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Then it literally makes no sense for them to date a woman their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:01 PM
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Why do you assume that most women who date men their age aren't beta buxxing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:57 PM
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I don't. I think I will never have a relationship that is non-transactional. Which is why I've decided not to marry either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:47 PM
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You also miss one important detail - by dating younger women you don 't vet out women who are interested in you only because of your financial status, chances are you get more of this kind of women, because most young girls aren't into dating older dudes and the ones who do tend to be interested in their finance and not in their personality or whatnot. I don't believe women my age want me for my personality because if they did they would have shown interest in me long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:41 PM
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Don't care about problems fine, but don't expect me to care about yours. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:58 PM
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. No one wants to be someone backup plan So you can admit its perfectly rational for a guy to not want to date a late 20s something woman when there is a high chance she would have rejected him in highschool and is only interested in him now that he has a high paying job?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:56 PM
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How dare a man not want to be a woman's backup plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:28 PM
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Woman with you because she trusts you not to pump and dump her = UNACCEPTABLE. I WILL NOT BE A BACK-UP PLAN. Its unacceptable if she decides to be with you when she's 28, no longer a virgin, been pump and dumped multiple times because she chased mostly tall, good-looking guys and now carries lots of emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:21 PM
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Sure its ridiculous, but in my mind is no different than taxing someone and forcing them to pay for your school, children etc, which a lot of people seem cool with. But if you don't care about the male problem of not wanting to become a woman's financial backup plan don't expect for a second that men should care about women being pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:19 PM
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I think I have this visceral disgust towards older men because I've been getting hit by them since early teen years I mean you're not being very consistent either. If its just a matter of not being attracted to why even bring up past experiences. For my previous post I'll say this. You can be attracted to women your age to the point you're willing to pump and dump them but still be bitter towards them to the point you'd never consider one for a serious relationship because you don't want to beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:54 PM
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I figured since they call men who do the same "creepy" and "predatory" it would make them massive hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:36 PM
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Well, wtf are we supposed to do, then, Wtf are less physically attractive, nerdy, quiet guys supposed to do. Just get rejected throughout highschool, then only get to date women once they get a high paying job and the women have been ran through by several guys, are no longer virgins and carry emotional baggages from being pumped and dumped. Sorry, but this is unacceptable. I'll have to do what it takes to avoid such women. If that means "preying" on younger women to find a long term relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:33 PM
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People can. There's a saying in Russian that "there's no other people's children", i.e. we all should be protective over kids whether they're ours or not. And how do you feel about people who strongly disagree and opposes this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:11 PM
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So this bad experience tinted me against any relationships with older men. Its funny how you bring up my previous posts. Because you say you have bad experiences with older men and as a result have developed a bias towards them. And you would take on any opportunity to sabotage a man pursuing any other younger woman. Well I have bad experiences with women my age and as a result have developed disgust towards them. Why is it okay when you, and women in general to this, but not for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:09 PM
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However the vast majority of people do not date to find the hottest partner, they date to find the person they want to be with. But if you're not looking to get married, why would not pursue the people that look the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:01 PM
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This is just something I'll never understand. I don't see how you can feel any sort of maternal/paternal instincts for some rando thats not your own child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:00 PM
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It's easier with women though, the age range for women is far wider for me, I'm not sure why. Meaning men older than you are creep shamed but older women are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:58 AM
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Whats stopping them from pursuing though? Cause all I think is, go right ahead, stoop down our level and you got nothing more to say,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:33 AM
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Why are you looking for internet strangers validation for trying to fuck young women? Am not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:32 AM
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What about the reasons I stated above. He just despises women for rejecting him throughout his youth and only accepting him once he got a high paying job?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 11:11 AM
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I don't believe a man who makes good money and dates a similar age woman who makes a lot less money is a winner. The only exception would be if the woman dated him when they were both young and he had nothing. But if a man works really hard on himself to accumulate wealth and ends up spending it on a woman his own age who wasen't there during his struggle, he's an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:20 PM
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You're acting as if those men dated women their own age they would not be paying. A ugly old women don't expect to be pandered with gifts by her wealthy husband, who was already rich when she decided to date him . Fact is they're still paying. At least with young, hot women the guy gets something in return. Hence the winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:59 PM
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I mean you just admitted that its very unlikely a man will be able to get a hot, younger woman. So if he manages to pull it off something most men are incapable of doing, he's anything but a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:36 PM
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Why the fuck is a man in his 40s trying to talk to women half his age? Because she's at her peak attractiveness, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:30 PM
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The mistake a lot of men with money make is that they assume because the woman is their age and not as attractive as the younger, models that the relationship is now genuine and not transactional. If she knew about your high paying job before dating deciding to date you, just assume she's a golddiger at which point you might ask yourself, if you're going to be in a transactional relationship, why not be in one with a young, hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:16 PM
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Probably not, And thats all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:58 PM
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Just like the young women being a golddigger. Same coin, different sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:35 PM
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I was just pointing out how comedic it is for women to claim that young women are never attracted to older men when they have themselves been attracted to older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:34 PM
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Its funny how so many women are like "older men are creepy and predatory and no young woman are not attracted to you, stop trying, you won't get them". "I know I used to date them".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:26 PM
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Yeah I know. But it don't always seem to work. I've warned a friend from not dating a woman with a whorish past but he still didn't give a shit about my opinion. Least I tried. Its like when you tell someone not to do something they want to do it even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:22 PM
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If you want to date someone in your league, then you don’t have to compensate and you can much more easily find an economically even relationship. You mean if a rich ugly dude dates an ugly, old woman she would not expect him to spend money on her, restaurants, gifts, jewelry etc. Or any money on her kids school, sport practises etc.? Thats a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:18 PM
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But if the 18 year old guy got no attention from women his age when he was poor then suddenly was pursued by them once he got a high paying job, would it not be reasonable of him to assume that the women his age pursuing him are golddiggers? Where were they when he was broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:15 PM
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Well then lets apply the same logic you just used to the scenario where the same man instead dates a overweight woman his own age. She gets, like you mentioned bags, cars and stuff. He gets what back, oh yes nothing. There's no longer a fair exchange. Therefore this kind of relationship, by your logic is predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:11 PM
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As for the money thing, I really don’t care if a hot young woman takes an old man’s money. How's this not considere predatory behaviour? I guess it don't matter when its the woman doing it. Anyways, the point I'm trying to make is that if the same guy was dating a fat, overweight, older woman she would also milk the guy for money. She would also expect him to spend money on her, her kids, friends, family etc. If he was working a minimum wage job she wouldn't be anywhere near him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:04 PM
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I'm just referring to anyone who chose to date you for your money/job and not mostly for your personality. Meaning if you only had enough money to get by and couldn't spend it on nice things for her she wouldn't date you. To me that's a golddigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:52 PM
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No, I’m not saying that young and hot means gold digger. Lol you literally just did. (legal, adult) sugar baby it’s not my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:41 PM
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And the point I am trying to get across is that if that ugly, old man broke up with the hot, young woman and started dating a old, unattractive woman. Will she have different intentions? Will she appreciate him for just his personality and not expect him to spend money or her, her family, friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:32 PM
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You mean you've never hinted to a guy that younger women only want you for your money? Whereas older women will appreciate you for your personality. Is this not a common belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:29 PM
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I agree with what you say. But that's not really the point I tried to bring up. Its basically, whether you're a young or old woman, you're telling me that if I date a younger woman she'll only want me for my money. Which then makes me wonder, are you implying that if I date a older women (or my age) she'll appreciate me for my personality and just my personality. Not my job or money. Meaning she'll have pure intentions and not the exact same intentions as the younger women. Thats the part I find…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:28 PM
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So like thats it? Don't date younger women because a bunch of bitter, feminist will view you as an exploiter. You don't have to date younger women to get their disproval. You have it by default just by not agreeing with their views.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:16 PM
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But you are telling men that young, hot means gold-digger whereas older, heavier, less attractive means will like your personality, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:09 PM
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Definitely for their money. I'm saying it makes no difference whether the woman pursuing is a young, hot model or an older, overweight woman. Their intentions are the same. Either way you won't be getting a woman who selected you for your looks/personality and nothing else, so why not pick the young, hot one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:05 PM
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It translates to playful, feminie behaviour. The only "I'm a strong, independent woman who doesn't need you" attitude is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:02 PM
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I wasen't referring to you. Just in general. Men warn other men of women with whorish pasts so its no different that women telling other women don't date older men. Not that it will stop us from pursuing since you can't convince every young women. Just like I can't convince all my guy friends to not date a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:01 PM
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I'll be real. I haven't heard them say it directly. But I have heard plenty of times something along the lines "don't date younger women because they'll only want you for your money". And this bring up the question, does this imply older women will want you for just your personality. Are their intentions more pure. Thats the bs part to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:58 PM
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I figured since they tell you "younger women only want you for your money" they are sort of implying that the older ones will appreciate you for your personality. If I'm wrong I'm wrong though. But thats the vibe I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:53 PM
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Fair enough. We see plenty of guys trying to warn other guys against dating reformed sluts so we can't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:52 PM
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There's usually a reason why, and that reason isn't always a positive one. You define whats positive for you right. Some people might considered looks, naivety, playfulness as positives and experience as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:50 PM
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She's making a rant on Snapchat or Instagram or something my dude. Are we just going to assume there aren't plenty of women just like here who don't post on social media? Like thats the only filter we have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:28 PM
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This should also applies to guys who pursue young, hot, barely legal women. If they can get them their standards are reasonable. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:06 PM
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