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This sub is full of media illiterate midwits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:33 PM
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Because the perception that all these women want random hookups is way overblown
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:26 PM
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Also....Celebs live in a different reality then us common folk....Different rules, different rung, different everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:19 PM
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I also believe the original 80/20 rule has been twisted to death, I believe it was originally referring to that 20% of the population having 80% of all casual sex outside of a relationship. Basically that's been through a game of online telephone and blackpill loserdom become "women are whores and only want to fuck chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:04 PM
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Ok, but I want to live in New York City. Also I think my basic income should be 130k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:44 PM
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I think people think they themselves are different. They will opine that they just want a "normal average" girl, but only lust after insta models, or say things like they care about personality and not looks, like women do, but somehow the only women with personalities they care about are hotties. Many people with dating issues lack theory of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:02 PM
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I dont want to live in a world you envision.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:00 AM
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This sounds like you have unresolved mental health issues that are holding you back. Self defeating behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:20 PM
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I'm not discounting the labor and effort. However, the implication of "Men built society" is two fold. They did it from the goodness of their heart only and "I am a man so I should get credit too". I'm a dude and have done a lot of different type of work, and I liked different work better then others, but ultimately, I didn't do the work out of some sort of charity. I did it to get paid, even If I enjoyed the work. A friend of mine is a plumber, and he makes great money, and his work helps peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:46 PM
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Also...Most of these men, Especially in modern times (besides slaves of course) were paid. They exchanged labor for money. Its like not collectively these men where like "Please, no payment this week sir, I dug these subways tunnels for the good of humanity"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 05:46 PM
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The goal is to put continually yourself into positions where your chances are greater than not. Eventually you hit Black Jack.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:15 PM
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No one is saying that. But the would be Surgeon is applying to Med Schools and Studying, which you seem to refuse to want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:12 PM
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Do you often make up doomsday scenarios in your head to excuse your lack of action?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:07 PM
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Conversation rate? Logistics? This is why you are having trouble. You are trying to Math your way out of being social
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:01 PM
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Exactly! Agreed. Brings up one of my favorite quoes..."Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat." - Teddy Roosevelt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:57 PM
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Sure, I was being glib? but I find it fascinating you can judge whole populations on the actions of a few. Sure person A was shitty....but Am I to assume person B C D E F are shitty too ? Seems like a limiting way to go through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:49 PM
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From the comments below, seems certain people and maybe its a young generation thing, cant mentally handle potential heartbreak. Like the potential for negative emotions gives them paralysis?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:46 PM
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Are you as a man responsible for the actions of Ted Bundy? Would you think a women sane if she swore off meb and hated you because of Ted Bundy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:43 PM
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thats life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:39 PM
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Many meek, shy, scared, nervous, neurotic people confuse being outgoing or social as being a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:40 PM
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I know that study and I think it's a flawed stat for a number of reasons. Does not count online interactions or even texting (So meeting someone IRL and then asking her to hang through her Insta DM's or even texting her doesn't count) Seems to focus on formal "dates" Only counts Gen Z (18-25) (how many 18 year olds are asking for formal dates as opposed to just "hanging out") Seems to infer "women" are "women they have never meet" before and not friends of friends or acquittances, which is how a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:28 PM
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Hasn't it Always been on the Male to make the 1st move?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:19 PM
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Dan is a loser grifter. His Dad was a finance grifter, having been convicted of multiple counts of fraud. Most likely Dan got his initial money from his dad's embezzlements. Everything Dan is, is fake. He pays women to be around him and to pose for pictures. His lifestyle is fake, all on credit, and his Ignite company went bankrupt. He is also a borderline Nazi. Dan's biggest accomplishment was convincing young impressionable men that he was in any way real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:29 PM
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Here is some stats for you. From a Divorce Lawyer https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/#:~:text=U.S.%20Divorce%20and%20Marriage%20Rates%20by%20Year&text=In%202021%20(the%20latest%20data,the%20%E2%80%9Ccrude%20divorce%20rate%E2%80%9D. "3. As of 2021, both marriage rates AND divorce rates in the US are decreasing – with the marriage rate dropping from 8.2 per 1,ooo people in 2000 to 6.1 and the divorce rate from 4.0 in 2000 to 2.7. Recent studies have shown that millennials are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:16 PM
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You are right. Its funny people accept these truths from like the 1980s as evergreen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:15 PM
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A main issue is that...well the grift needs to continue. Manosphere podcasters and advice gurus have a vested interest in keeping you in their circle and suck more views and money from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:12 PM
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I can speak about couples having kids....You know how much time and energy kids take up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:49 PM
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But it also doesn't account for serial divorcers...or People who got married divorced then had a successful 2nd marriage....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:42 PM
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I am older and can seperate Online vs Real Life. I can scroll for a bit, get entertained and see it for what it is, a car crash. It's the same thing as knowing reality shows are not Reality and the WWE is scripted. Social Media is great for hobby groups. I am apart of a few different hobby groups and can get great advice on the hobby and stuff you can't get elsewhere anymore. Messageboards sadly are a thing of the past mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:33 PM
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It might be "real" for those people, but it also leans in and promotes those people. Normie dudes and Gals who just go about their day and don't engage and this shit, don't get clicks and don't feed the rage machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:12 PM
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It also blank slates women. As if individual women also don't have their own sets of behaviors and hang ups and likes and dislikes etc. Charlie Manson had some women fans, (He also had a lot of men fans but everyone ignores that here). So what? The logical leap of Charlie Manson had a few women fans to "WOMEN LOVE SERIAL KILLERS" is like grand canyon sized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:58 PM
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is English your first language or are you just being extremely pedantic about the word normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:02 PM
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sigh. please reread what you wrote. what does the concept of friendship have to do with supposed elite matrix control?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:58 PM
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What does this have to do with Friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:23 PM
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Oh no. NPC's....You mean normal people with social lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:58 PM
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I'm a dude. I like first dates. They are not hard to plan. "hey lets meet at ABC Bar at 7pm" Anything more is overkill. I'm not going to a 200 dollar plate steak dinner joint with a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:17 PM
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Its hard to know what "women" want. it's easier to know what a particular women wants. Maybe get to know them, date, socialize etc. You know. Normal things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:02 PM
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An average man can have casual sex. But you are having it with average women in niche groups. Assortative mating. You see a lot of casual sex in like the restaurant industry for example, and it's filled with "average" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:49 PM
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this sub is dominated by people who think they are normal but ain't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:44 PM
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What world do you live in where the vast majority of guys cant get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:26 PM
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you don't get work tokens to put into the wife machine. you make your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:56 AM
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there is no general consensus...so you shot your shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:37 PM
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Yeah these ultimately are just a list of made up strawmen that bonk around in the OP's head. Ive dated girls who wanted to make out and more on the 1st or 2nd date and others who wanted to wait a month or more before sex. I didn't change, I just dated different people who had different ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:13 PM
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the number of non western voices on this sub really distorts the conversation. people should have to display home country flag next to thier username.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:02 PM
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The Red Pill answer should be "Bro, what the hell you talking about, you sound like a pussy."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:19 PM
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shit a sales funnel at like 5 percent conversion would be considered great !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:00 PM
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Its an unrealistic framing. Most "cold Approaches" will fail, most first dates will not lead to anything big, most relationships will end. I hate to be all numbery, but I had a lot of first dates, most went nowhere, I had 3 "major" relationships, 2 of them "failed". A number of "flings" or "talking" situations, which again most went nowhere. Happily married for 8 years, been with her for 14 years and have 2 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:16 PM
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Lets hold up here first. 20% success rate is INCREDIBLE. I think what I have seen is a really skewed version of what "success" is. "at best" is really underselling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:05 PM
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Ok so a couple of things about the classification of criminal The issue with numbers like this is it's hard to parse crimes. Murder and slinging a bag of dope or getting arrested at an illegal card game are two very different levels. Yet we are using the same language. So what are we picturing when it comes to criminal, we are pictureing a shitty person, scumbag, multiple arrests, a bad person in general, violent etc... not some teen who got pinched once for gambling or smoking pot. So When I sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:28 PM
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This sub doesn't do well with non binary thinking. Sure are there some non criminal perfectly sweet girl next door middle class women who date criminals? Yeah I bet it happens. But if we are going by percentages, it's pretty rare, Assortative mating rules the day. So the question then why do guys obsess over such a small percentage of women, when the vast majority will assortatively mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:35 PM
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It probably has happened. Much like someone had actually been hit by a meteorite. (look it up)....But I don't much worry about think about the dangers of being stuck by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:23 PM
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What you've just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:01 PM
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So no one important. No one important is telling you not to hit on women. And Your sis? You don't think that hasn't been going on since time immemorial? Who Cares? Did that guy care? Did that guy ever even hear her making fun of him? during the recap of the night with her friends? Who cares? And 100 bucks for some great times and life long friends and experiences? Sounds good to me. And down the drain? I don't consider spending time and having fun with people "down the drain". Its fun, it's the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:40 PM
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Who? Who is saying this? Who is telling you not to approach? Random Tik Tokers? Random Insta Accounts? The Lord of all Women? A Beer at a decent bar is like 6 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:34 PM
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Bars, Clubs, Social Events, Bowling Alleys, Concerts, Sporting Events, Intergender Sporting Leagues, Friends of Friends, Friends of Co-workers...etc...Anywhere there are people? A lot of time is not the location, but how you are doing it and who you are doing it too. Besides that, these places are good to socialize and meet people in general, which leads to meeting more people to leads to meeting more people, which might leads to date/hangout/whatever. It's like a snowball rolling down a hill. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:39 PM
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This kills me when people cry about the "death of the 3rd space"...These places still exist. Bowling alleys are making a small comeback, just had a nice modern one with a bar and flatbreads open up near me. The issue here is that people want to just randomly plop themselves down at a random place and instantly have it become your "Cheers" and you get to take home a hottie on the first try. It takes time. I had a few bars in my younger days that where my "3rd" place. I went there regularly, slowl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:42 PM
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The 3rd place wasn't meant to just be a place you hit on someone, it was meant for general socialization besides Work and Home...A lot of modern bowling alleys have bars and pool halls attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:34 PM
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BUT WE BUILT THE ROADS
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:34 PM
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then men "noping" out of society where never going to contribute in any way. NEETS with illusions of grandeur and unwarranted importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:16 PM
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A lot of those men, especially the social media types....are grifters who pay those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:39 PM
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Dude here, I always viewed approaching has having the power. I get to choose who I grace with my presence hahah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:03 PM
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Then it wouldn't be red pill as we know it today. All that other stuff is just advice that is good advice, but had been repackaged 100 times. People need to do the work, thats the issue. A lot of people dont want to do the work, so they just keep falling for new repackaged ideas and then they dont do the work, and fall for another set of repackaged ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:00 PM
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Well because its a incel revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:11 PM
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Define Settled? Cause this is mostly some sort of weird revenge fantasy....that 35 year old virgin millionaire gets to reject Sorority susie who wouldn't date him in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:14 PM
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A Note on Disney. Did you check out the male love interest? Always good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:08 PM
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It's all all grift to sell lost men bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/25 11:11 AM
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Yup. I used to take all my dates to the same divey type bar. If they didn't like it, they weren't for me. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:18 PM
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Hot Take? Correct Take! Every Generation has complained about Dating. Just now everyone got a soapbox, if people did research, they would be able to find old news articles, personals, ads for "love potions" and Charles Atlas get Buff to attract women mail away body building programs and all sort other grifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:34 PM
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And you know "assholes" really means here....Dude who talks to women without fainting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:13 PM
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We have a Higher Standard of living. No one talks about that. We have normalized things like food delivery, plane vacations every year, everyone gets their own room in a house., paying for club sports...ETC....Our standards have risen.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/25 08:05 PM
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Married. 2 kids. Everything goes into a joint account and we pay our bills, buy food, kid expenses, go out to dinner etc... from there. We take a few bucks out of our work checks for our own personal accounts. Funny money for stuff like Hobbies and Draftkings. I proposed this, since I have a bunch of hobbies and it wouldn't feel right to buy the latest Model Kit with money in our family pot or throw 20 bucks on a Parlay on Draft Kings
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:45 PM
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I would say the mindframe of doing such things needs to be adjusted as opposed to just stop doing them. I believe if your doing XYZ JUST to get chicks, then your sort of missing the point. I go to the Gym because it makes me feel good and makes me look good, and when I look and feel good, it makes me a better human. The residual effect of that may be being more attractive to chicks. When I was younger I went out to the Bars with my friends because it was fun, I liked doing it, it made me feel go…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:29 PM
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Sure "Stop" is one Solution. Maybe changing your mindset also works. Your basketball example is great, because there are alternatives. You can play rec league basketball, you can play in the park etc, maybe you collect basketball cards, maybe you coach basketball....you don't have to give up basketball just because your not a pro! If someone wants to Stop, that is fine, their choice, but if they want to Stop just because they can't be Brad Pit, it seems silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:02 PM
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I agree with your example. But I disagree with the idea that "most men" don't have this mental resilience or at the very least, just don't think about in terms of a defeatist attitude. I think most men push past this. Just not a some men on this sub reddit. Most men will not look like Brad Pit, be rich like Jeff Bezos etc...but they can carve out a nice life for themselves. I don't think most men compare themselves to Brad Pit or Bezos because they live in a totally different world. I think the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:44 PM
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Socially anxious people probably don't make good criminals. Dudes can't leave their house, they gonna stick up a bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:15 PM
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Yeah I had a few bars were I was a familiar face. It does make meeting people so much easier. The staff know you, you feel more comfortable because you are "your" place and know your surroundings. You understand the vibe of the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:26 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:24 PM
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Horseshit. The "settling" is entirely a man made delusion by black pillers who cant possibly comprehend that the average guy gets relationships and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:42 PM
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This whole thing is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:19 PM
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Weird seeing a women being ransomed or sold into slavery and be like "you know what, I don't get enough empathy from women"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:42 PM
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they got the tik tok brain worms. My rule of thumb on social media is to assume 99% of it is just bullshit designed to get me to click a link or buy a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:28 PM
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do you have kids ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:26 PM
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100 percent you can. If you go out to a Bar every weekend, your chances or "luck" in meeting a chick are far greater then someone who stays in every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:34 AM
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it means assortative mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:35 PM
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Most ppd men cant even say Hi to the waitress at hooters. No way they chasing or even meeting party girls lol. they don't exist in the same world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:37 PM
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Assortative Mating. Yes....its pretty tried and true. People of like social classes, looks, locations and values tend to pair up
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 04:35 PM
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I'd tell that person to take a walk around a Walmart. Look at all the couples walking around Walmart. No judgement here. I shop around Walmart too....
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 04:33 PM
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Ask yourself...do only men in "high status" jobs get laid?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 04:07 PM
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do you have any sort of social condition?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:31 AM
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The way you presented your topic makes YOU seem like you don't want an honest debate. You provide no evidence of these stats, just allude to "them" You provide no evidence of your main thesis in your title. You never define your terms You provide no definition of "delusional" or what you consider "delusional"...This gives us no ground in which to consider if what you consider delusional is actually so You strawman statements You seem to want to speak for "most men"....with no proof or authority.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:46 PM
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No. The blue pill (again if their even one) might say you can get A girl, not any girl, or THE girl your want at that particular moment. Assortative mating rules the roost.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:02 PM
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95%. We need more media literacy on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:21 PM
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Define "right"....What you think is "right"? Or what she thinks is "right"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:45 PM
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Decent good and kind Women prefer Decent good and kind man. Its assortative mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:44 PM
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It gets muddy and people (here especially) have a hard time with nuance. Can a scuzzy criminal get romantic success? Sure....But you need to look at who they are having that romantic success with. Assortative mating. By and Large, scuzzy criminals are not dating the everyday Sorority girl. They are dating someone in the same realm of them. There is a lot of conflating going on in terms of "women"....Sure a scuzz might have a GF, but would YOU want to touch that GF with a ten foot pole? By being …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:52 PM
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The only ethical abortion is the one I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:00 PM
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Yes, this is the way. I've seen way to many posts lately on PPD that try to frame this whole things as a war. Its not. There is no US vs THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:51 PM
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Who told you this? People on PPD? Randoms on Tik Tok? Go to a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:45 PM
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thats detrimental thinking and a real misread of human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:26 AM
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What are you trying to prove here? I don't get your point or debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:46 PM
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Interesting about the "strategy" part. It worked for you, but do you think framing it as a "strategy" is useful for all? My gut tells me too many view TRP as a video game "strategy guide" and get mad or frustrated when the "cheat code" doesn't work for all women....or specifically the girl they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:04 PM
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pick up artist were never Mainstream. it was a wierd niche that most people laughed at....mystery got a show so we could laugh at him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:23 AM
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That is a ridiculous statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:53 PM
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Define "nice"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:29 PM
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Thats not a bluepill thought. The idea women dont care about looks is not bluepill...if blue is even a pill. Its a toxic thought some guys have and use as a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:28 PM
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the word was normal, not average. normal as in socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:13 PM
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don't try to reason with an insane person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:51 AM
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you literally have a post in other subs talking about you GF....so you trolling ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:22 PM
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Most people use the internet. But when people talk about online discourse its niche. Tik Tok videos, Manosphere, this sub for instance. Yes everyone is mostly "online"....but everyone isnt on PPD playing Gender World Wars. Assuming "everyone" cares about the stuff this sub talks about, is a huge fallacy this sub indulges in constantly. I sort of think of it this way. Constant Gender Wars, has dating ever been this bad type posts on this board....but when I got out to bars with my bros (not as mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:28 PM
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Common misconception https://www.forbes.com/sites/johnjennings/2023/08/29/debunking-the-myth-the-surprising-truth-about-lottery-winners-and-life-satisfaction/ https://www.ft.com/content/1002d145-3cf2-4bc8-8477-8ccf233af12d The Media just over reports the instances of financial ruin of lottery winners...and the bad made up stats are promoted by financial management companies and advisors
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:46 AM
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You made up a bunch of unfounded scenarios and got mad at them. Cool. Also what "rules"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:01 PM
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I never thought Blue Pill was against this? I mean we all know our leagues. Dating out of your league, out kicking the coverage, in dating is a trope as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:37 PM
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I know the study you speak of and its poorly done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:42 PM
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Yes roughly it has. I have 4 close friends from (2) home and (2) college and luckily my home friends and college friends get along great so we become one big group. These are my core friend group. I def have some tangential friends who I see at group events, like friend of a friends wife who are cool, but not like the core group.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:35 PM
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Things you are not considering: Women tend to hold the social calendar. It's not that I'm asking for permission I'm asking if I am available or have a previous commitment like a dinner with the inlaws or something You do have to spend time with your SO to maintain that relationship. There is only so much time to go around. Being in a relationship isn't just a weekday nights thing or convenient for you thing. And we only have so much social battery. Couples with kids. Kids take work. Its not fair…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:59 PM
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What Disney Movies are your referring too?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:31 PM
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PPD is a very very poor reflection of what goes out IRL. Its filled with the extremes and some normies who stumbled in by accident. Bars, Partys, Meetups, Social Events, school, work. In some settings you just cant expect a pick up line to work. You meet people and talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:32 PM
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Balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:52 PM
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Yeah... pretty much. the most frequent topics on this board show this and its why having good debate here is pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:06 PM
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No. Maybe a minority on Tik tok or whatever, but as long as your not an asshole and know when to backoff, approaching a women in an appropriate social setting is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:03 PM
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So what is more important to you? Your hobbies or meeting people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:01 PM
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Most women. Like the vast majority,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:58 PM
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Blue Pillers don't have a Women are Wonderful mentality. That is a total falsehood and strawman TRPers put up. Its a total projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:36 PM
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Yeah, during my time as a single man, I think I was rejected harshly once? And it really wasnt a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:17 PM
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What if this guy is delusional? And how are we defining "decent" and "normal" We really let this narrative on this sub get controlled by....well people who are not "normal"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:40 AM
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I think an issue here is "decency" is poorly defined. Is this just another "nice guy" post? The OP talked about using personality...but isn't being decent tied to personality in some way? And also how is someone going to know if your decent or not? Unless you show it through actions and personality? Which involve social interaction. People really confuse being "decent" with acts of pedestalization. Or they confuse being meek and shy with being "decent" A real issue is that people will freely cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:28 PM
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Right. What does Decency even mean here? Are dudes sitting at home trying to be "decent" while hoping a women finds him? Assortative mating is a good general rule. People with similar values find each other and choose to be with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:19 PM
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But which ones to listen to? I mean billions of women, billions of opinions, which one is right? Women A says she doesnt mind being hit on at a bar, Women B says she does not want to be hit on at a bar Who do you listen to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:02 PM
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How do you combine the opinions of Billions of Women? You don't. Why are you listening to all women? So some rando internet women say she doesn't like cold approaching? So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:39 PM
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There is a non zero chance of getting hit by an wayward meteor the size of a dog, killing you and only you. Don't leave your house! Lets be realistic here. HR and Title 9 are boogeyman story's, neurotic men tell themselves at night
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:37 PM
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lol. dude....they were rocked by a pedo scandal and need to rebrand...you blame DEI for their fuck ups and mismanagement?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:46 AM
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Assortative Mating is Valid! it's actually a pretty decently tested dating theory. If people actually looked into Assortative Mating, most of the debate here would slink away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:25 PM
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Or they are mentally unstable to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:02 PM
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Cool! See you in 2 days when you post another inane topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:55 PM
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Thats like 75% of PPD posts! This sub would Collapse without all the various treatise and navel gazing of Dudes who cant get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:59 PM
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Can you prove....anything you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:34 PM
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Thats what we have breweries for!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:32 PM
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It totally ignores the Slow Life Strategy. We live longer. No need to speed rush through life cause some fingernail infection can take us out. We can safely have kids later as well, we have more things to learn and educate ourselves. I think that is the reason more then anything. No need to marry the first person you meet. Which bares out in the stats. Like the lowest divorce rates are among college educated people who marry in their late 20's early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:13 PM
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lol these dudes need a lesson is media literacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:08 PM
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"way" below.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:30 PM
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Trying to glean anything about American Dating Culture from PPD posts is a fools game. Most on PPD know the least about dating culture. They are terminally online and addicted to shitty social media. The OP post is vague, gives no data or numbers or even a semblance of proof about their assertion. Even the use of "many" in the title of the thread is an example of what is called "weasel words" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weasel_word In my personal experience in the US, I have experienced people…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:43 PM
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Who you trying to convince?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:36 PM
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So no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:29 PM
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Generally in Europe people actually care about the people they're dating and only focus on one person at a time Do you have any evidence of this, or is this a nice "LOL USA SUCKS" moment for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:48 PM
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It’s for these reasons that there will be an increasing single epidemic amongst older women. Essentially it’s an intersection where men have maximally checked out and women have maximally lost value. A raw deal feels viscerally worse than being alone. Yeah its just a revenge fantasy for these losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:12 PM
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And People complain when they are told to "touch grass"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:32 PM
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dudes got no media literacy. Who is this rando? Why should you care? ...She's no one and you shouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:04 AM
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slept with 1000s of women Well...paid to sleep with 1000s of women...if you even believe him in terms of numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:41 PM
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I'm going to give you tons of credit for actually admitting you were wrong since it's rare on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:54 PM
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these people mask thier depression as "profound" thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:39 PM
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they are not. Peeps need to touch grass. I would argue their is no such thing as "gender relations"....whose the ambassador?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:37 PM
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Madame Web That was Sony. Not disney.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:59 PM
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It is revolutionary on this board. You may as well ask some of the dudes here to run a iron man marathon the way they act when they are told you should be social.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:57 PM
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They are....and most people date and hookup with people who are within their leagues. Assortative Mating and All that. Most everything else is just background noise or man bites dog stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:55 PM
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If you go to blackjack table Blackjack actually makes a lot of sense if you go by a per hand basis, each hand being a attempt to hit on a chick. You can make the right call like hitting on a 12 vs a 10 and still bust. You can make the wrong call like hitting on a 17 vs a 6 and still win. You can get a 20 and lose to a 21. You can double up, split or surrender And sometimes you simply get dealt an Ace and a King and don't have to do anything, you just showed up. Basically you will never win every…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:52 PM
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I can see how this post might appear to lack nuance, but it's not like its bad advice. I see a lot of irrational fear and fear mongering on this board. People coming up with crazy theories and actions to avoid being "hurt" or experience "rejection"....which is a natural human occurrence and simply part of life. Sorry dude, you will be broken up with, some chick will reject you at a bar. It happens. They see some high profile messy celebrity divorce case and think it applies to them. Sorry dude, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:44 PM
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I'm not talking to the girl at the bar because she doesn't want me to approach, she wants the more attractive guy to approach You literally are proving the OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:34 PM
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So now is not normal and not sociable to make friends with your classmates or coworkers and hang out after school/work or on weekends? No one said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:46 AM
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Do you go to Bars or Party's? I'm just trying to understand. First you state that Women have declared that they do not like being it on, but then talk about personal experiences from when you were a teen and that this was just information you inferred. Not to sound harsh, but maybe the manner you tried to hit on girls was just not the right manner or in the right situations? I've seen and participated in hitting on girls in appropriate situations. Some successful, some not. Sometimes it will wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:27 PM
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Where have that said this? You listen to Tik Tok Chicks? Time Place and Manner....as with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:38 AM
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drinking Do they go to a bar, brewery? Active hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:51 PM
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Yes, but I think the issue here is people are not seeing the gray in this. Person A goes out every weekend with the sole intent of getting a women Person B goes out ever weekend with his friends to have fun and be social. If an opportunity arises he will take it, but is not going out to solely hit on women. I put my money on Person B being more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:49 PM
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Yeah...I would like to see the study the OP is referring too. Thank you for actually posting stats and figures instead of like "declaring" something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 12:47 PM
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There is no excuse see a situation in which an immoral human gets better results than a moral human and find it acceptable. "better" by whose standards? Like if some shitbag is going out with some other shitbag...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:14 PM
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Which is astounding...cause "introverted passive dude" is usually never putting themselves into positions to even be noticed or interacting with women. Do they expect these women show up on their doorstep? Are they hanging with their bros at the bar? Going out to Breweries? Talking to women? Nah. How is a women supposed to know how "good" you are if you are not socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:11 PM
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Yes your anecdotally story definitely disproves everything. Is the GF a shitbag too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:49 PM
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When ever I see a post that starts with "we all can agree" ...I know i am in for a ride of BS
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:08 PM
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Stop telling men to grind their lives away for pussy Yes. They sell men rip off drop shipping on real estate courses.... These dudes would be WAAAAY better off just holding normal job, getting out there socially and assortative mating, then just trying to "grind" more money. Cause you know what happens....they don't "grind" they just post "grinding" memes on Insta and drop money to be apart of some stupid discord.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:07 PM
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holy shit yes. the number of times people scream, "hey go to the gym and socialize at night and enlarge your social group" and the dregs here say....no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:30 PM
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that's ex convict Dominick mysterio
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:27 PM
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college greek...frats abd sororities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:23 PM
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haha I agree with you as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 02:32 PM
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Almost 40 myself. I get the fear, people fear all types of things....BUT....get over it. Don't blame hypothetical women for hypothetical problems for something that rarely happens and wont kill you. What I see on this board is people not confronting their own Anxiety and instead blaming women for whatever is they want to at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:38 PM
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In all my dating days and dating and going to bars etc, it happened to me once, where basically I started talking to a girl and she said "Stop I know what you are doing" in a shitty tone....Everyone in my friend group agreed she was terrible. I was like ok and walked away. Other then that, if I was "rejected" it was gracious or kind and polite. Or they accepted and we had a nice chat and it went somewhere or not. So like from my ages of 21-26 before I got with my future wife. 5 years of dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:20 PM
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Assortative mating in hookups too. When you go to a bar to meet people, your probably going to a bar that is in the same status as you. Poor people aint hanging out at the Bar at the Capital Grill and Rich people aint going to Applebees.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:08 PM
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Meh, a a good amount of doctors smoke and are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:06 PM
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This sub's narrative is directed by the terminally online. Its not good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:04 PM
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Women are attracted hypergamously to men. Men care about other shit. but itsnt that a rose by any other name? If a overweight guy wants to get with a insta model, is that not a version of hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:30 PM
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no its not. cmon live in reality. Women have many things they need to do to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:02 PM
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imagine the first part being groundbreaking to these dudes? where were they all this time ? living under a rock? "I'm 40 pounds overweight, drone on endlessly about vidya games and never leave my room, that's the true me! why don't women like me?!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:36 PM
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Well then they may be "IQ" test smart, but not socially smart. Too different things. And "jerks" just means it seems "guys who do things I can't" here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:08 PM
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intelligent guy They "intelligent" guy never leaves his house or computer. Why not focus on the 65% of MIT undergrads who have had sex. But anyways you think these people run in the same circles? Assortative mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:06 PM
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are dudes on PPD right now consuming Disney media for kids ? Frozen? Guy is tough, adventurous and good looking Aladdin remake? Guy is good looking and charismatic and has a Genie Little Mermaid remake? Guy is a good looking prince
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:41 PM
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Yeah I never get good answers. Or they will bring up like "oh revenge of the nerds!"...the one movie out of like hundreds of 80s teen comedies. All the major 80s teen comedies, Breakfast club, pretty in pink, 16 candles etc....the dudes are good looking. Heck in Pretty in pink, Duckie does NOT get the girl. She goes with the handsome rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:16 PM
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On the flip side men are using the same media as to why they believed they would get a girl I just don't buy this. In Disney "fairytale" media, the dude was always either Rich, or Good looking, or both. Also, Hunchback of Notre Dame, hunchback did NOT get the Girl. Maybe, Maybe you could point out Beauty in the Beast, but the beast was rich, had his own castle and was in fact a good looking dude. But otherwise...All good looking, dashing rich dudes. What lessons did they learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:37 PM
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Social Context, interactions and Advice is not Black and White. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:37 PM
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Among many socially stunted men, they tend to treat women as "special" . Like their is a cheat code to unlocking them. That mindset leads to a lot of anxiety and expectations. By treating them like a "human" it means getting out of that mindset. Treat a women or talk to a women like they put their pants on one leg at a time. There is also a terminally online fueled fear of talking to women that some men here have. Break through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:38 PM
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WHat you want us to do is to shut the fuck up. That only happens when you give up. When an incel gives up. You would prefer that incels give up rather than do anything to try and make things easier for them. Thus reinforcing the fact that they are worthess I think you have it wrong here. No one cares. No one is going to make things "easier for you" just cause, but no one cares if you give up or not. There is no overarching figure who is laughing at you or cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:34 PM
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Yeah that study is GARBAGE. Especially in the lab setting. If you are at a Bar vs at a Supermarket the same conversation could have different connotations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:55 PM
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o we’re socially inept because we experience sadness after rejections ? its the scale of the sadness. Everyone gets a bit of sting when they get rejected. Its what you do after.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:53 PM
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yeah but you just made up your in scenario with no reasoning....so it's like you are arguing Made up story vs made up reasoning...your whole post is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:29 PM
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Also there is a nice catch 22 going on here. Women too forward? WHORE. Women to demure. CAT LADY TEASE.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:49 PM
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I'm sure he's a blast at partys! social butterfly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:04 PM
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that's a lot of it. socially stunted.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 12:37 AM
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Exactly. PPD people need to get out of monolithic thinking. It's not "guys" or "girls" want this, it's a particular type. Assortative mating and all that. Do people think the subsection of people who actively go after criminals and those in jail are like "normal"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:16 PM
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Yeah I'm not taking anything like that seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:22 PM
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Do you have an data on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:16 PM
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Assortative mating. What is the virginity rates of women who go to MIT?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:29 PM
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he was always coming over for dinner and chumming with his employees ! very forgiving of darrins constant blunders and totally was cool and supportive when Darrin had a horrific work accident that radically changed his appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:29 PM
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character with attractiveness TRP conflates these two all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:53 PM
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That's not new advice. That's age old advice. No one has a monopoly on that advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:58 PM
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This is why the red pill looks so hard at statistics and data. If they did they would actually see Assortative Mating rules the day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:24 PM
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Lol at any single event proving or disproving a whole belief system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:56 PM
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You know the average amount of partners women have is like 4-6. Mostly in monogamous relationships. That's not a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:47 PM
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Well you sort of just created a bunch of strawmen arguments, but anyways Let's take the Divorce thing as an example. Its an incredibly nuanced issue. That comes down to things like demographics, how studies are done, what words mean, who fills out the paperwork etc. So you get a bunch of Morons who go LOOK WOMEN HATE MEN THEY DIVORCE MORE HYPERGAMY etc, but really it never goes beyond that. Initiate to me is a shit word, because it really goes to "who started the paperwork". It's an administrati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:55 PM
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Red Pill points to a pattern, Blue Pill points to a small exception to the pattern I really disagree with this assessment. Guys who claim TRP on PPD will point to things like Gold Diggers for instance, when what we see in reality is Assortative Mating. The pattern is Assortative Mating, the exception is Gold Diggers. TRP talk about Chicks fucking 100s of dudes on the cock carousel when we know that's that exception and the real pattern is like 4-6 partners in more monogamous relationships. Assor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:31 PM
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Chicks usually just want a dude taller then they are. You think a chick and eyeball 5'10 vs 6'? Nahh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:28 PM
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Yes, agree, cause that 7 women is going to get with a 6-8 man with good social skills. I disagree with social skills being less important then looks, i think depending on the women, they will be neck and neck, 1A and 1B. I view status as sort of a given, where people with similar economic and social status are going to be matched up anyways. I think the issue here is that, we got like 4's with ZERO social skills wondering why they are not getting their looks match, or a women in general....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:03 PM
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Assortative mating and all that. Social Skills increase one's ratings. Will it make a 5 a 10? nah prob not. But it will help a 5 get a bunch of other 5's and maybe a 6 or 7 here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:25 PM
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because we touch grass. Go look at Walmart and Target couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:46 PM
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ultimately assortative mating rules. Stop saying those words! It will kill pretty much all debate in this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:41 PM
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this isn’t a RP thing Well it's become a RP thing. Sorry it just has. This sect has basically dominated RP discourse for the last couple of years. It just to be about going to the gym and lots of fish in the sea and flirting. Now it's trad RETVRN Bullshit. This happens to most online "self help" groups
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:16 PM
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This is a great question. Most of these issues are on the individual. Water finds its level, Assortative mating etc.... For the most part, if your "ranked at the bottom"....well that is where you just might belong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:12 PM
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Water finds it level. Assortative mating. I dont know why this is so hard to grasp. The scuzzy street dealer is going to attract the women equivalent. You think the marketing chick who went to college and was in a sorority is messing with the drug dealer? no she's with frat finance guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:37 PM
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I'm going to take this comment at face value (Yes, simple solution, harder implementation. Often times the most obvious solution is often times the correct one) So, my theory, is that turning inward are correcting neuroses, it really tough. It's hard to admit for some people that 1. They are wrong or at fault 2. They need to fix themselves 3. This work may be at times be uncomfortable 4. Getting over the notion of "fairness" It's way easier to navel gaze, ruminate on this pill or that pill or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:46 PM
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If the dudes here just turned their attention to their neuroses instead of spending untold amounts of time writing treatise on why women are terrible and blah blah blah and this is not fair and that is not fair, like 95% of these "debate" posts would vanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:31 PM
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The thing is though. If your woman is with you for what you can provide, but not how you look or who you are. Then they are with your money. Not with you. And that is not a fun life I get what your saying...but also aren't the two linked? And that goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:24 PM
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I have never seen any of this advice. These are strawmen you have created. The most constant advice I see here is "touch grass" and many dudes here refuse to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:45 PM
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do you think it's totally fine for a girl to keep going on over 20 dates with a guy for 6 months... refuse to let him flirt, hold her hand or have any kind of physical contact during this timeframe. I don't believe a women should be "forced" to do anything....but that does seem weird. I also would think the guy is nuts for sticking around for 6 months without even kissing her. Like if your not kissing her 3 dates in, GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:21 PM
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Yes, I was never a fan of TRP as a concept and thought it was just collection of well worn advice. I always thought the idea of this being a "red pill" really did not help dudes get over their "anger phase" and sort of let guys off the hook. Also the original idea of TRP was supposed to help the average dude elevate or understand, it was not some savior ideology for the completely hopeless, which those people have dominated the discussion on this sub and most conversations around this stuff. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:16 PM
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Weather you agree with TRP or not, I think we can see that there are WAY too many navel gazers who pontificate about women who then recoil in horror when told they should actually maybe....go to a bar or party to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:07 PM
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but women decided that every little why do you care what random women online like or not like? Why not focus on the IRL women in front of you, in the moment, at a bar, at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:14 PM
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but they never describe the average woman For a lot these brainwormed dudes, "average" is only having 100k likes on insta instead of 1 million. They live online and are only exposed to online projections of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:09 PM
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OKcupid research The term research here is very loose haha. I did online dating form like 2009-2011. People Think OKcupid was just like Tinder. It was not. It was not at all and the people who did online dating back is a very different DEMO then those who do it now. Back in the day it went Match, e-harmony, then OKcupid, then Plenty of fish, you had to subscribe, some cost money etc. Way different landscape and unless you lived through it, you didnt know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:57 PM
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No. There have been studies that the guy is more Likely to abandon ship when thier spouse gets really sick.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 12:58 PM
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hookup culture is super overblown and mostly a media creation to scare parents. There are some subsets of people that heavily engage in it, buts its not the norm. Stats bear this out in terms of average partners per lifetime of each gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:22 PM
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who hurt you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:43 PM
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lol mini celebrities. You got social media brain worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:53 PM
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Ten out of what ? People don't get scale or bias. Videos on Tik Tok are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:27 PM
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If one is married, it can be assumed that they have successfully dated someone, probably multiple people, have had sex, successfully interacted with the opposite sex etc. They have experience. Relationships and human interaction are things that need to be experienced to have perspective on. This is much preferable to a bunch of people who have never went to a bar, have zero friends or successfully dated a person naval gazing about the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:42 PM
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Exactly, why can’t other men get involved and help these incels then since they’re so concerned about them?? It’s because other men don’t give a fuck about them either, yet for some reason, they’re expecting women to give a fuck when they themselves don’t 🙃 I've tried. I've tried to give decent advice. I'm a decent looking guy who has had a couple of relationships, a couple of flings, a couple of hookups and now happily married with kids. I'm not some sort of hard rocking chad, but I think I did…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:31 PM
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It's not real. It's social Media Rage Bait, cut up spliced up videos, interviewing a specific type of women in specific context Go around and walk in a Walmart or Target? All those dudes 666?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:10 PM
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Yup, every time I say dudes need to go out and socialize, maybe hit up a bar with their bros on any sort of consistent basis, it's like I'm asking them move heaven and earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:08 PM
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Assortative mating. And it solves like 90% of every PPD debate topic. It's well worn and researched. People harp on "ideal" but ignore the reality. My "Ideal" women is peak Lana del Ray. My wife who I love very much and very much attracted to is not Lana del Ray.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:05 PM
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I would say married people are EXACTLY who should in purple pill debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:35 PM
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Is the internet Real life? Are you engaging in social media designed to incite clicks and rage?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 12:16 AM
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Nothing is a 1 for 1. We are talking about general leagues here. If some Nurse making 65k marries some plumber making 67k (same physically attractive level) is that really what is meant by "dating up" as used in these boards? Lets take the example of Height. Most men are taller then most women. Just Facts. In the US average man is 5'9 and average women is 5'3. Just by that alone, most women are going to be marrying dudes taller then them. Social Class, looks Level etc. There is wiggle room in ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:32 PM
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It's important in attracting the type of partner you may want. I think this is based off the stubborn idea that some dudes have that women are some sort of monolith or are blank slates. I could be a total dick bag piece of shit loser and still have a partner, just the strong likelihood is that my GF is also going to be a dick bag piece of shit loser. Assortative Mating and such. Another issue is that a lot of these dudes expect someone to "know" they are moral, without actually....you know going…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:26 PM
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Was she the average women? Assortative Mating. Most people get with people at their own level. Fringe cases....are just that. Fringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:52 PM
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How do you explain all the other dudes who have had the same socialization and are successful? We all grew up with the same media. Disney been around for ages. Snow White and Cinderella been around since the 50s. The moral Hero getting the girl is a super common trope and also been around for ages. Most of us figure out that Santa Claus aint real and the world, individuals, people and relationships are complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:50 PM
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It's deranged thinking. These dudes have deranged thinking, and that's the reason they are unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:33 PM
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the men most likely to "demand" these tests are less likely to even be in a position to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:39 PM
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BluePill is a Satire Sub. It's not some ideology. There is mainstream advice and whatever flavor of the month that dominates TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:45 PM
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Women shifting down men's looks? Where are you finding this? You know, you just can't make up numbers. Great job responding to my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:58 PM
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Meh. ​ Stoicism comes from this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stoicism .....It's not some Gender related Dating thing. Now if you mean, Men shouldn't trauma dump on the first date. Then Yeah duh. There is a distinct difference between being open and honest with your long term GF and trauma dumping on them a week into the relationship. It seems PPD men cannot figure out the difference. That is Friend making 101. You don't tell someone you just meet your deep dark secrets. You build up to that. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:20 PM
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Wrong. It's vibe and attitude. Much like someone can be a neckbeard without literally having a neck beard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:58 AM
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Wrong. They want validation for thier bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:56 AM
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dude what you said has nothing to do with TRP. TRP is supposed to be a dating strategy not some wierd MRA incel shit. This is the cancer that killed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:42 AM
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I don't think they do have a problem. Maybe your strawman of a "Blue Piller" does...but again there really is not a blue pill, its just mainstream advice. The Blue Pill terms is just used to denote everything one doesn't like. ​ Yes, we all respond to stimuli and the factors around us and behave and act accordingly. I want money, so I work. I act at work a certain way to get more money and keep my job. That is just life. That is not some red pill idea. The messenger matters. It just does. Again,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:06 PM
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The Definition of "TRP" has become so broad, like anything can fall under it. Its become almost meaningless. Some of the basic tenants it claims is just advice that have been around for ages, just repackaged. Its not original, Take care of yourself, be social, plenty of fish in the sea... that's all mainstream advice. The hook TRP has is that is lets men who have been blind to these common ideas off the hook. It lets them claim this was some sort of hidden knowledge, whereas most men just learn …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:20 PM
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no its rate per marriage. Its not raw numbers. Divorce rates per marriages are doing down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:23 AM
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Rate. its Rate per marriage, not just raw numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:10 PM
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you are wrong https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-us-divorce-rate-has-hit-a-50-year-low
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:37 PM
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you don't have to "like" strangers. Just don't let them live rent free in your head. Why do you care about random people you don't know?
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 12:39 AM
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ok. so your making his conclusion based on social media. That's the issue. All this shit is designed to induce engagement and rage, comments included. Trying to make any sort of general conclusion based on social media is a fools journey. This is basic social media literacy 101. Your also ignoring scale. You can find all kinds of people with all kinds of opinions. But ask yourself, is it a mainstream opinion? If you join a flat earthers Facebook group, it may seem everyone believes in a flat ear…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:16 PM
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Ignore women online who say it's always creepy to cold approach women in public. Yes, and I think this gets to a huge point when assessing reddit posts. Reddit attracts a certain demo. You see it in PPD as well. How many dudes on PPD shit on the idea of going out to a bar to have a few drinks? An outsized proportion compared to if you went up to random dudes at a target or home depot. I see it in a lot of subs. The sad minority outshout the normal majority, well simply because they are terminall…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:41 PM
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YES or Ive seen like people say they go into "monk mode" and just lift weights for 2 years and think women should just find them. No, you should be doing both. Staying in decent shape and also socializing. You don't need a 6 pack to be good with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:29 PM
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It shouldn't be your life. I think that's the point. Making your sole hobby just lifting weights with your head phones in and counting calories and macros so you become a dullard when you go out is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:27 PM
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play the role of a circus monkey having fun is not being a "circus monkey"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:11 PM
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Imagine a mindset were going to a bar to have a few drinks with your boys and maybe chat up a women or two is some sort of hideous death defying act.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:29 PM
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So that means " Bars are for alcoholics " ??? You can have a beer and not be an alcoholic right? And Yes I have, just have a coke in your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:12 PM
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bars are for alcoholics? What? that is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:01 PM
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You have a photo in your post history. You are not a bad looking person. You look like an average dude. Have you looked into things like Body Dysmorphia?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:22 PM
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Men complaining about women's standards have been going on since Moses wore short pants. https://www.artofmanliness.com/people/relationships/what-men-complained-about-women-50-and-100-years-ago/ Much like how EVERY older generation has complained about the younger, this is nothing new. https://www.upworthy.com/researcher-shares-men-are-too-feminine-and-women-too-masculine-claims-dating-back-to-the-1800s Nothing about this is new. Just another cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:39 PM
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So you avoid those women? You don't think those type of people have not existed forever? I mean that is not a new problem, you avoid those people. TikTok aint real life. Its designed for rage bait engagement. Take it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:38 PM
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You need to assess a few things: Am I fishing in the right pond, Am I using the right fishing reel? What are you doing? Do you have any friends who can give you advice/constructive criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:58 PM
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Millions of people, millions of variations, millions of methods, millions of pieces of advice. Do what works for you, in the right situations, locations and context. Avoid the obvious red flag shit, and you will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:16 PM
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What risk realistically? Rejection? Move on then. Costs? I drink or two?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:02 PM
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And some people still get hit by a car even though they looked both ways, people die in car crashes even if they have a seat belt on etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:15 PM
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What makes these women "good and innocent" Attractive. That's what they mean. Some dudes cant separate attractive from morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:14 PM
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meh, it went beyond that. Some creepster questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:05 PM
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Assortative mating. It's well researched and basically solves 90% of the posts on ppd. but what's the fun in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:44 PM
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nope. check thr nu.erpus other studies people have posted here. Surveys are wrought with problems to even begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:49 PM
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Even a Target!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:44 PM
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lol you post different topics on this sub everyday. How are you being censored?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:30 PM
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AF/BB is a revenge fantasy. Those "BBs" are never in the game to begin with. They think the hot sorority girl is going to come crawling to them, when the hot sorority girl is just going to marry the hot Frat Dude a few years after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:58 PM
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Have you ever walked around a Target or Walmart? Are these couples exceptional?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:48 PM
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This topic is done to death every week, yet somehow, someway, dudes and chicks are meeting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:42 PM
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Thats just not true. Assortative Mating is a well worn and proven concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:00 PM
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Please look into Assortative Mating. It is well worn theory, that shows for the vast majority of couples are within the same social class, make about the same money and are in the same looks ball parks, live in the same area...etc
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 08:06 PM
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You think this women has other friends and a whole new social group to get to know. Maybe it might be smart to know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:25 PM
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Why not both? I had a first date that I think went well, we had a 2nd but just nothing sexual happened. She ended up being a pretty good friend and got to met her friend group and she meet mine, they intermingled and we all got exposed to more people and more opportunity. Dudes be like DOOM AND GLOOM if nothing happens, like find the silver lining. Make more connections etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:24 PM
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Thats what you got from this post? Sometimes dates go well and nothing happens after, sometimes you have a bad first date and you ended up getting married. And a million variations inbetween Women are not a monolith. I went on a lot of True first and 2nd dates, most didn't lead to anything, 1 lead a long relationship and 1 lead to marriage. I mean, go look at the Couples at a Target, are all these guys rich and famous and male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:21 PM
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How old are you? I grew up with Hero's like Arnold and Stallone, Muscle men who always got the girl. Heck all the Disney Princes were good looking. All the Brat Pack in the 80s teen movies were good looking....All the Hollywood leading men forever were good looking.... All the guys on Tiger Beat and teen girl magazines were good looking....Boy Bands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:16 PM
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These just seem like punishments for the Child and ways for the man to shirk his responsibilities to the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:56 PM
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Why you browsing women subs? You are seeking rage bait.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 04:22 PM
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Its a loser revenge fantasy. The average amount of partners both genders have is like 5-7. Anyone sleeping with tons of people is an outlier. This moral panic and moral projecting is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:02 PM
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These dudes don't understand that. They don't understand. They want a cheat code for all women and have never actually made the connection in their brain that women can be different and want different things and find different things attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:20 PM
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You totally missed the point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:18 PM
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Since I could do it multiple times in a week I was soon dealing with bad reputation. Ever think about that? Would seem like your just switching off VERY QUICKLY till someone says yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:16 PM
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we should take zero lessons from the rich and famous. they live in a different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:20 PM
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YUP. Dudes pine for the 50s and most of them couldn't look a Dad in the eyes and shake his hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:38 PM
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Thats a paperwork statistic. Women do the paperwork. But who cares who files. The cause is what matters. If a Dude hits his wife, and she files, who caused the divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:13 PM
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That might be YOUR experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:04 PM
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do you have proof of this besides TV shows like Leave it to Beaver?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:49 AM
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I declare bankruptcy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:33 PM
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Assortative Mating. TRP rarely acknowledges this true and well vetted concept
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:26 PM
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that's a total misreading of that survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:25 PM
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There is no blue pill. Its just used as a constant strawman for people who think they stumbled on some sort of hidden knowledge that being good looking helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:57 PM
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Let me google that for you ​ https://www.google.com/search?q=are+men+happier+in+marriage&rlz=1C1GCEB_enUS1022US1022&oq=are+men+happier+in+marriage&aqs=chrome..69i57.4690j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:19 PM
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Its because a lot of those men have Autism or other severe social deficits. They don't get nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:58 PM
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This stinks of the Fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:27 PM
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Women get raped IRL, you seek out "Male Hate" Rage Bait online. What's fair again?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:45 AM
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But are you accounting for Gay vs Straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:59 PM
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" Just a few days ago I saw a post on Instagram that made me really think about this topic, the post was from one of the women I've had an intense fwb situations with in the past, where we basically did every kinky activity that you could think of, and her Instagram post was a picture of her wedding with this poor guy with a big smile on his face, and the first thing that came to my mind was "Jesus.. he put a ring on that!? only if he knew, I've nutted inside every hole in her body" I legit felt…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:54 PM
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One knew him for a while, through highschool same social groups circles.. He's a good guy, low key, not bad looking but by no means a model. To all the naysayers. He's 5'7 and bald, average job, decent salary. She wasn't bad looking herself, good head on shoulders, good middle class job. Like once you get to know him, He's great, do anything for ya, its just takes really really long to get to that point and understand his personality. The other one was a work friend, she was a bit younger. no id…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:03 PM
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One, it seems by choice (well choice in not handling his Social Anxiety) He has gotten laid by two different women, but the women really needed to make the first moves. Like take him by the hand. He has Social Anxiety and takes REALLY long to get comfortable around people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:55 PM
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Thats....just not true. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32886585/#:~:text=At%20higher%20SES%20levels%2C%20couples,likely%20to%20marry%20at%20all. https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article/60/1/147/342803/Wealth-and-Divorce https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-marriage-divide-how-and-why-working-class-families-are-more-fragile-today https://www.marylandlawhelp.com/how-divorce-rates-are-tied-to-income/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:49 PM
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Also the Slow Life Strategy. We literally live longer and healthier. No need to rush into marriage and kids at 22 anymore. We can do those at 32 now. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8594561/#:~:text=Those%20that%20invest%20more%20energy,et%20al.%2C%202009%3B%20Stearns People think it's about SMV because they want that revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:50 PM
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" If I can use a stock woman image from google images and get 100+ likes and 20+ intro messages without lifting a finger on my "lunch break" within 4 hours, what makes you stand out? The average man has no chance. Thus the push to be the most successful and attractive you can be for dating and career advancement. " What was the Quality of the messages? OLD is not indicative of the IRL dating scene as dudes can Spam messages and likes and not actually have to go up to them in a bar. Sending a mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:22 PM
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Imagine if it stayed that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:50 PM
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At least they honestly tried. But like...did they? or did they just swipe left? or did they try to level up like a video game not working on the way more important social skills? Did they temper expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:09 PM
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https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:08 PM
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Yeah here are some I've found interesting. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/koag0c/men_love_talking_about_the_okcupid_study_except/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ot4qzd/what_the_okcupid_data_really_says/ https://blog.photofeeler.com/okcupid-is-wrong-about-smiling-eye-contact-mens-dating-profile-photos/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/vbhxp1/q4w_how_do_you_feel_about_the_ok_cupid_study/ ​ A few things I think as well: Men try to apply Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:26 PM
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That OKCupid "study" had been blasted to shit numerous times. It shouldn't be used to cite anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:27 PM
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I appreciate the Reply, since this topic is brought up all the time "the media lied to me!". I am not really surprised though that their is a lack of examples on this thread since just saying "media" is a nice easy way to side step responsibly. However you seemed to change the definition of what the OP is getting at. Most of the time this is brought up by men and is "well I thought If I was just a good boy and looks don't matter and Disney did this to me!" etc etc Many examples you give have Goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:40 PM
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and that's the issue more so then anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:20 PM
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Virgins Do not Equal Incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:01 PM
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100 %. If you want to figure out how to do something or be something....shouldn't you ask/listen to the people who have already done it? And Yes, married and I enjoy debating this material and talking about this stuff Have for awhile, well before I was married.... It's a debate sub, despite some people thinking it's a pure advice sub or rant sub. Purple...Pill...Debate....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:00 PM
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actually the divorce rate has been falling for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:15 PM
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The quality of the women is irrelevant. Literally its not. You moralize men but not women. Its some weird sort of pedestalization. ​ But anyways, Your sense of scale is really off. A world (in)famous serial killer is going to be known more then an average men. That means you are going to attract a whole swath of crazies. Ted bundy got hundred of letters over his time in jail. Lets assume they were not just sent by a few crazies, but each letter was from a different women. 500 lets say. 500 crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:57 AM
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it's just validation. even if it's from some internet random....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:08 AM
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Interesting. I suppose you could also say Bold and maybe even confident. I don't think being attracted to or more like admire, Fearlessness, Boldness etc is uniquely a women trait. Men admire and worship Bold and Fearless Men. Look at the most famous Generals. Always Bold Men, even if they were just ok Generals in terms of Logistics, Command etc....Teddy Roosevelt basically made his fame and reputation on being fearless " The Vice-President at that time, Thomas Marshall, is quoted as saying "Dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:29 PM
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Yeah, I saw your comment, read between the lines and heard the dog whistle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:10 PM
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Water Tends to find it's level. You will find variations of course, but generally Water finds its level. Usually that chick going with that pill head dude who is in and out of rehab and jail? Yeah that chick is most likely at his level and shitty herself, no matter hwo "pretty" she is. So using hard hitting words like NEVER and ALWAYS...doesn't really work, but also Man Bites Dog. Focusing on the one offs and variations is not smart either, especially at scale. In my experience, junkie chicks ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:33 PM
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most likely. ​ https://datepsychology.com/theory-of-mind-hostile-attribution-bias-and-incels/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:15 PM
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no but you basically made a moral argument that men's hobbies are better then women's hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:19 PM
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Nah, Dating the the US is fine. This sub and Pills are niche promoted by the terminally online and unwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:17 PM
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Their son in a perfectly normal guy ..... ​ Well their is the issue. They misjudged their son. If he was perfectly normal, he would have some experience by his late 20's. Maybe not married, but he probably brought girl around enough for them not to worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:15 PM
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reddit is filled with terminally online unwell wierdos. I do not take any narratives on dating subs or subs like this seriously or as a reflection of anything in the real physical world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:51 PM
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Do people worry about what Randoms silently think about them? Projecting I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:27 PM
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Thats exactly what many dudes on here want. They want validation that it's "modern society" or whatever excuse, besides themselves. Check out Forever Alone. Holy shit what a pity party. Everyday I get more and more convinced a lot of Dudes don't want help. They want to complain. Little to no Personal Responsibility. Just walls of text justifying why they can't get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:27 PM
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The Biggest Trope I see on this board is Touch Grass and Socialize. Which has nothing to do with the two pieces of "advice" above In terms of Approaching. Time Place and Manner. And it's always been that way. Time Place and Manner. Life isn't a Video Game, you don't have to focus on one stat at a time. You can learn to love yourself while also dating. "worthy" who says "worthy"....Being happy with yourself can HELP you get into the right mindframe to get a relationship, but "worthy"? I have not …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:15 PM
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I think most people want unattractive men to just shut up and go away. You think people actively care about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:47 PM
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This "advice" you state are self created strawmans. Who says this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:49 PM
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Yeah it's a paperwork stat not a cause stat. But of course kindergarten brained Dudes tout it like it's some untouchable Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:49 PM
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average guy and go months, years even, without a single woman complimenting you, flirting with you, showing you any semblance of interest. Then they are not average. PPD is full of dudes who THINK they are average, but are really bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:39 PM
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at the end of the day, most people I think do end up with someone with similar levels of experience than them. And apply this to all facets of life....Looks, social class, jobs, money, location, ethnicity....Assortative Mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:16 PM
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Why not? If it's ok for women to disrespect men why can't men decide to disrespect women? Are these the same women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:13 PM
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I also think this assumes that women are all out here treating average men like shit. How true is this? Are most women actually going out of their way to be assholes to random men they don’t think are hot? No, this is all in their unwell heads. The vast majority of people just don't even think about other people not in their circle. Easier to imagine some weirdo vast conspiracy then actually do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:09 PM
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Meh, my point is that you focused their looks in terms of judgement...but not thier psyche or personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:49 PM
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I find it interesting you say "average"... but really mean physical looks, As opposed to the idea that the average women does not participate in social media rage bait videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:11 PM
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Howcome there isn't a movie about the sluttiest slut that ever slutted? There are tons. They are called Horror Movies. In Horror Movies the HUGE trope is that the slutty girls get killed (often while having sex even!) and the "Survivor" at the end is always the Nice Girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:30 PM
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1 - As you grow older, your attraction to the gender you are attracted to broadens. You'll find older people more attractive as you yourself age. This is actually a HUGE point that goes missed. Your attraction does broaden with age. As if it grows with you as you age. 20 year old dudes talking about chicks hitting walls at like 30 have no idea about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:07 PM
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38, Male, Married I find a lot of these discussions mind blowing. It really is driven by terminally online people, easily swayed by rage bait social media, who think they know everything but know nothing. A lot of blame for external factors instead of internal. I feel like most of these discussions are akin to someone who read 3 tik tok posts about New York, trying to argue with someone who lives in New York about how the city "really" is. I can't say this enough, Many people here need to TOUCH …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:03 PM
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Then we come here and all the terminally online folks have spent the better part of their lives crafting all sorts of doom narratives about those average folks and its like.... They are Mentally Unwell. This sub's narrative is driven by mentally unwell people who spend too much time online.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:13 PM
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Heck, I've seen the same thing at "cool hip" brewery Events!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:10 PM
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So it's online, already suspect. Who are these people and why do you believe them? Your talking about two different types of women. Do you think a pink haired 7th wave feminist and a Cheerleader Sorority Girl might have different opinions on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:24 PM
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they Whose They? Is their a "leader for all women" out there making rules I don't know about? Or is random Internet People? Rage Bait Social Media? Or are you taking shit out of context?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:03 PM
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Online info sucks. Full of Rage Bait and Man bites dog You have moralized men but not women. Why is that? Could it be toxic women are attracted to Toxic Men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:01 PM
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Most Relationships will Fail. And often times it's no ones fault, or its both your fault, or its someone's fault and sometimes its' everything. It just happens. Learn from it and mourn it, and move on. This is Perfectly Normal. I repeat. It is PERFECTLY NORMAL and part of the human experience. These should be valued experiences, remember the good and bad. And if it aint working for you, get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:28 PM
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I've never been to the moon and don't know anyone who has! Must be no one has been there. When I was going out and not single from like 22-26, I went home and hooked up with 3-4 women who I never knew before hand. I went on a decent amount match.com dates and had sex with 3-4 women from that pool. I also had sex with about 3 women from my social circle or my social circle's social circle...most of these happened first though after a bar or club outing and some lead to brief dating flings. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:19 PM
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It's an appropriate response to people who think they have any idea whatsoever about how dating dynamics/relationships work but are actually clueless due to lack of actual real world experience. I think it's interesting people can Label themselves a Pill (doesn't matter which color) and/but literally have no real life dating experience besides MAYBE swiping right on Tinder. Like Bro, that aint real. People are afraid of their own shadows from online rage bait and doom scrolling but cant make the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:51 PM
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I like talking about those things too, but think of it this way; Say you were going to debate with someone the viability of colonizing the moon for financial benefit....and then a small niche of people come in and start yelling that the moon is actually made of cheese and full of demons. That's what being on this forum is like. This niche just shouts louder, comes up with more inane theories and eventually people who might have knowledge or actual experience with the topics, just sort of leave, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:10 PM
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The issue is that men will be told "oh there is someone out there for you" basically regardless of how they look. This is actually kind of true (except in extreme cases) but men don't want to date "someone", who is likely extremely unattractive and has lots of issues. This is missed by tons of dudes. Your looks are not going to prevent you from getting into A relationship. They may prevent you into getting in THE relationship you want. Sorry dude, if you want a 10/10 Gym Bunny, you better be a 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:35 PM
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but men today claim that women don’t want to be approached anymore. Do they? or is it brain worm PPD men and Rage Bait social media people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:04 PM
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I think the dudes on these circles like PPD do. Think of the scale, billions and billions of people out there and like it's only a few thousand on this sub and even less that actively engage. PPD and places like it, attract a lot of dating challenged and they tend to dominate the conversation as their claims get weirder and weirder. Only so many times I can write about the importance of XYZ when some dude claims the Sky is Green.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:02 PM
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Yeah, it's brain worms everywhere. Most of these dudes won't go to a bar or club and just socialize. Easier for the ego to just swipe right and complain on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:00 PM
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From Unbiased observation from a safe distance. That really sounds like a life well lived! You keep observing life from a safe distance. You will never get hurt that way!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:13 PM
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Pretty much this. PPD Bros self Sabotage all day long. When I was asking girls out, hitting on women at bars, I think I got Rudely rejected ONCE. Dudes be thinking the police going to arrest them if they say hi. Fantasies created to protect their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:12 PM
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Nah, I'd rather see where you are getting these numbers. Different studies can have different stats and methodologies. What surveys or Studies are you particularly referencing? If you can rattle of those numbers I'm sure you have those studies readily available. I'm really interested in this state "To conclude 80% of men under the age of 50 will die by suicide".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:01 PM
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Where are these numbers coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:50 PM
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but...do you acknowledge him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:22 PM
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There is advice everywhere on this sub and others. Just the advice can be hard or scary and it's easier to just blame others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:26 PM
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I think ideally anywhere where socialization is encouraged or the aim of the establishment. Bars, Restaurants, clubs come to mind first...but also brewery events, food truck events, music festivals, outdoor social events like porchfests or block partys, heck regular partys too. I would also think you should aim to go to places you have familiarity with. Find a few regular bars or restaurants to go to. these are your spots, be friendly with the staff, maybe a semi regular. I found bars with major…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:46 PM
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Man Bite Dog Story. Is this a common occuence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:51 PM
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Dude you want to get chicks bro? Just sign up for my discord at 100 bucks a month and learn how to dropship and buy a sports car! Grindset Bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:50 PM
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With the Mark and Chloe example, dudes need to be ok with the fact that sometimes it just doesn't work. As Dwight Schrute said "Not everything is a lesson, Ryan. Sometimes you just fail. " And thats OK! Not every time you talk to someone it's going to be a match. But dudes afraid of any little rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:48 PM
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It's really makes debate here hard. And shifts the overton window in terms of debate. Instead of debating best ways, methods, locations, situations etc in which to approach someone, you get stuck debating weather saying hi to a women in a bar will get you arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:11 PM
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How come you assigned Morality to the men, but not the women? This is a form of pedestalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:57 PM
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A lot of these PPD dudes got brain worms. Afraid of their own shadow, make up nightmare scenarios in their head ETC. Anything to excuse their inaction and lack of balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:42 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't stoke rage. Also it makes people who can't get dates have a case of the sads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:02 PM
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This is a terrible example. This women (if you do some invesitgating) has been trying to get pregnant since her mid 20s, but has not and she cant afford IVF treatments anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:22 PM
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that survey you talk of (the dating one) is flawed for a number of reasons...plus it cuts off at 29....guess what happens to all those women in thier late 20s dating dudes in thier early 30s? the women count but the dudes don't. skews numbers a lot. also people define relationship differently especially when younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:17 PM
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https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2023-03-15/inflation-pushes-gen-z-couples-to-move-in-together-at-record-rates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:42 PM
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Main Character and Video Game thinking is Rampant on this Forum. I think it's like 90% of the issues PPD dudes have....never quite making the leap that yes...you are the main character of your story, but everyone else is the main character of theirs too! You see it with stuff like "Women care about looks!!!" , but they never make the mental leap that they do too...and we all do to a certain extent. "I Lust after a 10/10 Instagram model, but they should love me for me!" Its stunted thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:40 PM
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Sure, and I think most guys go through a cringe period. I def did. But you learn and grow from them through normal social development, trial and error, self awareness....growing up. So my point being it's not hidden or forbidden knowledge, it's knowledge you gain through experience or critical thinking. (I like looks, maybe chicks like looks too! Should I be surprised or mad about this??) like the name "the red pill" denotes or some people denote, like there are these "blue pill" people trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:46 PM
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So in that first post about the tinder screenshots. I find the advice given good, but ...not profound or new. I don't think it would be controversial either. Not enough to pretend it is some sort of matrix "hidden" advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:30 PM
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The bad boy narrative is pure outsider bias. Men who don’t flirt, tease, and make others laugh frame men who do as rivals. As “bad boys”. Most aren’t bad, they are different than the hypercritical observer. ​ Yeah it becomes the narrative of "women want bad boys" because it's easier to think that then the reality of "women just don't like me" so everyone else becomes a "bad boy" so you can retreat to Fort Morality. Guy is a HS football QB? Bad Boy Guy is extroverted at partys? Bad Boy Guy is fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:20 PM
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Is that an average and common occurrence or confined to a small niche segment of mentally unwell women? You can find scenarios of most anything in life. The human experience is vast. But think to yourself, does the average women write to prison inmates? You are pedestalizing women in this way. Instead of separating women in moral categories, like you might do with men (see above) you treat women as a monolith and assign actions to a small segment of women to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:40 PM
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Seems like you might have done it wrong. Did you actually think about things you could change, or just find different reasons you were "wronged". Also who told you this? that you were a virgin because you were a terrible person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:49 PM
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You simply want your personal dating issues to be seen as societal. That means it's not your fault. it's societies. Way easier to blame "society" then actually self reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:12 PM
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then why you messing with OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:28 PM
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Yup you saved yourself a lot of time. And there is NOTHING wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:10 PM
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we diagnose it more. Back in the day they just called kids the R word, possiblely put them in sanitariums
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:20 PM
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I've wondered about the pickiness of some of these ppd dudes...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:11 PM
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Do you have any studies to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:04 PM
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For some of those women, if they could get impregnated by someone like Jason mamoa instead they would And If I could fuck whatever top Hollywood Starlet is at the time, I would to, it doesn't matter though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:01 PM
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Settle? Please. Settle is such a shit concept. What do you mean offers? Same as the average women might offer I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:00 PM
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Can you give me examples? I know the one on relationship rates which is super flawed since it excludes that women tend to date men a few years older, thus skewing results by making 30 the cut off. Lot of 27 28 29 year old women are dating dudes in their early 30s. Also people define relationship and being exclusive differently which also makes the data bad. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41562-016-0016 https://cordis.europa.eu/article/id/120810-trending-science-new-evidence-that-humans-choose-…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:16 PM
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ever walk around a target or Walmart? you see tons if average couples
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:01 PM
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what data? the studies I find show assortative mating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:00 PM
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Bro, Your projecting Bro. I could use a study. You have virginity stats form the 1720s, 1820's or 1920s?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:49 PM
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Dude you got Virgin stats for that? A Study or something?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:44 PM
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Well his Math is Wrong. If women only see the top 20, but then he states that 66.6 percent of dudes aged 18-31 did get laid in the past year....well then thats bad stats. Also I know the study he talks about. Numerous issues. No.1 You should never group 18-31 Year old's in the same bracket. It makes no sense from a social development angle. The age of losing virginity is trending up (which makes sense since for YEARS people have been telling kids to not to be a teen parent, longer childhood, mor…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:41 PM
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Nah Bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:50 PM
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Also with the need to address female infidelity in the modern era Is there? No there isn't, People think people didn't cheat back in the day? Please in the Royal Courts where "chivarly" is supposed to come from, if you weren't cheating on your spouse you weren't living. Having a mistress was common place! Men visited brothels all the time! Tons of Brothels back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:19 PM
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Dudes crazy like this. Don't know why they view women as some sort of moral blank slate monolith. They aint angels or devils. They are human. Like us. So simple!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:15 PM
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I would think shitty people of both genders do these things. Some men will cheat on their pregnant wives or have affairs while their wife is laid up in the hospital. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John\_Edwards\_extramarital\_affair#:\~:text=When%20Edwards%20first%20admitted%20to,was%20found%20to%20be%20terminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:13 PM
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Ones that Stand out: She was really weird and brought up things like her family all give each other pet monkey names? And wouldn't say what hers is since its secret. Did not look like her picture - Myspace Angles Cold Personality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:57 PM
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Assortative Mating. Too easy of an answer for dudes who think they are "average" but not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:55 PM
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Alot of basic basic TRP is common advice repackaged with a re-skin of women hate and main character thinking
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 03:41 AM
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these ppd dudes aren't normal or average but think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:57 PM
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It gets weary trying to have nuanced conversations with people who can't move past black and white main character thinking. Some of the very basic and early TRP stuff is just repackaged common advice that was given a reskin. Stuff like "Go to the gym, look your best, socialize, plenty of fish in the sea" have been common dating advice since time immemorial. But dudes think they found the fountain of knowledge because it got reskinned in a shitty Matrix metaphor that convinces these dudes it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:17 PM
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And they don't see women as individuals or assign any merit to personality, so they don't understand how a woman might get together with a guy who is not a bad guy and who doesn't irreparably damage her, but then might break up with him and get with someone better for her. Oh totally, you see it in their writing, they assign morality to men, but never women, as if women aren't people. Even the common phrase "Women loves Bad Boys"....It assigns morality to the man, but denotes women as some sort …
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 03:01 PM
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Which is a Huge (one of many) Blindspots of TRP. Like normal everyday people....we make mistakes...we do shitty things sometimes...we get into bad relationships and maybe stay a bit too long...but these are parts of growing up, and socialization and maturity. Are we supposed to get it right on the 1st go? LOL. Yeah right. I had 1 short term, 2 mid term relationships and dozens of first dates and short term "We are talking" situations before I meet my wife. Am I damaged because of that? Please. I…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 12:10 PM
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yes. 1 person outside of a relationship and they a hoe..... sex...is sex...its as intimate as you want to make it depending on the context and who you do it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:02 AM
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bro...like...what? have your preferences...but damn you painting yourself in a corner....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:41 AM
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You can curate your own social media...why go to these spaces if you feel like that...and also know when to take a joke or rib. Larry Bird would get white boy jokes all the time, and he seemed to do fine But also....White Dudes run a ton of shit in the US, Look at the Senate, House of Reps, most CEO's, Heck Presidents of the US and most potential candidates....This is the least effective "white guy hate" i've ever seen.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 08:17 PM
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Do you need TRP to do that? I mean, most people figure this shit out, what did they do?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 08:01 PM
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Sure, but it's reality, and most people sort of get this and are ok with this. And the nice thing is that, hey! You can always improve yourself if you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:59 PM
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Why isn't there more posts about Assortative Mating on this sub? It's a pretty well worn subject with multiple studies backing it up. Most people pair up with people similar to them, same socio economic background, religion, race, I dare say even looks. Also, the median amount of sexual partners people have is like 4-5. Another boring Subject I guess? Yet 90% of the topics here are Man Bite Dog stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:40 PM
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What are some examples of this? Sign language?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:58 PM
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that study needs to look at larger age groups. Hard Age cutoffs fucks up the stats. I'm two years older then my wife, So if they surveyed my wife at 29 she would be in a relationship, but they wouldn't capture my data since Id be 31. Many relationships have a 2-3 age gap, with the average overall being 2.3 years. It skews all the data for like 27,28,29 year old women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:54 PM
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I think ESPECIALLY on this sub. I see a lot of hand wringing and 4 page long rants on issues that would be non existent if they were just more self aware. Dudes will write a 30 page thesis on why civilization will collapse because they - "an average" dude can't bang chicks on demand, but will not go to the gym a bit, work on their social skills, touch grass or anything else that might ACTUALLY help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:41 PM
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Well what is that? and Why would it?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 06:39 PM
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themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:41 PM
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I wonder in what context the question comes from. How/why does it effect you that some women get in toxic and shitty relationships?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:40 PM
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No.1 Man Bites Dog. People talk about the bad but not the good. Millions upon millions upon millions of people successfully crossed a street today. They talk about the one guy who got hit by a car ​ No.2 You said "have been"....People make mistakes. It happens, Relationships end, some are toxic, some are toxic for both, some are toxic for one, some just end. It's life. People learn, move on, or don't. My question is, how does this effect you?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:36 PM
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Your Personal Problems should not be projected onto Macro Concepts. Also Chivalry is for storybooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:35 PM
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And TRP is mostly repackaged mainstream advice. Which makes this all the more funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:19 PM
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These things weren't the mainstream just 10 years ago it was fairy tales and folk knowledge. Thats horseshit. You may have had in the sand, but that is all standard advice that has been around for ages. Ever notice that Hollywood is full of attractive people? you think that happens by accident? One of the first online dating services launched 20 years ago....named Plenty of Fish, which literally took its name from mainstream advice. 60 years ago you could find body building ads about getting buf…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:16 PM
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there women out there who have all these expectations. There are people out there who believe lizard people live on the moon. This means nothing. That is such a shitty comeback "There are women out there"....Jesus there are people out in the world that believe and do all sorts of crazy and stupid shit, doesn't mean it's an average or normal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:35 PM
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Oh yeah....no societal standards for women at all.....just beauty, fitness, career and tons of sexual and moral ones to count a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:26 PM
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A huge issue in this sub is a lot of dudes here post as if they are "average" ....when they are way below.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:45 PM
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That's the experience of most average men. nah man. I mean most people get hurt in the dating game at some point, but did dirty? meh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:49 PM
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I'm a Dude...a lot of the dudes here are terminally online, have no experience with women and wierdos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:33 PM
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modern women And much like every other generation has complained about the ones that come after it...from the beginning of time, you can fine literature from all eras about how "modern" women are terrible....Just large excuses for failure, passed through the ages!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:58 PM
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Where and what time period do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:37 PM
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"The Cock Carousel." "I'm jealous someone had a normal dating life and I didn't so I'm going to make up shitty terms even though the median number of lifetime sexual partners a women has is like 4.5 "AWALT" "I don't know how conceptualize women are not a monolith and have unique feelings and actions "Men don't want to date women with careers." "I'm either afraid they may make more money then me or they wont be around to cater to my whims" The constant, insistent N Count arguments. "they must be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:52 PM
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I mean also...some dudes are creepy...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:47 PM
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Well yeah...99% of the time it ain't a problem...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:46 PM
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Life ruined? ooooookkkkkkkk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:45 PM
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The Idea that you will be thrown in jail if you hit on a women. I don't know were this comes from, either they are listening rage bait tik toks videos or they bring up that one example the Daily Mail ran with and it turned out the guy was actually stalking her. At worse, the women is rude to you and I think thats even rare. I have chatted up many women at Bars in my day and only had 1 true rude encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:03 PM
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Your hearing skewed reports from PPD wierdos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:44 PM
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I don’t know any women, have no social life, and rarely leave my house. Wow, Should Def listen to your opinion then. Such Experinece.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:44 PM
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"Yes I've not had sex" ​ Ahh so your an expert I see?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:09 PM
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Hookup culture is WAAAAAAY overblown and always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:04 PM
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what makes a video game better then a handbag ? If the level of enjoyment from the purchaser is the same, Why is one better then the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:12 AM
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I was thinking with Arnold more like running man, total recall, predator commando etc...he played humans "normal non powered" humans....sure but adam driver got on screen in major starring lead roles...in the 70s they would have made him more of a john cazale
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:49 PM
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Marvel is more superhero in my opinion...like Arnold in the 80s was always portrayed as human...Thor and such are Gods, have special powers etc....but also robert Downey looked normal, Jeremy Renner looked more normal etc. But yeah those guys do get in great shape, but not comparable to the standards of 80s. haven't seen creed yet. I would say what is seen as handsome in hollywood is more diverse then it was before. I don't know if an adam driver is seen as handsome in the 60s 70s Hollywood. lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:01 PM
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Oh yeah Gassed to the Gills Besides the Rock and MAYBE Jason Momoa, there are not many Jacked action Stars today. More cut and lean I suppose. Even Daniel Craig in Bond, it's not like his body is outrageous. in 2021 Bob Odenkirk starred in nobody, great and well regarded action movie, Keenau in John Wick, not an unrealistic body....The Marvel movies have some bigger guys but again, they are literal super heros. ​ The pendulum never swung back to the 80s He man jackness in my view. Heck even in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:44 PM
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Bernard Jean Étienne Arnault is a French business magnate, investor, and art collector He is the founder, chairman, and chief executive officer. You think that might have more to do with his worth then anything? Considering no one at Ford can consider himself the Founder of Ford? And CEO worth has nothing to do with consumers overleveraging for products. That is such insane reasoning and total misunderstanding of products, economics and business. In terms of Quality, a Target purse is going depr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:53 PM
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clinically Most people don't know how to interpret medical terminology into day to day definitions. They see terms like "clinically" overweight and assume they must be 600 pound women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:55 PM
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It doesn't help that male beauty standards have gotten way more strict. Here's Bruce Willis in a Die Hard movie. Wait a second.... Remember the Action Stars of the 80s were huge Jacked Guys, Arnold, Stallone, Dolph...heck the whole cast of Predator would pump up everyday before shoots (Arnold, Carl Weathers, Jesse Venture, Sonny Landom) Bruce in Die Hard was the Exception back then and helped usher in the more normal looking action stars, such as Matt Damon from Bourne, Keannu Reeves from Speed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:50 PM
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You know most women will never own a LV right? Anyways.... You are just making moral arguments on items. If a women and man derive the same amount of pleasure out of a LV or a PS5, who cares? Just because you Don't see the value in an Item, doesn't mean others don't. When dudes overleverage themselves for the newest jacked up Ford F150 (and like 80% of these guys don't even need a truck), are you making the the same argument? Why didn't they just buy a used car? or a car within their means?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:41 PM
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Dude, this is just your revenge fantasy wrapped up in some sort of moral argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:35 PM
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Its amazing for all these dudes who think they know about dating....they never grasp this...On Average men and women think a bit different. I'm a dude. I would fuck a whole wide range of women, but I only would engage in a relationship with my type ...so to say... I don't think most women want to be fucked and dumped, but I think most men would be fine with that....In fact most men would BRAG about being used for sex....most women would not or feel bad about the situation and used.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:31 PM
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People in general? nahh...people on this sub? yahhh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:29 AM
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Are we in the Purge? Is this a Purge Post?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:03 PM
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OK? I've been to about 20 Weddings in my 20's and into my 30s. 2 of Them ended in Divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:35 PM
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well seeing the ratio of divorces to marriages are steadily declining since a high of the 80s.......
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:02 PM
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PPD dudes like this have Main Character thinking, they want the hot chick, but then want the hot chick to "like me for me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:39 PM
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Its like as if women rather blame men for their own issues than help men. Have you seen this sub? Most of the topics are "Women do xyz and they suck and thats why I cant get laid"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:35 PM
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Its one of the better places to see what real couples look like. Like average looking people finding each other, something a few people on this sub don't believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:43 PM
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This is a really good thought. What does "Love me for who I am" really even mean? Are they supposed to love me for thoughts in my brain? Are they mind readers? If I try really hard in my mind are they supposed to pick up on that? Oh if I love her in my mind hard enough she will pick up on those brain waves? Who am I but what I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:38 PM
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What are you doing besides OLD? Are you socially active...going to partys etc?
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 10:04 PM
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But Tate isn't real life. He's a reality show star who doubles as a pimp and pyramid schemer. Go walk around Target. Plenty of IRL couples. Go check out Wedding Subs. Tons of IRL average people finding the one they love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:44 PM
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Assortative Mating. Most people go with people that are like them, in looks, social class etc....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:50 PM
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Yeah, don't use this sub as a barometer for Anything. There are millions of men have made a move...and millions of women who have said yes, and a millions of have said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:23 PM
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But why? What have they done to fix their situation or what have they contributed to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:03 PM
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it's that thier opinions in dating don't matter. they matter as people...but thier opinions on dating ? nahhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:54 PM
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Are you Neuro divergent?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:07 PM
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well its most likely going to attract women in like careers or in a like status level.... assortative mating is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:22 AM
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That has nothing to do what I brought up. I am talking about morality. You have separated men into tiers, good men and bad men...But you did not do the same thing with women, saying "believe women want good men".... But Good women want good men, and bad women probably go to bad men. The a moral upper middle class hottie is more likely to go out with the moral finance guy then some scuzzy meth dealer. A shitty character women is going to go with the shitty scuzzy meth dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:12 PM
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a third is still alot dont you think? Is it historically is the question
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:38 PM
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There is a major issue with this argument. You are assigning moral tiers to Men (Good or Bad), but you don't do this to women (there are just women) Women have moral tiers too. Assortative Mating shows/proves to us that like people tend to get together. Street corner Meth Dealer is not banging Upper Middle Class Marketing Manager. If dudes lack critical thinking skills to see that...that's their issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:29 PM
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I never got this...Like literally all the media we consume is filled with attractive people. Pretty much all the Disney Princes are handsome men. People who play "nerds" in movies are attractive by normal standards....The Cheerleader fucks the Quarterback.... Most of our Music Stars are good looking...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:11 PM
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I think self awareness is important especially in terms where you are in terms of the sexual market place. I don't love to use those terms, but we all have our dating pool, people in our ballparks in terms of looks, socioeconomic status, location, personality etc. Assortative Mating. I think many guys here aren't self aware enough to realize where they are in that. I think becoming self aware also means actualizing other people...are other people each with their own likes dislikes etc. It's inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:07 PM
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Lol at any of those scenarios. PPD aint real life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:45 PM
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Which is not the norm. Most households have two incomes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:44 PM
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actionable advice It's super actionable. Go to Bars, Go to Clubs, Go to Restaurants, Have a social circle, Go to the Mall, Go to the Brewery etc....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:37 PM
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Develop Social Media/Media Literacy. Click Bait is Click bait for a reason. Don't take isolated situations and think they are common day to day occurrences Touch Grass. The shit that gets tossed around on this sub is not the averages persons Day to Day. You are the main character of your story, but everyone else is ALSO the main character of their stories. Don't be afraid of being "hurt". It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:34 PM
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Ok again, your getting a very specific cross section of people and your just hearing from them. Women with trouble dating, women who listen to KS, like that is not a average cross section of women. Why did he not have a on a cross section of women in good marriages or happy? Doesn't hit the clicks, doesn't fit the rage. If I go to a football game and interview people if they like football and 99% say YES , taking that data and applying it to everyone and assuming 99% like football, would be fool…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:48 PM
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3 hours. With women who specifically are tuned into KS. You think your getting maybe a slanted population there? If i got to football game I might find some football fans there huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:46 PM
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You think maybe Kevin Samuel created rage bait videos to get more clicks? media literacy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:23 AM
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You didn't know? you were supposed to stay home everyday and wait to be graced by these dudes presence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:10 AM
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Divorce rate is going down since a high in the 80s...a depending on your demographic its very low...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:09 AM
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US, cdc data. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:02 PM
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That's good if it works in your situation... I guess I ask to people in general, what do you want people to do? Wait patiently to meet you? Hope and pray that you come along. Not live? Your situation is different, but during and after college for a while I went to bars, parties, meet people, dated etc. I sort of expect any person I meet to have done the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:18 PM
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Like what? I don't describe to ideologies in their totality?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:48 PM
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Sure and do men not? I mean isn't that a normal part of dating? Social Development? I'm talking about the scale. Dating does not equal sex. We were originally talking about sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:47 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm Median in the US 2015-2019 Median (SE) Women 4.3 (0.10) Men 6.3 (0.39) ​ Your going to get extremes either way. But debating extremes is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:46 PM
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Well then it worked out for you! The whole idea of "party phase" is just weirdness anyways. It's this weird revenge type fantasy where some dude think that some hot ass women will come crawling to him once she wants to settle down. She probably meet someone going out and married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:29 PM
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So? But also...people do date, and it's probably better to date people and figure out what works and what doesn't before getting to a more serious thing like marriage. But yes, you singular experience rules all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:19 PM
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No the studies are recent and done a lot actually https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/the-ideal-number-of-sexual-partners-for-men-women https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm https://www.you.co.uk/average-number-of-sexual-partners-lifetime/ ​ But yeah you go on and make your judgements using Social Media. Full of Rage Bait and Click Bait and more BS designed to get you angry and click on it. Or people showing of fake lives and showing only highlights reels
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:18 PM
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People lack social media literacy. Watching Rage Bait on tiktok or youtube. Or they have no idea of scale. They see one instance of something don't get how that scales
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:56 PM
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Multiple studies have been done and this is about what each of them finds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:51 PM
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Party now. Partying does not have to be confined by age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:50 PM
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Manosphere dudes talk about the "party phase" in disdain because many of them were losers who din't ever party. I am a dude and partied too. I expect most of peers yo have partied. This is also very over blown as the average partner count for people is like 4-7 lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:51 PM
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got to make it about the other person in a thread aimed for self reflection huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:38 PM
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It's a Fugazi, they prob would have the same issues. These dudes can't talk to a women at a bar, you think there going to stand up to some 1950's WW2 VFW dad shaking their hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:30 PM
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high value woman easy Who has EVER said this? So it's shitty for women to be shallow, but it's ok for you to want a "high value" women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:01 PM
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lol these dudes.... "acting like a monkey" Yeah, me saying, "hey want to meet at the Blue Hat for drinks" is a real burden. Oh the horror. Talking to someone and getting to know them is "acting like a monkey" lol OP just wants sex on demand, and anything else is acting like a monkey. Go to Reno then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:14 PM
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Touch. Grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:16 AM
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I mean....isn't this a relationship by relationship thing? Won't it vary with each couple ? I don't think they are universal rules here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:07 PM
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approaching is fun. I always found it fun....even ones that ended in a no...like who cares move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:05 PM
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Late 30s dude hear...and I agree. I thought being the pursuer gave me more power....its like you said more active and eliminates a lot of waste. If I pursue a women it means I want to go further....and if they say no fine, but I'm not wasting my time with girls I'm not interested in.....unlike a women who may have to find ways to politely reject someone she is not interested in....also I think alot of ppd dudes are highly picky. that is hurting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:03 PM
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No...this sub us dominated by the losers of the dating world. 99% self inflicted wounds. They drown out whatever normal discourse there is. if I had it my way you would have to be a 25+, non virgin, with at least one 6 month plus relationship underneath you belt to even post on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:33 AM
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then be worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:38 PM
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Don't Banks compete for your business?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:16 PM
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Very True. PPD dudes project their dating issues to all men. And alot of these dudes on PPD are....special, they are not average men even though they want people to think they are. Or they listen to way to much rage bait on YouTube or tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:54 PM
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yeah...like certain dudes wants to pretend we are helpless doofuses. we are not. we have plenty of agency. Also I think for some dudes if they can't dial a Instagram model on tinder then somehow they are disadvantaged and have it tough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:48 PM
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Ok....but women are not monolithic? You seem to be assigning women as blank slate neutral characters and men as individuals...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:34 PM
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Meh, I'm a dude. I always thought we both were selectors. I choose to hit on a chick, give her my attention, and she can choose to go forward or not...it takes two here... Men have agency here too. We are not forced into relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:32 PM
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Why do you assign women as monolithic, but men as individuals ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:30 PM
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it's a real touch grass effect. take a stroll through Walmart and target...you see All sorts of couples....water tends to find its level or close to it, but you also see tons of variations. I've seen dirt bags find each other and nice good people get together and like everything in between. these posts just show how out of touch this sub can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:27 PM
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sort of wierd though basically everything becomes a women's fault ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:24 PM
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I would say like the first wave of TRP was way less women hating more personal responsibility....but like any self help group...the winners take what they need and leave....leaving the losers to stay and steer the ship. Or the winners who do stay to help out get drowned out by the increasing number of losers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:31 PM
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your missing these dudes got "main character" thinking....Its ok I'm fat! but my girl needs to be slim!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:03 PM
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no it's not especially in the cities. PPD dudes be writing treatise on why they can't get laid instead of actually doing anything real about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:02 PM
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younger? most women date older
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:09 PM
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that's not true https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/shannonkeating/half-of-all-lgbtq-people-identify-as-bisexual-or-queer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:42 AM
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Touch Grass, get off tik tok and stop consuming rage bait on social media. Where would you find this in in a day to day interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:37 AM
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does take into account gay men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:04 PM
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Yes, they will write treatise on why "women suck" or "Chad" or whatever but they never try to self reflect or have a lightbulb moment. Or for a lot...even try. I hate trouble dating in may late teens up to around 21. I know what my issues where. I didn't get out as much as I should, didn't socialize or expand my social circles as much as I should, I held on to crushes way to long and never acted , hoping something would happen, but not really trying to make it happen, or being afraid to make it …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:38 PM
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Why are dudes talking to chicks IRL about their preferences is the BIG question. Do people not realize this is a debate sub? People need to touch GRASSSSSSSSSS Oh no some chick on tiktok said I can't like XYZ. Who fucking cares? Talk to your Bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:24 PM
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Would they do it for Free?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:04 PM
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I'd disagree with most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:38 PM
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Yes we can. I can choose to pursue or not a women based on a gut feeling. As a Man, I get to be the chooser in terms of who I hit on, who I pursue and who I can make a first move on. If i'm hitting on a Girl and she says wierdo shit, I'd walk away. I dated someone briefly who got super clingly super quick, started to try to get me to leave work to see her and shit, I broke that off real quick. Bad gut feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:50 PM
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We all, both genders have a sense of intuition. But anyways. Your focusing on Man Bites Dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:35 PM
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Thanks! Oh yeah, I'm married with a kid. I had my lightbulb moment like 20 years ago....and I think dudes who have that moment, have that moment in their late teens early 20s through normal socialization and maturity. Most dudes get it. I think PPD dudes are loud minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:19 PM
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I'm convinced not growing out of "main character" thinking is what sinks a lot of guys who have trouble dating and leads to a lot of stupid CMV posts on this board. I'm a dude, we all go through it but you grow out of it under normal socialization/life experiences I get it, we are all the main characters of our own lives, but the light bulb comes when we realize, hey everyone else is the main character of their own lives too! I see this a lot with "women care about looks"...ok? But don't we all …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:41 PM
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No. There is a difference between the idea of "I would bang my friend" vs "I am friends with this person because I need/hope to bang them" It's a different mindset. I have had women friends who are objectively attractive and I would have sex with them, but I never felt the NEED to, and I wasn't their friend TO have sex with them. The idea of being married to your best friend is not universal too and it's how we define "best friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:58 AM
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It's all out of wack...By the way some people define "struggle" if you can't dial an Instagram model for sex it's "struggling"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:21 PM
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you really knocked it out of the park with this debate!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:58 PM
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seeing how much they post about and worship "chad"? it wouldn't take much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:36 PM
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well it would make us top 5% of ppd dudes for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:13 PM
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I love when my fellow dudes are like "WE BUILT ROME"...motherfucker you jerked off to hentai in your basement, you built shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:25 PM
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Ya know what's weird? If Women go MIA, then we as a species die out?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:22 PM
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What? Jesus Christ. Is that what you got out of that post? So she should blow the Guy who built her house? No.. he got money for his service. A Man was paid money for a job. Keep on going with your revenge fantasy bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:21 PM
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He says that they don't know the value of money. Yet he says 2 out of the over 30 people have dated were surprised he made 6 figures implying they don't know how much he actually cost to go out and have a fancy car That is not many. 6 Percent of the group he claims to date. You you make a judgement on a group of people based on what 2 out of over 30 don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:57 PM
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https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2020/03/03/gender-wage-gap-more-women-out-earning-husbands/4933666002/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:06 PM
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Oh Man, this post. You state 2 women our of the over 30 you have dated were surprised you have made 6 figures. That's at most 6 percent of the women you dates. Ok not exactly Most, and this is the most "compelling" evidence or anecdote you provided. Why do you assume people know the dollar figure on a Porsche? I'm a dude and I don't know, I know they are expensive, but I don't know the dollar amount. You could have said 70k or 500k and I wouldn't know. Most people are not going to know, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:11 PM
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You totally missed her point... But anyways most people date in their socio economic and class level. If your rich you date rich people, if you are poor you most likely will date other poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:38 PM
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If PPD men actually did this, what you did, this sub would be empty. It's so MUCH easier to rant and rave and come up with complex theories about why you can't get laid, then actually look internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:44 PM
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Ok....but do the stats bear that out? There are 26,000 murders a year in the US. There are 331 Million people in the US. Vast majority of murders are domestic or gang related. Random murders are insignificant...What is your quality of life if all you do is worry about randomly being murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:43 PM
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And as a Social Worker is you fuck up a kid could die? And even if you dont fuck up and do everything by the books, if a kid in your caseload dies it's going to be your fault anyways, in the media at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:49 PM
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That's for you to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:02 AM
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then those men deserve what they get? It's called being a human, social maturity, realizing not everyone will like you and you won't like everyone...like basic human shit etc...Sorry chicks ain't video game NPCs...Tons of men including myself have figured it out...why do PPD men have an issue with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:37 PM
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Is it bad I thought this was a serious post for a second? thank god for flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:25 PM
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Its way easier to rant and come up with vast 4 page long conspiracy theories on why you cant get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:12 PM
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18-29 Also...terrible grouping. Grouping Highschool kids with dudes almost 30. Jesus what a terrible study
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:06 PM
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You are magnifying insignificant risk. What there are a couple of viral videos of that? And there is even a backlash against the women recording these..... But anyways, think of how many gyms are in the US ( Just 2,309 Planet Fitness locations in the United States alone!), and how may of them have daily interactions between men and women, even just in passing and what come out of it was a few viral videos? Yeah, I'm not worried about that as a dude or a women or a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:04 PM
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I think like 90% of the issues PPD dudes have is risk aversion, magnifying insignificant risk and wanting to never be hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:00 PM
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This is paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:51 PM
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So you have a small slice of women you want because of your unwavering views....You don't talk to women it seems, and you have no social skills....What do you expect? You set yourself up to HAVE to put a ton of effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:51 PM
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People always find something to blame....Oh it's a generation thing, oh if only it was the 50s I would be dating, oh If only, If only, If only....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:49 PM
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These all just seems like a massive projection rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:47 PM
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Whenever I got out in the Bar Sections of wear I live I always see younger people chatting up in groups, meeting each other, flirting....if people wen tout they would see it too. OLD is one Avenue, not the ONLY avenue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:45 PM
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College is different. Eventually you grow tired/out of that scene. Things change. Not saying you can't have a great dating life or anything or that you even want marriage or a relationship. But that scene does wear thin for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:43 PM
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Weddings are a blast. But marriage isnt super risky. If your Middle or Upper Middle class marriage is prob going to be good. Divorce rates per marriage are dropping from a high in the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:30 PM
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So every man who gets laid is an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:25 PM
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Women tend to date older. So your going to see a lot of late 20s early 30s couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:12 PM
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No https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/cigdei/okcupid_study_compared_with_tinder_study/ https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/ Plus the study is misinterpreted. The PPD line goes "women only find the top 20% of men attractive" but thats not what the study says....since that 20% varies for women to women. Also OKcupid back in 2009 when the study was done, is very different. It was more a hook up site that people who couldn't afford or want what match.com was used for. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah. OKcupid is super well vetted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:02 PM
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Why is there a need for blame? And who says things are bad? People on this sub...this sub provides a REALLY skewed viewpoint, with a higher percentage of the dating disabled on this sub then in normal life....Social Media? Oh yeah Rage/Click Bait you tube channels? Twitter? Like 90% bots and more outrage..... Go to a Bar or Club....are men and women really having these "wars" out there in Grass Land?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:11 PM
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Now do the rest of the crappy Studies PPD likes to quote like the 15 year old OK cupid "study"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:06 PM
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I think if more people had this "aha" moment, their would be better discussions and nuance here...Like how can I fault a women for wanting a good looking guy....when I want a good looking girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:35 PM
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Then when I share the fact that Tate actually did try to help men, you disregard it completely. Because it was a MLM pyramid scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:42 PM
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Yeah I totally see just 6-6-6 men walking around with women. That's all I see. I walk into a Target and bam, just high powered beautiful model tier couples everywhere...All I see. And when I see young people...all of them are so rich and good looking model tier! no way I ever see average people together. Does not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:24 PM
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I'd take just dating experience...the more and more I browse the sub, the more I'm convinced a lot of posters haver never been on a date period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:07 PM
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That is the purpose of a date, to see if their is a spark or that you might be compatible....otherwise why not just pick lottery numbers and match up people that way? The date is a vessel to see if you all might get along. We do the same things with friends. You pick your friends right? Maybe you meet at work, social contacts etc...but everyone vets each other in one way or another. Even meeting someone through Social contacts is the same thing. Your friend introduces you to someone, your friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:30 PM
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That's a wild way to use "these days" and goes against pretty much everyone's understanding of what "these days" implies. But anyways nothing you said is anything to be outraged about. Do people want to be a their best when they first meet someone? YES! Why is that an issue? You are supposed to gradually build a relationship and learn about each other, good and bad. When you first meet someone do you lead with "hey there sally! here are my 2 main character flaws!" No, you don't. Women wear make …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:25 PM
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It pretty much is. Did you not say "these days" implying that it's new? Did the man not typically pay for dates back in the day? Did people not try to act their best selves in dates back in the day? Did being the Captain of the football team or head cheerleader or just a well liked popular person not matter back in the day? I don't know where you got these ideas from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:02 PM
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So haven't engaged in it? What do you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:29 PM
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"These days" LOL. Hey Everyone! Only these days do women wear makeup! New invention! The Guy pays for the date! Only happens these days! (actually people increasingly going dutch) People try to be their best selves when they meet someone new! Only happens these days! Never happened before! Popularity matters! Only these days! Damn back in the old days you could be a total loser I guess and still get the Prom Queen!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:15 PM
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The majority of males have done nothing to admire or respect. This reminds of when Dudes are like "We built the pyramids and fought WW2 and made etc".... Bro, some men did that, but you did shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah, no nuance. Like don't poor your guts out on the 2nd date. If your a deranged person that's not going to be great...Like their is a difference between "I hear voices" and "yeah sometimes I worry about being good enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 04:17 PM
1

Men like Joe Biden and those who vote for him. oh so your a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:43 PM
1

Holy shit...you ever see a talk about "nice guys" or sexual assault? .....you mention it and like tons of dudes come out of the wood work declaring it's not them . you are waaay off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:44 PM
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They usually stink, but even then...like Richard Gere, Matthew matthew mcconaughey....These are good looking sauve dudes, like did you not pick up those clues?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:05 PM
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Pretty Much, happens a lot and for some reason, PPD thinks this is impossible. I think a ton of angst and topics are projections on the idea that they can't force attraction and are projecting on and pinning on one women who is just not into them. Is attraction there? Great, if not? MOVE ON. No declaration of love out of nowhere is going to work. If it does sell me the ticket to the movie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:43 PM
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Who says this? In LA LA twitter tik tok land ? Thats not the reality. Why are all the major influencers good looking chicks pushing make up and beauty products? Why are so many TV and Hollywood stars beautiful women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:36 PM
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Different things work for different people. There is not a one size fights all. My wife and I started as casual friends (intersecting social circles) but it was flirtatious. I didn't drag it out, or wait like three years. Started as casual friends, realized their was some sparks between us...made a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:18 PM
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Every FUCKING WEEK someone posts about divorce rates and still think it's 1983....LOOK at the Data People. Divorce Rates are going down. People are getting married later and make better choices. People are not being forced socially into marriages. Women don't need to marry to have a decent standard of living or open a checking account (THIS IS GOOD) And Even then the divorce rate is driven by serial divorcers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:24 PM
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People need to TOUCH GRASS. I know its fucking cliche, but these people get sucked into places like this or Rage Bait Youtube channels and think thats what people outside do and talk about. Like JESUS go to a Bar and chat someone up, you think they are talking about TRP or PPD or whatever Brainworm shit gets posted on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:20 PM
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Literally the Divorce Rate is declining https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/marino-divorce-rate-US-geographic-variation-2021-fp-22-26.html
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:18 PM
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Have you ever been to Walmart? Are all the couples 10s?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:09 PM
2

Ding Ding Ding. Chad is the embodiment of Blame, Envy and Jealousy for lonely dudes. He becomes the person they want to be, and the person they blame. He is the reason they can't get their dream girls (like you said, the person they are crushing on at the time, their oneitis) . Everything is easy for Chad, and hard for little ole me. The Chads ruin everything, If only I was a chad etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:10 PM
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Blue pill: I'm a nice guy, why don't women like me. I've done everything I can to please women. It can't possibly be my fault because I'm the perfect nice guy. Why don't women realize this?? Thats not Blue Pill, thats a strawman of BP that people want to be real so they can blame something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:10 PM
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It makes them feel special and not as bad missing the 1000's of clues society leaves that being in shape is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:09 PM
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The idea that Being good looking is well...good.... is not secret. Why do people claim this? Are our Hollywood actors ugly? Even "Ugly" by hollywood standards is good looking. And Being confident does not mean be a jerk. I don't know why people think this. Most people like good looking confident people. I don't know how this has been mixed up. "Being yourself" is one sliver of mainstream advice, but people miss context. Be your best self. It doesn't mean be a slob. And all types of people get in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:06 PM
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That's shit age grouping. 18-29 is way to large to sample and also where someone is at their life at 18 vs 29 is WAY different. Your grouping people who could still be in high school (18) and people who are 7 years out of college (29)....that's a huge leap. It also misses that many women date men older then they are, so your skewing data with a bunch of late 20's women dating early 30s men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:24 PM
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OR.... women tend to date older and this data only talks about people under 30. How many 28 year old women are dating a 30 year old guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:17 PM
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And I would go even further is saying that most early basic Red Pill advice is not controversial at all. Be Fit, go to Gym, Socialize, don't put women on pedestal, date multiple people until your committed etc, like these are not groundbreaking ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:25 PM
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RP used to be meant like a small kick in the pants for average guys to get better with women. It was never meant for Total Losers and Cast offs and it was never meant to be some overarching ideology. The curse of self help groups is that the people who use it and get the help...mostly leave and the group is then run by the people who failed, as they stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:11 PM
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Everyone is online is some capacity. But the content that is created, by all sides is mostly rage clickbait using the worst examples you can find, and that just it not an accurate reflection of the real world. Go to any young people's bar in a major city. You think they are chatting about Gender War shit like this sub? No way, they are drinking, making casual conversations and trying to meet up or fuck. I don't care what is on a Women's sub on Reddit. Reddit is not really a good reflection of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:55 PM
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I found your Issue. Why do you listen to an outspoken minority that exist in online Fantasy Land.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:31 PM
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Because politics is a proxy for values. Would you date someone with different values then you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:21 PM
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You know people can divorce and it be not for some tragic reason? Sometimes people grow apart, People change shit happens, money issues....Anyways divorce Rates are down. People are marrying later and together longer before marriage then ever before Also Marriage is a mutual decision. Are women going to a store and picking men like fruit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:19 PM
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Gee Golly Beaver! Just you wait till Ward comes home!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:10 PM
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You know you’re getting divorced after 8 years right? Statistically speaking anyway. Wrong. Why does everyone get those stats wrong? Divorce Rate per marriages are declining and have been for a while...and depending on your economic status divorce is even rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:59 PM
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It's not the reality, just these PPD dudes who are terminally online and socially stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:13 PM
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Where in this article do they state they are anti-male. Should we fault women for living together to support each other and hopefully not get war raped?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 06:28 PM
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yeah gotta be careful by the term "missing" though....most "missing" person cases are runaways, or people not looking to be found or overly worried families, or people trying to get away from abusers or abusive families...a vast vast minority are actually kidnappings or murders
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:33 PM
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Your confusing categories. There is a distinct difference between A women who posts a few times a month pics of her and her friends or her newborn or like brunch sometimes and a Women who post daily pics of themselves in Bikinis with a Linktree to their only fans and Paetron or are a "Influencer" . The VAST majority of women (and men) on Social Media are the the first type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:13 PM
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Def let's base out opinions on 4 chicks rather then the vast majority of women still in Ukraine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:30 PM
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ugly one's. and Ugly dudes get with Ugly Chicks....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:03 PM
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The redpill acknowledges the anger phase, it also encourages you to move beyond that. “Resent women” is not a redpill tenet. Massive misunderstanding of what TRP is on this sub…. The issue is, all the People who moved past it, get success and leave the sub. Leaving the TRP losers who just chew on pills and stay angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:02 PM
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It's not at all. Like how could anyone walk through a busy mall or even a Target and not see a lot of the assumptions on this sub are BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:35 AM
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Yeah this place is a misery pit. Basically filled with a lot of people who desperately need to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:34 AM
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you were like half way there. then you just had to blame women at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:26 AM
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no not at all. they just seem to congregate on online spaces like PPD so it seems like there are more of them then there really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:25 AM
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Then your league aint what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:37 PM
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Have you walked around a Walmart or Target and seen the couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:50 PM
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I love seeing nerd couples a comic cons!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:58 PM
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Stats don't bear that out. Divorce rate is declining. Besides that. YOU control who you marry and what happens in that marriage to an extent. Your not randonly assigned people and outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:41 PM
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Govt? NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:56 PM
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Gotta get your daily dose of rage !
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:11 PM
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No. Those scenarios don't elicit the rage that is wanted in these slanted threads. We know when we see these situations, everyone is supposed to say Guy B so people will rage on how evil women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:16 PM
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Guy A is never even going into the dating market since he is a anxiety ridden mess. Guy B's dating market is low rent. There is no greater Market, but tons of sub markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:11 PM
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I still see this a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:12 PM
1

Big time!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:11 PM
1

Tons of "Blue Pill" or mainstream advice overlaps TRP. Be Social, go to the gym, do your best to look as good as you can...all normal mainstream advice...but it just doesn't have the bitter edge that has overtaken TRP as the bitter loser men took over. TRP is even different then it was 10 years ago. TRP was a package for lost ( maybe missed a few steps in social development) average guy to get a small kick in the ass. It was never meant for totally hopeless NEET loser men or be a whole ideology …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:43 PM
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Higher Education Administration and A Staffing and Recruiting Agency....I don't any of then are still working at the same place. one worked together in the same place for years after they married...most just a couple of years or they married after
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:27 PM
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I can name like 8 married couples i know who met at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:20 PM
2

Movie Quality? It's pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:26 PM
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Every job I've worked at has had workplace couples. Many of them went on to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:35 PM
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interested Interested in when? Like looking at pictures? Post talking to them? How is the social anxiety guy going to meet women if he wont go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:04 PM
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Clubs and Bars are WWAAAAYYY more real life then OLD. Id say Clubs and Bars are the place. Besides social connections and work
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:00 PM
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But their wives don't like them, love them, fuck them, etc. This is just conjecture though. You don't know this. It becomes something that you cannot argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:52 PM
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Assortative Mating. Birds of a feather flock together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:47 PM
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Income and Wealth don't also line up with class
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:47 PM
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What Reality is this? Are you picking the worse of the bunch from Social Media Tik Toks and then projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:50 PM
1

Why is it Blue Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 01:40 PM
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this assumes women have all the same moral character. they don't. Should I be surprised when a shitty chick is with a shitty dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:50 PM
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I like the debate, but the adherence to pill dogma and labeling hurts debate. blue Pill is just used as a massive strawman now for instance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:22 PM
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failure rate of marriages is at minimum 50%. That's wrong stat. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-us-divorce-rate-has-hit-a-50-year-low
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:22 PM
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Everything has to be "pilled" today. makes people feel special
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:21 PM
1

Assortative mating. How vast it is and how it really shines a light on dudes who think they deserve more, but don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:53 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muggsy\_Bogues
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:39 PM
1

Tom Brady and Stephen Curry Bro. You think these guys just woke up and were great athletes? No they worked harder then you could even imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:17 PM
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"Rule of 6s" I find this funny. All the couples I see walking around Target and Walmart must be full of 6's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:34 PM
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Also, they don't want to accept the particular women they want is not into them, so they come up with 30 different theories, when in reality she just isn't into you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:34 PM
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You should readjust your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:35 PM
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Assortative mating account for the vast amount of relationships and marries and even hookups. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assortative_mating If people actually got this concept, like 80% of the topics in PPD would disappear. But no. PPD focuses on like a handful of outliers, while ignoring that the vast amount of people get with someone who is in the same class as they are, and has similar looks range. Male Plumber marries Female Dental Assistant Male Lawyer marries Female Marketing Executive …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:11 PM
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In the beginning my inclination was that TRP was helpful for guys who needed a slight kick in the pants, not total....losers. Now you got guys coming in and acting like they just found the Ark of the Covenant because TRP says you should go to the gym and look good because women like guys who look good. Like this is some sort of hidden knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:03 PM
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Sure....but like real people have always been like this....PPD just lets them collect into one place so it seems more outsized then it actually is. It's the Town Weirdo effect. Every town has a weirdo, but it's just one so it seems not a big deal. The internet lets all the town weirdo's congregate in one place, so it seems like it's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:26 PM
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You have never cooked, taken care of a kid or done chores around the house huh? Or all three? Me and my wife double team everything and it is still exhausting. But anyways, most moms go back to work after their leave and now have to work a job and take care of kid and house and hopefully they have a partner that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:53 PM
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Not an airport, no need to announce your departure!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:24 PM
1

Jesus. H. Christ. Please go Outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:55 PM
1

it's none of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:32 PM
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Date Apps are trash. Go outside. I guess they are going outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:34 PM
1

They are not. Looks do not matter in finding someone. But they may matter if you are targeting one specific person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:33 PM
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blue pill Blue Pill is two things It was/is a satire sub to make fun of TRP Whatever TRP wants to use as a strawman IE "Blue Pills tells people to kiss womens feet!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:30 PM
4

mind frame means a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:25 PM
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If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:58 AM
1

why are we equating looks with morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:41 PM
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Sure some women do. some don't, some might date 1 asshole, a few might date a string. And some guys date bitches, some dont, some might date 1, a few date a string. And then we need to define what is an asshole. breakups can be messy, what men view as an asshole might be different then what that women thinks is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:54 PM
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I mean....that is what dating is about right? Finding the person who fits you? Do you think everyone realistically would get it right the first time? Or even the 2nd? This is exploration. This is what dating is. Most relationships fail. And that is perfectly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:44 PM
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Duh looks matter, but not in the way Black Pillers think or the way people interpret it. Looks don't matter if you want to get a women. Looks Matter if you want to get a particular women. Take a walk around a mall. All sorts of couples with all sorts of looks are together. So no, looks will not stop you from getting a women. BUT if you are just trying to date a particular women and she doesn't find you attractive, then yes looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:41 PM
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I have never seen that with Blue Pill. I think it breaks down like this: Red Pill: Women care about looks! Blue Pill: So? So do men? Next? Red Pill: Women aren't perfect! Blue Pill: So? No one is. Don't put People on a pedestal Red Pill: Women want to Fuck Chad! Blue Pill: So? Men want to fuck Instagram Stacy but take a look at the couples around you, obviously people get together who aren't "chads and/or stacys" The Red Pill has some good common sense stuff like "Be Social, talk to people, be y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:45 PM
0

Dating as a 30+ year old who is a social reject is pretty brutal. Well yeah.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:04 PM
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It's crazy tho.....I see all these couples were the guy ain't making 6 figures......its as if reddit and tik tok shit is a distorted view of reality dominated by extremists and the fringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:11 PM
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The 50% stat is bunk. Divorce Rate is falling as we marry later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:40 PM
1

Delete them All
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:00 PM
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Dating is normal still. We just get to hear the opinions of the maladjusted who complain on this sub. When I go out (rare as well since I'm married) I see plenty of young people meeting at bars and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:29 PM
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Dudes who use Apps are fucking themselves. This fascination with Apps is terrible. People need to touch Grass. Dudes just literally need to start conversations with chicks IN PERSON and see where it goes. I observe this shit all the time. This "death of IRL" dating and meeting people is WAAAY overblown by socially maladjusted men who cant get the energy to simplely go to a Bar on a Weekend and work their social connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:27 PM
3

Ahh Yes. Rome, ruled by men for all time. Women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:19 PM
1

Women will only want the top 10-20%. You walk around ? look at couples.....is every guy with a women in the top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:09 PM
2

100% on socialization. People want to talk about 80/20 rules. I'll say 95/5 as in your dating life should in 95% IRL and 5% on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:07 PM
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The worst thing you can do for your love life is listen to people on this clown college of a website. I wish PPD had an age minimum, how many young kids are finding this place and getting shit advice. 17 year old's need to touch grass not read about dating in the abstract
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:23 PM
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As a dude, I give no shits about dudes I don't know crying about not being able to get laid...Especially because their are Solutions Abound.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:15 PM
1

In person all the way. Socialize people!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:15 PM
1

Being "nailed" for providing for his children? Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:28 PM
3

Maybe not get your information form Tik Tok? It's a very slanted and abnormal group of subjects. Who are "women" and "men"....we are not hiveminds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:12 PM
1

this sounds like bull shit. Alimony is hardly awarded anymore. Are you sure its not child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:42 PM
4

Why do people take upper class Victorian dating etiquette and project to everyone, everywhere pre 1950s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:55 PM
1

Nah. an 18 year old is still in high school. a 30 year old has been in college or working and dating for 12 extra years. That's Huge. Why lump those two populations? the 18 years old's are going to heavily skew the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:31 PM
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Dudes assign morality to looks. So even if the girl is trash and dating a trash dude, if she's hot it's some sort of moral affront to them. They don't care about so ugly trash chick going out with some ugly trash dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:27 PM
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I don't know how anyone can realistically group/study 18-30 years old's as one segment of the population and expect to derive anything meaningful. Being 18 and being 30 are VASTLY different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:45 PM
1

the ratio of divorce's to marriage are down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:34 PM
3

Improving your health and looks at the gym will make you feel better about yourself when you take off your shirt and look into the mirror. This is Huge and like should be number 1. Get Healthy, or at least more healthy. No one is saying you need to be Jacked to the Gills, but I know personally, when I went to bars and such, I would get more down on myself during periods when carried an extra 20-30 pounds of weight, my clothes fitted a bit tighter, or I was overdue for a hair cut. When I was in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:32 PM
1

men are victims of crime and physical violence more often than women. Your point is invalid. Are we talking random attacks/crimes or gang related activity. I don't care some criminal got himself shot up in a drug deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:52 PM
1

Grouping 18 year olds with 30 year olds is really really dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:29 PM
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then don't be a dude who can only get those partners ? Would these dudes be such a catch if they can only get the partners your alluding too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:56 PM
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Those stats should not start at 18, For years we were told teen pregnancy is bad and to wait....and now people are waiting a bit to start being sexual and its a problem I guess? I think more and more people are waiting to college to be sexual or have sex and including 18 and 19 in stats is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:11 PM
1

When I go over this sub, then go outside it's like different worlds. People really need to touch grass, not to be cliche.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:07 PM
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It like 99% fantasy doom scenarios that these guys are thinking. It stalls their action and is a good excuse for them to have inaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:48 PM
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Custody is automatically 50/50 unless the parties decide between them that they want a different arrangement. As per the above, 50/50 custody means zero child support with each parent being 50% responsible. This might be good for the parent, but family court rules on what is good for the kid. Imagine your parents live in 2 towns close to each other and you have to shuttle back and forth between the houses to let the parents get 50/50 custody. That sucks for the kid. Like really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:49 PM
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Social circles are not closed, they overlap. So your immediate circle has no single women, well everyone else in your circle has other circles and they mingle. thst married chick in your circle has a bunch of friends . so you meet a social circle from a sports league. all men. well now you are exposed to thier social circles. You hang out with your crew after work. great that's your work circle and then after time you meet thier circles out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 09:16 PM
0

That's just another issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:44 PM
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Some do I guess. I mean I just used "drinks" but that could mean just going out to hang out, socialize whatever etc. Also you could have like 5 drinks over 5 hours and not be drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:44 PM
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OK Monday-Wednesday 6:30 Wake up 8:30 to 5pm Work (plenty of good jobs are 9-5, you don't need a mansion or lambo ) 5:30-630pm Gym Home at 7:30, eat do shit, hobbies TV, Thursday 6:30 Wake up 8:30 to 5pm Work 5pm-11pm - Go out for drinks/Dates Friday 6:30 Wake up 8:30 to 5pm Work 5pm-end - Go out for drinks/Dates Saturday Wake Up at like 9am, go to gym/do stuff, hang out/ 5pm on - Party/Date/Drinks Sunday Wake up at like 10am, Gym/errands/do stuff/ day drink
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:41 PM
5

This is a fantasy land schedule. None of this is based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:19 PM
3

Stop misusing the divorce stat. The stat is about who files the paperwork, not who is at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:09 PM
1

Are women the Borg? Should you not like one 300 miles away because one you meet 600 miles the other way "wronged" you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:23 PM
3

forgive for what? you know looking to or not to "forgive" an entire gender sounds like lunacy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 07:35 PM
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introverted doesn't mean social recluse or creep. it just means socializing can drain you a bit more then an extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:46 AM
1

hahahah tall guy clubs....like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:30 AM
4

I appreciate your honesty and self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:29 AM
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so you are "nice"... so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:22 AM
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Go touch grass. go to a bar or club where young people are. this is just not true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:13 AM
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there needs to be a pinned post that just has the title "go outside and touch grass" on the top of the sub. I feel bad for all the young dudes who find this place after going through what most would consider "normal" pain and adjustment periods. Warps thier mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:41 PM
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if you did what you say for 10 years you would have an n count of about 25. way above average. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:48 AM
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And nah, bars don't cut it, this isn't the 90s anymore. People go to Bars....still....all the time. Touch Grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:59 PM
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the OP has been doing the PPD speed run of posting every single old tired topic every day. I swear this all stems from that older women who didn't immediately jerk him off because he said hi to her. Legit Teenager mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:54 PM
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Maybe...those guys who think they are 7-9's....are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:49 PM
1

You are using play boy bunnies and a celebrity as an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:18 PM
2

so? you could find extreme examples of behavior from both genders...I can find you people who think the world is run lizards aliens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:46 PM
1

Bars and Clubs? They are still around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:12 PM
1

Lots of "self-help" groups have this issue. The "winners" took/take what they needed and left, the "losers" are now steering the ship and moving forward discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:48 PM
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I have a few good women Friends. I am also Married. These relationships are different. One involves sex, partnership and intimacy. The Friendships, are just that, friends. Is it different then my male friends? Sure, I hang out more with my Bro's by far. I believe most women also hang out with their Girls more by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:45 PM
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That is life. Half of PPD is trying to find Rhyme and Reason to things that there are none. All YOU can do is be the best you can be and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:54 PM
2

Are you just going to Speed Run through every single PPD Topic imaginable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:00 PM
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100% ...Great your "nice" so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:58 PM
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Guys? Who are you talking about? I'm a dude and didn't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:22 PM
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I'm a Dude, am I allowed to Judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:21 PM
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The failure rate is always going to be high. But for good reason. Do expect everyone's 1st relationship to lead to marriage? That's what the whole process of dating is about. To learn what you want and who you want it with. From Highschool to Age 30 I was in 4 different relationships that last past the initial get to know you stage. I married the last one. That's a 75% failure rate. But I wouldn't categorize my dating life as a failure. That's a weird way to frame it. Divorce rates among married…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:04 PM
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extremely overrated and just modern day whining Literally watching my wife go through pregnancy now, while working full time. It does not seem fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:49 PM
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But isn't that your SMP in real time? If you can't get a "7" then the reality of the situation is your might be a "4"...no matter what you think your number is. I can say how much of a hard worker/great worker I am at my job, but if my results are mediocre...Then am I really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:06 PM
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which is not true per say, but it's incels who dominate the narrative and the conversation because they are terminally online and squawk the loudest. I don't any reasonable person has an issue with your dude who might struggle with conversation, but knows he needs to improve and is trying too. People have issue with the dude who struggles with conversation then blames Chads, Staceys and drones about the evilness of women. Same problem, different mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:04 PM
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Yeah of course, I think everything factors in. Being able to socialize successfully is a definite key. I think people want to box things up in separate categories to make it easier to process or even cope. I think it's easier for some people to think "Oh it's my looks" (something that many people believe is predestined) then "oh it's my shitty personality"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:00 PM
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It's metaphor. No, don't toss them aside, who said that? Give them tools, the right ones. But Should I feel Bad? Meh. Should I excuse the bitterness? Should I go, "oh well little Johnny hates women, but it's ok, he didn't learn how to socialize"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:40 PM
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Get lied to by everyone through your whole life, have those lies cascade into your life being nothing but loneliness depression anxiety and despair, and yea, not hard to see why they end up pissed off and angry. But...most guys figure it out naturally through socialization and growth, like most kids figure realize Santa doesn't exist. Am i supposed to feel bad for the kid who is 16 and still thinks Santa brings them presents? But also, are you really being lied too? Things like Looks being impor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:04 PM
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I disagree on those two points. I think most men through normal socialization and growth realize these things. It's growing out of Main Character Thinking... "I like Hot Girl because she is Hot, but she should like me, because I'm "good"...."Why won't Hot Girl Like me? can't she see my "inner niceness" " TRP back in the day meant for average Guys who needed a bit of a kick in the pants. It has totally morphed. Like many self help groups, it has devolved. Most of the successful ones took what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:46 PM
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Yeah...but also Imagine you stumble upon the "idea" that Looks play a factor in dating and then pretending you discovered some hidden "untold" truth. Go to Gym, don't get hung up/obsess on one person, Respect Yourself...are not new ideas....The TRP window dressing is just shit though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:58 PM
1

who cares if it's "real mgtow" or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:38 AM
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people are spending money to get dating advice . People spend money on the diet industry too. But losing weight is easy. Calories in, Calories out. All else is just cope. Don't misunderstand me. It can be HARD to lose weight, but there is no secret formula you need to spend money on. The concept of losing weight is Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:40 PM
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wouldn’t be a million-dollar industry And most of it is snake oil and copes for people who don't want to believe in their own failings. "It's not my terrible personality, I just need to hold frame" "It's not being 100 pounds overweight holding me back from Stacey, this RP Guru will tell me the right things to say, here is your 1000 bucks MR ALPHA WE ARE KINGS YOUTUBE GOD " "It's not my miserable attitude and hermit like behavior, Let me subscribe to FEMINIAZIS MUST DIE !TRAD CON FOR LIFE on Patr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:37 PM
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Who Said they are Bad? The Brain Rot on this Sub? I dated and am now married in the Good Ole US of A and I loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:30 PM
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Oh are you new? hahaha Everything is Women's Fault. EVERYTHING!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:26 PM
2

This is PEAK PPD Brain Rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:25 PM
2

Ok Einstein, Give us your Solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:24 PM
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So you mate based on Goals? How do you come to know if someone's goals match yours or if they are truly committed to said Goals? ​ Your Divorce Rate Is WAAAY OFFF...Also the Divorce (women) stat is misleading... It's about who filed the paperwork not who is at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:20 PM
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"Statistics and studies show that the vast majority of violence perpetrated against women by men is spousal/partner related. What does this tell you? That women invariably select men predisposed to this type of behavior." statistics show that people are most likely to get into a traffic accident within 5 miles of their home. this tells us that people invariably select homes in traffic-accident-prone areas
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:16 PM
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At least it's some sort of call to action.....but peppered with half truths and main character thinking. Also not all women want the same thing. Crazy I know. Women are humans. Very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:49 PM
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I don't get why you have to be Binary in this sense....Like You can not actively date but still be open to happenstance. Why the need to conform to a label?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:42 PM
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I don't know why people feel like you have to be either 100% into dating or 100% MGTOW. Like you can chill too. See where life takes you for a bit, be open to happenstance etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:41 PM
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1st. Love is conditional for everyone not just men. 2nd. Yes. It just seems like you are a shitty friend. What are you looking to get out of these friendships? You don't do anything for them, they don't do anything for you? What is the end goal here. Usually friends do things for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:37 PM
1

Yup, women friends open up your social network to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:10 PM
3

Are you paying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:09 PM
1

Are you attracted to no talent fat women with shit tier jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:38 PM
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If it was THE ROCK vs Chris Rock...will smith aint doing shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:55 PM
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I have many positive relationships with women. My Wife namely, but also close friends I have known forever and co-workers etc. Women are a great, shit and everything in between, just like Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:14 PM
2

More PPD Brain Rot. Anything to Justify Inaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:05 PM
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dude....you got PPD brain rot. Just tell her the movie and ask her if she wants to watch it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:29 PM
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Dude....it's not that deep. You struck out. Take the L
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:38 PM
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I can't bang every women I want on Tinder! Society is doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:57 PM
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I'm making a point about being Social. Being Social means being out. Means meeting people, creating wide social networks, meeting more people. The more people you engage with, the more likely you are able to meet someone you would vibe with. As well, meeting people in IRL gives yo a chance to use other attributes to vibe with someone besides just a OLD profile pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:39 PM
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If a guy is not out, and is in his basement, how can he meet a women IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:32 PM
1

Do you think Victorian Gilded Age Wilfred the Steel King was marrying Suzy the Mill worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:22 PM
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Meh Gen Z fashion is just a variation of early to mid 90's fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 04:28 PM
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40% of men are single! At any given time. These are not static numbers. Relationships start, end and everything in between all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:45 PM
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Those Greasy Italians and Dirty Irish ruined this country!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:09 PM
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Define Native? After one Generation A Family becomes Native. In the US someone becomes a citizen if they are born here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:08 PM
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You seem pretty intent on sabotaging yourself huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:44 PM
1

so then how do we come to conclusions like the OP did? just swap out anecdotes? your going to be able to find examples of all sort of behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:39 PM
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This sounds less like a CMV and more like a Venting/Women suck thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:55 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm ​ This is not the reality of what is happening. ​ Number of sexual partners in lifetime Median number of opposite-sex partners in lifetime among sexually experienced women and men aged 25-49 years of age: Key Statistics from the National Survey of Family Growth – N Listing 2015-2019 Median (SE) Women 4.3 (0.10) Men 6.3 (0.39)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:09 PM
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most men here are really Fixed that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:43 PM
2

whose moving goalposts? most couples are in the same socio ecominic levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:31 PM
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Do women not have 401k's? You know marriage is a combining of assets right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:08 PM
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The women spending stat is because in households women tend to be the ones who do food shopping, manage finances, buy cleaning supplies for house etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:06 PM
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you posses You mean you split assets? Cause most couples both work. And alimony is about 10% not 20% and mostly for the rich and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:35 PM
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I'm going to bet....much like mobile gaming...the industry is propped up by a few whales.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:57 PM
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Totally cool that's how you meet your wife. Not everyone has to go to the bar (And many bars have good standards I'm not just talking about dive bars)...to meet a person. I guess the issue comes in when say someone is hypocritical in their standards....if you have a certain set of standards....just know these standards can help or hurt you....If you don't want to eat McDonalds...fine, but don't complain your hungry after passing 5 of them on the highway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:45 PM
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I probably wouldn't choose 'the bar' because of the caliber of people that tend to gravitate to them. Some would think this is an unrealistic standard...you complained about women's standards....then dropped a pretty huge one of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:26 PM
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Of course not, everyone has standards. I don't personally care about those women's high standards either and if they end up lonely...no skin off my back.... Just typically see more posts by men on PPD complaining then women....Also Dating apps suck. Go out to Bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:52 PM
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Yeah I think that's the Issue people have. I don't care about your preferences on a personal level. Don't give a shit....But if someone is posting on this sub about how women suck and they are lonely and blah blah blah but then turnaround and have these super standards....then yeah that person should expect some heated discussion on a forum designed for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:22 PM
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yeah agreed.....but the problem is like all those dudes have these standards (which they fail to apply to themselves often) and then bitch about it on here all day. If someone wants a 10/10 Virgin trad women....awesome...good for you, no one really gives a shit on a personal level....But when they start bitching about women and being lonely and ETC on this sub and make a thread a day about how women suck and it's not fair and blah blah bah....then it becomes an thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:19 PM
1

Meh. I know plenty of dudes or didn't hit their strides till after 21 and are doing fine. myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:03 PM
1

Right. None live by the shit they preach. But they will sell it to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:26 PM
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I would never ask anyone anything in terms of advice from reddit. I would say a larger then healthy number of redditors do not see sunlight very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:36 PM
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Some women are bad people and like bad people ( and really is being a pot dealer that bad?). So SHOCKING! I wonder how these people reacted when they learned Santa wasn't real
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:10 PM
1

So....Nice Guy of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:06 PM
1

Please. not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:02 PM
1

Oh yeah, lets fuck up kids, that can't be bad or have long lasting effects. Foster System is fucking terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:16 PM
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They don't get lonely because they have a gaggle of girlfriends Do Guys not have friends? I have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:41 PM
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Fuck no. This sub already gets 17 year old Kids who go black pill because they haven't fucked 10 Instagram models. Don't need to pollute minds with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:24 PM
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Everyone grows up and learns Santa aint real, but only some get really bitter and angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:00 PM
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It's ok for Men and Women to Like and appreciate Different things. In original post, the person stated women are only into " Astrology, Tik Tok, Instagram, feminism, K-Pop, and the latest Netflix show." Aren't those hobbies? Politics is a hobby, music is a hobby etc? We also have a tendency to shit on things we personally don't find interesting. My wife loves the Housewives series, but conceptually...is following the Housewives universe on Bravo really that different then being into the Marvel U…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:57 PM
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Oh and your a unique and special snowflake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:39 PM
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I remember doing OLD when I was a high school drop out. Then I graduated college and my options increased. The thing is those girls were beneath me. Well....maybe they weren't? Maybe you are really inflating your status?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:48 PM
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Blue pill advises men to become an autonomous door mat, ready to place yourself under somebody's feet at a moment's notice, and silently expect something in return. That is dangerous and unhealthy. Treat people with respect, but also say what you want. If it does not match, respectfully leave them alone. It's easy. I think thats a total misreading
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:16 PM
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This world is a mess and I think we’re beyond repair Looking at the arc of Justice and History, it's gotten Waaaaay better then it was 1000 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:43 PM
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Yeah....and if all you do is read doom porn all day your doing yourself a disservice. People have been talking about the "end" for...well ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:00 PM
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it's not the hobbies...I'm married and paint gunpla....its when the hobbie becomes your personality that repels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:35 AM
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Bars: Sausage fests since the late 1990s You are going to the wrong places then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:31 PM
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2/3 of divorces are initiated by women Cause Dudes don't do paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:42 PM
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They stormed beaches because they were drafted and trained. It's easier and more practical to pay someone to do something that might need to be done once every 5 year. It a foundation of our economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:45 PM
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This sums up my entire problem with the whole deal now. There are 0 rewards for being good. There are 0 punishments for being bad. Not true. You think that shitty person is attracting the best quality people? And don't use looks as morality. People tend to date people in their spheres. If your a low level asshole, I'm going to guess your not going out with high priced lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:51 PM
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Yeah. People rely WAAAYYY to much on what they see in the news and social media. You know the reason something makes the news or goes viral? Because it's not the norm. Normal people going about their day and dating and living an average fine life...aren't going viral or on the news....cause it aint news.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:54 PM
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No one wants a blathering fool. Having an insecurity and dealing with it is different then being a mess of a human. Also...don't get your perspectives on what women want off a reddit sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:49 PM
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My selfie gets 0-20 likes if I am lucky. Her selfies get 1500-6000 likes on twitter, depending on if she's posing with her ass out, cleavage, or just showing a plain selfie like this. Obviously the "plain" content gets less traction compared to posting your butt post workout, I even know this much. So this is a jealously thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:10 PM
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Most people date in their looks and socio economic sphere needs to be pinned on every thread like this. You might see variations....Nurses are basically trades for women but need degrees, so you can see nurses with blue collar guys....but basically the lawyer is dating the lawyer and the 7/11 cashier is dating the CVS casier. I don't know why this concept is so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:50 PM
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And I have witnessed the opposite, most every couple I know is in a similar socio economic sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:13 PM
2

You are judging the majority on the fringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:38 PM
1

Are you ok with a women expressing embarrassment on a forum like this about dating a guy who makes 20k a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:32 PM
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Most people date within their socio economic spheres. Jesus Christ. All these fucking copes people come up with to justify their shitty dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:25 PM
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So You definitely have gone out with 500 pound obese women with sweet as pie personalities right? Christ. Your moral high Horse is shit. Your waxing as a teenager is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:22 PM
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there is significant chance she can say later that she was raped. What is your definition of significant? If your going to worry about this, don't even plan to ever drive a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:56 PM
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hahah You mean the Civil War? I think your might have your history mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:13 PM
1

loveable I see short Balding Men in marriages...So Sure? I mean what is definition of lovable? By the masses? Danny Devito is beloved!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:08 PM
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Oppressed" by being provided food and clothes by men and protected, so they weren't forced to fight to the death in human conflict. Oh So like Slavery! Those Damn Slaves didn't know how good they had it! They got food and shelter and all they did was have to work on a field!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 07:07 PM
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As a Man, I did everything correctly and got punished for it. I met my dream girl 4 years ago; we were perfect for each other. I gurantee that if the genders were reversed we would have been married right now but ingrained sexism meant that she wouldn't even go down two steps to be with me while I am expected to go down 20. This You? Cause it seems like your just interested in What you want. Girls are not Video Games. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:28 PM
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For example, after my dream girl rejected me, I was too distraught to consider anyone else so I missed a great candidate because I was unable to enter a relationship with anyone at the time. So you self sabotage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:22 PM
8

Honestly whats wrong with this? This Dude seems devoid of responsibility and introspection, as most "nice guys" are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:19 PM
1

reputation? by what some random you don't even know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:14 PM
0

they don't like being approached commuting to work or shopping for groceries.....go find a bar your comfortable at and be a regular. meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:17 AM
1

The Way they are used in PDD? Stacey: Any girl you want to have sex with but can't Chad: Any guy who had you want to be like but can't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:55 PM
1

The Divorce rate is dropping, and dominated by serial divorcers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:33 PM
1

it's not 35% for all of your income...its 35% on your income that falls between that bracket....your still not understanding how brackets work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:39 PM
1

By the time your in that bracket for that section of your income your making like 165k and only your income between 165k and the next bracket gets taxed at 30%. you know income below 165k gets taxed at lower rate right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:54 PM
1

i am one of the only people that understands how tax brackets work. I changed my whole life around to avoid these extra percentages you incur in the higher brackets. What? Thats not how tax brackets work. You are not getting taxed on All your income on the highest bracket rate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:07 PM
1

What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 07:38 PM
13

That tells me that most members don't really have a social circle. Which really skews sentiments because many many relationships happen within social circles and networks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:45 PM
3

You're also wrong, no executive assistant to a CEO of even moderate repute is getting in the door without a degree and a great track record of success. Good EA's have advanced degrees, are very smart, polished, well organized etc... and get paid a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:53 PM
0

yeah I don't know what op is talking about. .I have several women friends and don't do these things...we go to bard and hang out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 12:17 AM
1

You have created an nice elaborate strawmen here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:24 PM
2

Thats not true.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:10 PM
3

Dude....how can you black pilled by life? Seems like you just like to self sabotage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:44 PM
1

main character thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:06 PM
0

haha I'm 36 in Reddit. I had a not so great dating life until college...because I didn't do anything about it, I just expected it to happen. I wasn't a squawker but I didn't do anything. Inaction is the hallmark of people complaining. For these people, the squawkers......the dating market was always going to be fucked up, cause they complain, do nothing or the totally wrong thing (and refuse to correct cause.....its not me! everyone else is wrong!) and think some 10/10 insta anime cosplay waifu …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:51 PM
7

This idea that you need to build up all kinds of capital and study Red Pill dating advice until you are 29 to simply get a 24 year old girlfriend to come over and watch video games with you is ridiculous. You assume the people who squawk loudest even would have went to the mall back in the early 2000s. They would not. They would have been shut-ins and complained. They just didn't have a forum to do it on like Reddit. I see tons of couples out in the streets, of varying looks, social class etc. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:43 PM
2

whats the definition of so many? and why is it seen as a collective flaw and not an individual issue? How many women don't get into abusive relationships? Give me a ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:34 PM
2

reality sets in for ugly men I don't think it does really....wouldn't have black pill if that was true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 08:55 PM
2

Who says this? This aint blue pill at all, if their is even a blue pill. BP says we all use attraction as a dynamic. RP says, Women only care about looks. Huge Difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:54 PM
3

https://time.com/88092/hookup-culture-myth-study/ ​ Hook Up culture is WAAAAY overblown
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:32 PM
8

uhhh...he had a wife....how do you know he doesn't date ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:46 AM
4

You need to better define the 80/20 rule.....Cause more then 20 percent of guys are getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:50 PM
1

Is it common?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:26 PM
2

I don't see any of this in real life though, just on this silly corner of the Internet. 100%. Literally go to any bar in the US, I never see these conversations. I see groups of people socializing in a fairly normal way. This PPD shit is not IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:33 PM
0

Don't project this sub into the outside real world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 12:32 PM
1

Being Social and being in Social situations is a key to dating. Having a social friend group that will do out to party's, bars and that will connect you to other friend groups is importants.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:42 PM
3

hahah I went to College 15 years ago, I saw the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 06:47 PM
2

I got out of a year long relationship full of sex and then had about a year dry spell, just was what it was. Getting back on the horse, dating, work etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:40 PM
1

There is no 100% of anything. I can find you people who believe that Lizard people rule the world. Most reasonable people are not going to retract in horror at being flirted with in a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:12 PM
1

I can't say i was looking for dating advice then....but that is stupid too. looks matter. Know and date within your Ballpark. Try to be as close as 50/50 with your partner as you can get in terms of balance, but don't get taking advantage of and you shouldn't be arrogant but don't confuse arrogance with confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:52 PM
1

Well also too Movie's tend to be about fantastical and uncommon events. No one wants to watch a movie of Average Guy has decent job and meets and marries Average Girl with decent job and have a pretty good marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:36 PM
1

That being said, the core of red pill, is "be the best version of yourself, put yourself before your partner, and develop competence and confidence." Then it's not different then all the other self help stuff and dating advice out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:34 PM
3

But that’s the truth? Do you live in this society? Do you? take a look around, are only 6Ft 6 pack and 6 figure men in relationships? Getting laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:17 PM
10

Honestly not having hook-up culture isn't that big of a sacrifice. Hook-up culture is super over blown by the media. https://medium.com/@ohsonali/behind-closed-doors-the-realities-of-campus-hookup-culture-b6f6eebda5b5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:00 PM
1

So I am not sure where op got the assertion that divorce rates are increasing. it's a classic MGTOW RP meme that they can't let go off despite evidence. (which is funny since they claim to be all logical and sciency)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:53 PM
1

That is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:51 PM
1

big social circles Also levels....I had a big college social circle and everyone was a "friend" but the the levels were different...seeing everyday vs seeing at Party's once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:41 PM
-1

yeah the whole topic is a massive strawman...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:48 PM
10

I actually did better in the dating world post college. The idea of college being the best of your life is sad.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 10:48 PM
2

The Ted Bundy wooing myth is a bit overrated....bundy activiely broke into houses, targeted hitchhikers and posed as a injured person and then attacked people from behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:11 AM
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Maybe people should date who they want based on their needs and their partners needs and having these weird arbitrary rules are stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:33 PM
1

ok buddy, don't break you back moving that goalpost....but muslims do have thier version of the adam and eve story too. https://www.charlotteobserver.com/living/religion/article124740379.html
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:50 PM
2

who cares about hercules, they are widely viewed as fables and myths. The Bible is still relevant in today's society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:43 PM
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Dude, I'm a dude. Genesis is tradionally thought to be recorded by Moses and no one really know who created the story. I'm just saying in the literal creation story that people at one point believed and is still told and has cultural significance....blames the women. So yes, women are blamed for men's behavior sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:37 PM
0

a literal made up story decides to shit on women. what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:31 PM
4

you miss the point totally. women have been blamed for men's bad behavior for thousands of years. The Bible constantly shits on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 04:16 PM
3

it's literally the adam and eve story
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:50 PM
0

it ain't shaming if its true....al these posts are just copes....trying go find complex reasons to vilify women and make excuses for not being with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:13 PM
8

"take responsibility" really deep down means....."why won't girls fuuuuckkk meeeee?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:38 PM
3

you live and learn and experience life. Getting hurt and learning from that is part of life
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 06:35 PM
5

or you know...you could just be wary of toxic people in general and not join a cult
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:08 PM
2

“If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:05 PM
1

I only have 1-3 people I would consider a friend with no mutual friends. If you're friends with someone you meet their friends. This is like friends 101. I meet a good friend from college and got integrated into his hometown friend group, and he got integrated into my home town friend group, and one of his home town friends got integrated into my home town friend group as well....here is the issue...I don't think some posters on PPD have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:03 PM
2

Same here, it's nice to have a variety of friends, including Gender. We act like friends, cause we are friends and we vent to each other like friends, and hang out and drink together like friends. It can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:57 PM
3

Do you think such bikers have any trouble seducing women? I don't know, but is this the group of women you want? Biker women go with Biker Dudes, and more power to them, but it's a niche subculture. Most people go with people in their socio economic and sometimes even their subcultural sphere, that's why you don't see a ton of 10/10 lawyer types sitting on the back of motorcycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:18 PM
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I would amend the above with "men who frequently post here about women"....There are a decent amount of threads that go along the lines of..."Well 1 group says X but the other says Y, what is the deal?"...There is a thread below this one debating weather hot women are bitches or not....like I'm sure some really hot women are very nice people and some are horrible and everything in between....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:42 PM
10

oh you sad, sad, sad little boy.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 12:30 AM
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One if the most beautiful women I know is a sweet heart. I also know a really bitchy hot women. it's a spectrum and trying pin down it like a math formula is a folly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:42 PM
2

The vast majority people have always dated within there socio economic sphere. This is not new. I would go a bridge father and say most people date within their ballpark in terms of looks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 06:26 PM
3

“getting a job” and many people don't know how to get a job. They blame everything but their own materials or lack or skills. I've talked to people with 2 years experiences lamenting they are not getting manager positions, or have resumes that look like a 4 year old made them, but instead of taking help, they complain about the "system"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 05:30 PM
1

These just seems like a bunch of self defeating straw man arguments...Sure just because you have a bulldozer doesn't mean you know how to destroy a wall
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:39 PM
2

Your username says just facts....but facts say men cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:46 PM
1

Like 95 percent of course are looks and socio economy matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:31 PM
7

pretty much. creating weird fantasy scenarios in thier heads instead of socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:30 PM
5

haha I worked in sales, lot of hot feminine women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:29 PM
6

Worked at a CVS through HS and College, all the younger people where hooking or trying to hook up, and partying after shift
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:08 PM
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They just didn’t make it their identity. DING DING DING. We have a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:03 PM
1

But you assume they go after the same pool of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:59 PM
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it’s a hotness thing It's also about being reasonable about the hobby. I have geeky hobbies, am not a model and it never effected my dating life. During 1st dates I don't wear a warhammer 40k shirt and talk endlessly about painting miniatures. It's a small part of who I am....not all of who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:55 PM
1

The Hobby thing is total BS. It's not about the hobby, is how people replace their personality with the Hobby and get wicked weird about them. Many successful guys have "geeky" hobbies...Henry Cavill, Vin Diesel, joe magliano I'm married and make sci fi models and display them in our condo. Quick Story. Went out with a different girl, she came back to my apt at the time, saw all my war hammer 40k models I was painting and asked about them. I explained and we hooked up later that night. She did n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:53 PM
1

Are you fucking real with that example? Is you brain working ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:12 AM
4

could you link those stats....the study I see referenced most has a major flaw by grouping 18 and 30 year Olds together
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:11 PM
6

I would say this is a form of pedestalization. Women can be douchbags too. Birds of a feather flock together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:00 AM
3

yeah but you know those trp field reports are faker then wrestling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 03:40 AM
1

Have you been paying attention? Rap has attacked multiple times.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 05:41 PM
4

you know the answer for these types of post.....
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 10:13 PM
5

I know a short dude....who is a gymnast and his GF is super hot.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/21 10:13 PM
2

Seems like a huge strawmen cope you got going here. Also like half of these bets are just, be a decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:41 PM
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ehhh.....ask Sofia Vagera's husband about that.....or henry cavill, or Vin diseal....Fantasy sports are just a different form of dungeon and dragons....I would say many people have "nerdy" hobbies.....but what you might be referring to is when a subset of men let those hobbies become their personality. I drink, party, play sports.....and also paint gundam models. Married for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:47 PM
3

It proves Johhnh Depp might do it.... it doesn't prove anything else. Is the question a logic trap?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:14 PM
5

you don't give any studies or proof either, most studies say 4 to 7 is the average. That is not high
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:33 PM
5

And how many people who engage in these constant gender war debates are an active party/bar goer ? I was.....and sometimes I see the threads here and go "do these people even go out?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:22 PM
12

Nothing about TRP is correct. And anything that is is basic common sense advice that has been around for ages, but dressed up in toxic clothing.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 01:10 PM
2

Why am I going to pay good money for something God gave me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:45 AM
1

Thats because this is actually the norm When and where?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:28 PM
3

This is not true. When people go out after work for Friday drinks, things happen. I worked in a sales office that had multiple couples and hooks up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:49 PM
1

Society telling This is a pretty big theme here...you blaming everything on anything else. “If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.”
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 02:10 PM
2

In other words, partying douchebags This reads to me as "anyone who has things I don't have are assholes"
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 02:07 PM
1

Oh Jesus....people can be sneaky. Everyone can be. Assigning negative traits to a sole gender is a dark dark road. Socially acceptable? how so? How has being sneaky every been socially acceptable ? Don't fall into to this stunted thinking trap. It's not a good way to live. And it's not even true.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 05:13 PM
1

Three? Well yeah you must know all women now. Everyone Gets broken up with. These are normal life occurrences.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/21 03:16 PM
1

that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 02:52 AM
1

But are these even original thoughts? Most of these attitudes and thoughts are as old as time. This is not new. Women want hot guys, Men want Hot girls. Not ground breaking. Birds of a Feather Flock Together. Again, not ground breaking. In terms of Sperging....MGTOW and subs like it....constant sperging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:21 PM
1

men yeah but who are these men? You think people who are socially mature and living their best lives are going to manosphere circles to sperg "FEMALES BAD" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:07 PM
2

ehhh...see their is a difference in the mind set of...."Hey....People who look better tend to get dates easier, I should try go to the gym and dress well".....vs "All women just want 10/10 chads and are fake ass whores" I feel like people who claim to "swallow the Pill" tend to the latter mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:05 PM
1

That is a major theme of the Sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:01 PM
1

What I make of it? "Never read the comments"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:46 PM
25

so Female TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:54 PM
2

Honestly....it sounds like a pity party and you just took the WAAAAHHHbulance to get their.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/21 01:23 PM
5

there have been efforts to ban porn.....forever.....but also where are there efforts really? playing out in niche Twitter communities? so what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:15 PM
12

I'm a dude. I want to have fun. If anything it happened, it was a nice cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:38 PM
1

Maybe, but I think a lot of people are confusing social reclusion or anxiety with introversion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:37 PM
1

It's almost like women are all individuals with individual thoughts, feelings, behaviors and opinions that range on wide spectrum!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:54 PM
15

To be the the devil's devils advocate....And a lot of kids grew up thinking Santa Claus is real, but through normal socialization and maturity you realize it's not true
/r/ExRedPill18/03/21 03:03 PM
1

Ahh Bezos's Wife was with him at the beginning as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:48 PM
2

People can change. We all changer everyday. You are a different p[person from 10 years ago
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 08:07 PM
7

What's the evidence people weren't flaky in the past? Like how many old sictoms did the women say "I'm washing my hair"....this shit ain't new its just new to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:13 PM
1

he redpill is literally about improving looks, confidence and charisma Yeah if that is what is talked about, here would be little issue. Plus, like no shit, people like good looking well socialized and fun people...you need a pill for that? Was that hidden knowledge?
/r/ExRedPill10/03/21 09:15 PM
1

They end up with below average women. Ive seen some couples that were below average purely in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:52 PM
1

I think some people just need to gain a little self-confidence but also date inside their looks bracket more, the word has lost a lot of meaning since it gets thrown around like candy but just based on a few videos I've seen of these guys that call themselves "incels" , a number of them could get laid with just a little bit of a self-esteem boost, doing some more push-ups and a slight attitude adjustment but yes for a small small percent of the population it ain't for them pretty much MOST incel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:58 PM
1

But that is not the reality of the situation. Average Guys end up with Average Girls. If you want s 10/10 Gym Rat, you should be a 10/10 Gym rat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 09:55 PM
3

birds of a feather tend to flock together
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 01:14 AM
1

then at least say what kind of college you went to and when, their anecdotes barely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:22 AM
1

how scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:18 AM
2

where did you get these stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:09 AM
3

people don't want to put in effort....sorry dude no one is knocking on your dorm door to hook up with you while your playing game box......go out, go be social, meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:09 AM
1

yes it is, unless you were going to a college named Porno-tech
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:07 AM
1

and what did you do about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:05 AM
5

All these doomer posts cause you can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:02 AM
1

yes, people marry later, don't get divorced, don't re marry = less marriages overall, that's probably one reason...Co- habitation could be another, less pressure to marry if a kid accidently gets made, prob another, don't need to marry to have sex, prob another....the idea that some niche community of reddit manosphere mgtows are skewing numbers that far is to me...foolhardy .
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:32 AM
0

that is the point! per 1000 marriages, less of those are getting divorced now then 30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:22 AM
0

because rate does not talk about total number, but per x
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:10 PM
1

Most people go out with other people in the same social standing. Your ideas do not bear out with the fact that most people date and end up with people in the some social class and standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 08:18 PM
0

because rates don't imply total number which you are referring too. If a country had a rate of 100 murders per 1000 people, but is very small, it might not have a high total number of murders, it would be more dangerous then a very large country with a rate of 10 murders per 1000 people, even though the total numberof murders in the larger country might be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:58 PM
1

Sure...after 10 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:50 PM
1

That's not how "rates" of things work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:50 PM
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First...your numbers are way off. Divorce Rates are at a all time low. Why? Because people are getting married later, thus more likely to make better partner decisions...and wealthier, smarter people are way less likely to get divorced they poor, stupid people. Your ideas on why marriage rates are lower are probably way off. Their is not the social pressure to marry young. People are co-habiting more and getting married later and divorcing less. So less divorce = less marriages overall. https://…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:50 PM
2

Maybe the issue is that your super anxiety filled and neurotic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:28 PM
4

Why does the OP need to make a parting shot at women to make their point? Could not this point apply to all people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:08 PM
46

Stutters as he is trying to compliment? Blush? What is this an anime?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 10:12 PM
1

Every Relationship has a give and take. I don't get the issue with this? Does volunteering at the homeless shelter mean any less because you derive satisfaction from it? Should you best friend still be your best friend if it's a one sided relationship? Should someone love the shitty parts of you too? Why should they? Why wife loves me, but she hated it when I was a smoker, does that make it a bad relationship? I love my wife, but I hate that she is a person who tends to be late to things, does t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 05:54 PM
2

Some men Believe the world is Flat....Answer me this "why do men think the world is flat" ....See how that sounds?
/r/ExRedPill11/02/21 07:19 PM
2

Like Legit, they showed one example of a Karen....If that was the worst example they could come up with? And it wasn't even that bad? I'm going to guess the others where super benign. If it bleeds and it leads after all and that Karen was the worse they could get? And even then she was concerned for the store managers, she didn't go shame the guy. Not right, but still not the worst. Also yes, being a dude crying in a dress store will raise some eyebrows. I've cried in front of my wife with no pr…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/21 01:38 PM
1

Birds of a feather tend to flock together. People need to realize this. All the succesul and smart girls I knew growing up ended up with good dudes. All the trash girls I knew ended up with...well trash. Also no, they don't have female friends. I'm going to take a wild guess and say a lot of men here have very little social interactions and that's why there are multiple straw men topics posted everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:38 PM
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No way. I'm a white male. I got things good.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 01:28 PM
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Break Ups This is part of life? Like everyone gets broken up with. I guess some handle it way better then others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:05 PM
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You should know the answer to this....this sub is fueled by mostly men who have a variety of social adaptation problems. Weather it be severe social anxiety, extremely regimented thinking patterns, extreme binary thinking or shades of Autism or Asperger's etc. Most of the questions and posts on this sub follow a similar pattern, Wanting concrete answers or theories for things that do not have them. Wanting to create a cheat code of a video game and think it translates to real life. Wanting Guara…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:02 PM
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Haha I love when people say don't date till 30. You know what happens? At 30 these dudes who have zero social skills, experience or social networks all of a sudden expect some 10/10 magic women to fall in thier laps and make thier life perfect. Its video game thinking. Life happens when you are planning other things.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 03:00 PM
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Dude, shit happens, life is painful sometimes, most everyone has had a failed relationship. You move on. You process, you heal and you move on. Womem are not video games were you press certain buttons and good things happen. Each and everyone of them is different and the context of the relationship is different. There are NO guarantees in life. Be the best version of you and treat others with respect.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 02:57 PM
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Nazis are an ideological choice, being a women is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:54 PM
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Bad women exist. Bad men exist too. Whats your point? What do you want women to do? Solves these dudes problems? Spend time dissecting thier issues? Being a decent person is what you should do irregardless of anything else. If someone is struggling then they need to look inward. If some dude resents society then that's his problem. When people hate whole groups of people, it shows a lack of critical thinking skills and low information. It shows a complete lack of self responsibility. In the past…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:57 AM
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That is your barometer? Do people who wear a certain under shirt all "wife beaters"....In cars the person who sits in the middle is the "bitch" seat...does that mean the drivers of cars are bad boys? So all bikers are assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:52 AM
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everyone is different. dont treat women as a monolith. Sure Trump got women, but looks aside are these women you want? Milana seems like an awful person. Birds of a feather tend to flock together. The good men i know seem to end up with good women and the douchebags i know end up with shitty women. Its not an accident
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:50 AM
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Yeah, that's what I figured. I think a lot of posters here are stuck in some sort of wierd frame of reference in terms of being an asshole....like 70s and 80d movies stereotypes become a barometer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:09 PM
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Are all bikers some sort of Sons of Anarchy stereotype? When I see comments Ike this i wonder how many people on here don't gave some sort of socialization problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:40 PM
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Its not 50 percent. Its much lower and has been deining since a peak in the 80s. Boomers divorced at higher rates then the generation now https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-us-divorce-rate-has-hit-a-50-year-low https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_in_the_United_States You think women divorce and have no feelings or fall out? Its just daisy's and rainbows for them ? Divorce rates were lower before because it was way harder to get one and the women had way less options to literally survive on her o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:04 PM
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No one Wants to, but that is life. Life has painful parts. Your friends die, your parents die. You don't get the job you want. Relationships don't work out. People will literally buy a dog and know in 10-15 years putting it down will be extremely painful. But, if you are going to walk through life and be fearful of what Could be painful, your going to miss out on a lot of joy too. I have a best friend who got divorced. It was very painful for him (and her too). But he moved on and is currently i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:03 PM
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life destroyed OK....that is a bit of hyperbole huh? Plenty of people who are divorced experience the pain and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:09 PM
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Are you really surprised that marriages at 22 don't have a likelihood of lasting? No, the best trend lately is people marrying later. If I married the person I was with at 22, we would have divorced and I would have been miserably. I married the person I was with at 30. I had an extra 8 years of growth and experience in which to make my choice. (And of course she had 30 years of experience to better make her choice too!) ​ This is not to say younger marriages don't work or you should not get mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:04 PM
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The Alpha and Beta thing has it roots in a flawed study of wolves that even the author of said study has discredited and said he made numerous mistakes. The idea of Alpha and Beta is very binary and lacks huge context. People take on different roles depending on multiple circumstance, situations, experiences etc.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/21 02:58 PM
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The Disney Excuse is a cope for people who didn't mature socially in a normal manner. Eventually you realize Santa Clause is not Real. And eventually most people naturally realize Disney is Fantasy. They are not bitter about it, they accept it and move on. They don't act like they are the ONE TRUE SOURCE OF KNOWLEDGE by taking some pill. Some Relationships will work,. some will not. THAT IS LIFE.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 09:02 PM
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Idiocracy is a shit example for anything. Since time immemorial the older generation has pissed on the younger. Doomsayers are as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 08:16 PM
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Oh Jesus you are describing it like its D Day. You think women are putting all tgier awkward encounters on social ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:18 PM
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It seems like your experiences have been unsuccessful. So again, you are unsuccessful in something, but claim you know all about it. I would ask Tom Brady for football's advice before I would trust a person who has never played in the pro's. Long story short, yes being young can be tough. You have a short frame of reference and you are making large assumptions about a whole population. Its the equivalent of othering people, Oh those immigrants took all the jobs. Its a cope. Im not trying to sham…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:23 PM
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If TRP people got this and moved past it, like 60% of them would leave it. Its a tough lesson but most people realize it with normal social maturity. When I was 18 I really liked a 21 year old. Like in my mind she was it, the perfect girl. We were friends. It took growing up to realize she was not perfect and it would not work out no matter who much my mind "wanted it". I think the danger is that TRP blocks basic social maturity milestones, it interupts the scaffold learning that people do when …
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:17 PM
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By your own admission your 21 and have large dating difficulties and little successful experience. Why do you think you know how the dating world works?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:11 PM
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How do you know ? Are you a women ? Seems like a cope.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 05:10 PM
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You state your unattractive and have social anxiety. Maybe this is the problem huh? But its easier for you to hate women. Also dude your 21. I know dude who didn't have sex till there were 27 and now are happily married with a kid on the way. 21 is super young.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 03:00 PM
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No one outside the niche of the "gender war" sphere on the internet cares. Like you go to a bar and talk to people, this shit isn't real, it exists on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 07:59 PM
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I hate when people say "oh TRP helped me see real world"....Like DUDE you needed a fucking ideology to figure out the real world isn't an 80's teen movie or Disney TV show? Most people realize that stuff through just going through life and maturing. It's like you still believe in Santa Clause too? You needed TRP to figure out, "Hey maybe I should make numerous social bonds and care about my appearance!" GTFO
/r/ExRedPill18/12/20 07:57 PM
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Literally Don't care. Twitch is a private company, they can do what they think (within legality) they need to do to keep the money flowing.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/20 07:51 PM
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Is the guy an asshole, or do you just think he is an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:58 PM
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Nothing is a Guarantee. Nothing, besides death and taxes. But you still wear your seat belt, still look both ways when you cross the street etc... No matter how good of a person you are, some people are just not a match for you. Could be a 100 different reasons. Also make sure you are going after people in your league.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/20 03:54 PM
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Married
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 06:45 PM
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is actually more red pill advice. The standard bloop advice is "just be yourself," even if you're a 5'4 balding 20yo man with thick glasses, bad acne, and muscular dystrophy. "Just go up to her and tell a few jokes, man. You got this." Yeah, not realistic, which is why it's bloop advice. I would argue first BRP advice doesn't exist, 2nd that too many people don't realize their are leagues, and to be realistic about what league you are are in, and don't get mad at the world if you are not in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:25 PM
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Sure, that works too after getting familiar with a woman. YES. Another Huge problem I see on this board is that people want to go from 0 to 60 in 10 seconds. Like dude, women like men with emotions, they just don't want to hear all your emotional baggage on the 1st date. These things scaffold. The first thing I might say to a women at a bar: "Hey you are really good with Karaoke, what's your all time favorite song to sing" "Really? that's really cool, I do a mean version of XYZ, I'm on next, lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:59 PM
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You just described TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:11 PM
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It's less painful than admitting where they went wrong. I would Argue the whole of TRP is based on this principle. I see 10 paragraphs essays on the defects of women...when the OP could have just really said "I'm not as good as I think I am"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 02:00 PM
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The Number scale is stupid. Like I know myself, I know generally what women I have attracted and will attract and find attractive. I married one. TRP says things like "women want hot guys" and acts like it was some sort of Mystical Revelation only they have concluded. Like no Shit, and Guys want hot women. It works both ways on numerous roads across a vast spectrum with tons of variations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:31 PM
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average with average partners Birds of a feather flock together. Most people end up dating/marrying someone in their ballpark in terms of looks and socio-economics status. You might seem some variations, but it's rare and very specific (celebs and athletes etc.) If people just understood and accepted this point, then we would all be a lot better off. Instead we have things like TRP who convince basement dwellers and socially stunted men that it's women's fault they are not pulling in 10/10 super…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 01:56 PM
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How is some random person going to know that? Showing you can do the small stuff can is one indicator that you can do bigger stuff. We are visual creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 06:05 PM
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Literally the most superficial of superficial bullshit. If you can't do the easy small stuff, what makes me think you can do the hard stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 02:15 PM
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Now? Always....kids used to stuff themselves into Telephone Booths and eat live Goldfish for fun in the 50s for one small example. The biggest song of 1969 was not from the Beatles or Stones, but from a Fake band based off a Cartoon. Sugar Sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 02:05 PM
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Yes your explanation is devoid of critical thought. Its a spoof, its totally being presented as tongue in cheek, and its totally being presented as a joke. The fact that its "serious" is the joke. Thats the humor. Thats why a movie like airplane worked. Leslie Nielson played it straight. Thats what was funny about it. Its just way over your head, or you have a hard time getting certain types of humor or meta thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 02:58 AM
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KFC did the same thing with the WWE, they sponsored skits of a fake wrestling promotion from the 80s. Its was meta and ridiculous and funny, much like this. Its a viral spoof, much in the vein of not another teen movie or scary movie. I can't believe you took it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:53 AM
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Has this friendship benefited you in a way that same sex friendship haven't? I have many female friends...I can't really think of ways they have benefitted me differently? Has a friend ever tried to make sexual/romantic advances on you? No, can't really recall any. Have you ever felt attracted to your friend? Sure, but in the same way you might be attracted to a celebrity. Never really interfered with the friendship Do you stop hanging out when any of you gets into a relationship? No, double dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 07:02 PM
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There are many many posters here who I wonder if they actually get out of their house on a regular basis or even have baseline social skills and interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 06:57 PM
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I don't think ANYONE would say a oneitis is a good thing. I don't know why you need TRP to tell you that.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/20 04:33 PM
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Burning down my house got ride of my mice problem.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/20 09:51 AM
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oh yeah, Wedding Photographer basically gives you marching orders the whole day in terms of how to pose. These guys are on top of it.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 07:57 PM
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can't hold a conversation with them outside of work/school topics So is that there fault or yours?
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 07:31 PM
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ahh the mgtow cult, where they spend 90 percent of thier time ranting about the thing they claim to have left behind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:05 AM
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and if all women were more united she should have won more!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 10:06 PM
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thats why Hillary Clinton Won the election right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 04:52 PM
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Trp value Which Are?
/r/ExRedPill25/11/20 02:19 PM
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I am 19 too People Know shit at 19. I knew Shit at 19. Just live your life devoid of cults.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/20 02:19 PM
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“the sisterhood” This is social media crap that gullible people buy into. They see one "you go girl" meme and they think all women are united. hahahahahah. How stupid is that? Just look at the varying opinions women have on abortion, one of their most important rights and a battleground issue. Red Pillers see monsters under their bed and make up things to lay blame on. All women are in a sister hood! That's why all women voted for Hilary right? Or women are all united and are the majority in the…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/20 01:47 PM
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“this is how it is” as proof. You know how many posts in PPD start with "We all know that XYZ" and the conclusion is some sort of stupid generalization that has no basis in reality? I sometimes will try to debate or chime in but it becomes apparent you are talking to someone who really never has had any substantive interaction with the real word. Or has had one bad experience (from thier POV) and does not know how to emotionally handle it.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/20 01:42 PM
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I've always had a inkling on this, my boomer father would point out "wierd" kids he knew growing up (like if we drove past them on the street), the way he described thier behavior ....most likely would be diagnosed with autism or aspergers today instead of just being the "wierd" kid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:49 AM
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The World is organized chaos. Bad things happens to good people....blah blah blah. Women Cheat....so do Men! It all happens....so you could live your life like their is a ghost in every closet or you could live life with an open mind and judge people as individuals, Because we all are!
/r/ExRedPill20/11/20 01:32 PM
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how so ?
/r/ExRedPill12/11/20 10:26 PM
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Yes! also it gives them a out. Like I need a women to love me unconditionally despite all my flaws. Sorry I thought TRP was about self improvement?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 02:07 PM
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Let's get one thing straight - ALL romantic love is conditional. One of the Many many hang ups of The Red Pill, They complain women don't love unconditionally, but the idea of unconditional love is a fallacy. They portray themselves as so logical, yet buy into the concept of unconditional love. I love my wife, but if she cheated on me, I don't think that love would still be there and vice versa. Love is conditional. And that's OK and normal. Love is also very complex, much like a mother can stil…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 12:49 PM
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Because most happy normal couples are not vocally and visually fighting over various platforms and making headlines. the News doesn't report on the tons of normal couples that live their life everyday without anything major happening, they report on the one offs...the exceptions they out of the norm....How many happy couples do you scroll through on Facebook but only stop when you see drama in someone's status?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:20 PM
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What ?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 04:01 AM
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Its a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:43 AM
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Those women are nuts. But the VAST VAST majority are not. Some men want to fuck dead bodies, but the VAST VAST majority do not. Do you judge men on the actions of a few fetishist who fuck dead bodies? No you don't. Red Pill wants STATS, but then ignore that a serial killer getting a couple of dozen letters vs the 165 MILLION Women in the US means that those dozen of letters means SHIT.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/20 01:43 PM
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Social circle stuff has always been underemphasized by RP, probably because its hard/impossible to be prescriptive about, and the payoff can be very long term. But approaching in a warm context is way way way easier. Basically one of the many problems with RP is that they eschew Social Circle Stuff for Cold Approaches. I have a few theory's why.... Many of these men don't have strong social skills to support a good social circle. I'm going to guess also a lot of men with strong social circles do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:39 PM
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you forgot "every girl that won't have sex with me" !
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:41 PM
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hahaha what planet do you live on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:37 PM
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If a Random Convo on Reddit makes you want to MGTOW, you need to think about your fragility.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/20 01:02 PM
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