mconnergibson Archive

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2	Have you seen other women come to this realization? ' you can't have it all. Men never did. Why should you be exempt from basic realities?' This is absolutely one of the best encapsulations of the problems with our modern intersexual politics I have seen in a long time. Kudos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/17 04:59 PM
1	Have you seen other women come to this realization? I don t whether you ve noticed but there have been a slew of very similar articles lately, women saying hey i turned 30 or 40 and all of a sudden things are different. Too lazy to find links rt now but I bet I've seen a dozen similar articles in the last 2 years or so. The thing is that not all of the women who write these take responsibility for it the way this woman did. Some of them blame men or Society or the patriarchy, or just Meander around not knowing who to blame. But yeah this is kind …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/17 04:53 PM
3	Girls do not give a fuck about their orbiters And thus I didn't refer to you.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 05:39 AM
2	Feminism is a Cancer that is Metastasizing everywhere. Can you elaborate on this? I'm not trolling here. But I've never heard it theorized that trp is a leftist invention.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 03:28 AM
15	Girls do not give a fuck about their orbiters No one lost frame and no one had a ' volcanic eruption of butthurt.' They didn't understand you because your analogy was shitty. Never owned a pitbull. But I am really weary of people accusing other people of being 'butthurt' just because they disagreed with them on the internet.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/17 03:17 AM
1	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. I'm always fascinated by these little "disguised" feminist strategies for separating and shaming beta males, while preserving access to alphas. Can you say "affirmative consent?" And gotta love the Oppression Olympics, where everyone is striving for the Gold Medal in Whinging.	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/17 12:07 AM
1	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. the funny thing is, due to their solipsism, most women are completely unable to comprehend this reality, and insistently deny it if you try to explain it to them. There was some feminist K.D. Lang-looking chick who actually spent a year living "undercover" as a man, and wrote a book about it a couple of years ago. One of the big epiphanies she had was realizing this imbalance of female vs. male power on the SMP. It was like, "oh, wow. So THIS is what you guys actually have to go through."	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/17 08:44 PM
1	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. Yeah I've always noticed that if a hot girl is with a less attractive guy it means that for some reason lots of other chicks want to f* that guy. If an ugly girl is with a reasonably attractive guy it means for some reason other chicks aren't f**** him	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/17 05:14 PM
1	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. You know when I think back about it a lot of your supposition is true. Several of those guys and also myself were decent looking guys who didn't have the game or the attitude. There was one who was a notable exception put the rest we're more or less as you described.	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/17 03:43 PM
2	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. I worked with a girl several years ago. She was a 4 on her best day. Big nose. Funny mole on her face. 40 - 60 pounds overweight. She developed a crush on me and she told me openly that she was interested. My Outlook was extremely beta at the time and my dating life was a desert. But I always had a thing that if I wasn't attracted to a girl it didn't matter how thirsty I was. If I wasn't interested I wasn't interested. So I gently let her down. She looked at me very pouty and said 'you know, I'm…	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/17 06:18 AM
1	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. Rumor is that Barbie is a shitlord.	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/17 06:02 AM
1	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. Right. It would be like a couch potato saying ' I would never sign a contract with the Browns. They're not good enough that I would play for them'	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/17 06:01 AM
4	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. This. Women want to fuck men other women want to fuck. My best friend used to work as a grill cook. He worked in a bunch of different restaurants. and most places he worked for any amount of time, he usually ended up banging at least half the chicks on the wait staff. He always used to say that the first one was always the hardest. The rest of them fell like dominoes.	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/17 06:34 PM
7	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. Why don't feminists mention this? Part of the reason is that inconvenient truths that don't fit their narrative are ignored, denied or otherwise hamstered under the rug. But I think the main factor at work here is pure solipsism. In fact solipsism imo is the Beating Heart of feminist ideology. Whether by Nature or by nurture, men tend to have an innate understanding that life is hard and that every individual will face obstacles for all kinds of reasons, because they're too short or too ugly or …	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/17 05:40 PM
30	Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher. What you re saying is correct. Its demonstrated in that well circulated ok cupid poll. Men rating women on the site rated about half the women as average or better just based on appearance. Women rated well under half the men as at least average and an extremely small number as actually good looking. Because men are polygynous and high sex drive by nature but arent usually the sexual selectors, they will by necessity have a broader definition of what physically attractive is. Its just math. The …	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/17 01:17 AM
5	Transcendence and hypergamy Yeah I think you're overthinking this. Women respond to men who give them tingles. And most of the things that cause those tingles aren't very special or magical. I guess you might speculate that the most well realized and most actualized men, the David daedas of the world, benefit from something like the Transcendence you are talking about. And maybe that's something to Aspire to. I think you're also on to something in the sense that how women perceive your achievements or your talents or whate…	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/17 06:08 AM
1	Feminisim is a global shit test and western society is failing it Don't let the door hit you in the ass.	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/17 05:32 AM
1	Feminisim is a global shit test and western society is failing it Don't let the door hit you in the ass.	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/17 05:32 AM
1	Feminisim is a global shit test and western society is failing it This is idiocy. If you are somehow able to dismiss all of the constant heavy-handed feminist messages in news media and entertainment today, or to ignore the way young men on college campuses are being bullied into herbhood thru Yes means yes rules and other b***** like that, then there is no f**** help for you. Get off the sub and go read Jezebel. We live in a country where thousands of women gather outside the White House to scream and whinge while wearing pink pussy hats in an event spear…	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/17 05:22 AM
1	Scientific Evidence for The Red Pill. I skimmed the article. I noted there are several things that are certainly in line with redpill ideas. There are other ways the paper is less in line with the redpill. But I think a big problem is some of the summary given by the op are off base. Especially the first points about female choice leading to less divorce and fewer women in the workplace then male choice. What the paper does is look at a specific time in the 60s and 70s where there were allegedly fewer men on the sexual Marketplace t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/17 07:22 PM
1	Article shows evidence to contradict the idea of rampant hypergamy This is the confusion you guys are having: I believe, originally, you are correct. My understanding is that hypergamy began as an anthropological term to refer to women seeking to marry upward specifically in class/wealth. More recently, red pillers -- I don't know whether Rollo was the first, but he is certainly the one who is most associated with the term -- began to use the term a little more broadly, to refer to the practice of women seeking to get the best deal possible in terms of genetics…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/17 11:33 PM
2	Anyone here on TRT? It's a game changer with women I'm considerably older than you and I've been thinking about it for a while. Do you know whether it's preferable to go through a regular doctor as opposed to one of those clinics? And do you need a referral if you go to a regular doctor? I have an even older friend who got trt and he passed along the name of the doctor he went to because he thought she was good. He had seen a different doctor previously who he didn't think was as good and did not give him as high as a dosage. But I don't know if…	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/17 07:59 AM
12	The Future of Sex Actually this is already happening. Lots of feminists are already screaming that sex bots will be a tool of the patriarchy and should be banned. Theres even a campaignagainstsexrobots.org. Women and especially feminists hold low status males in utter contempt. And anything that diminishes their power over those men is unacceptable. Having sex bots means potentially more mgtows which means fewer last-resort billy betas available when the Wall approacheth.	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/17 05:06 PM
1	You guys did it. I'm now Purple. Props to PPD <3 I think what despised love says about trp versus RP is key here. I think it's also important to remember that where as feminism is a worldview with a particular moral perspective, redpill philosophy is ideally just a way of observing intersexual relations. It's mostly Evo Psych plus biology Plus behavioral psychology. The things it observes are neither good nor bad. They just are. But when you get on the redpill subreddit or on the comment section of a redpill blog, those observations get filter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/17 05:40 AM
2	Women are petrified of failure. Use that. This is a good point and it explains the feminist response to game. On one hand they claim it's ridiculous and doesn't work. On the other hand they are enraged about it because, well, deep in their hind brains, they know it does work. And as they hold those two contradictory Notions in their heads at the same time, they also fail to acknowledge that if it is offensive and misogynist and all those other things they say about it, the obvious solution is to stop responding to men who behave in thos…	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/17 07:42 PM
4	She doesn't need to know you in order to fall in love Another way of saying this is that comfort and familiarity-- which the blue pill narrative tells us are essential to forming romantic and sexual relationships-- are actually counterproductive to building and maintaining a woman's attraction. On a side note I think this is also a key element in explaining the so-called friend zone. Whereas men do not tend to lose attraction as they get to know a woman, women will rapidly go from intrigued to disinterested if you wait too long or else let out too …	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/17 07:52 PM
10	Women don't want your kindness; they want you to be selfish. I agree with the majority of your points but I really have to take issue with your first couple of sentences. you say nice guys are inherently selfish and dishonest. This is a feminist trope that supports a particular feminist narrative and it really bugs me when I see it repeated sometimes in the Manosphere. While it is certainly true that there are some so called nice guys that think women should reciprocate their good deeds in some kind of sexual Tit for Tat, most of them are just ordinary re…	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/17 07:36 PM
1	The smartest dogs are the easiest to train My mom wants to get a cuddly house dog and she really thinks she wants a beagle. Do you have other recommendations?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/17 03:18 AM
1	Q4ALL: If a drunk female and a drunk male have intercourse, is only the male guilty of rape? Just FYI I discovered an old article on slate online called " the college rape overcorrection". It goes into great detail discussing some specific College rape cases and it also explains the Federal edict and Title Nine stuff I mentioned in much more specific detail. In the interest of fairness I will mention that it also sparked a number of criticisms and rebuttals as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/17 01:55 AM
2	Q4ALL: If a drunk female and a drunk male have intercourse, is only the male guilty of rape? I think that has been said by others on more than one occasion. It's certainly not a system that I am endorsing but I am trying to describe it objectively because these threads can quickly get volatile when you're suspected of having an opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/17 01:23 AM
1	Q4ALL: If a drunk female and a drunk male have intercourse, is only the male guilty of rape? My understanding may be incorrect so let me put that up front. But my understanding is that a few years ago the federal government told colleges that receive any kind of federal funding that they had to take a more action on rape and sexual assault issues. This apparently relates in some way to Title Nine. The result has been that campus rape cases have become not so much legal matters as School matters investigated by the colleges themselves. And the individual colleges definitions of rape or a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/17 08:16 PM
1	QFBluepill: Do you guys even agree with RP that women have easier access to casual sex? That the SMP is favored towards woman? Seriously are you just a troll? Apparently words are hard for you to understand because you do not understand how to use the word favor. Repeat the following to yourself 1000 times: saying that something is favored does not mean that something is necessarily unfair. The word favor simply means that one thing has an advantage over another. Weather that advantage is fair or right or good or socially just or else it's ill gotten and evil and bad or whatever the hell is not implicit in the word. Lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/17 01:42 AM
1	QFBluepill: Do you guys even agree with RP that women have easier access to casual sex? That the SMP is favored towards woman? Wow. I'm looking at your other comments on his page and I'm seeing a pattern. You do not track well with logical thinking. I was not making an example of UFC fights at all. I was making a point about word usage. You asked the op specifically about his use of the word favor. Remember that? I was answering the question for him. I was demonstrating uses of the word favor with random sentences and random contexts. Whether I talked about UFC fights or political elections or a thousand other things I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/17 11:34 PM
1	QFBluepill: Do you guys even agree with RP that women have easier access to casual sex? That the SMP is favored towards woman? I'm understanding the terms just fine. And I'm not arguing that Marketplaces are the same as UFC fights. Nor am I implying anything about the SMP one way or the other. What I'm saying is that his use of the word favor does not in and of itself imply an inherent bias. That was your assertion and I'm addressing that and that alone. Now you might say that what he stated is incorrect and and one could argue that one way or the other. But you accused him of being inherently biased simply on the basis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/17 10:23 PM
3	QFBluepill: Do you guys even agree with RP that women have easier access to casual sex? That the SMP is favored towards woman? The current political climate favors the Republicans. The oddsmakers favor Conor McGregor in his next fight. The poor weather conditions favor the team that plays Outdoors. Use of the word favor does not imply The Observer is biased. If he had said the sexual Marketplace is UNFAIR to men that would imply bias. But what he did say was reasonable and objective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/17 07:54 PM
3	CMV: Women moderate their sexual behavior to a much greater extent than men believe they do. As to the Pareto Principle I would make this observation. I don't know that the 80/20 statistic is correct per se. But I do think the principal describes a general phenomenon that is applicable to dating. Here's an example. When I was in my twenties I worked in restaurants. So if you worked any particular place for a while you could observe the Dynamics of an employee population so to speak. And what usually happened over time is that a very few men in the restaurants employee population got all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/17 06:23 AM
1	All male psychologists are beta. Don't use them for help to be alpha. You are definitely on to something. I saw a few psychologists over a period of years. Most if not all of them came from an essentially blue pill perspective. David DeAngelo used to talk about this in his programs a lot. He used to say psychologists don't seem to understand attraction. If you go to a psychologist and tell them you are having trouble getting dates, most of them will tell you lots of stuff that is essentially about comfort and Rapport building. They don't seem to get that that stuf…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/17 08:04 PM
2	All male psychologists are beta. Don't use them for help to be alpha. You are definitely on to something. I saw a few psychologists over a period of years. Most if not all of them came from an essentially blue pill perspective. David DeAngelo used to talk about this in his programs a lot. He used to say psychologists don't seem to understand attraction. If you go to a psychologist and tell them you are having trouble getting dates, most of them will tell you lots of stuff that is essentially about comfort and Rapport building. They don't seem to get that that stuf…	/r/TheRedPill	29/03/17 08:04 PM
1	Stop drinking coffee. It's beta. If you really believe the effects of coffee mimic the effects of cocaine that closely then either I'm drinking really bad coffee or you've been doing really bad cocaine.	/r/TheRedPill	24/03/17 07:15 PM
1	The day I understood what it was to be a man. You have learned nothing. Even The Bluest of blue pill bettas has the common sense and the decency to take care of his pets. I'm not sure why this is even an excuse. At any point you could have taken the step of simply taking care of the dog yourself. My guess is part of your reason for not doing so is that you were engaged in something of a power play with your wife. Hey after all you went and got the medicine. Now the b**** needs to do her part right? But even up to the end you could still hav…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/17 05:13 PM
1	How men lose when they have casual sex? A woman's Hamstering. Solipsism at best. You may be correct and this may be another example of her hamster in action. But when I read this paragraph and I read a link she included that's sort of laid out her perception of what a deadbeat is, I got the impression she was saying women look for short term mating with men who have some level of character. Even the word deadbeat itself tends to imply something about one's character rather than their smv. The way I read it it almost looked like she had the AF bb Dynamic backwards. But again …	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/17 08:11 PM
2	How men lose when they have casual sex? A woman's Hamstering. Solipsism at best. Just checked in and read the link. Did you guys notice in the first few 'grafs, she sets up her essay with a truly ridiculous premise: "The trouble women usually have is that they have sex with men who have actual value... Research has shown that women when they are looking for short-term or casual sex, they usually mate with a better man... women usually don't sleep with deadbeats." WTF?? I'm not sure what 'research' she's talking about, but any research I've ever seen -- plus common sense, and…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/17 02:03 AM
1	Saw this little "open letter" a bunch of girls on my fb news feed have been sharing. Um, no, tho perhaps you'd like to think so. I'm afraid you're the one missing the point. There's another post within the last couple days -- from poster The Peter Principle -- entitled Video Lesson: Psychologist drops some red pill truths. Watch it. In that video, Jordan Peterson lays out what I'm talking about. Yes, women have it hard. But men have it hard too. And it isn't "because men" or "because women." It's "because life" and "because evo-pscyh." But the ever-increasingly dominant narrativ…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 03:01 AM
2	Saw this little "open letter" a bunch of girls on my fb news feed have been sharing. No. That doesn't make any sense. What the phrase implies is that the writer is telling a particular story with the intent of conveying a particular, allegedly universal (in terms of the group in question) message. She lays that message out at the end when she uses the phrase "hard to be a girl." You referred to the letter as describing "a phenomenon that happens in the world." Um, yeah. Lots of things "happen in the world." Bad things happen to people, male and female. The narrative is false not…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 02:11 AM
5	Saw this little "open letter" a bunch of girls on my fb news feed have been sharing. It's not clear why you are continually white-knighting for this stupid Facebook post. The reason the men here are calling it out is that it is an obvious attempt at creating a false narrative, that narrative being that it is somehow especially "hard to be a girl" in our society. My guess is that the post is a compilation of anecdotes that were either drawn from a variety of different people or else made up out of whole cloth, rather than being entirely representative of one person's life experie…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 12:39 AM
2	ugly female "alt-right" types Your original post is full of incorrect assumptions. As someone said above, there is no such thing as "alpha female." Among women, there is attractive/fuckable, and not. But the biggest incorrect assumption you make -- and a lot of people are guilty of this thinking -- is thinking that most men are pining for women way above their SMV level. Which isn't to say some men don't do this, because occasionally they do. But it isn't inherent to the male nature. Males are polygynous, meaning they have h…	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/17 02:35 AM
2	Why Women Lose Interest In Nice Guys I agree with the idea that we should strive to be real, but I think you really went off the rails when you suggested women gravitate toward bad boys because they make them feel 'safe.' Feeling 'safe' is much more associated with beta/provisioning/stability characteristics. Attraction/Alpha characteristics tend to be anything but 'safe.' There's nothing safe or comfortable about sexual electricity. 'Safe' doesn't lend itself to 'gina tingles.	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/16 12:19 AM
15	Yes, AWALT: She Prefers To Repeatedly Get STDs From An Alpha Than To Bang A Beta Let's be clear: the very fact that she went banged, and then went back to again, this promiscuous jock means that she was passing over other, lesser men so she could be planted exclusively with his alpha seed. You think she had no other options? This reminds me of a story I heard once from a guy, obviously infected with a blue-pill mindset, about an attractive female friend of his who apparently had a one-nighter with a famous married basketball player. He was talking about what a dick the athle…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/16 11:10 PM
3	A Nice Sugar Coat for Your Fat-Ass Ego I don't think anyone is shitting on confidence, per se. They're shitting on the idea that you can just press some kind of 'confidence button,' and be confident on command, when the fact is you have no mechanism underlying it to make the confidence button work. This is a very difficult Catch-22: how do you be confident when confidence seems to derive from at least a certain amount of external validation? I think the heart of the issue is being okay with yourself - that's what 'confidence' ultimat…	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/16 07:28 PM
3	What men truly want from a woman is nurturing. I think Rollo Tomassi talked about this in a post once, how when a woman says "It takes work to be in a relationship," she means THE MAN needs to do more work. It's essentially a reflection of the man's burden of performance.	/r/TheRedPill	06/09/16 12:33 AM
1	The truth about lifting and women I promise you, "Chad," that my 46-year-old best friend who is balding, poor and at least 60 pounds overweight has bagged and continues to bag more cute young chicks than you will ever be able to count in your entire life. That's not to say that everyone will be marrying Kate Upton. But there are a lot of possibilities out there for men who have the will and the right attitude.	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/16 12:34 AM
1	Women are Nicer than Men (Theory) I think your premise is flawed, based on scanty and anecdotal evidence plus some flat-out bullshit. For instance, I've been a journalist/reporter for over 20 years (I don't just "do journalistic things") and I haven't noticed that either gender is, as a whole, more or less likely to do interviews. Back in college, I had hardass professors who were female, and I had males profs who were extra gracious with their time. And the fact that women "stick around" for husbands who make less money makes t…	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/16 12:16 AM
1	One woman's reason why her marriage ended... It would be really funny if we knew the actual circumstances here. Because I'm sure that each of those incoherent points she was enumerating has some veiled personal meaning, i.e. "Didn't date/marry my species" = "didn't date someone who was okay with my screwing other guys," or "didn't date someone who shared my screwy relativist sense of morality."	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/16 11:00 PM
1	Aim High But Look For IOIs I don't think it's reasonable to say, as a blanket statement, that PUAs 'fail to emphasize how important indicators of interest are.' Sure, some PUAs may approach with no plan other than hitting up numbers. But I've heard plenty of PUAs discuss the importance of eliciting, noticing, and reacting to IOIs.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 01:30 AM
2	Redpill Truths: My Experience as an Uber Driver 'Women love men loved by other women.' This. In spades.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/16 09:28 PM
1	Chad cheats. Is rewarded with a free vacation to Thailand. LOL. Reminds me of when I was in college. I had a female friend from high school who was dating this coffeehouse/poet/guitar player type who got lots of action. When she found out he had started a thing with another girl, I remember her telling me how she cried for a while and then, she "HAD to make love to him, because she wanted to show she still cared." Lesson: Have sex with other chicks, get more sex from no. 1 gf.	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/16 12:40 AM
1	Never Get Complacent & Be Careful Of Your Male Friends Pot has always had this kind of negative effect on me. Even as I fell into hardcore drug addiction for a while, I had reached a point where I wouldn't smoke pot because it made me feel stupid and paranoid. You probably over thought things due to the pot. At the same time, Joe sounds like a big of a douche. But my guess is that this is not the first time he has exhibited douchy behaviors, if you think back over the life of your friendship. It can be difficult to swallow when we realize people we …	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/16 12:30 AM
1	Play in your league I disagree with this post. Male SMV is a relatively complicated matter. My best friend is the best natural player I have ever known; his N-count is easily well into triple digits, even with a couple marriages thrown into the mix. He was a pretty good looking guy at one point, but he's in his 40s now, 50 or 60 pounds overweight, bald, with a bigass scraggly beard streaked with white. And he still pulls young, hot chicks, even when he doesn't try too hard (and he tries a lot less hard than he used…	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/16 11:58 PM