mcminimus Archive

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1	Why is openly questioning "what do i get out of this relationship?" only a 1-sided discussion by societal norms or expectation standards? It is not the the responsibility of the other person to tell you what they bring to the table. You need to know what they bring to your table, what you are getting out of this relationship. An example would be you are running a business and you need help. So you decided to hire someone to help you. You need to know the exact things that you need help with, what you're looking for in the employee. It doesn't make sense to have people coming in to an interview and asking them what they bring to th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 10:53 PM
1	How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex? Masturbate	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 10:47 PM
1	Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incels I find it the opposite actually. At least most men i have met that sleep around, they don't really care for a woman's body count. There are a few that woukd care, but they tend to have insecurity issues. A lot of men with high body count sleep around because they like sex. So they tend to find it exciting if the woman also likes sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 10:41 PM
2	Does Chivalry Still Work in the 21st Century? It's not going to make a woman attracted to you, but if she already liked you, and it wouod make you look better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 10:38 PM
1	Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women? Like i said. Dark traits manifest differently in women than in men. Just because a dude manifest aggression in the form of physical violence doesn't mean that that same aggression manifest the same way in a women. For a very long time, men are the standard of studying for human behavior, not only in social studies, but in medical as well. Saying "studies" showed this and that and taking it as the absolute truth for all humans is naive and shallow. Yes, manipulation is a big part. Women can't jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 01:35 AM
3	What's Up w/all this Jargon? I have not heard these exact terms in real life, but I know the concept of them exist. It's good to be educated on these terms because i can stay away from guys that use them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 06:57 PM
1	Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women? Lol you think these women don't use these damsel in distress play to manipulate a guy? Dark traits in women manifest differently than in men. You're using the behavior of guys and comparing that to women when the 2 genders behave differently. Toxic traits are not attractive to anyone by themselves. They are only attractive when dressed appropriately, which is called manipulation. Men are being manipulated everyday by toxic women and they don't even realize because these behaviors don't look "tox…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 06:50 PM
1	Women who exclusively pursue wealthier, higher-status men should accept the consequent perception as commodities, since their affection appears contingent on financial acquisition Let's say that there are the few women who are genuinely flabbergasted that their sugar daddy cheated, why do you care that they cry about it? Are you one of these dudes that can't get a beautiful woman because you're broke so now you find solice in these few women that cry about it? I mean you do what you want, but if you were genuinely asking if gold diggers know that their relationships are transactional. They know, bud. You're not enlightening anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 12:57 AM
0	Women who exclusively pursue wealthier, higher-status men should accept the consequent perception as commodities, since their affection appears contingent on financial acquisition They all know the deal	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 12:04 AM
1	Women who exclusively pursue wealthier, higher-status men should accept the consequent perception as commodities, since their affection appears contingent on financial acquisition I think most gold diggers are very aware of the dynamic. No gold diggers ever think that they are Cinderella and homeboy is Prince CHarming. They k ow what it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 11:29 PM
1	Would you date a man who has slept with 100 women? Not the most ideal past for a man that I would want. I would even say it's gross to sleep with that many people. However, if i can see through his actions that he has changed and is ready for a long term commitment, then I may consider it. However, this is just in theory. In real life, people like that don't change, so the answer would be no. If he has STDs, that's an automatic no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 11:27 PM
2	Is money really that important when it comes to relationships? If you are ok with women who are unattractive and in the same or even lower financial and social status you, they are out there. Go find those women. Im sure they will settle with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 11:22 PM
1	The only reason women have such an extreme upper hand in dating is for one simple reason - men are way hornier Yes, and?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 11:19 PM
1	Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women? Men are attracted to dark traits. That's why they have captain save a hoe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 11:17 PM
20	Do you think older women are wiser? In most cases, they are wiser than their younger self. They are not guaranteed to be wiser than a younger woman. In some cases, some people are perpetually stupid no matter the age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 11:14 PM
1	Female women, How weird is it for a guy in his 20s to have 0 experience with women and dating? Go socialize and find out. Women on here can tell you all kind of answers but it won't garantee what will happen in real life. You just have to experience things in order to gain experience. I personally don't care if a dude is a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 11:11 PM
1	What are reasons a first date didn't work out for you? LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 12:59 AM
16	Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it. Well, yes, that's true. If one person stops being attracted to the other, then it's over. This is common sense. You either address any early trouble beforehand and tackle it there and then, or you let it fester and at some point it's unfixable. This is why communication is important. You cannot let emotions such as resentment, boredom, unfullfilment etc.. build up. Both parties need to have the maturity to discuss things openly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 10:30 PM
9	What are reasons a first date didn't work out for you? The conversation didn't flow organically. It felt like the both of us were trying to force the conversation going. It was like the both of us were interviewing one another. We met at a jiu jitsu class and we practiced together a few times. In a class setting, we could talk very normally, mostly about jiu jitsu and the conversation flowed well. But on that date, it was awkward as hell. It wasn't his fault or mine, we just had no chemistry. He asked me through text for a second date and the though…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 05:55 AM
5	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… Yup, that's right	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 11:09 PM
3	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… It is the interpretation because it is the truth. And like you said, in these cases, the woman are still unhappy. The communication didn't solve the real problem, it just wasted everyone's time. The problem is not the dishes and the chore. That is just a symptom. He never had the drive to help the woman in the first place, until he stopped getting sex, and now he's concerned when his sharre of the pie is affected. He doesn't love her. He should have left the relationship right there when he sees…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 10:49 PM
1	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… The reason why a lot of these cases result in the woman still being unhappy is because the dude only helps out to get something that benefits him in return instead of helping out because he loves the woman and wanting her to feel better. I mean at this point, the relationship is already over, they just don't realize it yet and so they are stuck trying to do superficial things to try and salvage a dead relationship. If he doesnt have the desire to lighten a woman's load, he doesn't love her, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 10:21 PM
2	Do you think women should put effort into finding a partner if marriage and kids are their goal? The green light might be a direct smile, or prolonged eye contact...etc. Taking initiation doesn't always mean opening your mouth and talking first. Yes, men take initiation more, but women also do it a lot more often than a lot of men realized, because like you said, many believe initiation is obpy valid when you are the one to do the talking first. Many women let their body language do the "talking" for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 10:12 PM
0	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. Dating is the process of natural selection. Women don't want to have kids with obvious defective males. If these males find that they cannot get a date no matter what they do, then that is nature saying your genetics are not to be passed on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:17 PM
5	Do you think women should put effort into finding a partner if marriage and kids are their goal? Many women do approach men. They just may not approach men the way that men approach women. Some approach men by giving the men a green light to approach them. Some might straight up say a pickup line. Everyone is different, but yes, women actually initiate interactions much more often than you think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:58 PM
1	If young women liked younger men, there wouldnt be older men pursuing younger women. Genuin question, have you ever thought that different people have different preferences?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:55 PM
-1	The negative reactions to this man having the mildest, basic standards is proof that women is proof that men are not supposed to have standards at all and should just be happy to have any woman interested in them. Yup, this the the proof that no man should have any standard. This one video clip is the all holy definitive proof that no man should have standard. You're right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:53 PM
0	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. I will keep believing that	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:52 PM
0	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. If they can't afford professional help, or if they can't be helped by any means, then do you really think these people should procreate? If you can't take care of yourself, should you really be fucking and pumping out kids?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:45 PM
0	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. Nope. Most of these people who think that they are being themsleves are being the worst version of themselves and expecting people to love them for it. If you are constantly improving yourself then any sane person would respect that. If they don't, then they are not worth your time. People are so occupied with pleasing those that don't like them instead of finding people that will like them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:43 PM
1	What are your thoughts on 'It's how I was raised"? In cases where your action is hurting others, then you might need to re examine the way that you were raised. In most cases, if you prefer to pour milk in the bowl first before cereal, no one really cares.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:40 PM
1	Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract women If you are good looking, you will have a lot of people wanting to have sex with you regardless of gender. Finding someone who loves you for who you are and be there for you is the real flex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:38 PM
0	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. Yup, i find socializing difficult, and guess what, i still am able to find friends, and have meaningful relationships with others. If you can't do that, find professional help. Or pay internet gurus and become a whiny incel on reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:31 PM
0	There's a "What are your most controversial or unpopular dating rule/opinion" thread over at r/AskWomenOver30. What are your controversial opinion about their controversial opinions? Usally people who are very socially isolated are indeed "weird". In this case with the thread OP, porn addiction. They don't know how to socialize with others and they have messed up boundaries and delusions. Not to say that they are bad people. Some are that way because of circumstances such as abuse. However, there are some who are that way because they are off putting and rightfully so. These people usually need professional help. I personally would not want to deal with that, unless i find t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:27 PM
2	Women do want to be apprached. Women do like being approached...In the appropriate settings and if the man have manners. Too often we get cat called or followed around when we're just trying to get through the day in peace. If you must approach a woman in a random public space, have manners and learn to take the first sign of hesitation as a no and move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:10 PM
0	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. If you can't do "normal" things, you need to get help from a professional, not internet dating gurus	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:04 PM
-2	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. We really in 2023 and people haven't grown a spine to be themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:00 PM
1	What has been the reaction when you tell the person you're on a date with you're splitting the bill. What has been your reaction when you're told the bill is being split? Im a woman. It depends entirely on the dynamic of our relationship. I have dated very feminine men and honestly, I enjoy treating them and buying them gifts. I have no problem covering the bill entirely. I accepted my role as the masculine one in that relationship. I enjoy it. I have also dated "masculine" men. The ones that have asked to split the bills have always turn out to have petty and annoying character. Usually these are the ones that claim to be the "man" but don't really live up to th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:42 AM
–	Would you be ok covering all expenses for a relationship partner if they lose their job ? Im a woman and yes, i would be willing to cover the expense until he gets back on his feet. That is he needs to be actively doing sonething to resolve the problem and he needs to be appreciative of my help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:33 AM
1	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. You cannot make people attracted to you. You are either attractive to them already or you're not. Be yourself and find people that you can have natural organic conversation and chemistry with. If you find it hard to keep a conversation going and engaging with someone, you are not meant to be. Socializing is difficult for most people, not just males. The difference is that well adjusted people don't try to force a chemistry with those that are not compatible. If you don't have chemistry with a gu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:28 AM
1	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. This is just sad. Good people regardless of gender will support their partner in their time of needs. If your partner doesn't support you, they are not a good person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:16 AM
–	Women of reddit. What is your opinion on women making more of the first moves? I Don't mind persuing a man if he seems like he's on the more feminine side. I will not persue a masculine man because masculine men will pursue you if he wanted you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:14 AM
1	Would you date someone with herpes ? If I happen to love them, yes. But i wouldn't seek out someone with herpes as a potential partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:10 AM
3	What if a man is celibate for 15 years in order to work till 35, and wants to be with a woman 10-15 years younger ? You can get any age that you want with enough money. Whether those women will stay loyal to you is a different question. If you use money as bait, you will get women that like you for your money. So keep making that money because nothing else about you is keeping her here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:09 AM
8	Women don’t and never need to be accountable for their actions Never? Care to share some studies on that claim of "never"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:04 AM