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Work on yourself like gym, career and more hobbies. Be so busy taking action with things that you have no time to really think of her and just know that time heals everything. The longer time goes on with no contact, the more she will fade in your mind. Also try to remove everything that reminds you of her like social media because seeing her just keeps you attached. Oneitis is a killer man and you don’t want to feel like this forever.
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:34 PM
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I want that haha i guess i need to work on more abundance. Not gonna lie, seeing different women helps to not be attached to one chick.
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:08 PM
5

Women can also work in sex type of work and make way more money than men
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 07:15 PM
180

I hate oneitis. That shit is legit a killer to your mind and wellbeing. Like you are working but at the same time, thinking about the girl is making you lose focus. It’s torture and something that i deal with as well.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:14 PM
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Listen to them, ask questions and build off what she says. Girls love guys who listen to them.
/r/seduction10/03/22 08:46 PM
5

Attention is a woman’s currency
/r/seduction10/03/22 08:12 PM
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Haha yes almost 6 bucks a gallon here in cali
/r/seduction09/03/22 08:55 PM
1

Iv been through this experience and as my feelings and attachment got stronger, i could not stand her doing intimate things with many random men. It was absolutely destroying me mentally and financially like really bad. I couldnt focus on my own life at that point so in my opinion its not worth it and i am glad i went no contact to get over her. Put energy into finding a real girl :)
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:41 PM
17

Dont get attached, it’s the worse feeling ever knowing that ur going about ur day but in ur mind u know shes slamming other men. It sucks….
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:52 PM
3

Thank you. This is the year to take action and start getting social. I am sick of being in my room all the time.
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:54 PM
2

He would love it if u hit him up
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:07 AM
20

Bruh lifting is life man. Not just for girls but for health and longevity and plus with a solid physique you just look different from alot of people in society. Iv seen those obese old dudes in those automatic chairs just decaying and im glad i lift and keep fit. Also, after u finish gym and come outside, you feel a burst of happiness.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:08 AM
2

It’s in our blood as men. No reason to feel guilty and disgusted.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:34 PM
1

Just gotta go for it (in a non creepy way of course). Have no fear! You only live once.
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:15 PM
1

I’d rather not text and just leave all conversation for when you see each other face to face
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:23 PM
72

I wouldnt even respond cuz that will open back your feelings to her which can be disastrous.
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:12 PM
7

bruh eye contact is sooooo hard for me to do with anyone. It might just be my upbringing and anxiety :(
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:05 PM
-1

If im going a second time whether from oral or sex then i close my eyes to focus on the feel and to finish faster
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:02 AM
2

Yeah alot more free time, sleep, working out, hobbies
/r/askTRP04/06/21 04:42 PM
3

I feel you on the burn out man, i was working 10-12 hours and burnt out to. In fact, i left that job for a less pay less stress but more work life balance job. After a stressful day at my previous job, i ripped 2 deep hits and had that heart attack/stroke feeling which scared the shit outa me and after that night, i quit weed for good. You just need to have the will power and discipline to quit. Think about when you quit, your mind will be clearer and you won’t be so paranoid/anxious.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:20 AM
3

Be healthy now and hopefully save yourself from medical expenses later in your life when you get older.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 08:02 PM
3

Fully agreed here. I tried accepting open relationship and it killed me on the inside everyday. I have since got out of that situation for good.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 02:18 AM
8

It took me 2-3 years to get over a heartbreak as well. I feel numb in accepting any feelings or emotions now. I wish u the best OP
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 07:44 PM
5

Never dig through the trash
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:55 PM
2

Buzz cut with a 1 all over my round head
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:45 AM
1

Lmao. i’ve waved at a trans before thinking it was a girl but thx god i never got a blowie from one...
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:24 PM
1

Like other guys say here...get the hell outa there
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:08 PM
1

You are a good looking lad
/r/askTRP08/05/21 08:27 PM
1

Trust the gut man
/r/askTRP08/05/21 06:17 PM
3

No relationship or marriage and you wouldn’t have this type of drama and stress...
/r/MGTOW203/05/21 08:58 PM
1

I feel the same way...i am financially stable etc but some days i feel down. Idk why. Lifting and cardio helps in some way.
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 02:42 AM
9

To me it’s a waste of money and you can spend your money on something else. There is no emotional connection, It gets old quick and you could spend your time on hobbies and other productive things. Also the risk of disease goes up to. This is just my opinion.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:25 AM
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she’s not his, it was just his turn or just like when you are with a girl, she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. This is also why i don’t want to get into relationships these days cause next thing you know you about to get married or in love and suddenly find out yo girl was branch swinging, getting slammed by other guys. Total heart breaker for a guy so best to avoid that shit and save yourself the pain.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:38 AM
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Im 28 and have no friends either. It’s whatever lol i just do whatever i want to do and actually like the peace and quiet.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:38 PM
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Thinking way too deep into it lol
/r/askTRP16/04/21 07:37 PM
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You need to focus on hobbies and other things in life my man. Life isn’t all about women...you will realize this as you age. Good luck.
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:31 PM
159

Always trust your gut my man
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:24 PM
1

See multiple girls.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:13 AM
1

As men, we are the prize yeee
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:25 PM
1

As others have said here...the answer is no. You guys are not on the same wavelength or path in life so it wouldn’t workout in the long run.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:52 PM
2

Thats what i do as well man. Movie and chill. Cheers!
/r/MGTOW226/03/21 05:52 AM
7

Congrats! Thats the best man, when all the money you earn is only for yourself...i myself spent 2 years in debt cause of a chick and now i am mtgow, i took out all the debt, got a fast car, live comfortably in a nice apartment and financially stable. Cheers!
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 08:15 PM
1

Better to be fit than be normal looking like the majority of people out there. Also, lifting and exercising now will benefit your health in the long run.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 01:17 PM
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Ever since im mgtow, i’ve been feeling so good cause i can save alot of money for myself and become financially stable.
/r/MGTOW214/03/21 06:54 PM
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Dude similar situation to you. Left a higher paying high stress job for a slightly lower paying low stress job and today was my last day. It was a little bittersweet today saying goodbye to my coworkers/boss as change is coming in my life but i felt myself mentally exhausted and health was declining. I was making the money but i couldn’t sleep, was losing hair, couldn’t workout, had constant hemmaroids and just dreaded work everyday. I’m hoping the change to a less stressful job for me helps in …
/r/MGTOW206/03/21 02:17 AM
1

This! I would definitely want to learn striking though
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 07:15 PM
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I’ve been wanting to start training mma for the last 5 years but procrastinated and never got started...i need to just fking do it and sign up
/r/MGTOW204/03/21 07:14 PM
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yes you are right :)
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 10:58 PM
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I like aloneness. I have no-one bothering me and I can do what I want to do like drive my fast car which I saved up for cause I went mgtow completely.
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 04:54 PM
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I’m 27 and i’m always anxious about how my future is going to turn out and how time is flying by so fast therefore getting older. I appreciate the message OP!
/r/MGTOW221/02/21 08:41 AM
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Forget about her. Also, this is the result you get when you fully work on yourself and have no noise/distractions around you. Keep it up op!
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:23 AM
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This happened to me. Deep into my cut, i couldn’t sleep well and sex drive was really low. Once i added back some calories or a cheat meal, sex drive was back up!
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:03 PM
0

Adderall for the dopamine rush
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:02 PM
1

Could be stress or lack of sleep
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:01 PM
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No make up can make your onetis for a girl disappear
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:59 PM
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They always come back...
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:48 PM
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Hell yeah! Minimalistic is best. Keep mgtow fellas :)
/r/MGTOW226/09/20 08:20 PM
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i got pretty shredded eating 1200-1600 calories with cardio post workout and on off days as well.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 02:43 AM
7

Because over time you just realize working on yourself (career, finances, mental and physical health) is more important than sex...
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:22 AM
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If the child is yours, i wish you the best of luck in your journey in raising this child
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:54 AM
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block and delete. If you don't block and delete, then you will keep thinking about this and it will destroy you, it will make you not focus on things that are important in your life such as your FAMILY, career, money, fitness etc. your emotions and mind will be cloudy but as time goes on, you will start thinking less and less of her and more on yourself...
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:30 PM
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Just whatever job i started off with out of college to now. I graduated in finance, got a job doing sales ops, next company was sales ops again and then the company i’m at now, i’m doing commissions for sales teams. I wouldn’t say it’s my passion but whatever makes the income haha and i also like excel/spreadsheets.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:11 PM
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Trust me on this one, if it’s over for real then block and delete. Every time you go back, you restart the cycle and you suffer more. Trust me, block and delete and move on!!!! I was in the cycle for 3 years :(
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:07 AM
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Love this.
/r/MGTOW221/07/20 04:35 AM
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18 years or even more :)
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:18 AM
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If she has the baby, good luck for the next 18 years of your life.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 10:17 PM
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not worth it. It's very addicting and you can waste tons of money. Up to this present day, i am still trying to completely stop because it does not help my happiness or loneliness either... to add to this, for the past 3 years, i could've saved tons of money, paid off student loans, have no credit card debt, gotten a new car (Subaru WRX) and have alot of savings but i burned it all on hoes and massages. Now i'm in debt working my ass off in corporate to pay it all off. At this point, i need to c…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:12 PM
1

they want that young thangggg lol i think personally alot of women in their 30s love the drive, energy and libido of a 20s guy haha.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:25 PM
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1) no need to lift super heavy and get PRs, form and isolation is everything 2) diet and staple supplements (multi, creatine, fishoil, whey protein) 3) sleep 4) Cardio always post workout (if cutting, on rest days as well)
/r/askTRP18/02/20 08:38 PM
1

i just quit cold turkey and never felt better.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:56 PM
1

OP that's about as basic as it gets and includes all the staples. I take the same supplements as well. Just remember, whey protein, creatine, multi and fishoil is pretty much all you need.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 09:09 PM
6

i recall in mark manson's book, the subtle art of not giving a fuck, he mentioned that happiness comes from working on your problems everyday.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 08:55 PM
5

I had a similiar situation and when i went no contact with my ex, my life sky rocketed. When she came back, i thought my feelings were ok and we started hooking up again and at the same time, i felt my life going downhill. Back to no contact and LIFTING.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:16 PM
1

Forgot to mention, i did lift 4 times a week with post workout cardio and cardio on rest days for an hour.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:00 PM
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Honestly, i never got lean in my entire life until i hired a coach for 8 weeks. He brought my food down each week and increased cardio each week. I learned so much cause i realized the only way i would get super lean is very low calorie and cardio everyday. I suggest you hire a coach if you want further results.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:44 PM
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this!!! i noticed myself to, once i bring a girl/plate back into my life, my career and other things start suffering slowly compared to when i am on my own, things in my life work in an absolute positive momentum. things like working out, eating right, career growth, ability to go out and be more social, hobbies, time with family etc. It's like when they see you being successful and growing they come back but as soon as they see you showing some BP signs like focusing too much on them, they star…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 06:48 PM
8

one of the worst feelings is knowing the girl you love is getting railed by another dude/s. It took me a year of pain in my head, heart and body to get over that with my ex. I have been single and MGTOW every since and life has skyrocketed in my ways for me (new job, saving money, gym etc)
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 09:10 PM
1

stay incognito, go monk mode...
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:38 AM
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Fuck all this drama with women. Ima go mgtow and lift! Good luck my friend. I got out of a nasty cycle of 2 years with a hoe and i’m not going back!!
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:53 PM
2

Shredded wheat cereal, skim milk mixed with whey protein and some mixed nuts (for the testes baby please!)
/r/askTRP01/09/19 02:30 PM
2

they truly are AWALT man, hell one plate i've been fucking for almost 2 years just expressed to me she wants to do escort work. She got an immediate hard next from me, i don't care how long you've know me...
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 07:18 PM
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i used to be like this and over time whenever thoughts like that come up, i just block it out immediately. Over time, you won't care anymore because hey you can fuck other girls to. Focus on your own shit and go to the gym, i think that these things are more important than sex. In life, there are more important things than sex.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:29 PM
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no contact for a few days. they will go crazy and suddenly you get a texting saying "i'm coming over NOW"
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:42 PM
2

never hopping on steroids ever again. been off for 5 years now and i feel like i would have been different if i never started it.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:04 PM
2

this. ignoring them and not giving them too much attention.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 05:13 PM
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they always come back. i had a plate that always said things like i'll never come to your house again, let's break up, this is the last time we are having sex etc etc. You give them the silent treatment for a few days and all of a sudden you get a call/text from them saying "i'm coming over now!"
/r/askTRP24/07/19 04:35 PM
1

had me a cheat day yesterday and now i'm suffering the consequences today by reducing the extra calories from yesterday and eating 600 calories :(
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:54 PM
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soft next
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:26 PM
1

go quiet and give her no attention. she will come back.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 08:17 PM
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"she's not yours, it's just your turn."
/r/askTRP25/06/19 02:33 PM
1

keep busy and withdraw attention, guarantee she comes back.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:37 PM
1

i squeeze in short runs 3-4 miles about 3x a week to maintain my cardio.
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 08:35 PM
1

all i know is, since i started lifting again and muscle memory kicked in, i just feel indifferent to so many other guys. Also, your frame gets stronger.
/r/MGTOW05/06/19 08:19 PM
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i would be fat, out of shape and would value pussy way too much.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:06 PM
10

I am a chinese male living in the bay area and my ex who is chinese as well left me for a white guy. She was on the cock carousal way before to because i found out she was secretly working in those dirty massage parlors to make quick money. I really couldn't take it anymore and kicked her out of my place ASAP (supporting a girl who jerks off guys all day is a massive red flag). It is what it is man and i'm still trying to get over her as i had a bit of oneitis. All we can do now is really focus …
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:15 PM
2

keto diet. I swear since i've been having at least 150g of fats and lifting, yes don't forget lifting, i've had the craziest morning woods of my life!
/r/askTRP08/05/19 10:27 PM
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Senior sales analyst at a software company. Trp has made me more confident and i started lifting again.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:58 AM
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bounce outa there asap brah
/r/askTRP23/04/19 10:56 PM
5

I asked my gf if she can get tested for STD and she said that if she ends up being sick, then she is going to hire a lawyer and sue me. i'm like um what?? Not sure if it's because of that time of the month for her but women are moody and crazy as fuck. Why do women always threaten guys on everything....
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 10:20 PM
1

In my situation, that male bff would be me lol
/r/MGTOW23/03/19 06:23 PM
1

Currently fucking a girl in a relationship myself. This plate i was fucking last year leaves me cause she got a bf then after 3 months of no contact, we connected again and are now fucking 2-3 times a week while she is still living with the guy.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:39 PM
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I gave up smoking on the whole. It’s expensive and makes you lazy which hinders self growth. For instance, i would want to read at night but once i took my first hit, i would just browse youtube till bed time. It also makes me super paranoid and anxious so i’m glad i cut it off immediately.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 07:40 AM
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Marijuana makes me paranoid/anxious if i go out and it makes me do nothing but browse youtube when i’m home. I’d rather not smoke and use my time to learn stuff.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:06 PM
2

Traveling helped me alot cause it gave me a ton of new experiences.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:16 AM
2

Kinda looks like chloe kardashian...
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 03:53 PM
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That’s terrible
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 03:35 PM
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I just came back from china after 3 weeks being there and i absolutely loved it. I loved the fact that i basically blended in with everyone (im chinese as well) and i felt like i gained alot of experience as well. One thing it helped me with is, it helped me get over an ex. Any advice on how i can move there for awhile?
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 03:26 PM
3

If i think of my ex, i’ll fap. It needs to be done to not crave the intimacy you once had. It is what it is...
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 04:12 PM
3

Being high in a club makes me super paranoid and anxious
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:34 AM
3

Single mothers like that young guy
/r/MGTOW26/10/18 06:33 AM
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Can confirm. Im asian myself and dated an asian girl. In the end she left me for a white guy cause he was paying her more than me. It’s quite sad...
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 09:15 AM
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Do these couples usually work out long term or nah?
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 02:30 AM
1

I just don’t want to see dog on the menu or a dog being slaughtered. Other than that, i’m open to trying anything.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 03:38 AM
2

Well the girl i dated is Chinese and left me for a white guy so i’m guessing yes.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 03:35 AM
2

No contact with ex gf that lasted 3 months. She called me almost immediately once i sent that text.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 03:33 AM
1

High level gold diggers.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 03:31 AM
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Haha thank you! I am now using the image as my wallpaper :)
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 03:31 AM
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She told me not to contact her cause she had a bf now and i said “ok”. Next morning she asks how i’m doing, why am i in china and when am i coming back. Gotta maintain my frame and not care.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 03:30 AM
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I live with 4 people in silicon valley. Moving to cali has been the most stressful time of my life.
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 04:31 PM
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I dated a girl who demanded 10k a month and in return she would “take care of me”...
/r/MGTOW18/10/18 12:01 AM
2

Protect your wee wee my fellow bros!!
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 09:18 AM
2

When i hear my girl coworkers talking about planning weddings with their bf and i hear the price being like 40k+ and shit im like damn i never wanna get married! Imagine a divorce later down the road...
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 05:46 AM
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I went through the same shit. That shit hurt me real real bad.
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 04:36 AM
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That’s tough dude. Hope all is well for you now!
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 02:49 PM
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I had a similar situation but i slammed mine at least 30 times and on top of that received many handjobs. We cut it off cause she found a bf...sucks for me and im not sure if she remembers me
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 10:32 AM
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It’s like man jose. A 6:2 ratio of man to woman in silicon valley!
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 10:14 PM
1

Jesus, does life get complicated as a married/divorced man. It makes me scared to get married in today’s society because it feels like everything will just end in alot of pain....
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 10:13 PM
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It’s quite easy and so many people don’t understand. Wanna lose weight? Calorie deficit. Wanna gain weight? Calorie surplus. Add some exercise in there 3-4 times a week running , lifting, swim etc etc. personally i feel like running has my metabolism on overdrive haha
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 10:10 PM
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This is very very true. My fellow bros, please be careful out there. They will leave you once they find a guy with more money. Im still healing my poor heart.
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 09:51 PM
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I’m traveling in china as well! Needed a break and new experiences due to a break up where my heart is still broken. I’m currently in Guangzhou!
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 07:41 PM
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I dated one for 7 months. In the end, my heart was shattered as she left me for someone with more money. My heart is still shattered and there is not one day that goes by where i don’t think of her. So many beautiful girls and yet i can’t get interested in any of them...
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 07:37 PM
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I think i get more depressed if i do nofap...
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 12:17 AM
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mine would be texting chad when having dinner / lunch!! That shit was pissin me off. The moment i saw a kiss emoji was when everything changed...
/r/MGTOW10/10/18 04:20 AM
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When u guys go ghost, do u still post on social media even if she can still see ur stuff?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/18 05:33 PM
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I had a fwb of 7 months who told me she wanted to stop sex (started in july) because she found a potential boyfriend. She said she would still come over my house and give me handjobs and blowjobs. She is currently out of the country and iv been reading tons of helpful redpill posts. Currently i am in no contact cause she is out of the country. Do you guys think i’ll still be able to fuck her even if she has a BF? During our fwb period, iv fucked her at least 30 times with many handjobs and sleep…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 12:17 AM
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Well said. I also started lifting again after running for 7 months to purposely get skinny for a girl. I was blue pill as fuck and the chick dumped me in July. My lesson learned is to never get attached to a woman again, that shit made me feel so bad. Lifting is life.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 04:56 AM
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i can't handle this feeling either after having a plate for 7 months....
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 04:07 PM
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I got attached to a fwb of 7 months. When we “broke” up, i decided to add her coworker on social media and she found out. She got angry and jealous and started texting me a bunch of stuff about how i’m an unfaithful person and how i’m not a good person. I told her she’s not my gf, i can do whatever i want and during our fwb relationship, i didn’t say a word when u were with other guys. Next thing you know, she says she has a bf. We went from holding hands even after the break up, to her finding …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 05:45 AM
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