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| 33 | What theme would you like to see displayed more in movies?I want to see strong female characters NOT end up with wimpy klutzy helpless Ron Stoppable blahs who bring nothing to the table. Movies will try to push just how oh so amazing, talented, and in charge the female lead is by placing her next to a lovable goofy side kick who’s barely competent and perpetually friend-zoned by her until the jerk bad guy turns her off enough for her to lower her standards and settle for the manchild who has been following her around this whole time. He doesn’t need an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:06 AM |
| 10 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.Oh my, wait till he hears about pupils! XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 100 | Her Persistence Paid Off: How many red flags can you count in this wedding announcement?I’d stick another flag next to “police officer” because statistically they’re more likely to be domestic abusers. This man is already older than her (the power dynamic will never be even) and is used to being in a position of control with no repercussions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | I really hope this guy did not actually sleep in a nest in his home and what he said is all satire 🤢🤢🤢Lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 10:57 PM |
| 57 | I really hope this guy did not actually sleep in a nest in his home and what he said is all satire 🤢🤢🤢This feels really fake. The story of “the nest” is well known now outside of FDS now and he’s just playing on the idea of the trope. He doesn’t have a point to prove and isn’t trying to uplift anyone. The whole “reaction” is just build up to hurdurdur I had sex lololol. 🙄😒 Why is this guy being given a platform on this subreddit again? Why are we promoting and sharing this video? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:26 AM |
| 509 | I left a perfectly good man because FDS made me believe I could do better. And you were rightReminder that bare minimum isn’t worth settling for. Just because he’s not horrible or abusing you doesn’t mean you put your standards aside and accept low effort half-assery the rest of your life. When we vet and make sure he doesn’t have red flags 🚩, that’s just the beginning step. It’s seeing if someone meets the bare minimum requirements to continue having the privilege of conversing with you. Not being as awful as the others does not automatically bump him up to HVM status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:52 PM |
| 75 | What are your ladies’ opinions on finances when moving in with a boyfriend/fiancé/husband?The handbook is pretty clear that we don’t move in with boyfriends. It is never in your best interest no matter how convenient or nice the idea seems. The community has mixed feelings about moving in while engaged, but the overall rule is to only live with him as his wife. Don’t be just a girlfriend and give him wife benefits. The handbook also strongly is against 50/50 on dates because 50/50 is never truly equal. I would say that goes into marriage and mortgage too. Also, never pay into a mortg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:08 AM |
| 21 | "No 50/50, either he pays or I do"This sounds like a trap/lie to trick women into paying for dates with LV hobosexuals. Just like 50/50 once sounded good in principal (beCaUsE eQuaLitY ha ha haaa) Paying for someone and going “I don’t need you to provide. In fact I’m so empowered and self providing that I’m even able to provide for your pathetic self.” doesn’t actually make you look cool or benefit you. It benefits the guy not willing to pay and treat you with respect in the first place. He doesn’t pull out his wallet, doesn’t s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 12 | I was shopping today and saw this. Looks like they now make a giant mug for desperate women to broadcast to the world how pathetic they are.Yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 4 | I was shopping today and saw this. Looks like they now make a giant mug for desperate women to broadcast to the world how pathetic they are.Perfect secret Santa gift for the office pick me lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:06 AM |
| 16 | From Lundy Bancroft, "Why does he do that?". Re-reading and came across one of my favourite section of the book. It helped me recognise that "sorry" doesn't mean shit from men. If he wanted to, he would.I haven’t had the chance to read it yet. I really really appreciate this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 5 | A form of negging new to meCall him “Young man” because it is technically polite but infantilizes him the same way “miss” does you. He is purposefully not calling you by your name and not calling you “ma’am” (which has an air of respect) because he wants to treat you as if you are below him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:41 PM |
| 14 | Topanga is a real queen here 🥰I love this quote and this gif is fire -> buuuut Topanga is a huge pick-me who rejected an IVY League college acceptance that she worked hard to achieve and threw her life away to follow Cory. Cory the scrote who dated her for years and still couldn’t bother to propose. She was so desperate to be picked she proposed to him instead. Topanga could have done so much more with her life :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:25 PM |
| 53 | The most important quote/post/thread you read on FDSDO NOT WRITE HIM PARAGRAPHS! He hurt you and you want to spell out all the ways he did wrong hoping he’ll feel the weight of his actions. He’s not reading your paragraphs. His heart will not suddenly grow two sizes and be able to sympathize with you. You writing him essays in response gives him power over you. You will be wasting energy and emotions. Writing him paragraphs will not magically erase his cheating, misogynistic attitude, or blatant disrespect for you. If he’s done wrong, it’s not in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 6 | Multiple kids without marriage- thoughts?They seems like good providers how? Because they’re wearing brand name watches or tshirts? Just because home boy has a nice haircut and NIKEs that he flashes online doesn’t mean he buys his child nice things. How many scrotes have you read about here that buy themselves fancy computers, hunting gear, anime figurines, etc. but won’t give 50/50 to his woman and child. Because they film themselves dressed up nice and meeting for a meal with the kid? Big whoop he shows up for one meal during the wee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 01:05 AM |
| 75 | 15 Signs You Are in a Relationship With a Man BabyI’m trying 🚩 to 🚩 read 🚩 the 🚩post 🚩 but can’t 🚩see🚩 past 🚩these 🚩red 🚩flags ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:41 AM |
| 213 | Channel your romantic energy into your friendshipsLast week my best friend and I got dressed up and did dinner at a nice Italian Restaurant. We were joking about how none of our past dates would take us to this place (In my neighborhood and I’ve suggested it in the past) and how we should just keep doing lady dates together. There was no feeling guilty about the bill and I didn’t have to fuck her either! Wow! Lol but it all seriousness it was a stress free fun night together and so easy to do. There’s no excuse why a guy can’t do it for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Question about a new beauty standard I noticedI’m not familiar with the self deprecating trend you’re talking about, but back in my teenage fast fashion days I found a lot of the jackets and blasers had really narrow shoulders which made it impossible to move your arms and uncomfortable just standing. For the longest time I thought it was that I had wide shoulders and something was off with me. No it’s just that the crap at forever 21 and Charlotte Russe is poorly made. How many of us were pressured to alter our bodies (lose weight, stuff o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 12 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!This is so sad and disgusting. Literally calls her “love” in the same breath of telling her he didn’t choose her and not to flatter herself. I just want to vomit 🤮. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:50 PM |
| 17 | The complicated coffee order and the HV and LVM reactions.One cup of defeating the patriarchy please, extra shot of espresso! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:39 AM |
| 75 | Normalize not proposing on hikesI think it depends on how it was done. There’s a big difference between walking the usual trail together at the end of the day vs reaching the summit of a mountain together. Is it low effort or did he plan a trip to somewhere you haven’t been and timed the hike just right that you’d be at the waterfalls by sunset for him to do the thing? The time and thought behind it says more than the Thule of date/location of a proposal. It can be high or low value based on whether or not he put effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:21 PM |
| 273 | Was Adam from the Bible a 50/50 🤡?Eve: Was not around when all of this started and God set the rules. Was lied to and tricked into eating the fruit. Brings the fruit to Adam because sharing is caring and she wasn’t gonna keep knowledge and free will to herself because she loves him. Adam: Has been alive longer, knows God specifically warned him about eating the fruit, knows God is totally willing to destroy him like Lilith was, and has been left in charge of caring for his new wife made just for him, Eve. Takes the fruit anyway … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 890 | Man chooses to propose to his forever GF of 18 years finally, on live TV, after her participation at the Tokyo Olympics. Overshadowing her literal moment in the spotlight.It’s not even a nice sign or cute card. You’re proposing to an Olympian with a crumpled paper you just found somewhere and scribbled on. It’s so low effort and insulting. Worse than a public proposal, it’s a public proposal with no grand gesture. Took her grand moment away for a sad crumpled paper, the audacity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 02:24 PM |
| 35 | “It’s funny cuz it’s true!” - Leslie ChowI like this picture because the guy is nice looking/clean and doesn’t immediately raise red flags. Guys like this will sneak their hobo selves into your life and make you provide everything, drive everywhere, feed them, pay for your own travel/plane tickets/gas, let them stay at your apartment for free, expect you to clean up after them, AND still have the audacity to demand 50/50 and guilt trip you for the crumbs they do manage to give. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?What deodorant are you using? Do you bring wet wipes for after your ride? I’d love some tips :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?I got off my pill jan 1, and everything feels so different! The first period sucks but you’ll get through it girl! 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 17 | IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD 💍I don’t know how you can procreate with someone and still say “I’m not sure I’m committed to this relationship”. There are women birthing multiple children for their just boyfriends who won’t bother to get a legal, public acknowledgement of their relationship and it breaks my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:31 PM |
| 86 | Kind of Peeved After “Build A Man”How dare you make a list of ideals when there are ugly men in the world who require your sympathy!? You should feel shame for not dreaming of binding yourself forever to a man who repulses you like your pick-me friend does. Who do you think you are filling your ideal man list with actual ideals? Shame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:00 PM |
| 17 | Ain't that the truthYes yes yes! I would be completely content living with my best friend and her daughter in the Practical Magic house. We’ll make home made meals and do witchy broom circles together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 05:45 PM |
| 6 | FDS & British Royal Mantra: 👑 Don’t Complain and Don’t Explain 👑I love the point you’re making (don’t give them ammo to use against you and further manipulate you, don’t give paragraphs to a man who won’t waste two thoughts on you), BUT I can’t help but be unsettled by the real life implications of this mantra. It’s used to oppress the other members of the royal family and their staff, especially the women. It’s the kind of mindset that promotes blind loyalty to what the royals want and not speaking out when we’ll off boys do horrid things to common girls, n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 02:46 PM |
| 16 | Moms with Husbands: More Chores, Less Sleep than Single Moms; studies confirm married and cohabiting moms have more chores, sleep less and have less time for themselves than single, divorced or women living with people other than a male partnerThat’s a great way to put it! What kind of person wants to fuck one of their kids? He needs to fulfill the role of partner not the role of child if he expects intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Ladies who have gotten the vaccine: Did it mess with your monthly cycle at all?I got my first dose of pfizer on the 4th which was the last couple days of my cycle. So far no weird bleeding, everything’s a ok down there 👍. My arm had been sore and feeling heavy but it’s fine now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | I design and made this - self love strategy.My first thought too! Give it to yourself and don’t waste it on no scrote! Don’t be like our girl Ruto | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:30 AM |
| 22 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI agree, though this is a female focused sub there is a lot of good advice about self love, setting boundaries, and finding fulfillment with yourself and your hobbies before seeking a partner to build a relationship/future with. If you’re miserable and being mistreated you need to leave that toxic relationship for your mental and physical health. All genders could benefit from the advice given here, but it requires the person to view women as people and hold themselves to higher standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 30 | Leave him Rachel!Homeboy is already walking ahead of her, leaving her behind. His phone’s in his hand, he was just giving his attention to his online relationships when she had the gall to speak to him while they were spending time together in the physical world. It makes me really really sad how familiar the situation pictured is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:09 PM |
| 9 | Almost half a million likes - this ain’t cute 🤢People wear leggings and athletic pants? Her plain colored pants have absolutely nothing to do with her value as a person. Are we gate keeping leggings on this subreddit? I didn’t know it was acceptable to slut-shame women for wearing yoga pants on FDS. News to me. I don’t remember reading that women had to hide their shapely legs under long skirts in the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Every year, on Valentine's Day, I buy my best friend a small bouquet/pot of preserved flowers so she's constantly reminded that she's an eternal queen, and that our friendship is the strongest love we can each receive for our lives. ❤️I love this! My best friend and I do Valentine’s every year too! I got her some Rae Dunn items that spark joy for her, and she got me a beautiful embroidered dress that made me cry it was so perfect for me. Funny how easy it is to find that special gift when you actually love and pay attention to someone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Oww, Oh what? I got hit with cupid's boomerang. Happy Valentines to me!I have the same Aztec clay but haven’t gotten to try it yet :D Pamper yourself girlfriend 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 94 | Anyone else notice when eldest woman in the family passes away the entire family falls apart?Imagine how many kids would not have Christmas presents if mom didn’t go to the store and hunt down a special item for every kid. I’ve seen so many memes and jokes about dad being just as excited as the kids because he doesn’t know what was in the box since he had no part in it. These women are the real Santa and she’s expected to just smile and accept the last minute low effort gift she gets and then serve/host the holiday family dinner as well. Women are the ones who bring the family back toge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Marry Christmas to all fabulous members if FDS!!!!I’ve been following this year and just got my best friend to finally check it out today. Best of luck to all the women of this sub in empowering yourselves and having agency to bet your lives! We all all growing on this journey! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:53 PM |
| 13 | I’vE cHaSeD a LoT oF tAiL 🤮🤮🤮They could have used deer/hunting puns that didn’t indicate her significant other fucked lots of other people. How can she focus on the moment when she’s reading about all the tail he’s chased? :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 48 | Such a cringe-worthy "joke", it's not even funnyIT’s JuSt A jOkE...no it’s dehumanizing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:22 AM |
| 7 | Bought this for myself while preparing for my job interviewsIt makes the colors on your pillows pop! Such positive happy vibes now :) Best of luck, believe in yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Told "too intimidating"Your expertise in your field and extensive medical knowledge is intimidating to the green new hires. Can’t you just play dumb this time so the new guys don’t feel unprepared and inadequate? As if he would ever say that to a male colleague | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:56 PM |
| 8 | After my post earlier....lolAre there actual 15 year olds on this sub??? That would be amazing if the young queens were learning healthy dating strategies early! I feel like most of the women here are mid twenties+ and finally have agency over their lives. It’s hard when you’re a teen and still answer to your parents. Thank really hope more young queens find this sub and learn early on the tactics men use | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 6 | ✨Y’all heard?✨He at least would build their bed. It was a thing back then that your husband to be built your wedding bed (or at least put together a headboard) and the bride to be would have the sheet set she self embroidered to put on the bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Come share some of the wisdoms your moms and grandmothers, or other strong female role models have said to you :) <3Your grandma is wise I like her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:02 AM |
| 14 | Friendly reminder to all the women who are told by LVM yOuRe bEiNg dRaMaTicI’ve never seen a woman punch through a wall during an argument just saying. How are my word’s an overreaction but your smashing and banging isn’t? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:24 AM |
| 2 | 👸♀️Well the witch only goes after her because she’s obeying her master’s orders. And Mulan is just fighting for the emperor (and her family’s honor). So we literally have two powerful women pinned against each other for no reason other than men told them to fight each other. I don’t think Mulan wanted to “be a passive wife” specifically. Mulan just wanted to return home with honor which meant resuming her role as their daughter and resubmitting herself to what was expected of her (and it’s expected… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:36 AM |
| 4 | 👸♀️Yeah I went from laughing to just sitting with my mouth open in shock. I couldn’t believe what I was watching, complete opposite of the girl power message of the original. Really bummed me out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 106 | 👸♀️Literally the moral of the new Mulan movie that just came out. The witch says she can not bear to live in a world that will not accept a woman with power, betrays the bad guy who treated her like a slave even though he promised she’s be free to do as she pleases in his new kingdom, and helps Mulan who she sees leading the men into battle and has hope for. The world will never accept these two powerful women so the witch chooses death and Mulan literally says “I know my place” and is allowed to l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Where is the lie?The full time parent has rules and actually parents their child. This makes mom look like the fun police while dear deadbeat dad shows up once a year (after weeks of her begging him) like he’s the king of kings passing out gifts and being focused on all the fun they’ll have that day. They can idealize the absent parent who’s only ever on their best behavior and fun mode that one day they show up, and spend all year yearning for their time and attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Don't 👏🏻give👏🏻 husband 👏🏻benifits 👏🏻to👏🏻your👏🏻 boyfriend 👏🏻I agree, I feel there’s a difference between cooking a meal and being expected to always cook and prepare meals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Ladies: You all deserve to be treated like gold.What a great mantra | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: you don't need a man to buy you flowers, buy them for yourself because you deserve it!It’s a slippery slope. Started out buying myself flowers for the table now I keep buying plants ;P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:53 PM |
| 12 | Woman gets a lazy proposal that she thought was a joke. Comments say she is high maintenance for wanting a redo.This would break my heart. She just wants the dignity of being asked properly. The basic dignity you’d show to your wife and partner. His immaturity shows in his tantrum after, big red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:41 PM |
| 67 | Woman gets offended by man looking at her on the bus. Woman loses it, man finds it and gives it to her.Sad since he waited before using his tazer. She shoved him, threatened him, and swung at him and he warned her over and over telling her and the other woman to back off. He used force only when it became necessary (She started punching him) and was punished. Some BS | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/03/18 09:15 AM |
| 13 | What feminism would stand for if they were for equalityDo you have statistics or evidence to support that claim? Not saying that privilege isn't real, it is, but that's a bold claim that covers a wide scope of people from different socioeconomic backgrounds. There are white women who live in trailer parks, homeless shelters, ghettos, etc. who do not have the same privileges as a white woman who are an executives, heiresses, or any other well-to-do group of people. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/17 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What feminism would stand for if they were for equalityIts interesting that instead of explaining your point, you try to attack the poster personally and call their words ignorant. That doesn't help your argument | /r/MensRights | 19/02/17 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What feminism would stand for if they were for equalityThe circumcision line was so backwards and wrong, it was difficult to take the rest of the image seriously. Equality does not equal hurting others. No one should be forced to be circumcised. This image helps no one, male or female. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/17 09:26 PM |
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