mayoissandwichpus Archive

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19	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know?	Discussion	mayoissandwichpus	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 04:32 PM
9	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing.	CMV	mayoissandwichpus	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:04 AM

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–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Whatever dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 03:33 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? You didn’t understand the last stud you sent, misquoted it. Sure send more studies but your credibility is pretty low right now. The study didn’t assess humor or charm. It wasn’t mentioned. And women felt men’s intelligence mattered a lot. Men didn’t feel that way especially if she was ugly. Feel free to embarrass yourself more here. Your study says: “While rated intelligence was generally a positive predictor of being chosen, this was moderated by sex: Women put more weight on rated intelligenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 03:28 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I don’t share the frustrations of most men with regard to dating. I’ve, since I was 13, had a strong desire to punch weak fragile men in the face (never did it) and I never knew why until I read TRP. This is normal testosterone doing what it does. I love jumping cliffs paragliding riding my motorcycle too fast. I’m a normal human man. My natural testosterone is 925 in my 40s. Much higher than men in their 20s. TRP is much bigger than shortcuts to sex and dating fwiw. Nature overrules nurture 100…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 03:07 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Ok. Yeah there was some benefits in there. I chatted a contributing member for a few days and her story was very tragic. Sounds like you haven’t listened to red much of TRP either. Vetting techniques are really opinionating on what TRP data says. It’s a big field that covers a lot of topics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 02:04 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? FDS is really a lot of hate speech. Quite an echo chamber in there. Every man is a scrote. So TRP only helps me. Identify selfish women? It has nothing to say regarding personal responsibility, mitigating risks of an LTR or maintaining a healthy LTR? Nothing about selecting good qualities in a partner and recognizing good qualities in yourself that would make you more attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 01:44 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Clever wording. Tbh, I have little personal experience with depressed men and men who are hopeless. But they are very vocal here in reddit. I’ve met some guys like that and I don’t want to be their friend or hear them out. I have browsed TRP forum and it’s a very dark tone generally enough that I can’t read it. Also, no idea who appointed the guys posting in there as experts? I think they’re just guys. To argue the other side, I haven’t met any angry redpillers. I’ve met some guys who wish they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 01:36 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Intelligence and emotional competence did not significantly predict mate appeal. Controlling for physical attractiveness further reduced effects of abilities. Perceived abilities seem to be more relevant for attraction than measured ones. These are the highlights of that study. None of these say what you said or contradict TRP. The last two definitely are TRP tenents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 01:03 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? You said behavior, not competence. Charm humor and confidence aren’t competence. This is not what you said. PUAs advocate for irrational confidence with or without competence and it seems to work well in the real world. And with regard to women’s mate selection preferences? Hypergamy is invented bullshit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 12:59 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? You’re saying there’s no evidence that a man who is funny, charming, confident and interesting has an impact on whether a woman sees him as being attractive in the short term? Average and below average looking pick up artists would disagree with you. A below average or even downright ugly band member, college professor, professional dancer enjoys a lot more success with women than that same individual in a context in which his behaviors aren’t manifested. And conventionally handsome men who are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 12:45 AM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Why despise?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 08:30 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I dont mean to belittle your experience. Men take on a heavy burden and there is no escaping it. We work until we die and that’s life. My armchair psychologist take is men tend to get happier when they do, not when they bitch. We need to vent. And need a place for that. When I get bitchy for more than about 5 minutes I just make myself feel worse. If I’m in a mood, I run, cycle, motorcycle, gym, dance, sing. If my situation is long term, I make an escape plan. All serotonin activities. Glad to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 08:05 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? What a great story bro!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 07:23 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Has it enhanced the quality of your life on a day-to-day basis? Or enhanced your mental state?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 07:12 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Most dating coaches and life coaches don’t touch on the nature of humans in any comprehensive way. Jocko is a pop psychologist of sorts. Gives platitudes. There’s a good market for it. And his story is cool. Doesn’t tell me who they are. And doesn’t tell men who their wives and daughters are. I can’t tell what Jonathan Aslay thinks about anything. Dude has a 30 minute video twice a week and I have no idea if he even knows what he’s talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 07:01 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Helping her through school. Could be buying her a car. Could be helping her in her spiritual journey, helping her sort out her feeling on god and faith or agnosticism and still finding her spiritual center. Could be on letting her know what a healthy relationship looks like day to day. We don’t yell, we use our words, we don’t retaliate, we share, we’re encouraging to each other not in competition. This may sound like basic a daily stuff but I’ve dealt with plenty of women who don’t do any of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 06:56 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I live in Los Angeles. I know some insane women yes. The dating climate here isn’t much different than any major city. Very few men have the ability to be a fuck boy. Like 10% of men are having the vast majority of the sex. Women of any age and any appearance have 100 times more potential partners than average men. I dated a 22 year old who had 42 partners before me. She was my 3rd at age 42. We were together for about 5 months. I think most men are taught what you’re saying is true. And then th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 06:50 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Good call. Marriages are rarely what they seem. The studies show that women tend to be both more promiscuous and cheaters in their 20s ( when they have the most options), and men tend to be most promiscuous and cheaters in their 30s and 40s (when they have the most options). I have seen a lot of blue pill men cheaters in that age range too. Blatant and disgustingly so. The RP men weren’t ordering their wives, but I know that happens. It wasn’t that dynamic with these guys. Having dated a couple …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 06:36 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I agree with this 100%. Psychology can be really good for training your children to be well behaved in a loving supportive environment. It also can be used to trick people into buying bullshit. Psychology isn’t bad. But it can be used for bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 06:24 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I agree there’s a lot of outrage and negativity in the community because that’s what gets engagement. The unflattering parts of men and women’s nature isn’t good or bad. Those are value judgments. They have kept he human race alive so in that way they’re good. Lots of data. It’s not bullshit connect the dots. A typical man’s experience: you’ve been told to happy wife happy life you relationship. Pedestalizing her. And wonder why both of you are so unhappy. A redpill frame work would be that he d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 06:23 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Does a man investing in his gf imply he has greater experience or is guiding the relationship in any way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 06:16 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I’ll look into Karen and the factual feminists. Thanks for sharing that. There is a lot of negativity in this sphere for sure. Knowing how women think is a big part of how men think too. We’re designed for each other. That’s part of men’s advocacy in my opinion. I did see a Tiktoc short where a woman said she was with her boyfriend at some party, her ex-boyfriend texted her so she left the party and fucked the ex-boyfriend and then went back into the party and an hour later her current boyfriend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 06:13 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Did you go through theses stages of emotion? Rollo Tommassi talks about these stages. Denial, depression etc. I didn’t experience any of that. Wish I’d been a little more firm with the ex is all. I was too passive about her emotional shit thinking I could love her enough to make it go away. She really broke my heart. I was just enabling her to not get the help she needed. It wasn’t till after I left that she went to therapy and got on meds. In retrospect, she needed boundaries and hard lines. Sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:57 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I only know two very strong red pilled guys in real life and they’re both happily married. I’m curious what your experience has been.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:51 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Just to clarify you said: “only attract women who are broken from the start, prevent her growth solely so you can snag her.” This sounds like a personal experience or that you think PUA tactics to be RP. In general, women, broken or not, like a man to be fit, confident, socialized, responsible in career and finances, goal oriented. None of those traits prevent her growth. A man would be investing heavily into his gf or wife to help her grow if he’s truly RP and is his best self. Gaming girls thr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:49 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Grifting is good money. I’d have a lot more money if I could be a heartless asshole. Just can’t seem to flip that switch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:38 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? If that’s all men take from RP, I’d say it was a big help. Own your life. Stop bitching about what’s unfair. It’s a wild world and it’s horrible and beautiful. Enjoy your moments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:37 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I hear you. I’m not on any forums or groups so I don’t know much about this. Wonder if that’s healthy deprogramming or just men bitching. Sounds like the men bitching about this annoys you enough that you just moved on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:34 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Not advocating anything. This is a book I’ve never read before. I’m just asking questions. But thanks for the support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:31 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? You’re right. Money is only one of several factors that make us happy. Keep your blue pill friends if you love them. The quality of our lives is 90% the quality of the humans we interact with. This is a great success story bro. Thanks for sharing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:30 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? When I read it I was recently divorced, already doing well in business, already 10% body fat, and I’m 6’6”. I had no stages of grief. I didn’t know why dating seemed easy and fun but there were a lot of unhappy men out there. I’m just glad to know a little more about myself and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:26 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? It’s a little easier for a man to look inside himself and say “This is what motivates me.” Much harder for him to look into a woman and say that. Some of what is taught about women isn’t intuitive or common sense. Anything in there meaningful about women to you? And regarding men, we have a violent nature. It’s why the other similar and competing primates are extinct. Best to focus that violence into business, humor, combat sports. That typically makes for a happier man. That can be called commo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:22 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Sorry to hear that. I think I always have seen life as “I’m going to climb this hill, like it or not motherfuckers.” Some stuff in the RP is very sobering but just makes me work harder which I’m ok with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:15 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Outrage sells. Gets engagement. I can’t listen to most talk radio or political pundits for this reason. Women are awesome. If a program makes a person feel any different, better to tune out. Anything you’ve taken and felt better for it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:12 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I don’t need your respect. You decided to villainize me for asking questions which is a big part of why the world is shitty. I don’t care which box you put me in. You don’t know me. Ask questions. No harm in that. I’ve never seen that hand book btw. I just downloaded it. It’s a blend of an OpEd and data. I prefer data. Don’t need anyone to tell me how to think or feel about Data. Here’s the passage you referred to. He’s speaking definitively about a subject that isn’t as definitive as his wordin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 05:08 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? I’m asking questions. My baseline is a scientist, not attaching emotion to reality. I was going to let you hang yourself here in the comments. I’m a kind generous person by nature and by choice so don’t need to do any soul searching. Your comment was sarcastic and your current state of mind is revulsion then. Could have just said that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 04:56 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? What’s the unhealthy baseline? Gender roles? Or lead follow dynamics?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 04:53 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? Oh you’re serious? This is a little off topic but how do you behave like a sociopath in ways that gets you better sexual access?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 04:47 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? What about redpill teachings? People aren’t RP. They’re just people (and probably mostly lost like everyone else.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 04:43 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? This sounds like a troll comment 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 04:41 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? In what ways is RP not healthy. Not arguing. Just never heard that before. I feel like that’s saying “Your desire to work out isn’t healthy”. That could be true if it made me anorexic or some other extreme. Otherwise it’s a good natural desire. EDIT spelling	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 04:40 PM
2	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread Dr David Bus has been doing excellent armchair pop psychology for 35 years then. I’ll let him know you think his books and research are bogus. Martie Haselton has done great work on ovulatory shift and how that affects women’s behavior. Reality shouldn’t hurt your feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 04:18 PM
8	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread This comment doesn’t relate to what we were discussing. Let me know when you want to join the conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 01:16 AM
8	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread Yes a beta can. I said that already. That’s not common. Handsome nerds make really good husbands in my opinion. They’re hard to find. I dont understand your second question. Lots of men want relationships, maybe most guys want that. Most women that I know have 2-10 guys in their phones right now that would marry them and never cheat on them but the girls don’t want a relationship with those guys, too beta, heavy, nervous, not financially stable enough etc. But most men would also like to have ea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 01:09 AM
6	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread Most guys want that. They don’t say it out loud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 12:58 AM
6	Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks Discussion Thread Not obligated of course. Evolutionary psychology shows women are hardwired to have two dating goals: she wants a stable kind steady provider (the beta) and also have her hair pulled and fucked like an animal, or to be sexed and turned on by a tall strong man with abs a square jaw and confidence (the alpha). If she can get both those things in the same man she’s won the dating lottery. The relationship guys get frustrated there are all these boundaries and rules for them and not for the alpha. Ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 12:56 AM
0	Do TRP men even have interests outside of getting laid? The red pill has nothing to do with getting laid any more than psychology has to do with sales. If you learn psychology, can you put it to practice in a sales setting, you will likely be way more successful. But that isn’t the purpose of psychology Exiting the matrix or a false narrative regarding what reality is by taking the red pill means you’re simply be exposed to the true nature of men and women. Women’s dating strategy is to get the best man they can get which is partially hypergamy but t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 03:05 AM
1	the fundamental issue with most dating advice directed at men is most of it boils down to “be someone else entirely” Since this sub Reddit is about blue and red pill thinking, it’s probably better to reframe “dating advice” from those perspectives. It seems most dating advice YouTube channels are a ton of bullshit that seems to be made up five minutes before they recorded the kind of dating advice he referring to for men has a lot to do with manifesting the characteristics that the red pill inculcates in you mentally. The red pill teaches that the statistics show that women are attracted to the kind of man who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 02:04 AM
1	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero No can do this for you, but no can prevent you from doing it either.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 08:07 PM
1	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero MPMD has a topical thing he uses, RU something. Don’t take finasteride. You’ve zeroed yourself out. Men in your state put guns in their mouths. Don’t zero yourself out. Learn about gender roles and how men and women think and feel differently and have different goals that motivate them. Google intersexual dynamics and read and read and watch videos. You have a lot more value than you realize. I feel for you but I can’t learn stuff for you. YOU ALONE need to fix this. Do a full hormone liver kidn…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 07:31 PM
1	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero I was going to move on with my life and ignore your response but I’m a human and I care for people. Vin diesel is bald. Go to the gym and dress nice. There’s things you can do for baldness too. If you cared you’d look it up. More plate more dates recommends a product that he uses. Used by bay builders to get their hair back. Humiliation isn’t death. Did you die? Does a no kill you? My cousin had debilitating anxiety. Couldn’t work, barely ate, could drive over a bridge because of fear and anxiet…	/r/seduction	11/08/22 04:27 PM
1	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero I’m 27 with no friends: make friends. Meetups, FB groups. Live in a small town? Move. Millions of people have moved into big cities which is why there are millions of people in those cities. If dating apps aren’t working for you, you should be doing cold approaches. How many times have you done this? The first step to a cold approach is getting the hell out of your house and going where girls are. Have you done this yet? Reddit has plenty of R4R subs that are looking for gamers, chub stirrers, p…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 06:06 AM
1	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? Lack of truly masculine role models. Irrational fear of being offensive for being masculine.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 01:21 AM
2	What’s your dating advice to the guys on here who can’t get success with women? Feminine women like masculine men. They don’t like feminine men. Go to the gym, ride a motorcycle, be about your career, be decisive about your life’s direction. It’s stressful for a woman to feel like she’s coaching you on how to be a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/22 10:17 PM
1	Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating? Having weaknesses and vulnerabilities doesn’t make you weak or vulnerable as a man. It is perfectly possible to convey confidence power strength resilience hopefulness ambition but still be open and honest about insecurities and weaknesses. It’s OK to miss your mom as a grown ass man. Girls are afraid that you’re actually a broken person inside or that your insecurities are the actual you, and the confidence that you portray is the fake you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 06:49 PM
0	Q4M: what do you mean by submission? Women get excited by a man who takes charge in his life. He won’t let anyone speak disrespectfully to him. And he won’t let anyone, his brother, his mother, his wife hold him back from his goals. Generally speaking, this excites women. A man who lives like this will tend to have a wife who loves and respects him until they die. If he says “I’m going to make $10m this year and I don’t need any shit from anyone about it” a submissive wife or gf will let him roll. When she sees him closing deals, m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 11:48 PM
2	Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the same Many, many women want to get fucked by a hot guy. They don’t care if it’s a one off. This means the girl got what she wants. She flirted with a guy at a party or race or bar, they fucked in the car and never talk again. She knew it was ok with it. There is a percentage of men that are the hot guy for many women. They can text one of a handful of girls and have one show up to get fucked and leave. No men want to get rejected by a girl. Not all women are interested in a relationship or care that m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/22 06:16 PM
1	If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date. A “normal” person can expect to gain about 10lbs muscle if they aren’t using anabolics in a year. Genetically gifted will be more. 15lbs in 2 years isn’t too bad. Also 3000 calories isn’t a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 07:10 PM
37	A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance. If you’re a 7-9 man and having trouble getting women, you have other issues. 3-5 men get women all the time with humor and confidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:19 PM
1	women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit. Fucking legend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/22 01:01 AM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection $ is only one part of what excites her. Women have real burning desire for men much less attractive and money isn’t the only factor. Also money is something a man can change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 12:15 AM
3	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection If you’re a victim bitch, you’ll complain about things you can’t change, regardless if they’re real or systemic or not real. Being told to level up is a thing you can change. Also, lots of ugly bald fat old men get smoking hot women. What are they offering. You’ll need to know what excites women and be that guy. Hint: it isn’t being a victim bitch or simping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 01:19 AM
0	The notion of "unconditional love" Not true. I’ve seen old ugly fat men deeply love their old ugly fat wives. My grandfather couldn’t stop talking about my grandmother and how much he loved her while she was dying over the course of 3 years and then until he died 5 years after she died. In his 70s and 80s, he was very in love with her. He would joke with her and flirt with her. I’ve seen many marriages where both man and woman are deeply in love way into their golden years. Giggling, flirting, dancing in their 60s and 70s. For me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 05:21 PM
0	Women love it when men impress them You don’t need to defend yourself to this dude. Unhappy stuck people constantly doubt the success and progress of others. CS is a great career if you can fill your time outside of work with enough human stimulation. Extroverts have trouble sitting at a desk all day but if your evenings and weekends are fun, you’ll love it. Stick with it. B vitamins and omega 3s can help with ADHD. And pack you money away while you’re working at the club. I’ve had several RNs that I work with paid for their entir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 03:34 PM
4	Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to? [boy gets bashful smile] [Music queues] [Camera pans to the sunset as the dog runs up the driveway] Ok. Let’s do this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 03:15 AM
41	Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to? I’m fine. I was timid. I should have just asked you out. My bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 12:43 AM
1	Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman? Traditional woman yes 100% for me. I’m worried about STDs and pregnancy and stalkers and crazy. Just one great woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 05:29 PM
1	do the people here actually observe the things talked about in this sub in real life or is it more about what happens on the internet? I haven’t changed what I’m looking for or my value system even a little bit by reading this sub. I think I’m just curious about what other people think. I am a 6’5”, 10% body fat, college educated, trilingual, classically handsome, white, financially successful Man and I am totally geared for being in a committed monogamous relationship, even though I get offers and get asked out all the time by women. I could text four women right now that would have sex with me before sundown, but that life do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 05:05 PM
5	Does anyone know why there's a disconnect between OLD apps and real-life couples? It’s possible they were looksmatched when they were younger and the men became more handsome and the women declined some too. But you’re right, the qualities that make for a good wife are a little more rare and worth compromising on looks for. Will make a for a far happier marriage being with a humble kind woman than simply a hot woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 05:39 PM
2	Does anyone know why there's a disconnect between OLD apps and real-life couples? People don’t settle because they don’t have options. They settle because they want to settle. At some point a man decides he wants a GF or wife and stops sifting through options. There will always be a prettier girl forever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 05:34 PM
2	The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate it Lots of women I meet want to be wifed and loved forever. Hypergamy is a choice for both genders. You can’t live life scared she’ll cheat on you. Pick someone who has the same values and goals and love her and trust your gut and if you gut says trust her then trust her. You’ll drive yourself nuts otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 04:57 PM
2	The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate it There a lot of beautiful relationships out there. Men can and do win all the time. Some luck, some skill. Believe that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 04:53 PM
1	The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate it Couldn’t disagree more. For both random hookups and for LTRs, people pick in their social circle looking for safe, enjoyable time and a few other things in common. If a man is not physically attractive, but is really funny, self assured, being friends first is a great way to show how attractive he can be. Many men are not a first impressions type but a third and fourth. It’s pretty prickish to brag about wealth in your OLD profile or just be flagrant about how fit you are. A man who has really m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 03:31 PM
0	The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate it Sheesh please say you don’t believe this self defeating none sense. The dude above is so in his head about why he’s failing that he’ll never make progress. Love yourself, love others, find joy in your career and relationships and make people laugh. Men can win. Short term and long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 03:22 PM
0	What's the point of labeling people who wouldn't date transgender people "transphobic"? Almost no one believes not wanting to have sex with a T girl is transphobic. It’s a tiny amount of people who think this they’re just all over Twitter and whatever. “I fuck who I like to fuck as long as its consensual” is pretty universal. I don’t even think this is a topic worth discussing much. There’s no controversy here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 06:11 PM
1	Is crying a turnoff for you? It’s not a double standard. The genders aren’t and shouldn’t be expected to be the same or react the same emotionally and in many other ways. They’re different and that’s ok. Men don’t have boobs. We’re made differently and that what makes us attracted to the other gender. (This is in the context of a male female heterosexual discussion.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 04:07 AM
1	(please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case? Get some diagnostics, full hormone panel, Ultrasound of the uterus. It could be the jab but it could be something else. Get off all dairy. It’s full of hormones. Endometriosis and ovarian cysts re very hormone related. Going plant based or almost completely plant based for a few months might help too. Edit: also stress can mess with it. The jab may have stressed your body and now you’re panicky and afraid of not being able to make babies just making it worse. Exercise, meditation, laugh often, s…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/21 02:23 PM
11	Which man would woman rather date? (look below) This. I see no set of answers here than can soothe OPs soul.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 05:13 PM
1	Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date him Two negatives make a positive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 01:27 PM
1	Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date him I wouldn’t date him. But I’m straight so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 01:26 PM
6	[deleted by user] Women are Gods greatest creation without a doubt. The imagination needed to make them as curvy, the way they express their intelligence and intuition, the care they have for children and the needy. Fucking mind blowing. Some sort of magic.	/r/seduction	04/10/21 02:49 PM
1	Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women? Because to a woman, security is happiness. He can be introverted but handsome and muscular or wealthy and easy to talk to. Introversion doesn’t itself imply security. Will he defend her if someone slaps her butt at a bar? A smaller, even not that attractive man who’s hilarious and extroverted implies strength and strength in any strength implies security to her. I knew an introvert who looked like Joey from friends and he got lots of attention. Was called the strong silent type. Was an athlete w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 08:09 PM
2	CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence. Intelligence is sexy as fuck. I told a girl once I wanted to make love to her brain. We were friends but there was chemistry. We’d talk and sometimes I’d need to take a couple days to think about it more and digest. Her intelligence and insight was couple with humility and other good qualities so it was like unpretentious safe intelligence and wit. After chats it made me want to make the sheets sweaty with her. Other very sexy things: I love to see a women know what she wants and go after it wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 07:42 PM
4	Societal Shift in Attitudes Towards Becoming a Stepfather/Dating Single Moms in Younger Generations? Relationships are still about love. If you love her and love her kids, what difference does it make what society thinks? Lots of step kids see their step dad or stop mom as dad or mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/21 03:06 PM
1	Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women? Growing in contempt for women who don’t want you as if they’re are in a group is sad. It’s living in the past. As if resentment can take you back in time. Pumping and dumping is also shitty fir any reason. This person you’re describing needs therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 04:13 PM
1	People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them? I’m sorry you had to go through that. Sounds horrible. I wish we had free and or more comprehensive medicine and especially mental health in the US. Mental health, especially addiction help, is right now the worst sort of cash grab from sick people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 06:08 AM
1	People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them? I was unnecessarily short with you. I’m sorry. What happens in the bedroom is often a symptom of what is happening outside the bedroom, for sure. If you’re making yourself have sex with your mate, lots of diagnostics need to be done there. Some of it’s you and some it’s him. My comment didn’t parse it at all. Just have sex and all that that means. If it’s a dead bedroom, your mate will wander. Not 100% of the time. But very likely. To tell a man “I’m not in the mood to have sex” is a very simila…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 05:23 AM
3	People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them? Totally. Be single. I have lots of friends I don’t have sex with. If you partner with them, and you only have sex out of pity, you’re not doing them any favors. I think you’re answering the question that was asked: why do people get divorced. “I only give him pity sex.” But it’s ok, you can cast him as being a the cheater villain later. Cannot imagine anyone advising anyone else to be an addict. Good luck with that one too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 02:27 AM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Do I defend a comment I never made...? Nah I’m good	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 11:00 PM
19	People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them? You’d do well to go ask this at r/Divorce. Lots of reasons people get divorced. People stay married for the same reasons though. Have sex with your partner. As much as the highest libido partner wants. Sex is great. When you give sex, you get sex. “I’m not in the mood” is shitty way to treat your parter. “I have a headache [for 6 months]”gets people to go sleep under another porch. So does playing PS4 and ignoring your wife. “I’m not attracted to you anymore” is a sign of porn addiction and lack…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 10:39 PM
4	It’s always about what the wife wants. Part of that “happy wife happy life” and “let me ask the wife” is to downplay an appearance of seeming like a dominating asshole. In relationships where the woman is submissive, a considerate loving husband will check with the wife to see how she feels. This is healthy and makes her feel safe, loved and listened to. You see this a lot in healthy Latin and Filipino marriages. The other part is crazy bitches and men who’ve been emasculated and the man literally asks for permission to do things. Do…	/r/MGTOW2	29/05/21 04:01 PM
5	If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married? I think attaching myself to an intelligent woman who makes me laugh and whose boobs I can hold while I big spoon sounds wonderful. It’s not about kids or money or any of that. It’s about partnering with someone who fills your soul.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 03:39 PM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? I think this is a fair comparison honestly. Just get your shit together. Unemployed guy in the US when unemployment is 6%? 300lb woman? Do you love yourself? Are you motivated? Is there a fire in your heart? You’re not happy. I know you aren’t. Neither one is happy and they may hose my life with their sadness. No I’m all stocked up here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 12:30 AM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Me too. My mom wouldn’t do meds. She was a health nut and got us off sugar and soda. Put me and my brothers on a strict no wrappered foods Whole real Foods diet, no MSG. She also believed in gender roles even though she was a powerful alpha mom. Freakin love that woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 07:41 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. What country? Sounds horrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 06:04 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I’ll have to think about that. You were playing chess but weren’t actively going for the checkmate and didn’t know how to do that. The alpha beta mnemonic was helpful for you. I see a couple trolls in here trying to trigger women saying it’s everything but it’s just trolls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 06:01 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. For seconds or minutes and one offs it sounds like this has any meaning. Not sure if my view has changed but it’s seems best to keep this distinction in its place. It’s the kindergarten of relationship advice. Charm is great for about 10 minutes. Then you’ll need some substance in conversation. Maybe it’s a race to see how fast you can bang a girl before she sees it was all charm and no substance. Not being sarcastic toward you, just thinking out loud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 04:44 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I didn’t expect to change the worlds mind. I’m happy to see it differently but I think that’s the alpha in me. Thanks for the chats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:31 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Good question. I guess my interest is in not seeing people sad about a thing that isn’t true. Like screaming angry that there’s a child sex trafficking depot in the basement of a pizza parlor in Washington DC. This is giving you so much grief but it isn’t real. Viewing yourself as a beta means you’ve put yourself in a cage. I think it’s better to play the hand you were dealt strategically and stay out of the cage. Men tell you you’re beta. Women on this sub and elsewhere say this shit doesn’t ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:11 PM
-1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Being a people pleaser is a beautiful trait with some obvious pitfalls. Very sexy to some women. Isn’t the issues you’d be dealing with more about being assertive, having boundaries, trusting yourself? Not being more aggressive or confrontational? You’d be fighting your own nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:00 PM
0	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. TBH I think I posted with so-called betas in mind. They’re frustrated and sad. Seeing the wold as a “that guys is better than me and so is he” is a horrible life. I can see how this short hand version of the world can help some but I think it’s an incomplete model and is mostly hurtful. It’s cagey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:57 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. This fits into the “security is happiness” box pretty well. Maybe replace “dominance” for “leadership qualities.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:52 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I don’t want to be insensitive. Trying not to be. I see what you’re saying. I could see this as a 80/20 issue and I’m stuck being in the lower 80% and my life sucks and I can’t change it. But can you see it my way? There’s a large number of compatible women who want most of the same stuff as me and I’m not worried about the other men out there. I cant change the other men. I can change me. It puts you in the driver seat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:44 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Sorry, 80/20 win lose? As opposed to 50/50 which would be a win/win? You could see it that way if you wanted to but why would you? In business, I want everyone I do business with to make money and be glad they partnered with me. I don’t need to screw the other guy to get mine. I think I do better and make more money by not seeing it from a position of scarcity. It seems an unhealthy way of viewing it. I’m happy if my friends have success. I can make my own success. Women have very similar grieva…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:24 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I’ll think about this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:07 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Yeah if this line of thinking is trying to teach men who listen and care they should be aggressive and confrontational, it’s misleading them. I don’t believe GOOD women find aggression and selfishness to be sexually attractive. That’s sticking your dick in crazy to me. I know there’s screwed up women who say they like to be hit and yelled at and controlled. Some young daddy issue girls like to be sport fucked but they are half baked people who have no idea what they want. You’re taking advantage…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:07 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. True I don’t share many of these frustrations. I should have kept me out of this since I’m not the topic. The things spoken about in the original post don’t depend on being extroverted. Lots of girls like quiet shy guys. Lots of quiet shy girls out there want to live quiet lives, gamers, travelers, painters, musicians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 01:48 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Win/lose assumes there’s only 2 girls and 3 boys. There are effectively infinite women, more than you could date in a lifetime. You getting a girl doesn’t mean I can’t. Just try again tomorrow. For LTRs, the girl that wants you I would totally hate being with and my girlfriend would make you pull your hair out. We can both get what we want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 01:38 PM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. You’re making my point, so weird. Seeing alpha beta encourages assholes to take shit. So we’ll teach people that. You’re a beta so I’ll take your stuff and kill you. I’m an alpha so I’ll be the taker thanks. Low income is prone to violence so can we win/win this? Yes. It’s possible. Been done. Worker co-ops let everyone own the company and everyone share the spoils. Doesn’t involve taxing or wasteful spending. Just good old fashioned capitalism with a win/win overlay. After 1000 years of endless…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 06:35 AM
2	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Goodness I don’t see any of my relationships that way so don’t feel it as default. Maybe it’s my personality type. I’m the protagonist. It’s like 2% of the population. “Protagonist (ENFJ) is a person with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging personality traits. These warm, forthright types love helping others, and they tend to have strong ideas and values. ... Your breath can radiate love or muddy the room in depression. Your glance can awaken joy.” I think the health and wealth and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 06:14 AM
3	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. 100% agree with the second half. The first half sounds like either divine right “I was born better than you” or as if it’s a competition where there’s winners and losers. It’s possible to win and others win too. That’s the ideal outcome. Me being rich doesn’t have to make you poor. You can be rich too and I hope you will be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 05:56 AM
0	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I hear this. I think the frustration many these guys experience is related to chasing the wrong ideal. If you see a person as a product, you want to make the best product it can be and then advertise it by putting it in front of eyes that may what that product. That’s how all products make money. Fix the product, then market it. Does being alpha mean no longer being introverted? Can a person chose that? I knew a 51 year old woman who was a mother of one of my close friends get married to a 27 ye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 05:52 AM
3	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Tbh and in all fairness a lot women don’t know what they want. Don’t ask a 19 year old what she wants. I’d be better off telling her what I think she wants and seeing how it sits with her. Women often think intuitively. It’s not better or worse just softener and works well when she’s in a good space emotionally. I think it takes some insight and a bit of confidence to figure it out and stand your ground. There’s some things all women want and some things that vary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 04:11 AM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Bless you for this. I thought this was going to be a fight the whole time. Hope you’re feeling better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 04:06 AM
2	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I agree with the outcomes for one offs. But for life partners? Or a meaningful relationship? Lots of hot sex with a life parter you can trust is way better than a string of one offs IMO. It’s an incomplete model. Maybe that’s all it’s good for is one offs. I think that can make sense. It’s the kindergarten of relationship models.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:37 AM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Yeah don’t be a dick about it. I dont have a tribe. Anything talking about 2 million years ago or even 100,000 years ago is subjective. Were we paleo, vegan, carnivorous? We don’t know. Scratches on a bone aren’t evidence of a knife. It’s evidence of a scratch. I’m a science guy. If the data tells me I’m wrong then I’ll change my worldview.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:32 AM
0	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Haha I did but that’s probably insightful. Football, basketball and softball in jr high but in high school I was a track and field guy. I ran the 800, Triple jump,high jump and pole vaulting. I was always categorized as alpha and a leader or whatever was popular at the time since kindergarten. I just felt it was always a useless distinction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:28 AM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I was trying to bring all men in by destroying the box. I don’t think I care about exceptions either. The data set is too big for this categorization. It’s basically this works except it doesn’t work because it isn’t the right way of labeling it. And lots of men see this scale as real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:20 AM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:15 AM
2	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. On this I’ll agree 100%. Improve yourself. We’re visual thinkers and want to simplify this but even seeing these qualities on a sliding alpha beta scale is misguided to me. I can see that’s it’s the beginning of a helpful mnemonic but it’s very limited in scope. Also many see it literally. A good illustration parallel all the way through. If you keep drilling into this, it’s just a blind alley.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 03:14 AM
1	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. I appreciate your reading my whole post and your thoughtful response really. It’s long. I’m trying to make the claim that all the facts you say are totally accurate regarding the football player getting girls. Yes broad shoulders and confidence and all that. It’s just put in the wrong box. Alpha beta is an incomplete theory that can’t contain the topic, entitles assholes and frustrates wimps who won’t take responsibility for their lives. It has men chasing the wrong thing. I don’t expect to chan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:47 AM
3	CMV: the alpha beta distinction is a false dichotomy that leads to frustration. There’s no such thing. Haha ok. You’re right, asking a woman what women want is stupid. You fixed me. It could also be keeping your eye on the ball. Lots of frustrated dudes worried about a thing that isn’t real. Not sure how breaking down reasons why women don’t find you attractive and working on them one by one could be a bad thing. Also those studies are subjective bullshit. It changes every few years. It gets published but it’s impossible to really know. If you have a study about now, I’d apologize.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 02:23 AM
2	Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa? Haha let’s trigger. Im crafting it now. Whoever made that post needs to be in red pill seriously. I’ve heard so many women say they like dad bods. Over feeding husbands and boyfriends intentionally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 12:38 AM
1	Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa? Sounds like a good purple pill topic	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/21 12:19 AM
2	Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa? Yeah to me an alpha is all that. The biggest silverback doesn’t need to hit anyone. They’ll be found patting and helping other members. I agree that men need to be there for each other more but really inasmuch as everyone should be there for each other. We’re not really all that different and not sure how it hurts anyone to just let someone be who they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 11:47 PM
2	Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa? I couldn’t speak for all men but I think that sums it up for me. Men tend to agree fairly consistently about what is “attractive“. With women I have to calibrate what they think is attractive by showing them pictures of several different kinds of men to let me hear what they think is attractive because it’s all over the map. Women tend to see security as attractive which is emotional. Jay-Z isn’t Beyoncé level. He’s a 1 and she’s a 9. She’s a 9 at any weight. But he’s tall and a bigger guy, hand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 10:57 PM
3	Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa? You’re right that dad bods are popular. That particular guy is very tall, square jawed and masculine. I think both sides are right here. This guy and many celebrity dad bods are still handsome and masculine, just are heavier. I heard a girl tell me guys with dad bods don’t seem like guys who will sleep around to her. The seem safer. Guys with abs on the other hand, more likely to stray opportunistically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/21 09:59 PM
4	Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger? Your question makes it sound like you’re looking for proof. Good women are probably about as hard to find as good men. When a man finds a good woman, the strong inclination is to stay right where you are. The idea of leaving the crazy bitch a man is currently with to go with some younger crazy bitch is only a temptation because he’s currently with a crazy bitch, not because she’s a good woman. Being in a committed stable relationship where both parties are loving and supportive and work to meet …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 07:18 PM