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Horrible nutrition education, easy sedentary lifestyles, the self-esteem and self-image movements, radical individualism and postmodernism, and the advent of DoorDash. All these things will be the death of Western culture.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 11:15 AM
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Might wanna get tested as I'm sure you are one of many.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:46 PM
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This can work but the problem is that many people (men and women both) get complacent in their marriage and stop trying. Both get old and fat and then there's no sex appeal and they become resentful of each other because they settled down too early.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 02:29 AM
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The current (and subsequent) generations are being raised with role models and media that tells women they are sexually and socially "just like men" and should behave accordingly, and tells men that their own masculinity is "toxic". No wonder.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 11:18 AM
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She was using the concept of a threesome to sabotage the relationship from the get go. As soon as you went for it she had the justification she needed to make you into the "bad guy" even though she was the one who needed the chaos in order to feel sexual.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:03 AM
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Can you get a restraining order against this woman? If so I would as she is clearly unbalanced.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 05:14 AM
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I think a side effect of applying your advice will be hundreds of men filing for divorce after they realize they were using supplemental porn to compensate for the fact they hardly ever got laid.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 05:00 AM
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Of course it would be a woman named Tammy.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 05:19 AM
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This is also why progressives want to restrict or eliminate online anonymity. How else can they bully and harass those with dissenting opinions?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:59 PM
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When you do what you're supposed to, nobody gives a fuck. You weed-and-feed your lawn, signal when you change lanes, and pay your taxes? Big deal. You're supposed to do that shit. If you fuck up and act like a manchild people want to make movies about your "story". Unfortunately many people have bought into the reward cycle of acting like a piece of shit and getting attention for it. In reality, your barometer for success should be the level to which people essentially ignore your existence. If …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:33 PM
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To paraphrase, "never let the truth get in the way of a good story."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:45 PM
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I know dozens of people of both genders who attempted suicide "during puberty". Several succeeded. The cultural and personal trials of puberty and high school are not a uniquely feminine problem by any stretch. Moreover, growing up I never heard anybody use that phrase to insult somebody's ability at something. They were much harsher.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 03:24 PM
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I think Reddit is a great thing (otherwise I wouldn't be here) but this lack of critical thinking is one of the things that Reddit definitely promotes. Silos or insular behavior, whatever you want to call it. The average reddit user doesn't have to engage in a shred of introspection. Just look at how circlejerky all the political subs are.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 06:36 PM
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Problem is they've been saying this type of procedure (or maybe RISUG, can't recall which) would be out and approved "the year after next" for over a decade now. Go back and listen to Loveline from like 2001 and Dr. Drew references it being "almost ready for market".
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 02:57 PM
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I don't disagree with what you're saying, but the problem is most people do not approach marriage that way.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:04 PM
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People get married largely for sake of consistency and ease. They are "settling in" and adopting what they assume will be an easier more routinized lifestyle. This is antithetical to the successful principles you are talking about here because what you are describing requires work. People get married and get complacent. They forget that it should be something that you work on everyday. Pretty soon things get out of hand and the man gets passive, doesn't lead, maybe slacks a bit in his job, and t…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 10:06 PM
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Really 90% of Red Pill is just "don't give up and let yourselves go, you lazy fucks!" No wonder there is so much hate for it on Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:26 AM
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...and when you whine and complain to a woman, it infantilizes you in her eyes. This is anathema to a woman you are trying to seduce or have an adult relationship with. If you put her in the role of your mother of course she isn't going to be attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:32 PM
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Is this self-described "sweet and innocent"? While willingly biting the pillow through anal and providing you on-demand oral? Methinks even a 21-year-old woman isn't capable of that level of cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:59 AM
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You'll probably seldom hear someone outside of the internet literally say that phrase. You're more likely to encounter excessive demands of political correctness, people trying to discredit your experiences and perceptions as being somehow less valid if you are in a "majority" class/group, or people refusing to acknowledge criticism of any kind leveled against a minority group, regardless of context, intention, supporting evidence, etc. Example - Try presenting an opinion (virtually any opinion …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:04 AM
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Putting aside some of the vitriol in this rant, it is a good overall point. I think that critics of TRP are often lacking in substantive rebuttal of points like these. They get lost in some of the seeming anger and bitterness that comes through in the tone of these rants. However, its clear that critical thinking is present in your assessment. TRP is, on the whole, about critical thinking and applying it to social and sexual dynamics. So many of us go through life without the slightest bit of in…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 05:54 AM
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SJW types desire a permanent victim class that serves as the privileged arbiter of what is and is not "OK" on a case by case basis. To summarize, only establishment males can be "victimizers". Counter-culture females can never be abusers because they are just "exploring".
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:33 AM
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Dancing with topless models in front a white wall is more effective.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:52 PM
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Some campuses are taking it to extremes on this policy idea - and from a purely legal standpoint one can see why. It is to their advantage to pacify the loudest complaints, to stay out of the news, and to practice extreme "CYA". The implications are fucking ridiculous however. I was taking one online graduate/professional development course this semester and was required to complete a one hour training on the new policy guidelines for preventing sexual violence, otherwise my course credit/enroll…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:20 PM
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This is key. Can we just have an effort at honest parenting in this country? Conservative values result in people making their sons blue pill to the extreme - teaching them women belong on a pedestal and sex outside of marriage is sin. Instead of pretending like it is based out of some kind of virtue, fathers should be telling their sons not to commit too early because they will later find themselves wishing they had banged more women.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 05:22 AM
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This is one thing that irritates me about people's opposition to TRP. Ultimately TRP is just a framework to enable people to make more informed choices. God forbid men have a clear picture of the types of choices they may be faced with and what consequences await them.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:12 PM
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A woman will accommodate and justify her own actions. The buck, however, stops with you. She "needs" to take that sick day because she just doesn't feel good. You, however, just need to toughen up. She "deserves" to eat chocolate cake because she is having a tough week. You need to maintain and not splurge on ridiculousness. She can't be held responsible for making a stupid decision because you should have done something to stop her, etc. As men we can shrug at the seeming ridiculousness of this…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:54 PM
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The fact is a core constituency of gamers were mad because they don't want every single facet of their lives turned into some bullshit political cause. Whereas the SJW cannot participate in any activity without trying to politicize and "reform" it. It is a mental disorder on their part. If certain individuals want to try and build an ultra-feminist "voice" in gaming, they should make their own fucking games and let the market decide. Oh wait, that's not what they're doing - because it's easier j…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:23 PM
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Excerpts from the Apple Store terms and conditions fine print.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 02:38 PM
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I'm somewhat baffled by the motivation for it, but some women really get into one-upping eachother even with regards to something as negative and stigmatized as victimization. An anecdotal example of this was a small gathering of friends I was at several years ago, in which a friend decided to finally reveal a terrible history of sexual assault that occurred when she was a small child. She was getting therapy for it etc. and was finally ready to tell her friends. Immediately this other girl in t…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:21 PM
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Next year: California introduces a "consent form" required for all sexual acts. Pink copy goes to the woman, yellow to the man, white copy is filed with the state.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:56 PM
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They probably weren't. Women and men who lazily fall into the "mother/son" dynamic will ultimately never have a productive and healthy romantic relationship. A woman who assumes a paternalistic role eventually finds it impossible to be attracted to the man in a sexual way and thus is probably just keeping him around as an errand boy / shill / orbiter until some point at which she either discards him or he wakes up and realizes how little he is getting out of their arrangement.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:50 PM
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Burden of legal proof means nothing to SJW types. One of the things espoused by feminists and others is that all rape victims should only be approached with the assumption of full belief of their story. While I completely understand this from a victim counseling standpoint, the problem comes when this (possibly erroneous) assumption is projected over all aspects of the situation. Namely because the assumption that the victims story must be true implies an presumption of guilt of the accused, whi…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:09 AM
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I believe it will come out eventually but thus far it is the medical equivalent of Duke Nukem Forever or Chinese Democracy. I have archived Loveline episodes in which Dr. Drew was talking about this coming out "within the next few years" ...back in 2002.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:39 PM
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Which is hilarious because RISUG isn't something the end user can even fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:36 PM
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This works. Three to one ratio on texts, deflecting and ignoring verbal shit tests and baiting, etc. She will interpret your nonchalance as strength and whatever complaint she had in the first place will either unravel under her own second guessing or become moot.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 02:52 AM
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This is the same thing as the media reporting that "the media" hasn't covered something fairly.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 03:50 AM
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Fuck this shit. I had never heard of this cunt bag until reddit told me about all her drama. I'm glad for the video but shouldn't people just vote with their wallets and not purchase her shitty text-based game? Backlash against corruption and nepotism is a nice thought, but ironically, what was somewhat of an insular community of indie tards will now be receiving all kinds of free click traffic and buzz that they wouldn't have otherwise. And the chick at the center of it seems like an attention …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:04 AM
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There is a troubling "trend" which apparently has a latent effect (or deliberate goal) of removing all expectations of women whatsoever. Allow me to explain. One timely example - yesterday on NPR I heard about a study that examined the relationship between womens' use of Facebook and their likelihood to develop eating disorders. Now this may have scientific value and whatnot. The problem is that when the author of this study was trying to summarize the implications of the study, she said that a …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 12:06 PM
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It is somewhat of a bizarre line of thinking. On one hand, leftist feminists are saying "This institution is terrible, classist, patriarchal, and outdated" and they're usually the same people also saying "the defining issue of our time is making sure gays have equal access to said institution". Everyone has the right to enter into contractual agreements, in my opinion, even if the agreement is a bad idea. But the dissonance in these feminist positions on the issues reveal that they are probably …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 01:41 PM
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Keep her as a plate and hope she gives the same red flags to the next poor sap she tries to hitch her narcissism/entitlement wagon to.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:30 PM
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I think this is one of the parts people struggle with about TRP. The more self-sufficient, independent, and content you are already, the better you will do with picking up women. Women will automatically be interested in a man who is competent, successful, and comfortable in his own skin. The fewer fucks you give, the more interested they will be.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:19 PM
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For extra bonus "double standards" hilarity, go into any thread where a guy is looking for advice for trying to politely convince his girlfriend to try anal or swallowing or something. The hivemind will pummel him into the ground as literally Hitler and a rapist. But this guy's girlfriend can bark up the "sanctioned cheating" tree as much as she wants because she's just sharing her desires and feelings.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:18 PM
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Other people have since replied and recommended against explicitly mentioning anything, as this can be construed as somewhat of a passive aggressive tactic. Perhaps it is better to just be subtle and only insist on time alone in which she will naturally wonder what you could possibly be doing etc. All I know is what worked in my situation. I let on, not pointedly (but in as nonchalant and disinterested a way as possible), that other potential mates suggested interest in me. My wife was suddenly …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 09:14 PM
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Some good points here. It is the fault of both individuals in this relationship that things got this way. People of both genders often get married and then use that as an excuse to stop trying - whether its eating too much, deciding to never put out, or lapsing into complacency and "beta" behaviors. All of these things are going to essentially kill the attraction and sex life. Married men need to take care not to fall into this trap of sex becoming a reward mechanism the the wife doles out spari…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 08:01 PM
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Basically. Some people are very good at arguing. Doesn't mean their reasoning is sound or their moral position is better.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 07:43 PM
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Educate me. What is a better course of action. Serious question.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:54 PM
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If he is just throwing this spreadsheet at her without further incident, I agree. But let's suppose he levels with his wife and says, "We currently have sex once every three or four weeks. I need sex x times per week. I have other sources if you can't accommodate that." Seems like it would work to jumpstart dread.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:06 PM
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There is merit to this idea. I have gone through spells in married life not too different from what is being referenced here. I did "keep track" on a calendar for proof and it was bad times. However, I don't believe the correct solution is "confront wife with meticulously gathered data and graphs". The correct solution is to start working out, improve your diet, start going out alone and offer no explanation for your absence etc. Maybe casually work into dinner conversation how the intern at wor…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:48 PM
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It doesn't surprise me that TRP is polarizing. It doesn't surprise me that most people initially react to TRP with anger. Detractors want to label TRP as a bunch of "angry guys". But if anything, TRP is a positive worldview because it shifts ones locus of control from extrinsic to intrinsic. On the macro level, TRP is a realization that the "power" others hold over you is largely an illusion. You were raised with a societal paradigm that told you if you were nice, pleasant, and abundantly helpfu…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 01:28 PM
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Very much this. Post college dulthood forces people to jettison some of their vitriol over these perceived oppressions amd focus instead on the pragmatic like paying the goddamn bills.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 03:04 AM
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Women and people in general easily become complacent and stop trying. It's sad but true. Up your own game and improve yourself is the only option. Maybe you will inspire someone else to finally get fed up with their own slovenly state and get on a treadmill.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:56 AM
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Media outlets often succeed in consolidating dissenting voices (those that dissent from a dominant agreed-upon narrative) into a single label. Then they can sling mud at the label instead of actually having meaningful debate about the issues. Another example? Circa 2005-2009, a growing number of Americans found themselves in the category of "disillusioned" with the political system - independents, libertarians, some conservatives, some people more in the "populist" category. Though these are dif…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:46 PM
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That EMSK post assumes that both parties in a relationship are even consciously aware of (or wish to be aware of) the psychology behind their decisions. In my experience, most people (of both genders) can't be bothered to think about the reasoning behind their own decisions. After all, it's easier not to. In both short and long term relationships it is entirely possible that one party doesn't want to get into the psychology of it. He or she may just want to act impulsively or instinctively. So d…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 02:42 PM
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My father-in-law likes to say that life is "an elaborate scam designed to take your money". In the context of the marriage paradigm being discussed here, that's essentially right. But it's more than your money. It's your autonomy and happiness. Keeping up with the Joneses is a fools game. And it's a game that comes with marriage automatically. The two are inextricable. It's not just the woman's fault. It's the fault of all parties' expectations - the woman's, yours, society's. I am relatively ha…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:35 PM
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It no longer allows anything to be put in its trunk, is what you're trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 01:31 PM
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Spot on, OP. Can confirm that this works. No two relationships are exactly alike, but all married men should rest assured that their wives want a man who does masculine things, who is straight forward in his intentions and interactions, and who leads. Like OP, I used to think I was being "laid back" and "easy to please" but my wife consciously and sub-consciously viewed that as a vacuum in leadership, and what I was implicitly doing was putting the weight of decision-making on her when I should …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 02:17 PM
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Guys on average are more able to reach shit on higher shelves, and open pickle jars without asking for help. Privilege.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 01:46 PM
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From the "Glossary" on the sidebar >>> Rationalization Hamster - The tendency for women to use rationalization to resolve mental conflict and avoid cognitive dissonance. The core mechanism that allows women to say one thing and do a different thing. The term "hamster" comes from the circular logic- the imagery of a hamster running endlessly around on a little wheel.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 05:36 PM
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Same thing works with marketing products. The fact that other women want something is the most powerful motivator to make a woman want something.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:15 AM
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Dr. Drew used to always say that women who ask for these arrangements are trying to sabotage the relationship. I didn't realize it at the time, but he was essentially describing a mega shit test.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 07:23 PM
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Just to clarify, do you suspect she is trying to entrap you? Or she has some other poor bastard on the hook?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:52 PM
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Women are perceptive of the relative value of their peers and they are excellent at "keeping score". They know exactly where they stand in terms of relative value and attractiveness. She knows which of her friends have nicer tits than her, which ones are skinnier, which ones swallow and do anal, etc. and she will try to conceal from you whichever aspects make her "look bad" by comparison. Similarly, she also knows exactly how much money all of your male friends (and all of her friends boyfriends…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 08:31 PM
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Men with small dicks, beer guts, and crappy jobs demand society respect REAL BEAUTY.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:35 PM
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Boys have always fashioned play weapons. Before there were automatic handguns, children fashioned revolvers or rifles. Before that, toy swords or axes. The children of cavemen probably fashioned toy clubs. That this is somehow unacceptable behavior these days is patently ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 03:58 PM
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Ted is a gigantic puss. Every woman I've ever watched the show with thinks he is emotional, sentimental, and un-masculine to the point of annoyance. Someone needs to break it to Josh Radnor that he's basically this generation's David Schwimmer.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 07:46 PM
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I have personally encountered several women who claimed to be pacifists but were equally outraged when their significant other wouldn't pick a fight over a perceived insult to them: As in, some guy in a bar calls her a name, and she expects the boyfriend to kick his ass to defend her honor. Violence shouldn't be a fucking "plot device" in the lives of the vapid. Anybody with some goddamned sense knows to avoid a fight at all costs, as there is very little on this earth that is worth physical alt…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:59 AM
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Being fat is somewhat like being poor. Some don't have to work to be wealthy or skinny - they were just born that way. Others have to work their asses off to get there. Life isn't "fair" that way. Ergo, if it's admissible to judge the suitability of a potential mate based on his occupational prestige or net worth, it's equally admissible to judge the suitability of a potential mate based on her physical fitness.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 10:28 PM
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Think about it as building capacity and building competence. Women are automatically attracted to competence and confidence. If you do things for yourself, women noticing is just a side effect. Basically assume all your insecurities (whatever is uncomfortable for you to face about yourself) are true. Find a way to get financially fit. Save and invest money. Make more. If you lack education, get some. Hone your skillset. Become "handy" at various things. Learn how to wrench a car, do some light c…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 08:39 PM
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Wives/LTR will also get pissed if you don't act attracted enough to them. It's almost as if women want to keep you wanting them constantly, but keep you at arms length at the same time. TL;DR - Women want to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 08:30 PM
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If you had to collectively describe mainstream reddit's "alternate strategies" for life it would involve socialist politicians, guaranteed income and free everything for everybody, free weed for everybody etc. Basically take a below average intelligence undergrad student's opinions on everything and apply it to the world. That's reddit's "alternate strategy"
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 03:33 PM
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Red pill is an often depressing reality to accept because it forces one to confront many uncomfortable things. 1) We are often slaves to our biology, more than we realize, and more than most people wish to admit. 2) Everything is perishable. There is no such thing as getting into a perfectly fulfilling relationship with a smoking hot woman and then "coasting" for the rest of your life. Her attraction to you is in peril from day one, and her physical attractiveness to you is an asset that will de…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 11:01 PM
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I don't think it is that cut and dry. It is highly politicized and the only thing you can say about the term definitively is that it describes continental origin. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African_American#Terminology
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 10:50 PM
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He should consider this payback for Monkeybone.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 04:45 PM
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It's the same backwards ass logic that causes idiots in the US to get confused (or even angrily object) when the "Arab-looking guy" from Tunisia or the "white guy" from Johannesburg identify themselves as "African American". Those who get most angered by apparent stereotypes often enforce and propagate them the most.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 03:28 PM
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This is depressing.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 12:55 PM
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Feminists claim that putting any requirements on a prospective mate objectifies women somehow. The irony is that the opposite is true and their insistence on this principle actually does more to objectify women. People like this commenter are essentially demanding that women must not be evaluated by any performance-based criteria. You are not allowed to evaluate them at all in fact! Just appreciate them for their intrinsic features and feel blessed to merely be in their presence. Behold their na…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 02:28 PM
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I think you're pointing out something important here. Women are much more likely to date an older partner as well. There are several reasons for this, but it automatically implies more sexual experience on that older partner's part, unless he is some kind of bizarre "late bloomer". Women are apparently heavily tolerant of guys who have been with dozens of partners. Either they don't care, or they can't even be bothered to ask, because they see "life experience", status, wealth, and a number of o…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 05:01 PM
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This. Various media outlets have been saying "The Male Pill is just on the horizon, probably available within 2 years" for literally 15 years now.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 05:48 AM
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Doesn't American Beauty fit some of this description, to an extent? Lester realizes his relationship is largely a sham and he is disempowered, while his wife is domineering and emasculates him. He changes the entire way he approaches life, takes control, starts lifting weights, attempts to fuck a younger woman, etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:15 PM
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One theory, supported by quite a bit of data, states that the initial suggestion of the wife in this scenario to open up the relationship was really an attempt to sabotage it or introduce chaos into the relationship. I'm somewhat skeptical of this scenario being true in the first place, but if it is, it seems to fall in line pretty nicely with that theory.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 02:58 PM
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Except for men that they find attractive. Just try to get a woman of any age to say something bad about George Clooney (age 52) even though it is well documented that he frequently bangs 18 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 02:31 AM
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More like time is the great equalizer. They have their time and we have ours.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 04:48 AM
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Attractive girls age 18-25 can bring essentially nothing else to the table other than looks, youth, and "confidence" and they will be richly rewarded. Gradually, and more in the 30-50 age bracket, those women will gradually lose their looks, while men will generally start to gain more social capital at that age, usually by virtue that they have progressed to attain a better job or societal position, to improve their value proposition. Obviously there are outlying (uncommon) cases of young men ha…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 08:48 PM
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There's that old saying that goes something like, "Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Inevitably, both are disappointed." This is the biggest problem with marriage. Your woman's opinion of you will gradually and unfailingly decrease, since she essentially sees you as a project that she has failed at. All the things she doesn't like about you, she has somehow failed to mold or fix. While men can improve ourselves over time, our in…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 01:05 PM
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TL;DR - If you ignore biology and rely on a woman to categorically tell you what other women want, you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 02:03 PM
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It is a ridiculous concept to us, but I have read some studies indicating that women's sex drive almost universally decreases over the span of a relationship (one study said about 4% per month, and you can imagine how that adds up rather quickly over many years). I have also heard a stat claiming a large percentage of lesbian couples stop having sex entirely after a certain point in the relationship. Obviously there must be exceptions to this pattern because there are old and long-married people…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 04:54 AM
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Inversely then, if your girlfriend/wife is the primary breadwinner, both of your net happiness is going to be impacted in a negative way. I asked about this in /r/askTRP once and got a less than satisfactory answer. The question still remains, how can you assert dominance if there is a power imbalance in which your female partner earns the majority of your combined incomes? I would argue it makes it almost impossible to institute TRP principles in other facets of your relationship. You can try t…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 04:31 PM
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There are already very effective anti-rape devices on the market. They're called handguns.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 01:04 PM
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Good on you, but it seems like there might also be some other (unmentioned) factors here? I am skeptical that the entire upswing in your relationship stems simply from you suggesting you could go fuck other women if you wanted.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 09:36 PM
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I'm going to need to refer to this post later. Like many facets of TRP, I initially wanted to object but then found that it explained many things I cannot deny.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/13 03:19 PM
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That seems relatively ironic considering the Tyler Durden character said things like "Self-improvement is masturbation".
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 10:59 AM
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To give yourself a hilarious and infuriating contrast to this, try making a statement about women wearing make-up "for men" or "to be more attractive to men". 9 out of 10 women will suddenly develop a pissy/condescending tone and say something like "I don't do it for men, I do it for myself" etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 10:58 AM
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In general, beware people (of both genders) who have more of a "friend" dynamic with their parent than a parent/offspring dynamic. It leads to all manner of less-than-healthy things.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:45 PM
6

This has always been "the great equalizer" in my opinion. Guys age 16-21 (and sometimes even older) are seen as awkward or "not bringing much to the table" since they haven't self-actualized yet and, more importantly, they don't have that high power career yet and don't have all their shit together yet. Conversely, women in this same age group are at the peak of their desirability. The one thing that guys have going for us is that in the long game, this dynamic inverts itself. Even a gray-haired…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 01:31 PM
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Assuming this is true, the lady was obviously insane and highly immoral for trying to milk him in this way. At the same time, he seems to go through a great deal of kabuki theater just to set himself up for maximum enjoyment of the "punchline". Why go to the trouble of waiting days, coming back, getting her the flowers and whatnot, just to make her madder? Just lay the truth out there and insist she verify her claim with a DNA test.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 01:24 PM
3

I have one but never use it. The feed is basically just like a shittier, highly personalized version of reddit. Pictures of peoples' kids/dogs/dinner and a bunch of ridiculous political statements, email-forward-quality jokes and other irrelevant bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 03:26 PM
2

Interesting. Thanks for the clarification. I trust you have some sort of clinical training that informs this description. Even in light of the information in your post, isn't the 4chan post still inaccurate? The OP describes it as categorically not being painful (a subjective oversimplification) and asserts that depression arises by one specific set of circumstances. This just isn't true.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 02:08 PM
3

OK, indulge me. What is the "more correct" theoretical framework?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 12:57 PM
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The OP of that screenshot post categorically misunderstands clinical depression. It is not a "channel your anger" type of problem. That's like telling an alcoholic to just stop drinking and be a better person - some of them might be able to quit cold turkey but they still have the disease.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 11:16 AM
2

You can begin to understand why more and more married people (assuming both work) are choosing to somehow evenly split expenses and then keep their own bank accounts to do with as they please. It removes some of the fuel for fights / bargaining / guilt / resentment etc. I am a cheap bastard and not very materialistic and so I purchase almost no durable consumer goods or recreational items period.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 11:42 AM
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