08 PM
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This thing happened to me 3 years ago 3 years ago and you're still thinking about it... omg
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:34 PM
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Why would you do that? If it goes completely sideways, which it will, you're going to have to change gym 😂😂😂 Na but in all honesty, please don't try to cold approach women when they're working, especially in the service industry - their job is literally to be nice to you. Which some men think means they're flirting. They're not, they're doing their job.
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:23 AM
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Exactly. Most women arent comfortable being hit on at the gym because they're sweaty, they don't have more makeup than mascara and possibly eyeliner so they don't feel they're beautiful... And some women just want to work out and go home. But sure, if you're Henry Cavil and she's fat. Go for it. W/e...
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:19 AM
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How about approaching a surgeon whilst she's performing heart surgery? THESE RULES MAKE NO SENSE. ALWAYS COLD APPROACH /OP To teach some people this shit you have to give them an example where it's obvious that you shouldn't approach...
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:12 AM
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Of course. But they could be reasonable...
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:28 PM
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ikr
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:27 PM
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Stockholm syndrome is bs btw :) Considering I am from Stockholm and have read up on the Norrmalmstorg drama.
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:26 PM
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Once you get really good at something you don't have to concentrate on doing it. Like playing the piano...
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:11 PM
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It's about evoking that interest. But I'm guessing you're more into sitting at a bar talking to your buds and having a cold one meanwhile you're gazing out and looking if any girls are checking you out. And if they do you might try a cold approach. Sure that's an easy way. But you never really charmed her, she was already into you. And why was that? Think about all these psychological effects such as Florence Nightingale effect or Savior complex. And if you're good enough and charming enough you…
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:58 PM
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Haven't spent a single dime or read any books. But charm exists, to say the opposite would be retarded. I know people that are extremely charming yes. Everyone has people they just don’t click with. Why? Think about it for a second. Anywho. I find it weird that you think charm does not exist. And that you see the world in absolutes. Everything is about the normal distribution curve in biology.
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:12 PM
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Men can tell within seconds. We look at you and we either say yay or nay.
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:29 AM
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Because he has no charm. Interesting and charming people can be chameleons and fit anywhere. I guess this is what you don't really get. We're all people and we all respond to pretty much the same way. There's no difference in talking to a goth person than it is talking to a soccer player. I really think you underestimate what you can actually do. Because you have no game and you never tried learning it. Or you did but you gave up when it didn't work the first 3 times. Because you didn't really l…
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:25 AM
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This is why you need to just choose the women who chose you. Right... Really sounds like it 😂😂. Have you even read what you wrote bro?
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:13 AM
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Sigh. Why not?
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:11 AM
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it also doesn’t help that in guys friend groups, the one with the hottest girlfriend gets the most respect Really? Really? In all honesty that sounds like someone that's 15-20 years old talking... In my group of friends, no one really gives a shit.
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:02 AM
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Then you should write that instead of writing what everyone thinks you're writing.
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:01 AM
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OP's logic: Charm does not exist. You can't be charming. It's impossible. It's all about how good you look.
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:00 AM
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If you have "many options" you wouldn't be here. Many guys here are about quantity (around zero)! What makes you think that? There's a lot of women on this forum as well even though this forum is mainly aimed at men. People just like reading, some people like giving advice. The problem with the start of this thread by OP is that you're supposed to take advice from a fisherman that has never caught a fish. He basically sits in his boat waiting for the fish to accidentally jump into it. This threa…
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:00 AM
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he would've done better with a more active approach. 1000%
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:54 AM
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Aye check this out!! .. if a “10” truly wants you sir she’ll tell you to your face & she’ll actually be the one asking for your number and asking you out! … Ok? … You must understand that whenever you genuinely stop looking for a certain one then you give yourself space for that one to come find you … 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:53 AM
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It's like r/seduction is now for men that has given up trying to find the woman they want and are now relying on settling. Shit blows my mind. What the fuck happened 😂😂😂.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:50 AM
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For most men that are average looking, that shit will just never happen. I'm really good-looking and if I wait for a woman to do the first move, I usually need to wait for a really long time. Some women act like men though and just walk up to you and ask you if you want a drink... But those women are usually 4s.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:47 AM
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Nope that's really not what game is 😂😂 Game is being able to seduce women. Definition isn't more difficult than that. And for average-looking guys, women really arent going to give them many signals. Mainly because they're busy giving the above-average-looking guys said signals.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:45 AM
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I think you misunderstand what chase means. And that's part of your journey to understand women.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:42 PM
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Guess that's more of your interpretation than mine. Sad
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:42 PM
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Change your job maybe? Also, they probably don't shut you off because your job. Try lying about it and you'll see...
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:41 PM
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If you have no inclination of chasing are you thinking that your future wife is just simply going to knock on your door and say "I'm here now, let's get married"?
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:46 PM
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Indeed. If you want attention as a 22-year-old you gotta hit on 16-17 year olds and that's just... HARD PASS - and also illegal in some countries.
/r/seduction23/07/22 12:17 PM
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Think about what you're saying and put yourself in their shoes. If you, a 6, would get matched with 9s or 10s on OLD... Would you not go on a date with her? My god, she even pays and wants to have sex on the first date... But after 2-3 weeks she blows you off, but you've already matched with 10 other 9s or 10s that are waiting to take you out for a date. Rinse repeat in perpetuum.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:34 AM
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The blame actually lies in men dating women that are 6s when they're a 9 or 10.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:33 AM
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I found the girl in the thread 😂 being upvoted by other women. Women really don't fucking care about that stuff. That's not what builds rapport or attraction. And also, aren't we all a "prize to be captured"? Be that men or women. We're all a prize for someone. And using the word trophy is a bit fraudulent, you're intentionally using that word to skew people's opinion because it's programmed into our brains that this is not alright. And yet that is EXACTLY what EVERYONE does. Everyone is trying …
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:30 AM
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Indeed haha. I think for physical appearance 34 is apparently our peak. I'm 39 and 21-year-olds hit on me at the bar 😂😂
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:25 AM
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Stop feeling sorry for yourself might be your first step towards actually getting a girl. Work hard, exercise, get a fun hobby that you can share with others. It's good if that hobby is interesting or exciting or dangerous. Playing chess for example is something you can talk about for about 5 seconds before it becomes fairly boring to someone that does not play chess.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:23 AM
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My dad just went for women that were low-hanging fruit (overweight, older, psychological issues). So yeah... Really not much advice to get from him. He thought he had some advice to give, but he really didn't. It was first later in the mid 90s and early 00s that this shit started to become generally known.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:22 AM
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Because they: Swing outside their league. Don't know what women want. Aren't fun or are tired from working all week.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:21 AM
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Perhaps late into a relationship men become attractive.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:11 AM
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Cba explaining dating to you. There are guides, videos, endless material, etc... Read them.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:53 AM
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It's when a girl checks if you have confidence or not. Simplified explanation. There are multiple ways to counter them. But none involves lying.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:46 AM
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why you get nervous Shit test.
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:29 AM
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30? That's rookie numbers my man
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:53 AM
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wilder kinky stuff like threesomes, gangbangs and such in college That stuff is really not that common. When you're in your early tweens you're really not comfortable enough to do those things. You barely know how to even have great sex 😂
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:25 PM
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You should have countered with "Yes, you should" and laughed.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:46 PM
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"nearly 30". I stopped reading there. Sorry bro. And I did not insult you, you insulted me instantly. Great job, really showing off the inner alpha.
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:02 AM
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It's not about buying things bro lol wtf. But going on a trip to some cool place, renting a boat, going scubadiving, parachuting, jetskiing, skiing... That shit's fun. And not for free. But please do sit at the beach with a beer from the local supermarket and crack jokes thinking that's "fun". Maybe fun when you're in your early 20s 😂
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:59 AM
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I think we have different definitions of having fun. When you get slightly older you'll understand.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:51 AM
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That's fairly rich in most people's books.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:42 AM
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The more money you have the more fun you can have. Fun has a tendency to be quite expensive. You'd know that if you had any
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:29 AM
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Ba dum tss
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:28 AM
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Question was framed "without fame or money".
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:21 AM
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Question was phrased "without fame or money" :)
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:20 AM
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Personal trainers
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:19 AM
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I think and guess that's where we differ in opinion. And I don't really have the time nor effort to find the research concerning this. And psychology research is flimsy at most 😂
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:28 PM
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I think you're just mixing up "we don't act" and how that's not our biology. For some reason, you're untethering the "we don't act" from biology.
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:51 PM
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A person is smart. People are stupid. Are you actually quoting men in black? 😂😂
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:04 AM
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It's all conditioning tbh. If it's real to you, it's real. This is also why men that are 4s won't date 2s or 3s... They could, but they won't, they'd rather cry on reddit.
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:02 AM
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I cherish compliments like rare gems that I find once a year on a full moon Then you're really not putting yourself out there or you're not average at all.
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:00 AM
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You stop going mainly for looks. It's really that simple. Looks deceive you. Go for Education and what his parents do. If his parents are successful, he's going to have a high chance of being successful and also not a psycho/stalker/depressed/ocd/borderline/etc. Because very few that have traits of depression or such become successful. And parents are a good indicator of that. Because genetics and upbringing play a huge role in depression/mental illness. I'm not telling you to date an orc, but t…
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:55 AM
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Most peopel want to eventually find a partner. I think we can all agree on this, no one has the time or energy to perpetually keep dating for 15+ years. What happens if women that are 5s keep matching with these guys that are 9s and 10s on Tinder, they're going to start thinking that's the type of partner they can settle down with. Problem is, these guys never want a relationship with a 5. They're looking for a 8-10 themselves. These 5s are just there to kill time and have fun with. Thus, women …
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:50 AM
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A big part of living within a society is recognising that our biology will compel us to do things which hurt others, Think you misunderstand biology brosky. Quite the opposite is true because as a group it's much easier to survive than alone.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:47 AM
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😂 Women you really weren't that attracted to.
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:25 AM
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Right... That's how the weekend is going to go 😂😂
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:40 PM
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That'd be $200 + the cost of the dates though.
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:23 PM
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You're playing it too cool man. You need to match her text frequency and initiations otherwise she will move on because she thinks you're not serious or you don't like her.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:36 PM
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You have to show interest in her, and in things/subjects. But you also have to have a "happy-go-lucky"-attitude to life. Shit rolls off you so to speak.
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:56 AM
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😂 Bro that was a propaganda video 😂😂😂😂 Also, everyone has Herpes and those who don't are the ones in trouble because they can get genital herpes(HSV2) whilst HSV-1 has cross-protection to HSV2.
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:55 AM
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Here comes the insults 😂😂. This is why I don't date people that are quadriplegics or have other debilitating syndromes or illnesses, a hard life creates douchebags. Something these nightingale women will soon realize 😂😂
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:53 PM
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Don't think I could care less tbh 😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:07 PM
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Everyone is dating multiple people at once and everyone is also saying they don't.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:44 PM
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Because then you won't over-invest in one girl. Over-investing and you'll seem needy - which no girl is attracted to. As said earlier, women want to feel wanted, not needed.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:43 PM
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There's a difference between can and want. can /kan,kən/ verb be able to. "they can run fast" be permitted to. "you can use the phone if you want to" want /wɒnt/ Learn to pronounce verb have a desire to possess or do (something); wish for. "I want an apple" Similar: desire wish for hope for fancy have a fancy for take a fancy to have an inclination for care for like set one's heart on long for yearn for pine for sigh for crave hanker after hunger for thirst for lust after cry out for be desperat…
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:40 PM
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I couldn't even read that much. One thing r/seduction never talks about is that intelligence is actually fairly sexy and showing the opposite is not. Thus most guys here should try to educate themselves.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:45 AM
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Women in a nutshell. I just got a message from a girl I talked briefly to 6 months ago saying "I'm ready to go on that date now"... I'm like... Bro... I'm not on the market for that long 😂
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:26 AM
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Pretty much. Feels like OP does not understand that the world does not revolve around her. And meanwhile she's there playing games the guy is out there dating women that aren't. I dated maybe 75 women last year when I was single and the one I chose in the end was the one that didn't play any games, didn't take 5 hours to respond to a message, and was generally accessible or made time. Same as I was accessible to her, didn't take a day to answer her messages and made time for her.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:24 AM
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You also buy the car at the car dealership before you've had it for a test run? If you're not a 10, no guy is going to cba sticking around and going on countless dates before the relationship escalates.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:20 AM
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>I'm not talking about dropping the L bomb (aka the four letter word that will ruin any relationship no matter how long you guys have been together) Bro why would that ruin any relationship? You shouldn't be dating especially long if the romantic feelings arent growing each time you see each other.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:16 AM
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Dude you don't need to talk about deep stuff. You could of course and if that by a fluke resonates with that one girl - she's definitely going to be more into you. But generally, it's about building rapport, having fun, and showing them: You don't really care. You're not a psycho.
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:37 AM
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Except that it's all wrong. If you think someone don't like you, you instantly start to wonder why and think about that person more. The more you think about someone the more you want to be validated by that said someone. This is why oldskool it was always about waiting for 72h to call after a first date.
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:35 AM
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paragraph division <---- PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:32 AM
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I am creepy. Easily solved by new wardrobe, haircut, correct amount of beard. disgusting very inappropriate. Also easily solved by just learning what to say and not drinking too much. So yeah... Your problem is easily fixed and yet you come here to create some pity party about you giving up? Give me a break bro 😂😂😂
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:06 PM
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Agree to disagree.
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:10 AM
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Long-term means "fall for". A booty call is not to "fall for someone".
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:27 PM
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Someone that is just better than her. Easy as that. More confident, better looking, better physique, but most importantly - more successful.
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:21 PM
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Pretty immature comment and not at all what women are attracted to in the long term.
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:20 PM
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Obviously... Jfc that you even have to ask.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:20 AM
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<--- This
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:44 PM
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Women are attracted by men who lead and men who are successful. Both either require or produces confidence. Try to put yourself in a situation where you're doing that.
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:28 AM
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I think some people just keep the bar high. Other people keep it low, they get super happy and confident when they achieve mediocre things like getting a driver's license or a job...
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:56 AM
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send me a pic in /msg I'm interested how you're getting these compliments when you're just out and about. Might be a culture thing though.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:23 PM
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Yes but you just push the envelope... So instead of hitting on 6s you hit on 8s, 9s, and 10s...
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:21 PM
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You have to understand why she's doing this. Usually, this is a sign of very low self-esteem and self-confidence. She lashes out because she wants to elicit a response or feeling from/in you, if you get mad - she has successfully made you mad. Becoming mad shows her that you care for her. The problem with this is that there really isn't much of a solution except inner laughter. It might subside after a while when she becomes more comfortable in the relationship. Or it might not. If ever she's ma…
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:35 AM
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Interesting why you're getting downvoted.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:47 PM
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Indeed. How is her current marital status / relationship status your business? That's hers...
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:46 PM
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If she's hot I'll smash. I really couldn't care less if she's together or not with someone else. Also doing the poor bloke a favor as he should get out of that toxic relationship post haste. Of course I wouldn't have sex with a friends ex or current gf. I'm not a fucking douchebag and I value my friends.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:45 PM
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You're really showing your inner Alpha and how confident you are in yourself by trying to belittle me instead of countering with actual arguments. Nice work bro 😂😂😂😂 But please do keep up the work, soon 9000 approaches to chicks that are 4/10.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:40 PM
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They don't because they were already into you. Try picking up women that are better looking.
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:55 PM
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The compliment should NOT be her looks. Compliment something else.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:27 AM
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Problem is that every chick you date for the next 10 years is going to be worse in bed than the hooker 😅. It's literally their job to be great at sex.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:34 AM
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Bro, you didn't get her. She got you.
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:16 AM
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Because you give a fuck about what they think. Stop doing that.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:33 PM
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Just be a fun and exciting guy. It's less about what you say but how you say it.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:32 PM
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Women want to feel safe. If you can protect your woman without fighting someone that's great. If you need to fight them because there is no other way - that's also fine. ​ However, starting fights just to show your woman that you can fight is a big NO. And also it's fucking illegal and will land you in jail. Enjoy. Fucking children I swear to god.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:52 PM
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Understanding that either your profile is shit or you're a super average dude is pretty good though. use /r/tinder and let people judge your profile.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:28 PM
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Actually just had a woman walk up to me and ask me if I was single and if I wanted to go home with her. But then again she was a 4 so yeah no thanks 😅
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:33 PM
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Read this subreddit and other alike for a couple of weeks. Keep hitting the gym, consider going supranatural.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:32 PM
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He just gave two examples 😅
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:29 AM
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I just think it's adorable that she thinks I will be jealous.
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:12 AM
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They're fucking boring. But the absolute worst thing is if it's a girl I'm dating seriously and she acts in public or with my family in a way that is very childish or rude thus humiliating me by proxy.
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:11 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:10 AM
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reality check. YOU ARE ALWAYS GOING TO BE THE SECOND PICK.
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:52 PM
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You need to have multiple irons in the fire. Don't overly invest in one girl. They always come around when they're feeling like it. Just keep women around and don't be overly eager. Usually, they send you a text when they're doing something that reminds them of you and they're horny.
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:57 AM
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Indeed. And lowering standards is like dating on easy mode. Sure you're going to get a ton of pussy but it's going to be with women you're not really interested in hah.
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:51 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being a "backup man". Most people are backup men, even the good-looking ones. Because extremely few have the whole package of: Good looking Successful (very) High socio-economic class Sexy Funny Athletic Whatever she's looking for. So that guy that's a 10 when it comes to looks is dating this girl that's a 9-10. However, she's also dating another guy that's a 10 but is also very successful... This first guy is now the "backup man". Once again, nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:50 AM
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Yeah never shoot more than two texts in a row. If she doesn't respond she doesn't respond. Never shoot a third text.
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:46 AM
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Tbh what you're saying might be true between the ages of 15-23. But when you hit your mid-30s... People are just emotionally blunted and life commitments take up a ton of your time. Work+Exercise+Relaxing+Friends and family. And everyone's after someone that's out of their league. That's why you got to stay in decent contact with women, because when that 9 or 10 that they were simping after blows them off - they're going to be looking for comfort 😁. But this "fall madly in-love" bs, that shit ha…
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:40 AM
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Not American.
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:12 AM
1

If you got the body for it - a t-shirt and jeans can look awesome. If you don't however, you're better off dressing according to what you've worked at the gym for.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:47 PM
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Pretty sure it is.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:45 PM
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The best tailor is being fit. Think about that before you buy your "drip" or what the fuck that shit is. But Gucci won't get you laid if you can't wear it with style. Respect gets you laid, and even mentioning "lil yachty" or who the fk that is - you just lost the base respect I give everyone.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:44 PM
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It's very easy when you decide. You can lose 5-6lb a week with some discipline. Took me 3 months to go from obese to six pack. But hitting the gym just isn't enough, because you'll eat it right back up again.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:43 PM
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I think you need to mix it up and be both guys.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:20 PM
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Great. If you start understanding how women work you could start hitting on higher quality women - isn't that why you're in this sub to begin with?
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:58 AM
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If they weren't interested in you they wouldnt go on the date at all. Would you? I don't live in the US, so a date doesn't mean a free meal - if you were thinking that some women actually would do that. And I think those that do are few and far apart.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:57 AM
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You can of course argue that any text is a validation text. But there are degrees. And in the end you kind of want to know if the girl is going to flake so you don't have to take that shower and get ready for the date... You could send other texts like "Starting to get nervous yet?" - wouldn't be as much of a validation text.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:56 AM
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Why are you looking forward to seeing her tonight? Because of the 5 lines of text you shot each other yesterday? Cmon... You're going on the date to find out if she's interesting, you apparently have already decided that she is without even meeting her. What signals do you think that sends?
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:27 PM
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Haha. You should really read up a bit. It's all games man. They play games on us constantly and we reciprocate.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:26 PM
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Who has time to text for an hour before setting up a date? I'd rather just meet them and see if there's any chemistry. Been down the texting forever rabbit hole and I'm not going back.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:24 PM
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Then why in the love of everything that is holy are you in this sub? It's all fucking games. They play games, we play games. The only difference is that everyone except you understand the game - apparently.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:21 PM
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Nope, it validates them. Why are you looking forward to meeting her that much? Because of the five lines of text, you wrote each other on tinder? Really? Shouldn't she be looking forward to meeting you then?
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:19 PM
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You're validating her with that comment. Something you shouldn't do. Literally the first lesson you should have learned.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:18 PM
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Seems like a pretty meh idea tbh. Could just say: We said at X right? See u tonight Hopefully you're fun tonight Or any variation... ... As such it won't seem like you have ADHD and can't plan for shit.
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:19 PM
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Every time you're messaging her you're waiting for an answer. That answer validates you that you're still interesting to her. You're searching for that validation in everything and it's not attractive. Are you searching for validation at your workplace as well? Do you become super happy if your boss says "good job"? How do you feel about compliments from strangers? Salespeople? People with low self-esteem and low self-confidence love compliments because it validates them, as such, they become li…
/r/seduction25/05/22 10:06 AM
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I meant more the SD in bdsm. And that stems from sexual trauma. Wanting to beat someone up...
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:17 PM
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It's sad that you have the need to seek validation here. I would suggest working out - it will help with your depression.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:26 AM
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Nope. Noone likes boring sex.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:19 AM
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Some do. But usually, they are submissive. But there are some that want to dominate. Usually hurt by trauma in the past.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:17 AM
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"I first want to start with the most basic premise. You need to know that women absolutely love sex. And I don't mean, oh yeah, they enjoy it. No! Most women can't get enough of it and enjoy it just as much as you do!" ​ No women have a much higher sex drive than men.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:15 AM
1

Buy a new sim card and make a new account then
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:56 AM
1

Then your pictures are complete garbage. If you're an 8 or 9 you should be killing it at online dating.
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:31 AM
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autistic reply moot. The hierarchy of disagreement is a concept proposed by computer scientist Paul Graham in his 2008 essay How to Disagree.[1] Graham's hierarchy has seven levels, from name-calling to "Refuting the central point".
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:27 PM
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Cherry picking, suppressing evidence, or the fallacy of incomplete evidence is the act of pointing to individual cases or data that seem to confirm a particular position while ignoring a significant portion of related and similar cases or data that may contradict that position.
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:53 PM
0

Belief in whatever you want is your prerogative. But please don't paraphrase what other people are saying.
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:51 PM
1

It's not really about "bad" genetics. It's just where you store your fat. To a larger degree than you - I store my fat on my lower back and ass. Thus visible six-pack at 18% bf. That's of course fine. As long as you do it :)
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:06 PM
3

Work and after-work parties.
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:01 PM
18

Noone likes chatting and sending a thousand messages back n forth. Just say "Hey X. Out stirring up trouble?"... They respond either in a boring way or a fun way. Boring way = unmatch. Fun way = ask one question about something that they could have to prove on a date. After that question is answered you just ask them out for a drink to confirm the second question. You can do this in a thousand variations. It's all about not using gay fucking one-liners and cheesy openers.
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:00 PM
12

Real-life approaches are a numbers game. No one wants to tell you this but it's as simple as this: It's not fucking worth the time effort if you look good and r killing it online. Real-life approaches are for guys that are 5s. Because they cannot hack online dating at all.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:57 PM
1

If he sucked at conversing with women he wouldn't get laid during the first date.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:56 PM
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15-20% is fine if you have it in the right places. Depends on your body type of course. I have a 6 pack when I'm at 18% bf btw. And of course, you can bulk up 8-10kg of muscle in 3 months. It's called 600mg of Test-E/week for 12 weeks. Do what other people do, don't do what they tell you to do. Most people look good if they're lean. Bad facial features mostly shine when you have a double chin.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:33 PM
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Welcome to getting to know yourself. This is what you're attracted to.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:43 AM
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Actually... Almost every guy can be decently attractive by: Bulk up. BF% down to 10-20%. Haircut that suits you Beard that suits you. Clothes that fit and signal good fashion sense. Posture That can all be achieved in 3 months if you're not in the top 3% of fat people or skinny people. But you actually have to work for it 😅 Even obesity to skinny can be achieved in 3 months. But as I said earlier, WORK.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:40 AM
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How so?
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:38 AM
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Stop watching her social media all together my man. Reach out to her in 7-10 days. If she still flakes, she's not interested.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:38 AM
5

Excellent list my man.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:35 AM
1

So true lol.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:35 AM
5

Of course he does not need game. But he wont attract the 10s if he does not have it. Having game, or as I like to call it; charm - just increases the chance of starting relationships with high value women.
/r/seduction18/05/22 10:04 PM
2

So bored of this conversation now. Not going to continue discussing this with some woman that has about zero clue on how to date women. It's common knowledge around everyone in this community and other game communities that women have ZERO clue why they are attracted to someone or why they have "chemistry" with someone.
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:50 PM
4

Obviously, this varies depending on personal taste. But say the looks are a 10 for you then it's also: How sexy she is. Humour Energy Career Education That your interests and ideology somewhat align. That your idea of a future together and what it looks like align. But if you're going for just looks. Here are some dos and don'ts: Do lose the weight. Do get fake tits if you have small breasts. Do shower before a date, we can tell if your hair is dirty. Do botox forehead and crowfeet if you're ove…
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:43 PM
1

Or you could just make a fake profile on tinder and see how easy it is to seduce women. Should be super easy for you right? As you know exactly what "you" want...
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:41 PM
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There's a saying. If you want to learn how to fish, ask a fisherman not the fish. Think about that one for a second. If this "be yourself" is true, we could just cancel this sub and all books, courses, etc on seduction and game. Oh wait, it isn't :)
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:19 PM
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Sounds like advice a woman would give. "Just be yourself" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:03 PM
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Becoming rich is the easiest way tbh. Elif it's just a numbers game.
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:02 PM
5

Agreed. About everyone is on these apps from time to time.
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:09 PM
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Become fat.
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:08 PM
2

Sure bro. Sure. Then you should just have instantly left instead of getting all salty and whiney.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:45 PM
1

It was a shit test bro.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:03 PM
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It was just a shit test and OP failed horribly. Women will test you - if you're insecure and get super angry easily - you're low value.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:01 PM
2

Then I see them exchange instagrams. I immediately became disgusted and turned off. Seems you are very insecure. Why are you feeling that way? Isn't she allowed to get some guys insta when she's with you? It was a shit test and you failed horribly. Think about it this way; if the guy was super short and fat, would you be disgusted if she got his insta? No? Why? Because he's no threat to you - you know she'd rather be with you. This is the feeling you should have whenever she talks to even the mo…
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:57 PM
2

What are we supposed to discuss again? Also... "months"... Why would you spend months with this woman?
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:55 AM
3

In actuality what you would think is that you're not good-looking enough naked and that he didn't want you - leaving you with horrible feelings the day after.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:36 PM
5

You know how to escalate. Kissing > caressing > breast/nipples > go down on her > intercourse.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:35 PM
1

You texted her too early. Why is that "understandable"? You obviously didn't understand it at all, so now you're just trying to save face which actually does the opposite. You could have been friends and had fun with her, having a girl as a wingman is awesome.
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:12 AM
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Pretty much. Thus you need to mix it up and she has to get pissed off at you.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:07 PM
1

HA!
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:05 PM
1

Don't do that you fucking nerd. Go shoot some pool instead of doing a coffee date.
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:39 AM
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The guy above is most likely in sales. Sleazy people compliment customers until they feel forced into buying something. Does not work with the ladies.
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:07 PM
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Indeed. But if you take too long to answer and she has an IQ over 110... She'll understand that you're playing games... And if she's into that - that's cool - if she's not then you're gone. I think it's more when you initiate the convo. Do that sparingly. Because everyone and their mother is glued to their phone so it shouldn't take 3 days to respond to a Snap or WA-message.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:42 AM
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Exactly. I think a lot of guys don't understand what it is like to be a woman in today's day and age with IG/Snapchat/etc... They have 10+ guys messaging them from time to time sending them pictures, asking them what they're doing, nagging them, trying to setup dates... ALL THE TIME.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:21 AM
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You need both of course. But in general, for the first 1-3 dates you can do 70% flirting 30% serious talk.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:41 AM
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Sadly a lot of those things are part of the process for modern dating. But doing it too much can have the opposite effect. I had a girl do that shit to me and it was so obvious that I just completely lost interest. What you want to do is mirror the energy of the other person. +-10-20%. If you invest 100% more than they do they will feel pressured and cornered, if you invest 50% less they'll lose attraction to you because they think you're not serious.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:37 AM
1

Read my first sentence moron.
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:22 PM
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You can't rationalize emotions. You didn't know this? When women say "we know exactly what we didn't like about him" - it's always something that isn't that important. But in reality they just never felt that chemistry because he wasn't charming. And I'm also going to echo what other's are saying. Or since you're so FUCKING rational, turn the interaction into game theory. Door one: You say "No chemistry, bye". Guy says "okay, that's cool - bye". Door two that can potentially have two outcomes: Y…
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:55 AM
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Everyone on these dating subs seem to think an easy let down is good enough, but I have no idea how they don't ever wonder what the true reason was. It's ALWAYS the same reason: I wasn't attracted to you. And it's mainly because you either don't look like your OLD pictures or you weren't flirting correctly or at all. Now with that newfound wisdom, you can go out there again.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:52 AM
3

Practice practice practice. And an understanding that they're not listening to what you're saying but how you say it.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:22 AM
1

Obviously not saying all women are like that. It's a numbers game and I'd rather have the numbers on my side if I'm to approach. I.e during weekend, at the club, or such. When they're not fucking exhausted. But you do you. I don't really need to approach, fun thing about being very good looking - I can just schedule my entire week through tinder.
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:12 AM
2

Say you're playing pool on your first date. Initiate physical contact quickly, show them if they have an incorrect stance by moving their body in a non-sexual way, and try to teach them the game. Then tease, poke, psych them out when they're taking their shot. They'll reciprocate and do the same to you... Alternate this with normal conversation, questions about future, past, yada yada... Keep it light. Don't be pushy.
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:11 AM
1

Say you're playing pool on your first date. Initiate physical contact quickly, show them if they have an incorrect stance by moving their body in a non-sexual way, and try to teach them the game. Then tease, poke, psych them out when they're taking their shot. They'll reciprocate and do the same to you... Alternate this with normal conversation, questions about future, past, yada yada... Keep it light. Don't be pushy.
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:10 AM
1

Let me show you what I look like, and bear in mind that I'm 6'3 with an MSc in a stem field. https://i.imgur.com/zEFHou0.png Do you still think I get one date every 10 years?
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:06 AM
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Sure bro, sure. It kind of shows that you've never worked a 10-hour shift and had to commute to work.
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:02 AM
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Exactly. Put yourself in their shoes. You're fucking exhausted after a 10-hour shift, you don't have any groceries so you go by the supermarket on the way home to pick up some quick-n-easy food. All you want is to pay, head home, nuke the food, and crash on the couch. But no, some dude walks up to you and starts talking... You'd literally have to be Zach Efron to get a number from that girl. Cold approaching works when women want to be approached. At the bar, on the weekend without stress in the…
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:24 PM
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The problem is that you think it's enough to just go up and talk to women. No no no. YOU HAVE TO ACTUALLY FLIRT AND BE FUN. You have no idea what a turn-on it is for women. Take me - I've gone on maybe 60 dates last 6 months, and it's only last two months I've actually started to flirt. Before I just talked to them like a normal person, interested in their life bla bla bla... The change in behavior by these women is astounding when you start to flirt, you really don't have to take about anything…
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:19 PM
2

Humour, being sexy, dressing nice, good vibe, positivity, being fun, confidence, being interesting. All very hard things to do and take a lot of practice and intelligence.
/r/seduction01/05/22 11:02 PM
1

Just go down on her and do longer foreplay, you'll get it up after 3-10 minutes of foreplay.
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:04 PM
0

They don't help nearly as much as you think. Basically going out for a run for 30 minutes has a larger effect on your health and stress levels than chugging down all these idiotic wallet emptying supplements.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:31 PM
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Sounds like expensive urine. Over the counter garbage has no effect what so fucking ever. Which is why it's over the counter bs.
/r/seduction29/04/22 06:35 PM
1

I said early 20s. Not teens. L2r
/r/seduction29/04/22 10:01 AM
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No young dude has money to spend it on girls lmao Most people that have a job have money. And this guy probably gets like two dates a month and spends €200, everyone can afford that.
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:23 AM
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Anyone older than 30 would know what it's about and understand it. OPs post screams uneducated and young.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:32 AM
2

No, he isn't fucking lucky. He just has the one thing you so sorely lack: CONFIDENCE.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:24 AM
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Because your BMI is 17? You're fucking underweight bro. Women don't want skinny guys, it's better to be slightly overweight than underweight.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:21 AM
1

I think he is in his early 20s
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:19 AM
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Exactly. But I think that even after reading the replies to this post OP will continue doing exactly that; buying and bribing women. Even though EVERYONE in this thread is telling him the same thing: Attractiveness is not about buying stuff.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:19 AM
3

Jfc stop being such a fucking loser. Stop buying gifts if you're not offered something first. At this point it's just sad.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:17 AM
1

As a guy, I'm always expected to pay for dinner and other stuff on dates. You don't have to do that btw. You're trying to be nice, since when does that get you any pussy? I absolutely envy and despise young guys who are lucky enough to find women who are attracted to them without money and willing to sleep with them shortly You sound bitter, do you think that is attractive? You come off as an incel loser. Maybe you should try working on yourself instead of being bitter en envious? Are you attrac…
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:12 AM
5

You date multiple people. That's how. It's impossible to give one woman too much attention if you're dating three of them at the same time. Or of course you take up a hobby that steals your time.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:32 PM
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You seem to mix in morals and ethics into this. Which is super weird. I'd say on the contrary you have low morals because you believe your belief system is the only "right" belief system.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:20 PM
1

Different cultures...
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:18 PM
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Probably much worse tbh. You'll always have to pay 75-100% of everything. The sex is terrible. And they're just so backwards in every belief.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:17 PM
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Why would you want a conservative woman?
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:16 PM
2

What are the criteria?
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:15 PM
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With my friends, I don't care. I'll just tell it to them as it is. If they don't like the answer, don't ask the question.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:07 PM
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And funnily the problem for them is the solution for you. DATE LOWER ELO WOMEN. Aint fucking rocket science.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:05 PM
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Same lol. 7/10s are kinda cute and the sex can be great.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:03 PM
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I've also thought about this for some time and I have also come to exactly the same conclusion. And it's funny how they don't understand this. Just 20 minutes ago I saw a 10 year older woman that was a 5/10 on her best day right swipe me (I hadn't right-swiped her). The funny thing was that in her profile she wrote something like what you're friends are saying: "If you're not serious bla bla bla...". I tell my female friends what's what though. Sure they dislike it but I'm not the guy that's goi…
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:03 PM
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Yes. If you're paying for sex you're a loser. Just how it is. Now stop paying for sex and get out there, self improvement.
/r/seduction26/04/22 10:02 AM
7

That's not really an alpha respons bro. An alpha response would be more like: "Imo not what happened, but you're free to believe whatever you want".
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:08 AM
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Hopefully this is valuable to someone. It was a great shit test, and I’m actually very grateful to her for canceling, so I could take a look at where I was coming off needy and learn from it It's great that you have learned a lesson this young. You can keep this with you for the rest of your life. You basically have to play a game I like to call "Keep her in a constant limbo of uncertainty". Sometimes you validate her, sometimes you pull away for a day or two. Keep her guessing, keep her on her …
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:23 PM
4

Jealousy is not an attractive trait because it means that you see yourself as worth less than other men and that your woman is worth more to you than you are to her. Thus devaluing yourself. In essence, a very unattractive trait.
/r/seduction24/04/22 01:57 PM
2

I think everyone knows about the "new profile, lots of matches" thing.
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:57 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for that insight.
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:08 PM
3

Probably the best one. But easily hit or miss, and also high effort.
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:11 AM
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Nope just lame.
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:39 AM
-2

Then why don't you just say "Hey"?
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:39 AM
7

cringe and lame
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:43 AM
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Works wonders for me. I think the take-home message is "don't use tinder as a guy if you're not in the top 15%".
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:43 AM
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Lame and also cringey.
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:42 AM
2

cringe
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:42 AM
1

Out stirring up trouble?
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:41 AM
1

Oh I never pay for them on our dates, Swedish culture... They have a job, they pay 50% - as it should be even in the states.
/r/seduction22/04/22 02:36 PM
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If they understand what you mean, then it's non-verbal communication.
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:01 PM
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That's true. And answer me why I need to show how I would handle such a situation if I'm never going to meet the person again?
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:50 PM
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Good for you. I just cba taking the whole "I don't really wanna see you more" conversation. So I just stop messaging them and they'll stop messaging me - they get the hint quite quickly. Non verbal communication is effective as well...
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:47 PM
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indeed. Why is it?
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:46 PM
5

Could be for any reason. It's probably that you: Your place: Live in a pigsty, clean your apartment. Throw out any children posters or furniture (gaming chair). Get proper furniture and artwork (paintings). Your behaviour: Are you offering her anything to drink? Open a bottle of sparkling wine in front of her. Or better yet let her open it and tease her if she fucks up :) You suck at kissing? Too much tongue? Too little? Too rough? Too soft? It's a dance, you need to follow her or lead - a good …
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:58 AM
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Here in Sweden there are about zero tinder bots but 2/3s of the profiles on facebook dating are bots/scams.
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:42 AM
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500mg Test-e for 14 weeks read up on PCT and cycle details @ /r/steroids and hit the gym hard as a mother - will get you started quickly @ that new life of yours. Test "supplement" does a lot more than muscle hypertrophy - makes you more confident, less tolerant, i.e more manly.
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:10 AM
2

Locations, kitchen, bedroom, sofa, outside Sometimes gently. Sometimes rough. Mix in some toys; vibrator, handcuffs... Mix in some DS elements. It's just about having fun and keeping it exciting.
/r/seduction16/04/22 12:11 PM
5

One does not exclude the other. One can show both sides. Very few high value women marries the "warlord" type - to use your kind of cringy words hah
/r/seduction16/04/22 12:00 PM
2

Not really. No one likes boring and predictable. Even though people say they hate drama, some drama is fun in an otherwise mundane existence. It's really like that song, fuck her gently. I.e you need to mix it up. Especially with sex, the same type of mundane boring ass sex; she finishes this way you finish that way. #predictability, boring as fk.
/r/seduction16/04/22 11:59 AM
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Date multiple people.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:26 AM
5

Let me change that sentence for you: This Playboy playmate claims she’s so centerfold sexy, she can’t get a date with other 1% guys because she's only 1% when it comes to looks.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:17 AM
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Why did you go to the empty table to begin with? Makes no sense.
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:13 PM
3

You can't as you already have the mindset that she is "out of your league". Work for 2 years on that.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:35 PM
1

c'est la vie, c'est la guerre.
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:13 AM
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Okay.
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:12 AM
1

Believing that is of course your prerogative.
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:08 PM
2

I am curious if your method works though. I should try it out 5 times.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:32 PM
1

Those types of dates usually lead nowhere. Also very hard to sit both across and close to each other. The tables here are simply too large.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:30 PM
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I think the second bar is good because it shows that you're not just 100% lets smash. That way you can make out some more and get her mood in the right place. I might be incorrect though. I could try it your way but I have a hard time thinking she'd go for it.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:29 PM
-3

I think you failed to read the definition of ELO here. It's sometimes easy to skip a couple of sentences thinking you've got the point. In this case, it eluded you. It's for yourself it's not for society. Every girl on tinder you right swipe has higher ELO than the ones you left swipe. For you.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:27 PM
-3

Ofc I was attracted to them, I would just not marry them and they're still a lot of fun. Sixes are cute. It's not about sleeping with them it's about learning all the small steps - how women work.
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:37 AM
2

Ikr lol. Why do people always have to complicate these things? However testosterone levels matter.
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:01 AM
2

<----This answer.
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:00 AM
1

Hard gainers are people that don't eat that much. It's 95% psychological.
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:59 AM
1

Metabolic differences are very small. Usually not more than 200-300 kcal a day between highest and lowest metabolism.
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:58 AM
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Dsnt really strangle it that much.
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:58 AM
0

If they're really really rich they don't care about money. But you must be clear to her that you have none in comparison and that's a thing. Sometimes these trust fund kids can be kind of clueless about other people's economies.
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:54 AM
1

Altruism does not exist. Stop simping.
/r/seduction14/04/22 07:53 AM
1

Very few countries have completely free healthcare. I only know of France. In other countries with "free healthcare", a doctor's visit still costs €20-40. This is pointless because the doctor won't run a blood panel on a healthy person. The doctor will just say "Eat more, bye".
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:07 PM
2

Love these guys. They're always like "I can eat a bag of cheese doodles alone and never gain any weight". Then you have lunch with them and they eat one small potato and a small piece of fish. #InfiniteFacePalms
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:10 PM
25

You don't eat a lot. You think you eat a lot, but you really really don't.
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:09 PM
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YOU DON'T HAVE HEALTH PROBLEMS. You're just forgetting to eat. No need to spend €200-300 on a doctor when you could at least try for 3 weeks to eat 4M calories per day.
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:08 PM
1

can’t gain weight tbh I can eat like 15 cheeseburgers and drink 2 liters of chocolate milk everyday And then you accidentally forget to eat for 3 days straight and you wonder why you can't gain weight. Face it, there are the laws of thermodynamics and you can't escape them. You're simply not at a caloric surplus. I think you just don't understand how to eat properly. If you start counting calories and eat 4k a day you'll gain a kilogram per week.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:41 AM
7

Average is short according to a lot of women though hah.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:39 AM
1

No friend it's not easy to get laid if you're skinny and short.
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:39 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction13/04/22 09:27 AM
1

were*
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:22 PM
1

You can still help people. Like if I think a simp is being pathetic I can still say "stop donating money, stop using Instagram" - and that would help them. Thus disproving your hypothesis. Bye.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:21 PM
1

I mean the guy can't even spell dissect correctly...
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:48 AM
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Indeed. So happy I'm 6'3, 8", and look hella good lol.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:48 AM
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in a few minutes we have a good opinion in fuckable or not, -minutes + seconds.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:47 AM
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being aware of body language all the time, constantly reading and writing information into someone else, Think you've misunderstood how this works. People with asperger's write those guides, do you have aspergers? Otherwise you should be able to pickup on most body language as it happens. Dating and seduction is all about not being afraid to have fun with someone and show affection by flirting. And flirting CORRECTLY.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:47 AM
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Of course you can.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:44 AM
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That's just simping and failing a million times. The equivalent of sending a copy-pasta message on any non-match dating platform.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:24 AM
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Yes - if it's on posts from people you have never met.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:23 AM
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atavistic Suggests a reversion, but it has always been like this. But tbh it has actually never been this like. Women just like these men because they don't give a fuck, they usually have ADHD/anger issues/problems and shit happens around them. And fun/events/drama happening is usually a lot more fun than being with a guy where the most exciting thing is what's for dinner.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:18 AM
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It's not an ideal situation, but we shouldn't look down on them either... it's a problem for men all over. Why not?
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:11 AM
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Simping is a desperate attempt to gain female attention when you don't know how to. Exactly this.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:06 AM
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It's just so sad man. I see this behavior as well, just so sad.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:05 AM
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These things you should be able to feel if you don't have aspergers.
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:14 PM
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If you see their feet disecting the midpoint of your body, they are open to talking to you, comfortable with your presence. If their feet are facing away from you in any fashion, they either don't care too much for you, their body is saying I want outta here That's mainly bs tbh. Might be true in 30% of the cases but to use this as a rule is just dumb.
/r/seduction11/04/22 12:35 PM
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and the risk of pregnancy or std or allegations or other repercussions started to weigh more heavily as I got older. Use a fucking condom. Wtf bro.
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:35 AM
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Lol. Okay, religious nutcase.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:31 AM
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Fucked a blonde chick about 3 hours ago. But good try incel. If you think semen retention is a smart idea your IQ is probably less than 90. Read some of your posts: yeah probably 75 IQ. Jesus...
/r/seduction08/03/22 11:48 PM
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You can be mysterious AND show that you're not a creep. Bro you have bible verses and your art, I would fucking run from you. And so do probably most women.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:18 PM
1

A lot of younger women want your Instagram even if you're using tinder or hinge. To check you out and see that you're not a creep.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:15 PM
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It's not about giving a fuck about Instagram. It's about just showcasing it like any other resume to some ladies that want it. You just fell for the social media validation circle of bullshit. Glad you got out of it and maybe you can't handle instagram.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:44 AM
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Okay, that one is a bit meh I will agree on that. But some of the other ones were fine.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:52 PM
1

ic well, that's weird.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:50 PM
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It's semantics tbh. Women's hormones go up and down during the month, one definition of this would be imbalance - but really it's not 100% accurate. There is a balance, it's just not static like men's.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:48 PM
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I think they're good. They're playful and fine. They're not rude in any way. You're literally giving her a compliment whilst also giving yourself one. It's playful.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:43 PM
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Pretty much. And just date until you can't stand the bitches no more hah. Only then are you going to be enough zero blyats given to be alpha.
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:37 AM
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But really you knew this already. Be fun Be confident Don't take shit Convey this shit in verbal and non verbal signals And of course: Increase your social status / competence by using good fitted new clothes of good taste with good materials. rocketscience
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:36 AM
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Tbh yes. It was better content than most posts. At least this guy tried to be educational. But what guys want are examples of interactions, examples of how women test guys, examples of what to do and what to not.
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:33 AM
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Like what?
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:31 AM
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so does that mean when you famous you can sleep with women without having any social/seduction skills? Yes pretty much.
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:54 AM
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What value was conveyed again? You didnt know that you were supposed to dress to impress? You didn't know that you need to be alpha or "high value"?
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:51 AM
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You're a great politician. Because you had us spend 10 minutes reading your post and you actually conveyed almost no real information. You basically just told us to dress well, be her dream guy, be alpha in a non-verbal and verbal way. And I'm pretty sure everyone here already knows these things... It's just we don't know HOW to do that... I can get any date I want, but I always fail during the date - that's my problem personally.
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:50 AM
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But read the post again ffs. Did he really teach you anything? He basically said this: Dress to impress. Be alpha In verbal communication And in non-verbal communication That's literally it. He didn't say how you do these things at all. And I'm pretty sure you already know this.
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:49 AM
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Says the person that neggs the girls into submission.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:47 PM
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He is clearly in his 20s. And as such sneakers and cargo pants are "cool" hah. We in our 30s look and see "jfc no".
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:41 AM
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Only someone insecure would say that. Guess you do understand after all...
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:36 AM
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I don't think so. Once again, you don't seem to understand people. You can send me a picture of yourself in DM and I'll compliment your looks, see if I can very easily make you feel insecure. Maybe then you'll understand, okay? You never compliment or downplay flaws, you ignore them and focus on the good stuff that they're proud of. If a woman has great hair but a horrible smile. You don't tell her that you like women with unique smiles... It's not fucking rocket science buddy.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:56 AM
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Ask her this: I'd just like to tie you up and do naughty things to you, but maybe we should have that third(or whatever) date first?
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:54 AM
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What's the next goal? I can get any number of dates I want. Now I'm trying to hone in on how to actually be charismatic, engaging, fun, interesting, and sexually attractive during the fucking date. And that's not fucking easy. I have 135 IQ I should be able to lick this shit.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:51 AM
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Date at home means to smash in 9 times out of 10. She knows it and so should u.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:49 AM
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That's what beginners do that don't understand negging. Then these douchebags learn it a bit more and it's just rude. Then they get even better at the game and they stop with the negging and are just sexually playful and fun to be around. There's a word for it: Charismatic. It's a journey.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:40 AM
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Then you don't understand people. Understandable as you're lurking this subreddit. Teasing was explained earlier in this post. It's basically what you do with your buds, you make jokes about them that are obviously not true and they know you're 100% joking and it's not true. Like the simplest being "You gay bro?". But sure here's a more subtle tease you can use if you like: Tell the date that you wonder what it's like to be a super hot girl growing up. When she answers you tell her "ohh, you've …
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:35 AM
2

Pretty much summed it up there.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:34 AM
1

Why does this bother you? I dated an insanely good-looking chick but she was completely broken inside. When it ended (she ended it), I couldn't care less. Why would I? She was an absolute trainwreck.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:28 AM
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Same for me, though they need to be a 7 or 8. And I just simply cannot date a chubby chick.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:26 AM
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You can bro. You can lose the attraction even for the hottest of women. Everyone becomes mundane after a year.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:25 AM
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