| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | [Discussion]Applying the sunk cost dilemma to seduction | mcsrobert | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 10:31 PM |
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| 3 | I'm proud of myself.She is marginally out of my league [...] No she is not, and quit telling yourself this. | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 04:31 PM |
| 2 | How do I Kino? [Tried the sidebar, link is dead] and Other Fun Questions.You're better off posting this in r/askseddit. | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 07:24 AM |
| 12 | A quick way to test attractionRaise your eyebrows, if she does it too, you should escalate. | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 01:18 PM |
| 12 | [FR] The No Fap Crew Are Going To Hate ThisI don't think you have the slightest idea what /r/nofap is about. Yes, some people have reported they gain more confidence around women, but this never is the reason to start with it. Most people at /r/NoFap have come to the conclusion that fapping is controlling their lives too much in one way or another. The reason to give up fapping is to get rid of an addiction and regain some control in their lives. I don't see the need to take a stab at them. It's similar to saying "Screw you people at AA!… | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 03:00 PM |
| 9 | [FR] 14 Rejections in One Night, and Not a Single Fuck Was GivenWouldn't open a set with the mindset "I'm going to get rejected". This is a very weak frame. Other then that, I agree with everything you say. | /r/seduction | 06/01/12 06:46 PM |
| 7 | The Effects of Quitting Porn and Masturbation for Six WeeksMight also want to x-post this in /r/pornfree. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Club, all rejected!! Why?I think you're treating this too much as some sort of magic formula that'll work as long as you follow the steps precisely... | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Saw this in the Louis CK AMA, thought it was applicable to seduction as well.tl;dr don't be a keyboard jockey. | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Growing attachment, losing attractionI don't think you really get what seduction is about. There is no "code", so I do wonder how you "recognized all the elements." People here are working on improving themselves. They're not trying to be something or someone they're not, but instead are trying to be a better version of themselves. While applying a lot of the stuff talked about here I can honestly say I've always stayed true to myself. OP is talking about the fact that girls don't want guys who are too needy or available. Having be… | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 01:39 AM |
| 7 | Date ideas over this winter that allow for KinoI've brought this up here a few times before, but I love playing some pool together: Competitive. Easy kino. Setting in which a drink or two is common. So many easy sexual puns to make. | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 01:17 AM |
| 2 | A little method I use to go from a quick coffee to date #1I would recommend only doing this if you actually have forgotten your wallet for two reasons: Girls can usually tell when you're lying. Lying messes up your inner congruence. | /r/seduction | 23/11/11 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Ladies and gentlemen, I ask for the cure to love-shyness.Did you actually read some of the posts in the side bar? Seems like a question for /r/askseddit if anything. | /r/seduction | 19/11/11 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Validation and the power of not doing itBut beasts in bed. At least in my experiences. | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 01:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Most Simple Opener Ever, Wind Up (Sort of) Hooking Up, Strange Hookup?Just tell her to. A lot of girls love being told what to do. | /r/seduction | 14/11/11 05:29 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Recovering AFC here who was skeptical of Attraction Assumption.I think the reason some people wait between text message is to create the idea that you're a really busy person who hardly has time to do as much as reply to a text message. By trying to set up such a frame the other person will start to feel it's a privilege to get attention from you and will start chasing you, rather then you chasing them. That said, I don't think it's necessary all the time. My text game is pretty decent and I feel you need to have a certain flow in the conversation for some … | /r/seduction | 14/11/11 05:24 AM |
| 1 | If you could distill your knowledge of seduction into 10 commandments what would they be?Check out the links in the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 04/11/11 01:55 AM |
| 3 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...What do you do when a girl shit tests for the second time after you've agreed and amplified the first time? Like: "How old are you?" "17." "Hahaha, but seriously, how old are you?" | /r/seduction | 28/10/11 08:24 AM |
| 1 | What NOT to do. Ever.tl;dr don't lie. | /r/seduction | 25/10/11 08:33 PM |
| 2 | flirting through skype?I'll be frank here, it sounds like a lot of trouble for one girl. When are you going back? What do you think the odds are of f-closing (again)? Also, wouldn't it make more sense to spend your time and effort on girls that are where you are living now? Sounds like you didn't have a hard time picking up random girls when you were in Europe the first time, why go for a different approach now? | /r/seduction | 18/10/11 01:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Casual, low pressure coffee date. A lesson in escalation.Thanks for this. Didn't read a lot of new things, but got a coffee date coming up on Friday and it's good too keep some of this stuff in mind, especially the seating. | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 10:25 AM |
| 6 | Where to now?Nope, just have her come pick her iPod up and then when she's there convince her to stick around for dinner. | /r/seduction | 17/10/11 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Just got a girl's number, AND FML.Just play it cool, nothing too lose right? However, don't press cancel in the future. ;-) | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 12:10 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion]Applying the sunk cost dilemma to seductionYou make a good point. Guess there's no way to come up with a clear point to move on to other girls other then 'early'. :P | /r/seduction | 15/10/11 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to hang out but I'm drawing a blank on things to doWhoa. My bad thought your reply was to a different comment of mine. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 02:23 AM |
| 0 | After eye contact IOIs in public places (walking to class,) it is often said to go and talk to her. My question is: ABOUT WHAT!?What you say hardly matters as long as you say it confidently. Don't over analyze it. | /r/seduction | 11/10/11 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Met a awesome girl at a show, need help!Yeah. Beginner questions like this should be posted in r/AskSeddit. You have her number, she wants you to call her. Don't over think stuff and just do it. | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Girl wants to hang out but I'm drawing a blank on things to doGoing to play some pool works well: have a few drinks while playing, which will make you both loosen up kino by helping her out make some easy sexual jokes, like how good she is with balls if it turns out to be terrible, pool's still a fun game :P | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Is post game forensics worth anything ?Average Frustrated Chump. A guy who lacks skills, and confidence when it comes to women. On a side note, if you aren't familiar with basic terminology yet you should probably post your questions in r/AskSeddit. | /r/seduction | 09/10/11 11:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Bad night goes ok until I royally fuck it upNot drinking too much helps a lot. It's a lot easier to keep your inner game straight throughout the night when you're sober (or just tipsy). | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 10:05 AM |
| 10 | Quick date tip: People watch other couples at the bar/restaurant. Make comments. Girls eat this up.I like the idea, sounds very natural even. Will surely play around with it. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 07:59 PM |
| 0 | How the fuck did this happen?Sounds like you didn't qualify enough. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Today I cried like a little bitch.Waitresses are paid to be friendly to you. So it's actually a really safe start if that makes sense. So if you're really anxious about starting a conversation with someone you don't know, it's a great place to start. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Today I cried like a little bitch.The best advice I can give you is "just fucking do it." If you want to talk to girls, talk to girls. If you want to greet random people on the street with a big smile, go walk around town with a big smile. The only thing stopping you from doing what you want here is yourself. Sure there'll be some awkward moments every now and then, but on the other hand you're going to create a lot of really awesome situations for yourself this way. Set up a simple short term goal for yourself and stick with it… | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel this way about # closes at parties?Yeah, just ask for a last name when you put them in your phone. If you ever forget a face, Facebook can work wonders. Actually forgot a face myself a while back and decided to started doing exactly this. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 06:10 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Very first cold approach! both success and failureJust keep in mind that if it doesn't go well with one girl, there's will always be plenty more girls out there. There'll be more times you mess stuff up, but that's the only way you'll learn and get better. Don't be too harsh on yourself about failing. Congratulations on approaching for the first time, better luck next time. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, please help me. I'm a freakin' mess.Happy to help, best of luck. :) | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, please help me. I'm a freakin' mess.This. I think your ego is getting in the way here. Watch from 41:20, the video should start there. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 08:25 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to girl being busy/working when I ask her to hang out.I've had much more success with setting up a date by calling her, rather then texting/IM her. It's a lot easier to figure out when it both suits you, and I guess it's less easy to decline. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 12:27 AM |
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