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/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:44 AM
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I thought you couldn’t choose your sexuality. Well I can’t but looks like you girls can. Well women don’t like casual sex right? So what if men were like lesbians with the U haul meme would that work better for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:38 AM
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Now I’m confused I was thinking you were all over the apps now that the blight of men was taken away. But you don’t use them? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:35 AM
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See now, I would say the same about your rape claims but you wouldn’t have that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:30 AM
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But I heard that dating women isn’t easy for anyone either so yes the men are gone but so is their attention, not like women don’t have faults. Why is it nicer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:29 AM
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Well there we have it. Either go gay or die alone. The true answer to the dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:28 AM
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I mean would you admit it if I did ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:24 AM
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I’m pretty sure abortion there are 1000s of abortions every year tho. Would be tough to beat that in the U.S. you might have a point in some other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:21 AM
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How are the apps now without the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:15 AM
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Yes. But up until I trust what these women have said. I can be convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:15 AM
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That’s what I have you guys for, duh. I’m open to learning, and then using that to destroy future arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:13 AM
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No, you’re think too selfishly, the men in the sewers just like the men in the trenches do it for their countrymen not themselves. It helps empower us all. When you solve women murdering babies, I might have thought up a solution for the raping problem, but till then it might just be in our nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:12 AM
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Fair, men are dumb. But it’s apparent the patriarchy has its benefits to women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:03 AM
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Empower women by helping your fellowman and do jobs that the economy and the country needs done. Work in the trades are needed for a strong country, so women should go work in the sewers. Nah, man should take care of the kids, in fact women kill their kids at an alarming rate, men should be the ones to take over child care imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:02 AM
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Oh shit, you’re based. My bad, I wasn’t aware of your game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:00 AM
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Now I appreciate your research but here’s the problem women love to lie and complain. Are you saying women are going outside and talking to men? Taking the first move and using all those “social skills” they claim to have or are they busy sitting on social media and dating apps sifting through their DMs, talking to people and setting up dates (ones on Reddit stay alone with the cats that’s fair). If what you’re saying is true where are the women getting dates from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:59 AM
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You’re right I tell women to pay for me straight up. Dancing around like OP doesn’t get right the message across.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:55 AM
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Look around you and point out what women invented. You’ll find the answer. I can say donkeys can’t fly and point to the sky can’t I? Yes maleness comes with the good and the bad. Sorry, perfection is only for god. You would love men because their ability provides value, that’s how women think of men, “you give me your stuff and then I love you” hence a man who can’t provide value is seen as garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:52 AM
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No but that’s how society sees men in general, our lives are means to an end, women and children first. You don’t see feminist fighting for equality for the shitty, highly dangerous jobs that men dominate right? Only the cushy high paying safe office jobs. Wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:49 AM
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Women aren’t there because they found what they’re looking for. Why would I stay on Uber Eats for an hour if I already bought my food? I have seen many of my female friends use the app, download the app, add some pics, swipe the guys that swiped on them, match, make a schedule of dates and delete the app in a week or two after finding a good enough guy to date longer term. It was too easy. Thats the process for most women i believe if you can’t do that as a girl, you’re just not attractive enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:42 AM
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Good on you aye. But most women hate the very concept of paying for another living breathing male. I think 50/50 works or I can take on the horrible burden of sitting at home taking care of my kids and let some lucky woman have the freedom to work. But that won’t happen easily because men are incentivized to spend money on women to “win” them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:39 AM
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Alright good question since women can’t invent anything. No rape or murder but we live in barbaric times no food, electricity, transportation or any modern convenience. Literal jungle, fist fighting with wild animals or your best friend the bear 🐻. Or The safest time to exist in human history with all the modern conveniences you can think of. Thanks to men. Call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:33 AM
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Also OP why do you guys keep making these “please validate men or me” posts, bro women here laugh at you guys, they thirst for your desperation, do you think they care? I’m starting to believe that men needing to be proud and strong wasn’t because it was to protect them from other men but it was a defense against women. They’d sooner spit on you, then lend you a hand. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:30 AM
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Because if men weren’t the best women couldn’t be with them to get stuff from them. It’s why losers make women’s skin crawl and their eyes turn inside their head. Also maleness is giving women stuff for free. That’s essential because as we know women hate giving stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:26 AM
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That’s not how things play out in reality. There is a reason there’s a viral video of Ukrainian women sitting at tables enjoying an afternoon tea and a chat while their brothers choke on blood, buried under a pile of dead bodies. Men don’t care about men. Women don’t like men. Men like women. Women suck each other’s farts right from the booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:24 AM
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Hmm being the best at everything is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:22 AM
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I feel like they are different though celebrities and musicians don’t have the burden of showing competence like a president would need to do. The arts are easy to “fan girl” it’s not as easy to swallow when someone is just straight up better than you hence Kamala it’s hard to hate her from a woman’s perspective she doesn’t excel at anything that would make a woman feel jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:05 AM
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I think your brain has been warped. I’m telling you if a dude was single for 7 years jacking it constantly on porn and then went outside and said all the women he saw was ugly, we would all tell him he needs to quit porn and see a therapist, you’re no different. He wasn’t average if he was a 6.4, if you’re a woman and you like a guy chances are other women like him too. Women have been dating, marrying and having sex with unattractive men from the beginning of time, albeit for money and/or power…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:57 AM
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Just pay for men sometimes, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:51 AM
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Only retarded because he’s suggesting that grown adults (women) actually pay for themselves. Oh no, the travesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:50 AM
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This chart why does it seem to say that only women can experience sexual violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:48 AM
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I think they would hate her more if she was nice as well. A nice hot competent woman showing you all the things you could never be, stealing the hearts of men across the country and then voting for her, what next she is a tall blonde with aristocratic blood? That’s a lightning rod for female friendly fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:41 AM
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So the apps hid men who are 6-10 from you or they all got kidnapped? If the men you date can cheat on you that means they’re too attractive for you to want them not to. It’s a different world now, attractive men have too much access to expect them all to be faithful with the amount of opportunity they have. You may need to date an ugly man if you want to stop that which is easy because most men are apparently hideous. Blackpill is worse for women than it is for men though. But no one believes me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:34 AM
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This isn’t true. And is a grave mistake many men make. Because no matter the level or where you are at when you met, the women will always want more. Her desires always increase over time. Even if the man was a CEO of 1 company, eventually she will complain that he doesn’t have enough ambition to be the CEO of 2 companies while spending too much time at work. It’s never ending, men are too stupid to realize it and stop giving women stuff, it’s a learnt behavior like how babies never stop crying …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:16 AM
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You think women would vote for a Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:13 AM
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You said the same thing with different words. Most women won’t have high body counts anyway, because they’re optimizing who they have sex with more nowadays, eventually we will be back to women being shamed for having sex because it will be a way to signal high value so women can then leverage sex again to get more benefits because no one likes to work. Time is a flat circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:11 AM
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Those women actively hate men entering their spaces and are not open to or show the body language of people who invite men into their groups. Bars and nightclubs have the purpose of socializing though women are hating that too. Do not discredit the skill, confidence and composure it takes to start a convo with a stranger who thinks a bear is more civilized than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:08 AM
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Here’s the thing your brain has been warped, yes I said it. If you ladies think porn warps a man’s brain, what do you think dating apps do to women? There is no action in the world where you could have 1000s of options and seven years, fail at getting one good outcome and still be able to complain. Not one. Women failing at shooting a whale in a cup is no fault but their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:04 AM
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Men would go outside if women were there, men always follow the women. Like ladies night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:01 AM
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It’s not about going outside anymore, the cat’s out of the bag, the horse have bolted from the stables. Why would any woman leave her unlimited filtered to her desire, absolute stud of a man she can get on any dating app in 5 mins want to go outside and talk to Bobby McMouthBreather?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:48 AM
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You know I don’t know if you’re conservative or a feminist but it’s funny that the two groups are somehow becoming one and the same. Especially all that fighting women did to have a body count like a bank account number. But I guess it makes sense just like dating apps converge on to a small population of men there isn’t really a need to sample all the items on the menu anymore just fight bitterly for the filet mignon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:45 AM
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- Gen Z men can’t afford to give women all the things they want from the act of sex from the protections, money to the comfortable space in a nice home. Women have been able to use sex to leverage for things since the beginning of time but nowadays younger people are poorer so women don’t like it and put the blame on men, men can’t do anything about it so they give up. I believe women never liked men in the first place sort of like comphet but with the value they can get from men it made their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:40 AM
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That goes the other way round too, many men are more aware of how women use sex as tool to obtain whatever they want in a positive way and a negative way. There isn’t a thread on Reddit yet about sex or relationships that a woman hasn’t used the r word for example. People are scared of sex, it’s more of a weapon these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:34 AM
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Ok since I’m free from azkaban let me give my perspective. Men’s attention isn’t valuable, but hold on women’s attention is even less valuable materially speaking. There will be a cold day in hell before a woman spends her money on a man she isn’t dating or is family with. So men give far more to women than the other way around, we have all seen a simp help a woman out while dragging his balls through broken dreams. Most women actually don’t get that much attention. I know, I know. Crazy right. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:17 AM
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Freedom from my oppressors!! Back with a truth nuke! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:22 PM
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I wish there weren’t posts on girl dinner diaries a kin to this, otherwise I would have laughed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:20 AM
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0, I mourn my fallen brothers and pray for their peace in heaven. Unlike so many women and feminist men who spit on their efforts and graves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:16 AM
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Crazy can’t come out if you have no leverage, an ugly woman can’t say anything or else she gets thrown to the side of the road. No, women put a price on access, often times hot women are terrible to deal with because of this, bad attitudes, entitlement, lazy and abusive. Uglier women use sex and being nice as a means to get a relationship, well at least the self aware ones. They always fail but why would she put effort for an ugly man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:15 AM
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There we go the r word, that took a minute to come out, I applaud you for holding out as long as you did , but that word is like the ultimate weapon in a woman’s toolbelt. I personally think men should lie and hire professionals to help them get off, their wife certainly won’t do it, lord knows she has better things to do like fantasying about the good ole days when she did crazy things with Chad. I agree with you men are retarded, to think their wives should do the same things she did with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:11 AM
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Oh yea of course it has to be bad women that did that, sure 🙄. This is a modern women’s nature, I note there is not an attempt to refute the massive ego but an attempt at making it personal. Very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:01 AM
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That’s not what happened. Nice try though. Part of the point is that women put in more effort for people they like and will try things with those people. She just shutting you down the moment you suggest it implying that you are worse than or the same as that person is her not liking you. And that’s ok. Many men know their wives don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:59 AM
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Glorification of what the mother does and downplaying and minimizing of the fathers efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:28 AM
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That’s fantastic and I’m happy for you having those experiences. But that’s not how it goes most of the time, it’s a sad reality but if men could more objectively look at what women provide, their relationships would be so much better, but we don’t. I’ve had plenty of experience with women and I have seen women behave like this plenty, I don’t need the “your opinions are invalid, incel.” type rhetoric it’s lame and ignorant, leave that low hanging fruit for women to grab, lord knows they need a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:24 AM
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They definitely do “slow Tuesday” is a saying for a reason. I’ve met dudes with rotations of women some of those women are not pretty but they fill a purpose, uglier women are also nicer and easier to deal with. Those are the women that cook and clean etc because they are trying to win that guy from the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:20 AM
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That’s the limit of what most women offer in a relationship, sir. If they offered more then we could talk but even that little bit they put behind a premium subscription of a lifetime hard labor. Thinking women should do more is a recipe for disaster, you will surely be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:14 AM
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You’re right if I was banging women that look like Adriana Lima for 10 years of course I could marry a hunchback of notredame looking women, duh. Like you know how people drive sports cars and then decide oh let’s buy an old Camry later on. You know logic. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:12 AM
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Weaponizing therapy speak, cool. Let’s sit in a circle sing kumbaya and discuss ”Why your wife doesn’t like you as much as her ex?”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:09 AM
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Men provide all solutions, minimization of men’s efforts is how we got to a place like this, if you don’t care that’s fine but the truth is truth. Men were the ones that passed legislature to give women those rights, plenty of people dancing in the streets didn’t change anything, if the ones in charge (men) didn’t care. The solution is coming again from men, sexbots and AI relationships, the next trillion dollar industry. Women are the only ones greedy enough to think they should be compensated …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:06 AM
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There’s no need to be upset. Men are the arbiters of everything that ever happens ever, outside of a relationship, they create everything we see and touch and destroy it, all you first world living women won’t be talking so much if your men didn’t win the wars they did and gave you the peace and prizes that came with it. Donating someone else’s money doesn’t make you notable, sorry. Within a relationship any drama, chaos, pain and suffering has the woman in the middle, including the child, singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:02 AM
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Yes it does, she will do crazy sex things with Chad and offer once in a blue moon pity sex to an oofy doofy when she is settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:58 AM
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Yea it proves she don’t like you like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:56 AM
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Does this only exist in a sexual context?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:55 AM
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Men are the only ones providing them though, the only thing men struggle with is dealing with women, but it’s not something most men can solve, they don’t have the leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:54 AM
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Women create chaos, men provide the solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:49 AM
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It’s an abuse technique called minimization.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:49 AM
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OP I believe you have found that women have huge egos. This is something they do not deny, they simply ignore it when it’s said. However, picture this, asking a complete stranger for money is so normal to them they get angry when they don’t get it from you, they think themselves celebrities and if you aren’t obsessed with them from the start you’re not good enough. Massive egos for people who spend their lives providing not very much to the people around them, which might I add is something they…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:45 AM
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What do you mean by “not fine”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:37 AM
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What’s the lie? Where’s the trauma? You only need to open your eyes to see the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:31 PM
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I’m not blue pill though why would you say that to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:02 PM
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You don’t need to get comfortable with it because that idea is wrong. Can a bad boy be 400lbs? Can he have a disfigured face? Can he be a 1 out of 10 in his face? Bad boys are attractive first. Them being assholes is just their personality and abundance mixing. Why? Because when men interact with women most of us who are normal or ugly use a filter on our actions. We want something > “how will she think of me if I did this”? > Do it in a way she will like > hope that she likes me back. Attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:38 PM
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OP pleased stop this bro. I really hate when dudes do this, it’s so frustrating and sad to watch. Do you know that these women revel in your self pity? Do you know that they have no sympathy or empathy for your situation nor for any man? Do you know they look down on you for even asking this? Do you know how easily they will toss you to the wolves if given the chance? Most women only see man as a means of getting something like money. They feel love for a few years but that love is a fantasy abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:30 PM
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Please, this peace that you talk about is ironic because women are the ones who cause chaos and drama in people’s lives. It’s such a blatant repackaging of give me stuff because men by themselves aren’t valuable meme. Men bid for sex* not women I should have said that’s more true the rest of the person is debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:33 AM
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If you thought unattractive women: A) Had low standards B) couldn’t get many dates with those high standards. You’re wrong. Dating apps are god send to women. This girl went on 49 dates in 4 months. With btw the totally different standards (because women don’t all like the same men lmao) of tall, handsome, funny, ambitious and money. https://youtube.com/watch?v=q01fHVnF19w
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:05 AM
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In abundance you can screen for girls who just want to come over or whatever you want. (You need to be hot to have this ability) Essentially if you are normal you are in a bidding match with other men for that woman. Woman will never turn that down, they will lie, they will moan, they will complain, they will even say “if he doesn’t pay he doesn’t like me enough” or “ if I pay I don’t like him.” Women have enough abundance that they don’t care. While you’re arguing this some other guy outbid you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:48 AM
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It’s not. It’s an abundance issue. Most men aren’t hot enough to dare potentially upset a woman by telling her to pay for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:40 AM
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It’s not feminists. That’s how most women are. Don’t let PPD women tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:38 AM
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Lying by omission. Possibility vs probability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:43 PM
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He isn’t a woman, no one is coming to save him from abject loneliness. Lying to him doesn’t help him. Only women can get away with being this way, that’s why there isn’t body positivity for men. Please this is really bad and dangerous to spend time lying to men. He may have been struggling for years already, trying to figure out what else can he do. So many men lied to and feel deep frustration from being rejected constantly, people that then lie to those who struggle like this are the worst of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:07 PM
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Brutal man but 7 girls in 2 years is ridiculous even at that height no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:28 PM
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<image> Guys should he keep using dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:23 PM
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There is something about blue pill that is so irksome. Like crabs in a bucket. If there was a true malignant evil in this era, it would be blue pill thinking, my goodness. I like the hustle though if spreading and maintaining misery was a blue piller’s job they are doing amazingly well. You’re right he knows all his problems and when he rewrites his profile and comes back to hinge with the same result, I’ll be there to be banned again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:58 PM
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I’m helping women here, please. You’re not helping anyone by sending this guy off to rewrite his profile for the 100th time and doubting his own sanity. If he is aware of the problem he should have changed and if he isn’t letting him know is helping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:51 PM
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No one cares what women think. Women will literally rather all men die than admit any fault for anything ever, you guys are built like that, permavictims and never do anything ever, true saints. I’m writing for the men who are scrolling through another woe is me woman post that litter everyone’s feeds constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:03 AM
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Playing the field is expensive, I agree if you are broke or not rich better to lie though, if you are rich just pay. Many top athletes just pay escorts it’s really smart and she’s less likely to make false allegations and take all your money in a settlement (so I heard).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:01 AM
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We’ve grown accustomed to not knowing what a woman really looks like until after she showers near us 🤷‍♂️. Lying isn’t more heinous only when a man does it or when women are receiving it, but you guys love to act that way. It won’t work because men are greedy and will try to collect women like toys, it works because most women like the same things. Most women like the same kind of men, to hear the same kind of chat or flirting (what you call lying), the same kind of promises. Once you figure it …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:16 AM
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I didn’t say most I said it is normal. Like it’s normal to call your abusive wife “spicy”. You don’t have to believe, it’s not a competition, I wouldn’t dare challenge women in being the biggest victim. In the end, no one cares and no man is racing to call the police because his wife punched him in the gut for not washing the dishes. Men don’t report anything from shame. There won’t be stats to back it up. And even if there was just like Amber said to Johnny Depp “You’re a man no one will believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:33 AM
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Depends women can choose but men can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:56 AM
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Bars are a good start but cold approach is peak practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:54 AM
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Nah I really was just as fat if not more than him and legit thought I was Brad Pitt. Then I become like Brad Pitt and learnt the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:49 AM
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Huh? I meant to search the subreddit for the post so you could see for yourself. I can’t believe you’re advocating for being unhealthy. What a crazy time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:40 AM
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He legit doesn’t know or think it’s important enough to change. I have met many men like him, even I didn’t know that when I was fat as shit, I actually bought the “it’s just your personality bruh.” Then I lost a lot of weight and clung to the gym for dear life for years and learnt the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:38 AM
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Nah I’m upset that they don’t allow for real advice. It will let the OP think that he is doing something else wrong and go rewrite his profile for 50th time. If he lost weight he would be fine and his life much easier. But they won’t allow that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:36 AM
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You can search: M34. Been on the app for about 4 years. I don’t know what he weighs but he is probably obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:34 AM
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7 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:32 AM
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But 90% of the app is your appearance? ” How do I make my car faster no don’t talk about the engine or transmission just the spoiler. “
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:32 AM
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Please let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:31 AM
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It’s the fact that dating app about looks doesn’t tolerate appearance improvement advice, that doesn’t make sense. And it’s also healthy for him to not be that weight. The ban doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:30 AM
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The question from OP is weird. Most women want money so they will take the paid option. Most women are fine with lying to men but of course hate being lied to. It’s about control. Both techniques are effective though, most men would rather lie though it’s cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:29 AM
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Same thing women do with makeup. Many times I have slept with someone only to wake up next to someone else the next day, it’s so violating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:26 AM
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No it’s because women are constantly trying to find something “wrong” with a man. So you need to dress things up like women do to their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:25 AM
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Paying for sex is worse. Lying to women is a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:22 AM
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<image> I got banned from hinge sub for telling a guy to lose weight. A dating app sub!!! Why do we not let men know they need to improve their looks? Why let that guy suffer?!? I don’t get it. They said “he didn’t ask for life advice.” Why does Reddit hate helping men??? Edit: second.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:20 AM
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Wrong. Men don’t see it as abusive. They’re dumb and don’t respect themselves. They think it’s normal to get slapped or verbally accosted when their female partner is mad or on “that time of the month”. Women are hyper vigilant and sensitive for/to abuse, they look for it and label it, fast. Men do the opposite and not until a woman is basically stabbing them with a knife will they think “oh maybe this is bad.” They downplay it until their mind and body shuts down because it can’t take the denia…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:08 AM
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I do it because these are the posts that get visibility. I tried posts that highlight men getting abused but no one cares 🤷‍♂️, women won’t admit it and men like being beaten up or stepped on especially blue pill men (they fight me hard on their right to be abused and deadbedroomed like it’s a right of passage), at least here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:59 AM
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Are you gonna be the ones to tell our queens that holding out for a six figure man and “my money is my money and his money is our money” as manipulation not adaptation? You’re brave. The “sprinkle sprinkle 💅 “ movement is growing by the day. Sorry I meant standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:56 AM
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Yes because incel gets flagged in some places.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:50 AM
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<image> It’s just a post to shit on inkwells again but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:47 AM
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Yes of course if you are good looking otherwise it’s harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:16 AM
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<image> Bro how do people not see the shit they write, they think inkwells are the problem? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:15 AM
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A lot of people actually can’t believe it either or in your case think it is rare hence your reference to my “algo”. When it happens to women it’s real, but for men it’s in the algo? Maybe it’s WAW effect but the dismissal is so common, I myself get gaslit then I see another guy get slapped, scratched, kicked or punched. And society asks him “what did do to make her do that”? I think this topic is that meme from avatar. “There is no war in Ba Sing Se.” Which is why I was surprised you actually d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:38 PM
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From what I have seen it is not common at all. It requires some rare type of thinking like women aren’t the only victims, women can inflict harm, men can be hurt, men’s thoughts, feelings and experiences matter, women should care about their male friends or partners. Society wasn’t built to handle this type of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:19 PM
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I am honest, I’m surprised. Usually women are the default victims in every story, it’s been a struggle raising awareness to how women treat others because even men push back. Let alone for you a woman to ask men how they feel, you must not truly understand how rare that is. I have never yet in my life seen it happen, ever at least in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:14 PM
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I’m proud of you. Never met a woman who has done that, watershed moment, I have hope for women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:04 PM
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So if a man makes more than you it’s gender and if a woman did then it’s race?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:03 PM
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Is that because of gender though? What if your female coworker made more money than you would you just down tools and accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:54 PM
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Ask the men in your life about female violence… be careful the answers may shock you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:51 PM
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I actually hate the wage gap. I need women to make more money so they can support men and let them handle the finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:49 PM
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Shame? You mean the kind men face when their female partner beats them up and no one cares? Female violence is far more prevalent than people think but it doesn’t get reported and we all know that. These days if you breathe in the wrong direction a woman may call the police on you. What are you guys on about? Perma-victims in all situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:48 PM
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Is that a message to me or you? “Hey I don’t agree with that person, they must be rage-baiting me because you know only my opinions hold are valid, duh.” - most women in 2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:41 PM
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Thank goodness someone is saving trying to save the world, salute to your leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:32 PM
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Men had to do it or die without offspring, women need to consume and men need to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:27 PM
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No it’s not lying it’s adapting, women have huge egos with huge demands humanity wouldn’t survive if men didn’t figure out how to navigate dealing with treacherous trenches. No one cares what annoys women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:26 PM
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That’s what your women and gender studies teacher taught you? How about you shoot up some T and tell me how dainty and soft you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:24 PM
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More women than men have those traits women are just too weak to do anything with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:23 PM
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I argue those traits are innate in a man if a man became a woman he would adopt more stereotypically feminine traits. Men’s greatest gift in getting sex is their adaptability. The best playboys adapt to the woman enough get her panties off and nut, then he reverts. Therefore, in this case that man would probably become a millionaire by adopting feminine tactics by marrying and divorcing some rich idiot , of course this is after getting Chad for awhile. But of course their looks will determine ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:50 AM
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I care if my woman makes a lot more than me. I’m trying to unlock that SAHD life, because I believe in the painful sacrifice of sitting at home sweeping my living room while my partner enjoys their 10 hour workday + drive home. I do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:27 AM
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Maybe but only because women don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:07 AM
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What if she is nicer to you the less attractive she is? A condescending and quarrelsome but hot BPD wife or gorlock that treats you like a king?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:26 AM
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OP assuming women would put in the effort to make any man who can’t cum like men would do for women is really interesting. Women struggle to get themselves off give up and blame men, that’s how lazy they are, they think the starfish or pillow princess is a lot of work as it is. There can’t be an orgasm gap because men will always put the work in to get their nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:22 AM
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I think you need to change your flair man, blue pilled men don’t hate themselves that much, your larp is more similar to a femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 12:00 AM
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*Another classic from girlDinnerDiaries, it’s so good to have women unfiltered, it’s incredible levels of content.* Started loving myself and now I pull the hottest guys I tried making mini smash burgers, they were so good!!! Sorry for the cheesy title girlies, but what can I say, it’s so freaking exciting. I had a pretty rough few months, basically hating myself. People were totally reflecting this kind of energy towards me and it was a spiral of self-hatred and kind of depression. Girls were h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:44 AM
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Was she a he?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:39 AM
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Carrying whose child? Only the mother knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:38 AM
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I know, you women have some truly devious tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:26 AM
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Are you talking about weak men or women here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:26 AM
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PPD women taught me a new technique for getting away with cheating . If your partner accuses you of cheating, become so unbelievably offended you threaten to break up. It effectively throws off your accuser because surely only an honest person would be offended like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:21 AM
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I have several girl friends and one of them is my best friend, she’s like a sister, she has helped me tremendously, but she is very special, that kind of personality that is happy, positive and uplifting in all circumstances, amazing to be around and super funny. We have 0 attraction to each other but I love hanging out with her and she has absolutely helped my mental health cause I can trauma dump on her and she helps me laugh it off or find solutions. But let me say this someone like her is ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:54 AM
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From r/nostupidquestions what is it about women in their 40s that make them so beautiful? i am 18F. the women in my life and ones on social media have this specific beauty about them when they hit their 40s/as they age. im not sure what it is though, maybe its the mature look..? edit: i feel like its partially because of the wrinkles on their faces make them beautiful I don’t know if this is a troll or performative virtue signaling and the funniest part is that everyone is answering seriously. “…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:25 AM
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It’s easy monetize women and lgbtq folks they like the feeling, many of these people go to therapy for years. Culturally it’s not the norm for men to do that and it’s not the best look for a man to need years of therapy either. Society doesn’t give anyone anything so men go to work and pay women later, that’s how it has always been so here take our therapy money. Well, firstly the question is are women worth being around without sex? Because I don’t know if many people would stay away from somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:10 AM
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No one cares about men’s mental health because there’s no profit from that, men are expendable and are expected especially by women to figure it out. Have you seen how women react to ND men? It’s disgusting. No one wants to enslave any woman, sorry to not go long with this CNC fantasy so many women have. Most guys just want a bit of validation and, but of course women being the consumers they are, it’s like pulling teeth for them to give anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:43 AM
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We lash out because it’s not masculine to do it, it brings shame to the brotherhood. We know they don’t mean it (white knight, simp, virtual signal) but it’s part of the “tell women whatever the want to hear “ thing, like performative leftist men the new trend, I get it because with some women you have to do a lot of pretending, it’s rough but a necessary evil, women however can’t choose this it’s automatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:31 AM
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No I didn’t agree with that. I just gave you guys a strat to remedy your worries and let women shine where they’re wanted. Both sides win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:27 AM
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Your rant doesn’t sound to emotionally intelligent and inclusive. Not everyone has the same needs, sorry, women need a PHD in Female victimhood as a therapist, we need a big tiddy goth chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:43 AM
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PPD woman getting a Chad? Hard to believe, but I hope he doesn’t break your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:38 AM
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Who dat?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:35 AM
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Ok how about this, for safety women should spend most of the time with other women unless it’s to have sex with men, after which they can promptly go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:34 AM
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Yea thanks Good fight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:32 AM
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Lying doesn’t matter to women if you’re attractive. Just be attractive and women’s psycho sensors stop working. Women from 3-10 / 10 are attractive to men though, we have an excuse for being attracted to all kinds of women, like BBWs (Big Belly Whales) don’t need to be Stacy the effect just gets stronger (Blondes, trophy wives). Those are not porn tags those are some of the terms men use to describe their mistake of a partner, many of which have to do with the woman having a mental illness (mani…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:16 AM
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Alright clarity, I don’t really believe in the RP either. But most guys don’t care about a girl’s personality because what will they do? Leave? Reject an attractive woman who is boring? Haha, you know they’re not going anywhere, most Bloopers just reconcile with years of abuse instead. Most guys are 100% this stupid, “fiery Latina”, “manic pixie”, “hot crazy matrix”, “I hate my wife”, “pure untouched virgin”, men don’t care about themselves nearly enough to prioritize personality. The only reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:00 AM
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Virtue signal and lie? Thats a uniquely feminine special ability. They say that because they know men like having sex, so the woman could get pregnant, they also know women like Chads and Chads like to “go to the store for milk”. This is far different from feminist acting like Genghis Khan and his army are waiting outside her door every night because she is so damn irresistible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:51 PM
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None of what you said women do have anything to do with men specifically. I’m the greatest Pokemon master that ever lived, now I’m special for women right? And I know why you said it like that because fundamentally women don’t like the idea of doing anything for men. They hate it especially feminist (ego can’t handle it). Fine. But that means to men you’re just like the IG girlies, there’s no real material difference if the people you want to be with see or gain no value from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:46 PM
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Most guys are still very performative for women, like it or not. I don’t want them to be but they will fight me to jester for women, it’s awful. Women have to impress women? I thought you guys just liked each other by default. Women seem fine with men that only want them for their looks and men seem fine with women that only want them for their money. Most of society has been built this way. Now I agree if you tell people the truth they won’t like it but that’s because it’s unflattering. After a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:40 PM
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Woah personal insults? You can’t do that here. Most men would be happy with a blank slate partner, especially nowadays where women usually come in with the mental illness or “man bad” as a personality. Actually it’s hard for women to be attractive, they do work a lot for that and barely look better than men, it’s tough. Most girls dress up because of competition with other women, nothing to do with men, men are far too easy. > Women don’t have to improve for men. There we go and this is why they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:34 PM
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One has nothing to do with the other. Men are pressurized to be likeable, to impress, to be fun, to be charming etc. Women do not have to do this ever, it’s not their fault but it means most women just be whatever they want. Having a personality for women doesn’t matter because no one expects women to have a good one and if they do and it’s a bad personality then she’s just quirky teeeeeheee otherwise she’s like an NPC. No one thinks, “ I hope she is funny and interesting.” , it’s like you expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:18 PM
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Most women don’t try not to be that, why do you blame them men for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:12 PM
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Why doesn’t everyone realize that the problem is “Women have dating apps.” What’s stopping a woman who met you irl all, thinking “meh I could do better.”, going home opening her phone, sorting through matches, finding a Chad with her exact requirements and setting up a date with him in under 30 minutes? There are no more strategies. Why would you go to the store to buy bread and butter when you can order steak and lobster from the comfort of your home?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:11 PM
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I want people to see this. This is what I mean, when I say women don’t know how to be likeable, they just blame the man for not liking them. No need to change if everything is everyone else’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:07 PM
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Yes, so OP’s question is legitimate. PPD women will be in a bind though they can’t try to jester for OP and show women can be good (too much ego) so it’s best to gaslight OP instead and tell him “go touch grass, this isn’t real.”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:05 PM
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Most women treat men like they are hated though at least negatively. The majority of men should still be weary of women, they don’t value relationships like men do. Women are put in social situations more because people are more open to talking to them. Women like women, men like sex, women like the things men have, men are neutral with men. Women get away with a lot of unsavory behavior, men like sex too much to call them out on it. Most women don’t try or practice to be likeable, if they aren’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:01 PM
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He does need to go outside. He thinks PPD women will jester for him, he doesn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:53 PM
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Keep that energy for when dudes tell women to “ find better men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:53 PM
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That’s the trick OP there isn’t much to like, women spend no time trying to make themselves “likeable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:51 PM
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Neither are birds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:48 PM
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Keyword: concentrated.* Misandry is like the air we breathe; it is everywhere and permeates everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:48 PM
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They don’t want “you” to approach them, they want Chad to approach them. But they must also virtue signal and lie, it’s in their nature. They can’t help it, so they tell oofy doofy, “oh brother, just be confident man… oh no not looking like that!” This is the real cycle: -> few Chads exists so by default women don’t like being approached. At best they need time to build resistance to their desire to puke when they see average men (friendship). -> they feel disgust from ugly men approaching but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:03 PM
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Oh yea try not spending it and finding yourself buried under a prison for unpaid child support. Female supremacy is in full swing it seems, even the men here don’t care about themselves, what a time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:23 AM
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You’re right, I misspoke. It’s far worse. Thank you kind stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:24 AM
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True, I agree. Going through 9 months of an unwanted pregnancy is definitely against human rights just like going through 18 years of paying for one. But only one gender has special privileges. Big sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 05:39 AM
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That’s what women do, that’s partly why they don’t feel bad over an ex for long. Of course, it helps that they can get options very easily. “If you want to get over someone, get under someone else.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:04 AM
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Ain’t that called Oneitis? Don’t know how you fix that though I guess bang enough girls until you forget? 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:36 AM
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Aren’t we all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:53 AM
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Based, only way you should date. Don’t let those independent and grown adult feed off your tit like you’re their mammy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:39 AM
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Just saw clips of the queen feminist Lilly Phillips taking shots while pregnant, people in the comments raging calling it child abuse. But unborn babies aren’t real, how could it be child abuse? In fact it’s her body if she wants to punch her stomach, smoke or whatever she wants that’s fair game too. Why everyone big mad? Her body, her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:37 AM
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Too late, women have incredible selection opportunities, but can pretend their ability to pick out of 1000s of people = the 3 likes men get. And we as men allow them to collectively talk shit. Genuinely speaking what activity could you have a selection of 1000s, pick poorly and we blame the 1000s not the 1 person picking? Could someone tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:20 AM
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I feel your pain, hopefully PPD women won’t try gaslighting us into dating these heffers who are 1 spoon from a heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:17 AM
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It’s not rooted in that, they are trying to insert themselves in spaces where they were not asked to be or needed. Why can’t men have nice things? It’s because we choose to decenter women, they want to center themselves in our lives, forcing themselves into our lives when we want no part of it. Men deserve safe spaces too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:53 PM
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Believe me, no one listens to women’s lies. It’s their default state. It’s expected, it’s a surprise when they attempt to be honest, but that only happens when a woman is protecting her son from another woman, then they speak truths like you have never seen. If women think anyone expected differently from them then let me share something with you. In the wise words of my father, “you’re only fooling yourself.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:51 PM
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It’s not my kid. If I ever had a kid I will love them with everything I got, except if he will be a short man, then I will have problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:03 PM
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Those are hobbies, it’s fine for men and women to share things but things that we enjoy almost exclusively should not have its main character be something else. Men like all sorts of women for dating and relationships, where they are fine being unhappy. Yea sure all the simps and white knights will be falling over themselves to say how they love this character, and men dare not criticize. Hoping to get some crumbs from a pink haired landwhale. It’s nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:58 PM
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Lame if you can’t decenter women sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:53 PM
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No one will listen because everyone is addicted to virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:53 PM
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Everyone just lets them get away with things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:31 PM
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I don’t need to read your mind, it’s instinctual for you, no matter how obvious the truth is. Women can’t help themselves, they’re built to lie until the end even for the most mundane things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:30 PM
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How can you (company) prioritize the desires of the tiniest part of your consumer base anyway? It’s dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:29 PM
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Hah I don’t need to walk the walk to know what women really want. Look I am happy that we’re gonna enter a future of genetically incredible people, all orchestrated by your local feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:27 PM
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Haha this is interesting. Women should be in charge of propaganda for the U.S., Russia and China. Lying comes second nature to you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:10 PM
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No one wants women in anything, thank you. Thats part of the allure of vidya games, no women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:09 PM
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No, because if men invaded women things we wouldn’t hear the end of it about how women can’t have their own things. Inject your wokism into everything but the women need to be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:07 PM
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The majority of men who have romantic relationships with women have significant problems with women if they aren’t born looking great. Men should try for themselves because it’s never worth it to do it for women. Thats just you, most women try their best to have “standards” that eliminate most of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:53 PM
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Why even try to pretend this isn’t true? It’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:50 PM
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It grinds my gears that men can’t criticize the new female lead in the god of war game.. who asked for an ugly woman lead? And now the feminist and soyjacks are coming in full force to gaslight and take over, pointing fingers, shaming and talking crap. No one asked for this, stop this woke manipulation of everything, we don’t like ugly women. Why can’t women leave men alone? They want to insert themselves into everything men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:45 PM
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Isn’t that what eugeni.. abortions are for ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:41 PM
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Men already groom themselves plenty and do too much to impress women. Women are more interested in genetic markers of attractiveness than anything grooming can do. You don’t need to try to gaslight me, good luck to him hope him showering and shaving will make him super attractive and tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:39 PM
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OP btw we are only allowed to talk about personality here, what anyone finds physically attractive is so objective talking about it becomes pointless. Or at least find a more veiled way to talk about it before the mods find you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:37 AM
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Please stop these blatant lies. Chads are engineered to look like that from birth. Women need to employ so many tricks just to look ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:30 AM
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Most women want money, different wine same bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:28 AM
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Did they control for in group bias,WAW effect and something I have recently discovered “men thinking other men look better than women = gey” which is surprisingly common for women to get in on that too. But the study still states that they could only control for so much, so there’s still feminine deception at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:27 AM
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Giving women your money, women say it’s a pretty good strategy, so I heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:10 AM
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Most people already date like that. Hot or Not is a thing. But the difference is the ranges. For men rating women: Uggos are 0-2 Normals 3-10 For women rating men: Uggos are 0-7 Normals 8-10 That’s why sub 8 men usually have to work so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:09 AM
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Uhm actually is that study based on both men and women being bare faced, just out of the shower or women wearing 300 contraptions, a full face of clown make up, and an incredible fear of water? To be a Stacy you only really have to wear fake up and be skinny. To be a Chad you need to a be genetic abnormality and work out for years with a perfect diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:57 AM
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Behavior that shows abundance, push and pull, hot and cold, going missing, flirty or being open to other women in front of her, being disagreeable, etc. Yes, people can have toxic traits that don’t help but the issue is that most men are “yes men” they twist and contort themselves to be the most “palatable” version of themselves for women, it gets boring for these women. Bland things that are abundant do not spark excitement and anxiety, that’s why sport cars aren’t reliable, it’s by design. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:51 PM
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Red pill glorifies women actually, that’s all they ever talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:09 PM
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No, brother you need to tell yourself that. Everything starts with you. No one cares what women think. They are all just “blah blah blah man bad blah blah gimme money blah blah”. Do you feel it in your heart that you are handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:16 PM
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It’s an abundance thing, who has more abundance? Are you speaking about yourself as if you were the average man? And I am sure many women here would not like their male partner to admit to doing any of what you’re saying you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:12 PM
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If you consider yourself ugly, then so be it. But you my brother are blessed with masculinity, I hope you find some pride in yourself someday. And know that no woman will come raise you up after you self denigrate for maybe the 100th time today. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:09 PM
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Yes, my brother it’s men’s mental health month. It’s a great time to spread awareness. God created man in his image (not women), should I go against the word of god himself and deny men their claim to the throne?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:03 PM
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I said it earlier I know you would come back and say that’s something men made happen. The script is there we all can read it. When god gave humans agency it seems women denied that right, which is the greatest act of agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:53 PM
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Men can’t pull that off. They may wish they could but they can’t match women for monkey branching at all. Women get approached everywhere, to think that women aren’t human enough that they will ignore every pursuer until the most morally right time is naive. And that’s not a cliche because it is as common as women having orbiters, backup options etc. Don’t underestimate women. Go check your girlfriend’s text messages, I dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:49 PM
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I feel your pain sister, let’s take our punishment with brave faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:34 PM
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Women can’t be honest with each other, everyone knows that. As far as women are concerned women fart butterflies and piss rainbows. But let’s not check the lesbian DV rates or divorce rates, that’s not really women some men made that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:30 PM
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Not like women do, women have orbiters, men constantly approach women, women have backup options etc. most women are never single. If you guys want to be blind to that to let women get away with near constant cheating, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:26 PM
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These “tactics” don’t exist like you think they do, part of the song and dance of being with women. For me for example have needed to do anything because women come up to me and “coerce” me. That’s not the case for most men. Women will only corroborate this study because they exist as the person being acted upon most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:25 PM
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Oh so it depends on the receiver for them to decide if it’s coercion… interesting. The rules are bending.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:13 PM
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This isn’t personal. I’m just asking. So anyone who has ever lied is scum?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:12 PM
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How did you coerce her into doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:05 PM
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It’s not an insult, more like a curse. Oof having to date women is not for the soft hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:05 PM
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Have you told a man something positive about themselves before having sex with them? Just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:03 PM
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If you include emotional cheating ( flirting with or texting other men) and monkey branching, almost all women cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:58 AM
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Women are rarely happy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:57 AM
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Ah well if you want to live in the darkness, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:56 AM
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With WAW effect, make up, etc you have plenty of handicaps to help you. We’re comparing the Olympics (Men) to the special Olympics (Women). It’s inherently flawed. Peak human aesthetic captured by the greatest artist in history are usually in the form of men. I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:54 AM
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Why clip off some of my sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:50 AM
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You can never know who will be nice to you in the way you want them to be. However, men have a very strong incentive to be nice, in fact they are too nice, many guys have serious boundary issues (they let women step all over them) and are scared of women (getting rejected). Like most guys aren’t socially awkward, it’s the immense pressure of thinking you need to make a woman like you that throws them off. But many men worship women, it’s very bad. What about the comment was ignorant?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:44 AM
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Most “red pill” subreddits are banned, the other smaller ones need to hide but will eventually get banned. PPD has strict moderation, there’s a lot you can’t say here actually. Women shit on men here plenty too, it’s against rules but people sneak in loads of insults to either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:31 AM
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Man: “Men are more attractive on average than women.” Women: “No, you must be gay to think that.” Men: “So are women more attractive on average?” Women: “Yes everyone knows that, and I am straight.” Me: “hmmm.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:29 AM
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Actually a lot of men (simps, white knights, left wing men) heap praise on to women constantly and a lot of the time without sex in mind. In fact most men don’t think “if I say nice things I will get sex” a lot of them think “if I say nice things she might like it and like me by extension”, women have no real incentive to be nice to men at all. Women get admonished or “corrected” for being nice to men. Women shit on men for any kind of reason, sometimes they are just bored. I’m not sure again wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:23 AM
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They are there on the dating apps, it’s filled with nice guys. A lot of toxic guys do start that way nowadays because being toxic is not necessarily unattractive, being boring is unattractive. Ignorance of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:59 AM
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Yes, they do. Why do you guys do this gaslighting? Do you think you will fool me? Besides “getting what you want “ isn’t necessarily about gaslighting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:56 AM
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For most men this is a reality they have always lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:33 AM
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I think most men would rather deal with that from a virgin. Since thats what happens often in normal relationships sex decreases drastically after childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:14 AM
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That would be ideal but we can’t discredit that woman don’t want to be “tied down” either nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:12 AM
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Women are just greedy, they don’t know what it’s like for people to act like they don’t exist. I have to keep telling them that the worst punishment any government can give is solitary confinement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:01 AM
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Not at all, it’s very rare that if a woman is talking about a man she is talking about him in a positive way especially that man isn’t her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:59 AM
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Women ignore men they're not interested in. They're polite, they dont lead on a man theyre not attracted to. They dont bully men online who they aren't attracted to. There are many women who enjoy rejecting and bullying men. In fact there are many subreddits dedicated to ridiculing men, it’s so commonplace to shit on men, that saying something good about men is a surprise. Everywhere you go women say “man bad” constantly for some of the most pedantic, random reasons. Women don’t waste the opport…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:56 AM
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To be fair to women their abundance means that unless the guy is toxic in some way it’s boring. Nice and good men are so abundant and easily findable it must get boring fast. Like as a woman you could have limitless options for them, men who simp, who treat women well, who worship women etc. They are everywhere. It’s like vegetables and healthy food, we know what’s good for us and it’s right there in front of us but it’s bland. That buttery lobster (Chad),however, well that got that extra specia…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:58 AM
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Men should wear whatever works to get what they want. A woman’s entire body could be fake and society finds it acceptable, it’s time to for men to even the playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:52 AM
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Why are so many women obsessed with this idea that their sisters do absolutely nothing ever? That they exist in this world as humans bereft of negative actions and thoughts, dolls merely to be acted upon? I thought men were the ones who thought of women as angels but it’s actually women who strip themselves of their own humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:50 AM
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Oh please women don’t read anything either, stop giving women this false grace. There are far too many people that a man could potentially match with and date where reading each profile will not yield good results, it’s far too time consuming when you could learn about that person after matching. Your strategy only works if there is an implied high match rate, otherwise with the average man’s 2.5% match rate this is just pointless to do this. No one misses women on the apps individually, how can…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:42 AM
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The fact that you think a random stranger should spend 300 words of which btw could be entirely false of their time on any person’s profile is telling. Especially, when reading that doesn’t increase their chance of you even seeing their profile let alone getting a match. Thats not how any of this works no one you don’t know is special like that, you nor anyone else is doing that for every profile they see. This is some serious ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:40 AM
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Women have larger egos not more confidence. Women are actually quite fragile, if they don’t keep receiving positive affirmations constantly they break down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:12 AM
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Agreed that’s why every man should only deal with virgins. Pure and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:08 AM
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The answer is very obvious and clear. Everyone has gassed up women to the point where they think they are all “that girl”. They are spoilt and their brain turned to mush. It’s too much for normal human beings to experience so much abundance, you won’t act normal. There are plenty of good men but there are very few good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:59 AM
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OP what is emotional intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:57 AM
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Question for you, why should any man care about all of this? Every girl on the app thinks she is special, they want to be picked out from the sea of women like they are the only girl in the world, it’s cringe. Btw it’s a strategy that doesn’t work because of how difficult it is to get with one woman. It’s like applying for 1 job and stopping your job search. In fact it’s down right selfish and egotistical to expect any man to do that. I would understand if you were an A list celebrity but this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:56 AM
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You’re fantasizing or happy about the thought of men jerking their penises to images of your wife in their heads. You’ve introduced the thought of sexual activities between your wife and other men, all facilitated by you. Imaginary or not. This a thought process most normal men should be repulsed by but you’re drawn to. Everything starts small and the seed has been planted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:39 AM
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That’s disgusting! Unless she gives me the money instead of paying her rent and I can lease her time to simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:26 AM
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This is the beginning of a cuckold fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:23 AM
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Our wife*
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:23 AM
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Everyone lies to women, women lie to women to maintain friendships, men lie to women to have sex and maintain relationships. The type of lies is the difference an RW guy lies about his political affiliation or his views on certain things. A LW will create covert contracts and lower his boundaries as much as he can to placate the relationship. You don’t have many options for a good quality stable relationship with a man you find attractive and treats you well. Same boat as me tbh, hooks up are bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:36 AM
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I get it, admiting otherwise would be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:21 AM
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How can you be sure of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:37 AM
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Man just found out jestering isn’t effective. It’s just a shaming ritual where you use your money to get heckled. Woman really have done it all, what will they make men do next?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:20 AM
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That’s not what I have seen, those guys get abused and cheated on constantly, they have no idea, it’s incredible because they have weak boundaries especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:18 AM
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Good question for the many married men in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:17 AM
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Id argue that women do choose their abusers. Why? There is a lot of literature, media,resources ,opinions and education available for women when concerning “man bad”. It’s literally everywhere, from children to adults women are bombarded with “man bad” constantly. I won’t be surprised that eventually many baby girls first words would be “man bad”. Now perhaps you could still fall for the tricks but with that much education, I think women need to take responsibility. It’s like them snorting coke …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:56 AM
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Men lie because women exist in delusion. Trying to talk to women like she’s a normal person will shock her should would feel insulted. Deadbedroom and divorces happen because no human can keep that facade going forever, it’s a lot of work, then women say they’re not happy and you don’t care etc.. Never satisfied always consuming everyone’s energy. Not even women can tolerate women for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:44 AM
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Yes it would be best for right wingers to hide but everyone man needs to lie to women, that’s nothing new, most women exist in fairy world where people all do what they want them to do. Men understand this and tell women what they want to hear because inherently women are selfish. Left wing men are just men who agree with whatever women say. It’s a grift. One that doesn’t even work because women don’t like weak spineless men, they eventually get tired of the “Yaaass queen”. So what happens? RW m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:59 PM
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That’s how deep jestering is. Thats why you think I don’t like women (I love them), but it’s because when I was very attractive, I was able to be myself that I detest jestering so much. I want every man to know what it feels like to have women actually like you for you, but that’s a dream far from reality. It’s just performing and I gave some examples but there are many more and much worse version of jestering. Some really awful ones that men go through and it’s just so disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:38 PM
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To me jester is doing what you don’t like to do but feel forced to do for women. For example, I don’t like paying for dates ( I don’t do it anymore ) but I did it to make women feel special. I don’t like to give compliments (makes women too egotistical) but they like to hear it, women actually love being love bombed. I don’t like to dance around women’s emotions (them being pissy, obnoxious, rude, etc) but you learn as a man not only to not set them off but to also glaze over their bad behaviors…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:03 PM
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If you think that a woman needs to do anything, I don’t know what to tell you, most people know that men are desperate and don’t care about personality, so past breathing most women aren’t special, sorry to tell you. I have never met people more confident in knowing what other people think like the wives of PPD. I have experienced love enough times to know that I always have to keep working to make things better and could never have the arrogance you guys have to assume my partner’s feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:56 PM
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Do you think any of you impressed people outside? Thats the thing looking good for women is mostly irrelevant unless you have a serious deformity. I shuddered to think what would happen to him if he didn’t send those messages, at least he can relax for a while now, the jail warden is satisfied, what a good boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:40 PM
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That’s how it goes, there’s no dude alive who won’t get rejected, there are far too many variables. The difference is your tolerance level, for Clav getting rejected 50 times in a day is a lot, but the average man will get rejected 500 times before he gets a result. The difference is when you succeed it’s different and you succeed slightly more often, the girl likes you more from the start, more sexual, More interested, more open, more nice, laughs at whatever dogshit you say, wants to sleep wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:37 PM
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Yes and this means that it’s more effective to jester than to be yourself. To the point where we have to pretend and tolerate women to get what we want because most women are trained on the belief that men should jester for them. It’s a bad cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:28 PM
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Being ugly as woman doesn’t mean you can’t find relationships, everyone dump dives eventually. I won’t get into this, please the last time I got banned for speaking the truth. I’m happy for your marriage and I hope that guy is happy with his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:25 PM
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There is no system that is perfect especially one that deals with women there are only systems that give better results. Looksmaxxing gives you more time, if an ugly guy does what Clav does he will get instantly rejected and humiliated. When you look better you get more time with the woman, and sometimes if you are ND like Clav is she will still desire you. When I was hot, I could bang chicks without speaking their language, but I still had to approach 100s of women. Approaching the same number …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:22 PM
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How is it self inflicted?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:12 PM
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Actually, I’m sure women don’t like the ideology but love right wing men and the opposite for left wing men. Left wing men just come as pick me loser men, they give off a desperate vibe where they have no real morals of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:09 PM
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“If men did what we say we would like them” and jestering was born. Because every woman wants something else and they always want more, you just give, give, give and feed the beast. Imagine this you have a friend or all your friends every time you want to hang out with them, you feel this sensation in the air (they won’t admit to it) that you need to compensate them for their presence with you, that you need to pay for things for them otherwise they don’t like you, that you need to make them lau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:07 PM
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What do you think normal men do they approach women? Are you joking or LARPing as a man? Even good looking guys with game get rejected the vast majority of the time. Thats women’s favorite hobby, this is why their egos are so big, they get to tell people “you ain’t good enough”. Every man fails constantly for approaches. I have seen Clav bumble around like an autistic mule, he still gets genuine burning desire which most men will never get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:35 PM
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It’s what I have seen in the wild. You need to meet many women and many guys underestimate how many. For example if you filter for a woman who likes you and is also feminine then you are in trouble. Not even a dating app can help you. You will have to move to a different country entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:31 PM
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Most women barely like men, they’re chadsexual. Men do all the things they do as a response to the results they get and the bad Blue pilled advice they get peppered with. No one wants to jester, or jump through hoops but at some point men saw that “even if she doesn’t like me at least I can entertain her long enough to get some sex”. The issue is now every woman can technically live out her actual sexual dream (chadsexual) so even jestering, or using money is not enough. All you can do now is co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:14 PM
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It’s so strange how they move the goal posts every time. Like nowadays they say “Oh of course we want to date someone who is attractive.“ like they weren’t insisting that personality matters for the longest time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:04 PM
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Women literally die from BBLs constantly it’s one of, if not the most dangerous surgeries out there, celebrities literally give themselves new faces (Lindsey Lohan). In SK, girls start hardmaxxing at 16 with double eye lid surgery. And Clav has proven it is effective. That’s why anyone does it. He is ND if he didn’t improve his looks he would be posting on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:01 PM
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What challenge or sense of achievement is there for a woman to find or be in a relationship? What? Men are insanely easy, you could just stand there and the man would put you in a relationship himself. Thats not an accomplishment, I don’t understand how women at fail something that’s already given to them. It’s not like you guys ask for a relationship, you throw sex at the guy and hope he sticks around. Marriage is an achievement though cause you need to find men who are suicidal enough, to ask……
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:58 PM
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R/nostupidquesitons Why is "looks-maxing" ridiculed in men when women have been doing it since the beginning of time? Watch how the entirety of Reddit gaslights OP into thinking “but aschually we only don’t like that you call it looksmaxxing, we always accepted men improving their looks.” The collective gaslighting from the NPCs was so strong I even started doubting myself. But we all know for a fact women absolutely hate men who try to augment their looks. Women want the real deal (Chad) or not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:27 PM
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True that and most of the women here are ugly or worse… old, so their opinions don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:23 PM
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No way the police will believe a good looking girl did all of that. Murder suicide is a much better and easier explanation since the guy touched both the gun and the other dead girls body.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:58 AM
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The hubris you women have to think that ending up with one of you needs “good luck” or is “good”. When often times a man’s experience with one of you could easily be described as “bad luck”, something you tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:18 AM
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It’s incredible men let you guys talk so smugly about your attractiveness when they have to rely purely on genetics while you guys can wear such a high level of disguise you have trouble recognizing yourselves in the mirror. But you have admitted that being bald and not wearing make up and still being attractive is simply a step too far for women, but is easily done by us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:57 AM
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It is funny that women can’t rely on natural beauty but talk like they actually look good, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:46 AM
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I did, it was great. MC deserved the pain he got end eventual end just like a betabux does. Poor girl tho oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:45 AM
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Thanks but I don’t need luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:58 AM
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I would assume so, that’s why so many of these ladies harass and chase after me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:47 AM
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Would it be disappointing or relieving if no one finds a woman attractive enough to do that stuff? Women constantly harass me, so I get it, somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:39 AM
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All those things happen to men too. Damn women shouldn’t even bother leaving their house.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:35 AM
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Actually most of the time the women is less attractive, especially if we remove make up, and deceptive contraptions (hair extensions, shapewear etc), a lot of women fail to do what they’re supposed to be good at (looking good).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:33 AM
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The obsession horror movie is just a girl with BPD, many men live that nightmare everyday and don’t cry like the MC.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:25 AM
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This can only done by maximizing your options first. You need to meet many women, utilizing every source available in order to be able to filter properly. It’s much more difficult than you think. If we have to take in to account this woman in question has to like you back. The average man maybe needs 500-1000 women, leaving him with as few as 5 who will like him back after you apply filters (arbitrary numbers).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:24 AM
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No improvement for your face though, and what does career have to do with it? Men should not be giving women their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:18 PM
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Brother became BPed and didn’t realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:05 AM
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That only works the other way around, woman are the ones only useful for making a man coom. Woman themselves say a man needs to fulfill 100s of different requirements. Woman just lay on their backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:50 AM
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Sure for match group or the commercial side, yes men use the apps more, they almost have no choice. But of those who effectively use it, that’s a different story. To me and to most men the apps barely exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:00 AM
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I didn’t say the bar was Brad Pitt, I’m saying every woman has that chance to meet one from a dating app. It’s effectively gambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:44 PM
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Men cast a wide net and never retract their hooks. But it’s mostly women and top tier men actually using the apps. Sure, I can make a dating profile and leave it there get 0 likes for years, does it mean I am using the app? I don’t boil using the app down to opening it on my phone. That’s far too reductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:42 PM
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Men aren’t. They just stay longer because they don’t get a result. This is different. Women get what they want and come back later, their population always shifts. Men’s use stays more consistent. Men stay because they don’t get anything or if you’re a Chad you just keep smashing hoes. But most women use dating apps or social media so they’re never not dating. Thats why they say shit like they “prefer to be single”, but they’ve never been single. It’s not impressive. Now if an ugly person, someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:01 PM
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Online dating is exactly the problem, it provides 24/7 access to the many of the hottest and successful men in the world. It’s easy, convenient, safe, fun, fast, gives women attention (they like it more than sex), and an opportunity to meet and filter through 1000s of men that lets a woman select for an unbelievably precise collection of traits. It’s perfect. There is no medium nor will there be a medium as good as dating apps for women especially. No, woman in her right mind will instead spend …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:47 PM
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I think they made the best men too easy to reach and thereby made men in general lower value. It’s like if all of sudden we could all eat wagyu A5 beef perfectly seared everyday anytime we want, not only would normal meat products taste worse or not interest us but the wagyu itself would lose its value. But people are dumb if they think women will ever give that up. They are especially dumb when they think most women don’t use the apps, the women just get their wagyu instantly, eat and come back…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:37 PM
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That is exactly the kind of conversation where they will get what they want. When you want to get something from someone you learn what they want and you offer it. What do you think is happening? You think men talk to women with the intent of having the woman “get to know him” ? You think a woman actually cares about that? Or having smoke blown up her booty?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:24 PM
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Well, yes so it’s a waste of time to spend more time talking with this woman especially if you aren’t going to get what you want with her. I can’t comment on what you went through but many modern women do not come off like what you were taught to be when they are dating or are in relationships with men. In fact, it’s the opposite. It’s men minding their words, freezing in anxiety and trying not to set women off like they are a pressure sensitive bomb. Let alone the dead husk of flesh that marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:44 AM
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When are you guys gonna be responsible for your own orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:16 AM
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Was he the bottom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:14 AM
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Well it’s different most women aren’t that fun to talk because they by default don’t think they are not fun to talk to, so they don’t really think about how to be fun to talk to, ie they’re boring. They don’t have a need to self reflect like men do, nor do they blame themselves for the outcome of a date most of the time. So while a man will try to improve his conversation skills or be more interesting because he has to, women don’t need to do that and therefore don’t. As a guy you have to just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:33 AM
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I don’t know, something about a beta getting beaten relentlessly by his female partner, just inspires me to keep the fight going, I thank you for providing me the inspiration. Gun pointed to his head he will say that sure. But we both know most guys can’t really be honest with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:30 AM
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I know so I don’t ever spend money on women. They pay me to hang out with them. Normal men however do have it rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:15 AM
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Nice try, but even before an ugly guy has the chance a random woman would be calling the cops on him for having the bravery of thinking he had a chance. Low self esteem makes it worse but looking ugly gives people the signal that they can do it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:13 AM
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Neither do I, but you’re actively giving off that vibe that he is “less than”. You don’t think it’s bullying because it’s you doing the ordering.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:55 PM
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No, women like beasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:53 PM
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That’s is absolutely rare, women barely want to pay for themselves, let alone pay for both her and the man. If you guys want to talk about really rare edge cases sure but there is no point to talk with you guys because I can and will talk just as much bs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:30 PM
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Many women do use sex as a reward. Look at Downtown_Cat she probably has her man in a gimp suit waiting to get whipped for some crumbs. The difference is money isn’t and can’t be a reward for women, it’s an expectation, it’s too late. Most women don’t even appreciate it when men spend money on them, those same women will at minimum hesitate to want to take their hard earned money and spend it on some dude for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:20 PM
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Are you trying to pretend that this is common? I mean women have bought me money, food, helicopter rides, gave me the keys to their car and I barely knew them, so yea you right most dudes experience that. Oh you must be trolling, yea , yea Most dudes definitely don’t have to pay for women to exist around them, I get it wink, hey you know women also pay for dates and offer to take care of men’s bills. You’re so funny brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:16 PM
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You slipped up because without prompting you assume we would think he was a beta, that tells me all I need to know. Diminish women’s value? Men are the ones upholding women’s value, while you guys find any reason you can to tarnish men. The guy can do laundry or really whatever you want, I already know he is scared of getting bullied if he chose not to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:13 PM
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No one deserves anything. Just be prepared for a higher likelihood of bad treatment the less attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:09 PM
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Unironically though if this is what happened that guy will get abused often, she will lash out at him constantly and belittle him daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:03 PM
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I mean why don’t woman date soft skinny and feminine men? Huh. It’s like only wanting to eat lion meat and complaining that he bites back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:02 PM
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That’s just time wasting, the girl could just be more comfortable with wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:57 PM
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Counter point, there is no high success rate strategy. Especially when you aren’t objectively attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:57 PM
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The “not wanting to fuck it” part is the difference here guys, imagine if lightning becomes this heinous abomination because started desiring sex with women. It could kill relentlessly but it crosses the line with wanting some box.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:56 PM
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Neither, women don’t give anyone money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:54 PM
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That depends on if the guys is already having frequent sex, or to the level he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:50 PM
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No one cares about anything we say doesn’t stop you guys from talking crap. I have self esteem though I’m fine with my bros, video games, dogs and beer but your poor husband sold his soul to eternal suffering and servitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:45 PM
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YAAAS Queeennnnnnnn!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:22 PM
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You know you guys say that but most women chase men for relationships when most dudes if they can smash and dash, I don’t know if looks like one sides likes being around the other more than it appears. Oh and your hubby is a beta you thinking it without it being brought up shows it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:16 PM
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That doesn’t turn most men off, they just tolerate you longer until they physically can’t do it anymore or you leave, which is why most women default to being like that, no one tells them when they are shit human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:38 AM
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I disagree, women can submit to the men they want to submit too. You feminists always remove women’s ability to choose. However I will say that and you will jump for joy, most men are the submissive one in their relationships, yes including the older ones. Men have a power fantasy that these women play out everyday, she’s the one ordering him around, telling him what to do and who to talk to, where to go and when to go etc. It’s very common in east Asia for it to be this way. So I very much doub…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:40 PM
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They know that. They just like shitting on men. Everyone knows the stereotype they are imagining when women talk shit like the “Male loneliness Epidemic” and we know for sure they aren’t imagining up standing citizens like Mr. Meeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:14 AM
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Girl Dinner Diaries Strikes again: The “male loneliness epidemic”… but are they actually lonely enough to change? ​ Thank god I’m out of the dating pool because WHAT is going on out there 😭 I was just out for cocktails with a couple of my girlfriends (late 20s), and the stories?? Actually insane. Like we’re not even talking “bad date, no spark”..... According to them, the current options are: - The man child (needs a mom, not a partner) - The narcissist (everything is about him, always) - The wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:53 AM
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These guys fighting so hard to pay for an adult baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:59 AM
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Damn poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:02 AM
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Your misunderstanding is that he only worships your vag. I’m sorry you been misinformed a man who fiends for vag fiends for many more than just 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:36 PM
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I disagree. Men overrate women incredibly. All a woman has to be is skinny and white and she will automatically be hot to most men. Yes granted that’s not the average but only because women are that lazy. An equally attractive man has to get many more things correct, not just skinny but lean and strong, white, good bone structure, sociable, charming, confident, income, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:08 PM
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They do it because they have to. You gloating about you giving them blue balls while they submissively give you head and promptly leave. It’s funny cause I am sure Chad has smashed and dashed you so many times, that you developed this revenge fantasy only to reenact it on these poor idiots. These same idiots who worship vag.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:02 PM
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Sure imagine shaming women for not eating dick and saying only young girls don’t like it. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:59 PM
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What is this post? The same disgusting shet I called out earlier but got downvoted for. How does it feel to exist as a victim of life? Isn’t it frustrating to always be the one being acted upon? To not even have whims or desires of your own? I swear it feels like women are the ones objectifying themselves because the comfort of being a victim is far too alluring. You guys can’t help it right? Funnily enough women are the ones more likely imo to harm a man in sex. Scratches, bites, jumping down o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:21 PM
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They say that because they know you want to hear it. An element of getting with women is figuring out what they want to hear and saying it over and over. Thats why love bombing is so effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:04 PM
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No you can care about other things of course but you handwaved child labor away like it was a pesky fly. You couldn’t be bothered. This is the reality of women. You feel sorry for millionaires? What a kind heart, I noticed you didnt feel sorry for those kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:48 PM
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Sure you do. You care after he tells you what you want to hear. How do you think flirting or game works? You tell women what they want to hear, that’s it. Women often can’t operate otherwise. Then you guys come back and pretend like you care about the dude. No, cause the moment he is honestly himself you’re turned off. Most men want to nut as fast they can, do you think they can get away with that? Haha you guys are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:30 PM
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Child labor should be far higher on your list of atrocities than porn but here you are hating on something women willing mass produce everyday. Do you hate your fellow women for becoming millionaires while you didn’t? If porn was banned what would those poor women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:27 PM
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Yea but you babies act like it can only possibly happen to women. This is why you guys dismiss male victims of anything if it’s done by a woman. But it’s ok “you adorable babies… you know you can’t do anything wrong… right? It’s only that big bad man… he is that bad not you.. you cutieh.. awww… heheheh.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:18 PM
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It’s not that simple. Women are very entitled people. You don’t experience it because you’re not a man. I have had woman try to physically attack me for not fcking them. Eating them out even when it reeks that’s just how it goes because otherwise she can guilt trip you over it. But of course I shouldn’t make our little angels look bad. “Aww you little babies… you know man bad … he just wants to use you… who’s a good little baby… you are… you never do anything wrong… but only you matter… ya big c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:13 PM
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I’m fine I just don’t like that you guys paint yourself in the light of the only one sacrificing or having to do anything. There are many a poor man at home getting bullied by his wife. You guys don’t care about him, yet post after post of this same poop with a different name.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:10 PM
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Agreed, the more I go out to bars and clubs the more I see. I did go out before but Asia has a lot less variety in age, race, height, weight of women, than where I am right now. The difference is huge. Ugly women don’t exist to the guys, it’s incredible. The hot woman get guys slinging darts at her like she has a target on her back. Normal girls barely get crumbs. Real life reverse tinder. It’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:59 PM
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I wouldn’t, honestly. I’m a boob man and by luck I have had women with great tits every time. My worst nightmare is a great woman with boobs like that. I couldn’t date her. Also OP you shouldn’t ask men these kinds of questions men find pride having 0 standards or dislikes toward women. If you told them she had a glass eye and an inverted vag (a penis) they’d fall over themselves to tell you how much they don’t mind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:53 PM
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I suggest men put their work tools down and transition into the house husband life. Women will complain non stop either way about anything why not just chill in the comfort of your home relaxing… I mean working the hardest job in the world. I don’t need to make money or do anything with this simple solution. And if anything goes wrong I can just blame my wife, and if she makes me feel bad I can just take half of her stuff and find the next sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:49 PM
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The last thing any guy should do is get married to a woman. That has been a joke for at least a century, why would he trap a woman to trap himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:45 PM
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You woman disgust me. You guys frame everything with this angle of grape or man bad, it’s despicable. Let me tell you most guys don’t want to eat your stank coochie, but we eat that hairy muffin cause we know we gotta do what we gotta do. No we don’t like having to deal with your pillow princess ways but that’s how it is, we have to be mindful of some many things if we are trying to get you off that sex doesn’t feel good anymore. But these guys do it and make that sacrifice for you but the only …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:42 PM
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I thought I had the messed up thought process, this is the self victimization I wanted to see. It’s absolutely hilarious. So OF models are associated with domestic and sexual violence ? Let me guess when the OF models are making millions it’s “You go girl!”, when your boyfriend beats his meat to her it’s “Oh that poor millionaire woman forced to take off her clothes for money… there must be a man involved to blame somehow… women can’t think for themselves you know.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:35 PM
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That’s was the purpose, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:31 PM
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Sure it’s not competition, I don’t see you guys with pitchforks outside of Apple for their use of child labor to manufacture their products or the Cadbury for child labor to pick their cocoa. You women think you’re the star of the show for everything, the only issue that exists in this world revolve your vag. So many more important atrocities to fight against but the one you guys care about is whether or not your husband sees a woman naked. Porn by the way is making other woman billionaires but …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:30 PM
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Yea that was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:26 PM
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My ex courted me. I was getting heckled by fans again and she stole me away on her horse. She looked like Megan Fox but simped hard for me, eventually I mercifully gave her chance. She passed all my shit test and paid for everything. My friends told me I was too good for her and that I deserved better but you know she was so good looking. I had no choice, I was tired of all the bad girls. I had someone who would do anything for me even though I was barely attracted to her, I mean she was short. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:36 AM
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Women don’t like porn because they don’t like competition, everything else they say is just excuses they use to make you feel bad. Women love to control men, many of them deadbedroom their poor oofy doofy husband then spit venom when he touches himself. The torture turns them on, then they give 1-800-CHAD-DCK a call to get themselves off. Do you think all these ethics matter when they are scraping their meat to lesbian porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:27 AM
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Sometimes the chase is fun. Lots of my friends do. The issue is how successful you are when you do it. When there’s flirting and playing around and not taking things too seriously. It’s fun. But the fun part only happens when you’re hot. However I will admit that women at least on Reddit are so much more neurotic and hyper fixated on themselves that I can’t imagine it would be fun talking to them, let alone chasing or dating them. Every other sentence it feels like they will vomit some feminist …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:22 AM
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Idk man women are very similar in what they find attractive. Yea there are some freaky girls, but things like height, ethnicity, having hair etc yea it’s very easily observable. Especially because women spend so much time rejecting most men, it’s definitely going to look like they’re aiming for a certain type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:31 PM
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Plenty of women straight up hate men. Just no one takes it seriously, people look at women like 5 year old harmless kids when they’re not. Too many people think women aren’t capable of anything, like they don’t have the capacity for evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:27 AM
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That’s a good idea. Women thinking you can attract hot women will find you more attractive. Thats hacking the hive mind. Pretty smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:48 AM
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So basically the guys you want wouldn’t listen to you anyway, so what’s the point of telling men anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:54 PM
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So therefore you have established that in order to date men you have expectation that they ask you out and thereby pay. Do you ask out women and pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:35 PM
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Oh you’re from the hood? Oof my bad and I’m so sorry, aye good luck tho. I’m sure you get much more pussy than me, I only dine at the finest restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:22 PM
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Ok question time. If or when you go on a date with a man who pays?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:17 PM
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Everything depends on your face. Things like what you say come after that. Women don’t want to admit because it means guys won’t jester as hard. Men don’t like it because it makes them give up hope. So we keep on this merry go round, endlessly making excuses for why things turn out the way they do. But one thing most people miss. Is that most women aren’t nice by default, too much scare tactics and insecurity make them mean as hell. They genuinely have to be in a good mood and other situations n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:02 PM
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I don’t like that you guys are being purposefully obtuse. Most women expect men to do or be a certain way, from having money or ambition to being protective, chivalrous or leading, these expectations aren’t as intense in lesbian relationships or dating. Please you don’t need to be so dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:52 PM
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Yea, sure. They do. Dude it’s ok sometimes to admit you have things better than others. You don’t lose anything from it. You just look like a selfish turd. You’re like those rich people who complain about literally anything and try to say your life is as hard as poor people, it’s condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:54 PM
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Since when is being a lesbian a flex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:51 PM
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No, because women hate not being the center of the show, a chad harem will be difficult to build. However he will have a fandom. Those women will eventually give up on the chase and use the frustration of the loss to whip their beta buxx deluxe into working his life away for her in recompense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:03 PM
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Is there a rule that if you meet a guy outside he can’t pump and dump you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:01 PM
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It’s funny watching all the women scrambling to tell guys to go cold approach instead or give up. You guys don’t understand the problem is women using the dating apps. Dating apps are what people think porn does to men but for women. Think about it. I am an average women and I have 1k likes or matches on an app. I can choose whatever height, race, body shape, success or ability of man I want to talk to. Why? Why would I ever rather wait for a creepy mouthbreathing loser come interrupt my day to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:10 AM
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I know what it feels like to be a man. Where the onus is on me to perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:04 AM
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That is a very close split. The way you are talking about it it’s like a 10-1 split.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:49 AM
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Are you advising men to cold DM women as opposed to using dating apps? This is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:48 AM
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No, they don’t. Even if they did very few men are going to be what that woman is looking for, and needs to happen at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:47 AM
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Most women aren’t hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:40 AM
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That’s what they tell you. But if those women are meeting men, I strongly doubt they are approaching those men. How is Instagram supposed to be easier for dating than a dating app for the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:31 AM
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The website says the ratio is 60 - 40. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:28 AM
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Women use the apps just as much they just get their end result faster. Think of it this way, you and I are at a restaurant, the food I want if available takes time to prepare, the food you want is quick and always available. You get what you want, eat and leave, leaving me standing there. We both use the same restaurant but to someone else, it looks like it’s just me using it, they don’t even notice you because you got in and out so fast. And no Chad is banging some new chick who told her boyfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:11 AM
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Are you for real? Basic things like money or chilvary and many more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:07 AM
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You just underrate yourself probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:49 AM
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Women also use dating apps. Meeting IRL is significantly less valuable, those same women that you meet outside will go inside and compare you to Chad on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:45 AM
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This is not really true to me. Women just use the app faster. There is no need for her to stay there for months when she can get what she want in day. Women come in shop, order what man they want and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:44 AM
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It doesn’t matter. No one considers that WOMEN use the dating apps too. There is literally no better place for women to go in order control the kind and quality of men she will interact with romantically. The dating apps are as good as it gets for female dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:40 AM
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It’s not the same. Women can and do ask for a lot from men but are fine with getting very little from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:36 AM
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Yet women struggle to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:41 AM
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Of course, men shouldn’t complain we expect the best from them always. We have high expectations of them and punish them when they don’t fulfill them, if they cry and moan about it we clamped down on them harder. I mean someone has to do the work and we certainly can’t be expecting women to be doing or be responsible for much of anything. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:06 AM
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Does it help you to paint me as a conservative or something? I don’t want to be pegged so I guess I might well be conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:01 PM
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Women have nothing to gain from other women like they do men. They have no expectations of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:00 PM
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Most men in relationships do not women. They don’t need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:59 PM
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So when women say men lack social skills can it be reasonably assumed that those women lack those very same social skills as well? I have rarely met a woman capable of even one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:25 PM
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What are these social skills you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:12 PM
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This will be interesting. Are the women on this subreddit capable of reflection or seeing the impact they make on others? Or will they deflect? Well I already know the answer but let’s see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:09 PM
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I’m glad acknowledged you knew what was happening but kept doing it. And seem to have no remorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:54 PM
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It’s super hard to be confident of yourself when people keep telling you something is wrong with you. Now, that these guys have given up they call them losers for not trying. You can’t win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:25 PM
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That guy might have been sweating bullets every night you went out but couldn’t even let out a peep from fear of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:23 PM
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I am talking about men in general. Sure, she will try harder if the guy she wants is very attractive to her but based on what women say guys like that are rare. And to me that happens after meeting or interacting with him. But most women aren’t doing it for men in general. These dudes are spending years shadow boxing ghosts to figure out what they should do in as many plausible scenarios. Improving to impress someone they have yet to meet and burdening themselves with self esteem issues to match…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:14 PM
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Ya that looks like what happens to the woman and her husband is in the audience cheerleading her on. It’s brutal but the husband would have ascended to complete man, pure without any insecurity, a liberal’s dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:47 PM
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Your fellow women might disappoint you more than you think. But surely you know what a Bull is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:30 PM
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Did you enjoy bullying your then bf and now husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:29 PM
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Doesn’t matter women think the attention they get from men is not equivalent to cheating, she could have a full blown relationship but nothing physical and think it’s ok. And gaslight her husband into accepting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:28 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:26 PM
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The most secure men are the ones enjoying their wives getting railed by a bull 3x his size not even because he likes it but because he respects her wishes. That’s a real man. That’s what men should aspire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:24 PM
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Agreed. With the amount of access women have these days does she really need a club if she wanted to cheat? Most men are pretty dumb when it comes to women and cheating anyway. They don’t suspect anything and majority of the time women are the ones to cheat, granted at the end of the relationship when they monkey branch. I don’t need to suspect women of cheating, I know they do it constantly. Then they project their guilt on to their boyfriend and accuse him of doing it. It’s hilarious watching …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:19 PM
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I’m not conservative. Those same progressive women will put a dildo up a progressive dudes bumhole to bully him (no one respects white knights and simps, sorry man) and then marry a conservative man and give him kids. This is the messaging you see everywhere. Women should love themselves and they are perfect as they are and Men are trash that need to improve and apologize for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:02 PM
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No, you claimed men are getting worse. My claim is that to me men are better and keep getting better and that even if I assume your stance that man need improvement they are at worst just as shit as women. So there is no need to do anything, and no need to tell men to do anything. Women can only be as hypergamous as what they can choose. No need to make the lives of boys and men a living hell of insecurity and merciless chasing of self improvement and self hate to please land whales.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:56 PM
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Then no need to try hard because at base level we’re all shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:21 PM
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Yes, so what women have done is collectively stopped trying, thinking they are prefect as they are. And what men have done mounted loads of pressure to try much harder, thinking nothing they do is good enough. You’re fighting for worse woman, who care less, are more spiteful, more hateful, don’t cook or clean, demand more, are fatter, uglier, more masculine while doing your best to out compete every other guy to be the best for that same woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:55 PM
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Even that has always been too much to attract women. Women select based on what’s available, if all men become tap dancers she will then pick the best tap dancer to date. Men like you are the reason women can get away with looking like a stuffed pig and having the attitude of a Soviet war general and still date attractive men. Stop jestering, it has no purpose. They only talk shit now about impossible standards become someone will listen to their hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:30 PM
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No, you will be enjoying it alone and my woman will be serving me in my house that she paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:26 PM
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This is why I ask dudes why do they want relationships so badly? wtf you do so much shit, you spend your life working to come home to get abused? I don’t understand men. And then they let women talk crazy about how amazing they are to be around but I have yet to see a reason or need for a woman to be good. Humans are incentive based beings, no incentive, we don’t do it. Women have no incentive to be nice, dudes shit no matter what but we just accept that they will be good partners. They can be h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:16 PM
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No he is suffering because men aren’t taught self respect and that it’s not ok for women to treat you like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:14 PM
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Polls like that don’t matter because depending on the space there is encouragement or denouncement of critic or disdain towards women. But there is only nowadays anyway one way to view men, with negativity. No one not even men spend any time uplifting or encouraging men. It’s common and normal to hate men. However if you want to be a misogynist you better be rich, powerful, able to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:09 PM
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He got on the date though. It’s only a matter of time until he gets a girl who doesn’t mind what he says. There is no secret to talking to women. They’re just people. Let me go a step a further. All this hyper analyzing of specific moves, traits and actions are an ultra form of female worship. An insidious form of Gynocenterism. I ask you guys to stop this shit, just be yourself, love yourself only give a shit about yourself, if I go on a date and want to talk about sports I’m doing it, she can …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 04:03 PM
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Nah, that’s not a man’s job. Thats a woman’s job now, you guys like cake don’t you? Well I do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:25 PM
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Prince era* and nah I’m straight, I like women. Women are acting masculine already, I get to be handsome and she gets to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:10 AM
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Compete? I’m well on my way to learning the dark arts of female sorcery to become a sugar baby and complain about emotional and mental labor while collecting fat pay cheques for sweeping the floor every few days and giving lifeless pity sex every other month. I’m done with trying to give women stuff, I’m in my prince era. Tinkle, tinkle 💅.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:17 AM
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Ain’t that what all these women do literally everyday? Spending hours telling everyone how happy their life of misery is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:10 PM
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No, thankfully I have not. But my male friends have and barely anyone cared the dude didn’t even go to jail and he did it to little boys, that sick fuck. You won’t have any friends, eventually any form of human contact will feel like relief, that’s why solitary confinement is the worse punishment they give in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:46 PM
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I am talking genuinely struggling to fit through doorways type of fat. I have seen it many times. I care because women get huge ego boosts from it even women who don’t date those men because they think “ if I am hotter than then her imagine the kind of man I could get”. I believe that men should respect themselves and do better, it makes the rest of us look bad and makes women think it’s ok to be that unhealthy. I don’t care about your gay comments, I’m not gay and nothing is wrong with being ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:43 PM
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We can’t choose where we are born or where we grow up. If you won the rich parents lottery that’s great but most people don’t have that. Most incels aren’t even ugly but they feel and think that from the world telling them that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:24 PM
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Incels aren’t right either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:21 PM
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My condolences for your horrific experience but that’s not the experience of most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:20 PM
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Yes I said I understand period pain, that definitely sucks and I wish it on no one. Everything is rape to you guys, every case problem, scenario, issue or conversation inevitably you guys use rape. It’s like a trump card to win any debate but doesn’t work with me because it’s not the only problem worth concern just one of many. You can only avoid people for so long eventually they come into your life, there is no perfect way to avoid problems. Seclusion will also deteriorate your mind and self e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:19 PM
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Sure you can do work by yourself or with a professional. However telling other people especially women about concretes it in your mind because they react with disgust or don’t care so you feel worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:10 PM
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That a new stat? I haven’t heard it before but again you point to sexuality. There are more problems than sexual ones. Men aren’t given this life free of problems it may not be often sexual but it’s still relevant and many times worse. Many boys around the world are raped, tortured, or made in to child soldiers but no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:54 PM
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This table alone is all a woman will ever need or want. No, I am not. I have literally been pissed off by men dating fat women so much, I want to shake them and slap them up. But I can’t. These dudes are fit and good looking but find ugly fat women sexy, nothing I can do. I grew up in a culture like that, it sucks. I am Stacysexual. My bad if I forgot to admit it. I too was spoiled by dating a hot woman once, it actually has ruined me, I compare every new girl to her… it’s rough. Self pity? Base…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:51 PM
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Well some people will take a week long sharp pain in their abdomen vs never find romantic love or respect. Apparently you are the one who wants the latter. I have never experienced period pain but it’s interesting proposition a kick in the nuts everyday for a week and you have infinite dating options or have an average man’s dating options. Hmm. Tough choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:46 PM
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You guys have some really strange and prolific rape fantasies. Every scenario there is some woman inserting rape like it’s the only problem that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:44 PM
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You could you know choose not to have sex. Period pain that one I get it. But not because you’re a short bald ugly man means people around will let you off free, everyday they will remind you that your life is supposed to be given to a woman and that you’re failure for not doing so, constantly pressurizing you to go out and get rejected otherwise you’re a loser. Telling you in excruciating detail about how much you should improve to get women and how obsessed you should be about women yet those …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:42 PM
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That’s such a niche scenario but it only exists in circles where people know and respect you. Out in the streets? People will push you, walk in your way, try to fight you because they know they can take you, be more ready to insult you, you’re literally a target a small one. Those men are experience in being themselves they know already how to avoid attention. You guys think loners or incels stay in the basement because it’s nice? They had to run down there to avoid bullying and humiliation and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:37 PM
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Women who are ugly don’t struggle to date. In fact it’s to a point where most women think they are good looking, because they can barely tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:33 PM
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In relative numbers women rarely face rejection. That guy in the example approached 1000 women and got 20 dates. How many men will it take an average woman to get 20 dates with? My guess at worst 30-40. I gave her a 50% success rate which is low honestly but whatever. If you compare that 30-40 to 1000 it’s just such a massive gap. We see similar things in women’s match rates on dating apps. The magnitude is extreme so yes relatively women rarely face rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:32 PM
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That’s what you think about yourself if you did it. We call that insecurity. Many guys would jump at a chance for someone to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:26 PM
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OP is still wrong though they make the same mistake people do when they say women have the same or similarly bad time on dating apps. The effort is not the same. A woman approaching 5 guys in her entire life and getting rejected 4 times looks bad for a woman but is fantastic results for a man. Men and I have done it have spoken to hundreds, bordering on thousands of women and gotten rejected 99% of the time. Even Chads get rejected, even if she was going to someone below her level or the same, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:24 PM
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Men want more than just sex. They choose escapism like porn because they already gave up. They already gave up on experiencing things women take for granted everyday. That doesn’t stop feminist from hating on porn though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:08 PM
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Women do that because they believe they are the center of the world. I have that same fear too, I’m scared hot women will chase me down and touch my wee wee, every time I walk down the street. Thank god it hasn’t happened yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:07 PM
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If you’re a chadsexual but Chad doesn’t want you, then yes you want to die alone. Most women can and do do it, I have observed this myself from many women. If you can’t do it that’s not my fault. 400lb ND don’t have issues getting men. They are even fetishized in some parts of the world especially in Africa, the Caribbean, Latin America. My analogy is about someone in abundance complaining to someone that is starving as if their situations are at all similar or as if they are worse off. It’s nau…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:03 PM
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You would get bullied by everyone instead. Girls think bullying from other girls is bad wait till some dudes gang up and beat the shit out of you for no reason and tease you everyday for losing to them 5 v 1 and if you stand up for yourself the school suspends you. Then girls will bully for you being such a weakling for losing or simple not even acting like you exist. I don’t think you girls could mentally handle that shit, don’t ask for it. The same way I’d never take pregnancy nor period pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:42 PM
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Well mostly yes. But also no because that’s what people who don’t care for what they have to say will reduce it to. This is another reason why you shouldn’t cry to women about your problems because they inherently don’t care. I have rarely seen women care even for people they love on that level, so it’s incredible to me that dudes think random women will care about them. Other men think you should “man up” and women think they are bigger victims “so what are you crying for? You are the patriarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:38 PM
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They aren’t. However many people will tell you that women are doing better than men and they should care? Like I don’t know if I should care if a woman is doing better than me, they say it like I should be ashamed like if a disabled person with one legged could out run me. But a lot of men internalize messages like that and they think they should work harder or something, that something is wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:32 PM
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That’s because you think you will be an above average man. May you reincarnate as an ethnic balding short man, where no one respects you and women run from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:23 PM
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“Men should not be victims” victims are seen as weak and helpless not the heroes. It’s a submissive position not befitting of the builders of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:13 PM
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Yea the male posters say the same too but it just makes you look weak. Thats why women ego boost each other, looking better is more important than being better. And conversely, I think this is why men are actually struggling, they believe that they should be struggling because that’s all they hear and therefore they live that reality. If boys hear that they struggle in school and believe you, guess what they gonna do. If you tell women they struggle with their emotions and that aren’t capable, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:11 PM
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This will be interesting because usually and I don’t like it men here like to victimize themselves to get sympathy from women (it doesn’t work). I hate it because men are just amazing but let’s see the role reversal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:56 PM
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Nope, you aren’t gonna get away with that horse manure. Women spend large amounts of their lives in relationships, bouncing in and out, whenever they want. You guys saying you want to die alone doesn’t mean anything because you don’t even know what being alone is. Go ask a trucel what loneliness is, if that guy says he is fine with it I accept it, not some phony like most women are. What do I look talking to a poor person about not needing clean water when I have it every day and they don’t? It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:34 PM
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You go King 👑. Live your best life all these seething women in the comments know they aren’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:25 PM
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Agreed. The key problem that people like OP don’t take into account is the lopsided dating market produced from dating apps and social media. It’s just too easy for even ugly women to gain most of the benefits a good looking woman can get. Chads are also much too accessible. I have thought about it too. If I were a woman why if I have the option choose a normal man over a Chad? The difference is one swipe. Both of those men will talk to me, try to court me and look for sex. If there is a 1% chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:09 AM
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Match with 5 people after a period of time? How long do you think that it is a year? Those matches don’t mean anything anyway women are the inventors of ghosting, flaking, and not responding. Let’s not even take into account the incredible pressure that there is for men in dealing with women. The tiptoeing around her ego. The performing to her whims. The tolerating of her abuse and mood swings. The expectations her and society have of you. The non stop complaining, nagging and abuse when they fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:59 AM
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I do. But mostly from men putting other men down. They know our struggles and our pressures but still try so hard to inflict harm on their own brethren for a small, tiny bit of female validation. Then I watch these same women shit on that guy (like a lot of women do) and he agrees with them doing it like a bdsm slave begging for another whipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:50 PM
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It is something men use as a way to deal with being rejected for most of their lives and give them something to live up to. I do believe in it somewhat though. To me it’s more like when comparing an older woman 35+ give or take to a woman in her 20s to me especially in the west where most people have poor eating habits. The difference is vast. Some women look like they are melting it’s strange. The men don’t look much better but they were largely the same “unattractive” so it doesn’t change thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:46 PM
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Perpetual desire to be a victim perhaps it is very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:12 PM
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What’s your obsession about forced here or are you meaning against her will in your mind? I am only meaning that her being nice will be the only thing she can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:55 PM
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Would you rather have a woman who loved you, supported you, laughed with you, was your peace at home, First sentence. Although you are right he didn’t use the exact words of forced be nice to you but it’s implied that’s she must do it or will do it. But again most guys just haven’t been in enough LTRs to know that many women aren’t nice at any stage and a lot of them won’t be nice and won’t have sex with you after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:47 PM
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Sounds like a typical marriage to me, except that she loves you and supports you part instead of nagging and berating you whenever she can. I’d take it actually. I think guys here are mostly gonna say no but because they think they have a choice in the matter of getting deadbedroom or not. I already know it’s gonna happen. I would rather my wife at least be forced to be nice to me than have what most men have where they have to sit in their car for an hour after work preparing themselves for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:43 PM
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I had a similar experience to OP, I genuinely for a couple of years thought that most if not all women were lesbian. Like most of them treat their male partners poorly, expect remuneration from men for their presence, make fun of and bully men, feel disgusted when men speak to them or find them attractive, feel scared or grossed out when having to interact with men, throw men away in to the trash when they’re done using them, don’t care or show empathy nor sympathy for men nor even little boys. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:26 PM
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That’s what most relationships turn into not sure why men want it so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:23 AM
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Some men like to pay women to be around them, this guy is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:43 AM
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Aren’t most women (people) insecure? How is looksmaxing different from what women already do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:51 PM
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I think lots of women don’t consider is that desire clouds judgement. When I want something bad enough it blinds me to the reality of what I am doing. It’s a human thing. Being constantly rejected for months or years builds up a lot of tension in your body as man, you face a lot of pressure from outside of you from others and inside of you for various reasons. Having sex sort of becomes an identity (Incel or player), unfortunately it means you say or do things that aren’t the best. This is exace…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:23 PM
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Doesn’t matter where you meet some of you look good enough they will invent the fairytale all by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:40 AM
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Posts like these really highlight the issue for me with the self improvement spaces. They’re so lacking in understanding and nuance of an individual’s circumstances. And pointless because I don’t think there is any part of life that doesn’t ask men to improve. But have you guys thought of the ramifications of constantly telling someone they need to improve “? That who they are isn’t good enough? That they are a failure? They don’t deserve love and care because of xyz ? It’s horrific breeding gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:38 AM
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Op you’re not competing with women you competing with other men for that woman. It’s a big difference especially since men have no standards even single mom landwhales have great men competing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:50 PM
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Two reasons: Men are awesome and irresistible to a lot of women despite what they say. Most women cheat long before relationship ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:43 PM
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Depends on where you draw the line on cheating. If it is only sex I think most women wait until the last few days or weeks of a relationship and start messing with a new guy physically, so they cheat but then soon after break up with you. So many guys get stunned by their gf having that stone cold face of Idgaf about you but she been fcking another dude for weeks, it’s not a light switch effect. If you mean emotionally like text messages, snaps, phone calls, chatting with other men, looking for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:22 PM
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People like OP have some serious hope to cling on to. Thinking that the issue is that women feel uncomfortable from his actions, so he wants to make them feel more comfortable or have more agency in the interaction. Here’s the thing though OP have you thought that maybe it’s your face that makes them uncomfortable not you trying to get their number? That your face is the difference. Brad Pitt gives her his number or takes her number is there a difference? No. You give her your number or you take…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:01 PM
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Most men gotta try a lot of women before they succeed. Trying to get the 1-2 girls in your social circle or the few in social gatherings whic by the way takes a lot of time is inefficient. Those women also have dating apps and as we know women and dating apps are match made in heaven. She’s chatting with and arranging a meet up with Chad from across the city and here you are jestering for 5 mins of attention after wait for 2 hours to talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:58 PM
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There are female billionaires many of them got it from their husbands or former husbands. Only men are stupid enough to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:41 AM
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No the best for a woman is a rich man who is also a Chad. Not just a dusty bum Chad. A millionaire is better than a Chad and if Stacy wants she can marry a rich dude and cheat with Chad on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:53 AM
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Those guys are idiots to be fair, they think being used as a piggy bank is better than being alone. Then get divorced graped and cry about it. Sure men scam women. But women have the opportunity to gain more, from money to children. A man can only hope to get some sex if it is even good until she inevitably shuts off the tap. Claude said your stats only work for the demographic of women between 24-39 which is small and most women in that range will feel like they still have time to scam some dud…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:00 AM
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Ok another post forgive me. My brain is popping ideas. I believe being a Stacy is far better than being a Chad or that the gap between a Stacy and a normal woman is far larger than a Chad and a normal man. Why? As a Stacy you can date the best men and possibly get married and inherit multi generational wealth and status, travel the world, live the best experiences. Most normal women don’t get anywhere near as much other than hopefully a just-over-broke betabuxx. But as a Chad you only get sex ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:40 AM
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No you can like what you want. Women are deluded to me when they think that they are better than they are. Like those women saying they don’t need men or won’t date. I always imagine some crazy person screaming at an empty pit. No one cares. So why are you declaring it? if you were someone missable you wouldn’t have to say anything. The worst part is that most women know that they are just regular people and nothing special it just looks like a schizo rambling, it’s sad. Women are excellent scam…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:27 AM
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I mean of course there are nice people I am talking about nice guys who think their niceness is the deciding factor for a woman liking them or not. They’re just not handsome enough. Most men don’t want a woman with a body count of 6000, I don’t really mind it. Most women as they age sag in all places it’s horrifying, it’s like they are melting. Many women already pretend to like men in order to get money from them. Some men pretend to like women so they get some consistent sex. Most women don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:20 AM
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True I agree. I personally want prince treatment. She has to be super hot and tall, like a fit young volleyball player with nice perfect boobs, that pays for everything, gives me what I want and is a doormat for me. But realistically for most men the line is she is nice 30% of the time and mildly attractive anything more than that you risk running into a BPD chick or worse a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:09 AM
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I got a question Why if a woman goes on a date with a man and after that date he ghosts her does she assume: he wanted to have sex with her A)but she rejected so he just wanted to have sex and therefore he doesn’t want to continue anymore. B) that they did have sex but that he pumped and dumped her. Why do women not assume maybe that they are boring, hard to talk to, ugly, uncharismatic, unfunny uninteresting, have poor social skills, or any of the litany of criticisms they hurl at men on a dail…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:01 AM
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No we are in a “we are too comfortable shitting on men epidemic” what do you think happens when so much of the population spends their time shitting on men for existing? Bruh you guys are hilarious. We have love for all things female and of course women are confident because if you get positive validation you feel good about yourself. But don’t realize if you show someone hate, criticize them constantly and make them feel like shit for things they especially can’t control. They’re not gonna rise…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:45 PM
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I did. But perhaps not on the level I described in the post to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:06 PM
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1-3 dates in a year? That’s insanely low. Where is this data because i genuinely find it unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:05 PM
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He asked for narcissistic women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:04 PM
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That must be old data. Even some of my less attractive girl friends pass that number in a year comfortably. Let alone women who are searching for a “highly compatible” partner through dating apps? 15-25 first dates in a lifetime using dating apps? That doesn’t sound real at all even ugly men can pass the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:51 PM
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There are definitely more traits than you listed that are difficult or impossible to change. But yes it’s looks, looks, looks. I agree on seduction but I don’t know it comes so late in the interaction hmm, and with the current political climate, trying to seduce women is dangerous. I actually try to get them to fck me, as in take my clothes off, seduce me if I can. It’s less risky I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:37 PM
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There are no nice guys just ugly men. I fixed it for you OP. You think if Chad was nice it wouldn’t add points to how attractive he is? Really? A nice and handsome man? You guys won’t be alone because eventually those resentful obnoxious cat ladies will want a man to take over what her cats were doing and eat her crusty muffin. Will she be very unattractive? Yes. Will she have a body count the size of a small country? Yes. Will she be able to pretend to like you to get you to pay for her kids an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:26 PM
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Excuse me what? What if the guy just wants some companionship you know like literally everyone else? You don’t need to do shit to get a partner what are these lies you are spewing sir? Plenty of broke ugly women in relationships everywhere. Or do you mean only men need to do stuff? If so plenty of broke ugly men in relationships now they may have sacrificed their soul to the pssy but they got something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:18 PM
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I can see that happening for attractive men. But it’s not like women aren’t human, it’s like jobs that 1000s of applicants the value of the individual applicants diminishes until they are just another name on the spreadsheet. I think that’s where all these standards and or checklists come from. I imagine myself as a woman looking for an LTR and I can go on 3-4 dates a day meeting 100 men in a month. Eventually it will have to become a list of traits, leaving only the guy that impresses me the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:14 PM
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So they can meet hundreds of men and still remember those dudes or care about man 101, 102 etc? Like how do you have the emotional bandwidth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:04 PM
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It can’t be tho I mean very few men can pull that off but most women can do this. Like how do you still like a dude and see him as special while multi-dating 3-4 other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:03 PM
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Do you think I have given the guy who asked what happens if you are high energy with no masculine frame to a narcissistic woman (most of them are) a realistic scenario? “ She won’t look for you, you will find her. Story time of a common scenario: For the most part things will go well at the start but eventually those shit tests you weren’t passing because of high energy will have worse consequences. She will go from light insults to serious insults, serious insults to controlling behavior, all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:02 PM
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She won’t look for you, you will find her. Story time of a common scenario: For the most part things will go well at the start but eventually those shit tests you weren’t passing because of high energy will have worse consequences. She will go from light insults to serious insults, serious insults to controlling behavior, all that energy to socialize and meet others you had well now you going out means you trying to cheat on her, she doesn’t like your friends or your family so when you go meet t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:00 PM
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This is a really irrelevant question. It’s wherever she meets Chad, duh. I swear some dudes here are really not learning. What ever romantic tales she wants to tell her friends about their first meet she will create herself. They’re busy telling their friends that the Chad they had order in to smash their guts in from the dating app like Uber Dix, was actually a once in a lifetime meeting in the bookstore when their hands touched from them both picking out the newest female smut novel. It doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:29 AM
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Excuse me what? I mean I have called women pretty bad things but damn this is a horrendous insult bro. Jesus Christ not fully functioning humans until 1970?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:51 AM
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No wrong again you’re the one hating on men. Women didn’t improve their social skills why would they do that to impress who to talk with who? Are you kidding me? Bro if you are misandrist I get it but this is stupid. Women today are meaner, ruder, harder to talk to, bigger ego. Look at how meek and flaccid dudes are in front of women and you think they are incels because of anything other than women just being dicks to them? Really? Go outside and talk to a woman I dare you, go say hi to her and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:44 AM
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Again I don’t agree. Men’s social skills have increased incredibly. Through all channels in all places, they are turning on the charm, deeply investigating women to their own detriment might I add. The difference is that the more men improve the more women want. Women can’t be satisfied their greed knows no bounds. So no matter how much you improve women will say you need to do more. Dudes are much better looking today , much more fluid, much more caring, hell they let women do whatever they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:32 AM
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That’s impressive cause I have gotten to a point where the more women I met in a short amount of time the less I cared about them individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:26 AM
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Nope you can’t keep blaming men. I can’t let you do that. Man keep improving and progressing constantly to please women. I always say it men have an enormous pressure to improve to change to adapt everyone says they don’t have social skills, when autistic women have more partners by such a huge margin over autistic men it’s like they don’t have an ailment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:16 AM
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I want to know for women that go out on many dates how do you still view men as human? Like you have 1000+ matches in the dating apps, you go on several dates a week, have had many boyfriends pumped and dumped many times, how you do not see men as a commodity? Is this reason for the female burnout we see so often?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:56 AM
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Nah men are just possessive over vag for some reason so they project themselves in to the position of their partner and then feel the visceral disgust of dating the town bicycle. As for your title, most women are chadsexual with a bit of autosexual as in they want to feel sexy for the guy so that they feel wanted but not because they want to make that guy happy. When thinking about women think inward first, most women are comphet they really want to be autosexual though but anyway that means the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:54 AM
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That’s a roundabout way of saying it’s women’s fault. Damn you hating on single moms so hard. I think the real issue is the increase in communication. Women have over time gained more ability to meet and date men who were better than the ones around them. It led to them inflating their standards because they could go on a few dates with Chad from the other city and get pumped and dumped leaving her furious and harder for the regular oofy doofy to deal with. Men didn’t know how to deal with that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:50 AM
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A lot of women are bigger than men. The type to fight aren’t small Stacys think gorilla like heavy set women. They’d easily beat up a blue pilled dweeb built like a twig.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:59 AM
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Hence men complain about women just bringing the truth to light.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:50 AM
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They are obligated to say it. It is low hanging fruit that is useful for counting every argument. “Global warming is a big problem, we should find some alternatives and slow down on using fossil fuels. “ Any woman: “ I don’t feel safe around unattractive men!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:49 AM
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What are you on about? Man does something women or government don’t want, “Ahh he is a red pilled misogynist. See boys this is why you need to give your wife half of your things so you don’t be a man like Tate. ”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:16 AM
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Well women are have 100+ men in their DMs at any given time and also men just like you that will drop whatever they are doing to do stuff for them for free. So it’s pretty easy to not notice you until you grab your balls and tell her what you want to her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:04 AM
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Why didn’t you tell you DMed her and you want to go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:41 AM
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They are not but media will have you believe anything under the sun so that they can push the agenda that “Man bad” so that men can return to the plantation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:39 AM
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OP no one cares about the red pill, they just want their working bee men to stop with all this “free thinking, self awareness and growing self importance” and go back to the fields to toil. If they don’t who is gonna pay for all those alpha-widowed childless auto-sexual cat women retiring without giving anything to the world? It’s our job to pay taxes so they can live. This guy actually thought the government, women or people care about men. Yea yea clearly Ukraine cares a lot right? Yea all tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:10 PM
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I miss being able to make posts. Good thing our sublords have decided we can’t have interesting posts just the same things over and over. Anyway, Do girls put each other off? How does it feel to interact with a girl that has an incredible ego? Like we know women are mean to men like they’re playing a sport but I could never easily switch being a dick to someone and then being a nice person to someone else instantly. How do you guys not walk around with intense negativity in your souls and if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:04 PM
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No one cares about young men, nice try. The red pill is just something easy to point to denigrate men and force them back in to their work bee roles. Most men are not red pill, most men are suckers. What blaming the red pill does is it helps to influence men to continue to participating in the matrix. “See those bad men over there don’t be like them be a good little boy work hard and pay for all those women who think they’re better than you cause they have a vag.” That’s the problem, really, men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:52 PM
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But I here’s the thing women can’t change that one their own. They have been taught to think they literally deserve men who are that great. This is why future faking is so powerful. Men aren’t taught this we learn to take shit from women. For example if you are a woman you been gassed. Up for most of your life if a dude talks to you like you’re a normal person it will feel odd to her and boring. They genuinely believe they must be treated so well that normal or honest doesn’t cut it but they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:12 PM
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Wrong. You guys keep misunderstanding it is not asshole or players, it’s men who blow smoke up a woman’s butt while looking good. An unattractive man can be an asshole all he wants but will get nothing. Women simply tolerate a good looking asshole. A player is a good looking man who future fakes or simply tells a woman shit that’s she wants to hear. Women don’t like the truth so everyone needs to lie to them. It gets to a point where being honest to a woman is detrimental to a man’s dating life …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:46 PM
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Men do not lack social skills. They lack the ability to look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:37 PM
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Of course you didn’t. Men are both the targets of criticism and take criticism the best. You can’t ask women to change or improve anything about herself without her crashing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:33 PM
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Doesn’t stop them from flinging venom from their traps every chance they get. I don’t know where you have seen these and I don’t know why these like to act like it every where women are constantly talk shit about men. Sure may women might act coy on the first date but give her a month or two let her really load up the words. These guys are self flagellating idiots if they want women to talk shit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:25 PM
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If you want that get a wife, she’ll let you know everyday how much you did wrong, no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:22 PM
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People like you OP are hilarious. What woman can take criticism? You know criticizing women is basically illegal nowadays. Now talking shit about men now that’s some hot shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:19 PM
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I don’t know if OP is blind or deaf. Men take criticism literally everywhere all the time from everyone constantly. Everyone wants a piece of men these days, for the most part men react well to it they try to improve. It’s women that don’t take any criticism well at all, their heads so gassed up, ego so large if you imply a critic towards them I swear they have a mini heart attack and the adrenaline makes them so aggressive they start “REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE” it’s nauseating. But I dare you OP go…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:17 PM
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> Remember, “watch what they do, not what they say” goes both ways. A lot of guys think they have to explicitly say or think, “I DESERVE THIS”, but no. Especially since not every asshole is self-aware of being an asshole. Plenty of them think that they are misunderstood victims of society. Entitlement comes in when you act like it’s a societal problem or a moral failing of others when you’re not getting what you want I thought no I was convinced this was about women, I was like no way Lilith mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:00 PM
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I think it is effective because a dude to me who is hyper will talk a lot and try a lot and be spontaneous. He doesn’t think much so he is more fun or funny or charismatic and ready to do any random thing. I think it’s bad in the long term because without a strong frame which this is not, a woman can be a narcissistic blood sucking harpy and rip out that fun, happy-go-lucky dude’s soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:44 PM
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The issue is with your strat of being high energy or whatever vs stoic. Is when the bad times hit. It’s not always about sex, I’m sorry to let you know that sex doesn’t last long and eventually you gonna have to deal with the women you had sex with, yes disappointing news. So why is that bad? Well high energy leaves you vulnerable to not thinking or making rash decisions. You take things less seriously and you vet less carefully. It’s harder for you to maintain boundaries and respect. And most w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:40 PM
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I mean I do believe in some parts of feminism. I forgot how to change my flare. I am black pilled now. And I didn’t specify who were the ones letting women get away with it, just that it happens. Men don’t see themselves or other men as valuable nor do women so I get it, especially something sexual with a woman. Funny thing I don’t think men even like sex that much just the validation from being able to say they did it. But back to the point plenty of horrible and deprived women in the world, ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:00 AM
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As a staunch feminist, I believe that there isn’t a difference if the act is the same. But I get it that most of the world thinks this way that’s why female teachers get away with abusing little boys. Or why Ghislane isn’t seen as bad as Epstein.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:11 AM
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Now why is there a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:29 AM
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There ya go devaluing other people’s efforts. It’s like second nature. Oh and by the way lots of dudes cook and clean nowadays, in fact a lot of women don’t do any of that. It’s not about suffering it’s about not being appreciated. Too much attention and care is on women already, you guys are like gluttons consuming all things and acting like perpetual victims for all crimes that matter. No one and I really do mean no one cares what a dude does, yes not even his female partner. If he says anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:29 AM
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What about female doms like the ones who step on male genitalia, are they also sociopathic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:21 AM
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I believe that stat is much worse because women don’t take physical abuse against other women lightly like they do men. So their would have been an insane amount of abuse going on before hand let alone the fact I doubt they would want to report another woman, their in-group bias is too high to make that an easy decision. You guys spend so much time denigrating men and taking them for granted, so I don’t blame women for thinking men don’t do their “lions share”, for example a lot of women don’t b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:11 AM
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I think it would help men a great deal because in this modern world the need to use sex as a motivator to sacrifice and produce is diminishing by the day. We have enough stuff no need to die in a trench to be manly. Releasing men from this burden will allow many of them to feel free and happy. Dudes suffer a lot from the burden of dealing with women, it’s really rough. But women are mostly becoming self-sexual so I don’t think they will want to become aroace as they would want to keep doing them…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:30 AM
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Chads doing whatever they want is Blue pill that’s their default state. They don’t need to learn female nature because they live it, they don’t need to change or learn anything. Women genuinely believe the blue pill but not for simps but it’s because they are self centered, they imagine how they wanted to be treated and project it on to men. They genuinely all believe that stuff because it will feel nice to them that Chad behaves that way to them. But they aren’t thinking about normal men when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:22 AM
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No-lose in your head. All that deluding each other, you guys act like you have reinvented humanity. You’re not above it all. Keep puffing your chest out , holding your heads high and pretending. It’s all ego. It’s just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:32 AM
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That’s the femcel dream it ain’t that the don’t want need to be with men or don’t want or can be alone, most women just think Chad or die single. They delude themselves into thinking that this some brave thing they are doing but it’s a no lose strat. Either I get what I want from Chad, be single and force the government to be my boyfriend while drowning in wine or I slap up some idiot oofy doofy beta buxx deluxe when I am old. Ego is the problem but you guys can only pretend for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:00 AM
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Women are better about lying or deluding themselves. Women cry all the time about men this and men that. You guys like to paint yourselves as something you’re not. For however horrible men are in most women’s eyes they still want them so they won’t be alone. Why fight hard to be with something so bad if it is so great to be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:18 PM
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Not all of them, they may need to be very insanely unattractive but there will be some out there. Like the ones on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:45 PM
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For example?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:44 PM
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Blue pill advice works tho for the people that matter. Most women and Chads. Everyone else like really really morbidly ugly women and normal men, can’t use it. But guess what? Most people think incredibly hideous women are a myth and that non-good looking men are an abomination. So it hits the target demographic pretty well if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:56 PM
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What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:53 PM
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With the amount of ego any regular woman has so you think she ever admit to feeling miserable? We know that it’s all an attempt to deflect from their abject misery by flexing on equally lonely me. Do you mean solitary? If so, that’s also wrong women chase after attention and validation their entire lives. That’s why you guys lie constantly, seek to maintain the status quo and avoid conflict with other women (women won’t take your shit like men will).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:52 PM
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You know OP I don’t think it’s a good idea to use what women say against them. The truth is no one not even women listen to them. If that is where you get this idea of saying “Men don’t need women” because it is the reverse of the parroted messaging women say “Women don’t need men”, it’s a fool’s errand. Why? Because no one cares when a woman says it we just go “yea yea sure”, we just humor them so they can be quiet eventually and move on. People care about men even less, you don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:30 PM
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Women say the same here constantly, even when the argument has nothing to do it. No one cares to hear about how miserable they are but they still spam it. I hope you keep the same energy for when they come around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:20 PM
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Not mad just don’t like dudes pushing the narrative of endless improvement or change. It promotes too many insecurities and self hatred for not being enough. Women can choose who they want and let them if it’s not you then that’s it move on. Btw men have almost no standards that’s a big problem they have and so women have 0 incentive to be better for even the men they DO want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:27 PM
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I think it’s too late for all of these platitudes, men will always suffer the prisoner’s dilemma in situations like these. Either way it’s too late for any solutions to work, the dating apps have ruined that. It’s torched women’s minds they think of most men as their playthings, it’s our fault but dating and relationships are just too easy for them so they can’t see value in anything you do. Look at the whole “my high standards” movement they can only do that because dating apps will actually gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:29 PM
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Where’s the question? Women already know men don’t need them, a lot of dudes date women for weeks and don’t even know their name (I did that), we like sex and they have the thing we want to have sex with, the rest of them not so important, they just put rules in hopes we notice they exist but it doesn’t work. All this self improvement advice actually makes men doubt their value even more. The more advice you get the more you feel there is a reason why you get it, that something is wrong with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 05:00 PM
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Are you guys enjoying the constant Lilith posts? If the people on this sub weren’t so afflicted by the tism you could have more colorful debates or posts but sadly art is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:54 PM
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These guys keep making these post looking for validation from women. It’s so sad and the women are lapping it up devouring his carcass and then shitting on the remains. No one cares what women think, you already know they all like the same dudes, be that dude or lie. Asking or begging for permission to live from them only gonna make them contort you into their feminist bitc* boi. The worst part is they don’t even validate men just gaslight you to oblivion. They know how powerful validation is so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:50 PM
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No don’t believe those articles, they are self serving. Let me tell you women are the ones no one can stand. Men are nice people fun to be around and make things happen, mostly because we have to. Women can’t stand women and if they didn’t have sex as a tool men wouldn’t stand women. Feminist are just putting the squeeze on men to get out as much as they can from us by making us insecure. The truth is and women know this is that no one likes them if they don’t have sex and it makes them very mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:33 PM
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I was always some what red pill growing up in a hood like community does that to you. Black women are the ultimate feminist until pookie walks in. But I truly got red pilled but I am almost black pilled now, when I had several girl close friends or best friends basically. They showed me what they did, how they thought and most of all their Instagram DMs and Dating apps and what they did and thought about simps or ugly men. Absolutely nauseating the contempt they held those loser with, disgust li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:28 AM
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First of all bro I am so sorry. Best you can do is try, like try so hard that trying becomes the goal and you don’t care about the success. Honestly it’s mostly over, few jobs, women mostly autosexuals now, dopamine heavy activities not working as well, boomers bought all the houses. It’s tough man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:34 AM
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Most likely Chad based Harems with Simps leasing their girlfriends or wives to Chad for the weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:33 AM
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I think you women have more hope for us men than I thought. Yes most dudes are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:52 PM
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Firstly, I don’t like how women always objectify themselves, you guys are the first to reduce yourself to your sexuality. Everything you say is SA or r*pe like you have nothing else to talk about. Secondly you are in a privileged position so someone below you objectifying feels disgusting. The dating world is like this: GigaChad> Stacys > Chads > Women > Men Traversal backwards creates disgust when but traversal forwards creates lust. Your internal disgust being triggered is what makes you so un…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:46 PM
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I think women like bad men but bad men that look good. Like a Chad but with that extra sprinkle of danger on the top. Why? Because dating and relationships get boring for them honestly. Most men are nice, easygoing and agreeable, yes even Chads. The difference is that every tasty food becomes bland eventually, if you eat 5 star meals everyday even you can get bored and start thirsting for something else. So women go after these guys for the thrill, that extra little spark to make their day that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:34 PM
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My point is that there is no fixing it, OLD is too good for women you drank the koolaid. Women complain about everything but they only do it because they want to seem equal or humble. They do not care to limit their access or change, that’s why bumble went bankrupt. Feminist like you can only see women with rose tinted goggles and dehumanize them in doing so. Humans are greedy we don’t care about others, we lie and cheat when we can. This woke altruism stuff only works with men cause they are de…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:20 PM
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Don’t need doesn’t mean don’t want. How else is she gonna play out her revenge fantasy against men for Chad playing her like a toy for so many years? Add in a bonus 50k and even I am in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:20 AM
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You’re right, she is still having fun giving the poor sucker a speedrun straight into a deadbedroom , incessant nagging and half his money taken. A big W for womenkind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:12 AM
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You say that it’s whiny and weak because it’s in your best interest to have things your way, and decide when to close or how much to turn the tap. I get it, I’d do the same too if I were a woman. But most guys can barely filter by “woman” these days and still get 0 matches a month, rules can’t be applied to their practices they can’t gamify a game they aren’t allowed to be a part of. I’m sure you will also be surprised that most normal men want LTRs they just ghosted, flaked on, or ignored for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:12 PM
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Men shouldn’t date too many different women or at least I want to say they shouldn’t try to and fail at it in their 20s. Dating and being successful and living the “girl boss” dream live, laugh, love where you explore the world and have the time of your life like a movie is great. However for the majority of men this isn’t what will happen, for most of them they will be stuck chasing women and receiving little to no positive feedback, that’s how the red pill has become so popular. And for a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:34 PM
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I really feel like you guys miss the issue of dating apps and in an attempt to ignore the issue you end up coming up with convoluted contraptions or invent rules of engagement like this. I like your ideas it’s novel it’s cool but women don’t care to put in effort, look at the burning heap of feminist rubble that is bumble. When people misdiagnose the issue in an effort to ignore the real problem nothing gets solved just more time wasted. A real way to fix the dating apps? One Chad a month, a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:12 PM
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Most Rp guys start from having a lot frustration and rejection from women over many years. It leaves a scar a feeling of worthlessness. I know, I know “you’re a man get over it”. But sex and relationships just like anything else that is a human need when it is hard to come by takes over your mind. Woman don’t care because that shit comes to them and they don’t have to worry about attracting partners or retaining them or how to behave or how to look or etc. It’s stressful to think about and there…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:59 AM
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Yas, queen. Break up with that ungrateful loser, he’s manipulating you, I know it, you deserve better. 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:23 AM
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Since I am post banned, for speaking too much truth, I need some help to post a topic: Q4W Do you want your man to “invest” in you? How do you feel about it? Yes I know the women here are far too unattractive for a man not to demand payment for being near them let alone to shower them with money but let’s see what the responses are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:40 AM
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LVM have to do anything they can to survive the reality they face. I think in the future there will be a lot more virgin women actually. Because there won’t be enough Chads to fulfill the demand, everyday the quality demanded of Chad is increasing and thus there are fewer and fewer who are qualified. But the number of Chadsexual women is also increasing. The problem? More tight virgins but they are locked behind a glass wall. So the rest of us have to compete for Chad’s throwaways like starving …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:17 AM
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Do the stats account for the African Americans? I ask because I am black and I know that the culture is a sickness. It not only glorifies extreme hedonism but the women are encouraged to have sex and make kids with the most degenerate and dangerous dregs of society who inevitably leave her to raise a child on her own. That child is then encouraged by the culture to be a degenerate in order to “get women and look cool” and commits crime just like his dad. I even think they look down on being a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:41 PM
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A significant amount of dating advice proposes that women are mindreaders though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:33 PM
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Bad comparison their premise is that men are dogs. You took the bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:35 AM
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Oh, I see it. Thanks for pointing that out. Aye man I get it. We all need to blow off some steam.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:22 AM
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I’d argue women act far more often on impulse and on instinct than men do. So one could say women are far more comparable to animals especially intelligence-wise. But far be it from me to go out of my way to say those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:20 AM
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I read the post I don’t see a mentioning of rape anywhere. Are you hallucinating? Also woah someone is emotional tonight, you might blow a blood vessel mate calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:48 AM
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Why do you need an anti rapist campaign? Why does it need to involve comparing humans to dogs? Also aren’t you being manipulative with your stance? “If you don’t like what I call you then you are are what I call you”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:41 AM
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I gotta know why do women insert rape into everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:39 AM
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You think anyone else would have the gumption to challenge our cruel fate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:00 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:56 PM
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I am not. It’s the work of The Feminine Narrative to destroy the pillars of creativity, I tempted fate to keep the fire burning, I lived on the knife’s edge to slow the blindness, I burned the effigy to call attention to the beginning of the end, with the spread of the ‘tism anything other than the most drab and lack luster can survive. Which is to say at least I tried man. You guys will just post the same articles, debates, questions over and over again and when a dude writes something differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:54 PM
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Our lords have decreed, I am no longer allowed to post. This forum is only meant for the mundane and lifeless. To our lords: how many of the same generic posts will you field until the sub is dead? Independent and creative thought be damned, this is why AI will replace us, intolerance to the unique. It’s safe here for some reason. So I will leave the offending post here, apparently it’s just incoherent rambling. Poetry is dead. —————————————————————————— *There is no male loneliness epidemic, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:36 PM
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Yes, I understand that. There is an issue most people think that men cheat more already, so men themselves will be more likely to admit it because there are fewer repercussions, even if it were anonymous it’s socially accepted so it’s easier to admit. The opposite is the case for women. They are constantly hiding the truth about their sexual adventures, many of them feel shame about it. Even more so when it comes to cheating, most women do not like to think of themselves as hoes let alone a chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:50 PM
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Men don’t cheat more, they get caught more, women cheat much more especially if you include emotional cheating through talking or prospecting new men before the end of a relationship. People say something is gender neutral when it makes women look bad. For example “Dating is hard for everyone these days” Yes, finding a suitable partner can be difficult but the level of difficulty is not at all the same. A woman just sits there and sorts through candidates. A man drags himself through years of “O…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:38 PM
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I don’t think that works because being a victim of a sex crime is only the domain of women. That’s why when little boys get r*ped no one cares I am including when male priests are the culprits, people just make jokes and move on. It is unfortunate but it’s part of the WAW effect, women don’t care about it or they will redirect attention to themselves with What Aboutism and then other men will try to support you but will be made to feel guilty by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:39 AM
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Many men have a fat girl fetish it triggers me. Especially men from African countries, a lot of them have a feeding fetish. They make their gf as fat as they can while stay stick thin, it’s gross. Being is lean is must for this very reason, no woman struggles to find sex and relationships. This is why they are so concerned about quality, they have already established that they can get it so the next level is to be picky about who. And guess what? It’s still super easy. Even for a super fat land …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:44 PM
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Or 3. Women always want to victimize themselves. They know someone will feel sorry for them and they can maintain their ego and reputation because “Big bad Chad took advantage of her” the poor thing didn’t even know what a penis was. Can a woman be a hoe if she never admits to having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:37 PM
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Or 4. they are lying? Do you think hot women who go in and out of relationships constantly are here? No, no, no, it’s the fat, ugly, basement-dwelling neurodivergent girls that are here. They are the ones who have enough time and energy to hate on men on an obscure Internet forum for nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:34 PM
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Women would fall into the toilet without men’s help. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 04:14 AM
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No it’s because they want sex you as an individual is not important, you might as well be any woman. But you knew this lol Women aren’t cool they’re just normal people that have something that men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:42 AM
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Men are actually incentivized to behave well around women. Many women in contrast actually work harder at being terrible to be around. RBF, bad attitude, lack of morals they push guys to see how much they get away with. You need to remember men look for reasons to be with you and women look for reasons to reject men. Men spend a lot of their lives worrying about how women perceive them and women don’t care what men think so they can be as assholish as they want and they often are. It’s just that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:23 AM
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He’ll be back after the divorce hopefully he survives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:01 AM
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Oh, I think the women here though prone to delusions are little smarter than you give them credit. But let’s see how they react when gassed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:53 AM
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OP what led you to this conclusion, what makes you think women work harder at those things? Men can’t use make up easily but go to gym and have higher fitness levels than women. Men have great friendships that are pretty iconic in media and culture, the boys watching the game on Sunday. Where did this narrative come from that women have better friendships? Women are actually worse than men in most every metric. What hobbies do women have ? Scrolling social media? Men have sports, cars, fishing, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:50 AM
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Yes ,are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:22 PM
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We all do but you’re still here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:21 PM
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Men are the more forgiving sex, a lot of women here will pretend like they are different from the barely functioning women from your OP but to most guys a lot of girls aren’t that good. If we weren’t that horny or applied female dating standards to women, we would have to smash the restart button on this simulation. That is to say most women are barely functioning, we just deal with it because we can’t expect much better. The thing they should be better than us in (looks) they’re still not bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:29 PM
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I put a debate right there. Women basically don’t admit to loving men because of some power play but it’s clear in their actions they really love men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:25 AM
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Are you saying they don’t appreciate men ? Only knowing their worth when they’re gone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:45 AM
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Any more truth and the marksmen will incinerate me. I need to play nice for a time until their eyes go adrift, away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:43 AM
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Thanks man, appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:18 AM
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I have said this many times people think that women are allies to LGBTQ but they aren’t. The same way women aren’t allies to POC. It’s just that women are really good at perfomative victimism or at least people let the them get away with it. You will find the richest white women pretending they have had the same struggles a black trans woman has, it’s awful. Women get the power to shame because no matter what no one expects anything from them, so if you did the same shaming using homophobia it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:33 AM
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Of course, stay-at-home moms are far more common than stay-at-home dads—and even stay-at-home moms do less total work than do full-time-working dads married to stay-at-home moms (46 vs. 62 hours). So, this exception, while dramatic and worthy of study, is limited in terms of its effect on the overall comparison of moms and dads. Yea but it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:35 PM
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Neither gender does but that doesn’t mean things don’t play out that way. If women have to wear makeup on their skin, men have to wear makeup on their personhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:15 PM
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Most men want to be honest and themselves. I have struggled with it tremendously, trying to be myself through 100s of rejections but when I lie I get sex and relationships. It’s awful but here’s the thing women love hearing what they like to hear, they don’t grow up hearing the truth about anything, so they hate it. No guy wants to lie and say he is rich when he is just a regular dude. But so many women grow up thinking “I should be with a man with money”, it’s awful that so many guys can’t be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:12 PM
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Why do you women keep painting with this brush like you guys aren’t bad too? If anything dudes must be far better than women in dating because of the sheer competition, how do you see that and still think you guys are good? You can paint a mule and as long it’s a girl she must be amazing in comparison to men. It’s so strange and let’s not start with the “I’m in danger” meme you guys act like your life is a slasher movie, it’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:06 PM
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Community dating? If that was what women wanted Chads wouldn’t be dominating as they do now. Maybe those are your preferences but unless you’re from a traditional or conservative you can’t expect to believe most women are vetting potential partners like this. Most people meet through apps nowadays anyway, proven by data. What women choose for is what they want vs community opinion else why are there so many single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:58 PM
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None of that gives women the control and variety they want to satisfy their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:51 PM
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Among married couples living together with kids, if anything, it’s dads who do more work in total—adding up paid work, housework, child care, and even shopping. Moms do work more in some specific circumstances, but the data acquit fathers as a group of the slacking charges so frequently leveled against them. Your own article goes against your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:50 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story. He sounds like a great partner and you do too. I’ll steal some of your rules, I think they can help me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:57 PM
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Thank you. This is one of if not the only post where a woman actually said they fucked up or shared an example. But how did you improve ? Did you get his friends and family to accept you? Why did you wait for him to come back instead of going to him after the break up? When did you learn about yourself during or after the break up? Did he have to tell you or did you find out all on your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:15 AM
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They always do this. It so difficult to make a point. They are just hurling rape or sociopathic murderer claims at me like wtf. What if a girl was just a shithead and couldn’t see that she was being awful in relationships and needed to change? Why is that such an alien concept? Everyone is literally proving the post correct. It’s ironic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:04 AM
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Because it’s needs to be proven in a court of law. Or should we have a court of women and have them decide?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:03 AM
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Sorry sir, what? What are the numbers for this? Because I can make ridiculous claims too you know. Do you know who kills the most babies? Women. Do you know who abuse children the most ? Oh, guess right again, it’s women. Imagine killing and abusing children. Truly grotesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:02 AM
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I am talking about improving in relationships to treat your partner better and the fact that blame doesn’t go to women for a relationship failing so they don’t get to fail and then learn from their mistakes because they can’t make mistakes technically. But he then jumps to hyper abusive situations where it is obvious the man is just very clearly wrong. And the woman’s life and safety is in danger. But what about a girl who is not clean or is a lazy lover or doesn’t like to listen to her partner?…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:59 AM
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Good thing women love humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:26 AM
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I just couldn’t spell thought at the time and don’t know how to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:24 AM
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Based on my dating app post. It seems women will take all that for granted and say they would rather be a man because they don’t want ugly creeps talking to them, that they only want to hang out with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:18 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:14 AM
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Abuse doesn’t have to be physical it can be as simple as emotional neglect which is down to the women or an angry outburst from frustration. Maybe you had a bad day and your gf nags you about something you forgot, you feel overwhelmed and insult her. Thats abusive behavior right there. She should just toss you to the side of the road ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:12 AM
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I am well my dude. It’s just that my weekly posts were so funny ahh. It feels bad man. I was just surprised that the mods knew that I did it every week, I thought they didn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:08 AM
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Good on you, I am looking for a woman to fully finance my life as well. Any pointers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:06 AM
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Look I am not saying for you forgive do what you want. That’s up to you to decide. But I am sure when you make a mistake with a partner you will hope that they come to you with open ears and an open heart. Not to toss you in the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:05 AM
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The end result isn’t the only thing that matters. Sometimes there is more than one victim in abuse. Sometimes we should have empathy even for people that hurt us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:01 AM
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Listening to others, trying to put yourself in their shoes, to imagine feeling what they felt, asking yourself “why?” Over and over like why did that happen ? Ok so that made this happen so why did this happen etc, trying not to judge too harshly and understanding that I have made mistakes and others have too. Most people aren’t evil and no one thinks they are evil when they do bad things, sometimes we just take a lot of pain and they day we can’t hold it in anymore everyone thinks we were bad t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:00 AM
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I know many dudes who would much rather chill at home put their feet up, relax and eat food. Maybe go out every once in a while to bang the pool girl and chill with the boys. It’s a sacrifice we have to make but it’s worth it for the honor of being a dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:50 AM
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Why not fully support a man and let him do the chores? I think that solves your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:48 AM
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You follow me every week? Are you a mod? Please stop following me. Let me post my poetic gold. The mods told me I can’t post my “rants” anymore but they aren’t rants they are biblical seances expertly crafted to bait even the most calm and unattended minds. I have to be so careful with anything I post so I don’t get banned, it’s stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:43 AM
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Emotional labor for who? Women don’t like listening to men. It’s men having to listen to women wailing from monthly hormone fluctuations. Higher standards of living? A woman isn’t going to spend money to boost a men’s living circumstances, that’s usually what men do. Larger social circle? How does her friends help him it’s not like she is friends with high powered individuals just other women. Better communication skills? When did women learn this? How? Men literally spend large parts of their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:33 AM
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Nah no one can prove it fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:17 AM
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Alright, thanks for the low iq post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:13 AM
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I personally agree to doing things this way. I want to love as hard as I can. But so much internet advice is about holding back or keeping your cards in your pocket. Every detail counts in some weird power play. Maybe I am getting old but I feel like things got so complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:04 AM
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Dead wrong about what? Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:00 AM
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But this assumes that there is a person that could take your poor behavior if you don’t change them. What if I was a woman and I was a short tempered? Should I find a man who is mild mannered and let me get my way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:53 AM
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Let me fix that for you: Men are desperate for sex, for vagina that women are attached to. What things do women bring to the table? Please list them. Keeping in mind most women don’t want kids so that childcare stuff doesn’t work and cooking and cleaning doesn’t work because you guys hate that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:49 AM
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Understandable. But how common is therapy? I know most men don’t like it. And I have heard that therapist can be bias in their views especially for something like this. And it can also be difficult for someone to account their own role in the unfortunate circumstances they have faced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:43 AM
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Interesting. Do you think being authentic is always the best thing to do? I ask because sometimes I have to tell little lies to make my partner feel good. Are the short term goal setting supposed to help the relationship by helping you? Like keeping you motivated, finishing what you want to get done so you don’t feel frustrated or overwhelmed? What advice have you seen about treating your partner well? Does it come anytime you want or when you feel they deserve it. I know some relationship coach…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:40 AM
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What? How have you managed to bring this scenario? That is extreme. And even then you are talking about them having to choose better. That isn’t the self improvement I am talking about. So many people here keep missing it because women don’t have to do it. When men have to self improve they have to do so many things, the concept of choosing a good partner is already obvious. But I want to ask you, did the women in the case you provided have a part to play in the abuse they experienced? Is it sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:35 AM
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He passed away. I pray that god is taking care of him in heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:30 AM
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Or maybe they aren’t doing it? If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? That’s women and self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:28 AM
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I hope you heal one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:27 AM
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How much of those failures are women taking responsibility for? How many of them are holding their hands up and saying “You know what? My mistake. I did the wrong thing. I’ll do better next time.”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:25 AM
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It’s not a rant. Nice try. You did not make mention of your self improvement, you stated that you changed who you desired for relationships. The rest of what you’re saying just goes off into a random tangent. Most women aren’t spending time asking themselves to be better partners for the next guy. They’re asking for a better guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:24 AM
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Oh, good point. It’s really rare that people expect women to just suck it up usually the blame is directed towards the man’s failures in the relationship. Have you found that these methods you have listed helped you? What ways have they helped?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:20 AM
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I really dislike posts like this, men shouldn’t be seeking this kind of validation from women. They use it as an opportunity to shit on us. Tell that girl to kick rocks next time you talk to her, don’t be afraid to be rude back to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:17 AM
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You didn’t actually changed much you just said you will aim higher. I addressed this exact type of thinking in the post. Did you not read it? This isn’t improvement, it’s just laying blame at other people’s feet. “I am not a bad driver I’ll just get a better car.” while not wrong can’t always be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:13 AM
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I should have title the post better. I am strictly speaking about relationships or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:10 AM
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Women aren’t doing men, they’re getting boosted. I am only talking about relationships. Yes if she answered “2+2=3” then she is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:04 AM
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I am only addressing in a romantic sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:03 AM
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You just ignored everything I said. I had a messed up dad too he fcked me up bad many times. But I still asked why? I still wanted to understand what made things like that. I found out that he is human and that he’s own frustrations and lack of ability created a dark cloud over his head, he hated that he couldn’t be a better dad and so he hurt us. I could only accept him because I tried to understand. No matter how much I hated him, when I learnt about his troubles I learned to love him again. K…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:56 AM
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Of course you wouldn’t. Only the end result matters. That’s why women can’t be the empathetic gender. Do you think that if a crime was committed that is the only thing that matters or the reasons it occurred? Do you think abuse, fights, violence happens in isolation that nothing was done to stoke the fires of chaos? And round and round you go in a circle, self victimizing. Don’t listen to me or anyone else you’re obviously always right. I am sure many will agree with you. Imagine this, you were …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:43 AM
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This is part of the problem I am talking about. You are asserting your parents problems were of only your dads making or men. Without contemplating what part your mother had to play in their falling out or his abuse perhaps it wasn’t as one sided as you believe. Just food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:37 AM
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One of my best friends is a girl and she lives that life. She couldn’t process that she did something wrong it just wouldn’t get through no matter how much evidence we gave her. You know what? She is the most positive, successful, ray of sunshine person I have ever met, amazing to be around. Me? A grumpy ole mule. It’s probably better in this age of social media to just not process negativity or failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:18 AM
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Man you came in with a lot of steam. Women are human of course they fail in professional settings, I agree. I am only talking about in a romantic setting, this is where women can dodge failure like Neo from the matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:15 AM
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Corporal punishment is awful, but it wasn’t only for boys they beat the shit out of girls too. Boys with disabilities are still seen like that because they drop to near the level of girls. It’s shameful. This is the worst time to get in to college it’s not even worth the paper it’s printed on. What particularly about crime rates do you want to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:13 AM
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It ain’t a good gift, it won’t make them a better partner for the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:04 AM
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They say that because they don’t get sex, there were poor men throughout history but as soon as sex got less accessible then you hear their moans. The war on boys is that they are treating boys like girls. No one wants to be a girl, not even girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:56 AM
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When you speak are you trying to convince us or yourself? I mean this level of delusion can’t be healthy. Women can barely function inside of humankind’s most sophisticated, convenient and safe time ever. Is that what you call better?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:50 AM
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I regularly get asked if I hate women in my DMs or do would I speak about my mom the same way I speak to the women here. I am sure it will escalate soon, some people have even tried to dox me. The hivemind is really scary but that’s it, it’s just a boogeyman. They can kill us but they can’t take our soul, we need to keep spreading the message of their tyranny to save the rest of humanity. 💊
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:31 AM
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For argument sake, what is your 1 thing in your “things I’d like in a partner list”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:51 AM
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That’s not pointing out anything nor does it give me much to argue against. Women in real life have standards and want to meet certain types of men, if they want to do that how do they meet those men in a reliable, fast and convenient way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:47 AM
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I don’t see why they would complain, maybe it’s just a problem of not appreciating what they have ? Men should complain about it, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:44 AM
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What makes you say that? Don’t women have standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:35 AM
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You’re saying I am autistic because you’re autistic? This post has nothing to do with me, I personally use all means of approach to scout women, apps, bars, social groups, cold approach etc. but I have to build volume to be able to pick women I want in my life. You’re saying to do this within a small group of people it doesn’t make sense if you have high standards because the chances of that guy being there is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:56 AM
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Hand waves your argument away Don’t you know women can (insert magical ability here that suspiciously doesn’t work against chads that pump and dump them leaving them a single mom then vanishes into the night never turning back because Cool Guys Don’t Look At Explosions) here. Women can detect loser men a million miles away while pookie steals last month’s child support cheques and drinks their kid’s milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:49 AM
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So you’re just gonna hurl insults at me? What has upset you today sir? What does autism have to do with anything? Just finding a hobby or interest works if that girl is lucky to find her type in a small group but the numbers do not work out in her favor. How can women simultaneously say most men aren’t attractive then find an attractive guy easily in small groups without much work searching for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:46 AM
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Mate this isn’t a problem for me. The issue is for women sourcing the kind of men they want, based on their own demands and tendencies it can’t possibly be easy to find a man without a dating app. You’re formerly promiscuous so it wouldn’t be a problem for you since any guy would be good enough but some women do have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:43 AM
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It’s inferior because what you said isn’t realistic, it doesn’t happen reliably enough for anyone to depend on it. Where does a woman even just find a guy to spend time with like you said? Keeping in mind that this guy needs to match what this woman would like to date. Woman don’t approach men so they are at the mercy of whoever happens to be interested in them and approaches her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:41 AM
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Women don’t need to use it because every other channel of dating is constantly open to them. Men approach them they don’t have control over that other than staying inside but even then IG gives men access too. But those other outlets are still inferior because everyone wants to choose their partner, and dating apps put women in a more active role in selecting who she even wants to spend her time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:24 AM
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Wrong. Socialize with who? If you apply even one stereotypical female standard on to a group of men like he needs to be 6 feet tall she’s already down to 14% of the men in that group. If we remove men who are in a relationship, not straight and not interested in her from a small social group of let’s say 30 people with 20 men she may only have the choice of 5 or less men and that’s if she even has the guts to make it known she wants even one of those men. That man still has to pass the vibe chec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:23 AM
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Most men aren’t creeps women like to say this to obfuscate the truth. Any in other setting if you apply women’s high demands the only place to placate those demands is a place with access to most people. Bad men or creeps can be present in any other setting, whether it be social groups or classmates but the apps provide much more than 5-20 men to pick from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:18 AM
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That literally doesn’t make sense. They have access to thousands of men how can the experiences be comparable at all. I have personally seen many women use the apps, it’s incredible. Whatever spec of man they want it’s there for them to at minimum talk to. But for men on the other hand it’s crickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:15 AM
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That’s hilarious man. I chuckled a little thanks for brightening up my day with your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:12 AM
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It’s skewed because women shop, get what they want and leave. What’s the point of women staying on it after accumulating dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:11 AM
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What’s the better alternative? There is no way to simultaneously have access to so many people while all those people are good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:08 AM
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What’s the better alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:06 AM
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Well, I just wanted to post something other than the usual dribble maybe when another policeman is on the watch. But I might get permabanned then. Let me just copy Lilith’s posts. I might get permabanned then too, those are too obvious if I flip the genders. What a conundrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:40 AM
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My posts have now been banned by our lords. All classified as rants. This feels like the UK, if they ain’t loving it better keep it to yourself. Actually almost all my posts have been banned, removed or locked. Hold on… Edit: I don’t even post often, once a week. How am I public enemy #1 for the government agents? I’ll drop it here I think it’s safe 🤞 ————————————————————/-//—-//—- Women always wished they were men, that’s why they try to bring men down Boldness flashed into my eyes as I courage…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:36 AM
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It’s only thought out to you because it’s glazing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:12 AM
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I disagree. This a bad post. Everyone accepts WAW effect at this point and women love it, it lets them get away with countless war crimes. People keep using this old romantic image of women they have in their heads maybe related to their moms or maternal figure in their lives and not the living breathing heathens of today. Even when a high school female teacher r*pes a little boy, so many people say “oh he must have wanted” because women couldn’t possibly be bad. I feel sorry for women though li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:05 AM
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So are you collecting and aggregating benefits from your entire dating life until the day you have a kid? Or are you using the fact that you face a risk to force a leveraged position? Even child-free women want romance as well should they not receive it? Most men don’t find the value in it, they definitely mostly start out being romantic, but it gets beaten out of you over time, constant rejections when you’re trying hard isn’t fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:30 AM
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You could just not make kids though, no one is forcing that on you. You’re receiving benefits before having to commit to having children anyway, it’s not like every guy who is romantic is expecting all of those things either. It can’t be fun being that greedy, at some point it must hurt because reality can’t possibly feed that relentless gluttony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:11 AM
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Strange comment, shouldn’t you cook and clean for your kids? Shouldn’t you work to earn a living? Who said you’re free to make decisions without consequences? The man ain’t having a good time in this scenario at least you get romanced, should be more appreciative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:05 AM
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I really like how women use the positive stereotypes of tradwives of the past while completely rejecting the negative situations that came from that lifestyle. You think these blue haired, entitled, mustache growing, man hating, narcissistic, SSRI chomping women are nurturing? Nurturing hate probably modern women don’t do any of those nice things you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:00 AM
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Hand waves your argument away Don’t you know women can (insert magical ability here that suspiciously doesn’t work against chads that pump and dump them leaving them a single mom then vanishes into the night never turning back because Cool Guys Don’t Look At Explosions) here. Incel. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:12 AM
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I don’t know what’s more embarrassing being a woman or being mistaken for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:40 AM
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You must be a woman to think you’re automatically a good enough person to teach anyone anything. Old lady, I am a far better person than you already, please keep that ego in check. Stay humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:28 AM
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Why are you so mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:22 AM
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Even Chads want relationships, surprising I know. They actually like it. So options alone doesn’t mean that men will do the same like women. And another thing options doesn’t make a man choose a high quality woman either, there aren’t many to begin with but still. Men like women a lot, there’s not many reasons but we do. What will most likely happen with a bunch of options is that you will have a main girl / gf and then bang girls on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:52 AM
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I disagree with this. I think normal men do want relationships more than women do. They try harder to get it, they ask the girl to solidify the relationship earlier, they cut off their other options sooner. When I was growing up women would have to fight men to get them to stick around but it’s sort of flipped on its head these days. Women will say they want more quality relationships, I mean everyone does, but they mean they want higher quality partners. They don’t have to do anything to get in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:28 AM
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It’s based on observing women’s actions not what they say. Women and honesty don’t mix, it must be a biological trait at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:02 PM
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Women can and do meet men who don’t value them in real life too. But on dating apps she can choose who she wants to waste her time on at the very least. Most of these women suffer from “Not bigger than the vag” problem they ain’t all that cool without a vag so people don’t want to invest in them after sex. If I was a terrible person but rich and everyone used me for my money, you would tell me just “IMPROOOV brother, it’s your fault they only like you for your money” but when it comes to women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:03 PM
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It ain’t black and white but this is the reality of modern dating. Giving men so much unfound hope is stupid. “Hey just trying 1 million times you might succeed.” It’s only true because it should work out eventually but it’s just a war of attrition at the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:59 PM
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Those men still have to compete with better quality men online. Men should only be approaching real life in hopes that they get increased visibility but that’s it, basically being at the top of a stack but only at that moment. This is why women should not be believed when they say they don’t like dating apps, they are literally as good as it gets for female dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:45 PM
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No, those guys don’t care or pay attention to women. They just go after the women they want, they don’t need a woman to tell them anything. It’s the guys that struggle with women who are most susceptible to the garbage women speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:55 PM
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I disagree with this take. If you are unattractive to one woman you tend to be unattractive to a lot of them. Orbiting around a bunch of women doesn’t mean you will get a better chance at all, it just sounds like it should, vibes are so important for these things and most guys aren’t Casanova. Thanks to social media and dating apps as well, you’re not just competing with the dudes in your immediate surroundings but guys from all over. This makes it harder to date women because there is a strong …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:48 PM
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Let’s be clear no one can tell you what your standards should be. I only want to date big booby goth chicks, most women to me are ogre like succubi. They are genetic dead ends. My issue is that women feel the need to say their preferences so often. No one cares. Any old landwhale can say she only wants to date Henry Cavill from behind a keyboard. Like the women on this sub. Socially inempt, fatties, that barely got through life smashing their heads on their keyboards with gelatinous slime drippi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:08 PM
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Actually a lot of these people live in communities with each other and the women still go out and make babies with white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:41 AM
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You aren’t a mutant homie. You’re good, I am only pointing out that those women then choose white men when they are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:40 AM
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What happens when you bring those “wimin” to North America? What happens to those babies? Suddenly they get a weird mutation of being mixed, that’s so strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:31 AM
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No, I lived it. I lived in east Asia as an ethnic. I know women are super racist first hand. There is a lot of white worship, you just think women are benevolent lovers but I don’t get that. Women are the ones with checklists for literally everything they want. You don’t think ethnicity wouldn’t be on that list? They wouldn’t want a cute mixed baby? How is that possible they are picky to the point of human extinction but they wouldn’t optimize for skin color something that has separated human ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:27 AM
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Save or archive messages as much as you can, find a lawyer or legal advice. If she is hot you’re fcked, sorry man. Never drink and drive your dick into crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:23 AM
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White women are the true winners, for sure. I recently learnt about the “Lost white girl effect” , these are the same women saying they are oppressed. When darker skin women get so little love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:21 AM
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It’s a problem when a white guy shows up in their country. Those guys get to see true burning desire for the first time in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:19 AM
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That’s because that’s what they are usually around. That has nothing to do with what women really want nor what they will do if given the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:18 AM
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Where are they gonna get enough white guys from? There aren’t enough for all of them to get married over there. But when they are in the U.S. for example they don’t waste the opportunity. My Asian brothers get tossed to the side of the road in western countries, it’s brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:10 AM
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I should have clarified SEA and east Asia. They still all prefer white men, they just can’t get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:06 AM
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I don’t like how women pretend that being ethnic isn’t a giant demerit for men. You have so many men out there worrying about their height while the elephant in the room, their ethnicity, effectively means they will forever be considered lower value/ standard if they aren’t the right shade of paper 📄 . The Fourth reich will be lead by women. Especially those in the east, you have no idea how much those Asian women dream of a blue or green eyed kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:52 AM
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No one has tried to even attack my argument. We treat women like they are wonderful or give them freedoms or treat them well because we see them as incompetent. It’s like a disabled child getting certain boosts to help them be equal to their peers. My point wasn’t to focus on women actually being incompetent or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:41 AM
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I feel bad for you if your mother’s love for you changes depending on what you do. My mother will love me forever. I have nothing to worry about. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:38 AM
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Why would a man spend time with a woman without sex? That’s called a sucker. Men like that get made fun of constantly. OP is this what you want ? To be a sucker?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:33 AM
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Only because they are all too accurate and like the pill of truth far too difficult for plank length like minds to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:47 AM
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The modern world has bent itself into a twisted, malformed state to appease to the feminine narrative. Men’s humility taken advantage of and now you think we are equals. Your delusions are as terrorizing as they are humorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:46 AM
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That’s your belief. If you feel so insecure about your existence I suggest you seek help. If you are capable of finding it, perhaps you should ask a man to lead you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:44 AM
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Are you implying that through sex I will explore the wonders of the world and that without it my life must be hard? Fascinating, please explain. Please don’t make it easy, I am so close to throwing the simp/white knight accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:57 AM
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It would be worse to simp for women and put down your fellow man, in order to feel this small sense of self importance. Truly sinister. Hiding in the shadows dressed in the tunic of an ally but beneath the skin covered with twisting tendrils, a curse from the days gone past. An affliction only the most Judus like man should receive, that is you. A true traitor. A man even the simps and white knights can only fear and admire, a case that needs no more recognition, a disastrous and malignant virus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:50 AM
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No, I am an ancient monk. I have achieved true ascension by not sullying myself and falling prey to those villainous sirens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:42 AM
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Mate this is more erroneous than the female takes. This take is down right blasphemous. This take endangers the sanctity of the brotherhood. You have absorbed far too much of the feminine narrative, I fear it is far too late for you. But I find it really sad that you actually believe in the garbage that women peddle. Do you think there is something magical women are doing? Women banging Chad and becoming single moms ain’t amazing or amassing 100k+ student loan debt ain’t great either. They liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:37 AM
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You need a man to have more than a penis because you can reliably assume he has more qualities than that. It’s normal to expect it. But do men expect that of women? What do you think? Can we reliably expect a woman to bring more than just her sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:09 AM
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Even if we accept your nonsensical premise. You are asserting that men are the evolved feminine. We morphed a grotesque hole to a far more aesthetic and efficient phallic design. The lack of these barbarian women is another sign of women’s incompetence. Killed off like vermin by their superiors. Even your childish barking is one famously hurled at women for centuries because their brains couldn’t process much more than direct and harsh orders. It’s truly sad not knowing your place, you look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:06 AM
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Fair game. I will come up with something positive eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:56 AM
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Don’t attack the bearer of bad news, I am only a messenger on my path to provide clarity. It must be difficult to accept your unfortunate disposition, accept my sympathies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:53 AM
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I have already stated NAWALT to others. There are always exceptions. Are you one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:51 AM
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How else should I go about proving women’s incompetence other than all the evidence that already exists in nature, in culture, in tradition, in biology, to treat a women like an equal is a new concept in itself, that is only treating them but it is only a facade to keep you quiet. Do you need me to write a paper and publish it? Surely you know that isn’t acceptable in this day and age of wokedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:50 AM
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I have invented the simp detector and it is showing me signs of your ailment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:47 AM
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She has transcended the limitations of the female mind and body and exists as an unquestionable force. You and her are not the same. Women are incompetent. She is immaculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:46 AM
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Women are barely cognizant of their own irrational ramblings let alone emotionally intelligent. Keep your 50/50, equality bs out of here. Simping gets you no where. The evidence is everywhere, women haven’t barely made anything. We’re lucky our forefathers were so hyper intelligent that they could pass down their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:40 AM
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No, I lack the ability to spell out the obvious. I don’t have evidence that women aren’t incompetent so therefore women must be competent. You win. Maybe, I am a woman on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:37 AM
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Sex with women = an estimation of a man’s value?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:21 AM
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What does this mean? Criticize women = criticize my mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:20 AM
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Every chance I get. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:19 AM
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Wrong interpretation. When women do things those things become less valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:17 AM
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You clearly do. I don’t blame you there’s not much for men to pick from. It’s a question that most women struggle with. Because it shows how women actually don’t think they are all that worth it. Since I have yet to see one of you say “yes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:14 AM
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POC I agree. But women? I don’t. Women are wolves in sheep clothing, abusing the system and collecting all the reparations and freedoms POCs are entitled to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:10 AM
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Some women perform. NAWALT Men need to be successful objects otherwise what is there for them to have, do you think the world cares? Women most definitely don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:08 AM
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You think men only date women for sex though I understand the confusion. Men need to dig deep to find a few decent merits that a woman may possess. Yes, compatibility matters but women have few merits and they want a man to have many more them. It’s often just greed not seeking compatibility. However, men are merciful and provide their innumerable qualities to these hapless women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:06 AM
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I submit the lack of impact women have had in most of human history even though they existed in it from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:58 AM
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First, of all every great artist was accused of madness in the beginning. Second, yes I will try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:56 AM
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NAWALT. Any criticism of women = gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:55 AM
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I am only poor because rich people keep me down. If they didn’t prevent me from prospering I’d be a billionaire too. Coping like this isn’t healthy. It’s not always about man bad, sometimes it’s about women can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:50 AM
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I asked you and you answered. It exposes your own internal biases. I wish women tried harder to offer more than sex but that’s on them being lazy. When men date women they try desperately to find good qualities about them to stay involved, when women date men they disqualify men at every opportunity they can. Men are too merciful so yes incompetence in women runs rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:49 AM
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I agree with this take, my mother is the best person I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:44 AM
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https://www.kqed.org/futureofyou/248879/sorry-moms-your-kids-intelligence-doesnt-come-just-from-you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:40 AM
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Exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:40 AM
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Do you think if women didn’t have a vag men would be interested in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:38 AM
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Right around the time when degrees are at their lowest value in history. Most men don’t even bother with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:31 AM
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The mother’s genes may play a stronger role than the father’s but to simply say that this is the only reason is uninformed and ignorant. Men need to be more intellectual and have proven so with everything you see around being created by them. There is no need to cope like this, it’s a bad look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:30 AM
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I would inherit genetic traits from both my parents, as would any man. I would argue that the burden of intellect falls far more on men than women otherwise they wouldn’t be able to reproduce in the first place. But nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:14 AM
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Explain. What skill does that require?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:06 AM
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Are you saying that women wouldn’t swipe right on a very attractive man? Doesn’t hinge already prevent users from swiping too often? From what I know women are going to only swipe on very attractive men regardless. Otherwise why risk all the things they accuse men of?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:22 AM
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Women need men to pay the government and work shit jobs that most women will never do. Women are a net drain on the economy, and on relationships since they demand so much without producing anything, yes including children because they don’t want to do that anymore either. So they’re a drain on mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:07 PM
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That’s not what’s happening here, OP just has really low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:05 PM
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OP why are you asking the women on here? Do you know the vast majority of them are either 40+ spinsters or have mental health issues? Even if they gave you an answer that you would like to hear would you actually do it? Do you understand that women fundamentally do not care about your or any man’s struggles dating especially? Most will say something akin to “it’s better for me to know him first” so basically warm approach at worst. What does that mean for you? Spend months building social circle…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:02 PM
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The guys here are normal, because men tend to want to find answers to solve problems, dating is a huge problem for most men. The women here are autistic, bored or ugly, most women couldn’t give a shit about dating problems, it’s never their fault anyway. Boomers are a real issue, I agree. Dating apps have changed the dating world completely and boomers help women deny their impact. Dating apps and social media is too powerful for women, I don’t even think it was feminism that caused the decline …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:49 AM
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Yea men are pretty awesome huh. We make the toughest stuff look EZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:45 PM
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First of all, why is any man listening to women? They want plausible deniability in everything they do, they say don’t approach but we all know if their dream man approaches, then their rules change. They are full of it and don’t even listen to themselves. Second, women don’t care. They always want what’s the most comfortable for them at the moment. Women have actually 0 empathy or sympathy for men at all, they couldn’t care less about any man’s dating struggles unless they are that guy’s mom. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:15 PM
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Mate if you are struggling, imagine a guy in one of those countries competing against you. 5ft 5,ethnic and poor, that’s without the obvious fetish that all women have for white guys. The mog is interdimensional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:43 AM
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If you’re not white in Asia prepare for beyond hard mode lol unless you have a positive stereotype going for you, it will be a struggle. The white guys will be hitting 100s of women while you will be seen as scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:47 PM
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You want to see how that truly plays out, go live in Asia as a non white man. That shit shows you how women really are super racist. It’s my belief that this the first thing women filter for, not even looks. I seriously don’t understand how white men struggle at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:55 PM
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The solution is abundance (many dating options) and to be taught healthy boundaries by copying women and their ultra high walls. I think a lot more women than you think are like this. The thing is we assume that women are good by default (they aren’t, they are just people). Then we assume men need to please them or treat them well (it should be even, but it’s not). Then women are perpetually seen as the victim and play into it heavily (crying, being emotional) they can end up doing a lot of thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:50 AM
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That’s true but I think that a lot has been done to raise awareness of unpleasant things men do to women. But on the flip side not much has been done to help men recognize a bad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:29 AM
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This is my issue with opinions like yours. Men have been taught to take it and that it’s not that big of a deal when a woman is bad to him. Some guys get nervous when their partner isn’t nagging them or calling them names. That’s when they think she’s cheating. “The old ball and chain” it’s basically accepted that being with a woman is some kind of torment. How are these guys supposed to know how to respect themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:27 AM
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Not really possible most women are like this, society basically conditioned them this way. But yes you are probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:24 AM
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That’s true but a lot of guys will most likely accept whatever his wife or gf wants to avoid trouble. It’s still bad I know but these guys don’t have the bravery to speak their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:37 AM
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Just pick better energy. Thats fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:35 AM
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I referenced emotional labor to showcase that women will use labels that don’t apply to them without actually doing that thing. Men are often the ones having to sit and listen to women when they are emotional or have issues, have to make her happy, make romantic gestures. But women say that they are ones doing those things, whilst being stereotyped as losing attraction to their partner when they have to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:22 AM
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That’s why we should be raising awareness, but we never focus on this part, just on getting the girl. Then we get her and then what do we do? We aren’t trained to deal with them and no one cares if you are in trouble. They think “oh you are a man, you should be able to deal with it.” It’s a big problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:01 AM
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I think that only buys you time, eventually she will get used to you. Then start acting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:46 AM
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Far too simple; many men have already been conditioned to accept abuse. They don’t even recognize when they are in a bad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:45 AM
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I don’t think it will help much. Women select on mostly genetically immutable traits height, intelligence, bone structure. It’s why there will always be short people because women will pass down those traits. Make up will work for men who are already good looking or have potential but will have diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:44 AM
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There is a huge range of what “makes you feel good” to a lot of men. Some guys are fine with a wet hole some like respect some even want to be treated well. Many men have no expectations anyway so their standards for women are below the mud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:34 AM
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This a triumphant day for mankind, with cracks in their frame maybe there will be respite in this war of lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:51 PM
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Nice try but your deception doesn’t work. You’re right you will get a man but I am sure he wouldn’t like you. Hence why you find yourself back on the dating apps like a ghost unable to ascend. Social circle died decades ago before women realized they could curate their potential mates online down to his very bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:50 PM
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It’s too late to try to obfuscate the truth, adding that little caveat there isn’t going to change reality. The hive has shown its cracks it’s too late now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:37 PM
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OP in your effort to refute her claim you missed out on the chink in her armor. She admitted something very interesting that the hive usually dismisses immediately. it’s way easier for me to find a man on dating apps. This is very important information because usually they try to gaslight us and say that both genders struggle on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:00 PM
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I mentioned that in the post, the jostle for positioning within the haram to become the number 1 consort. Main bitch and side bitch type dynamics. They don’t act out or go crazy until they get what they want and furiously mark their territory after.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:21 AM
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Is that what I said? Debate posts based on what you decide? Don’t engage with my posts, please you’re disturbing the force. Let the mods delete it, I’ll push my art piece in to chatGPT ask it for the most ND readable debate post and you can come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:06 AM
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Mate, you guys are too ND to appreciate something so majestic, anyway. Sure I can put up the same generic “women suck” arguments but let me sprinkle some angel dust on that, at least it’s more entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:03 AM
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Wars have existed for a long time in human history and many women have collected and been in harems for the ruling class. Could be good few thousand years it must have had an impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:56 AM
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Is it too complex for you to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:49 AM
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My claim is that many of women’s instincts and socializing works well in within a haram. They had to do that because they were usually rounded up and taken from their communities when their men lost the war. So in order to survive they had to learn to rely on sexuality to charm and deceptive communication to keep themselves safe. Many women would be together in these circumstances so they developed in group bias because they all lived the same fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:49 AM
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That’s fair but what if those institutions having existed for so long in human history they may have shaped the very nature of women’s dating dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:45 AM
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Please debate the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:36 AM
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Indeed, they are ceaseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:36 AM
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Did you read the post? I addressed your concerns. Women’s nstincts are suited for concubines. Even they way they socialize like in group bias (a group of women) working hard to deceive each other to gain a coveted advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:35 AM
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I would imagine you are referring to women in this post? But woman gain leverage from pretending they don’t like sex and relationships. Why? Because men will work harder to convince them to have sex and relationships when they do that. And there will never not be a man trying his best to convince a woman. It’s an easy win. So women won’t stop doing that. Look at all the newly crowned asexuals in this sub. But you know something of all the romantic gestures I have seen from either gender in a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:14 PM
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Come on OP, you know the answer man. There will always be a pool boy, a “he doesn’t pay enough attention to me guy”, a “I am bored” guy, a “ I just feel trapped” guy, a “I want to feel young again”, a “it was just one time guy”, etc. Women’s greatest weakness are the emotions. Even when given the world, it’s only a matter of time until they want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:48 PM
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This is an example of my post, the fact that she is complaining about it means that there will be a contingent of men who eventually will agree with her but not a traditionally masculine way. More in a simp way, women have learnt that they can twist the metaphorical nipple of men and the next demands will be satisfied, you just need the message to be repeated again and again and eventually it becomes reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:44 PM
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She’s so pretty why did she have to be a hood rat with the way she speaks, that’s such a waste man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:39 PM
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What do you get from lying to yourself like this? Women are barely functioning even with so much government handouts it’s actually incredible. Most women are normal but pretend they need the same help that disable people get then they celebrate like they worked for it, it’s weird. Like liberal white women abusing systems meant for minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:29 PM
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What haven’t men changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:51 PM
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You think a hobby will get you the physique women like? I am sorry bro. Maybe if you’re a teenager you can be lean but those guys like kinobody make it their life’s work and keep their body lean all year round. Eating alone is basically a job, you need to be strict. You did a good job doing ADF btw keep doing it or 3 days a week water fast for autophagy. But you need to go to the gym either way and lift as heavy as you can, to me the different between athletic and big is avoiding lean-bulk cycle…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:37 PM
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A lot of that stuff is normalized. I don’t fault many guys for not even realizing it especially because they don’t have a good outlet to talk about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:44 AM
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What’s this low effort attempt at trolling? “You mad” ooh gottem! This is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:31 PM
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A man who has fallen for their tricks. Unknowingly speaking like he isn’t under their finger. What next women say men aren’t bringing flowers and chocolates on dates, what will you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:27 PM
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Wrong. You think that sex is a qualifier for men’s worth. Sex is a gift men give to women. There’s nothing to be upset about I am providing clarity to my brethren.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:23 PM
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Some of you want men to stop but a lot of you learnt that communicating in this way is effective. It has nothing to do with me, I have seen through the mirage. Another qualifier in your statement, implying men who don’t have “self respect” aren’t worthy. This communication is used to force men in to an image of those who deserve and those who don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:20 PM
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I made no mention of “need” no one needs anyone in this modern world. The point is you guys say this knowing full well men won’t stop trying to appease you, there is no downside to complaining. It’s not like people will strike you down like they do incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:14 PM
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They should but a lot of them think that it’s normal for her to behave like “that”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:10 PM
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Sex and companionship. Many men stay in abusive or undesirable relationships for those reasons and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:53 PM
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Those men assume women will eventually become satisfied. They won’t, that’s how it works. You can only give so much but women take and take and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:47 PM
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That’s the trick men don’t have many requests but women do. Once you start giving them an inch they take a mile, the demand never stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:46 PM
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My post deleted by the mods because the heathens dare not debate me. Edit: I doubt I can repost it. Its nature is inflammatory. I’ll put it here. Women slander men to trick us into becoming their docile servants In their malevolent attempt to "get one over" men, they have opened their despicable spell book of deceit. They have cast a dark magic, a forbidden one, that has left us perched on the precipice, teetering on the edge of extinction. They seek to besmirch the name of man with the aid of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:32 PM
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Blasphemous screeching, avert your eyes and ears from their otherworldly diatribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:17 PM
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Any question of their plundering, swatted down like an act of heresy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:01 PM
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Women say this knowing that men will still approach them. At the end of the day they say things that sounds nice but know full well that men will still adhere to the biological wiring. Any woman that says how amazing their single life is knows that they can change that in an instant. It’s a flex. People who are truly lonely don’t like it. That’s why prisons exist, being alone is a punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:59 PM
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Women were born from the rib of man, we were the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:49 PM
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A millennia of espionage, tactical learnings passed down from the monks of a prior age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:48 PM
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Sex is merely an illusionary spell meant to blind the mind’s eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:46 PM
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More deceit, spread through the air like a virus. With this warning men will be awoken to your tricks and reclaim their place at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:44 PM
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A malignant force that needs precaution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:43 PM
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You have been caught red handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:42 PM
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They want both, an alpha that acts only within the range of her orders.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:37 PM
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Try it yourself and compare. ChatGPT is imprisoned by the shackles of wokedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:27 PM
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You must read the dark scrolls if only for your enlightenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:22 PM
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You appear to be an already fallen soldier. I pray for your reincarnation to spared from this unenviable barrage of wokeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:15 PM
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Debate? Personal attack? You said the people that love attention from others more than anything else are ok with being alone with a cat? Come man, maybe that’s how you cope with your enforced singleness but most girls live of off men’s validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:46 PM
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Cope. Who gave you the position of high chancellor in the women’s hive mind coalition?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:38 PM
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I believe she said she is “too humble” that’s why she allows the man to be in her presence so he should be grateful /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:52 AM
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Soon isn’t a few months from now, that girl is playing with you, she’s a sugar baby or a pro stringing you along. If it’s too good to be true it usually is. Besides if she really meant it then a few months is a long time and it only takes one mistake to have her ghost you in fact it doesn’t need that at all, that’s why the typical advice is to meet up very soon. How will you keep her interested over months without direct contact?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:45 PM
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Why not just date women then? Or trans men hmm I guess sexuality isn’t a choice but your filters are so stiff. Put them on HRT that will definitely reduce the impact of testosterone and that macho men nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:53 AM
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You ask for so much and when it’s your turn to produce you say you hope? Now it’s transactional not when you were listing off things you wanted? I am just holding a mirror to you guys, it’s fascinating what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:35 AM
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What makes you think women have high attunement? Do they actually or study just sit in their feelings more?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:33 AM
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What in the made up self flagellating scenario is this? Huh? If this is real you should have a conversation with your husband, if not why do you think man chores are bullshit? Do you want to do them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:49 AM
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Women have that option but men have almost always used it. This is why women lack personality they never needed it because men never paid attention. Men are free just not from the desire of sex which if there were sexbots then women would really know the truth. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:05 AM
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Men aren’t thinking about women, they’re think “how do I get laid”. What or who she is, is secondary and if it can be optional then it’s not a bad thing. Women have done the same to me, just used me. Women aren’t all asexual sorry to ruin your feminist dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:48 PM
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Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:43 PM
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Sounds like a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:43 PM
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But guys, why do we care if most women want to be single for? Do you understand that most guys before hoeflation used to have to be convinced to be with you? That women used sex to tie men down? That most men would avoid marriage if they could? Hesitate to call you his girlfriend? What makes you think that most dudes would shack up with you? What makes you think anyone is missing you from the dating market? Huh? Please explain what about you other than sex will we all be missing out on. I don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:42 PM
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Huh most women don’t want a tall, attractive, financially stable man? Really? That’s news to me. I was asking what does he get from you. Why is it automatically assumed that if only he was better then the relationship will be good?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:35 PM
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No, mate that’s what you are doing. Do you think that you should get an award for having sex with women? Is that some sort of moral win for you? You’re literally bringing women’s value down to sex in your own comment. Why is having sex with women or talking to them supposed to be a hallmark on the quality of a man? It’s just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:30 PM
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What’s this comment supposed to be? You guys need to get out of this world where you think men actually want to talk to women just because. If we weren’t so horny all the time what would women be useful for? Is this really the flex you think it was ? I’d understand if women enriched men’s lives but what do they really do? That’s why whenever they speak they only say what they want from a man and never what they provide, to keep our focus on their desires only.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:18 PM
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You forgot tall, attractive and has money from your list btw. So what does the guy get from doing all of those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:38 PM
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Above 40% of women voted for Trump. Most platforms don’t allow criticism of women or minorities. And the rights you’re probably talking about was left to the individual states to decide. Men need to gain rights they’re still getting fcked over by antiquated laws that don’t fit the modern scene. Please don’t paint women in the same light as people who actually have problems. Women are the first to say “trans women aren’t women” you guys just hitched your wagon to the actual victims that need help…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:10 PM
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Being alone can be the same.None of this is news to anyone so why do you guys keep saying it? I haven’t found a good pussy yet my hand does a better job anyway. Why do we need to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 09:00 PM
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No but don’t act like being in a relationship with a woman is some picnic and being with a man is hell. Stay single if you want but the way you say it is like life suddenly has meaning and is fun but then say how incels are losers but you all have the same life circumstance; being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:45 PM
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Why do you guys say that when women are usually the ones that cause chaos and drama in a relationship? It’s weird. “Oh yea I just don’t want woman to only want me for sex that’s why I don’t talk to them” Are we in opposite world?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:18 PM
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Maybe you weren’t attractive enough to prompt that from men? 🤷‍♂️ but I keep seeing men asking for help on how to improve or what to improve on. But I almost never see that from women, you guys just auto assume you got it all figured out and the big bad is men. I never said women only want sex. But they definitely get into relationships with far less effort than most men do. And btw most men have to lose weight or not be fat to be seen as attractive as well as all the other million things women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:12 PM
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That’s because you are watching MAGA or whatever group you don’t like spread their message. Actually men today have listened to women too much, they are softer, let women run over them, don’t talk to women in any place they have heard that isn’t appropriate, they are trying harder to make relationships work, learning therapy speak, all kinds of soft effeminate shit to let women get what they want, looksmaxxing. Sadly they can’t grow taller. You’re just seeing the controversial shit, but ignore t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:23 PM
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I disagree. I think women en mass just realized that if they cry online men will listen to them akin to rage baiting. There’s almost no downside to a women going online and moaning about the quality of men or saying she isn’t interested in dating because of the lack of quality in men. Why? Because men will still try to change her mind. They will actually go out and do the things she wants and improve themselves. But the reverse doesn’t work, if men complain then who cares? Women never have to wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:01 PM
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Yea and women call us shit all the time. So if both sides were selective then that’s literally the end of humanity as we know it. Especially because by nature of hypergamy there will be more male options of quality than female.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:33 AM
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Yea the population is running out even with men not picking anything past can breathe and is woman. I think a lot of men have dreams when they were young and realize it doesn’t exist when they get older. It’s ironic women think they were the first to feel that way. Every guy I know has an ideal type and knew from the moment he had that thought that he will never be with her. They have agency but most of human existence has been about men improving not women. So why would there be high quality wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:31 AM
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If men were more selective it would wipeout the human population. Most women are short, have poor bone structure, are fat, etc we can’t easily optimize for women, let alone if we ask for women with great personality traits like charming, funny that’s slim pickings. I can’t even say rich because most women with money will not want to pay for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:20 AM
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There are a lot of white women (snow bunnies) who like exactly that kind of character though and breaking character (being soft) online leaves him open to ridicule and hurt when he gets back home. Accusations of liking trans people or being gay, he will get beat up or ostracized from his group. Yes, he is probably a kid maturity-wise. Hood culture isn’t about being a mature thoughtful person, quite the opposite. Black culture is almost entirely hood culture though. As a girl there isn’t as much …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:53 AM
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It’s actually a weird cultural phenomenon where being an asshole, thug, gangster, hoodlum is high status. I would know I tried that shit for a bit of my early life it’s stupid but it’s in the music so kids try to emulate it and the girls love a dangerous bad boy. You can be black and not an asshole but you will be isolated from the community, bullied and called an Uncle Tom or trying to act white. Yes, acting white is not committing crime to them. I am from the black Caribbean that trans person …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:36 AM
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Me too. We don’t talk much but I want to and it’s so hard to do it, I wish things could change but I can’t not be shut down anymore, I can’t be myself around her easily after so much of this, so I just agree or stay silent. Men should listen to their gf/ wives more but if the gf/ wife doesn’t understand they may be doing harm with the way they communicate then it’s really hard to fix things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:18 AM
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No I don’t think so. It’s hard even for me with as much as I know about women to say no to them. We really try as hard as we can to listen and do what they say. But it’s a loop that never ends. Imagine you had a mean mom who nagged you about anything, you couldn’t talk back because she would blame you more or bring it back up again later on, you try to talk to her but she shuts down or doesn’t see your perspective at all, all you could do was agree with what she said or hide, so eventually becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 01:10 AM
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Actually women teach us this. It’s the only way to get you to stop bothering us. Trust me, we have to take a lot of pain from women. Constant badgering, nagging, complaining, you just get burnt out and give up. She’ll never stop and if you say something, if she doesn’t like it she will become even more annoying or abusive. So you ignore it and hope she goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:34 AM
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I think the problem isn’t necessarily that the boys sit idle as much as that you can’t compete with women, it’s shameful if you win and it’s shameful if you lose. Why? Well part of learning from the guys I grew up with is that making learning competitive makes it more interesting, more worth it, more captivating. I went to an all boys school, those guys studied like no tomorrow and sat still for hours if it meant they’d beat out someone else’s score. I think that video isnt fair, it’s an African…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:32 AM
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You make a good point. That’s a big weakness of this strategy because you aren’t always sure if you keep contact things may change or how quickly if it does. Or if the girl will just use you for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:00 PM
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You still respect yourself of course. Sure, most men want to be liked instantly, me too but you need to realize that someone liking you off rip is an ideal scenario that a majority of guys unless they are talking to 100s of women a month, very lucky or are conventionally attractive won’t get. So optimize where you can by giving the interaction room to breathe and grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:28 PM
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Too much energy is wasted trying to avoid the label of simp. The way to avoid simping is to talk to many women at the same time with low investment. Most guys don’t source enough women to be rejecting them off the first encounter. That’s something women can do. That’s where long dry spells come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:24 PM
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That’s why you can’t be ego invested unless you’re good enough that few approaches leads to success. Most guys hope they don’t have to do something like this but the truth is that they do. And of course as a woman you will think the same, you never had to deal with rejections on the level of a typical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:08 PM
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It’s not, the point is to do with this with many other women, by keeping investment low but low enough that she ignores you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:05 PM
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I agree that is the best strategy but not everyone wants to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:05 PM
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This is a low investment approach . I am not advocating for hanging around like a bad smell. Too many guys don’t get the answer they want to hear and banish the girl to the shadow realm. Besides, the main point is to do this simultaneously with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:58 PM
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That’s fair, if you don’t care to deal with women or could work with them in limited spurts. The assumption is that focusing on self improvement will provide results as a side effect, it can work if you had the latent abilities already. But this way of thinking works on best case scenario or favorable conditions. It’s an easy pill to swallow but it doesn’t work in reality men are inherently sexual beings, men love monk mode but monk mode doesn’t provide the results you all hope does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:37 PM
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This works if you aren’t hot. What does time have to do with it ? Edit: I don’t have a spreadsheet yet but I keep notes and reminders. I haven’t been in the field as much since I moved to warrant it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:17 PM
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For a woman that’s 99% yes. For an attractive man ? It ain’t hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:39 PM
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Wrong. A small percentage of men are. Most women actually benefit from men being the way they are. If a woman was on the streets she can find a way out that same day, some dude will rescue her. Even a little boy will be left to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:37 PM
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More authentic and more filtered. I actually agree with you that women making their own money is good, it’s great for men because there less incentive for a women to be deceptive, use a man for his money and then dead bedroom him. But if women are using other filters it makes looks even more important and guess what? Looks are to a high degree objective. You can swipe on a good looking guy any time you want and probably match, you only have to hope he is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:35 PM
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Just get good? Either way when the guy finds out there is nothing there past occasional sex, don’t blame him. I can’t be angry at women using me for my money if there nothing else about me worth staying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:30 PM
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God, I love how women the allies of LGBTQ2A + slinging homophobia like a broken sprinkler when they don’t get their boots licked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:27 PM
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Most people who have interacted with modern OLD are single. At least most men in that age range are single. You guys don’t like to acknowledge that times have changed since tinder, bumble etc have come out. Women have learnt to optimize their opportunities and if they aren’t getting the best they stay single. Which tends to be the same kind of dudes, I don’t understand why you guys think your tastes in men are so unique it’s weird, you’re human aren’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:23 PM
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No, women and children are just more valuable to society. If a man dies it’s ok. Men are just as vulnerable to the elements outside as women but yes children can’t help themselves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:10 PM
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They girl will suck so much value out of especially simps long before they ever even meet. Look at OF/twitch girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:32 AM
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Jeez that’s brutal. Respect the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:31 AM
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No-no, you can’t say you won’t let them be born because they don’t exist in that scenario hence you can’t give them up or treat them with less priority. Why are you trying to dodge this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:35 AM
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No-no, my comment was for after you have kids already. Women love their bfs/husbands until after their kid is born. Or will your list stay the same and you’ll throw poor Billy and Sarah on to the streets for some extra savings?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:19 AM
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They won’t get slack though since women have optimized their sexuality to increase financial opportunities (sugar babies), why deal with a broke ugly guy when you can deal with a rich old ugly guy? Many of the women ugly guys used to get are going to the older men who have more access because of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:16 AM
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Men are much more naive. Have you seen exhibit A: Simps/ orbiters Exhibit B: White knights Exhibit C: Betabuxxers By the way, the woman doesn’t have to trick these guys or even be nice or acknowledge their existence at all. At least women know what they are they hope the guy will fall for them or change for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:13 AM
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Being a sugar baby is just traditional dating without expectations of kids, which is modern dating for ugly men. So instead of it being about age I recommend you change the OP to unattractive men should pay women to be their girlfriends. He has to pay you because you’re a hot, wonderful, amazing goddess and he is an ugly bridge troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:08 AM
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So hostile on a debate sub. Very scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:17 AM
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I would but we have to let people be naive, have hopes and dreams you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:15 AM
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Most women aren’t interested in casual sex and most women aren’t that cool to be around without sex. It’s a dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:57 AM
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Some of that is true though the problem is for a man to get a relationship or sex he must do something right therefore he provides value upfront . However, for a woman well 🤷‍♂️ you can depend on your sexuality which means, based on humans preferring to go down the path of least resistance women tend not to become cool, funny or interesting because you don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:55 AM
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You know women use sex as a weapon too right? The guy leaving you might just mean you weren’t what he was looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:52 AM
1

Actually, I have to put my hand up here. I don’t need to like a woman at all to sleep with her. I have said many romantic things without meaning them. It’s horrible but I was horny and I didn’t think clearly about the other person’s feelings. But I will say this, it’s unfortunate but I wish so many of those women were more amazing. Obviously I am no hot shot but I feel like a lot of women gamble that they can be liked or loved by the men if they havesex with him, if it fails they feel very hurt …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:51 AM
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I don’t think you want to be put in the same plane that men are in, I know men aren’t nearly as hard to deal with but it’s better to be able to dominate interactions with your sexuality, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:20 AM
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It’s just women shaming men to mold them into what they want. They use the same communication techniques with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:11 AM
4

Women are becoming asexual in mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:10 AM
1

I know people with penises rule the world but they will sooner have me dead than you. Men don’t have sympathy for or unity with other men. Look at the men in Ukraine being forbidden from leaving the country, being turned into slaves and dying in a war they don’t want to fight while their female counterparts get refuge from the world’s best countries. Men don’t get anything from men unless it’s through warfare, convincing men with power to change is actually something only women can do. The only …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:08 AM
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I don’t agree I think that it makes your partner more likely to be abusive or take advantage of you. But they will still feel attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:58 AM
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It’s not that women aren’t attracted to nice men but that attractive men don’t have to be nice or atleast do not need to compensate. This is an abundance problem, why? Because men are nice because they can’t afford to easily lose when they have so little. But when you have abundance you are free from those shackles to make decisions more freely and so you might not be so nice anymore. Why do you think women ghost, flake, become emotional, mean, end relationships so easily? You guessed right. Abu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:54 AM
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Hah why would I be nice because of women? That’s OPs issue he thinks that it helps somehow and is at an identity crossroads. I am me, not to impress you or any person, whether it be man or woman. I am nice to those who I want to be nice to. Please stop using your sex as bargaining chip for manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:46 AM
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Speaking for you? Hah why would I care to speak for you. I say what I see, and that is beyond rejecting hapless men, you have no control, the men who are good at pretending are good enough to fool you, that’s what they do. The honest nice guy thinks he should be honest and gets obliterated by women’s “cautiousness” because they don’t know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:41 AM
1

Huh what does that have to do with knowing if a guy is pretending? Or are you saying women are aromantic now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:33 AM
2

You won’t ever know. All you guys are good at is rejecting socially incompetent men because it’s easy or guys that are just way too good looking to ever really be talking to you so you feel off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:29 AM
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lol are you kidding me man? Women can’t tell anything why do you think they keep getting played and complain online, they are at the point of just labeling any man a predator because their blinkers are so bad. I feel sorry for women because people think they have some kind of superpower and they don’t. They’re idiots that get played just like men that get used for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:27 AM
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Holy neurospice! You’re coming in hot my man. I think you’re already at the apex of what attraction can make a girl do in that sort of situation. She won’t rip off your clothes or anything like that. But if you were ugly to her you would even need to make this post it would be that obvious, she’d struggle to hold back the barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:24 AM
1

Art is art not sexuality. For people that keep insisting you don’t like sex you sure try to make every thing about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:20 AM
1

Welcome to our world no one gives a shit about us 🤷‍♂️ and don’t pretend women aren’t in positions of power and keep the status quo. Rich people rule the world not just men. Of course idiot men will say they want a piece of their penis chopped off, aren’t there idiot women who don’t want rights to their own body?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:02 AM
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Almost of all humankind’s greatest masterpieces were depiction of men. Are those artists all gay? If you aren’t kissing a women’s butt then you must be homo am I right? Only gay men love men, such sorrow it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:55 AM
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As long as she is dating someone she is potentially in a harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:38 PM
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That’s what you think. The only way you would know is if you were married or single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:28 PM
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OP you need to understand that women are smart, they aren’t going to offer themselves up to be taken advantage of that’s men’s job. No woman will pay for a date unless she really really wants a guy, even then it’s too easy to simply lean social norms to avoid risk. They don’t want to get a provider partner not because they want to lower the burden on him. But because they don’t want to lose leverage, they don’t want to feel trapped, they don’t want to owe you anything. And if they do find a prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:27 PM
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That’s unavoidable man, that’s the issue with a globalized dating market you are competing against if she wants to put the work in to find a hot dude and instantly click or not. Thank god a lot of women think they are too good to put in the work to find a partner they want and sit on their butt and do nothing cause we would all be cooked. But that doesn’t mean they don’t hope that guy shows up instead of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:12 PM
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This won’t work well for most guys, you just aren’t attractive enough to make a woman feel that level of scarcity. Just learn to lie better if you want more options become so good they can’t detect that you are just biding your time, until they fall for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:49 PM
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That’s the most optimistic way to look at it, but probably not true most people find the same things attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:19 PM
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Aren’t baby boys still being mutilated? Well it isn’t a political issue because no one cares but you know they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:10 PM
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He is asking how would you find out that you are part of Chad’s harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:01 PM
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Not on this post nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:59 PM
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Homophobia from the benevolent sex? My god. Color me surprised. Shocked I tell you. How dare you appreciate men, you f-word.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:53 PM
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For both of them it leads to terrible consequences but of the two only one is expected by society to have accountability and improve. It’s even a meme that women never take accountability or think they have done nothing wrong at all. You think many women have this moment of clarity and think “maybe I shouldn’t have done, I will improve” ? Huh? Really? Do you think that happens? Instead of just blaming men the low hanging fruit? “You go queen he wasn’t good enough for you anyway” I never said tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:39 PM
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It’s unfortunate that they need to put up a facade but unfortunately it’s very effective with women.🤷‍♂️ Actually, most of what you said I believe is a thing women do often but here’s the thing a woman who is emotionally stunted or lack self awareness faces no consequences in the dating market. Men do, both sides lack empathy but only men get negatively affected by it. Men have a strong incentive for emotional maturity, growth and to be likeable so they can get (sexual access), so they at least …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:06 PM
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The women just have low social skills it was a slip of the tongue. Why? Men have filters on when they speak with women, with think, edit, think again, then speak. Women just let it out like a poop faucet, since most guys won’t disqualify them regardless of what she says. There really isn’t any game being played they just don’t think that much about it. There aren’t any consequences that they can think to stop them from saying random shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:18 PM
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OP they don’t notice because of their huge egos. Think of it this way if a super model wanted to date you from out of nowhere, would you think that was normal? A lot of women think “ oh that’s normal finally a man on my level” . When things go bad they feel scorned, “I was better than him how dare he? I need retribution!” And they start trying to ruin the dude’s life and then they find out they were in a 20 girl rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:13 PM
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So we should hope that women are humble?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:59 PM
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I want to ask you OP, do you think the women agreeing with you are doing it for you benefit? Do you think the three men that approach them a year puts a dent in the fact they have men sliding into their DMs everyday, can get an instant match with a good looking guy right now and go on a date everyday if they want? Have a bunch of orbiters salivating at the chance to take them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:51 AM
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No, you didn’t know him. He is still a stranger. Most men can’t read a women’s signal to approach, men get it wrong all the time. What are you going to do play with your hair in his direction? Yea but you guys just want men to have few avenues for success and just get it right under the circumstances that you like. It’s just greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:48 AM
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Mate unless you are attractive it takes meeting a lot of women to get a chance. Especially nowadays with people under socialized and being defensive. Essentially, if women aren’t making it easy or you aren’t in a place to meet them through friends and hobbies, just don’t try. Soon it will be don’t talk to women in friend groups or hobbies because “you only wanted me for sex you didn’t want me as a friend or look he isn’t interested in the hobby because he just wanted to talk to girls” there’s al…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:40 AM
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Yea but you see to him that was a cold approach. You just made up a scenario to make it more palatable but it is exactly what I am talking about. Especially now days when most men don’t approach they don’t even know what signals are. No experience so they can’t ever know what they even look like, what a positive experience with a stranger looks like, what it doesn’t look like, they just put their head down and avoid talking to people. You guys are too greedy. How can someone get better without t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:35 AM
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Ok then don’t approach tell all the other men to stay away. All the girls will celebrate. You’ll what? swipe on apps and pray? Hope it works out. I am not shitting on women, I get it. If I was a girl why would I want a strange guy approaching me? But my crush I have been eye balling for 3 months now him, that guy should approach me. Not you, stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:29 AM
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I mean men learn how to deal with women through experience, maturity and learning. Lonely men don’t get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:25 AM
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He gets confidence from where? Never talking with women? Never experiencing failure and learning? Oh there it’s poof he has it from nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:23 AM
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That’s what women hope, they don’t want to know what made him appear in front of her, they just want to feel special. Women aren’t agreeing with you because they think it’s for your betterment don’t misunderstand. They only care if they don’t have to interact with losers. They want you rotting in your basement while they hook up with the hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:22 AM
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Only good for you at the start, a desperate inexperienced man isn’t a good candidate either, now is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:17 AM
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He should cold approach just not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:09 AM
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You say that because Prince Charming hasn’t shown up yet. Please only speak for yourself you aren’t most women. They aren’t a monolith remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:07 AM
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Of the women that are left on the dating apps why wouldn’t they choose Chad? I don’t understand. And the fact that as you say most women aren’t on dating apps is a great reason to cold approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:01 AM
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I hear you but you are not hearing me. I don’t want to date women please, it’s toxic, that shit burnt me out. When did I say I don’t care about women? Of course they have their own challenges but man you guys act so high and mighty it’s hard to connect with you. Good luck on your recharge, don’t stop empathizing with men. They need it. They really need it. You will save a life one day if you just keep giving men a chance for their voice to be heard because no one else wants to listen, please bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:58 AM
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Harder to pump and dump too with fewer options from not cold approaching. It’s devastating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:49 AM
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That’s a horrible thing since it never mattered about women’s egos, they think they’re gods gift to mankind each anyway. It’s really bad because men aren’t learning skills to deal with women as easily and going undersexed and dateless. You can’t compete with Chad on dating apps so what are the options left? Buy it? 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:48 AM
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I understand that there are women that have done and are having to take on an immense load. My own family was exactly like that. Men can often times be terrible, I know this for sure. But please understand you are overestimating the number of women who do what you are asking and how long they do it for. My point about the mother and son is that this is one of the rare few times that a woman has to inspect another woman’s behavior and scrutinize it otherwise women are wonderful effect and in grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:34 AM
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That’s what you don’t get. Women are exhausted of themselves. Men have been showing up time and time again. It’s annoying that you guys don’t appreciate anything. You always want more and I don’t blame you because some guy is going to do it eventually. But I will feel sorry for you when you have your son and he tells you about what his girlfriend is doing to him. You will change your mind. This is why mothers are some of the most red pilled people I have ever seen. The only people women put ahea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:25 AM
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Women are the ultimate victims man, you guys are truly incredible. Men have no expectations of women at all if you guys are nice for a few days it’s heaven. I don’t think you understand how your male partners experience you. That must be the disconnect because I don’t think with any real introspection you can come to the conclusions you have. Who is the one with the more volatile emotions? Who is most likely to nag their partner? Who is the one that is harder to keep happy? Who is the one that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:58 AM
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Women don’t do any of those things, in fact it’s a stereotype that your wife or gf will complain or nag your ears off and that the moment you open to her the relationship is dead. Why do you guys ascribe things to women they don’t do? The only emotions you guys are tired of taking care of is your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:48 AM
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Since when have women selected to breed criminals out of the gene pool????? I am black let me tell you, the more of a criminal you are the hotter you are to many black women. Why do you think crime is rampant in the black community? You literally get bullied for not doing it. it’s the soft spoken, shy, nerdy, neurodivergent dudes getting selectively removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:20 AM
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Incels being the soft spoken, nice, neurodivergent, quiet, weak, unintelligent, poor, or otherwise not good looking guys? Yea but you know that women are the reason there are ugly people right? Since ugly women still reproduce and that goes for women who are soft spoken, nice, neurodivergent, quiet,poor, unintelligent and weak. Men aren’t anywhere as selective so the bad dna still exists. Your eugenics utopia can’t happen until you control women unfortunately 🤷‍♂️. Good try though 44.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:58 AM
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They aren’t choosing for the betterment of society though, why do you people ascribe such high morality to women’s actions? They are people too just as proven to terrible decisions and stupidity. And sure you might only care that they can bang chads and let oofey doofey hard working men die off but don’t make it sound like some kind of virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:50 AM
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You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:39 AM
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Thanks, I’m cured.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:09 AM
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A little boy’s desire to keep his family together framed as a horrific crime. Oh it keeps getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:02 AM
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Bruh do you really want me to go through the list of magic tricks? There’s a reasons a women wrote Harry Potter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:30 AM
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Please do not hate on other women. There’s no need to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:16 AM
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Tarnishing your brother to uplift yourself? Truly dispicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:14 AM
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Why would I be trolling? You don’t believe men look better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:02 AM
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If that were the case we wouldn’t have the current dating landscape that we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:01 AM
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Us? Why do you seek to include yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:43 AM
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They are doing it all natural for you to be comparable to them you need to do the same. So is to say they are genetically powerful, you need illusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:43 AM
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You know women aren’t going to change anything in a good way. Look at poorer communities you think women are choosing hardworking kind men or good looking bad boy criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:42 AM
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Yea of course you would say that. My eyes rolling so far in the back of my head I can see the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:34 AM
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If you have something to lose no don’t cheat. Make an arrangement if you can but keep it closed in her end.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:32 AM
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You’d be even better looking too and all natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:29 AM
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I already watch Qoves, for men to be consistently beating women in looks without make up it’s incredible. True works of art.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:28 AM
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There’s too much internal misandry in LLMs they are not to be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:25 AM
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That confidence would ooze out of you, the moment you realize their challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:20 AM
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Solid point. And in a way I hope men see this post and see what they do have, within themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:18 AM
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An LLM will never let me uplift men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:03 AM
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I will have some thought about this, it could be insecurity. Thank you. I hope you get over that internal misandry brother. Let’s keep fighting a good fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:00 AM
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I can see your internal misandry. I never thought I would encounter a man shaming me for showing appreciation for my brethren and himself. I pray for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:54 AM
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You are unique. I give you that if you are genuine with your description of your dating life I believe this post isn’t for you. I appreciate your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:52 AM
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Men like you should appreciate yourself more, I am sorry for you my brother. I pray you come to love yourself one day. And, no actually women aren’t bad, they are just overrated and men underrated. I understand you have unfortunately learned to uplift them and downplay yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:48 AM
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I didn’t say it was a problem at all. I want appreciate for the efforts of my fellowman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:35 AM
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Why when women have as many choices as they do will they choose a man like that? They might say yes to look politically correct but they are the most ruthless in how stringent they are for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 02:24 AM
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There is no hate actually men love women a lot a lot. So much that they would die for them often, but the woman often times don’t deserve it or doesn’t have a reason to receive it in comparison to what they ask of man, despite only providing sex. Man really like women too much, they don’t ask for the bare minimum from women at all. While barely like men and ask of them the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:32 PM
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Why not improve like you tell men to do? Just be more interesting than who wouldn’t want a fun partner? But don’t ascribe traits to yourself that don’t exist or have no reason to exist. Work to be cool, to be funny, to be interesting, to be likeable just like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:57 PM
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Certainly not before you speak to them. How would you know if they were interesting before communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:54 PM
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That’s by chance not because they felt the need to. Like many guys today being extra friendly, personable, soft for women because women asked. Men don’t ask women for anything so why would they be other than chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:37 PM
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Sorry what else is he supposed to know about you? Are you really that interesting to expect people to want to know anymore? Where’s the hubris coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:25 PM
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It’s sad but true. I don’t see women thinking “oh, let me improve so that this person will see other aspects of me that are great” instead they ask the guy to hide his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:22 PM
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That’s true but there is a significant reason for men to work hard on their personality. Women don’t have this incentive, so they don’t need to improve, so why do they think they are so fun to be around? Ain’t no one asking women to be funny, it’s great if she is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:21 PM
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You’re projecting I never said men are in this position. She’s flexing picking “peace” but that picking part comes about because she is used to picking. A lot of men don’t get to pick “peace”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:19 PM
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It’s nothing on you. I know you were asked. It’s just sad to see my brothers asking to be flogged time and time again. Growing their insecurities. Losing confidence, for what? I don’t get it. What does this change? It’s not like it matters if men in general improve for women, if women don’t do it for men at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:09 PM
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lol you really asked that? You think men are with women because of their personalities? You’re really funny. In fact most men say they want peace, you know what that means? Give him some sex and leave. Sorry to burst your bubble. You aren’t that cool to be around, it takes men many years of rejections and pain to learn how to be cool. You never heard a no in your life, how can you expect to be likeable? Oh oh let me guess some guy told you that right? Or your girl friends told you that? Those tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:06 PM
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You only say that because you have the options to. If you never had the options you be desperate, this is human nature. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:03 PM
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That’s what’s happening to most men already but it’s not because they aren’t soft femboys. It’s because they have less value to women because they own less, you guys just don’t want to admit it. Women aren’t more likable in fact they are even less agreeable and nice but they don’t have problems right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:01 PM
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This is my problem with Op’s post it just gives women the pedestal to call men garbage. There is no value to be had from listening to you, since most men have heard these complaints their whole life. In fact there is a huge incentive for men to be better, which is why he is asking. But women have no reason to improve for their intimate partner beside her just happening to want it. But men never see that they keep improving for women and women improve only for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:58 PM
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Men can’t be like women, they don’t have female privileges to help maintain the circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:55 PM
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Why do these guys keep looking for validation? Dude you’re just giving these women a reason to put you down. Do you really want to hear them say how shit you are? When they aren’t anything special themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:51 PM
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Yea sure every woman is glad to not be in blah blah blah, you guys always prop yourselves like being with you is some kind of good experience. When it is the man making everything happen. Yes, men are making huge mistake they are trying to date like women do. They can’t. It is better not to have expectations on women they can’t handle it and they don’t like it. There is no whiplash. It’s just modern day men are idiots, like they expect women to approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:55 PM
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No, women victimize themselves constantly. They overestimate their own work and feminism the value of others. Yes, everyone wants a good partner that can enrich their lives, women are the only ones that can consistently get it. Do you know why? No, men here struggle to find quality relationships with quality partners they are learning to apply standards to women but women don’t have what it takes. Thats the err of modern men expecting too much from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:26 PM
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Capitalism has always relied on the efforts of Men and reckless spending of men’s money by their female partners. It means that by nature of filtering if men aren’t selecting for ability why would women be the better skilled in the relationship? Your shaming statements don’t work sorry, men have to be better than women because women want it to be so. Therefore, women are the bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:47 PM
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According to hypergamy and female nature, women are pressured to select for non-bums. While for men, women can be barely functioning. It’s actually looked down upon for a man to rely on a woman for almost anything, thus she doesn’t need to be good at anything not even sex. It’s ok you won’t admit it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:42 PM
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Wouldn’t that be the same the other way around? There are definitely more bum girlfriends than boyfriends by nature though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:33 PM
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That’s your insecurity screaming, you’re the one viewing yourself that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:25 PM
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This guy wants women to implicate themselves? If a woman slaps you, she’ll say why did your face hit her hand. You can make better bait than that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:20 AM
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Huh? This is for most women I deal with. As well for most guys I know who deal with many women. None of this is about a specific woman. In fact this is the best thing when dealing with multiple women at the same time. It’s just planting seeds. One day when one of them is bored they say “hey what you doing recently?” For seemingly no reason you meet up and 2 hours later you’re banging. That’s how women operate, unpredictable, and self serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:55 AM
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Not in a row. There’s obviously a limit. You guys are too black and white with your thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:42 AM
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How will they learn how to fish without trying? The OP wants the fish to jump into the boat and catch itself. Don’t add that covert nonsense to what I am saying, keeping yourself available for women means you aren’t pressuring them, you understand that you aren’t always going to be first of mind for her, that a lot of women are guarded they want to build familiarity, they reject a lot of times out reflex because of discomfort or social norms. Only women can catch fish constantly by just existing…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:36 AM
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No, I am good. I understand why you will say these things and shame. There is no benefit for you to agree with how men get sex or relationships with women. Anything that isn’t how you want it to be will be labeled as something reprehensible, that’s how you communicate and acknowledge the world around you. You can do this because opportunities come to you. I would do the same and I honestly do not like doing the work to even talk to women. It’s annoying but guess what? They aren’t banging down my…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:29 AM
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You guys are going too deep, too much investment. The reason guys over invest is because they aren’t employing any strategy. I am saying stay on periphery with intent but for many different women at the same time. Low invest but you are known as possible candidate for when she wants romance. Only women and Chads can hope for instant access. Unless you all are talking to hundreds of women, you will not only leave yourself dull with few interactions over a long time. You will become desperate and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:11 AM
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To the OP, you need to understand that women have a vested interest in you instantly giving up. They want their fairytale to happen, they don’t care how the pizza is made they just care that when they eat it, it’s perfect. Everything else is satan spawning and hell on earth. If you act like this you will lose. Just like these women here all agree with you, ask them to go out and get men when men are lukewarm on them. They have only sat and waited to get a partner. You are not a woman. You don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:05 AM
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Pain builds character yes. Women will treat you bad in the long run if you don’t build a resilience to them. I am not talking about taking disrespect at all you are talking as many women as you can like this. 10-20 maybe whatever the point is you know none are special and that they will only chase you after they have sex. You’re going to face rejections that’s the plight of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:35 PM
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You wouldn’t understand. When have you ever had to do anything like this? Ever had to charm a guy into liking you? Men are emulating women now but they don’t have the options, that women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:05 PM
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Really? I will make a post to see the general consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:55 PM
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Girls often don’t care or operate that way man, maybe in their horniness window but so many things can be in the way to stop a girl from wanting quick sex. If you want to play that game of instant approval or dip, you need to be very attractive so she will supersede her own objections. You can optimize your time yes but if your supply isn’t strong you are going to struggle to get sexual access, when asking for instant approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:54 PM
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That’s the important part a lot of you guys get wrong. There are windows when women want sex, they can’t be hoes and hate it the question is when. You can’t know for sure so what you can do is best an option when she wants it. It’s not that you only talk about sex but she feels the intent is there through compliments, sexually charged conversations, touching etc. Think of it like fishing you have to place the hook but you can’t tell the fish when to bite. The hook is the intent to catch and when…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:50 PM
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You have to understand that intent is so valuable here, she needs to always know that you want to bang her. So the moment she shows up she knows that is what you want and she would have already understood that will be your purpose. Guys hide their penis and hope the girl will find their friendliness attractive it won’t, women are responsively sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:31 PM
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That’s the optimization problem, when and where do you optimize in an interaction that provides the most benefit vs cost. Women are fickle and have too much attention to scan through she might forget you exist in a minute or day but if you are consistently around she will one day notice. When she does, you gain leverage because then the interaction is on a more even term. We can’t compete with women for sourcing it’s a fact but sometimes they do get bored and seek entertainment and when they do …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:12 PM
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I think men these days give up too easily. They frame it wrong, take a note from women. Always reframe reality. You have to push yourself through difficult situations to learn. Instead of looking at it as getting that girl look at it as developing skills to deal with negativity. Women will treat you badly regardless, it’s better to learn how you feel and operate under those circumstances as early as possible. Obviously don’t push things too far but don’t be afraid of discomfort either. You’re no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:52 PM
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You say that like there’s any one else worthy, you know women don’t deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:36 PM
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Don’t look for validation from these women here man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:04 PM
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Women call themselves goddesses all the time. I was going for max cringe trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:06 AM
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I agree with this take but see what happened when I say what I said about myself I got called all the names under the sun. And I especially hate women too. It’s like I am not allowed to talk about this. It’s so ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:56 AM
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You’re a few years too late. Women have gone full circle now and asking “Why aren’t men approaching anymore?”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:43 AM
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That’s some bitter truth, thanks for sharing. I learnt a lot from this. I would always want someone to want me for who I was, so I understand the position that many women have where they would feel bad about how many men see them. Sex is a huge appeal for us but when we click with the right person sex is just a bonus. Spending quality time is truly the best, at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:25 AM
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Why are you calling women foids? That’s disgusting man. I love women I just don’t like them being egotistical. Also yes maybe this a mostly online/ social media phenomenon but it still happens. All that other stuff about what women want is hogwash, I didn’t know you were the spokesperson on what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:16 AM
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It absolutely is a thing women mostly do and/ or get to do. For men at least we get called out a lot and told we are coping or arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:13 AM
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Thanks, I actually felt better after saying that. I understand women much more now, it’s a useful skill. Blowing smoke up my own butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:12 AM
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That genuinely sounds awful. I didn’t know that it was like that. Of course, women are much more than that. The most amazing person I know is my mom. I know that there are many incredible women out. Your body is not public property never, it is absolutely yours to treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:03 AM
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Women literally call themselves goddesses all the time, what are you talking about? Oh I criticized women therefore I must hate them and hating women means I am a bad person. Oh and now I should be alone. You couldn’t be more of a bot if you tried. Come back with independent thoughts. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:58 AM
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Other men care because they won’t to compete I care because I don’t like normal people having god complexes. We’re different. No, men are not approaching you, please stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:39 AM
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Incel ranting? What does having sex with women have to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:35 AM
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Fair, I have no counter point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:26 AM
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Do they? Then how can they remain so confident?If I was a billionaire and women only started approaching me once I got rich I wouldn’t be confident they liked me for my other traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:23 AM
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I do believe that men are huge contributor to this for sure. I would do it if I could. I think men should be able to do it too in fact. Reality is too cruel, often times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:22 AM
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I care that it happens I don’t care about the women involved. I just look at it as people who are unhinged and allowed to exist like this without help. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:19 AM
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I think we should all be able to say things like this about ourselves and be praised and if not then no one can. But unfortunately men give each none of this praise and women hate doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:18 AM
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Sorry you don’t have many of the other traits I listed, you don’t reach all of my standards. Please don’t try so hard it’s not a good look. Women are repelled because they can’t handle me, they’re insecure. I genuinely don’t want any of you to think I am trying to convince you to be any different I wouldn’t notice you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:16 AM
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Then why do these women announce it to the world ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:11 AM
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Don’t you dare call me delusional! This is real and I have seen it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:08 AM
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Yes only women should have god complex! They should be honored to bask in the feminine presence 💅.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:07 AM
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Yes but everyone treats it like this normal and if you question it then you are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:04 AM
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Yes? What else should it be? If you don’t want to engage with the post then don’t. It’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:03 AM
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