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| 1 | Guys who don’t care about rejection what is your mindset?I’d rather shoot 1 out of 30 than 1 out of 7. | /r/seduction | 31/07/26 12:39 AM |
| 14 | Had a planned "sex-date" but she said a day earlier she gave it a thought and want to stay friendsI’ll show up and be as nice and flirty as possible and then disappear. Only way to get them to want to have sex with you again. Some girls like the chase, not always the case but I think she’s one of them. Best case scenario: you give her a nice date and leave on a high note; Second best case: you get to bang | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 01:49 AM |
| 126 | men 30+ how well do you do with younger women like 18-25?If you know ball, think you’re prime Nick Young or JR Smith, just shoot it until you catch fire or get benched. Only way to find out. Never be discouraged, always be respectful. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 01:47 AM |
| 3 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?Tinder, Bumble, single girls in the wild. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:14 PM |
| 20 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?You’re right. I was unemployed late 2022 and early 2023 and that was when I laid the most pipe lmao it’s all random and subjective Now I’m employed, even in better shape, I look younger (comments from people) and I’m on a drought | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:50 AM |
| 10 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?Bro I was 31, living at home and still would get laid every other weekend. The logistics are difficult but a girl would invite you over if she really wants to sleep with you, you guys can also book a hotel. It’s not as big of a deal as you might think. You need to be good-looking and fit though, and obviously have a personality. If personality is a bit of an issue for you, drink a shot of whiskey before a date and try not to be a simp without being disrespectful and you should be fine. Good luck… | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:46 AM |
| 17 | How to make women feel the "spark" for you?Be jacked, rich and handsome. If you’re mid, tough luck. People are gonna say “you gotta be this, you gotta be that” yada yada yada but girls will bend rules and move goal posts for men they are attracted to. If she doesn’t feel the spark after a date, she may like you but she does not LIKE you. Basically just build your life not to appease women, but to make things easy for YOU. And don’t be afraid to gamble on jokes or step on eggshells when out on a date, if she’t not into you then there’s an… | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Why were we programmed to believe that the women who played hard to get really liked us?And that’s what wrong with dating now. Now dudes think “she’s playing hard to get” when she actually isn’t interested. And women always get these dudes harassing them which makes them turn bitter which makes it difficult for us dudes lol | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 02:06 AM |
| 19 | Outside of illegal prostitution, What's the easiest way to maximise my looks, repair my reputation and finally have sex with a beautiful woman at 25?Get jacked. | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:28 AM |
| 3 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissI’ve gotten laid multiple times on first dates but these women just wanted to get laid. Women who wait to have sex (in my experience) like or are looking for something more concrete than a hook-up. Just cause you’re not getting anything now doesn’t mean you won’t later. Maybe she likes things slow, I’ll ask her if I were you. Good luck bro. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 02:07 AM |
| 7 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?You talk to her lmao Why is the phone a deterrent? If there’s packaging in your food, you’re gonna stop the packaging from letting you eat? Sometimes y’all just need to man up. Stop making excuses. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Any men in their 30’s who have or had success with dating women and getting laid while still living at home?Back in my early 30s and living at home, I was able to but only when I’m the only person in the house. Mind you, every situation is different and I was looking my best then so it was easy. Mostly, I get invited over by women as a bootycall or me and a girl I’d have a fling with will meet in hotels. I’m in my mid-30s now and living alone, the difficulty of it all is the same in my opinion, nothing changed besides the fact I can openly invite girls over. If a woman wants to sleep with you, nothing… | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 05:54 AM |
| 33 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceIf you’re not taking care of yourself and acting appropriately, that’s called voluntary celibacy. That’s what people are not getting. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Should I focus on a physical glow up (aka gym and diet) or focus more on social skills?Focus on both bro. That’s like asking us if it’s better to wash your body or your hair. You do both lol | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Why women don't chase men?If you were a multi-millionaire, I wouldn’t think you’d want to work in a McDonald’s and get paid bare minimum. That’s why they don’t. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 02:12 AM |
| 8 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayWell, after 30 minutes (a generous amount of time, I woulda left. Grow some self-respect mate. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 09:33 AM |
| 15 | What job profession have you seduced the most and why?Yea, I need answers too. The logistics don’t add up. How and when??? | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 05:17 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys balance dating with work/school/gym?Back when I was on the dating apps (really the only way I meet new people), I only really swiped while I’m shitting or in public transpo. My main priority then and now is to stay employed and I focus on my performance in races (I am a fitness/obstacle race enthusiast). If I get to match with a girl that would want to see me on the weekend then cool, if not then I’m running for 2 hours or hitting the gym. My suggestion for people who date right now is to focus on your goals whether it’d be fitnes… | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 10:20 AM |
| 2 | This girl initiated conversation and just after 4 messages she stopped replying. Any advice on what happened? My last message was because I saw on her profile that she loves travelling“Wowz” | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 11:20 AM |
| 3 | I expected jim carrey but i got a george clooneyI reckon George Clooney gets way more women than Jim Carrey. Whatever she means by this, this is a compliment to me. Clooney dates girls that are 20+ years younger than him and even though it was a bad movie, that man was and is still Batman. I’ll take it as a compliment. You’re Bruce Wayne. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 05:13 AM |
| 8 | Damn it, I saw a girl checking me out but I was too pussy to approachremember the regret, learn from it, then don’t do it again. Good luck to you! | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 04:37 PM |
| 409 | FIRST APPROACH EVEEEER!!idk man. Approaching a girl and telling her “she’s hot” right off the bat would scare lots of girls. I’d try complimenting her shoes or something first. And, it’s nice you took the shot though. Hopefully a learning experience for you. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Quick tips for combating neediness and overthinking.3, 6 and 10. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 05:57 AM |
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