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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 39 | You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away.That TikTok was a mess. If you as a woman are doing this before you even meet the guy, you’re already losing. Men are supposed to be trying to impress YOU initially and make YOU feel safe enough to return their affection. It’s nice to be thoughtful, but don’t be making that much effort before you’ve even met. You’re not even sure if there’s mutual attraction yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 11 | Everyone in this supposed feminist sub is telling her to propose herselfGo to the sperm bank if you wanna do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 10:52 AM |
| 27 | Ohio State Grooms Students into Sex WorkLiterally. School is basically useless if you’re doing this. Might as well save yourself the debt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:01 AM |
| 7 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.Meanwhile they call women crazy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:22 PM |
| 41 | How to raise a hvm....She should’ve taught him waaay earlier than 14. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.Probably laughed about it with his friends in the group chat afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 28 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.They probably either think it’s funny or use this as some kind of test to see what you can put up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:29 AM |
| 12 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.Maybe I’m naive but I thought most people could hold in poop for at least an hour? Pee I could understand. But poop?!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:28 AM |
| 68 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.She said she gave him baby wipes but STILL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 85 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.I HAD to post this here because I was baffled. I saw SO many replies from both men and women saying “well that’s not his fault, sometimes you can’t hold your shit” I thought I was going crazy. Some guy had the nerve to compare this to getting your period unexpectedly?? He was like “what if he was grossed out at you bleeding your pants and posted about it?” Like wtf?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 23 | Question sent in to a radio station 🤮 Why would anyone even think it's ok to propose this way?UGH. I hate low-effort proposals SO much. My best friend’s husband proposed to her in bed after “really good sex” 🙄 After she informed him that she wanted a real proposal, he ended up proposing to her as she was getting ready to leave for her night shift at the hospital (she’s a nurse). Didn’t get down on one knee or anything. No flowers, no speech, nothing special at all. Just a rushed, unthoughtful proposal. And of course, her pick-me self said yes. Speaks volumes to me when men can’t bother t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:59 AM |
| 32 | Ladies, don’t let this be you. If your name is not on the deed of a property, you have very few, if any, rights to it if things go wrong. The woman in the comment is unknowingly sinking money into a house that her boyfriend owns.If he truly loved her he would have no issues putting her on the deed. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Not even paying for groceries anymore? Sounds like a financial abuser. Side note: DEAR LORD PLEASE STOP BUYING HOUSES WITH BOYFRIENDS! I’m in my mid-twenties and I’m seeing SO many people I went to high school doing this shit. Marriage is “too much commitment” for them but a 30-year contract isn’t? FUCK OUTTA HERE. YOU’RE BEING USED! WAKE UP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:21 PM |
| 16 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣How did you get him to give you roses? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:01 PM |
| 53 | Guy earns 5 times his fiancée’s salary and wants to split everything 50/50. Pickme fiancée has been with him for 5 years.Yup. I can’t believe she’s saying that finances have never come up in their relationship before. And she let HIM move into HER apartment and split everything 50/50? I’d rather pay rent on my own then live with a selfish asshole. He basically used her for cheap rent and now he wants her to work herself to death so he can upgrade to a fancier place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worthWhat app is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | He’s not picking me up from the airport-is this LVM behavior?DEFINITELY don’t go to his house tomorrow. Make plans. Tell him you’re busy. Don’t reward this LV behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:02 AM |
| 9 | Wife is expected to replace husband’s pants because he quit working outWe need to start body shaming men tbh. Okay maybe that’s extreme, but it’s ridiculous that men can let themselves go and we’re not supposed to care, meanwhile if a woman puts on weight due to pregnancy or PPD, the man feels like he has grounds to leave. I HATE that the pickmeishas let men think the whole “dad bod” thing is hot/cute. What’s hot about a man not caring about his health and being sedentary 90% of the time? She should tell him he needs to start working out like he used to. It’ll only… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:31 AM |
| 32 | Woman posts about wanting romance. Scrotes on the comment section make it about themselves once again. We cannot even complain about LVM without them getting defensive. The narcissism of these Redditors. The audacity of scrotes if baffling.Omg, I almost shared that post. There were several scotes commenting that men liked to romanced too and how women always expect the man to do all the work 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:21 AM |
| 37 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴Wow, so I found this video on Twitter. I just went back to look in the replies and people found her Facebook. Apparently she has 4 fucking kids with this loser. I don’t feel bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 98 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴I hope so. “cOmMuNiCaTiOn” won’t solve this one. Any man that lets you work your ass off all day and come home to a messy ass place should be dropped immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 166 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴I can’t help but notice how his sneakers were the only thing that was picked up off the floor and neat 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:33 PM |
| 103 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴Makes me wonder WTF he does all damn day? She said in the comments that he’s a stay at home dad. This is shameful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 13 | HVMTHIS is what for better or for worse looks like! 🙌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Was my (25F) bf (27M) inconsiderate or am I overreacting?It’s crazy because they’re ALWAYS down to help their friends in any situation. But when it comes to doing something for a woman it’s “simpin” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Was my (25F) bf (27M) inconsiderate or am I overreacting?Yeah it’s the same guy. And it’s interesting too because he proudly claims to be a good gift giver. He definitely could afford to buy me a bike or help me pay for one if he wanted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Was my (25F) bf (27M) inconsiderate or am I overreacting?That’s awful. I’m glad he’s an ex now. Why are men like this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:42 PM |
| 14 | Was my (25F) bf (27M) inconsiderate or am I overreacting?I have no idea where to go from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:24 AM |
| 18 | Was my (25F) bf (27M) inconsiderate or am I overreacting?The bike he bought definitely costed more than the bikes I was looking for. His was like $400 and I’m looking for bikes that cost less than $300. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:16 AM |
| 33 | Was my (25F) bf (27M) inconsiderate or am I overreacting?You’re so right! I hadn’t even considered that part. I asked him if we could look for a bike together this week, but I think I’m gonna go by myself tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:13 AM |
| 22 | Was my (25F) bf (27M) inconsiderate or am I overreacting?I couldn’t tell if I was being overly sensitive or not. Like did he not think I would feel bad? Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:25 AM |
| 30 | Why do guys open by saying this? 🤢🤢Probably married or engaged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Survivor of domestic abuse starts dating a man who reveals himself to be a past abuser. Several people in the comments tell her “maybe he’s changed”What does this mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 83 | Survivor of domestic abuse starts dating a man who reveals himself to be a past abuser. Several people in the comments tell her “maybe he’s changed”Someone said it’s a green flag that he was honest enough to tell her about what happened 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 19 | LVM buys gf of 4 years trash as a “gift”In the comments she said she asked him for a $100 (not engagement) ring once. He said he didn’t have the money, then turned around and bought himself a $200 camera lens 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:43 PM |
| 64 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beI definitely get that vibe too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:12 PM |
| 134 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beFucking repulsive. Lowest of the low value people. You can tell the gf thinks she’s one of the guys too, by her demeanor and how she’s dressed. She thinks she’s a “cool” gf. No hope for women like that. I can only hope they don’t reproduce. I feel so bad for the teen girl. Wearing jean shorts doesn’t warrant harassment. Wearing nothing at all wouldn’t warrant harassment. I hope she knows it’s not her fault. It’s the fault of these low value scum pedophilic men, and the low value women who condon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:11 PM |
| 20 | Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in HellTotal turnoff. I know people might see it as classist or elitist but I prefer someone who got some form of education after HS. Or if they have no degree, they should at least have a job that pays well to make up for that. Especially at 26. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 06:20 PM |
| 72 | My uncle, who's almost 50 and still lives with his mother, keeps sending me these *funny* memes.Men: She trapped me! Also men: Ugh, do we HAVE to use a condom? :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 02:58 AM |
| 34 | I was disappointed this OP thought this was sexy, but the first comment said everything I wanted to say. Glad to see smart women on other subs!The bar is so low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 10:37 PM |
| 13 | This lady needs some FDS in her lifeThe trip randomly turning into a boys trip would already be a red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 07:10 PM |
| 16 | This lady needs some FDS in her lifeI think her previous boyfriend cheated but still. Looks like her current boyfriend has plans to cheat 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 22 | Kids = non-negotiable for me personallyShit, women barely even leave BAD men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:50 PM |
| 125 | Scrote doesn’t think he has to tell his girlfriend of 11 months that he never plans on marrying herUgh, I feel so bad for her. Who knows what else he isn’t telling her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, let's talk about porn in a relationship.Is there a way to do this discreetly? Or do you just ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 05:57 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, let's talk about porn in a relationship.She hasn’t even confirmed it yet. She should at least figure out if he actually uses it and tell him that she has an issue with it, then see how he reacts. Just leaving him would be very premature in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Super PickMeisha Cleans Boyfriend’s Mom’s Bathroom. No Ring after 13 years.And she says they have plans for kids one day 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Super PickMeisha Cleans Boyfriend’s Mom’s Bathroom. No Ring after 13 years.Absolutely! If he were a HVM he’d be helping his mom who’s so clearly overwhelmed with chores. But no, he’s letting his gf clean up his mom’s house and still won’t give her a ring. Awful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:44 PM |
| 51 | Some FDS press again over on Unpopularopinion 🙄🙄🙄Free promo 🥳🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 03:13 AM |
| 26 | Super PickMeisha Cleans Boyfriend’s Mom’s Bathroom. No Ring after 13 years.One of the comments: “She is just like me haha I cannot stand messy stuff, when I get to my bf or family's house I always clean up 😂” 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:42 PM |
| 32 | Super PickMeisha Cleans Boyfriend’s Mom’s Bathroom. No Ring after 13 years.Girl, the worst part is the comments are PRAISING her. They’re saying how sweet she is and some are saying that they do things like this as well for their bf/bf’s parents. Not one person asked her why she’s cleaning up after her bf’s mom or why the bf can’t help his own mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:40 PM |
| 41 | Super PickMeisha Cleans Boyfriend’s Mom’s Bathroom. No Ring after 13 years.She IS! She even specifically said that “Here in the US you get taxed more if you’re married.” She’s definitely not too bright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:34 PM |
| 60 | Super PickMeisha Cleans Boyfriend’s Mom’s Bathroom. No Ring after 13 years.Yup. She mentioned in this video towards the end that they probably won’t get married because they don’t want to be taxed more. Sounds like he put that in her head. https://youtu.be/dpLN6U05rhk Ppl in the comments mentioned that they can still file their taxes separately while they’re married but she didn’t respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 04:09 PM |
| 52 | Irresistible“I’m 46” “Free slurpee with every date” I cannot stand these overgrown children 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:21 PM |
| 56 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡I’ll never understand this narrative. 90% of the women I know have jobs/careers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:22 PM |
| 28 | Guy tells his gf he’s moving in with another woman, gf says she’s done. Here come the Pickme’s with “I trust my bf but not other women.”I love the comments that are like “most girls wouldn’t be okay with this” What MAN would be perfectly okay with this? It’s completely disrespectful to your partner to even suggest something like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 80 | Women and their damn standards, amiriteThose standards aren’t even high 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 68 | These “my boyfriend was terrible on my birthday, am I an asshole for expecting him to not be terrible on my birthday?” type posts are causing me PHYSICAL PAIN10pm to 6am??? None of these guys have jobs. They’re coming over for a LVM circlejerk 2x a week. Tragic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | entitled man divorces wife because she doesn’t enjoy having sex constantlyCan’t blame him in this scenario. I’d feel like shit if the person I married rarely ever wanted to fuck me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 15 | 4 kids & 4 baby mommasMy rule of thumb is to not ever date men with kids unless I’m over 35. And even then they can only have 1 baby mama and no more than 2 children. 4 kids should be a dealbreaker for you sis. He shouldn’t be dating, he should be taking care of his children. He’s a reckless, LVM. I don’t have respect for ppl who take bringing people into this world so lightly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:25 PM |
| 19 | Don't date a man who lives with his lesbian ex-wifeAnd then he’s gonna call every girl he dates “jealous” or “crazy” for not being totally cool with this arrangement 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | I spoke up about a LVM to another womanI’m sad that she spent over 5 hours with that man 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:59 PM |
| 68 | Men who think a first date should be this, what is wrong with you?“Why the fuck not?” Oh my GOD the entitlement... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Pickmeishas be like:EXACTLY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 16 | Pickmeishas be like:Nope, it was a woman. Posted with the caption “Okay 💁🏾♀️” Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:46 AM |
| 15 | Pickmeishas be like:Found this on FB 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:57 AM |
| 10 | Woman's boyfriend refuses to lend her $10 🤡Holy shit. What a trash ass dude. I BET you if one of his friends asked for $10 or even $50 he’d have no problem giving it to him, no questions asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Was I completely wrong in this situation?I really thought I was doing the right thing. I felt like I should be honest. I keep questioning if I was selfish for trying to get exactly what I wanted for a gift. Honestly I didn’t want a necklace from him for Christmas. I was going to buy myself one in my style. I wish he just asked what I wanted, like I asked him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Was I completely wrong in this situation?He says it can’t be returned and he’d rather I just pawn it since he knows now that I don’t like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 7 | Was I completely wrong in this situation?He basically told me “a gift is a gift, you shouldn’t throw it back in someone’s face” I felt super conflicted because while it’s true that it’s the thought that counts, I made sure to ask him what he wanted and got him exactly that. He didn’t do the same for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 12 | Was I completely wrong in this situation?Here’s exactly what I told him: So I didn’t want to offend you on Christmas but the I’m not super fond of the style of it. I definitely appreciate your thoughtfulness and effort getting it for me babe ❤️❤️ I just wanted to tell you the truth because I didn’t want you to wonder why I’m not wearing it and I felt like I should be honest with you. I hope you’re not mad. I absolutely appreciate the gesture ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 08:44 PM |
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