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Realistically though. Let's sit and think here for a second. What obese,disgusting vial males are with these ridiculous standards for women ? I've not seen one. I see fat ugly people with other fat ugly people. You see trashed out crack or meth addicts with other fellow addicts. The only thing that can sway the attractiveness of a male on a larger scare is the size of the money that comes with it (which history has shown to be true time and time again)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:08 AM
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Same dude. Like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:05 AM
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I love how the answer to this guy's problems is random people's anonymous messages on a board on the internet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:41 PM
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Because they know they're making money by targeting people that have no chance? It's weird and done to target marginalized people. Definitely not a red pill, I'm a realist. I don't care if women WANT to do that I'm just empathetic to people who are targeted and drained as a result of it. It's systemic targeting just like guys going to asian massage parlors for happy endings. It's predatory and usually targets people who are inferior physically or have a lower general intelligence. Good looking g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:21 PM
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Not sure what the front page is so no, I can't say that I do know what you're alluding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:34 PM
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Hate how people just take individual pieces of an entire point or quote to make some weird position on it. There's a reason the post was made in it's entirety and needs to be read and interpreted as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:02 PM
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Followed by This is why you should never consider a LTR with ,.... Read the entirety of the post and don't make it a singular issue that you want to disect. If they would have thought thay BPD is the singular issue then they wouldn't have put anything about of or porn starts with BPD or being with them. You're making something out of nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:58 PM
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Again, their connection and flirting with men gives them a distorted idea that these women would find them attractive or be with them when they only want the money. I've had a couple female roommates 2 years back who did OF work and the way they constantly engaged with these men and egged them on to spend more money so they get more interaction time is predatory. A mentally handicapped guy literally got this girls picture tattooed on his body because of the connection he felt with her based of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:55 PM
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I'm sure there are? They said to be weary of those who do sex work and they're functionality. Which is probably why he specifically mentioned that line of work. I never saw them say all people with BPD are dysfunctional. Did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:52 PM
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It says more about me observing that behavior targeting people than it does of them taking advantage of people? Wonder how you got to that assumption lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:50 PM
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Not demonizing it just saying to be wary of it. I don't think I'd want to add a psychological disorder to my life to deal with as well. Just like I wouldn't want to add a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:41 PM
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They definitely manipulate people by engaging with low value and unattractive men with personal chats and engagement making those men feel like they would ever have a chance. It's predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:40 PM
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Juice isn't worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:52 AM
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Much of the "evidence" is based on incomplete and not verified information. When tested again people's results can vary dramatically. It's a laughable representation and shame people believe any of the psuedo science. It's again a horoscope for linked in profiles. Good luck with your program tho and you can believe whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 08:53 PM
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Especially not with Yes/No definitive answers to complex questions. There are far too many variables for it to accurately measure anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:30 AM
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With absolutely no real psychological basis or true measurement. It's 93 questions and has zero credibility and no respected psychologist or professional people take it seriously. Props to them for still making 20+ million a year off psuedo science though. The human is far too complex to simply be labeled in such a binary measure. Jung even admitted this. What kind of test actually asks a question with only two baseline definitive answers? Do you sympathize with people? Yes or no. That's it. Psy…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 01:30 AM
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Eh I would give you some credibility but you cite the Meyers Briggs personality test as metric to measure which is troublesome. The Meyers Briggs is the the equivalent of checking your horoscopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:35 PM
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Character flaws don't really drive sexual attraction especially at a first or second notice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:32 PM
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Can you just delete the post at this point admins?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:38 PM
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I've obtained quite a bit before I'm married anyways and the thought of that somehow being up for grabs after a marriage is a big no for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:41 PM
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That pre nup tho 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:53 PM
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Even if the woman is doing it as a source of income? By her own choice? How would that be any different than energy and money spent on a relationship versus just money spent for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:45 AM
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Prostitution is essentially legal. Have you been on Tinder? All it takes is a relative cheapy $120 meal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:44 AM
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So then you're accepting getting a very small biased amount of information and use it in addition to non anonymous social media platforms to have a better understanding? Or does the little expose you have here shape your thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:33 AM
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Seemed to be very all men are bad with extreme generalizations. Not sure what a scrote is in this context however.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:47 PM
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You think Reddit is the defining factor of what men as a whole think of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:41 AM
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A lot of it is female bashing though lol. Just like the FDS is anti men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:40 AM
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I'm sure people think the same about plastic 40s of "premium" malt liquor in their hands too. Do whatever you want to do but I don't think I'd set the bar so low. But up to you entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 05:23 PM
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Absolutely not. For me. You can do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:57 AM
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Does it change if it's just a hookup? Which is essentially the begining of every date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:00 AM
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She honestly 1 female would get piped down by 1 male with out any real interest in anything long term. This happens repeatedly, driving up her self worth tim she has to settle with man 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:58 AM
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How fat was the second woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:57 AM
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Baggage. Excess overweight baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:54 AM
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Is diet coke ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:36 AM
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Most men would take sucking a dick well over a personality though.. so there's that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:27 AM
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It's a luxury I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 12:25 AM
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Correct focus on yourself. But if you find someone doing something you already enjoy or even always wanted to but never did then it's going to work much better than online swiping
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:06 PM
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Then find ways to interject yourself into group things. There's group wine tasting, food events, small community events fairs fundraisers, there's literally so much. If you just sit scrolling on tinder you're not gonna get that dopamine release you're looking for. There's so many bot accounts on there and ego stroking people with their social medias on there looking for clout. Pro tip, avoid that shit. Get involved in your community, take some classes you've always wanted to, go get a motorcycle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:07 PM
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It's a part of it. But even crack or heroin addicts are married and have women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:04 AM
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So if you ask me what the "young"women you're looking for and seeking do versus the ones I see it's going to be completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:15 AM
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Maybe it's archaic text based forum guys? They're generally a lot less attractive and interactive as a whole which is why they prefer anonymity. Not saying there aren't exceptions but if you think about it for a second it makes a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:10 AM
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And he has to know that without it being disclosed upfront or he gets ghosted or written off for the next dude in line. Welcome to the hunger games!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:49 PM
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Well the FDS pic verification releases didn't show us anything did it? Or how did that work out again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:27 AM
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Pre nup bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:34 PM
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And you can absolutely guarantee what the majority of them look like too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:04 PM
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Friends I went to highschool and college with actually. We had just went opposite directions to different schools. Linked back up a few years later, occasionally stayed in contact through Facebook you know how it is. Yeah I'm 6"4 258lb white dude right getting a wee bit thickening for the winter, intentionally of course. I normally carry about 228-235. You're right though most people don't use traditional methods. But you know what attractive women are absolutely tired of because they've been su…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:00 PM
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Friends of friends. We actually lived less than 10 miles from another growing up in middle and high school. We had actually known all the same people growing up but had never crossed paths. I went to California for some years then came back after Germany last year. Bought a house, met some friends, she was there and we continued talking from there. I actually locked it down before I even flew back to close to business after I bought the house. Haven't looked back since. I've had a few experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:40 AM
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Any of the interests or hobbies you have outside of work. I try to not shit where I eat (work). We've all been there it doesn't work out well. Girls at the club ate getting hit up all fucking night by dudes tryna smash. An you think that's the in? Come on bro. Go take a fucking dancing class or something, get involved with your community
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:41 AM
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Why are you even basing your overall metric of success on one shit app? Like dude. I know you go places, you go to the gym, you run, you've got hobbies and work. You're telling me you are just waiting for a 7.5-9 on tinder to just go with that? Like she wouldn't have already statistically had a million other options due to the nature of tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:55 AM
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Then stop relying solely on tinder? Ask yourself this. Would your ideal candidate be someone who's also window shopping for hot ticket items on a platform that's almost exclusively for hooking up?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:53 AM
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I've only ever been in a club once and It was a gay men's club with some female friends. Totally not my scene. But I don't live that kind of life so I'm not bothered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:51 AM
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I'm not telling you to settle I was telling you to stay in your lane. I have a very hard time believing that you are as "perfect" or normal as you make yourself out to be. I mean have you SEEN some of the best ass crusty fat dudes who still pull women? I don't no man, something is definitely keeping them at bay. Or you're just endlessly scrolling online hoping to find your match which is a dismal way of ever expecting something to work. He if that's the case maybe your pfp is shit.. there's some…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:49 AM
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You're creating a whole story based off something I never said.. if women want a better quality person then recognize it and stay in your lane. If you had more to offer you wouldn't have the issues you're having. I'm glad tucker Carlson and Jordan Peterson are the truth beacon that determines everything for you. I suggest you stop looking to what other people are telling you and look at what you actually offer. Are you attractive? Likely not or you wouldn't have issues. Ok then stop trying to pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:56 AM
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Probably cause a lot of creepy ass nasty men have gone up and tried harassing women or cat calling them making them feel uncomfortable. Can you really blame women for not wanting to run up to engage or DM you when they routinely get slammed with dick pics and crude messages?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:28 PM
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Wait you're saying guys don't have guys nights? I've seen plenty of women approach men, hang out with men and my friend groups a pretty healthy mixture of women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:47 PM
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Get some money and your chances increase substantially.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:46 PM
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Could the same be said of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:11 PM
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I didn't realize a subreddit board actually qualified as a meme by today's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:42 PM
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So being at the home raising a child and teaching them isn't a form of payment for their services?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:27 PM
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Stay at home parents chose to raise their kid. The SO pays the bills. There's literally not slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:52 AM
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Ok? So it exists. And it's no slave labor. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:27 AM
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It's not unpaid labor dude. It's a choice for mothers or fathers to stay at home at raise their kid. In what world do they not get anything out of that? Cool glad some people don't like em. Never said it was for everyone.. it's a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:21 AM
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The girl boss thing is mainly used my MLM pyramid schemes taking advantage of lower income single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:09 AM
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Traditional SAHM relationships exist fine. There's no need for the word slavery to be used when a mother stays at home and raises the child. You think they're doing it for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:05 AM
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That's another downside of these cheap filler foods that lower income families have begun to rely so heavily on. They're extremely calorically dense and have a bunch of fillers and cheap by products that your body can't process and metabolize leading to increased weight gain. Look at our life expectancy now a days. We are going down. The biggest downfall in generations.. modern factory farming and bulk shit food is to blame. Polyunsaturated fats have literally been absolutely killing people. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:01 PM
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Well that's good to hear! I was a small guy my whole life so it was a different process for me putting on weight when I got into BB. I was 6'4 175-180lbs so I was stick thin. We've all got our own issues and I currently help train people to workout or eat healthier or get started trying to make changes. Admittedly it's usually the younger kids "tryna get big like you" which I feel is largely due to the stigma of weight lifters and bodybuilders and how they're all jerks. At this is points it's mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:24 PM
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Hell I was in a very different place emotionally and mentally when I first saw my girl almost two years ago. I wanted to be up front and honest with her about some of the things I was still dealing with. I didn't put the best version I put the true version. It hasn't been easy but I don't know how it ever could be. But as a general nicety I wanted to present myself in my current state. I've only ever edited one picture (mistakenly) and it was just a light filter. I wanted to be 100% because it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:55 PM
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You can manage to go out to Thanksgiving dinner and not get fat. Self control goes a long way. You can DEFINITELY eat at the event but it's about how much of what you're eating. Will 4oz of turkey make you fat? Nah but 5 slices of pumpkin pie and you're on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:50 PM
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I don't see anything anyone else said. For the record I wasn't asking another person either we were having a discussion were we not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:10 PM
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I'm literally replying to your exact anecdotal experience that you claim as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:40 PM
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"most women's dating issues come from the fact" would be a good place to start. Followed by some wild personal experiences that you use to judge every single man and relationship they may or may not have without anything factual to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:08 PM
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The same could be said on feminist pages and all women only pages. I'm not really quite sure what you're trying to say here. That people on here are in the same general mindset? Weird it's almost like the dog groups I'm in or investment groups focus on those singular things too. Similar interests. You'll get biased results if you look to one source as validity for "all men". It's literally the least reliable, least logical conclusion to view one subset of data and establish it as fact. I don't u…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 05:00 PM
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How would you know if they had money before you told them no? Or are you just saying people openly flaunt their wealth before hitting on you? Which would be a very small sunset of people who don't really have money but think they do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:57 PM
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I wonder how you can really sum it up to just most women's dating issue is apparently a man's fault for people liking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:54 PM
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Could I also make fun of women who didn't fit the needs category for me whether they are overweight, obnoxious or just a lame duck? Or would I be the bad guy for avoiding them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:53 PM
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But you're also experiencing relationships with those men and women on entirely different levels right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:16 PM
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No. Not my cup of tea to read easily disproven things. You gonna ask me to read the red pill handbook next? Someone literally did the other day on here. Albeit I only read about 7-10 pages it's up in my office and I haven't had the time to go back. Certainly didn't hold any interest or I would've made time I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:36 AM
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Again not even sure what that is. So I probably won't. I'll at least look it up out of morbid curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:34 AM
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I mean if that's your takeaway from this sub sure. How does a potential female identity as a LVM then? Or were you just assuming?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:22 AM
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Damn that's an interesting view point on life. Not saying you're wrong just interesting. If the love of your life, a person who made you feel better and more loved and worthy than anyone else in your life left you if you were suddenly unable to perform sexually interest them would you feel any different being on the other side of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:56 AM
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He didn't say anything about himself. One single time. I don't even know what lvm means but him making an observation and posting it on a message board doesn't really indicate anything. If I made a post about slavery or modern day racial inequality does that mean I support it? If I look at a population or ethnicity and their crime rate from a numbers perspective and make an analysis based on that data set am I suddenly racist? I'm not even seeing him say anything about his own misfortunes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:53 AM
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Would you defend a man having the same view point that a women should be able to around him and not be unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:26 AM
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How is making an observation of the way things go indicate him initiating some sort of strategy to make women feel less valuable? Is he not allowed to voice his opinion on what's he's observed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:23 AM
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I'll bite. Let's see how this one pans out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:22 AM
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Got dam that'd savage lol. Would you have left him if he was in a tragic accident and lost all feeling from waist down too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:09 PM
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That's not true at all. Either sex can have higher or lower libido. I can 100% confirm that it's not a blanket men want it more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:08 PM
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Sure. For example my girlfriend is finishing her master's working full time and often commutes the 1:15 drive to see me and my dog, usually on weekends. She's coming from a rural country area to the city if you will. She's been quite busy (most of it done now she's set to graduate this December) and I literally live 4 minutes from work and drive a company vehicle. So I've been doing more in my extra time that I have as she's working on extra hours or finishing her presentation to be delivered or…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:30 PM
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Well I was let down more than I thought. It was just RP sub but with just women casting a negative light of all men who ever existed. Which is kinda of ironic. Ah well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:30 PM
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Oh I can see that working out poorly. But I'll take a look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:10 PM
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I'm fucking with you bro. Hope you got some sort of connection or way to reach out. I saw dudes scanning QR codes for Snapchat and shit and a dude even did it on a high school bus to cheerleaders haha.
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:58 PM
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I wonder how they'll respond to this one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:50 PM
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I can't even find any thing about that but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:48 PM
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Well if I knew what FDS stood for maybe I could give an answer. I think the meaning of the acronym is my use in life is likely very different than what you're wanting it to be here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:18 PM
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I'm not sure you understood but my entire point here had been that you likely wouldn't be able to tell out the start they were RP. my entire point with the other individual is that a lot of people don't just open to release everything on the very first date. I was asking more what their expectations were for opening up vs being labeled as not opening up or caring enough early on in the relationship. Would you say that women can be RP? If they don't get attached and open up the same way I do it o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:00 PM
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Someone out up some bible verses too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:31 PM
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What would make you think I know that? I asked a question. Which indicates I don't know. But I do know it's foolish to assume that everyone would align with one exact particular set of beliefs and every certain instance in that belief system. If you're taking things slowly to avoid a heart break it doesn't make you a red pill or whatever psychotic label you'd like to throw at it. You can't just set exact standards for every single relationship and way it's conducted because there are too many va…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:31 PM
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Through page 15 so far. Interesting frame work but I don't necessarily see any issues with it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:51 AM
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It's too easy to blame feminism for our troubles. Men, our happiness is our responsibility. Culture has always shifted, it's dynamic and fluid. It has never and will never stay still. Feminism was inevitable. Equal rights are something I strongly am in support of. For men and women. Women have the right to pursue happiness. Nobody should tell them otherwise. Maximizing happiness is the goal of every living creature on this planet. Men, we need to recognize that since women are rightfully seeking…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:33 AM
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Shall I read the first or second edition
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:30 AM
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I don't know what the red pill "says" or prescribed. Like every thing else there are probably varying levels to how wrapped up someone is in something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:40 AM
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Nope. Every person can be evil and do the most wicked things even if they "love" someone. I don't know how spells have anything to do with people's behavior. Every person on earth has done something that is bad or wrong to someone. It's inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:11 AM
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Sounds incredibly dangerous lol. I'll just keep doing what's been working well for me which is not disclosing my entire life on day one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:06 AM
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So you just open up every thing to every person right off the bat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:03 AM
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Nope. I don't think I would even know enough about it to identify as such. I'll see if I can find the link but I'm sure it's some sort of weird crazy version of beliefs like most radicalized things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:19 PM
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I didn't know those things were required in the beginning. I take it as something that comes with time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:17 PM
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Well I didn't even know there was a manual or process necessarily but have been called a red pill based on the way people (mis) interpret what I've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:43 PM
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Not at all . As I pet my extremely hairy long coat Shepherd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:41 PM
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90% of reddit community spends vast amount of time online not going outside lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:39 PM
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I don't think there is a certain set standard for trp. Like you can't just generally label someone as ALL of those things if they only believe or act on some of them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:28 PM
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So someone who's not willing to completely open up to people they don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:26 PM
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Awalt?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:24 PM
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I feel the same way about the feminist subs here. Actually most reddit is kinda shit in a sense of what boards were originally created for. I follow very very few now as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:24 PM
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But is that particular belief of assumptions linked only to red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:21 PM
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I fall in line with the Merriam Webster definition personally. I'd like to see the draft extended to women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:19 PM
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Which definition of feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:21 PM
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What exactly would be RP stuff? Or what is your idea of statements or beliefs that would be RP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:19 PM
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Would you get into all that before you had a relationship? Or what you would define as a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:16 PM
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I did get banned from the feminist sub for citing the Merriam Webster definition of feminism and was told I was just an MRA. Which is weird that I was promoting equality across the board. Ah well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:15 PM
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Seems like a huge generalization. Wouldn't an educated red pill not disclose they were red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:14 PM
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Damn you was paying for him all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:36 PM
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Marriage is a trap for most men. Pre nup all the way kings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:35 PM
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Guess everyone gets a fair shot at it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:02 PM
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But if he was ugly as fuck be wouldn't even get the chance to show he was nice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:51 AM
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Which isn't what was asked here. But that's the typical answer people look for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:49 AM
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*she and by stopped i mean started crying and sobbing so that quickly killed it for sure. but i certainly didnt pursue after that for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:30 AM
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Why would I be upset when i stopped it? she wanted to continue but i felt weird. She was apologizing like it was her fault. But if I'm not qualified to deal with that is it fair to me or her to stick around and deal with her traumas? I'm not licensed in that capacity and don't exactly want to just be some rebound or counselor.. she should handle that with someone who is qualified right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:29 AM
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Why would I be upset when i stopped it? she wanted to continue but i felt weird. She was apologizing like it was her fault. But if I'm not qualified to deal with that is it fair to me or her to stick around and deal with her traumas? I'm not licensed in that capacity and don't exactly want to just be some rebound or counselor.. she should handle that with someone who is qualified right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:56 PM
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I was with someone and we were having sex She initiated She stopped suddenly and said she was the victim of sexual assault. We didn't finish but am I in the wrong for not wanting to be her therapist and deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:37 PM
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Becoming a two income and still poor household tho. So we need to be opposed to monogamy, for the sake of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 07:55 PM
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How much you love someone wouldn't be Relevant in the begining of a relationship tho would it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:18 PM
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Doing the world favors when i can. You probably have some underling issues tho. Weight related?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:11 PM
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You also can't say someone would "deal with their emotions properly" if it was a scenario or set of circumstances they hadn't dealt with previously. Ie an rvent happening in your relationship or with close friends or family that hasn't occured before. If you just shut down from a family member dying i wouldn't exactly say the response to that would be that person not learning to "deal with their emotions properly". It's either incredibly vague, subjective or something that isn't a normal behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:20 PM
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Uh I'd say there are larger issues if someone doesn't have basic politeness and has issues cleaning up.its worth noting that men and women have different standards of cleanliness. But your emotions are a learned adaptive process. To say that men are dating someone just to learn emotions seems strange. It's almost like it's perceived that women have their emotions learned and understood and men don't. Which again is a learned process so it was either through therapy or past relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 07:16 PM
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Teaching someone to be an adult in what context then? Seems vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:05 PM
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So you make the conscious decision on whether or not you'd have that person's child before ever go on the date? I guess that portion that are just focused on families, yeah, that could apply. But I've got several friends and co workers who wanted to finish their degrees and be well established before they ever wanted to settle down and focus on a family. I just fail to see how anyone could be realizing they would consider someone marriage material or potential parents before you even start seein…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:04 PM
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Military wife is the first wife. The practice wife. Then the dependa smell mskrs you a smarter man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:01 PM
3

On that same token if you felt ill or under the weather or were cramming hard for finals or promotion at work would you want to desire you partner to do more to take care of you during that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:56 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:03 PM
4

By choice or?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:50 PM
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I don't have s political alignment. I don't vote there's too much corruption in anything above local levels. I'm sorry you don't like the fact that lower income people have horrible spending habits and with less addictions they light on fire or drink. I am generally sympathetic to people who actually want to do better tho. I've helped many lower income people find ways to get extra money from investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:41 PM
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Ok how is that keeping you from making money? You know that government assistance that we got in one payment from covid? You have any idea or ball parks of what you could've gotten in return on investments? If you have poor spending habits that's on you. I've lived in Cali Texas and Arkansas. Broke people in all those places always has dish and/or direct TV. Think what they could've done for their families if they actually bought something worthwhile with it. It invested it. Ah well, people lowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:26 PM
1

So now it's ok to compliment someone's clothing? That seems incredibly sexist and discriminatory to people who may not have access to nice clothing. You're also quite literally contradicting yourself by saying you don't have a seperate threshold but then you would do something different if they were old? That's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:01 PM
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I wonder where you draw the line for compliments, especially ones tens of decades old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:43 PM
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Ate you saying only you interpretation of comments is acceptable? Despite having different backgrounds, ethnicity and ways of being genuine or nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:42 PM
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The amount of cash in your pocket (or airline tickets or keys to a new car, etc) always determines if they can leave tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:41 PM
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Why don't you just make more money? That's literally the equalizer. You ugly? Get money. You fat? Get some extra money. You know how many fat old receding hairline men have banging hot young chicks on their boat? Stop being broke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:25 AM
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Oh I've had more than my fair share fellow Reddit person. I just don't want to risk it cause it's not worth it to get something i can't wash off. Being open and direct about your sexual history and potential STDs should really be of higher importance. Again, it's not worth the risk with some floozy random to get something or get trapped with a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:36 AM
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Gross. They probably getting ran through raw. This is why I ask for std paperwork before i take it anywhere. Ain't catching me slipping up or her tryna draw child support out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:18 PM
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Eww you're saying women got a lot of STDs. That's why I don't smash without a recent steed panel. Ain't paying for food to end up getting syphilis
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:03 PM
1

In that one specific example of Sodom and Gomorrah yeah God smoked em. But then he also killed men women and children all over the gloob with the flood. And then just kinda glazed over the whole crusades period of people maiming and killing people in his name. Sounds like a stand up dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:52 PM
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Again, no idea what you're on about..i specifically mentioned rape and incest in the bible and your analogy was marriage?.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:15 PM
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If you're talking solely about monogamous marriage, then it's quite different. If that's what you want to solely focus on. Clearly rape and incest as I mentioned are not signs of that however. So I'm not sure where you're trying to go with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:10 PM
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Single mothers tend to mostly feel that way, cock is good, need cock all the time. Protection? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:41 PM
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People weren't smashing before? How much rape and incest was in the bible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:39 PM
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If you have to change who you are as a person you've likely got bigger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:36 AM
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So you're speaking solely out of the college realm. Well I'm sorry you're not a bro Chad, but once you get through this phase you're going to have better options. No one wants to be treated like a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:33 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:14 AM
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I fucking hate reddit. Y'all are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:47 AM
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I've yet to speak about his level of "appeal". Just that he put in work and the end results are dramatized. That's it. Everyone is entitled to their standards and what they want. No one is arguing that. His standards likely aren't the same as yours either. An there's nothing wrong with that. I'm not sure how you're interpreting me saying he put in work (likely didn't do AAS) and dramatized the photo is telling you how you should feel about it. But hey that's on you 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:28 AM
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He does look significantly healthier now than before. 45% of what you're seeing there is the pose, pump and lighting however. Which is a whole other issue of fitness on social media and "drastic changes" from diet results. Guarantee he doesn't walk around looking that way, he's got a pump and water intake was cut 2-3 days before this photo op to make it more appealing. But hey, whatever sells right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:15 AM
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You quite literally said 7 words that indicated your level of care or desire was based on just a number. It's not my fault you were intentionally vague in an online forum where people were commenting what they find appealing and don't. Now if you would've included any thing else, like you did here, then your answer would've been significantly more clear. I'm not a mind reader when the post and comment thread was about what people want or don't want in a partner and you chose to say it's about bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:13 AM
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There's not really any indicative signs he has used ababolics during those three months. He over came multiple barriers and did what people seem to think is hard to achieve. When in reality he just set goals and was accountable with his actions and diet. Wish more people would take care of their bodies we only get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:59 PM
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You said body fat did you not? So you like skinny low body fat. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:21 PM
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So skinny malnourished tweaker look is attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:23 PM
1

That's a shame he put a lot of time and effort to be comfortable in his skin and change his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:20 PM
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Is that kinda like makeup, tummy tucks and breast implants?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:18 PM
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Gravity catches up to the bigger ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:55 PM
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Abs are a no go?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:41 PM
1

I feel like you hijacked my brain and spoke what I've been feeling. Props
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:07 PM
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Strangely straight people get called homophobic for having that preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:10 PM
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Yikes. Someone doesn't realize how common birth control and contraceptives are now. Surface level analysis of a bigger issue leads you to a shit conclusion. Congrats tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:59 PM
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That's why consent is important. I know what i have to offer and i don't hide behind a front to get what i "want" which is more than just a warm body. Sexual compatibility matters greatly in a relationship to me. I don't exactly want a bag of flour it just someone who's not into it. I'm not overtly sexually active, probably 2-3 a week now with my current girl. Been seeing each other for 18-19 months maybe. There have been a week or so without it and one point it was over a month due to some thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 05:48 PM
2

Could you stop being poor then? Like. I'm not sure how the majority of people making less than 1k/mo is more than you earn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:58 PM
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The guy on the left looks weird af tho lol. Bubble head
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:42 PM
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The biggest marker for e thots is the "connection" messaging these 2-3 rating males when they're a 9.5 female. Gives them a false sense that they're cared about. It's honestly predatory in nature and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:16 PM
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Absolutely Rekt. I can see the toe tag from across the lane mate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:48 PM
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