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Conversationmcnut7/r/seduction03/04/21 11:17 PM
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Hmm at least around where I live I don't know a single guy who isn't sexually active
/r/seduction17/08/21 05:32 PM
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Most people are sexually active.
/r/seduction17/08/21 02:31 PM
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The scope of cheating depends on the rules of your relationship. In my opinion, cheating starts when you do something that you wouldn't do if they were watching. If you wouldn't "game" with her watching, then it's cheating.
/r/seduction08/06/21 06:13 PM
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I'd say just giving them your number is the proper thing to do here. Don't pressure them at all, don't keep them too long, just give them a compliment and your number and leave.
/r/seduction02/06/21 04:24 PM
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This is my number one question as well. I feel like I'm missing something that everyone else knows.
/r/seduction22/04/21 03:55 PM
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Sounds like you did what you're supposed to do. You felt she didn't want to talk so you ended it. Yeah you gave her an easy out, but you also gave yourself an easy out so you could both move on.
/r/seduction22/04/21 01:41 AM
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Huh interesting, must be a regional thing then.
/r/seduction19/04/21 01:25 PM
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Yeah Snapchat is awesome tbh idk why you are avoiding it. It's nice because it's more casual, don't know how to respond to something you can just send a picture instead. But again, why don't you just text if that's all you're looking to do?
/r/seduction19/04/21 03:29 AM
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I'm confused as to why you think you can't text an iphone user? I'm from Michigan but I've never seen anyone have any other messaging app other than Snapchat.
/r/seduction19/04/21 02:40 AM
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Thanks for the input! Yeah I thought sexy seems out of place other than like when it's hot and heavy. Cute or beautiful it is!
/r/seduction16/04/21 02:45 AM
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So how do you let her know what you're about then? Say you approach at a grocery store, walk up ask her a question or something, how does she know you're interested in her if you never tell her?
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:41 AM
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Good shit bro. Sounds like having the non-needy attitude worked like a charm
/r/seduction04/04/21 10:52 PM
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Lol yeah that makes sense
/r/seduction04/04/21 09:14 PM
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Good to know! So let's say I just met you and considered you sexy, isn't sexy kind of a weird thing to call someone other than further down the line? I could be wrong which is what I'm trying to figure out, but I feel like calling someone sexy or beautiful seems like a lot for a first encounter.
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:55 PM
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That makes sense!
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:06 PM
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Lmao definitely hitting the next girl with a scrumptious
/r/seduction04/04/21 04:48 PM
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Lol exactly. I figure when attractive guys call them cute they don't care regardless. Still an interesting thing to hear and discuss
/r/seduction04/04/21 03:21 AM
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Thanks for the reply. So I was thinking of this as a cold approach, just saw this girl for the first time. I don't get what you are supposed to say. Example: you are cute because of xxx? Like what should you even say there?
/r/seduction03/04/21 11:26 PM
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Don't have experience with cold approach so I can't really comment there, but I don't picture myself touching unless it's like at a bar or club. To break the touch barrier isn't that hard, make sure you're in proximity where touching can happen, so sit close to her, walk close, whatever. Realize that if she's into you she wants to be touched, so look for nonsexual touching, like lightly hitting her arm if she says something funny, and even more blatantly like guiding her through a door or touchi…
/r/seduction27/02/21 04:12 PM
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Yes if you're one a date it's expected that you're looking at them a majority of the time, so I few direct sexual glances are expected. Just don't be creepy or gaudy, don't give off "damn that ass" vibes, but more "holy shit you're cute" vibes. Once they're actually naked or getting sexual that's where you can get to the dat ass vibes and be open about it completely. Number one way to show attraction tho is through touch. Break the touch barrier as soon as you can.
/r/seduction27/02/21 06:56 AM
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Sounds like you did everything right on your date, you had a good time and pushed forward for info. It's hard given your age, girls get more clear and direct the more they age. I'd say try for another date if you want, but you definitely need to keep relationship vibes present otherwise you'll just be a friend. Actually call it a date. Could try putting more on her, asking what exactly she means by that because you're not just looking for another friend.
/r/seduction20/02/21 05:27 PM
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Never know, maybe she was put off by the sexual stuff, maybe she liked you a lot and wanted a relationship with you and wanted to take it slow, doesn't mean you did anything wrong just the way it is. The only thing personally I would do different, is I personally don't get too sexual with texting, I save that for the date when she can physically sense your energy and the build up is there. Unless you know the girl is looking for hook up, it's probably safer to save real sexual stuff for in perso…
/r/seduction20/02/21 03:19 AM
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Since it sounds like she is a sexual person, I don't think you did anything wrong. Just sounds like it didn't work out. Instead of the negatives of she didn't fuck you, why not think of positives that you made out and stuff. You're young and there will be many more girls, sounds like it was a successful party hookup to me.
/r/seduction20/02/21 02:01 AM
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Given your age I'll just give you some tips that I wish I knew / where I messed up: Assume attraction until discovered otherwise. Especially in a situation where she has already agreed to hangout 1 on 1, and she said she's excited! Don't talk yourself out of the obvious! She at least likes you enough to see how much she actually likes you! Be yourself, but be the best version of yourself. It's cliche but it's true, if you are a romantic person let it show, if you are not super romantic just be t…
/r/seduction20/02/21 01:56 AM
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When it comes to approach you're not at a disadvantage at all! If you don't tell them your "disadvantages" they won't even know.
/r/seduction14/01/21 03:56 AM
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Sounds like you are on the right path! You may have not had the best time last semester, but the whole world didn't have a good last semester lol. Luckily you are still in college where meeting girls is a lot easier than anywhere else. Either way, just keep on improving yourself so when things open back up your ready to go!
/r/seduction03/01/21 10:37 PM
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Hanging around a parking lot is creepy. I also think you may be looking to deep into this, just look to meet girls as you are shopping, going out for drinks, or wherever. If you go out and wander around a store for hours just for the purpose of meeting girls that's kinda creepy and definitely needy.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:22 PM
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You're going to have to fix your mind. All those "problems" are all problems to you but that doesn't mean they are problems to every woman. In reality no matter what you are interrupting someone when you approach, but some interruptions are good. Christmas interrupts your normal daily life but we still appreciate it. If a girl interrupted you to tell you she thought you were cute you probably wouldn't be mad. Same applies the other way, you don't know how they will respond until you try.
/r/seduction19/12/20 07:48 PM
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Get away from the all beans diet
/r/seduction19/12/20 07:31 PM
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It's not super direct, but you could add her on Facebook or IG and hit her up that way? If she adds you dm her, if she keeps conversation and is play full ask her out.
/r/seduction18/12/20 09:25 PM
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Sounds like she's giving clear signs. Just start doing what you want. Want to kiss her? Do it. Want to touch her? Do it. She'll let you know how far she wants to go. If she says stop, you can ask her what she is comfortable with.
/r/seduction18/12/20 09:12 PM
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Nothing wrong with the follow up text. The way you felt her goodbye could have been telling, but there's no way to know that for sure so the text is totally fine. You shouldn't care anyways, as long as you don't keep asking her you're not doing anything wrong.
/r/seduction18/12/20 09:09 PM
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Look at it this way, she's told you her plan, if you don't make a move you're actually friend zoning her.
/r/seduction18/12/20 09:06 PM
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This is like asking is eating worth it lol. It's one of the most natural things you can do, we have organs for the sole purpose of sex. I think you're looking too far into it.
/r/seduction18/12/20 01:35 AM
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Don't go after girls who don't want you. If you make a move and she throws a tantrum you move on from the crazy girl.
/r/seduction17/12/20 07:59 PM
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Cold reads are what you are looking for. Instead of endlessly asking questions, make guessing statements. "You seem like a Taylor Swift type of girl." She will then respond with her music tastes.
/r/seduction17/12/20 07:57 PM
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If you're already making out you're like 70% of the way there already. Next step is touching boobs, butt, then starting to remove clothing to get better feels. If clothes come off then you should be good to go most the time.
/r/seduction14/12/20 04:53 AM
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Just leave your number. It's not the best, but asking for a number at work isn't the best either.
/r/seduction13/12/20 04:09 AM
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Probably not the best opener, the wink seems a little creepy for some reason. Not the worst but not the best. I wouldn't double text, you don't want to look needy.
/r/seduction09/12/20 12:27 AM
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Just because she wants a serious relationship doesn't mean you're in one. Unless specified assume you are not exclusive. It doesn't mean she's not into you, you're just not exclusive so why not look around?
/r/seduction09/12/20 12:20 AM
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Sounds like you did everything correct! Honestly kind of strange she would cuddle and hold hands yet not kiss, but you gave it your best and got your answer!
/r/seduction07/12/20 12:12 AM
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Can't really answer that, but when you think she'll say yes! You'll always have doubts, but if she's receptive to compliments or flirty shoot your shot.
/r/seduction10/11/20 10:12 PM
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Oh I figured you guys were texting all the time back and forth and whatnot. But yeah Facetime definitely works!
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:58 PM
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I don't have am exact answer as I don't know how you guys talk to each other and what you talk about. What I do know is when I was your age I missed out of a lot of opportunities by being scared I would lose a friend. In reality you may lose a friend, but friends come and go and you want to be more than a friend. Does she ever send you any type of picture? Snapchat? Tell her that her shirt looks cute on her or some other type of compliment and ramp it up overtime and be more direct. People are u…
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:25 PM
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Keep texting her and start to drop hints that you think she's cute, etc. You could even try calling her since you do have a phone! There's a very good chance she's into you so you need to let her know you feel the same before some other guy does.
/r/seduction10/11/20 08:15 PM
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