| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | What are some memorable success stories you had with cold approach? | Outer Game | maxreddit0609 | /r/seduction | 19/12/24 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Those practicing their cold approach game, do you ever have some really bad days to? | Outer Game | maxreddit0609 | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 03:15 AM |
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| 1 | Whats the proper way to cold approach?Respectfully. Thats it. If you’re intentions are good, and you’re respectful you can’t go wrong. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 05:02 AM |
| 1 | The father of my Cold Approach followed meYou can keep it simple and say “hey how are you” just see how he responds. Regardless of that convo you can also joke about it with your date to something like “is it as easy as helping your dads daughter with her car to become friends on Instagram?” Something witty like that to build rapport with her | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you pay on the first date?You invited someone to spend time with you, you pay. You don’t invite someone to your house for dinner and expect them to cook or bring the food. Same applies for a date. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 05:47 AM |
| 31 | Greet with kiss if made out in club?I would go in for a hug/kiss on the cheek and then if the date goes well end with a kiss on the lips | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over the social conditioning of cokd approach? Not afraid of rejection but worried what onlookers may think?Start by getting used to talking with people in public, this will help get your nerves under control that simple appropriate conversation is a normal thing. It will also help you to sharpen your conversation skills by being able to converse on the spot. These can simple be 1-2 minute interactions, if they go longer, great, but work on giving compliments to strangers you pass and notice something about them or the scenery in which you are in. I know it sounds simple or maybe even perhaps un relat… | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Want to ask out barista but also don’t want to loose my regular cafe?No it wouldn’t be, or do you have her number already if you met for coffee? Also how did you end up having coffee together, did she ask you? | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Want to ask out barista but also don’t want to loose my regular cafe?If you want, next time you get your coffee just say “hey it’s always cool talking to you here and wouldn’t mind doing it outside of here to, if you’re interested here is my number (hand her a paper with your number)” | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | approach girl on vacationYou already have the answer in your head, you can quite literally tell her what you just said and put a funny twist on it by going up to her and saying something like “we’re pretty much the only young adults here, how did you get roped into the old peoples home like me?” | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 05:37 AM |
| 3 | I made a post a while back. I finally did it, I approached and got the numberCongrats man! | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | What are some memorable success stories you had with cold approach?Love these! Especially the pizza one. So simple yet such an effective outcome | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, am I doing this right?It would help to know what the guys reaction was to each scenario in order to see where we can help | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 05:59 AM |
| -1 | How do you ask a woman out on a second date?“Hey, so I had fun on our first date and am feeling a little more confident you are not a serial killer, would you like to go out again?” If yah wanna go the comedic route | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask my neighbor for a hookup ?Yeah you have to find away to break the regular convo with some flirting | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 10:17 PM |
| 2 | looking for a male perspective! :)Definitely will depend on the guy, grinding on us is fine when you’re on top but if you want to get us to cum try bouncing up and down more rather than grinding. In terms if another position, I have heard from multiple men (myself included) that doggie always makes them cum the fastest. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 12:38 AM |
| 3 | A girl I've been interested in recently broke up with bfTime kills all deals - go for it dude. If she actually likes you, time truly won’t matter. Not to mention it doesn’t sound like it was an ugly breakup + it was her decision + it was due to different interests. Go for it and let us know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Had my first cold approach date this weekAwesome and do you remember how did she respond to that? | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 03:22 PM |
| 5 | Had my first cold approach date this weekFirst of all great job! Can I ask what you opened with when you first saw her? | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 05:10 AM |
| 16 | First proper cold approach with a 10Any update? | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 06:54 PM |
| 155 | First proper cold approach with a 10Send us the update on how she responds and good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 04:02 AM |
| 0 | I Walked Out on a Date and Met Someone Better 1 Hour LaterCan you share how you approached the second girl and how you opened? | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach women at my gym?If you do it can you keep us updated with how it goes? I have also been contemplating this | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Men (and women too), use the power of Lady Luck to your advantageThis may sound like a weird question but how many followers does she have roughly? | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women too), use the power of Lady Luck to your advantageDo you remember what you opened with to start the conversation to the first girl you DMed? | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Started making Eye-Contact: Got approached Day 1What book are you reading on body language? | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How to force myself?I can’t stress how important it is to “warm up” For example - warming up for me consists of saying hello to a bunch of people passing by, making comments or compliments to someone, making small talk with someone on the sidewalk… really any type of interaction to get me comfortable before I start to approach a girl I find attractive. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Girl grinded on me for the first timeSay something simple and not so regular as an opener like “hey, is this the cute girl I was dancing with in the club last night?” | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Girl contacted me through insta, fastest way to hit it?What did she message you on Insta though? That would be helpful context on how to proceed | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What is a good second date idea and what is expected?I’m going to give you an extremely underrated date idea that will work very well here in your favor - bowling. Not only are bowling dates extremely fun, it’ll be a great distraction from the “rushed/not ideal” first date you had and by just being able to have good competitive fun. You can make fun of each other, you can make a bet that she has to kiss you if you make a strike, you can showboat and show some personality, etc. I believe it also shows creativity and confidence, whereas insecure men… | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Approached hot mom and daughterWhats the 3 second rule | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is not a big dealAwesome and what is normally your opener when you first approach these girls? Compliment? Play dumb and ask for directions? Something else? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women is not a big dealFirst off I love this. My question is, if you’re at a point where you are doing 10+ approached regularly, how often have you been able to turn those into dates? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | I approached a beautiful woman at the bar, here’s how it went.First off great W! What do you think changed during the date that was the turning point of her warming up to you? | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Tips for dating and hookup in Barcelona.Whats a strategy you found works for you as a non-spanish speaker? | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Has your views changed since learning gameHow do you have sex after knowing them for 30 minutes? | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | I approached a beautiful woman on the train today, here’s how it went.Dude lets fucking goooo!!! | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 01:15 AM |
| 7 | How to have same confidence regularly as I do at the bar?I think the reason you are comfortable to talk with them at bars is because there is a level of expectation and social norm for girls to be approached and talked to at a social gathering such as a bar. When you’re out of that environment you feel you might be bothering them… don’t | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 02:25 AM |
| 6 | How can i pick up/ hit on MEN without coming off as awkward or creepyGenuine compliments - for example if you see a guy you can simply stop him or walk up to him and say “excuse me, I wanted to say I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi” then escalate the convo from there | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?Wherever I am doing cold approaches - except before I start focusing on approaching women with the intent to get numbers, and compliment them, I warm up by just going up to anyone walking around and making small talk or complimenting them | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 02:37 PM |
| 0 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?So I actually do something a bit different. Instead of looking at the day to pump up my energy before I go out, I approach it as, I’m going out to cold approach, I go do that and warm up by saying hi to random people, giving compliments, or starting random small talk with anyone without any expectations to get my energy up… then after a few of those and when I feel good enough I focus more on actually cold approaching a girl I find attractive | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How so many people here so good on apps yet have 0 success approach irl. 25MWhat is that first one you said? Is that a book? I googled it but couldn’t find much | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How so many people here so good on apps yet have 0 success approach irl. 25MWhat do you think improved your cold approach in that 4-5 year span where you saw a big difference in success? | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 05:56 PM |
| 3 | How so many people here so good on apps yet have 0 success approach irl. 25MWhat changed the most that improved your cold approaching where you found success? New guy here inquiring🙋🏻♂️ | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How to work on eye contact?Be aware of when you are not holding eye contact next time you are in a conversation with someone and revert back to their eyes. Try going 5 seconds holding eye contact while talking or while they’re talking and don’t break. Even perhaps look at it as a game and hold it for as long as you are interacting with someone. It isn’t weird to do this as it shows you are engaged, confident, and paying attention to the person you are interacting with. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety approaching girl in real lifeI am in NYC but not interested in hiring anyone. I’d rather take action and learn through trial and error. Thank you though | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Anxiety approaching girl in real lifeWhat if you’re just walking in public, lets say a park or a common area in the city and you see a girl pass near you that you’d want to approach, what would be your strategy here? | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Anxiety approaching girl in real lifeWhat do you find that is successful for you when approaching a woman in public? What do you typically open with when you approach? | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 06:05 PM |
| 3 | I’m having good luck with milfs aka single moms ..If I ever went by that rule I would never be given a reason to approach anyone because I rarely see girls look at me and I know I’m not ugly lol | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I’m having good luck with milfs aka single moms ..And how do you open for those that you don’t catch looking at you but you still find attractive and want to approach? | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:55 PM |
| 3 | I’m having good luck with milfs aka single moms ..What do you typically open with when approaching them? Do you do it even if they have their kid around? | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed?Where would you approach women? | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed?Where would you approach women? | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Hard to settle down once you know about game?Any advice, tips, tricks, etc. you found work best? | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Hard to settle down once you know about game?How did you get better and initially learn about game? | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Chilling in bars all damn night makes me want to off myself??What does your day game routine look like? | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend lineYou can say something like this either.. 1.) No worries take it as a compliment Or 2.) Your boyfriend and I have the same great taste it seems, laugh it off and move on | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | My crush just told me that I am handsomeThis is super easy to recover from, ready? You text her “hey the handsome comment you made before had me smiling all day, can I say thanks by taking you out this week for dinner?” Done. Go do it. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Got Rejected , Thoughts? BeginnerRemember she is human, she may actually be into you which is why she looks at you often finding you attractive but can’t actually do anything because she does in fact have a boyfriend. Just because she has a boyfriend doesn’t mean she stops finding other guys attractive every now and then. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Approached girl in the gymLast question - How did you get her attention if she was wearing headphones? Thats the biggest problem/hesitation I face | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Approached girl in the gymWas she wearing headphones? How has the texting been going so far? | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Approached girl in the gymWhere did the conversation go from there after you told her you were pretty? Did you see her there often? | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 08:14 PM |
| 10 | Approached girl in the gymCan’t tell you how inspiring this is, keep us updated please | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowI would personally recommend 10-15 QUALITY approaches instead of 100 | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 04:41 PM |
| 3 | I am 40 years old but concerned about daygame...How did you learn to approach? | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How to make a girl fall in love with youBut what do you do if she closes her eyes again? How do you keep the eye contact? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:18 AM |
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