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Yes, the mental health crisis is something that is also causing lots of difficulties getting people approved now. Sadly this is an issue that is not that well discussed. I would also add obesity crisis as another big problem, but usually there is some sort of correlation between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:58 PM
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Reading 4B feminist bullshit online doesn’t really count. I've never read this, I'm not Korean, you're projecting. And in my experience, the youngest generations of women don't really want children at all. A large number of them will list you the "I don't want to destroy my body" as their number one argument. Second argument will usually be "I don't want to bring a child to a world being destroyed by the climate crisis". I don't even necessarily agree with their arguments (I'm a mother myself). …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:56 PM
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Aren't you following the news? Lately the US government is having huge issues getting people to join the armed services. They had to lower physical requirements and even then the issue continued. The youngest generations have a different mindset, they simply don't want to voluntarily join.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:35 PM
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South Korean women don't want to have children. Put that in your head. If they had more money, they would prefer to spend it on trips, fashion or other things that would benefit themselves. It's a lifestyle choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:32 PM
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Vast majority of men are dating just fine. Latest studies from weeks ago say 60% of men under 30 are single. This is not fine at all. It is scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:19 PM
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Please don't have children then. We have no need for more psychopaths who were ignored for their parents during childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:58 AM
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Posting a bunch of copypasted links don't change the facts that the issues discussed on those links is caused by massive consumerism of western countries. You would not have massive factories in third world countries if they did not have a need to export all that shit into the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:54 AM
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Indeed. You can even go further and ask, progressing towards what? And most people are unable to answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:34 AM
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Society is always progressing and advancing. Sweet summer child. I see that you did sleep during History class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:33 AM
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Hey, you cannot talk about that. Not allowed in Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:32 AM
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It's not an illusion. It is just the western name for the same thing that in Japan was called "herbivore men". Recently lots of articles have been appearing about "young men dropping out of society" in western countries. We're talking about millions of men just in USA. They either live with their parents or work the most primitive jobs possible just to get by, pay little or no taxes. And because of that, the government has almost no reach / control about them. Their numbers keep increasing and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:30 AM
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Since prisons in USA are a "for profit" thing, this might be by design. Call it a conspiracy if you want, but also remember that in USA both lobbying and gerrymandering are perfectly legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:06 AM
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Children don't deserve to be born in a situation where they only have only parent and statistically that parent will be living in poverty. Specially not if they are desired by the state only to fill quotas for social security. Fuck that, that is just cruel. No children then. Just let it all rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:00 AM
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"It takes a village to raise a child" Sadly that seems completely incompatible with modern society. We're now more isolated than ever. Even the "nuclear family" is becoming a thing of the past, with single parents slowly becoming a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:54 AM
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Single parenthood has an extremely high correlation with children that become adults with mental illness, criminality and a big assortment of other negative things. So no, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:52 AM
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A birthrate of 1 does not mean what you think and it is not stable mathematically nor statistically. A stable population requires a birthrate of exactly 2.1 or more. Any lower than means that with enough years the population will go to zero. This is the mathematical concept of limit, in other words there is a literal formula you can plugin and get how many years a population has left to survive. That's the true reason recently there are so many news about failing birthrates, it's more serious th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:22 AM
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Yes, its true that every individual situation is unique. About empathy, it's basically a question of idealism versus pragmatism. I have plenty of empathy for my family and for the local community. I won't have empathy for the whole world, because 8 billion persons are too much and in my whole life I will never met not even 0.0001% of them. I know about post partum depression but for some reason you keep trying to tag depression first as problem of the trad life, now as problem of pregnacy. Will …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:04 PM
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Both theories intersect though. And if we ask ourselves, what is the prevalent system in the western world? Mostly hyper capitalism with a tint of socialism thrown in. Having the government as daddy is one of the major factors that empowers single motherhood. Without the government as support net, people would have to play the game of life in a much more defensive way. So while it's not something we can reduce simply to its X or Y the cause, the fact is that modern world is not much better than …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:57 PM
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Is that how it works in USA? Once you marry, the finances get forcibly shared? In my country the default option is both keep separate finances. Seems really backwards for progressive and individualistic countries to still keep tied to that old patriarchal way of splitting things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:49 PM
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Yes, but that is really rare. People that adopt newborns have to stay in waiting lists for several years, it represents a very tiny % of all adoptions. But thank you for clearing things up, we're talking about different things then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:46 PM
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It used to be like that yes. But in 2022 women are saying that pregnancy is torture and they will never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:48 PM
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Not exactly, we would be actually extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:46 PM
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Point to a place where I can read about socialism relation with feminism. Unlike most reddit posters I tend to have an open mind and I'm actually interested in reading about that. Altought I expect your answer was just typical reddit memeposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:45 PM
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It's a complex situation. I did lots of research about this before I had a child via natural means. Adoptive children usually come from really difficult backgrounds and it's extremely common to suffer from psychological issues. Due to that, their bond with the adoptive parents is usually not the best. In many situations they do even hate their adoptive parents in the sense of internalizing that they were stolen the chance to grow with their real parents. Most adoptive children are not babies, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:42 PM
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If men had to go through pregnancy then men would be ones acting like women. As with most other animals, both genders are different. In fact this whole sub of pathetic men crying "oh bobobo why women don't want to fuck me" is all because they too were brainwashed and most don't understand why women being the only gender who can get pregnant causes them to not want to bond with any random men. The trad wife thing is not a meme or new movement, its how humanity worked for 99% of its history. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:36 PM
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A story as old as time. But it is not gender exclusive. I am a man and when I was younger I too dumped girlfriends who were nice people for toxic women who were the "bad girls". It's usually just a sign of immaturity and the worst part is the youngest generations seem to take a much longer time to become mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:26 PM
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Yes, that's right. Its something you should do in the beginning of a relationship whenever the having children conversation comes up. If you just tell him that you are ok with children and only a long time later you reveal the surrogate plans, it will end in heartbreak for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:24 PM
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There is no need for analogies. Let's go straight to the point, "Having sex in order to see whether there's compatibility" it is just coping lingo. When a person does something they know it is not right, they have this natural tendency to try to justify to themselves. It's not even about the others, it's really about themselves, they have to make sure their inner voices knows "yeah I'm doing this but it is completely totally right and I'm a good person".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:20 PM
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Adoption is not a good example. A large % of adopted children end up trying to find their biological parents once they reach adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:16 PM
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At this point I only come to this subreddit to laugh at how modern women have been brainwashed to think pregnancy and raising a family is worse than slaving away their lives for a boss that will not think twice when it's time to do a massive layoff. Peak capitalism. A woman wanting to pay for a surrogate is not even a feminist, it is just an exploitative person. What's next, paying someone else to raise our children while we slave away in a job? Ah wait, daycares, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:12 PM
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Wanting kids is not "pro-natalism", it is the default for humanity since the beginning. About your specific question, if you are willing to pay for it sure. Otherwise as a men I can simply find a women that wants to do it the natural way without requiring me to waste a huge parts of my savings in an optional way. The only exception would be if pregnancy would be classified as an high risk by doctors, then I would accept it and be fine with paying half of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:08 PM
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All fine things. But as always, just because you can do something, does not mean you should. Given enough time humans can transcent their physical body too. A great milestone for scientists, but I wonder what's left of our spirit at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:37 PM
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I'm fine for now, I don't live in USA and I already spent enough time there to watch the interesting nature and historical places. I was also funny to walk around in the streets of SF as a tourist and watch the hobos fling literaly shit into the people walking nearby. This was 7 years ago, I assume now things are much worse there. If a similar state reaches the city where I live, well, it's time to put my vinyl playing, brew my last coffee and wait until I hear the seven trumpets of the apocalyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:35 PM
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Life expectancy is going down in last years and the projection is that it will continue going down. There are several factors for that, but I will try to keep this answer short. Anyway, have you even interacted with older people? One thing is the age a person dies, the other is the age a person has reached final life stage (after 60s). There is no longer energy to take care of a child, unless you are expecting technology also to rejuvenate humans, and if yes, you might have forgotten to take int…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:11 PM
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Fertility extension makes no sense. Having a child after 40 means there's an high chance you will die after they finish college. If advances in medicine allow women to be parents later, it would be even cruel to those children, to become orphans during teenager years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:51 PM
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Exactly. There are several European countries who would have a very similar or even lower birth rate if it wasn't for the immigrants, who usually are more "traditional".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:49 PM
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Most countries supporting immigration are not cherry picking at all. Instead, it is mostly about who can reach the borders with either the proper documentation or side step that via illegal means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:46 PM
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That theory assumes the capitalistic model of constant growth. But if you look around at the state of the world right now, the tech giants are all reaching dead ends. Meta, Twitter, Instagram, Youtube, all of those are reaching breakpoint, people are getting saturated, and there is not an infinite number of money and people to hop into the platforms every year. All entertainment is also reaching a dead end, at this point all major movies are being rehashes of the same formula, music has turned i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:43 PM
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Humans are animals. And reproduction is the core of every animal. However as humans raise to an higher state of conscience (eg: education, women emancipation, etc) they move far away from the animal origins. Pick any random pair of a men and women from western world, drop them into a jungle in another planet (hypothetically, to cut contact with the civilisation), and assuming they can survive, they will revert to making babies. But in the current society? There's no point in that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:39 PM
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Casual sex as a goal is a symptom of the current dating market situation. I've been following the male discussion spaces since the beginnings of the internet (I'm an old fart). PUA forums 15 years ago, 4chan, the bodybuilding forum and IRC even before that. The goal used to be to find a nice women for a long term monogamy relationship (even if that meant using cringe PUA tactics etc). Only recently things have shifted into "fuck as many women as you can, don't commit". Because in 2022, obviously…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:33 PM
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That's an argument I've not seen before around here (and other subs). But it's an excellent one. While things are not great, life was never great. Centuries before.... people had almost no medical knowledge compared to know, and babies were still born. Even during stone age when people did not even know what medical knowledge or economics meant, they still had babies. Right now we live in a age where there are some many options of entertainment, people can have so many hobbies, travel the world,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:32 AM
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I agree. We can't force anybody to have children if they don't want to. Let's simply let nature run it's course, those that want children will continue their lineages, the others are free to do whatever they want (as long as they respect the laws of society).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:29 AM
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Yes, I agree with that. But if we think long term, the consequences of this is that after a generation or two, most educated women will become a minority while the "low education breeders" become the majority. The cycle of life keeps repeating, all progress is thrown out of the window and society regresses. If we look at history we can see the parallels with the Roman empire and the dark ages that followed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:31 PM
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So you prefer to ignore the facts that countries like Nigeria don't have the birth rate issues? Of course, we all know it's not really a choice there, instead low levels of education, difficult access to contraceptives and abortions etc. The conclusion of this seems to be that nature itself self-corrects for over population. There is some kind of grand filter, where improving conditions for health and society progress results in individuals with higher education get breeded out of the gene pool …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:27 PM
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You are 100% correct, instead of white, "educated" is what I should have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:23 PM
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Exactly. Every time I see someone on reddit saying "people are not having babies anymore because of economic situations" I can only think that they never learned history and also never learned geography. People have reproduced massively in any other period of humanity except for now, and even now the declined birth rates happen only in the most over educated countries. Also in many of those educated countries, the numbers of birth rates by immigrants have reached nearly 50%. In other words, educ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:46 PM
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Learn biology first. Testosterone is one hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:02 AM
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You misunderstood the other poster, he was saying exactly the same as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:00 AM
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Funny that I actually studied Applied Maths in college. If you had a body count of 3 or less, statistically the chance of you being in a LTR right now would be 90%. My comment about your comment was exactly that, you giving your example as a success when you failed to keep a man. You were able to stay a long time in those LTR though, I give you that, better than the majority of the cases, congrats about that. Btw like others already said, boasting about having sex as a women is a bit silly, any …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:44 PM
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41 years with 120 partners, from those only 2 were long term, plus giving your situation as a good example. Your comment just ended as a poster child for the whole "high body count should be avoided". This is the typical "woman logic" that people love to make fun of, the kind of comments that get screencapped for when they to make some funny misogynistic youtube crap. Anyway, my condolences, I'm sure you went through a lot in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:28 AM
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I've been dating women for at least 20 years and I'm yet to find one that looks similar with and without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:11 PM
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Degrading appeared naturally in humans as a social mechanism to keep society stable. We degrade people who have behaviours that destabilize society. Promiscuity in both men and women is part of that, as it contributes to the single motherhood problem. In the USA currently half of newborn children are born to single mothers (80% in the "Afro-american" population). It's not a coincidence that this did not happen before the sexual revolution. Plus the "hookup culture" is actually worse for women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:05 PM
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You obviously don't know what a Gaussian distribution is. No, a 10 is not a tenth of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:58 AM
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Mbti is just pseudo science, but it is still miles better than zodiac, at least it is based on logic. Anyone that even considers zodiac something not cringe should be consider applying for a lobotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:52 PM
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Sorry, but that is a stupid comparison. Astrology works by saying "you were born in month X therefore your personality is Y".While the alpha/beta/shit is the opposite. "You behave like Y therefore you are a X". The former is completely non-sense, the latter is merely a classification, putting a label on a behaviour. Sadly mostly people who complain about this are not very good at logic, like this topic exemplifies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:36 AM
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Protip: If you read the list of side effects on Aspirin or other common med, you will also see a huge list of scary stuff like the one you listed here. Yet you all are eating pills like its nothing. People spend too much time in the internet and lose their connection with the real world. Talk with any women who is pregnant or was pregnant recently and show them this list, ask how many of those things apply to their situation. Regarding men attraction, again, same shit, too much time in the inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:03 AM
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His response was perfectly fine, as it would be even if he said something ridiculous like his comfort meal was rocks. In fact meat, vegetables and fruit are all healthy things, and while I get the concept of comfort food, the guy just probably wanted to show that he is not into fast food shit. Plus if you ask someone a question and already have an ideal answer waiting inside your head, the problem is you, not the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:06 AM
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The missing spark is usually a code for "no attraction found". Men turning you down for no spark means they just did not find you attractive. People are rarely honest with their photos in dating profiles and women are specially bad at this. I never met a woman that had the same hair color or same hair style as they had in their profile photos. And I lost count of the number of women who used filters or deceptive camera angles to make them look more attractive that they really are. And whenever t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:14 PM
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There are no young women in this subreddit, we did some polls before, the average age user here is already middle-aged, aka 30 or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:09 PM
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Spoiler: Everything that happens in human society was programmed by some group at some point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:03 PM
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The current state of dating started around that time yes. But the problem has gotten worse in an exponential way thanks to social media. The percent of the population that uses social media is much larger than percent of the population that used dates as dating place. For example introverts back then would mostly not frequent bars, but nearly all of them have social media and spend most of their free time in the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:02 PM
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Look guys, here is me replying to a poster with zero knowledge of psychology and also is unable to discern any pair of action-reaction besides direct interactions. Simping is far from having "zero effect". In fact, most of dating psychology for both genders works around the concept of self-value versus the others, which in turn is also related to scarcity mindsets. One very important detail in psychology is that we only have access to our own minds, and can't read the other person minds. Aka eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:59 AM
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Feminine is equivalent to young. All men that are called feminine have a thing in common. They look like scrawny thin boys, not like not fit older men. It's not "feminine" in the sense of lipstick and curves. If you think long about that, you will understand why men complain that woman are not logical. Men liking youthness= predatory. Women liking youthness = progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:36 AM
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I eagerly await for surving long enough so that I can read the next generation reddit posts. "Both of my partners (assigned robot at birth, trans-child-free) are completely lobotomized, thank got we live in a state where the doctors also approved our superior limb removal cirurgy so that we will be approved for sect II class B act and no longer will need to work"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:35 AM
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How desilusional are you? Contraception is extremely common for female teenagers, and it's being given to them not only for sexual reasons but for many other cases like acne treatment. A huge chunk of modern women have spent most of their lifes taking contraceptives. In fact I've seen women react to a women who had never taken the pill as the equivalent of anti-vaxxer, they literally shamed her in front of her peers, according to them she was participating in the patriarchy due to not taking con…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:32 AM
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That's just wishful thinking or maybe you have spent all your life hiding inside some tin can. Relationships in our current society are in a very bad state (and thus you and me and all others are spending their time discussing about it in this sub). Most people even people without trauma would benefit from some sort of therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:54 AM
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Exactly, it's the same videogame argument dressed with a new hat. If we talk about the videogame argument, and if you exclude older population (30 years and older) then the videogame players are split mostly 50% for both genders. And porn is following a very similar distribution, in the younger generation, woman consume as much porn as man. Even some female famous pop artists already spoke about the porn issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:08 AM
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Exploring / Finding yourself through sex is nothing more than a meme / excuse. It has no real meaning, just a platitude to protect own self of worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:05 AM
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Someone with childhood trauma should not be dating, should instead be in therapy, both men and women. If people did that, the dating world would be a much better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:02 AM
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I'm a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:24 PM
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Exactly, but they don't understand this argument. Who wants to listen to a 35 year old say, "sorry, I no longer give blowjobs because my ex always hit me if I didn't awake up him with his dick in my mouth". I could spend one hour telling similar stories of woman I just discarded in the last years after they told me a simple phrase like that. And then they have the audacity of saying casual dating and serial monogamy has zero consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:37 PM
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Welcome to 2022. Please repeat with us, men bad, women good. Don't forget to tattoo that also somewhere in your body so that your peers can see how normal you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:34 PM
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If you say that, you might not be able of critical thinking. Several relationships, specially several short relationships do have an psychologically impact. Failed relationships are one of the things in life that cause more stress to humans, and spending a large chunk of adult and teenager years in stress is certainly no good for the human psyche. Of course, this exclude the kind of free sexual individuals who just jump around orgies without mixing emotions with it. But I would say those are a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:32 PM
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Well, most people who job hop also might have at one point in their life held a job for more than 6 months. But that might have been a long time ago, and they might no longer be able to do that. Also your argument about LTR goes against having multiple partners. A LTR should be able to provide all experience someone might need, no need to hop from partner to partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:23 PM
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Protip. You can do all experiment you want with a single partner. Unless you really are into ultra kinky shit and want to do foursomes where every person has a different skin color. But for most cases, this justification it's just a cope for your own inability to communicate sexual needs with other person, and thus requiring jumping from partner to partner so that you taste their "default settings". And this is coming from the mouth of someone who has double digit body count. I was bamboozled by…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:19 PM
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I put my hand in fire. Oh, I'm burned but correlation != causation. Maybe one day scientist in the future will be able to ascertain why I'm feeling pain right now. Please, this is fallacy of no point of return. Anyone who falls into the "colourful" lifestyle can no longer alter the past and thus the only way forward is to defend their own choices as valid. It's same shit as someone who tattoos itself with a bunch of crayon shit, then screams "there's nothing wrong with tattoos, its just skin, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:17 PM
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Yes. But it is really difficult to get that, many men (here and in other places) have complained about partners that were extremely sexual before and then lost libido completly. Sometimes they were sexual with previous partners and now not with them, sometimes they were sexual with them before commitment and now no longer want to be touched. It is a phenomenon most experienced men are familiar with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:06 PM
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The mistake most make is thinking it is about sex, because sex fullfils a specific need that they have. But at the core, the real need is the need of being wanted and desired by someone, that is something that both men and women need as social animals, and I would guess that only sociopaths are exempt from feeling that need. And that's why paying for it it is absolutely useless unless someone is completely desperate and use the experience to lie to themselves that the other person cares about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:51 AM
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That is laughable. Body count is not necessarily a representation of "experience" or desire. In many cases high-body count is more a result of psychologic damage than high libido, or if you prefer, the high libido is result of their inner turmoils, aka daddy issues and similar, both in men and women. I dated many womens who had dozens of men before, some even boasted about their "skills" in the talking phase. Then all I got was disappointing star fish sex. Some were better, but those were never …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:47 AM
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The studies say different. What you described applies specifically to single mother homes. Children from single fathers actually excel in life according to studies. And while most would love to jump to males are better, this happens because usually the custody goes to the mothers. So whenever single fatherhood happens, is either because of someone like OP or because of the two parents the father was the most capable according to the family court.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:18 PM
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Your mindset seems to be completly inverted. If they ghosted you for trivial reasons, it's them that don't have the capacity to hold a relationship. Imagine if their capabilities for relationships were just a tiny better and you got more emotionally invested and they still dropped you. Would hurt much more. So in fact they did you a favor by dropping you so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:41 AM
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Yes, you might find one, if it was not converted already into a women only shelter. And that is again, another proof we're a gynocentric society. While 4 in 5 homeless are men, not only they have no proper help at all and no one cares about them. Whenever someone points a problem regarding men, you quickly all answer with stuff about women. Like the previous poster of instantly jumped into "about about the homeless women?" after I told her the majority of men are not CEOs but instead homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:06 AM
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Like the other guy said, apex fallacy. It is used to explain how we are not in a patriarchy like feminists think we are. And that's why the argument is relevant, because if we're not in a patriarcy but we're also not in a matriarchy, what exactly are we. And that's where the suggestion of gynocentric society being the most close match appears. A gynocentric society is one where both genders have same powers at least in terms of law, but there is a social skew to females being considered more imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:01 AM
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Not only bots. A girl I dated last year used to work in those companies that outsource humans for digital apps. Eg: Big companies like Netflix, Facebook, Tiktok etc hire massive amounts of people to manually review content. One of the available gigs she had was to a certain famous dating app, in which she would be paid to create several female profiles and match with men. The rules she had to follow was keep them on the hook for a while, if they ask for a date or any other contact outside (eg: p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:23 PM
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Exactly. The gender debates always work like that. Men suggest something in their favour, instead of arguments they get instantly insulted "eg: you are insecure, patriarchy, etc". Women suggest something in their favour, men reject it and again they get insulted. It's always men fault. The only winning move is not to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:16 PM
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You will find mostly men at the top. You will also find mostly men at the bottom. For each male CEOs that you envy you also have a male criminal that you don't even consider worth remembering. Men work in extremes, they have potential to be the best and the worst. In fact there you can find several studies about this, eg: IQs ranges of the population, read about that and you will find that most women IQs are centered around the average, while most smart people are men and most dumb also are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:13 PM
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Homeless women do have more power than homeless men. Remember the infamous "1 in 5 homeless people are women" ads? Remember how they women only shelters in every big city in the world, while men shelters are rare and there were even cases of them being shut down due to feminists complaints? Remember when the United Nations and International aid agencies said women are among the worst victims of war? Do I have to continue? I understand that being on the other side it's not easy to feel what men f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:05 PM
1

Simple. Who are the majority producers of Onlyfans content? And who are the majority of consumers? For hypothetical sex-robots you could imagine a very similar distribution. Testosterone is a hell of a drug, I remember a recent study that calculated than an average modern men has 10x higher libido that the average female counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:08 PM
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I have a very simple theory for this, based on my personal experience as an older man. Back then men simply had huge power in society, it was completely unbalanced compared to now. Due to that, man had a much smaller sexual urge, simply because they knew if they wanted, they could simple take that beautiful young maiden into a backalley, and do whatever they wanted with her with little consequences for him (lets imagine that there was no CSI back then, and getting away with crime was 100x easier…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:19 AM
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Sadly it is common for men to abandon most of their friends when they get a girlfriend or fathers to abandon their sons when getting married a second time. Note that when I say abandon, can range from the literal meaning to being pushed into second plan, and anything between. This a well known phenomenon, probably there's even a name for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:59 PM
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." This is the typical woman rethoric, same logic as the suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:57 PM
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Women too, what's the point of pointing that out? In fact, statistically there are more obese women than obese men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:27 PM
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Are you aware that the largest majority of incarcerated criminals were raised by single mothers? Is that the world where you want to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:10 PM
0

Men usually keep it to themselves (except in anonymous situations like online). They might complain to the woman itself, but that's it. Women are the ones who spread it around their communities. I've seen much more public slut shaming coming from women than from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:06 PM
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It is worth it though? When I was younger I though that it would be awesome if I could pump and dump any girl that I wanted. When I reached around 35 or 36, I became successful and wealthy and with that came extremely confidence. Almost like the ugly duckling story. And then I pumped and dumped, for several years. I stopped because I guess due to age my male hormones no longer wanted me to fuck every nice pair of breasts that enter my line of sight. It was like someone finally removed the rose t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:04 PM
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Oh wow, so all that matters is a bunch of caked up make up in their faces? Most of the time they are not even naturally attractive, and even if they were, still, is that all that matters? The average modern female is a zombie with their faces permanently glued to a phone screen watching little counters with numbers going up. Modern men are putting 100 times more effort than their grandfathers to date women who put 100 times less effort than their grandmothers, it's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:57 PM
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The woman can literally die from complications at an older age. It's not even comparable please. Stop telling woman to delay their motherwood, it's a meme at this point, that will do nothing good to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:24 PM
1

True but there is a good correlation of baggage and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:23 PM
1

It's really difficult to assign life stages to age groups in adulthood. I know people in their 40s still struggling to find a job and at same time I know 25 years old with paid houses and a stable career.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:22 PM
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Same here. Every time I try to date someone in my age, it comes with a huge baggage of hostility, 'I don't need a man' womansplaining and lots of other bitter stuff, whats the point then, why are even them trying to find a relationship if they hate man so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:21 PM
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Those are not exclusive things. I'm in my 40s and for me the most attractive girls are around 25 years. But at same time, yes, women at those ages will feel annoying and immature. I still date them, and I also date women in 30s and sometimes even 40s (more rare). Those I seldom date them because I find them attractive in the physical sense. Also most single women in their 30s or later come with a huge emotional baggage that is not common in younger women. That is also a very important distinctio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:16 PM
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That's a bit silly. As a man, I do indeed prefer women that have better fashion. When I was a bit younger for example I would literally refuse to date women who wore jeans. It was a personal pet peeve of mine. ...Unless they were able to pull off the jeans look. Those that were great at fashion were able to look lovely in an effortless way, even if they were not the most attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:58 AM
1

Yes, incubation period is a thing, but a evening is not enough. Actually tests are recommended to be done at least 2 weeks after "last deed".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:09 AM
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You lack reading comprehension though. He did not say the personality changes due to that, he says it changes after, whenever a breakup (or several) happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:08 AM
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Yet modern woman keep comparing marriage to a job, quite ironic. Eg: I don't want to dependent on a man, I am dependent on my career (aka boss).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:07 AM
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Thats a really skewed view. I know at least 10 or so average male friends who have quit dating because they can't even get a woman to agree to go in a date with them. And yes, all of them have jobs, shower, use perfume, neurotypical, only half of them are balding (and well, since I'm talking about 30 to 40 year olds, it's expected). They have tried everything, not just dating apps. A couple of them got a date, the woman got them to pay for drinks or dinner then just blocked them. This is one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:04 AM
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In psychology, disgust is defined as a primal instinct, which is triggered in an animal to protect him from a bad situation. Whenever a man feels this kind of disgust, it's basically the same as a gut feeling telling him to get away from that woman, because things are not going to end well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:59 AM
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You are in a english speaking discussion board speaking with people where the majority of them live in a western country. Stop moving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:53 AM
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Not him. But you are projecting a bit too much. I understood what he means, he is just a pragmatic. Protip: Hapiness can only exist if sadness exists too. Therefore, the image of a "happy for ever marriage" only exists in the minds of idealists, who statistically are the ones who get divorced more and have more unhappy lifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:51 AM
1

Source for the 80% value? Because all recent studies published seems to point that a third of men under 30 are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:43 AM
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Yes. Not only Sweden but I traveled all over the world. Just remember that as a woman there are many conversations that you will never hear from men in real life (unless you eavesdrop)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:31 AM
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You are giving Ukraine as an example? A country that forbid any men under 60 to leave the country during the war, while all women were free to move (and many instantly joined Tinder in their "new" countries). So progressive right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:21 AM
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You will, once your men started prefering to date foreigners. For example Sweden already has this problem, feminists there are going crazy than Swedish men are traveleling in droves to marry foreign women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:44 PM
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That's how it goes in most of the world though, except that American public education is above average. An average young american is more likely to be able to name 3 Kardishinis or whatever that fuck is called than being able to name 3 countries other than USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:42 PM
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I'm in my 40s and after decades of dating I only saw daddy issues in partners that had a pattern of serial monogamy (aka jumping to the next boyfriend as soon as a relationship ending). Which is a bit of the opposite of being inexperienced .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:35 AM
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Not sure from how you jumped from what I said to what you said? Social media enables you to find people with same world views as you. So if you are into cutting your wrists or whatever fucked up thing, in social media you will find echo chambers where everyone does the same and encourages each other. Part of the reason for the obesity epidemic, causal sex explosion etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:51 PM
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Like he said, no longer applies. You live in a world where people have the power of social media in their hands and with that they can find persons with same vices as them easily, so they will never feel really ostracized due their life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:09 AM
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Would not touch any of those with a seven foot pole. Actors are one of the jobs with the largest concentration of cluster B mental disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:32 AM
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Whenever you use the word mainsplain you instantly lose any argument. That word is nothing more but a ad hominem. I hope I don't have to mansplain to you what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:30 AM
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That study she is talking about has been proved to be fabricated by a feminist. In fact other studies have pointed to the decline in sperm quality of younger generations, to the point that a large of men in their 50s have the same or better sperm quality than men in their 20s. Scientists currently are pointing to microplastics being present in everyones body as the cause of this, but it is still being studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:27 AM
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Those studies you point to were found to be fabricated by a feminist. That's the problems with studies nowadays, a large part of it has become political, without proper rigor. In fact some some years ago a guy generated a couple of scientific papers that were pure gibberish generated by a "state of art" bot, submitted them and and least 1 or 2 were approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:25 AM
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From my 35 to 39 I had my "bad boy" phase where I dated exclusively woman under 27 (with just one exception, one was 31). Most of them told me they were extremely attracted to me (in that period I was going to the gym every single day, plus even today I still have a full head of hair, luckily zero signs of balding yet). In the first dates I usually asked them to guess my age. Only one got close enough, most said 32. This just means most people are terrible at gauging someone age, height or weigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:20 AM
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I had to travel to USA several times due to my job. The first time, I had the biggest cultural shock ever (and this is from someone who has travelled to most of the world). American people were completely lazy, would walk around in the airport in pajamas, fatness everywhere, people would walk around holding giant hamburgers, whole families would move in swarms of those small cars for obese people. And then there were also small groups of those rich-looking people, almost as if two completly diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:59 AM
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Good observation. We could also say that the "jerks that get all women" are the guys with the opposite attachment, dismissive-avoidant, which represents well the common tropes of avoiding commitment. If we go by statistics, 70% of singles in their 30s or later have one of those attachments (or fearful-dismissive, which causes even more turmoil in relationships). Basically, the large amount of posters here fits into one of those, that's why its common for them to see the world through a very narr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:21 AM
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The issue with single mothers is they picked terrible dads and now want someone else to pay for it. Plus the majority of them are completely turned off by single dads (aka, their ability to mooch would be really limited) Nobody has an issue with woman who decide to have a commited long term relationship with a stable man, who then decide to have a child together. The latter brings stability to society, the former destroys it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:33 PM
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Pause the video at 5:23 you can literally see a large blob of fat rolling out of her dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:29 PM
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Yes, you are right. To tell the truth I don't even know to react, it's just sad of seeing a nation where the majority of population looks like a sack of potatoes, but saying it like this feels like going too much out of topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:48 AM
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I'm from Europe and I only opened OP video because I saw your comment. My expectactions before clicking the link was "well, she is going to be a bit chubby maybe". But no, she its fat. Really fat actually, for European standards. I now pity the men living in USA, when this is called an average girl there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:29 AM
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If people dated based on maturity then for sure the "chad gets all girls" meme would not even exist. Attraction is what drives most of human relationships. That's why deadbeat males commonly have obsessed girlfriends and prison convicts can even be given jobs. And it's also the reason men prefer younger women. Some older woman can be stunning for sure, but even that same women had her beauty peak when younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:25 PM
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Wait until the government mandates every man to wake up in the morning and recite that phrase in front of an webcam. An AI will automatically analyse every recording and men who fail to do so will be shot next day. 1984 was a prophetic book.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:23 PM
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The "naivety" angle is just pure copout from older women. Let's be blunt, the majority of the population does not change much emotionally after their early 20s. Scientists everywhere agree that the brain stops developing at around 25. I'm on my 40s now, I have dated women of all ages, younger and older than me, and pure anecdotally but I do feel that after 25, age had absolutely zero correlation with maturity. The most mature partner I had was 22, while the most immature was 39. Younger women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:20 PM
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Funny that, that is actually incorrect. Have you read the studies that say that men of younger generations have less sperm than 50 year olds? Apparently its due to plastics being everywhere. Here's a source for you, have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:17 PM
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For other readers, notice how this poster had already dated 5 or 6 men by age 18. And this is if we assume she listed all her boyfriends, but she might only have listed the older ones. She is quickly to dismiss most of her choices as bad, completly missing the point she, out of her own will engaged in multiple relationships with older men. I'm sure she thinks of her self as a victim or even a angel who did no harm. As it is parroted over and over again, accountability is a tool of the patriarchy…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:14 PM
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Weird how is the first time I've seen this study posted, while the Okcupid one is posted literally everyday. Not only that one is more recent, it also is even more harsh and includes several gems that would make most red pillers here said "I told you", like the line about men peaking at 50 and woman's desirability being a constant decline
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:00 PM
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Protip, men will never whine about this shit in front of a woman in real life. I hope I dont have to explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:34 AM
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Hello grandpa. Most women consume porn in 2022. Also another interesting fact for you (and all the grandmas around here), half of all gamers in 2022 are female too, so the jokes about "drop your joysticks and start courting females" no longer apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:33 AM
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You don't see a single negative simply because you are a woman. But as you can see, there are thousands of men complaining in this sub, and if you look around all over social media, men keep complaining about it. What will happen is a pendulum swing. If men voices are not heard, then after a decade or so, you will have a generation of woman-hating men, who will be in positions of power, and things will get much worse than Roe vs Wade.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:23 AM
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Recent studies have shown that in the last years, more young males are single than females. The explanation is simple, a woman dating an older man is very common, the opposite is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:49 PM
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The majority of them don't. Watching Netflix, uploading pics on Instagram or browsing Tiktok is not considered an interest or activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:47 PM
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Before complaining online was not an option. Also opening a porn site and searching for your ideal body type and she her naked, completely for free in the effort of your home was also not possible. It was also not possible to download and play for free thousands of videogames, or stream any movie that you want for free (or almost free if we ignore piracy as an option). Having dozens or even hundreds of friends, all ready to chat with you instantly via a device in your pocket? Also not possible b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:43 PM
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Again, another case of woman are wonderful, men are shit. Please. Get another joke, we're tired of hearing the same bullshit everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:41 PM
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If a woman is on tinder, there's no point even speaking with her. I have several female friends that have showed me her Tinder notifications, 999+ likes. If any of them feels a bit lonely, they can just grab the phone, pick the best looking guy out of those and chat them up. I've also seen male friends complain that their girlfriends literally open their Tinder or Snapshap in front of them and chat with other guys. When confronted, they usually came up with the classic feminist moves "Are you op…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:39 PM
3

Did you try shower? Maybe buy an expensive perfume?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:34 PM
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Please shut up lol. Men are allowed to have standards, we've been tired of being gaslighted for centuries. If men bodies were not filled with testosterone, most women would have no chance at all and humanity would be already extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:32 PM
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Game is a cope used by males. If you need game to get a date, well, bad luck for you, means she never felt genuine desire for you. Specially true for those looking for long term relationships. Either keep that game on forever, aka being a in-house jester. Or then get ready to subscribe to /r/deadbedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:31 PM
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It will be really interesting to see what comes of out of that, of this next generation being raised from phones since very yearly ages. I would say that unless drastic measures are taken in the near future, we will end with a generation of mentally crippled misfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:29 PM
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The current state of society has all to do with feminism. To the point that in feminist circles, a war has started recently, with some of them saying we've reached a post-feminism era, others saying feminism have done more wrong than right. One example. Elimination of gender roles has brought no benefit at all to society, it was nothing more than a idealistic idea. In reality, it literally every situation from animals in nature to human jobs, specialization is very important. From there comes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:26 PM
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This is common study that was spoken in most mainstream outlets some years ago. Are you not able to use google, really? Click here, next time I hope I dont have to do the homework for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:22 PM
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You are missing the general picture. The fact about many males not reproducing its not only about wars. That is one part of it. Other factors include older society customs and hierarchies. In many older civilizations harems centered around the richer men were common. Most dangerous physical work is done by males, both now and during all of human history. Back then the chance of dying due to your daily job was 100x higher than now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:21 PM
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It's 2022, gramps. Around 50% of gamers are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:16 PM
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Men quality has decreased but women also. Most modern women are extremely undesirable compared to previous generations (this coming from someone older who started dating in 1995).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:15 PM
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I'm in my 40s now, I grew around that time, I watched how internet went from being a niche thing to everyone using it. The main difference is back then if you were a nerdy shy guy, you could still find your female equivalent, either by going to the local videogame shop in the mall or anime cons or whatever. Since people were not locked into their phones, even the most nerd of most people socialized frequently. Also back then there was a big chance your nerdy girlfriend was a virgin, possibly a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:11 PM
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What you wrote is exactly the description of the "wall". It's not some magical thing where a woman hits a certain age and then poof, her looks immediately get worse. It's like you said, people accumulate baggage while younger, which in turn raises their standards. But now older, they have aged and have less to offer (physically). Of course, in many situations a older woman has improved herself (eg: maturity) but since men are very driven by female beauty and youth, it causes this drop in attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:04 PM
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It's not a revenge fantasy, and the wall its not about sex, it's about commitment. Can a woman get sex at any age? Yes. Can she get sex from any man she wants? Depends on the age, younger will be able to pick almost anyone she wants if pretty, while older will have no luck. Can a woman get commitment from any man? Again, depends on age. If younger it will be moderately easy, and after 30s the quality of men that will offer commitment will drop to very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:57 PM
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Yes, the problem is with the younger generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:49 PM
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Completely wrong dude. Have you not read the recent census in USA? Around half of people (under 40) don't have a partner and the percent has grown every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:53 PM
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At that point to define it as real or not will be more of a philosophy question. We have the current debate of is a transwoman a real woman or no? In the future it would be the same, people with your opinion would be shamed for having regressive ideas, while progressives would welcome the robots with open hands and demand special robot-only toilets and would encourage robots to participate in men sports and win first places.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:39 PM
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Sorry but I don't date woman who believe in patriarchy or astrology. I do fuck them though in a very sensual way. After that I call them a Uber and block their numbers after they leave my apartment. Are you free tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:09 PM
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Most single mother are single mothers because they partner picking process was based on everything except the man being a good provider. I dare you to find me a single mother were the father was the typical "beta" described around here, a meek, two goody shoes with a stable job, working in the same place all his life. All cases of single mothers I knew personally the guy was better looking than the women themselves and their jobs were usually some form of "hustling". A large amount of them had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:04 PM
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Actually, in most mainstream subreddits, that opinion is considered offensive. Nuclear family is a tool of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:01 PM
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I work in tech and I can reveal you an interesting bit about programming. The robots don't have to be programmed to feel desire for a specific man. Instead, they could be programmed to learn how to feel attraction in a natural way, aka spending enough time with a person and see through their flaws and fall in love with them. Together with having some constraints put on it (aka, they can only do that for their owner, to prevent them to fall in love with neighbors etc) ​ And once you understand th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:58 PM
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The difference is that an android could literally be programmed to desire the man, and also to be 100% commited to him. It's a completely different concept from hookers. I can envision in some future decades, men still will put effort into making money, not to impress woman though, but instead to be able to buy the latest android models. And in that future world, men and woman would be completely segregated through technology, except for a few conservative places and possibly also some new futur…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:56 PM
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The people that actually like the other gender usually don't spend time writing about gender stuff in online forums. Simple as that!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:47 PM
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If the technology that allows a baby to be born without any woman exists, then we can assume that technology is also advanced to the point that artificial humans do exist. The general divide that is happening between genders could be extrapolated to a future where everyone would be single with their own personal robot, tailored with their favorite personality and knowledge. In that situation, yes, the role of motherhood would be done by robot, with artificial intelligence carefully generated thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:45 PM
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You either have low testosterone or a very good upbringing that allows you to resist urges. But most males are not like that, he is right, everywhere that we look, either in real life or internet you will see that men will lower their standards to a ridiculous level. Yes, they might hide dating the "fat girl", but most will still do it if there are no better alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:34 PM
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Exactly. People are way "richer" now than most previous generations in all of human story. Economics factors were never related to pregnancies. Also some of the poorest nations are the ones with more births in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:28 PM
1

They should just shower right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:27 PM
1

Sorry but your description literally points to a broken men. Only a miracle would pull him out of a path to a failed life. An overbearing / protective mother is usually one of the common factors behind men like those though. I have a sibling like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:23 PM
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I see your point of view. But to counter it, with the changes in society, men no longer have any reason to put in the extra effort that you describe. Previous generations of men put way less effort and were compensated with traditional gender roles, enforced monogamy, marriage at young age and a virgin wife. Today a man get's nothing of that, instead we get an "equal partner" for living in a society where both have two work, and if they want children they have to leave their children in daycare …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:20 PM
2

Today most younger people mock religion as some magical shit for boomers. I have my ow hypothesis that in the past at least a part of men understood the true meaning of it. It was never about magical shit, that is just a tiny ingredient to keep the sheep following it. The true purpose was stability of society, as a some kind of great equalizer. And now religion is gone, and we're seeing the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:10 PM
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Trust me, it's not about wages. I am a self-made millionaire due to a IT business I setup 10 years ago. I have other friends who also are very well in life. We also get zero matches in dating apps and we are also are met with indifference and ghosting in real life dates. There are some benefits to being rich, and we could surely fuck around with the typical gold digger bimbos that the average has no access but when we just want a normal relationship, woman treat us the same way they treat the av…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:05 PM
1

You forgot one. take a shower
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:11 PM
2

At this point I'm sure all modern women are sent some weeks into a secret education camp where they learn that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:03 PM
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That's wrong. Its mostly 50/50 split according to recent stats. One of the reasons this stereotype was spread was because there was a literally framework for defining domestic abusers and the definition specified that only men could be considered abusers. Same thing in many jurisdictions rape legal definition only allows rape to be defined with men as perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:51 PM
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That's wrong. Its mostly 50/50 split according to recent stats. One of the reasons this stereotype was spread was because there was a literally framework for defining domestic abusers and the definition specified that only men could be considered abusers. Same thing in many jurisdictions rape legal definition only allows rape to be defined with men as perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:51 PM
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Did you shower before installing the app? In other dating subreddits they would probably ask you that. But joking aside, don't even installing a dating app again. If you want to know why, do some research, learn that 99% of them belong to the same company and also that is common practice for them to hire woman to make profiles and chat with men (but keep evading meeting in real life or course, just literally bait).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:03 PM
6

We don't live in Disney world. Great matches are like winning a lottery. Most people will be born, live and die without ever finding a great match. That's the mentality that most men live on. Women in the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:00 PM
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80% of men are literally invisible to woman. That's why you never seen that. If there's an ugly guy simping for a woman in front of you, your brain simply won't process it. I would not be suprised if the farmer living in a low income area is a very attractive man. You will probably answer, no, he is just an average guy but we know from several studies that due to their pickness, women rate the majority of men as under average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:58 PM
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I'm conservative and I love fucking liberal girls. I never offer commitment to those though. I would never marry someone that prefers idealism instead of pragmatism and that's usually want makes someone lean left or right. Just checked my phone and last message one of those sent me some months ago was "I hope you find your baby maker wife one day". I giggle everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:55 PM
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Yes, of course those existed but they were a small % of the population, it was different when porn was only available via mags and only nerds had access to internet, also only those nerds played videogames. Now some people start looking at porn even before reaching puberty, it's not comparable!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:48 PM
1

I lived in the 90s (and 80s) and things were much different indeed. Almost every guy had a girlfriend back then. Addiction to videogames, porn and social media was non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:35 AM
1

There's also Eastern Europe if you prefer blondes and South America if you prefer latinas. Both of those are more traditional societies, although they are slowly getting "americanized".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:20 AM
1

It's not 5%, the actual % is much larger and growing every year. You can close your eyes to it right now if you want, but a decade later when society has gone to shift and all women rights you have right now were revoked due to those man becoming a majority, maybe, just maybe, you will think that in 2022 I should be a bit more sensitive about men complaints instead of laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:14 AM
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As someone in their 40s, I can tell you his description is real. No longer fueled by sex hormones, my life decisions are 100x better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:05 AM
1

Match Group literally made them all be the same thing. Many of those dating apps had more features before. I used Okcupid 10 years ago and then 3 years ago, and was completely shocked with the difference. They removed more than half of the features and made it a Tinder clone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:04 AM
1

Give it a few more years and diamonds will be seen as a boomer thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:48 AM
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They get tired and they "retire" from the dating marketing. You've never heard of those "All men are the same, I'm done with them". Those words usually don't come from women who were in committed loving relationships with average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:47 AM
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Polygamy is illegal... for now. Homosexuality was illegal just some decades ago. If a large part of the population fights for "Polygamy" rights, it will happen. And they don't have to be part of it to fight for it, the same way that was not only homosexuals fighting for their cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:45 AM
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Does not compare at all. Before we had small closed circles. Now you can pick a number of miles for your preference and have access to every man within that radius.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:50 PM
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You are literally womansplaining this to us. Look, use your brain. For some reason in the recent years the number of online complains of men about this issue has been growing a lot. It's not a conspiracy, its in front of your eyes, just open them. The large majority of men currently are unable to even get dates. Some are even unable to get matches on dating apps. It's called the paradox of choice. The more choices someone has on something, the more difficult is to commit. And this is affecting b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:48 PM
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Yep. And also logic would useful here. A single man can impregnate 100 women in a single day. And do more the next day, and next, etc. While a woman gets pregnant and stays that way for almost a year. Obviously over thousands of years this caused a different mating approach for each gender. Men try with anyone available to them based on their social status. While women are extremely picky. Men date down. Women date up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:41 PM
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What world do you live in? Men have been expendable since the beginning of time. Men where sent to fight in wars, women stayed at home with children. Or even before that, when tribes raided villages, men were killed, women were assimilated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:25 PM
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What's happening in 20 or 30 years is nothing new, it's literally the cycle of live as it always been, only the last decades were "abnormal". Also, a person wanting or not wanting a child does not correlate to the child growing up mentally healthy. Plenty of broken individuals would love to have children, and the opposite is true too. Trauma cycles propagate through generations and its always up to an individual adult to be self aware and break it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:53 PM
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cat food and wine also.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:46 PM
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What part you did not understand of "a single man can impregnate 100 women in a single day"? This is literally the core of psychological differences in society. That's why women get to be picky and men are expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:46 PM
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Traditional relationships come with traditional dynamics. Before people would not just breakup because their SO liked someone else picture on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:08 PM
2

I see what you mean but if we take the analogy of guests suddenly becoming a death threat to the women situation, the equivalent is a ectopy pregnancy or similar. A women being able to just abort without being in risk of death is analogous to being able to shoot your guests to death without any specific reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:06 PM
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Indeed we are. Plus, conscience is a mechanism not yet understood by science. For example, we don't even know yet if besides humans there animals with conscience too. There were situations like the Alex parrot and a few gorillas, but still nothing certain. Yet the pro abortion crowd has no issues advocating murder just because they don't want to be responsible about choosing when to have sex (and with who). Strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:57 PM
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Simple. The top man are keeping several women on rotation for sex. Sex only, they refuse commitment, because as top man they have too many opportunities. Thus if women keep chasing those men for relationships, nobody wins besides those men. There are several studies showing this, including some papers that propose that polygamy will become mainstream in the next decade. With the consequence of the male "leftovers" starting to form violent groups. Oh wait, what are incels? What a sweet timeline w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:53 PM
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Yes, if both follow traditional gender roles. Then its 100% fair. But women don't want to be traditional while wanting a traditional man, so though luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:48 PM
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Its you that does not understand our points. Maybe you just don't want to. We don't want casual sex to be allowed at all. It benefits no one. Society was much more stable when people were responsible. Sex was done for creating a family. Sex done for pleasure was reserved for the debauched and that's how it should stay. It's about pragmatism. Look, I love sweets, pizza and burgers. I never eat them though, because I know the short term pleasure is not worth the long term consequences. This is wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:45 PM
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Are you americans really allowed to shoot someone if you first invite them to your home, and then you change your mind and want them out and they refuse? If yes, then you are all fucking completly insane and whats ever the point of even discussing if abortions are good or bad lol. For comparison in Europe in a situation like that, if the person refuse we can call the authorities who will deal with the guests in a civilized way. If we shoot anyone like that we would be charged with homicide. Fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:34 PM
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It's not an ignorant statement, we're actually agreeing with each other. Compare the rate of circumcision and number of mass shootings in both countries, its proportional. Compare it again with countries where circumcision is forbidden and you will see the number of mass shootings is zero. USA are literally inducing a trauma at birth in their male population and no one sees it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:58 AM
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Exactly! But it's really common for someone to say that nowadays. It used to be more common for women to say that but now even men started saying that all their partners are narcissists. Self-reflection is becoming a lost art.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:03 PM
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Narcissist. I swear all man and woman I've talked in the last years all complain their ex-partners were narcissists. Not a single ex-partner, all of them. Effect of a generation being raised on Tiktok psy-pop videos and participation medals for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:36 PM
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Are there studies on that? I can imagine forcing male babies to go such a traumatic event to leave lasting scars in their psyche. And Canada had also its own mass shooters, it might rank second or third worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:34 PM
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The only first world country that still does male genital mutilation is the USA. Interesting, uh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:41 PM
1

Not him but when I was in my 20s I used to be one of those "good human beings". I would believe that love was like Disney shit and whenever a women gave me a chance I would feel so grateful I would do everything for her. However I just got my heart broken several times. After lots of frustration, I learned about red pill and literally became an asshole. And now that I gave no more fucks about anything, all women chased me. There was a point where I was sleeping with a different women every night…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:19 PM
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Yes, that was my point. In 2022 you can't define if a good situation for a child depends on being a married man or a woman, or two women living together or a single man. And in many cases a single wealthy man that can spend 200k on a surrogate baby, can also provide a better situation than the large majority of population.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:06 PM
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Are they staying together with her? If not, then you are not understanding what they mean. For men there is a big difference between who is ok for us to sleep with and who we want to commit. I used to have FBW relationships with 40 year old women when I was in my 20s. But I would never commit to any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:02 PM
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Look at the current divorce rates in the USA (or whatever country you live). The "two parent happy family" is an utopia in 2022 and beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:42 PM
1

Are you against same-sex parenthood then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:18 PM
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Statistics show that for when the parent is a women and usually also low-income. Surrogacy is quite expensive, so I would bet most of those babies have a better life than the ones from the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:18 PM
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It's not about the genes. Did you ever read anything about adoption, in depth? The children available for adoption come from terrible situations, almost always from abusive families. Most of those children are broken psychologically. Plus they seem to come with a weird obsession about finding their bio-parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:11 PM
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Thanks for your advice, but yes, I've also been working with a therapist for some years. I did lots of progress in my personal life, and if I can get myself into a pure rational mode I can surely bring my picker to work right. But that is still difficult and I still gravitate the to the female equivalents of the "bad boy". At least that kind of self reflection made me understand the other side better, why people complained about "chads" vs "nice guys" etc. Both genders do the same thing actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:18 PM
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Will you still look good if I wash up your face? If not, then your looking good is fake. Men don't put effort into faking their good looks via makeup, because that's straight up deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:56 AM
1

Yes, but women level goes down slowly back to 1, while men goes up with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:53 AM
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Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos and Johnny Depp all failed at this task. There's a simple explanation for that, coming also from my personal experience. If you are rich (I'm a self-made multi millionaire) then yes, you got a huge ego boost that instantly improves your behavior with women, and gets tons of women interested in you. However if you had a broken childhood and mental issues coming out of that (like those guys you listed who clearly all of them suffer from NPD / BPD / possibly other stuff) then …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:47 AM
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I'm a man and I agree with you, except in the part that is difficult for a woman to be married. Come on, we all know the decline that happened in the last years in dating, and that sent the large majority of men into an hyper thirst mode, with barely any standards. Of course they will happily put a ring if they feel that's their only chance of avoiding a life of loneliness. The only ones winning this game are the players who never gave a fuck about settling down, and while being a player some de…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 11:49 AM
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This here is the reason: Woman are wonderful effect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 11:44 AM
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I think we all know that. But it's not just marriage going down, there are also recent studies saying the majority of the population under 35 are currently without a long term partner (or sexless, depending on which study you read, there are several about this issue).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 11:43 AM
2

Yeah, in the end you are right. I'm just an old man yelling at the clouds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:05 PM
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Yes, to a women who no longer cares about fun and now wants to settle down. That man will be only there to provide for a family that does not even care that much about him. A dead bedroom awaits followed by a divorce a decade later after the children leave home to college and she decides its now time again for some fun. Thanks for viewing man as objects of success, their feelings don't really matter as long as they put a ring in your finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:01 PM
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Same here. The red pill changed my life, not only it has several mantras that make a man a better person, the teaching also actually works to deal with women, not only sexually but even friendships with women improved severely in quality due to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:57 PM
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No, most could before but in 2022 most can't. Just some months ago there were studies saying that 55% of the men in the USA had no sex at all in the last year. I do have 2 FWB so I'm not complaining for myself, at this point I accepted my role as just another asshole in a fucked up society. I do worry about long time male friends who still have hope that they will find someone and have an happy family, even though they are approaching 40y and for a decade barely got any first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:50 PM
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If you don't see the problem with it, then fine. It simply means that at point, both genders are completely separated, completely independent from each other. What would be the end result of that, well, I'm not really sure of it at this point. But if all those new tools of liberation are only available to a small percent of population (eg: via wealth) then it could end badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:47 PM
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I recommend you don't pick a specific number, rather, calculate it on number of partners per year, it gives a much better story of the person love life. 9 partners at 18 would be shocking, while it would be perfectly acceptable at 40
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:37 PM
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Sadly too many men have no standards, this is just another one that fell into a dead marriage due to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:34 PM
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It applies to both. Some men will try to justify it's different with the key and lock analogy and while there is some logic to it I still would not trust a man with high n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:31 PM
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Not possible. And yes, of course also applies to men, because spoiler, both are humans. If I was a women I would never enter a relationship with a man that had 20 ex-partners or something like that, just why. The only people that can try to justify with "the past does not matter" are the same that already did it and can't go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:30 PM
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It's simply an irreversible thing. Once your n-count is high, it can never go back. Sorry about that. So it's like a person with a body full of tattoos saying "yeah, the persons that dislike tattoos, that's a red flag for me". Well, with enough money and patience tattoos are reversible. The number of bad nights spent with random hook ups or serial failed monogamy will never disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:26 PM
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Very different things. Color of hair has statistically almost no impact on personality of someone. While there are several studies citing higher "n-count" correlation with divorce rates, lower mental health and several other negative things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:23 PM
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10 partners per year as acceptable, that's hilarious. For me that is for sure a sign of a person that has literally no self control, no capacity for commitment and no future sigh. My personal rule of thumb is max 3 partners per decade. Anything higher than that is not even fit for a friendship. But to each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:21 PM
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Men access to sex is not equal to women, what are you smoking today? It's completely imbalanced, top men have more access than anyone else, then followed by most women, and at last place are the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:14 PM
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That is one of the worst brainwash that happened in history, its laughable that people still parrot this in 2022. Women are no longer dependent on men, or are they? Now they are dependent on their bosses, and let me tell you something, for sure a worker is much more disposable than a wife. Continue drinking the cool aid of women liberation that the capitalists happily sell to you through their controlled media, while they laugh at you in their 50 million dollar floating islands. Continue buying …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:08 PM
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The first part make total sense. The second? No, please. That would makes things 100x worse than now. Give men affordable sex robots and artificial wombs and that's it, game over for women, they would be transformed into a low no-value caste, almost certainly in a worst situation that they were in the past. Even birth control for males would fuck the dynamics a lot, giving men even more power.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:01 PM
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Two incomes as standard came with the side effect of the cost of living tripling in price. People that fail to understand this also fail to understand the current state of dating, relationships and the world in general. "Freedom" for women although at first glance seems the thing that could only come out of the most pure hearts, but in reality it was nothing more than result of pure capitalism greed. We're definitely living in a utopia in 2022, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:58 PM
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The subreddit deadbedrooms exist for a reason. It is so common for woman to bait a men into marriage with sex, then once you marry her suddenly she reveals that she does not like having sex. Happened to me, I spent 8 years in a marriage with sex maybe once per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:18 PM
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Two possible obvious explanations: a) All men are different, some are ugly to the point that their only options are single mothers. Others are more attractive to women, and a man in 30s that looks handsome will be very attractive to a woman in their 20s. b) The "dating gets easier in 30s" is outdated and no longer applies. In my opinion it's a mix of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:23 AM
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We should not assume because something is popular it is good. Altough I do game ocasionally (and used to much more when I was younger), I still consider it a mostly harmful form of escapism. Note that it is also "popular" to be obese in the USA (and most western countries), and I would certainly consider it also quite harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:08 AM
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Medication for mental health actually just helps keep them stable but it's not a treatment for the underlying causes (eg: childhood trauma). If they don't address the root issues via possibly years of focused therapy, it's a big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:57 PM
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Like the other poster said, it is merely printed into circulation out of air. Look up also "quantitive easing" and shock yourself at the things that power the clown world. To put it in a simple way, central banks create new money, which then flows into the other banks and rich guys pockets, justified as trickle down economics to expand the economy. But if you then ask, why the economy needs to expand, it all falls down and they look at you with confused faces. "Why are you asking that?" That who…
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 11:35 AM
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I'm currently dating a woman that has blue hair, lots of tattos and piercings, and also a medium/high body count. To tell the truth I hate it, but as a man, many times we have to take what we can get. Imagine she had a twin that had same personality but without all those bad extras I would not even waste a second choosing between them. Its really a turn off, don't think that just because a guy says "yeah, I dont care ehehe" he is telling you the truth. And note that hiding what we truly feel doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:45 AM
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I deleted my FB 6 years ago, never missed it, after a couple weeks nobody more asked why I did it. I recommend anyone here still having one to delete it asap. There's no excuse, if it's because family, you have a car, visit them, if you can't, then use a phone!
/r/MGTOW04/11/20 10:44 AM
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