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1	What the hell is wrong with me? How can I fix myself? Maybe you might find an answer to what is happening to you through my similar experience but from a guy perspective. When I was young, my father used to be absent and I used to ask my mother all the time why my father is not home, doesn't he love me. And as children, emotional survival is the most important need. So if we don't get the necessary nourishment, we create our coping survival mechanisms to avoid the suffering that comes from this emotional starving. What I did was I completely detach…	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/19 01:55 PM
3	How do you get into a hookup then (in a non-toxic way)? What you're going through is just a symptom of a much deeper issue and possibly traumas that made your self esteem super low. All this tinder stuff and just trying to sound or look desirable in general won't change 1% from your deep feelings of unworthiness and your negative self image which is most likely a result of lack of emotional nourishment and unconditional healthy love from your caregivers when you were a child and probably getting bullied on top of that (which is also not their fault b…	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/19 02:22 AM
0	TRP beliefs destroying a beautiful relationship - need help Wow chill! People like you make others stop wanting to share intimate details on forums to overcome hardships in their personal lives because there is someone like you puking quick superficial judgments based on your own poor life experience. You don't even know the complexity and the depth of OP, what he had to go through in all of his life since childhood that shaped him to be the person he is today with the suffering he is going through. For God's sake! At least show some recognition and resp…	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/19 01:39 AM

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