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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	should I divorce him?		mayaluismi	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/22 11:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	should I divorce him? We come from an eastern culture and yes there are arranged marriages but we chose each other ...we liked each other back then. I keep thinking he only needs a mother or a maid ....he doesn't want or need a wife.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/22 08:06 AM
1	should I divorce him? He always uses that "tired" excuse....even though I pretty much do everything around the house , take care of our child and I go to work too. I admit his work is stressful ...but he does have alot of free time to rest....and he goes out alot with his friends and comes home late at night. It feels like his life didn't change after marriage much ....I think that's selfish ....he is a married man and a father ...he should be more responsible.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 06:38 PM
0	should I divorce him? It takes two to tango ...there's really no one particular side at fault ....it's both sides that are at fault . Cooperation is key ....meet me half way kind of attitude .....if that's missing what's the point of trying.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 02:01 PM
1	should I divorce him? He is the breadwinner ....and I know he's tired....but even when he's relaxed or when on vacation ....it's the same thing	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 01:35 PM
1	should I divorce him? I think he has ED and in denial....smoker...lifestyle is all wrong and unhealthy ....refuses to go to a doctor ....whether I ask nicely or go full retard on him ....there's just no winning with him. I am not fat ....I just gained weight ....also i'm a tall girl ...I keep thinking it's my height maybe?....because we are similar in height....I'm 170 cm (5ft7). I do all the cleaning and almost all house work ....he never helps ....never picks up anything...rarely fixes anything around the house unl…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 09:45 AM
1	should I divorce him? Thank you ....this advice I would definitely consider . He refuses to go to the doctor or check anything. His health is going downhill. I do feel maybe he has self esteem issues relating to his looks despite his confidence and success .... I do think sometimes maybe he doesn't find himself masculine enough or maybe I'm not feminin enough.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 08:38 AM
0	should I divorce him? You are obviously angry with something relating to your relationship ....this is not about me. My husband doesnt help around the house ....never bathed the kids ...and definitely doesn't know how to cook....sometimes he has alot of work ...sometimes he doesn't.....he's not always exhausted....and he goes out with his male friends alittle too much for a family man without any regard for my feelings. He is the kind that doesn't help around the house .... Asking if he's gay didn't come out of nowhe…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 08:34 AM
0	should I divorce him? Thank you ...exactly ...No one knows the details of our relationship ....I don't defend myself but when I wrote this I wanted it to be brief maybe it's sounding harsh I don't know ......you have been in a dead bedroom so you probably know that regardless of what you do whether nicely or not so nicely ....and whether you communicate your ass off or not ....sometimes nothing works because it's not about you ...it's about the other person in the relationship who doesn't want to change and doesn't h…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 08:23 AM
1	should I divorce him? No I don't think there's anyone better than my husband for me...and no I don't cheat or want to ...if I divorce it will be a painful loss.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 08:13 AM
1	should I divorce him? That's true ....but I can't seem to think that I love him and don't like him at all as well...howcome I still want to have sex with him?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 08:11 AM
1	should I divorce him? Reward me with sex? ....I thought when two people are married sex should not be a reward or a weapon. I did tell him I want to divorce so he would hurt less and maybe find someone more compatible ....he refuses.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 08:03 AM
1	should I divorce him? I came here for real advice ...some men here did give me some insight, maybe I can save the situation ....and If I can't save it ...atleast I will try for this type of thing not to happen again in the next relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 07:24 AM
1	should I divorce him? You mentioned things she did wrong ....what was she supposed to do to get through to you? What's your view of the correct way she could have dealt with you? In other words....what would you wish she has done instead of what you mentioned above?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 07:12 AM
0	should I divorce him? I'm guilty of all those things....but that was after I was very supportive and didn't get anywhere with giving full support. My only concern is that he is the way he is from the beginning .....I'm assuming most of you guys had good starts and you initiated with desire then life happened and things went downhill from there....he started out this way and that's my concern	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 07:06 AM
1	should I divorce him? I understand what you are saying ....it's making me realise what I'm doing wrong ....however, you are telling me why you stopped initiating.....the thing is he NEVER initiated sex from the beginning....and no matter what I do or don't do ....it ends up in failure ....he just doesn't seem to listen.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 06:53 AM
1	should I divorce him? I am aware of that idea ....and he truly is a nice guy .... I did lose about 6 kg ....now I have 6 kg left ....no one has ever told me I look unattractive even after i gained weight....infact I wish my weight was the problem I wish he would just say its my weight ....I was pretty skinny and we still had the same problem	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 06:39 AM
1	should I divorce him? I am aware of that idea ....and he truly is a nice guy .... I did lose about 6 kg ....now I have 6 kg left ....no one has ever told me I look unattractive even after i gained weight....infact I wish my weight was the problem I wish he would just say its my weight ....I was pretty skinny and we still had the same problem	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 06:32 AM
-1	should I divorce him? Because I need a man's honest opinion about desire, initiation, frequency, maybe closeted males could chip in? .....I just need a man's opinion	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 12:27 AM
2	should I divorce him? How do you treat him? .....as I would treat myself so that would be nice Do you emasculate him by questioning his manhood? .....after 5 years I had to ask if he was gay or not Do you nag him?.....I cut back like 80% Do you boss him around? ....again I cut back like 80% Do you demand he have sex with you? .....I argue over it but I don't demand as I hate duty sex Do you drink a lot? .....no Have you gained weight?......alittle but he seems to like it Do you practice proper hygiene? Do you smell g…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 12:12 AM