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mcoop1220/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 03:21 PM
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mcoop1220/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 05:32 PM
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It’s all texting to me, but yes. This for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 11:17 PM
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Thought about it, but sometimes she texts about my boy. And that’s one monkey I’m always happy to have in my circus
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 11:13 PM
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Appreciate the concern, brother. I do have my other cameras as well as voice activated audio on my person. And I don’t trust attorneys, I’ve gotten multiple opinions on proceeding with the best outcomes for myself to be certain there weren’t some more options available. All in all, I’m feeling pretty ok with the direction of it. The attempted TRO wasn’t for anything at the time, she tried to claim that things happened years ago. And every police call has been for petty nonsense. She knows how we…
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 11:04 PM
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Must be a wife/ex thing because it seems like daily my stbxw asks for help with something. And everyday I have to remind her 1) you’re cheating trash, 2) your problems are no longer my problems unless you’re hiding some sort of court order that makes it my problem. Go ask your boyfriend for help. Luckily I haven’t been asked for abortion help. That is truly insane stuff, she’s got some serious nerve. Mine just asks for dumb things, usually she wants to go buy something, or something is too heavy…
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 10:47 PM
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Fair enough. Seriously do not want to leave me anymore than I have to. Everytime she tries to complain about me around him or accuse me of something stupid, I very much like being able to say to him that’s not accurate or it’s not true. Don’t make it anything more than that, no need to make it a big deal and involve him extra. Kids trust parents, and if I’m not around to make sure I show him how I’m actually behaving and correct lies as they happen, I would likely have an uphill battle every tim…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 10:26 PM
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We both own it. I make a good amount of money, but the lifestyle she insisted on has me too stretched to get my own place until the house sells through the divorce. Plus I have no interest in spending less time with my son until I absolutely have to. He needs at least one parent to be around and not a POS. I understand the sentiment, believe me I do. I’m following the advice of my lawyer so far, and so far it’s making things work out in the end better for me instead of her
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 10:15 PM
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The ex boyfriend who came back into the picture when her mom died last year. He hasn’t done anything with his life, still in the same shitty apartment complex they used to live in 8 or so years ago. He’s main source of income is selling things on eBay. He probably saw this as his chance at something better. Too bad he hitched his wagon to crazy. I see his behavior like a neglected puppy, he’ll do anything for an ounce of affection from her. He’ll get fed up with her again just like before, and i…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 06:27 PM
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I’ve got my separate bedroom set up with motion controller camera and voice activated audio. She’s not home all that often but when she is that’s where I am. Always protected with evidence of just living my life not bothering anyone. I’d rather deploy again then do this shit. At least that stupid nonsense has clearly defined rules, regulations, and hierarchy. Hoping to get to something similar to you very soon. Any way you slice this, I still come out for the better in end
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 06:01 PM
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She tried back in February, judge didn’t grant one against me. I wouldn’t say she’s doing anything g to me that’s especially illegal or damaging, just super annoying. I’ll be rid of her soon enough, for now as long she’s just being stupid and annoying I won’t bother. Originally I used to be afraid of her threats about police or anything legal, but so far it turns out I’m not the only one who can see straight through her professional victim lies. When judges and police officers don’t bother remov…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 05:53 PM
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Outside of the pain her constant betrayal and denial about it and the breaking apart of the family and the stupid nonsense police calls, everything else in my life that I’ve cut her out of has vastly improved. I focus on that with the knowledge that very soon she’ll be out completely at a price tag that’s cheaper than what she currently costs me now. It sucks that I won’t see my boy everyday since I spend the most time with him and I didn’t do anything to deserve half of my normal time with him.…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 04:38 PM
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At least she left before you added extra things to divide up between you. Way more decent than it could be. Not taking away from your pain, that’s just the silver lining I’d focus on
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 04:30 PM
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My wife still lives in our house. He comes over a lot. I can legally do nothing about her having guests over in this state, we’re both owners. Regret signing the mortgage with her, but you don’t always think about it when you’re supposed to be building a family life you think is stable. I ignore her existence and work on divorce things and hang out with my dog and son whenever I’m not at work. Where she goes during that time idk and idc. Her loss missing out on fun times with the boy. I pay bill…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 04:27 PM
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Don’t try to understand using logic, it won’t work. I’m dealing irrational decisions and accusations left and right, they don’t make sense and they never will. Take care of yourself, make sure you’re healthy in body and mind, maybe see a therapist or psychiatrist. I have adhd so I get meds for that but my psychiatrist also has been with me through all of this and she’s given me antidepressants too because I had similar issues with being unable to focus even with Adderall because of the low feeli…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 03:50 PM
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You’re clearly a monster, how dare you?
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 12:17 AM
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She tried to tell me it was illegal to direct deposit my paycheck into a separate checking account I made once I found out about her cheating but before filing. Which is hilarious because she has always kept at least two other checking accounts separate from our joint one. It’s incredibly difficult not to bust out laughing when you get told that from the person who’s openly done the same thing the entire marriage without any issues. Everything I did was either illegal or abusive. Lady is nuts
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 11:53 PM
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The man speaks the truth. Get out if it isn’t right before it becomes so much harder to get out. So many red flags in my first year married that I was too distracted to take seriously. I had just got back from deployment dealing with depression and then the command had a slew of suicides so I was dealing with the loss of buddies too. By the time I started waking up there was a kid on the way and I felt honor bound to see this through. Do not get into a situation where you feel locked down and st…
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 06:21 PM
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This 100%. I was a giant ball of stress and anxiety for months while I tried everything I could to hold us together without having proof of the affair yet. When I started to see the emotional side of the affair, I confronted her and it was denied. Once I had the evidence of the full picture, it flipped a switch inside my brain and she became nothing but trash. Unless I’m forced to interact with her, I don’t think of her at all. Of course, anytime I see/hear/etc her I still have intense anger at …
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 12:01 AM
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I’m still here because my buddy keeps checking on me and encouraging me. Without him, idk man. Check on him and get him out doing something positive.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 03:08 PM
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