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THEORYmd8716/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 04:37 PM
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The funny thing about young people on reddit is how they assume they are experts in everything and try to talk down to you about something you have extensive personal experience with. That's when you hit em with from the top rope with the hammer of life experience and make them look completely stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:06 PM
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Actually, I do, because I got married in foreign, non-western country. Soo....I've literally done the thing I'm talking about, meanwhile you're an idiot on the internet ignorantly spouting off about things you don't know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:59 PM
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Let me try to explain. What happened was you went from partners to family. Someone stood in front of the world and formally declared you as theirs. Yeah, you could say you're together forever, but those are just words. Like I'm a complete stranger, and if I met you and your spouse, I'd automatically give your relationship more legitimacy because you actually walked the walk. Marriage is an action. Like how you can tell a kid he's your kid all day, but adopting a him is an action and a declaratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:37 PM
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And plenty of people in non western countries are under insane pressure to get married young and provide grandkids, fulfilling their filial piety duties. So, what you said was a completely empty statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:17 PM
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Sounds like your quarrel is with the family courts, not with the institution of marriage. FYI if you're unmarried, you'll still end up in family court if you have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:12 PM
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Uh, bad news, dude, the government has that level of control whether you get married or not. The only thing that marriage does is change how you and your partner can operate within that scope of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:09 PM
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That's exactly what I did. House has doubled in value since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:40 PM
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The thing is, you only need to get 1 yes to be a success.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:26 AM
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If I was going into a LTR with the mindset that I want everything to be equal and be able to walk away cleanly, and my partner felt the same, then that's the kind of relationship we would have. Careful, pragmatic, and guarded. Plus, most normal people are compatible to fit in a relationship like that. Personally, I would never want a LTR like that. If I'm going to share my life with someone, it has to be a burning lifelong inferno of cult-like devotion and passion where our entire fucking souls …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:56 AM
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Nobody can dominate you without your consent. If she's trying to dominate you unsuccessfully, she's wasting her own time and her own youth pursuing something that's leading nowhere, while you have sexual access to her. If anything, you come out ahead in that scenario. If she gets attention from hot dude and cheats, she was always a cheater, whether she was hot or not. Even average woman get such opportunities. If she thinks you're beneath her, she'll have always thought you were beneath her. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:32 AM
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I've never been crazy about any of the superhero bullshit that's been infecting cinema for the last 20 or so years (even though I grew up a fan of the originals in the early/mid 90s) but I will say the sole exception is Dr. Strange series. Benedict Cumberbatch is easily the best lead actor across all of marvel and the stories are amazing. Honorable mentions: I DID like Iron Man when it first came out, but I didn't like any of it after that point. That humor got old fast. Same with Guardians of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:33 PM
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The tell is accountability. If a woman takes full accountability for where she currently is in life and claims to be fine with it, then she is probably happy. They are in the minority and are usually too busy with their lives to sit around and bitch on reddit or other social media about men. If she refuses accountability, blames it on men being trash, and proclaims that she's better off alone and happily single, she's 100% secretly bitter and unhappy. These are women with less than stellar perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:05 PM
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You're indifferent because you're thinking about a baby in an abstract sense. It doesn't exist yet, it doesn't have a face or a name. Let me put it this way, when successful career actress Eva Mendes was asked about kids when she was young and single, she said she didn't want to ever have a baby. Once she was in a relationship with Ryan Gosling, she started saying "I want to have his babies". It's called a paradigm shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:42 PM
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Before my wife met me, she had her own career, made her own money, was pretty independent, but she did it because she had to. It ultimately made her unhappy, unfulfilled, and honestly kinda antagonistic and bitchy from the stress. We met, got married, and had kids, and she left the workforce. Once there was no longer the pressure to provide, her personality changed for the better as she felt happy, fulfilled, secure, and "whole". She embraced her feminine role wholeheartedly. Instead of grinding…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:23 PM
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Wouldn't there be a lot less competition in a demographic collapse, though? Especially when you consider how many families are falling out of the middle class and can't afford tutoring, extra-curriculars, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:07 AM
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Eh, I had my kids 10 years ago, and I can't imagine the world being that radically different 12 years from now when they'll be entering the workforce. Honestly, the only thing I feel is really fundamentally different in the last 25 years is that we now have smartphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:32 AM
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It's an open secret that Verstappen has a degree of autism, which manifests as a driving savant. Wouldn't exactly trust his example in any other aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:28 AM
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There's a selection bias though with reddit women. Like if you go to a more rural blue collar type of place, those women would see that type of funny, charismatic man that internet women like as kind of effeminate and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:18 PM
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Honestly, certain women tend to get away with being boring themselves by placing the onus on the man to be the interesting one. But she's the common denominator because she sucks the air out of the room and turn off others. I've never met a legit interesting, fun woman that ever complained about others being boring. They make their own fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:29 PM
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Nah, they're pretty relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:02 PM
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Uh... sure. Merry Christmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:04 AM
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My thought is that your insecurities are running wild in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:50 AM
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You seem to be having trouble keeping up. Maybe you're a little too out of your depth for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:41 AM
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I'm not telling anybody what they want or worrying about their life. Idk how you got that from the words that I wrote. What I'm saying is that people who are constantly on the internet and socially incentivized to put forth the image of the unbothered strong independent single who makes their own happiness are probably the ones most likely to make an ill-advised choice out of pride and then regret it later on. Of course, they never talk about the regret. You only see the fronting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 06:35 AM
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I'll take vicarious Christmas joy, over no joy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:31 AM
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"Some people" spend all their time capping on social media for validation. Never settling is one of those things that gets up votes and likes when you're still young and have options, but once you're actually staring down the abyss, it's a much different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:27 AM
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I was watching SNL at the time and was pissed that they interrupted the broadcast to talk about that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:04 PM
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American women at the top of the privilege hierarchy in America have ALWAYS exhibited veiled hate and bigotry toward people who don't look like them. In their eyes, these people are the help. Oh, they'll pretend like they're progressive, open-minded, and love everyone, but the fangs will come out when a woman they perceive as less-than starts to get uppity and won't stay in her lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:00 PM
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Becky starting to get the fangs out, lol. Why would I cry? Your hatefulness is your problem, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:44 PM
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This feels like an offshoot of Godwin's law; the longer an internet discussion goes on, the probability of a comment mentioning Andrew Tate becomes 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:34 PM
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This sounds like how people used to talk about gay marriage. And before that, interracial dating. "I don't care just don't shove it in my face by discussing it in public" tbh you sound kinda bigoted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:44 PM
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Why should he stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:37 PM
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It was a dumb, ignorant topic to begin with. No amount of discussion would have saved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:52 PM
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Wonder how that's working out for them. It isn't looking good from what I can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:15 PM
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To paraphrase a quote, It's difficult to get a redditor to understand something when their entire argument depends on not understanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:07 PM
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Oh, so all of your anecdata is taken from whatever random nameless town in flyover country you happen to be living in. Where you can also apparently say anything you want to win whatever argument you're in, because you wont name the town. Convenient. but critically think about why you don’t hear of them and that is 100% by design. Using phrases you clearly don't know the meaning of isn't a good look. So these clubs are only plentiful, successful, and completely hidden all over the country. But a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:03 PM
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You don't see the issue because you have zero business sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:32 AM
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I'm sure that club serves a niche, but that's 1 club of maybe a handful serving the population of an entire city. As opposed to how many straight clubs serving the entire city? The proportion is way lopsided. Idk maybe try some critical thinking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:20 AM
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Nah, like a dude who sells cars or something and makes bank at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:48 AM
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Mad respect for staying true to this preference. Side question: what about hustler type dudes who sell stuff, where do they fall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:28 AM
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Thank you for your service 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:29 PM
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The male solution is sex tourism or passport bro'ing. But at least that's more pragmatic than self delusion. Black pill is rock bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:27 PM
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Yes, for both men and women. The men get called on their bullshit but not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:38 PM
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The vast majority of unsuitable people don't think they are the problem. That's my point, they never say "finally" because they themselves fall short and it just never works out. Or they get into the LTR and it falls apart, and they blame the other person. It's never them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:30 PM
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You know, we see a lot about how OLD has so many bad matches from the female perspective, but I'm starting to realize that there's proportionally just as many shitty/trash women on there, too. Like there are a LOT of unsuitable, undesirable women in the dating market. But they don't get highlighted because the guys they want to get with will still have sex with them (because it's basically a layup), but then next/ghost them afterward. Or relegate her to FWB, depending on if she can play along. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:04 PM
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Cool story bro 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:08 PM
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Turn off. Don't get me wrong, I like women with a little bit of a strong/spicy personality, but I need feminine energy that is complementary to mine. Like their natural state should be warm and sweet. Like I'll take a mid looking feminine girl next door over a hot, combative, ambitious career woman boss babe type with a gym body that wants to be part of a power couple. They just operate in fundamentally different paradigms in how they approach and live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:47 AM
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Idc, you asked a question and I answered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:47 AM
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East Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:24 AM
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Idk, the hooker aesthetic has its appeal every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:20 AM
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You need to work in parallel and not in a linear fashion. Try to actively be hitting up 5 girls at the same time. One of em's bound to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:14 AM
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I do appreciate it when simp-adjacent men jump on these landmines to protect the rest of us. Cause there's no fucking way in hell I'd tolerate that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:12 AM
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I think so. Not only do I get pride out of what I do, but I get respect from society, and it gives me a UMC+ income. Like, I get internal, external, AND pragmatic validation from my career. It's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:03 AM
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Yes. Cast them off onto an island of lepers and misfits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:37 PM
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I don't feel bad for them. In 2023, most single women exist primarily to labor and consume. This is a multibillion dollar industry driven off of female insecurity. Personally, I think they should be spending more money. Better they put their money into the economy rather than, idk, save it, leave it to their kids, or buy real estate or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah, he handled it well. I mean the fact that she posts on TwoX means he dodged a massive bullet. It's funny how they say dating is hell, but can't understand how much of that result is self-induced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:23 PM
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What if he doesn't want her there overnight, though? If the genders were flipped and he was trying to stay at her place after getting denied sex, is she an asshole for not wanting that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:06 PM
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You can be polite to people but this universal expectation that everyone be kind is naive and ridiculous. But expected in 2023. You just can't be real with people anymore. Btw, your version of "nice" basically sounds like a company exit interview. It sounds fake and forced, like you're some corporate stooge from HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:02 PM
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You seem to have issues with reading comprehension, so I'll be ending my part of this conversation now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:08 AM
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I didn't say she was. You seem to have trouble with reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:03 AM
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Nobody said she wasn't allowed to, or that she was wrong. What's with this weird need to make her into some kind of victim, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:40 PM
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Were you not implying the woman would be unbothered after laughing with her friends? Or was that a separate idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:22 AM
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Nah, that's a bit too performative to actually be unbothered. Actual unbothered would just be a slight moment of confusion, shrug, and go on about your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:14 AM
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=charge%20it%20to%20the%20game https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Floozy (use the 2nd definition for that one)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:54 AM
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That's the VA loan. We still have that, my house is mortgaged on one. I put 0% down on a 800k+ mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:51 AM
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Personally, I'd put in just enough charm to have a viable substitute ready to go when your current relationship fizzles out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:47 AM
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Charge it to the game and do better with the next floozy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:45 AM
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Nah, childfree ppl have a tendency to go into any thread about kids and pontificate about why they won't have them, even though nobody asked and nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:37 AM
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This is another good example of "watch what women do, not what they say". I have to laugh at all the women saying they'd love a gym just for women where they can be free of the male gaze and would happily join, but I think it's cap. If that was a popular sentiment, women's gyms would be making bank everywhere. The honest truth is that the population of women who want the male gaze on them (even if they say they don't), the women who just don't care about men being there, or the women who don't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:29 AM
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The health, safety & stability of my future children is always going to be a priority for me. "Won't someone think of the children?" I wouldn’t describe this as « frantically working hard to build insurance policy » but more as a woman who wants to do the best she can to increase revenue streams to protect her family. Hey, whatever you need to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:58 PM
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You are both saying opinions and being a condescending ass. The two are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:39 AM
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Why do you assume you would be infantalized or be financially abused by someone you chose to marry? You seem absolutely terrified of these things to the point of being paranoid and letting it drive your life decisions. Idk personally I'd hate to be married to a woman that couldn't trust me enough to be vulnerable or rely on me. Like why tf would you stay with me if you couldn't trust me? Meanwhile she's frantically working hard to build up a financial insurance policy in case I fuck up and prove…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:43 PM
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Nah, a grifter would have fed her ego and kept her on the hook until she wised up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:27 AM
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Shohei Ohtani signed with the Dodgers. They better get this man a fuckin chip now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:33 AM
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It sounds miserable. BUT, this scenario would result in me being financially-dependent on my husband and I don't think this is healthy. If you can't trust your life partner and father of your children to support you during a vulnerable period, then why tf are you getting married to him? Why would you even have kids with someone like that? What if it's not pregnancy? What if you get cancer and can't work cause you're in chemo? What if you get hit by a car and it takes years to recover? What if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:35 PM
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What are you saying? No woman would ever misrepresent her true level of happiness to look better on social media. /s if it wasnt obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:09 PM
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Beautiful, well thought out response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:51 PM
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Broke: middle america tradcon Woke: coastal elite tradlib
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:36 AM
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There's "dear diary" and then there's "I'm going to spam 10 comments every hour about the dumbest bullshit over and over and over again"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:28 AM
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Two thoughts: 1) I wish we can make a rule, no more than 5 top level comments in the daily thread per day, enforceable by ban. 2) I wonder if all that toxic positivity that women spew at each other actually makes them feel worse in the long run. Like if a woman is lonely and longing for a relationship, and she expresses it in public, then all of a sudden psychotic internet women jump on her with bs validation like "you don't need a man, never settle, just be happily single"... like yeah she feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:31 AM
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2nd date. Otherwise, they are almost certainly a coward who has already justified and normalized lies of omission to romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:18 PM
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Why would a woman from one of those countries agree to marrying a western guy if it's not to get out of her country? Because she.... wants to be married to a guy she likes? What a strange question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:25 PM
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Bro the best thing about enrolling my kid in martial arts is just sitting back and being entertained watching him fight other kids. It's like going to a UFC fight twice a week, but funnier because it's kids. I wish I could bring beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:58 AM
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Especially developing your back and legs. Your back and knees are the first to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:26 AM
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Sure, nobody would ever lie about how happy they really were in order to save face on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:19 AM
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Don't stop there, expand on your "thought".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:15 AM
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One of the most pleasant discoveries I've had since breaking into the top 1% a few years back is how I passively started considering myself to be superior to others. I don't mean this to say I look down on them, but rather, it's like being an NBA player playing pickup basketball at some local park. Everyone just kinda understands the disparity and we don't need to belabor it unless someone has to get put in their place. So when I see men lean into the persona of being this successful alpha male,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:18 AM
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Nah, you said "I fucking loathe children". And then you said you'd prefer suicide. And then kept ranting. ...that's bit more than just "not liking" kids. Either that or you have serious anger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:45 PM
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uh....sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:38 PM
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This is the most hilarious troll I've seen in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:30 PM
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This is what happens when you enable attention seeking behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:22 PM
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Awesome, the mods forced me to unblock everyone who annoyed me, so now im forced to have to scroll through low content teenage girl spam posts and unhinged femcel rents on the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:57 PM
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"No true scotsman...."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:02 PM
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A bit suspicious how you totally sidestepped the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:41 AM
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tattoos piercings other than ears cavalier attitude about sharing sex life with others victim mentality fat raptor claw nails fake features like lashes/wigs/extensions/colored contacts a little too casually vulgar that horrible young american female influencer accent, idk how to describe it but it's awful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:27 AM
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Are you speaking from experience or just speculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:52 PM
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Who said anything about being a hero?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:26 AM
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Don't keep us in suspense for whatever cuckservative doomer talking point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:40 PM
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Wrong. It means demographic change. Plenty of countries around the world that America can brain drain from. We let our lazy, entitled hedonists die off while importing the brilliant and hardworking from around the world. And those of us with wealth will profit off the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:26 PM
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High earning women, I've noticed, tend to develop a massive sense of entitlement because of their achievements. Like they deserve a good relationship because they got an MBA and make 6 figures. Like, "I'm a smart, beautiful, educated women and I deserve the best in life". You deserve the best? Compared to who, an average looking school preschool teacher? You deserve more because you make more money and think you're hotter? The harsh truth is that most high earning women develop exceptionally una…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:45 PM
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Lol a passport sis in the wild. Love to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:54 PM
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I'm honestly kinda fine with this. The fewer families there are, the less competition for child oriented opportunities and resources there will be for those of us still having kids. Single childless men and women juice the economy up with their endless, mindless consumption. Imagine families where their entire line ends with a few people that couldn't ever be bothered to interrupt their hedonism. They sell off whatever inherited properties and assets they get at a discount just to keep the party…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:59 PM
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People with kids go out. People over 30 travel. People in LTR's drink. Most people just don't dedicate their entire lifestyle to doing that. It's called balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:21 PM
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I'd argue they're both trolling each other and caught in an infinite loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:44 PM
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Those people aren't homebodies, they are normal. You're the deviation, not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:33 PM
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So, basically the same as America minus the fear of getting shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:18 PM
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No he won't. That's just hyperbole coming from ignorant white people who get shell-shocked because they've literally never experienced racial discrimination before in their entire lives and suddenly think it's worst thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:17 PM
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Yeah but the greatest archer will just try again, because on his way to becoming great, he had to fail a bunch and learn from his mistskes. Failure doesn't shatter his confidence. Incels on the other hand try a few times and give up, complaining because they didn't have immediate success. So if that's what destroys you, then you deserve to be where you end up. A cautionary tale for men who lack the balls to deal with adversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:13 AM
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While you can't decide the outcome, you can certainly influence it based off of your own choices of who you fuck with and the company you keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:42 AM
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That's because that rule is designed to benefit her, not you. She couldn't really give a fuck if you die alone or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:20 PM
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Nah, imo that ain't the way. I've got 2. All you gotta do is balance it. Sometimes their needs come first, sometimes they don't. You have to use your judgment as a leader. Constant sacrifice isn't leadership, it's martyrdom. And when you martyr yourself, they become spoiled and entitled because they'll always expect the world to cater to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:57 PM
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Lol it's not that dramatic, dude. Fucking "sacrifice your life" wtf are you on about. This isn't the movies. You aren't Iron Man. You just need to be willing to show up and do the work but also put the needs of the whole team above your own selfish desires sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:03 PM
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People in good relationships find a way to make it work without a whole lot of trouble. They find a way to success. People in shit relationships struggle no matter how much help they have. They snatch defeat from the jaws of victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:52 PM
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Hunger is a biological scam to eat food. Love/lust is a biological scam to make babies. Feeling cold or hot is a biological scam to seek shelter and regulate body temperature. What are we, if not a system of biological scams designed to achieve survival and reproduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:48 PM
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Imagine being so controlling over your kids that your own family members aren't even allowed to participate in raising them, even when they're too young to remember any of that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:32 PM
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Because their grandparents probably pitched in for them. Their parents probably pitched in for their kids. Now when it's their turn to pitch in, they suddenly cant be bothered and want to live their own lives? Sounds like boomers logic to me. And then they wonder why they get put in a home and nobody visits them. What goes around comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:15 PM
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You can be a soccer mom and still be a sexual being, but it requires effort and a bit of luck with who you marry. It takes effort to lose the baby weight. It takes effort to keep it off. The guy you marry, if I'm being honest, has to be into the milf aesthetic. And that guy has to be a sexual being himself despite being older and more stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:06 PM
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Shooters shoot. Shit, even a 1/100 success rate is still a win. Getting the ick is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:02 AM
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Came here to post this same thing. Establish dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:55 AM
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Highly agree with your first point. There's a hopelessly mercenary vibe to relationships in America, and with Americans in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:52 AM
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My job involves a lot of travel, and it really struck me how many dudes whose lives literally revolve around being a passport bro. Like they'll do work assignments in various countries in Latin America and have multiple girlfriends, wives, even entire 2nd families. It's wild. Like a geographically separated harem of 3rd world sugar babies. I mean these dudes are in their 50s and 60s, and they'll just do the same stuff for multiple decades until they retire. I knew it existed, but until I did one…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:21 PM
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Way better to have too many kids. Sure we may not be rich, but we'd have what we need to get by and be surrounded by love. That is a life worth living. A life spent feeding ones own survival needs and hedonistic desires is not, IMO. Id rather have 7 kids than 0. But I'm cool with the 3 I got, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:46 PM
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Value for the purposes of sexual selection and leagues are aggregate assessments within a particular population. For example, billy bob redneck with the lifted truck would probably play well in the Midwest and the South, but not so much in LA or NYC. There's no other way to communicate this rise/drop in desirability outside of the concept of women determining that man's SMV. So yeah the aggregate of female sexual attraction towards you does determine your value. But no one individual woman can, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:09 PM
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The lack of self-awareness is hilarious. "It's not body shaming when I say it!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:53 AM
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Ngl, I'm kinda embarrassed for you at this point, you keep digging the hole deeper lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:55 PM
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Irony: a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result. sorry bro, but you shoulda just looked it up instead of exposing your own ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:50 PM
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Someone misspelling an easy word after touting how educated they are pretty easily fits the definition of irony. Look it up if you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:48 PM
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Guess you missed the class on irony, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:43 PM
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It's waver, college educated physician.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:01 PM
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Dude clearly hasn't learned how to virtue signal in a believable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:37 PM
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Hmm, 60 dollars an hour to nanny 3 kids during the day? I guess it's worth it if they're really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:01 PM
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Most younger adults are lazy and undisciplined. Take solace in the fact that you're pretty normal in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:53 PM
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LOL, alright whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:54 PM
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Nah, you very clearly leaned towards B. Even OP picked that up. If multiple people are comprehending something different than what you've meant, then you're probably the one with the communication issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:37 PM
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"I don't do stupid hypotheticals like this" proceeds to do the hypothetical "Nope, it's not an either or because that's fucking stupid" clearly leans toward one of the either/or answers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:20 PM
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If your "success" is confined to academia, then you probably won't be thought of as the most successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:55 AM
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Lately, I've been looking into setting up a trust fund for my kids, researching charitable donations to cut down on my taxes, and coming up with plans to invest in international real estate. The money is coming in faster than I can spend it, and it feels like i gotta come up with all these new schemes to stash it in whatever. When I had my first real job and a proper savings account, retirement investments, and home equity, I felt like I outgrew my working class roots. But now I think I'm even o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:00 AM
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Been having fun for 12 years already!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:45 PM
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But we both know that's not what people mean by saying it's "hard work", which was then point before embarking on this pedantic tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:45 PM
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The amount of effort to take care of my partner is negligible. The sum total of effort required to live with my partner is actually less than the sum total of effort to live without her. Leadership isn't really conscious effort for me, though, that might have a lot to do with it. Not more than, say, breathing, or beating my own heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:17 PM
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Not really. I don't doubt that it requires that for you, but that's a function of your relationships, and it isn't a universal truth. I'm sorry you've been made to feel like you have to spend more effort than being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:13 PM
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Well, sucks to suck. At picking, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:03 PM
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No, they're talking about the delta in effort compared to being single. Like, I still have to get up and go to work whether I'm in a relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:48 PM
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Relationships and marriage don't require work, at least in the sense of conscious effort. Your relationship and marriage may require it, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:45 PM
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Were you aware that other human beings have the ability to communicate their ideas and experiences through the written or spoken word?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:40 PM
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There's no additional effort to maintain the relationship, genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:36 PM
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I always feel sorry for people who say relationships or marriages are hard work. I've found that marriage and relationships are way too easy and effortless if the 1) the girl is diligent team player that can trust and follow the guy's lead, 2) the guy is a good leader and generally a good dude who handles his shit and doesn't cheat, and 3) they both fuck regularly. It's pretty simple, yet people constantly overcomplicate it. Particularly, chronically online overly neurotic "educated" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:04 PM
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You know it's funny, despite agreeing with many red pill truths, my actions in life are very blue pilled. All I do is love my wife, do what I can to make her happy, and generally work, sacrifice, and provide for her, and a whole bunch of other stuff that would be actions that describe a beta provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:02 AM
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She can influence them, but it doesn't necessarily mean the kid is going to follow. You'd be surprised how little influence you really have over a kid as a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:03 PM
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Just go frugal and live off of 45k. Might require relocating to the countryside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:47 PM
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And maybe (just maybe) that's the only thing that some attractive women have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:55 AM
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So, shouldn't we then rate attractiveness by the ability to command what you want from the dating market? If it's too impossibly subjective, it becomes a completely useless metric in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:51 AM
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Nobody forced you to get a vaccine. You always had the option to opt out and accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:19 AM
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Honestly it's not so bad as you get older. I was never super athletic, but the older I get just maintaining what I already have, the better I look comparatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:38 PM
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I love this joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:09 PM
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The nerdiest girls give the most based takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:40 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:38 PM
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The bamboo ceiling exists primarily because of this. Asian kids are notoriously rule-following and risk averse, which is good for studious, safe, predictable upper middle class careers where you just do what you were told. That's because Asian cultures rewards rule following and knowing your place instead of winning. But American culture rewards winners, not rule followers. They want dudes with that killer instinct, not people who shy away from danger. People who can hustle, bend the rules and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:57 AM
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From what I've seen, most women here lump both into one group and often won't make any sort of effort to acknowledge the distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:43 AM
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Men are more likely to buy adult toys like sports cars, motorcycles, ATVs, boats, airplanes, big ol trucks, RV's, guns, shit like that. A man's flex is a garage full of shit to do whatever hobbies they want. Women are more likely to buy luxury consumer goods, purchase "experiences" like travel or beauty treatments in order to engage in conspicuous consumption. A woman's flex is to look rich and show a lavish lifestyle to post on the 'gram.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:31 PM
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I'm saying that people whose actions show that they have a lifelong desire to be a long term marriage partner, and have the skills and abilities one would look for in a long term marriage partner, tend to be more suited at being a long term marriage partners. You, on the other hand, are trying to fabricate an argument I'm not even trying to make. Probably because you have no point, but idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:26 PM
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Tin Cup, Wedding Crashers, Coming to America
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:10 PM
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You can be a woman with a career, but not necessarily a "career woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:00 PM
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I never suggested they should change. It's simply a caveat emptor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:57 PM
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Who says it's shameful? If I wanted to hire someone to do a project for my house, I'd probably find someone who has demonsted those skills in the past, not an doctor with none of the skills or experience looking to do a career change because they lost their medical license.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:28 PM
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It's not about getting married. It's about learning how to identify who is good wife material and who is a ticking time bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:26 PM
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It's not generally seen as positive. Women have a very hard time admitting to settling, even when they know it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:22 PM
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Single women getting to their mid 30s and suddenly wanting a marriage (or kids) when they didnt before is a massive red flag. If she just flew from her ho phase to her career phase to her wife phase, she's demonstrated a history of trying something new, getting bored after a few years, and launching into a new chapter. The wall conveniently aligns with this, like an NBA player suddenly discovering a love for perimeter shooting as his athleticism falls off a cliff from before. You as a man are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:00 PM
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An innate tendency or instinct. Sort of like how young adults have a predisposition toward staying up late, while the elderly have a predisposition toward going to bed early.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:34 PM
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I think its more like women have a general predisposition toward nesting that men don't have. Whereas men have a predisposition toward taking on more dangerous work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:23 PM
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See this is why I tell men not to marry women who think like that. They have one foot in the relationship and one foot out to defend against the marriage failing. With a marriage, you jump in with both feet or don't jump in at all. I'm not saying she can't work, but if that's the reason why she's working....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:38 PM
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How much money are we talking. Cause some of yall will get territorial and talk about "my money" and it ends up being like 40k a year 😆.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:25 PM
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Possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:05 AM
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If I took the most unhinged, dumbest, most ridiculous people I've ever met irl, I still think they'd be more reasonable than most redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:02 AM
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Perhaps. Perhaps not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:55 AM
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Sure is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:55 AM
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I wasn't talking to you. I want the person who made the statement to confirm or deny that there's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:43 AM
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If you're going to juxtapose those examples with OP's topic and not address the obvious issue with it, then any hope of a reasonable discussion is out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:24 AM
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I love kids. Honestly, I'd be more willing to overlook that one depending on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:49 PM
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It has all those things, and more, it's not just stereotypes you see on TV. The LA metro is incredibly diverse in culture, people, political views, and lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:47 PM
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Your 5% status seems based off of your parents' wealth, not your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:41 PM
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Los Angeles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:36 PM
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Sure, doesn't bother me any.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:29 PM
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No, not really. But stay confidently ignorant inside your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:24 PM
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We simply wouldn't progress past the fun dating stage. She could be a FWB, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:14 PM
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Nah, there are tons of women that fit the profile in everyday life. Gotta get outside of the bubble of mostly liberal, white, middle-class career women in urban centers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:07 PM
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27-45
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:01 PM
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Besides the fact I think it looks ugly, it also hints at a certain style or mindset that's not congruent with the type of woman I'd want to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:01 PM
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So I have about 5 deal-breakers for dating a woman, if i were ever to be single again: N > 7 any tattoos, visible or not piercings other than ears any history of abuse or mental health issues kids Having any of these means I'd never take you seriously. Like we can drink and fuck, but I'm not taking you along with me to go party in Ibiza or anything. And without fail, the most controversial one was the no tats. Like people legitimately flip out when they hear that one, and I still don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:45 PM
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I see we've encountered a supporter of the Simp Nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:55 PM
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Honorable mention, Peggy from King of the Hill. Overconfident ignorant Karen played to perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:38 PM
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Lol fuck no. The whole point of valentines day is get validation hungry women to browbeat thirsty dudes into buying them dumb shit they don't need. Like how can you have any self respect as a man if you fall for a scam that was meant for teenage girls and desperate insecure girlfriends/housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:33 PM
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Dude, banging older women who are desperate for dick and attention in your 20s has been a staple of average dudes getting laid for like 50 years. Just don't be the dumb fuck that actually commits to her. Cause everyone will clown your dumb simp ass behind your back. Had a few buddies learn that lesson the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:28 PM
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To a poor person, most things someone with wealth does are seen as wasteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:19 PM
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I wouldn't buy a sex doll just to fuck it. Like it would have to be able to do my taxes and other shit that i dont want to do. Cook and clean. Change the oil in my car. Organize my schedule. And while it's doing my taxes or whatever, I'll just kinda bend it over and fuck it in the ass every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:47 AM
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Scaling minimum wage to inflation is pretty much the equivalent of a snake eating its own tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:32 AM
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I've been watching this show on netflix about a bunch of unathletic middle aged Korean female celebs playing basketball and it's one of my favorite shows ever. There's one girl on there, Okja, that I've got a crush on. She's beautiful and she plays killer defense. And she let out this intense primal scream when she scored her first basket in-game, and I was like goddamn that is the hottest thing I've ever seen in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:26 AM
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You realize that jt makes no sense to piss away the present worrying about shit in the past that you can't change anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:18 AM
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Man there's something about dating island girls that just hits different. You can just live in the moment with them and have a good time, and things like career or status or education don't matter. It's like just get some good food, some good music, and it's some "let's just hit the beach and chill and smoke weed" type of energy. Fuck, man, island girls are the best. Especially if they're a little sporty and feisty and have dark features, damn that's my kryptonite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:28 AM
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Avoid whatever you want. The girls will still show up, all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:59 AM
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Yeah, but your concept of harm comes from a place of paternalism and thinking you know what's better for them, not genuine concern for their well-being. It would be like refusing to take your girl's virginity because it "sullies" her in your eyes, even though she wants it. You're not obligated to participate in it, but you're fooling yourself by thinking it's some noble act.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:57 AM
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Imo, you can't use celebrities to make a point. They live in a completely different world. Like 11/10 instagram thots hanging out in the hallway of your hotel during NBA all-star weekend looking to pick you up is on a whole different level than what normal people can conceive of. Maybe high school and college athletes can relate to being big man on campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:09 PM
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Nah, you can like or benefit from something and still recognize it's not the right thing to do. We're not all selfish creatures that lack the capacity to consider what is reasonable or fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:56 PM
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Im not missing anything, you're the one saying traditionalism sounds like just brainwashing. I said the opposite of that claim is just as dumb, and pointed out something in the middle more nuanced is more appropriate. And now you want to walk it back and be all measured about "phasing it out". Own what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:40 AM
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You're missing the point. It's dumb to blindly follow traditions but also just as dumb to blindly reject them because you think you know better. Approaching it with equal parts skepticism and humility is the best practice. BTW stay at home wives was an aberration of the postwar era. If was never a "tradition".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:45 AM
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Idk man have you tried hookers? I mean at this point what have you got to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:19 AM
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Traditions have a survivorship bias. Reinventing the wheel because you think you're foolish enough to believe you've actually discovered something new under the sun is probably even dumber than blindly following traditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:15 AM
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For casual stuff? It's whatever. Absolutely no way in hell I'd wife up a girl with a double-digit or more count. It's fine if other people do it, but I hold myself to a higher standard. A man's gotta have a code.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:04 AM
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Thats more of a mindset tbh. Like if she's the future Karen type mom to go around wearing sweats and fucked up hair with her titties out in public for feeding, then she's probably the "what's one more tub of ice cream, I deserve it" type of mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:28 AM
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"Toxic masculinity double standards at work!" - blue haired reddit feminists, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:06 PM
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Nah bro, you popped up out of nowhere and every single thing you post is a troll. Wit ya trollin' ass, 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:10 PM
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You're replying to a troll, if you didn't already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:22 PM
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My ideal dating life is something similar to a modern era Ming dynasty era harem with a main wife and multiple concubines that compete with each other and go through political intrigues in order to curry favor from me. But failing that, my ideal is just being madly in love with a cute ride or die girl that will go to ends of the earth for me, and we're just together and inseparable for our entire lives and nothing or nobody would ever split us apart. This is what I have now, but I wish I met her…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:37 PM
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Uh, I am with a woman. Did my 30 minutes of PPD posting today give you the impression I wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:20 AM
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It doesn't invalidate the point at all. Because the opting out came after the failure. Even if you get more chances, it doesn't change the fact that it's still a compromise. You tried and didn't succeed. A reluctance to try again is easily explained by a fear of failure. Especially when you've been telling everyone who would listen that you intentionally chose your compromise for multiple years. It reminds me of those NBA players who went years without winning a championship, trying to make a ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:15 AM
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Okay sure whatever gets you through the day 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:32 AM
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The way you frame it (alone over a crappy relationship) presupposes that you tried at relationships, failed, and compromised with being alone. That's a compromise. If you can't own that fact, then that makes it an even bigger compromise because that reveals added insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:59 AM
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Your preference resulted from the inability to achieve what you actually wanted, and you're making your peace with simply being alone. Which doesn't really make it a preference, but a compromise. You tried, it didn't work out, and that's OK. But it's disingenuous to say it's a preference because it's fair to say that if things had worked out, you wouldn't have preferred to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:58 PM
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Nobody is forcing you to party or drink at college. If you want to party and live "the college life", whatever tf that means, you're going to introduce a measure of risk into your life. This is what it means to be an adult, young lady. The world has risk, and you have to manage it and mitigate it. If you're that afraid of being assaulted, don't intentionally put yourself in situations that exponentially increase your chances of being assaulted. If I'm afraid of clowns, I sure as hell don't go to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:36 AM
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Strong male leadership makes such a huge, positive difference in people's lives, but all too often, I see it being taken for granted or outright disregarded as a causal factor behind having a healthy, positive upbringing. Its growing rarity is a big reason why I believe my kids will thrive and succeed in this world while most others around them will languish and suffer in mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:22 PM
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Well, here's how most guys do it: 1) find unattractive older virgins that nobody wants to date and lovebomb them 2) 3rd world child trafficking 3) incest 4) grooming 5) dating within religious cults and sects As you can see, this puts you in the company of a few unsavory types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:12 AM
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I'd rather be some women's 10. Being the object of true desire for a woman and having her fall hard is an amazing experience. She absolutely burns for you and becomes a simp for you, and if she realizes that you like her back, she transforms into a ride or die chick. And man, let me tell you, fucking with a ride or die girl is the absolute best. Every dude should have that experience at least once in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:35 PM
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Then you did it to yourself. You've conditioned your partner to expect everything you do for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:04 PM
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A safe and harmless man is basically just a eunuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:02 PM
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Go do something exceptional with your life. Boring ass nice guy salaryman office drones are a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:00 PM
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Fault is irrelevant; you got robbed. Ever wonder why some people get robbed over and over despite it not being their fault, and others never ever get robbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:27 AM
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The biggest problem that I have with blackpill logic is that it often hyper-focuses on promiscuous liberal city women. Nightclubs, college scenes, apps, etc., tend to over-represent these types of women, and if they aren't already in the city girl lifestyle, they certainly aspire to it. Many of the blackpill assumptions are very true for those girls, but there's a significant percentage of the female population that just doesn't want or aspire to that lifestyle. Out in more suburban/rural areas,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:55 PM
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My son does BJJ. He's actually pretty dominant when it comes to sparring, too, especially against bigger kids. Also got him into karate and kickboxing. Just the feeling of knowing you can handle anything that comes at you physically as a kid reshapes the narrative of your entire childhood. Especially when he gets to high school and is in amazing shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:36 PM
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My favorite people in the economy are childfree men and women. Because when I see them, I see people who have no reason to leave any kind of inheritance or wealth behind, and are more apt to work until they die and spend whatever wealth that dozens of generations of their ancestors left behind immediately while they can enjoy it. Being able to capture their consumption spending and put that into my own family's wealth where our kids are encouraged and set up to procreate and continue the family …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:42 PM
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Dating for the middle class is still in a transition period as kids of middle class boomers are more obsessed with feeding their own selfish pursuits and hedonism than building or continuing anything enduring. So the parents age out and leave their kids with barely any wealth, and the kids sell off the wealth to fund their own selfish pursuits and die alone. So everything dating related will be in service of that transition. Dating apps, intoxicating substances, immersive distractions, you name …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:28 PM
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I disagree that such a thing would fit the definition of delusion, but if that "delusion" serves my goals rather than hinders them, then that's a far better course of action than kowtowing to the majority opinion. Like if I'm a short ugly dude and I just have stratospheric levels of true, unshakable confidence, (like say I'm a Navy Seal or something idk), then nothing anyone says could ever knock me off my game. And if that confidence upsets anyone, then they can die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:07 AM
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Well I make >400k and most of my peers are just married to women who are career driven, women who stay home, or just work regular jobs but don't really make a big fuss about it. So idk perhaps you don't have as much as wisdom and insight as to how life works as well as you think you do at the ripe old age of 23. Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:48 AM
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Honestly the thought of others being offended at my own self-confidence is extremely appealing. Having their worldview and value system shatter because you're a living contradiction of it must feel amazing. Reminds me of pretty much every scene in the movie Django Unchained once he meets Leo DiCaprio's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:36 AM
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Honestly I wrote up a whole reply to educate you about why this is all so wrong but I get the vibe that this is such a lost cause that I'll just let your words stand on their own for others to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:10 AM
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You didn't disagree, you just said "neat".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:09 PM
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wtf why would I call them that? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:08 PM
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Sorry I didn't realize you were just here to troll. carry on, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:06 PM
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The thing is, you're more the exception than the rule. Most people saying "kids would be too costly and take away my freedom/career/hobbies" don't really have much going on for them to begin with. They don't travel, don't volunteer, and have mediocre lives whether they have kids or not. But they don't let that stop them from trying to flex on the internet about how great their life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:05 PM
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Kids don't make you poor. Lack of income makes you poor. Kids only exacerbate your existing lack of income to plunge you deeper into poverty. It's a contributing factor, but not a causal one. And don't kid yourself, even the nice retirement homes are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:59 PM
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There's only one truth. What each person thinks the truth is, is called a belief. You can believe that kids would ruin your life, but the truth may be something different. You'll never know, because you never opened the box containing Schrödinger's cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:52 PM
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Moms are hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:46 PM
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But a significant amount are. Considering the lopsided ratio of sex workers to rich simps, you would think the incidence of those two getting together would be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:09 AM
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All good points, but considering the explosion in sugar dating in the last decade or so, one would expect more examples of women doing the same, but in a more permanent fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:11 AM
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A relationship based on security is still a "real" relationship. And I'm not saying it has to be every woman ever, but you'd figure at least a sizable minority would at least try.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:58 PM
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But why wouldn't those women be more proactive in seeking that type of guy out? It would take such a tiny amount of effort to pull it off, and the payoff is massive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:57 PM
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Before I say this, this is simply an sociological observation, and not any kind of endorsement of this action, but it amazes me how women so consistently pass up on rich nerdy simps just to be with a hot dude that gives them the tingles, but have to struggle financially. I mean let's be real, most women are not universally 6 figure earning boss bitches, and I constantly hear young people talking how we're in this awful economic environment with record college debt, insane housing prices, and cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:12 PM
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As a kid haver, this is great news. A lot of inherited wealth going to genetic dead ends will usually evaporate into spending into the economy. Can't take it with you, after all. Educated, wealthy breeders will seek out other educated wealthy breeders and combine their family's collective wealth. The dead ends will spend it all off and die with no next of kin, and be replaced demographically with working class immigrants. As a result of investing in the mindless consumerism of childfree dead end…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:10 AM
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In no particular order: Nurses Any kind of marketing Solopreneurs Professional students Nurses Military Flight attendants Influencers Nurses Corporate middle managers Hairdressers HR Elementary school teachers Police
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:09 PM
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Ok, cool no worries, just wanted to understand where your perspective comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:39 AM
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Uh huh. And how many years of experience do you have as an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:27 AM
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Nah, most guys care, but instead of saying it out loud like some autistic moron, they'll just string you along, acting like it doesn't matter but then just never seriously commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:52 AM
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I think the biggest thing is that young AsAm's stopped trying so hard to assimilate and started embracing their culture. I could never relate to the concept of shitting on your own heritage to fit in. Your family, your people, traditions, etc. Anyway, this is why i send my son back to Asia every summer. I won't even tolerate the possibility of him developing any self hate. Plus, it's good for him to see how other cultures date and relate to one another other, and be able to navigate both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:02 PM
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He ain't old, you're just a toddler with a cell phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:33 AM
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Signs that you're getting old: Historical dramas are increasingly being set in your high school years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:29 AM
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It's impossible to have consistent luck over an entire lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:26 PM
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I think it illustrates the point that most of their issues are self-inflicted. Like I said, I'm not Chad, certainly not that attractive, smart, charismatic, alpha, or wealthy growing up. I just simply made the right choices and did the best I could with what I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:53 PM
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I'll be honest, when I sit down and think about it, I have a pretty amazing life. Successful in my career, effortless marriage, amazing family, wealthier than anyone in my family has ever been, and I get to do things most people only dream of. Plus my wife is a cute ride or die fitness milf that treats me like a king and still lusts after me, even after all these years. She believed in me before I was even successful. It's not like I'm special or anything. I'm just really good at making decision…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:35 AM
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I think that having problems and friction because of mismatched finances won't matter because it'll have problems and friction regardless. The vast majority of people people under 40 today are simply not wired to be in long-lasting relationships anymore. So is it reasonable? Sure. But it doesn't matter. For this generation, chronic breakups and dying alone will come all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:31 AM
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1/3rd of couples isn't a very compelling stat, to be honest. 2 people that have been dating for a few weeks is a "couple". More like situationships, temporary domestic partners, girlfriends living together into old age, and "happily single living my best life cause i refused to settle" is far more likely to rise with more women graduating college, not women breadwinners in marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:32 AM
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So, as a teenager, a lot of what you do is watching other adults and copying what they do because you don't know how to be an adult. Problem with that is you don't really understand the "why" what they do. Why do women make the choices they do? You can speculate from the outside looking in, but until you yourself go through the experience of doing it yourself, you won't get it because you've never been the one in the driver's seat of your own life. So when people tell you chill... just chill. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:00 AM
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My point is, happiness is fleeting, like chasing a high from a drug. Meaning is what sustains you between the peaks and valleys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:47 AM
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I don't even think it's because they actually want a family, for men *or* women. It's more like, the drug of hedonism only takes you so far, and once you look back on your life of essentially being a dopamine junkie, you realize it's empty and vapid, and try to find meaning by going in a different direction than what led you to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:59 PM
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Happiness is how a child measures success imo. Finding meaning in your life is the best measure of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:53 PM
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I get that, but the hunter-gatherer portion of human history isn't exactly our "peak" as a species, while the monogamous period is far more relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:50 PM
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Considering that during the monogamous period of human existence, our population and technological advancement has exploded exponentially, I'd say that's a better example of "what we're good at". Please continue to give us more of your hot takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:48 PM
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I've been married for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:32 PM
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Interesting statement considering monogamy has been the overwhelming trend for all of recorded human history. But no, I'm sure this 2023 internet hot take is probably more accurate than all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:58 PM
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Because certainly no woman would ever lie in order to save face when the topic of being older and single comes up. Surely could never happen in an era where humans are reported as being the happiest they've ever been, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:54 PM
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I'm not saying this happened in your case, but a LOT of guys will dismiss red flags because they're a little too understanding and open-minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:50 PM
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Nah, they're actually pretty easy. If your relationships always take a lot of work, then the problem might be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:44 PM
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Effort is never equal or symmetric. Somebody is always doing more work than the other, even if the intention is supposed to be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:25 PM
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It absolutely is. Maybe not for you, but the truth is most people in normal society have genuine respect for people that can build and raise a loving family that produces successful, well adjusted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:37 AM
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Yep. You have to be the guy that she breaks her rules for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:54 PM
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Your life belonging solely to yourself isn't necessarily an objective, universal good thing. I've often found in life that people who boast the most about how they have so much freedom to do whatever they want are often the same people who act jaded, find little meaning in life, and suffer from chronic depression or addition issues. I'm not saying breeding is the answer to happiness, but a self-centered obsession with personal freedom sure hasn't turned out to be, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:50 PM
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Refusing to procreate just to stop other people from procreating is a level of petty I can truly respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:30 PM
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Nah just fuck your looksmatch. So if you're ugly too...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:51 AM
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Lol well at least that's one thing I'll never have to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:49 AM
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Good to hear. Sounds like you're thriving in your niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:57 PM
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Nah, it's because when a guy they want approaches them, it doesn't feel like an approach, it's serendipity. Idk man, it's female logic, don't try to make sense of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:55 PM
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There's no such thing as "objectively" wrong. Your opinion of right and wrong counts for nothing in this world. And I was referring to the people in your link. I don't insult children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:47 PM
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Usually if there's something I don't want to hear about, I'll refrain from starting internet discussions about it but do you I guess 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:41 PM
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Because you don't actually care about male harm, you just see an opportunity to turn those men against other men. It's like when white liberals try to weaponize the black vote against the Republicans every 4 years. Dudes don't take kindly to manipulation. There's also a degree of disdain for professional victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:34 PM
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Want whatever you want. But nobody owes you validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:27 PM
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Aside from the sex? My girl always took care of me, doted on me, cooked for me, cleaned my place when I was away, and basically treated me like a king. Nothing hotter than watching a girl enthusiastically cook for you in a t-shirt and panties 30 minutes after you just came inside of her. She was also fun to hang out and have adventures with, too. If you're in a relationship with a girl and she doesn't do that shit, then idk what the fuck you are there for other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:18 PM
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This isn't 1950, trad women will typically work whatever job until their first kid, go on maternity leave, and just not come back until the youngest is off to school full time. The wealthier ones might wait a bit later. Honestly, if I had to pick between that and the typical feminist offer of wage slavery, vapid consumerism, lives of rootless ennui, and mindless promiscuity with no real future except dying alone.... I think I'd pick the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:01 PM
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Because people want what they want and anime originates from a culture where they don't really give a fuck about what fat blue haired white feminists from America have to say about it. I'm saying this as a guy who doesn't even like anime with the sole exception of Dragonball.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:39 PM
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It's seems like a good place if you're relatively unambitious, prefer a low-key middle class existence, and prefer a certain type of cultural homogeneity that you can't say out loud. Which describes most redditors, hence the admiration of that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:30 PM
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This is a lot of questions. My ideal dating sphere? Bubble era Japan and nothing else comes close. Will women be in the workplace on the same level as men? No. Women are too weak and timid in the face of true, terrifying strength and power. They are resilient but generally not very brave or daring, and usually lack the balls (fortitude) to usurp the top dogs. What is to be done to counteract malcontent/lonely men? What is to be done to counteract malcontent/lonely women? Pacify them with porn, v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:39 PM
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Cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:45 PM
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Learn whatever you want, I'm just stating the context behind those jokes that she doesn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:35 PM
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What false pretenses? Someone paying attention to you at work doesn't mean they're automatically your friend. If you don't want to fuck with them then don't, it's literally that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:33 PM
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Clearly they haven't if they're complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:28 PM
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Ok so then why try to be friends with people who see you like that? Go do your own thing. Like why seek attention from people you don't even seem to like? Perplexing af.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:17 PM
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Those jokes are meant for middle aged people in the 80s and 90s who have been married for a while and are secure enough in their marriages to laugh about it. Not teenage girls in 2023 who over consume social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:11 PM
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I made the same point in another post to you, but nobody cares what you think is pathetic or ick, just like you don't care how other people see your own sexual habits. The real question is, why tf are you so preoccupied with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:46 PM
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You realize people think the same thing about you and the type of women you chase, right? And do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:14 AM
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Needless? The seat costs the same regardless of who you are. Sounds pretty meritocratic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:33 PM
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Idk what it is about sitting in first class watching plebs board and sipping champagne, but damn it feels good. I get why rich people burn so much money on this shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:51 PM
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I mean, how traumatic are we talking here? Butt stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:59 PM
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Okay sure let's use whatever wacky definitions we cook up in our head to redefine the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:26 AM
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What would be the point of depriving all others of an institution they want just because you don't want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:14 AM
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Lol news flash you can't be masculine and compassionate at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:50 PM
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I'll take that over the landwhales, food deserts, horrible winters, and a complete lack of any sort of culture outside of generic American apple pie and baseball BS of some landlocked flyover state.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:15 PM
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Just the tip (Miami). The rest is meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:03 PM
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I guess those are all problems if you're a middle class chump dealing with poor people issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:00 PM
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Hot take of the day: any county in the U.S. that doesn't touch the pacific ocean is complete unlivable trash. I'll die on this hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:48 PM
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Part of it is good old-fashioned racism, too. White women who feel threatened by cuter, thinner women will come out the woodwork to say the most fucked up ignorant shit about asian women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:28 PM
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Lol you think women under 40 in modern first world nations like Japan and Korea don't get adequate protein? So ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:24 PM
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Okay let's back up. Feminine can be cute aesthetic, which you like. Feminine can also be sexy aesthetic. Most guys in East Asia prefer cute aesthetic over sexy aesthetic. Women with more androgynous and masculine features and bodies can pull off sexy aesthetic a lot easier than they can a cute one, which is why it's more popular in a place like America. Women tend to be bigger, stronger, fatter, and more masculine, so they work with what they've got. Where "feminine" turns into "androgynous" tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:42 PM
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This is a pretty bad take. You absolutely don't need common interests or social proof to get a woman interested in you. Sure it helps, but every girl I've ever gotten had very little in common with me. The differences are what made me interesting to them. Hell, even my wife had almost nothing in common with me when we first met.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:31 PM
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A more accurate statement is that most men are bad at sex and would produce sexually unsatisfied women if not for oral sex. This baseline assumption that women can't be satisfied without oral is a bunch of men kinda telling on themselves how bad they are otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:37 PM
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Yeah, it does. At that point, the relationship is casual only in my eyes, and if I'm gonna keep it 100%, imma just monkey branch to the next girl without telling her. I won't cheat on the new girl though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:30 AM
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You're kinda telling on yourself with that statement, though. It's not that you specifically attract trash men, cause trash men go after every woman. It's more like there's apparently a distinct lack of non-trash men that even wanna fuck wit you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:05 AM
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Man, my kids are annoying AF sometimes, but I appreciate those little slice of life moments where you're just doing nothing at all really and they just strike up conversations or talk about stuff that's on their mind. That doesn't happen if you don't spend a ton of downtime with them. A lot of life happens in the dead space between activities, and if you're always too busy working or doing other shit, you end up missing out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:49 AM
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If I had a nickel for every time I saw some white dude living in Japan attempting to explain an entire society to the internet through his bullshit expat perspective...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:08 AM
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I think I'm finally gonna do it. I'm finally gonna crack the top 1% in income, either this year or next year. I'd like to thank PPD for having a small part in this. I couldn't have done it without your shitposts entertaining me during the boring/downtime, giving me the mental refresh I needed to achieve this feat. I'm still only 90% in wealth percentile, but I'm still working on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:09 AM
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The only solution is to stop telling women.... well, anything. Just stop giving a shit about their issues. Watch em fail or succeed, be slightly amused at the funny stories, and keep it moving. The best revenge is living well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:00 AM
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I have a suspicion that this might actually be hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:23 AM
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It's not that you can't do those things. It's more like you choose not to pay the cost to be the boss. I could literally draw up a 10-point plan to get most guys in here a house and a family within 5 years, and almost none of them would follow it. Oh I don't like this, or I don't wanna do that. Boomers are awful and selfish, but I'll give them credit, they aren't afraid to do what they gotta do to get to the top and take what they want. Loser millennials and zoomers will just sit around and hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:32 PM
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Not ideal, but better than nothing. Like driving a car on 3 wheels. It'll still go, but...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:05 AM
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Well ok as a boy dad, it's more complicated. Girls are given their value with their looks. Their big issue is being good stewards of their asset. Like being given a million dollars and making good choices to spend it wisely. What boys have stewardship of is their potential. Men have to demonstrate usefulness. We don't have much intrinsic value once we become adults. We're just seen as people with the potential to be useful. Boys who fuck away their potential on crime, drugs, laziness, porn, food…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:59 AM
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I can be the same way. Ultimately, you are who you are, so work with that. Speak with actions, not words. If you can't find the words to voice your opinion, do it with your actions. Stand up and leave the room if you disapprove with something. Pivot your life by pursuing a smaller group of friends you feel comfortable around, rather than a larger group of strangers. And stay close with your family. Keep in touch with these people and talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:06 AM
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As a girldad, I kinda empathize with young women. Because everybody is trying to get something from you. Constantly, since puberty. The problem is that the girls are often young, hormonal idiots at the peak of their attractiveness, often with low self-esteem and bad decision-making abilities. Young dudes trying to smash, girls peer pressuring you, social media pressuring you, FOMO, predatory men, feminists telling you what you want to hear, religious sects recruiting you as a fertile brood mothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:56 AM
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It's not just anecdotal. The median household income in the U.S. is around 48k. The vast majority of families with kids in America make less than 100k combined. Is there mass misery and destitution among the country? Maybe, but a more likely explanation is you're using hyperbole to make a point on the internet. But at least I have my experience to go off of. I've actually done the deed. I'm probably older and am close friends with a lot more parents than you are, and more privy to the experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:32 AM
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I think she made a mistake judging character, just like Jonah did. Shit happens, life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:19 AM
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Sure fine but don't go making incorrect statements about shit you're ignorant about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:05 AM
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You have a point. It seems a lot if it probably is rooted in low self-esteem defense mechanisms. Presenting a front of "he's gotta be amazing or I'm not dating at all" gives you an out. Then you can talk about how happily single you are, men are trash, etc., and avoid that unpleasant come-to-jesus realization that quality guys just don't want to commit to you, thus confirming your insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:03 AM
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I'll try to change your view here. As humans, we do assortative mating. If you can operate under the mere possibility that a woman can be pressured by society to see herself as far higher quality than what men see her, then there lies the problem. She thinks she's sorting to her perceived equal, but her perceived equal is not sorting to her. Her self perception is not congruent with her reality. The guys that she wants commitment from, don't want to commit to her. But she goes on believing men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:49 PM
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It's called trial and error. People are allowed to try things and make mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:39 PM
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Why not? He was fine with it at first, then he wasn't. They broke up, nobody was harmed. What is this iron law that says you have to accept someone as they currently are for the rest of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:35 PM
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When you're rich, famous, and can pick up girls at will, you can demand whatever absurd shit you want, and then next her if she's not on board. As proven by the fact that he immediately got another girl as soon as he threw this one back to the streets. This girl was a clout chaser that's having her 15 minutes of quasi fame, and nobody will remember her name 3 months from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:32 PM
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Saying the phrase "extremely happily single" reminds me of how the most repressive dictatorship in the world calls itself the "Democratic People's Republic of Korea".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:54 AM
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Bruh I've supported a SAHM and 2 kids on less than 100k, and we lived well and enjoyed life. How you gonna sit there and tell me it's not possible when I literally did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:27 AM
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You can grind hard to a good engineering or finance degree and work hard to earn up to 100-200k a year. But that ain’t enough to support 2 ppl + house + kids. The fuck? Yes it is lol. A lot of yall clearly have no fucking clue what it actually costs to raise a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:57 AM
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Because women taking responsibility doesn't generate profits for shareholders. Keep telling them what they want to hear, and they'll naturally spend themselves into a lifetime of debt. Hell, they will even form their identity around it and defend it to their death.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:09 AM
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Good luck. Assortative mating typically leads women in your position to have to reject a lot of bad prospects because you're not satisfied with where you've been sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:47 PM
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Depends on the woman, depends on the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:25 PM
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Yep, I wasn't even thinking marriage until I started dating my wife. She wanted me from day 1. 3 weeks in, I knew I was gonna marry this girl. The next year or so was just doing my due diligence. Pumped and dumped a girl one week prior to our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:21 PM
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In the NBA superstar world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:04 PM
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Because I have the leverage to enforce a negative consequence that she wants to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:48 AM
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Yes, you do have a say. We can sit here on the internet and pretend we're all strong independent boss bitch untamed wild stallions who only ever do what they want and can't be influenced or tied down by anyone else ever. Or we can be rational adults and acknowledge that humans are interdependent, we're constantly influencing each other's behaviors, and we pick and often comply with what others say so as to avoid pointlessly suffering negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:10 AM
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They can, but real life is messy and doesn't always work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:34 AM
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Yes they do. They do all the fucking time. At an event, a meeting, at work, or even in a relationship. There's a reason why those protocols exist: to filter out people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:44 AM
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Ngl, I lose a little bit of respect for dudes who say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:41 PM
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Pay to play ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:33 PM
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Power and wealth transfers from the elderly to breeders. As each generation of a family gets fewer in number, the wealth and real estate concentrates and stovepipes amongst the breeders. I have multiple aunts and uncles that name me as their next of kin because they don't have kids. The one that did have kids (my cousins) aren't having kids themselves. To my family, I'm a vector for the future. Everyone else is a dead end. And people want to invest and believe in a future. Imagine inheriting mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:01 AM
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Dude you're not going to get an honest discussion on this topic. People will literally sit there and tell you obvious bullshit just to win an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:34 AM
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I don't do oral sex. I mastered my stroke game and never looked back. So here's the thing, most guys are really bad at their stroke game, so munching is like the one thing they can consistently do that will save them. Dudes often use it as a crutch. Most men are, in fact, so deficient at actual sex that they just assume every other man is just as bad, and not munching is being a selfish lover. They can't comprehend the idea of a woman having an orgasm without sticking his tongue into her vagina.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:37 PM
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3 things I'm going to drive home to my daughter: First is, find men with a proven record of good decisions whose judgment you trust that have your best interests at heart and aren't interested in you sexually. Use them to help vet the men you date. Can be a parent, an uncle, an older cousin, a mentor, or an older friend. Find at least 3 women you want to be like and ask her how she did it, and what it cost her. This also works for contractors. Smart people follow a winning formula and incrementa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:36 PM
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1- nah 2- I'd be ok with it if she was down for an anal spitroast. If yes, I'd do it and then dump her the next day. If no, then we'd continue on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:06 AM
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Idk, the article literally points out a pay gap between a janitor and white collar workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:58 AM
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You get what you negotiate, not what you "should."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:57 AM
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I agree on most of it besides the age (willing to accept up to ~30). Also, she can't have any fucked up family history or any history of abuse, assault, or trauma, regardless of whether it's her fault or not. Also no tats or piercings. Like she's gotta be turn-key, I'm not interested in a fixer-upper. If she fails any of this criteria, she's silently disqualified from marriage or any serious cohabitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:47 AM
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Just read an article about how blue collar hourly workers are starting to reach pay parity with white collar salaried office workers because A.I. and tech is making their value plummet and automating them out of a job. Nothing fills me with as much joyful pettiness as seeing these soft, privileged college grads thinking they were such hot shit because they're "educated" and thought they were safe, suddenly realize they're even lower than a janitor or a plumber. https://qz.com/chatgpt-white-colla…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:38 AM
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The fuck are you talking about? His wife was a cheerleader on the Lakers, and Kobe went to the NBA right after high school and made the all-star game as a rookie. Vanessa Bryant was also the literal definition of a "predatory woman". Their marriage was well known for being pretty fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:56 PM
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Losers gonna lose, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:53 PM
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If I was him, I'd bang her a few times and then ghost her. Not out of revenge, but mostly out of curiosity and resolve those old feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:44 PM
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But my family isn't a company, it's a family. The purpose isn't to generate profit. It's to provide mutual support for the group. Therefore, support is the primary function. She's doing the main job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:12 PM
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The issue is that you've based it around a particular pop culture (or in this case, counterculture) activity, which is cool for a while but ultimately not sustainable because you have to keep doing that activity. People tend to age out of stuff like that as they get older. Sure, there are probably some old hangers-on, but what do you think happened to their peers? It's better to find a subculture that shares those similar values but doesn't revolve around one niche activity. Like get into spirit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:55 AM
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Nothing a jar of peanut butter and a lack of shame can't fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:29 AM
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Who said i didn't want to? I just dont have time to do it and do a good job at it. She's better at that thing and has the time and capacity to perform it as a primary duty at a high level. Unless you're referring to something a man physically can't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:26 AM
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You said you didn't know of any intangibles she could bring that a man already doesn't. Now you know at least one. It's subjective, so if you're asking for intangibles that you would consider equal to what a man already provides, then idk, man, we can't read your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:13 AM
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For me, an example is socializing. My wife is basically the family's social secretary and acts as an intermediary between our family and society. Like, say, other families, our neighbors, and even my own friends and family. Sure, I could do all that stuff myself, but it's hard to split my brain in 5 different directions and end up doing a mediocre job at everything. It is better to divide and conquer with specialization according to our talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:43 AM
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It's more interesting to me how people use this gendered shaming language to describe men's aversion to higher earning women. It's like goading a man into doing something reckless by calling him a chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:27 AM
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From what I've seen with AI, I see a robot filing middle management TPS reports sooner than I see it working a construction trade or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:15 AM
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Kill her now and then figure out a way to frag the captain later on due to "friendly fire". Letting him stay alive is worse than just sitting there and getting executed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:25 AM
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Absolutely. Most of these people are just trying to win online arguments and acquire fake internet points, not actually raise real kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:22 PM
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True, I'm sitting on an airplane right now, and time is just flying by arguing on the internet. But it's either this or stare out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:18 PM
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That's because you see your kid(s) as an actual human who deserves your best effort in life, not just a footnote and vanity project in the story of success cooked up in your own mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:16 PM
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"Elite life" I make a bit over 300k also, and there's something I notice about this top 1-2% income range, especially with tech dudes. The people tend to be one-trick ponies. Like they're good at the thing that makes them wealthy, but not much else in life. Often, these types tend to be awful parents because they dont understand theres more to being a parent than writing checks, and the kids grow up miserable in a gilded cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:54 PM
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Idk I'm happily married and my advice leans red. I like debating relationship dynamics, and most places on reddit are either incel farms or bluepilled feminist/white knight bullshit. I think a lot of married/coupled up older women like to come on here to pontificate and play out their pathological need to be right over the course of 50 PPD posts a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:40 PM
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Exposure to traditional cultures outside of America. By contrasting the pervasive misery and unhappiness of single liberal women in the U.S. while growing a soft spot for family life and the beauty of other traditional cultures around the world, she'll come to the conclusion that thottery doesn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:01 AM
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Well this has been fun. Gonna log this as community service outreach with autistic kids and move on now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:46 PM
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That was a polite way of saying what you said was stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:08 PM
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2 points: 1, your choice pool should be small if you have any intention of being serious down the line. If you're just dating to have fun and have sex then whatever, date a literal crackhead felon, who cares. But cohabitation or marriage with the wrong person can ruin your life. It's better to err on the side of caution than take a chance on damaged/refurbished goods. If any of those things happened to someone, we (society) would be falling over ourselves to advise therapy and dealing with unres…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:51 PM
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That doesn't even make sense. Are you a literal child where 8 years is like over a third of your time on earth so far? 😆 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:54 AM
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How lucky this community is to have autists to tell us all when a discussion is or isn't worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:53 AM
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Anybody can hold anything against you for any reason. You aren't entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:13 AM
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Just because a red flag isn't your fault doesn't make it any less red. If you were abused or are working through childhood trauma or something, nobody owes you a relationship just because it's not your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:12 AM
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Of fucking course it's up to the individuals and their personal preference, genius. OP literally just asked what everyone's personal preference was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:56 AM
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Chronically online bitching and complaining about how awful it is to be an educated middle/upper-middle class white woman in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:43 PM
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It's because japan is a familiar country but strange enough for ignorant westerners to use as an example for whatever dumb point they're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:26 PM
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I liked rif, but at this point, I just want these dumb pointless protests to be over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:23 PM
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My wife is that ride or die type of girl, and she is down for literally anything as long as we're doing it together. She has a pretty strong personality, but it's like she gets off on being led by a man she respects. Like if you were the kind of guy that wanted a 50/50 type of egalitarian relationship she'd overpower you but secretly think you're kind of a pussy. Fuck, I love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:54 PM
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The building phase is more exciting because you never know how it will turn out. You take more chances, try different things, etc. This usually happens by 30. Once you've built yourself, the steering phase is boring but ultimately more profitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:24 PM
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I'm a lifelong moderate Democrat that works in an industry filled with mostly conservative old white dudes, so I've had to walk the line between the two my whole life. Conservative women are like dogs, liberal women are like cats. In my experience, conservate women seem to settle and adapt better to rural/suburban married life. Being settled down, having kids, going to church, joining the school PTA, etc. Once they get a decent situation, they're content to work within its context. Liberal marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:59 PM
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This must be the Indian version of the "n-word moment." Interesting to see it happen to other people. They ain't never been on your side and if you fell for that shit then you're mentally colonized and naive as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:15 AM
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You don't need unlimited discipline, even just a token amount puts you head and shoulders above most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:02 AM
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Some guys can just coast and chill at a regular pace for decades and be just fine with a domestic wife. And some guys just have no chill whatsoever and are constantly looking for the next new shiny thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:36 AM
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Honestly, yes. I'd hit the reset button and start over with a new life. It'd be a huge life change like joining the military, volunteering for an NGO, becoming a merchant sailor, or teaching English abroad or something like that. Like if I'm starting over, I'm gonna do something amazing, not just go wait tables in another state living in a studio apartment or something mundane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:24 AM
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If it leads to a well paying career, sure. I simply figured out what lifestyle I wanted and worked backwards to what I needed to do to get there. Basically, I've been just coasting and sticking to the plan for the last 2 decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:17 AM
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That's basically saying that usefulness and loyalty from a woman is more important in a relationship than his actual level of attraction to her. I'm not disagreeing, I'm just stating the moral of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:15 AM
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Losers stay losing, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:10 AM
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Yeah. I started investing when I got out of college and have been saving a ton ever since then. I also made some great real estate decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:11 PM
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Compared to that strawman you just erected? That is not at all what my advice consists of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:09 PM
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Never once claimed I was alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:07 PM
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Maybe, but I don't resemble most millennials either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:24 PM
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Idk, most people in my life who have followed my advice have generally seen success, but go off internet rando, 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:23 PM
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Wtf are you talking about "my situation"? Please stop talking in riddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:51 PM
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If I was whining about not being a billionaire, that would be a good point. But I have no desire to do what it takes to be a billionaire. I'm content as a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:36 PM
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It amazes me how you can literally tell someone the steps to win at life, and they'll cry and make excuses about how scared they are to try. I'm a millennial, but man sometimes I wish I was born 15 years later, because I'm pretty sure I'd be dunking on this bitch made generation like Shaq in the paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:01 PM
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b-b-b-but my feeeelings.... Just go out there and do the damn thing, stop being so scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:41 PM
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You only have to "hit" once for it to be a success. I mean, if you're 0/100 shooting threes, then maybe move a little closer to the basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:32 PM
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Then another man who isn't affected by that will come along, shove you aside, and take the prize while you're sulking about not feeling involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:30 PM
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Most humans don't just have the ability to let shit roll off their back like that. That is an ability that can be developed with experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:21 PM
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If your reaction to failure and adversity is to get depressed and give up, then yes, it has negative consequences. You have a loser mentality that will bleed into other parts of your life. Those people are usually sorted into the bottom strata of society and life outcomes, and are time-wasters and complainers who bring people down. Nobody wants to be around that. If your reaction to failure and adversity is to fight even harder through it until you achieve your goal, then you likely have a winni…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:16 PM
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Nah, I'm pretty confident, and I don't think I'm better than other men. I freely admit I'm not that smart, attractive, fit, cool, likeable, clever, or accomplished. I simply don't fear failure anymore. Like I've failed a few times before and somehow always bounce back. I've also succeeded enough to know I'll be fine. THAT is confidence. The lack of fear, lack of anxiety. Not being neurotic about the situation, just go out and do whatever because the rules are made up and the points don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:52 AM
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Not to say you can't have sorted yourself out in your early 20s but a lot of people need some time to grow and develop as people. We're ok with a 22 year old choosing to take on hundreds of thousands in school debt, picking the career path that will affect them for the rest of their life, joining the military, etc, but God help you if you get married before 25 because your brain isn't fully developed. Like on reddit we literally have kids with over 100k in student debt working minimum wage jobs …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:13 PM
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Yeah a 12 minute mile pace is really slow for military standards. Must be trying to recruit the fat kids now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:27 PM
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That would work except the only ones throwing anyone in jail is other men. Women are cowards ngl, do your own dirty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:42 AM
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I kinda wish I had started earlier and we had 1 or 2 more kids. 4 kids over 8 years, starting at 26 and last kid done with school by 50. Perfect setup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:37 AM
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What's this dumb bullshit about thinking career women aren't greedy too. A doctor can bleed you dry just as good as a McDonald's cashier. Probably even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:32 AM
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Fatherhood is easy. The hard part is watching all your hopes and dreams wither away because of some dumb annoying kid running around breaking your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:47 AM
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IMO, you really have to earn the right to be physically affectionate with a another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:44 AM
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Because that would require effort. This is more of a drive-by smugging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:06 AM
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Take a genius high school kid. In his local midwestern suburban school, the athletes are popular, and he's probably invisible. In my city, that kid would be the most popular in his school because there's a pervasive tiger mom culture here. AWALT, but the environment greatly determines your outcomes in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:13 PM
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Everybody be sure to call mom and tell her you love her today!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:00 PM
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FA is actually a pretty great job for a passport sis once you get enough seniority to commute from abroad. I've met a few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:58 PM
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You ever notice how these people get all the therapy in the world and still live fucked up miserable lives anyway? Like they make no progress but at least they have a fancy therapy-approved excuse for sucking at life. Most of this mental health shit is just broke ass zoomers going nowhere in life trying to cope with their mediocrity by claiming every type of victimhood under the sun. Just losers doing what they're best at: losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:15 AM
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Honestly it's pretty easy to say all the right things and come off as a liberal man, and then throw all that shit out the window at 30 when you "find God" and tradcon mid 20s wifey comes along. Like just give liberal chicks validation and they'll give it up early and often if you're somewhat attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:51 PM
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People also romanticize their current environment. There's probably a significant amount of people from 100 years ago that would never want to come up in today's dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:46 PM
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I mean, your chosen definition is nebulous and academic, but not really actionable in any way. Like ok once you recognize those connections, then what do you do? Feels like a "thoughts and prayers" type of attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:41 PM
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Using aggregate data to prescribe an individual outcome is lazy and misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:37 PM
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Ok, connections recognized. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:31 PM
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Kobe had sustained success over a longer time until he got injured. Wade was good in his 06 run, but fell off hard by the last year of the Heatles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:28 PM
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While this isn't appealing to me in 2023, I'd definitely be cool with a robot mistress to blow me in my 80s cause I doubt my wife will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:46 AM
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It's not basic math. The marginal benefit he gets from the additional income is not worth the diminishing returns of "reduced compatible partner" incidence that goes down as income requirements get stricter. There's a difference between mindlessly doing the math, and using math as a tool to make sound decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:42 AM
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Well yes, that's solid advice but it's not exactly written in a manual and issued to every kid in high school. Men aren't born with this info and society vaguely implies being "just friends" is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:34 PM
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Dude, no, it's just cultural. There are certain cultures where they are very direct and will tell you the truth to your face whether you asked for it or not. Then there are cultures, like 2020s America, where people, particularly women, are low key seen as fake, and engage in constant manufactured validation with each other. I think most men just value the integrity of their words more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:05 AM
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Idk man I'd check an ID first. Sounds like a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:26 AM
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No. If I'm that deep in debt that my monthly cash flow is restricted, then I failed her and she's justified in losing faith in my stewardship due to said failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:19 AM
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Back in 2000, if you were in a bubble, it was often localized to your city. If you lived in San Diego, you didn't know metalheads in LA. Now in 2023 everyone can see everyone. When the people got connected, so did the bubbles. So now transplants from other scenes can connect with their local scene and the ones all around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:56 PM
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Depends on whether it's a change driven by external forces or internal forces. Changing your personality to pick up more women is being fake. Changing your environment to pick up women while staying the same person is being your natural self.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:44 PM
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Idk, man, it's a lifestyle. Usually paired with seeking alternate states of mind. Although it seems dumb to constantly hang out with friends living a lifestyle you're not into.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:40 PM
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Appealing to them, I think, is still the wrong mindset. You're still not being true to yourself as a man. More like, build up who you are as a man, and then put yourself out there in the right environment that celebrates your values and qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:26 PM
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It's interesting when I see advice to men on how to get women... it's usually a whole laundry list of things to do in order to be more broadly appealing and exciting to women so that they'll want to date them. You take a genuinely good, above average looking, balanced dude who's happy being who he is, but isn't successful in dating, and the recommendation I see is always for him to jump through hoops to be this man with broad dating appeal. Given the choice of having to change myself and be some…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:11 PM
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Trial and error. Experience. Willingness to put yourself out there and just do the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:57 AM
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Thank you, you get it. And I'm certain your kids will be better for it because of instead of being some sacrificial broodmare, you actually share your life with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:40 AM
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I’m guessing you have a partner that helps you take care of them or they’re away from you for long periods of time. Because if you want to travel on a whim because you saw cheap prices, will do you do it anyways or do you have to rethink your life around them to see if you can leave them with anyone so you can travel. Why on earth would I leave them behind if I'm going to travel on a whim? Another example is how you spend money. Maybe without kids you wouldn’t care much about spending on frivolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:38 AM
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I don't either, I'm just saying don't sit there and bullshit me about how meaningful and life-changing it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:51 PM
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I didn't say don't visit. Reread what I posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:11 PM
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How would one even know they'd prefer it when they're still in their 20s? Young people are utterly ignorant about life in middle age and just assume they'll be one fit in the grave after 45 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:01 PM
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I am not holding you accountable for anything. I am indifferent to you. I am saying people who aren't financially stable should hold themselves accountable, not passively chalk it up to some nebulous societal force. If it don't apply, then let it fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:39 PM
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Not really. It's called a balance. Sometimes, you favor your kids, and sometimes you favor yourself. I still mostly do the same stuff I've always done, I just have to account for what to do with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:35 PM
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I wasn't even fucking talking about you. I don't even know you. My point was that people blame their situations on society. Reported for incivility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:29 PM
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I've noticed that men use oral as a crutch for being "good" at sex. When all you have is a hammer, everything starts looking like a nail. Truth is, you have to develop the other aspects. The stroke game. The foreplay game. Being able to smoothy escalate and transition from kissing to touching, to penetration, and beyond. You're essentially the conductor and being able to use the right techniques to put on a show that's both satisfying to you and her is key. Also, optional: perfecting the pull ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:27 PM
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On a tangent, but it's now a funny cliche how American kids suddenly think their lives are more meaningful and worldly because they drank/smoked/fucked on a different continent while superficially experiencing a different culture's tourist traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:14 PM
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That sounds too passive. Let's change it into active voice: "it’s sad that I took so long just to be financially stable" There, that's what accountability sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:53 PM
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Once you have kids your life stops being about you and is only about them. For at least the next 18 years. Not really. Maybe for the first couple years or so, but you eventually learn to make space for them and still be an adult once they hit school age. If you want to become a martyr, then that's your own personal choice. Idk maybe people should stop being neurotic helicopter parents if they want their lives back lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:50 PM
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I think people just don't consider what their lives might be like in their 50s, especially if their own parents are older. You end up getting sandwiched by geriatric parents to deal with and young children to take care of at the same time. That fucking sucks more than you could ever know. I had young parents, my mom was 18 when she had me and my dad was about 22. Socially it was actually pretty cool because my mom was young enough to relate to me as a teenager. We even had an overlapping period …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:45 PM
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Your dating strategy depends on the outcome you desire. Do you want to end up married to an attractive woman, or do you want a variety of sexual experiences? Also, body count doesn't necessarily increase your value as a man, experience and confidence do. The two are just usually tied together, but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:07 PM
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Sure, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:41 PM
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Not an impossible ask. Asking implies a degree of passivity. Women ultimately get the relationship they negotiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:06 PM
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This mf tryna give advice and tell other ppl to touch grass when they just eating takeout and watching a movie 😆 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:24 AM
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So then why even say "let's find a happy medium" when you have zero intention to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:10 AM
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What do men want? Women who aren’t attracted but indebted? Or women with options who are excited by their partners? What do women want? Commitment or excitement? It's a two-way street, because attractive male marriage prospects often locked themselves into commitments when they normally wouldn't today due to their social expectations and relative lack of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:06 AM
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"Let's find" as if you actually have any real say, lol. You get what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:45 AM
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You make it sound like capitalism was just invented. We literally fought an entire cold war under the banner of capitalism. More like the banner of the post-imperial Western liberal democratic Western international order that sought to control the entire world for its own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:42 AM
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Tokyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:54 AM
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White noise generator app on my phone. Pretty much changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:44 AM
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Like how very recently people were being gaslit into thinking that women didn't go for "bad boys" and that they were just confident men or they were misled. But now I'm seeing a lot of "she's used to chaos due to past trauma (whether players or upbringing) and that's why she self sabotages". Man, people are absolutely twisting themselves and their lives into knots in order to avoid accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:44 AM
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I hope you bring this same outrage and energy when the career women around here condescend to housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:27 AM
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Here is the problem with value? What is high value? By your definition someone who contributes a lot to society. Let's say you had a baby. A baby contributes zero to society and is actually a drain on social resources. If your baby worthless then? You're referring to utility, not value. A baby is a net drain on society. But, that baby has an unknowable value to society in its potential to be something someday. We don't know the future, so we can't accurately judge his or her present value. So it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:27 PM
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wtf 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:53 AM
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cool story, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:47 AM
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I didn't say it reduced obesity, I said it incentivized them to not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:37 AM
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Idk, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:36 AM
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I avoid that entire scenario by being the sole breadwinner. Shit just works. Like an old diesel engine that runs for a million miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:28 AM
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Yeah I'm over here still trying to figure it out, myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:23 AM
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Fat shaming affects people beyond the ones getting shamed. In this sense, it incentivizes people to not be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:21 AM
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The whatever I said was that the red pill dictates a guy's life and beliefs, which then begs the question: who or what is telling him who his 'love interest' should be? The red pill right? Not really. The red pill is a set of experiential truths that practicioners may use as a means to achieve whatever effect they desire. It's a toolbox, not a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:48 PM
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The point of AWALT is to help men drop the halo effect on a particular love interest, not whatever you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:49 PM
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You literally typed up a whole post about being completely wrong about a woman's response to game. Idk maybe you don't understand other women and their signals as well as you think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:35 PM
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That dating pool starts to get backfilled by women growing increasingly desperate or rebounding from failed relationships around 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:11 AM
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Whether the complaints are justified or not, the pawns get fucked all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:47 AM
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I think for a lot of Western women who earn their own money and don’t have aspirations to be a SAHM, this kind of relationship is not ideal from our perspective as we would not find we are genuinely attracted to a man 20 years older and who we can’t really talk to and bond with. I think this kind of gets at the heart of the issue. It reminds me of that meme where a older guy says "I consent", a young hot girl says "I consent" and an unrelated angry feminist says "well, I don't consent!". Anyway …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:11 AM
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Not a fan of the mainland, the city people are generally awful and ignorant. I fuck with Malaysians and Taiwanese tho, they're pretty fuckin cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:46 PM
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Sure, whatev.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:33 PM
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Nah you're still kinda damaged goods, just not for the reason you originally thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:12 PM
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You know, it's interesting. I have sympathy for guys like you because I place you in a different category of men suffering from severe mental issues. I hope technology can get you the help you need. Though I think if you didn't have those issues and were simply being a petulant incel, that sympathy would turn into contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:57 PM
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Yes but by understanding cultural differences, we can pinpoint areas of higher incidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:12 AM
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Okay, "blue is the best color" is not an objective fact. "Most people think blue is the best color" is an objective fact. If you can't tell the difference, then you don't have the requisite brainpower for this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:50 PM
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I'll actually change your view on this. This argument has two parts to it: theory and execution. Theoretically, it makes more sense for him to go to a market where women who meet his standards are in abundance, and men who match his value are rare. The logic behind it is untouchable. Of course one would advocate it's the "only" option. Having said that, the execution is difficult and usually requires a lot of patience and savvy to pull it off. You have to pay for transportation, then allow enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:49 PM
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Asia consists of roughly 2+ billion women. Some are and some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:03 PM
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That's a cop out. Value can be determined by the aggregation of subjective opinions. Therefore, it can be defined relative to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:55 PM
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Dudes aren't trying to hook up with most younger women, just maybe a handful of them. That's the difference between a confident man's perspective and a neurotic woman's perspective. A neurotic woman sees she has a <50% chance and gives up. A confident man sees he has a >5% chance and likes his odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:47 PM
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That husband is folded because he allows himself to be. A stronger man would have 100% put her in her place. If you're a man who absolutely does not come for any bullshit, then you'll do very well. If you're a meek introvert hoping for a meeker, weaker feminine woman to submit to you then yeah you'll have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:26 AM
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"It"? You mean "them", right? 2 for the price of 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:45 PM
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"Debate respectfully" aka dance the monkey dance so the teacher thinks they did their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:41 PM
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Huh? I've never seen a woman receive accolades for doing normal things, can you give an example of what you mean? I'm a neutral observer, but this is either a disingenuous statement, or you're too ignorant of the world to be worth conversing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:10 AM
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Humans creating a social construct over multiple generations to govern their own behavior would actually be an action of natural monogamy. It wasn't exactly imposed on us by an outside source.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:44 PM
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Beachy California casual. My wife dresses like that and it was part of my initial attraction to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:14 PM
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Well, that's the trick. If I let my kid occupy my vacated paid-off house, he can make 50k a year and have the exact same amount of disposable income as someone making 130k.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:49 AM
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Based on what you posted, I would probably consider you much wiser than the average person. Doubly so if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:30 AM
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Those kids turn out to be fucking weird. The real future power brokers are waist deep in drunk sluts at the frat house that can literally buy off a judge if they get in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:20 AM
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Eh, the way people try to turn pets into a proxy for human children these days is a massive fucking turnoff to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:16 AM
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Friends disappear, you make new ones. You fill your life with interests and meet new people through them. You meet other people in new stages of life. The problem is when you're in your 50s trying to live like a 20 year old NEET and nobody wants to fuck with you because people your age have grand kids and seats on nonprofit organization boards and shit, younger people dont want to hang out with a grandpa, and you're Peter Pan stuck in a permanent arrested development.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:18 AM
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What's love got to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:10 AM
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Plot twist: it was a lesbian tryst with the au pair. I've seen this movie before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:07 AM
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I pity people who need to work. Essentially, they have hardcore Stockholm syndrome with their capitalist masters and are usually dull and uninspiring humans who need to be force-fed meaning and routine in their lives. Family and friends are a lot as it is. Learning new skills, languages, giving to and mentoring others, building up your body, nurturing and satisfying curiosity about the world. There's just so much more to do in this life than make other people rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:03 AM
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Have whatever preference you want, but don’t call people derogatory names and if you don’t want to be “shamed for your preferences” speak about them in a way that isn’t gross. Disagree. People should drop this fake polite bullshit and say what they actually think. If you don't want to be shamed, don't do shameful things. That goes for both slut shaming and preference shaming. Own your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:31 AM
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Ah yes, the D.E.N.N.I.S. system. Very well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:36 AM
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The humor is that the teacher immediately clutched her pearls after hearing something they knew would trigger her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:40 AM
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Nurse needs to be in there somewhere imo. Also military. Gonna need to make it a bigger list, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:15 AM
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Maybe guys like Daniel Day Lewis, Patrick Stewart, or Chadwick Boseman that do it for the art. The A listers that revel in their celebrity status are a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:23 PM
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You can only really embrace villainy from a position of strength. Like "I'll take whatever I want and fuck you try and stop me".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:13 PM
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Hard agree. Like I could maybe give a pass to a trans man, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:11 PM
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Those women are good for filling out a rotation, though. Not everyone can be a star.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:21 PM
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Why do either, just pay for a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:45 PM
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Enough women do that it becomes a thing to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:42 PM
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Believe what you want, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:45 PM
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Because it's a flex that he can be an asshole and still get what he wants in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:31 PM
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Then immigration it is! Passport bros rejoice, the women are coming to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:03 PM
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And I doubt there will be very much competition in the job market with the record number NEETs coming from Gen Z. Good for the capable kids that can actually show up and do a job, bad for those of us relying on their skills to keep society functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:02 PM
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Incentivizing women who are actually motivated to be moms in their prime seems a lot more sane than dooming our nations youth to being raised by geriatric thots that aged out of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:56 PM
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Idk man those bentos are pretty good and have a lot of healthy veggies in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:41 PM
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This right here. I see a lot of people on Reddit that literally just go get a PhD for lack of anything better to do. But god forbid if you don't call them "doctor" because, you know, they deserve their respect for checks notes desperately hiding from the job market for 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:31 PM
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It's easy to rationalize. Men want a woman who rejects other men but has genuine desire for him alone, and accepts him enthusiastically. It's supposed to be an illogical emotion/action where she breaks all of her rules for him because she's waiting for the "right guy" and he's that "right guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:17 PM
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I think most men do, because imo most relationships are out of convenience that start out under the guise of romance and attraction, but by the time you get to kids, the mask is definitely off. Mine isn't like that, thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:06 PM
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There's a difference between enjoying the act of sex and promiscuity. Do you really not understand the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:09 PM
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Idk, it's a stretch to call any of those places a failure (didn't work) or to call places like U.S. a success (did work). I mean yeah they have a lower median income but they also don't have MS-13 execution squads, an opioid epidemic, or homeless people shitting on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:14 PM
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You don’t have to pretend that you’re looking for romance or that there’s no quality options in the US. But both those things can be true. The point is to get more bang for your buck utilizing arbitrage. What you offer gets you a better match of what you want in a different market. Whether that's a 3rd world decadent harem or being a doting husband and family man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:10 PM
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I'm impressed at the lack of self-awareness it takes to date all those guys and conclude that it's the men who are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:32 PM
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You're literally arguing with a criminal lawyer with decades of experience. You're just making yourself look foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:19 PM
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Much like negative yelp reviews, it's a loud minority. Happy people don't bother creating subs and making posts about how happy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:08 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you've written here. I think a lot of that comes from chasing career early in life. Moving away from family kills your support network and usually increases your cost of living going from a boring, simple family area to an exciting place for young singles near a bigger job market. So if you meet your partner in your new city, you cohabitate but now your tastes, housing, and consumption gets more expensive to match your combined incomes. You're in a 2-income trap. Add a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:40 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:42 PM
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I know this is a tangent, but I wanted to continue the thread. I think that's a pretty good take on existing U.S. natives, but mass immigration is such a major confounding variable. For example, among young, mostly white middle-class people, religion is fading away, but so many of our immigrants are heavily religious and traditional. While we're used to immigrants assimilating into mainstream American culture in the past, the continual embracing of multiculturalism and uniqueness has allowed mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:41 PM
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Hitting up attractive older women for something casual and fun is pretty normal, as they don't expect the relationship to last long. As a man, when you're looking at a 10, 20, possibly even 30+ year timeline of sex, cohabitation, and optionally fertility, the better bet is 32 or younger, regardless of the man's age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:08 PM
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Is that a 2 year age gap in relationships or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:49 PM
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Compatibility and maternal instinct is far more important priorites for those roles. I can think of 2 or 3 more traits that would come before brains. Thinking intelligence is some magic bullet that solves everything is some Cleveland Browns type of thinking lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:07 PM
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That's great if you're recruiting an employee for a company. But kinda dumb if you're using it to find a wife. Reminds me of those sports teams that are forever awful because they always burn their #1 picks on whoever has the most hype, instead of actually doing their homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 06:53 AM
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This is what happens when you're a little too permissive, accepting, and open-minded. You lose the ability to stand for anything, especially your own self-respect and dignity as a man. I'm sure he was sniffing his own farts and wanking to the thought of how enlightened and progressive he was, right up until the point where he realized she didn't respect him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 08:13 AM
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Pretty hard for a lesbian couple to adopt a kid if they don't already have good money, which can mitigate a lot of issues. A working class family can raise a decent kid too, but working class plus broken home is usually too big a mountain to overcome unless the parent is very well adjusted, or the kid is very exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:52 AM
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Man it was great. Parents gave you a long leash, kids still played outside, every year video games got exponentially more amazing, and there was 0 chance of going viral. Also the music was absolute fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:05 AM
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Older women, like 37+ are pretty interesting. Once the male gaze is off of them and they're just another shaved ape like the rest of us, they tend to grow into pretty cool people. Women under 30 are an absolute waste of time to talk to. It's like conversing with a teenage boy who thinks they know everything but in reality hasn't done shit in life and is too dumb and immature to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:56 AM
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The point is, these men are extremely rare. Rare in overall numbers, but they cluster together. It's like living in rural Kansas wanting to date surfer dudes and then complaining that they're extremely rare. How could I increase my appeal more? Lol. Date with intention. Discover what the men you want, want in a romantic partner. Do your best to become that. But being like "I've tried absolutely nothing and I'm all out of ideas!" is probably not a good course of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:47 PM
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Where are the virgin men making 6 figures and owning multiple properties who've never cheated and are in great shape? Where are these men hm? Probably at a church, temple, or a mosque. A man like that would likely be from a well to do religious family looking to set him up and be highly sought after by another wealthy religious family with a daughter. So what is the issue with me hm? The issue is that your appeal doesn't match your standards. Either increase one or lower the other. But blaming m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:10 PM
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The proportion of happy single people was higher than it really was because in reality most of those happy singles were actually married. It directly affects the conclusion drawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:54 PM
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It's less just world fallacy and more assortative mating. The aggregate actions and choices of both men on your level choosing not to couple with you, and of men below your level thinking they have a shot with you puts you where you are. That didn't happen by accident. But the problem is when single women that can't get a man "on their level" have an inflated perception of themself and wrap their ego and pride up in it. In order to fix the issue, they would have to admit there was a problem, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:35 PM
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Idk about Philippines but in Japan, being exotic is polarizing. You lose a lot of people but the ones that remain are more strongly attracted to you. Black american culture is pretty far reaching in the world and a lot of girls in Asia fuck with that aesthetic. More than you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:57 AM
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They had a choice when they picked their partner. And they chose... poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:43 PM
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I find that Redditors' political narratives often work their way into PPD relationship conversations. In other words, people promote what is consistent with their narrative, not what might actually work best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:22 PM
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I can't think of a single woman from Asia that would go for that deal and I know a lot, on both sides of the ocean. Traditional behavior comes with traditional expectations. I'm sure you could find someone desperate enough to agree with being taken advantage of that hard-core, but I don't see how you could expect one way loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:49 PM
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There's 2 kinds of men whose genes survive: men who are good at fighting, and men who are good at fucking. Modern society has neutered our ability to fight, so what else is there really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:06 PM
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It's fair. Jake is a simp and a fool for waiting 6 months and deserves what he got.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:45 PM
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The kids of smart, capable people that can see through bullshit will be fine. But most people won't be fine. Sucks to be them, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:30 AM
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That's not resentful, it's called "not willingly ruining your life".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:21 AM
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Typically issues regarding neglect or abandonment by a father figure, but not limited to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:33 PM
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It's a deal breaker to me. Sure you can't choose your family and it's not your fault, but that's irrelevant. Deal breakers exist for the benefit of the chooser, not to be fair to the one being chosen. You're not owed relationship interest by anyone for any reason. So, I avoid commitment with women that have daddy issues, broken homes, kids, past abuse, sexual assault, any kind of addiction, promiscuity, tattoos, or mental health issues. Like if I'm dating a woman and catch any hint of these, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:47 PM
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I don't think one needs to be in a relationship, but I also think there's a significant amount of people that are 100% capping about being happily single and "working on themselves" because they're too proud to admit that they've failed at attracting a decent partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:33 PM
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The threat isn't just the incels. There's also the Qanon types, religious fundies, and various other maligned groups that form a political bloc with their votes. They all want to tear down the liberal democratic order. Roe v Wade was the first casualty. More to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:00 PM
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Shunning has different effects for different people. For example if your friend group is made up of a bunch progressive urban educated types connected to social media, then yeah you're a lot more vulnerable than say, a good ol boy redneck from Texas working for big oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:20 AM
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Creepiness is catch-all to socially shame someone, deserved or not. The only variable is the degree to which the person being shamed cares about the consequences. You can't really shame someone who can't get hurt by your shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:06 AM
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Divorce rates are a symptom of the culture you inhabit. Western culture constantly promotes individual success, grass is greener, dog-eat-dog type of mentality. Just being content isn't enough. There's never enough. Not a surprise that in my wife's culture most women just have regular jobs, have kids, and prioritize community, family. And divorce rate is pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:08 PM
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My aunt had 2 kids but was so 100% laser focused on educational/career success that neither kid wants a family now. It's all about career. She complains that she'll never get grandkids. All that to say, you may have merely delayed the end of your line by 1 generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:55 PM
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AI can't repair a roof or do an oil change. Even if it can literally instruct you on how to do it, it still requires experience and repetition. If anything the trades are safer than ever because most milennials and zoomers completely lack any skills outside the knowledge economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:48 PM
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So... everyone knows that Pat is OJ Simpson, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:00 PM
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You keep talking society level and they keep responding on a personal level. I think it's less about intelligence and more like they are so self absorbed that they can't comprehend a macro level discussion where they aren't the main character.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:27 AM
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The next best option is actually to incentivize people that can already afford to have kids, to start having them or even have more. Then single parenthood after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:48 AM
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Exactly, so throw money at the ones who have proven to be competent and stop supporting the ones who are not. Glad we agree on this!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:35 PM
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So they are intelligent, but too incompetent to provide a decent life. Sounds like a bunch of worthless people. But I'm sure they'll make good fodder to boost quarterly profits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:16 PM
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What a stupid idea. You don't throw good money after bad. Those women are childless for a reason, and are bad investments. Let them live sequestered from the gene pool and allow them to unceremoniously die off after a life of consumption and labor. If anything, we should be giving more resources for married women with 2+ kids to have another. Those are the women we should want to replicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:26 PM
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Where’s the shit tests, where’s the negging, where’s the IOI’s or escalation tactics? TRP is heavily focused about game, and how with good game you can pull any chick. That is pickup artistry (PUA), not red pill. It's not the same thing. You have the two mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:57 PM
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Another thing is some highly traditional Christian communities place a massive emphasis on at least performing happiness, especially for women. Outside of pretty extreme events you’re not really supposed to be unhappy and certainly never admit to being unhappy, especially not towards your marriage. I would argue that society in general places a massive emphasis on performing happiness, just as much as religious women, if not more. Even more so in the age of social media. The more pride and bigge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:35 PM
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Other occupations with a relatively large number of people in them and high salaries like doctor, lawyer are already majority women. A quick Google search says that's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:00 AM
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Evolution working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:25 AM
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Holy hell, this man just laid the whole game out on a silver platter and that's what you got out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:19 AM
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People treat you how you let them. Not only are you a token to a bunch of privileged white people, but you're a eunuch to boot. Stop palling around with these beckies and go find people that actually appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:45 AM
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If she had more definition in those thighs, she'd be perfect. I'll take thin or thick, as long as there's muscle tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:46 AM
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There's some serious western women's burden going with some of these people. It's like they try so hard to be progressive and morally right, but that colonizer programming comes out and they end up saying some out of pocket shit like that, lol. Funny how it crosses racial lines, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:35 AM
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The men doing the dirty work to make your modern life of convenience possible get objectified every minute of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:27 AM
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TwoX is just the girlpower validation station for chronically online neurotic beckies. There's a lot of white knights in there to supply said validation, too. Some of the more granular woman-focused subs like asiantwox, brownladies, desitwox, the latina one, etc., seem a lot more grown up and reasonable. Maybe because they actually have real shit to deal with in their lives, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:23 AM
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My gut tells me to just let the crisis persist, sit back, and let the proles rip themselves apart. My brain tells me to double the child tax credit if the filing status is married filing jointly with a non-adoptive kid over 5 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:11 PM
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Yeah, I mean sure you might have a kid but it feels great. Worked out for me, at least, my pullout game was op although there was a couple of times where I just kinda threw the dice and left it in, and later was like "ah, I shouldn't have done that".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:59 PM
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Gen Z/late millennials and sucking at life, name a more iconic duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:35 AM
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There are many reasons, but for example women won't tell you about all the times she fell for an asshole and how it worked, because it paints her in a bad light. So, she'll give you advice that shows herself in a good light, even if it's worthless. "Be yourself, and be kind and respectful".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:09 PM
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Because women don't give dating advice with the intent of helping you actually reach your goal. There's usually a self serving reason behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:50 PM
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There's nothing weird about that at all, it's typical in most cultures for women to feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:45 PM
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In the secular, urban western world, yes. But I wouldn't ascribe that to the world at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:04 AM
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Easy way to solve this problem, get the kid involved in martial arts. Lots of strong male role models teaching in a positive, safe environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:40 AM
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Figure it out on their own? The whole point of a role model is that boys don't just automatically show up into adulthood knowing how to be a man. They can't figure it out on their own. But I get it, the prevailing female attitude is "fuck em, not my problem".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:28 AM
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😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:33 PM
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Bro Zhu Li turned into a lil firecracker in that last season.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:38 AM
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Would you like me to say “morally repellent”? Or would you prefer the unambiguous and straightforward “unethical” instead? Actually yeah, that would sound far better than "morally icky".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10wj2fi/after_10_years_i_found_out_my_daughter_is_not_mine It's stories like this that lead me to believe that certain people are just born to take L's their entire life, and there's no saving them. Even the friends knew, goddamn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:41 AM
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"Morally icky". is this how educated people speak English in 2023, jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:09 AM
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Nah it's just brutal for men who choose poorly. And your kid suffers, too, congrats. Stop blaming her, own your failures, and learn from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:03 AM
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Uh... alright then. Good luck in your maturation process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:56 PM
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Ive always been purple. Idk man you seem pretty unhinged about this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:17 PM
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Lol that was a straight up joke post. Funny how you cherry picked that one but not the 99.9% of other posts about my wife that show how much I love her. Don't you have anything better to do than stalk ppl on the internet😆🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:15 PM
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That's a profoundly lazy assumption. Being interested in the topics he raises doesn't mean my beliefs are a carbon copy of his. So, yes it does depend. For example, my wife will usually defer to me for most decisions because she trusts that I'll always take her needs and wants into account. But when she decides day to day stuff, I usually just go along with what she wants, unless I really insist, because it's just not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:24 PM
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Nah it's overrated. Everything I did as a kid to piss my mom off is currently happening to me, and I for one am not amused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:38 AM
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The answer to every single one of those questions is: it depends. Honestly if you have to ask, you'll never know. It requires a good sense of timing, being able to pick up on social cues, understanding the big picture, the ability to chill out, etc. Some people just have the ability to play free form jazz, and some just don't. The social version of that is the ability to be agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:31 AM
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Look, if people are going to consider you shallow, they're going to consider you shallow. Nothing you can do about that, because at the end of the day it's your ass that has to live with the relationship that you end up in. I have a lot of controversial standards. For example, I wouldn't ever commit to a girl with tattoos, comes from a broken home, or has ever had some kind of past trauma that required therapy. People ask me why, and get personally offended when I tell them. Or they'll form judg…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:06 AM
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There are a lot of people out there that simply can't just chill the fuck out and go with the flow. Like let's say we go on a road trip. Being agreeable means you're not going sit there and micromanage the schedule, fight every petty battle or disagreement, or need to feel informed and in control the entire time. This trait is not as common as you'd think, and a lot of people try to conflate it with being a pushover because maybe they feel seen or something, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:48 AM
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Then maybe don't patronize... I'm not, but if you feel that way then I encourage you to practice self-care and go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:16 PM
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That ride or die type of working class girl with a great work ethic, strong community/family values, but also a strong personality and doesn't take a lot of shit. Approaches the world from a place of kindness and curiosity, rather than suspicion and judgement. Strong moral base and sense of self, but open minded enough to accept differences. Understands and treasures the simple things that are truly important in life. Places more importance on people and relationships than ambition, success, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:04 PM
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I notice how you didn't say necessary at first. You said "dumb" and "why would I do that." The difference between me and your wife is that my husband is humble, and hers isn't. It's not a competition. And I'm not doing what is needed? That's really what you think? I don't really think about what you do or don't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:42 PM
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Doing dishes or laundry is a dumb, mindless task, but it's necessary. But I've just realized the difference between her and you, is that she approaches it from a place of humility and selflessness. A humble person can recognize something is dumb but still be happy to do it because the family needs it. Her natural instinct is to do what is needed for her family, because the success of the family itself is more important. The pathological need to split tasks 50/50 would purely be in service to her…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:41 PM
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Nah it's not sad at all. It's called a division of labor. I get paid at a very high rate, so it's far more efficient for me to do the paid work, and for her to do the unpaid work. Her having a childish demand for 50/50 housework would be purely in service to her feelings and pride while hurting the family. I imagine a young person who's only ever cared about her own ambitions would find the concept of putting others above the self quite jarring and immaturely lash out at the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:08 PM
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50/50 is not about measuring net contribution but about commitment and effort. That is why a guy who makes twice as much can't then do 1/2 as much housework as her if the both work equal hours. That tells me those women care more about feeling like things are equal (to protect their ego? Idk), rather than maximizing success for their family. This is how I know my wife is a true g. She'd be like "why are you wasting your time doing this dumb shit all day instead of securing the bag for the family…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:29 AM
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Forever fuck buddy unless she's like a truly exceptional person. But if she's that exceptional, then her being hot isn't that important, as long as she's a 1 on a scale of 0 to 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:51 AM
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Bullshit. The amount of old ass Karens going to Caribbean islands to "get their groove back" is off the fucking charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:29 AM
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those who are entering the last chapters of their lives (50s+) this dude on that mississippi life expectancy timeline 😆 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:18 AM
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It's pretty easy to find a potential wife that doesn't need to build a career off of publicly shitting on your marriage 24/7. Like these "omg being a mom is so hard" web comics are super fuckin played out but Beckys and Karens stay eatin this shit up so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:45 AM
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As an American, I support funding both wars and gangbangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:21 AM
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IMO it depends on the age group. Women aged 35+ are pretty cool and down to earth. Either that or an absolute mess and/or batshit crazy, which has likely manifested itself by then. Something about that post wall ego death just turns women into total bro's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:45 PM
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I'm going to use a music industry analogy here. Guys with average attractiveness and average income are like indie bands. There's a million of them, but most don't really stick out. If they're talented (good personality), they might get a small, dedicated following, but probably never make it big. Guys with money are like artists that get signed by a major label. They get produced and mass marketed. You hear them on the radio station whether they are talented or not. While some girls will into t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:34 PM
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Eh, the bodies are never the same. You can easily disprove shit with simple identifying traits. Now if someone found an exact body double of my wife for the purpose of defaming me, I'd honestly be kinda impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:41 PM
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He was divorced twice and died of high blood pressure at 57. Ironic because they say unmarried men don't live as long as married men. He beat cancer a while back, but apparently it left him vulnerable to health complications. Don't think it had much to do with his lifestyle, he was always on borrowed time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:37 AM
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The definition of sex carries no such assumptions. But you seem to be in your feelings on this, so I'll just leave it alone from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:39 PM
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Both his and yours are accurate. The only reason for you to insist on that is to add an emotional component to the language, which was what he was trying to avoid. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:36 PM
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He didn't sugar coat. If anything, he described it in the most emotionless, scientific way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:26 PM
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Well it's not like I have a factual survey, but the overwhelming majority aren't into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:49 PM
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This is the correct answer. If every woman 20-30 is some ultra progressive feminist career woman and men are turned off by that, then the trad housewife market is starved for supply and someone is going to jump on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:33 AM
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Your own words can be used against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:38 AM
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In order to give 100 and go all in, you'd have to see marriage and family as a calling and a fundamental purpose in your life. People just aren't built like that anymore. They only care about what they get out of the deal, therefore 50/50 seems "fair" because it's not stuff they want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:28 AM
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Uh what's your point? I'm talking about black men dating in East Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:20 AM
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Nah, Korea and Japan works fine. I know so many dudes who used to slay back when I lived in Japan. It wasn't even fair. Think of it this way, 99% of the women there would be extremely reluctant to date us. But that last 1% would literally fight a bitch to get at you. And there's a lot of baddies in that 1%. Lot of good girls that come from money, too. You'd really be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:01 PM
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It's not more rare because it's risky, it's more rare because most men can't afford it. As you said, when it works, it's great. I'm in a traditional marriage with kids. It's absolutely awesome. I can safely say there are far more women who want to be in a trad relationship but can't get a man, than there are men that have the ability to be a traditional family patriarch. If anything, I recommend most people to not have a traditional marriage because they're just not on our level and will go brok…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:32 PM
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While that can be true, you still have to allow for the fact that there is genuine cultural arbitrage going on, too. You have to allow some flexibility in your argument. It's ignorant, condescending, and comes off a bit bigoted to speak like women from poorer countries are incapable of romantic love with a foreign man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:40 AM
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American standards of what's hot differ from Asian standards. Like I've seen girls that'd be legit 8's in the states get ignored there because she didn't fit their ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:25 AM
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This actually works in your favor, though. Making a darker girl who's been shit on all her life for her skin tone and internalizes self hate due to a colorist society actually feel beautiful, comfortable with herself, and worthy of love can result in some pretty.... intense feelings of romantic attachment. I find this especially true in Latin America.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:18 AM
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Okay, I volunteer at soup kitchens and homeless shelters during my free time. Does this mean you accept what I said now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:33 AM
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Oh no, the hedonists are getting triggered. 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:29 AM
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I'm going to say yes it does. There's still a sizable amount of middle class women that desperately want a certain lifestyle or children, so they have to go after a man of certain means to see it through since they can't achieve it on their own. Competition wise, if you map a woman's chances on a bell curve, they are best if the required wealth cutoff is as low as possible with the fat part of the bell curve as far to the right of (above) that requirement as possible. But income inequality means…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:26 PM
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It seems that it's not a coincidence that you've had both a poor track record for relationships, and a prolonged adolescence that only just ended as you approached your late 20s (as you tell it).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:40 AM
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she spends her days working a low stress job and then on her days off going to cute cafes and exploring her city. Low stress. No kids. What a vapid, pointless existence, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:15 AM
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Bruh, nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:43 PM
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The answers to the issues you're giving are the concerns of an overly neurotic dude that's afraid of inconveniencing others or getting rejected. There's a saying for the British special forces; "[he] who dares, wins". The real answer is to not give a fuck how you're perceived, and just do what you gotta do to get what you want. There has to be an element of testicular fortitude where you just go out and impose your will on the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:20 PM
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The biggest thing PPD has taught me is the powerful method of shaming and consensus on social media. Women often use the pressure of consensus as a way to moderate the behavior of a group. Not a good or bad thing, it just is. This happens on many fronts: n count, international dating, wanting a tradwife, lack of fat acceptance, age gaps, sex workers, and so on. They'll say it's misogynistic, or "ick", or gross, or problematic, or patriarchal, incel behavior, and so forth. Typically it's some kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:30 PM
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As Chappelle once said, white women were in on the heist, they just didn't like their cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:20 PM
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You literally said it doesn't fade at 30 and he proved you wrong, with receipts. But the fact that you can't take such a small L that doesn't even hurt your argument is indicative of a bigger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:11 PM
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I'd say the distribution of quality for American men is a lot more extreme than it is for Europe and Asia, but the median American man is much worse than theirs. American rugged individualism and exceptionalism has the potential to produce some amazing men. Strong, masculine, bold self-starters with the balls and ability to dream big and take what they want in life. But more often than not it produces a bunch of fatass ignorant morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:45 AM
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The reason you don't understand is because the replies are meant to be provocative, but the jokes aren't really landing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:05 AM
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This sub would have you believe 95% of the women on earth are hard-core egalitarian progressive childfree atheist unbothered feminist women that also happen to be the exception to every rule and trend under the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:46 PM
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Trashy gon' trash, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:21 PM
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Nah, it'd be too easy to replace her to settle for lack of sex. Maybe if I was some "forever alone" type dude, I could see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:10 PM
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Idk, the women's size preference chart begs to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:52 PM
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I couldn't imagine being 4 inches taller than I am and only having a 4.8 inch dick. What a goddamn waste of height. There's something satisfying about having a decent length of travel inside a vagina, and being able to get the tip all the way to the cervix. I'd imagine more transition between full in and full out is pleasurable to a woman but idk. 4 is like....in and out. Just binary, not much transition at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:26 PM
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Are women equals? Most people aren't equal to me. Some women are superior to me. Some are equal. Most are inferior, imo. But I'd say the same thing about men, too. I consider myself above average, so mathematically this would make sense on a bell curve. Connect intellectually? I do not think an intellectual connection is a good base for a sexual relationship anymore than money or social obligation is. 50/50 housework? No, I don't want to do 50%. Which is why I shack up with women who enjoy cooki…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:59 PM
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This is the real answer. Most parents are just rather lazy and unimpressive. One common thread with great athletes is the reverence they have for their parent(s) for putting them in a position to succeed. Michael Jordan, Tiger Woods, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:50 PM
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I get it, man. I feel the same way. You pay it back to your elders, and pay it forward to the kids. That's the way it's always been. You are getting these responses because in the West, everyone is obsessed with themselves and their own selfish desires. And they will pressure you for not thinking the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:29 PM
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If a girl is not attracted to you, the door is shut, and there is no amount of niceness that will get it open. Even if a girl is attracted and the door is initially open, being an asshole might get you through, or being nice might. Or either might shut it. You just never know until you make contact. Better to keep an even keel until you figure out what she'll respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:01 AM
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Interesting statement. Got any numbers to back it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:30 PM
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Why do you people insist on talking in absolutes. It's not "every hot girl will fall at your feet", and it's not "no girl will give you the time of day" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:07 PM
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I don't think getting merely average sex is going to dissuade them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:49 PM
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I think the disconnect is that people in America see the actions from a third person native context. Like why is this guy so adamant about letting everyone loudly know he's leaving, we don't care. He obviously can't get a girl, is undesirable, we don't want you, etc etc. But zoom out to a larger context- one topic most dudes around the world can bond over is how awful American women are. So guys abroad get these girls that act feminine, bash the women back home with other dudes (and honestly, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:59 PM
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That link is basically saying, roughly 8.5% of U.S. native marriages are with a foreign born spouse as of 2013. Or, 1 out of 12 married couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:26 PM
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Once you do it, you'll be upset that you waited so long to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:31 PM
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Hard agree. Ask a high-n single mom if she'd be ok with her son dating a high-n single mom. Bet you can get what the answer is 9 times out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:30 PM
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I guarantee you if people had to pick between more money/success and continuing the patriarchy, they'd choose the money 100 times out 100. Why aren't women in charge of everything? You know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:22 PM
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Anyone can expect you to do anything for any reason. Getting stressed out, exhausted, and resentful for trying to live up to the expectations of others is 100% a personal failure to set and enforce boundaries. Perfectionism and achievement for its own sake is very common in career people. But it's also a huge red flag for marriage, because a lot of it stems from a pathological need to meet the expectations of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:05 PM
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They don't need to be taxed, all of their labor value goes right back into the economy. Singles live very inefficiently and wastefully compared to families. They can't capture the savings of buying in bulk, pooling resources, or the division of labor. They are far more likely to rent, less likely to save, and far less likely to benefit from compounding interest and equity across multiple workers and multiple generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:33 AM
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Poor people's problems lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:09 AM
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There are plenty of companies and workplaces that offer generous maternity leave. Just because it's not codified into federal law doesn't mean it doesn't exist or is not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:07 PM
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That's why it doesn't pay to long-term deal with women who've been abused, had any self-described traumas, or came from broken families/absent fathers. It's like walking into a minefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:26 AM
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There's good relationships, and then there's ride or die girls that will literally follow you into the gates of hell. Those are the ones worth trusting. Seems like dudes will just end up trusting anyone and end up getting burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:11 AM
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I'd take the latter. I can always have an executive marriage and pay hookers for sex. There's ways around unsuccessful dating if you got money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:47 AM
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Higher incidences of deviant behavior and mental illness among men. Also because violence often gets shit done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:38 AM
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Bro if there's a woman as sweet as my wife that can cook, keep the house, raise the kids AND bring in more money than me, I'll propose on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:22 AM
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Gonna need some numbers for that or I'm calling cap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:20 AM
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The thread he quoted was not about who men end up with. Nobody cares if men end up disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:02 AM
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This excerpt is about a specific cohort of single women, not "most people".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:15 AM
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Men want variety. You could be with a supermodel, and you'll still want to bang random college thots. You roll with the thots and still want a milf. Get with the milf and now you want a supermodel again. It's like a drug addict chasing a high. Eventually it wears off and you need another fix, it just doesn't end. You never catch the dragon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:29 AM
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In theory, women want you to be honest but respectful. In practice, giving women what they claim they want isn't even worth the trouble because you're still the bad guy either way. Ghost her and leave her on read. FWB her and just refuse to give any energy to the subject about commitment. Become an emotionless gray rock when she tries to interact with you. Whatever you do, don't give her feedback. You ain't a damn therapist. Not your job to give her feedback or closure. If you do it, best case s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:18 AM
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That's the most sensible, mature take I've seen on this issue so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:09 AM
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I wish I could time travel back to where we're both 18 again and bang my wife from back then. We didn't meet until late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:49 AM
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It surprises me that most men don't just form a core of platonic female friends that turn around and become wingwomen. Like just be a really really good friend with women to the point where they'll vouch for you and they'll tee up their friends, coworkers, classmates, hell even their sisters and cousins. Literally got half my n count this way. But unfortunately that requires not doing weird shit and not hating women, so maybe it's bad advice for this crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:38 AM
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No, you're ignorant and small minded for declaring that people who have different, legal, reasonable opinions than you are "perverse and disgusting". I don't like 18-22 year old women, but I'm mature enough to understand that such a difference of opinion is not some absolute moral barometer upon which all others should be judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:36 PM
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You're entitled to your views, but the strong intolerance toward people who are attracted to 18-22 year olds makes you seem ignorant and small minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:23 PM
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Oh you're just trolling. Ok my bad carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:13 PM
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No to first part, yes to second Yes, but, I'd change that to "embracing the role". It's about letting go of the need to be in control. You can disagree with someone and still be deferential. I disagree with people at work and advocate for my view, but if they decide against it, then I get on board and support their decision to the best of my ability. The trust in my judgment is more important. There has to be a fundamental trust that if I don't agree with them and do something else, that it's fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:20 PM
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What was the point in responding if you didn't care in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:08 PM
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Nah, I'm done because you're completely off the reservation and there's no point in continuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:07 PM
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Very well written post, and I absolutely agree with you about the professional sphere. Most people are just not even worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:06 PM
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Don't need luck; already winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:20 PM
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The only way you can have power over someone with their consent is if they consented to allowing you to forcibly impose your will on them against their consent at an earlier time. lol alright, I think I'm done here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:17 PM
0

The shaming language falls flat when laced with so much bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:15 PM
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A woman can submit to another and still think for herself. It's not mutually exclusive, and she always has the option to walk away. And it's not terrifying to want someone on the same page as you. Being challenged respectfully is fine once in a while, and women can do that and still submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:48 PM
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Having power doesn't mean constantly bulldozing over someone and "enforcing your will". It's being a steward of the combined resources and efforts with the consent of others. It's wild to me how many people can submit to their boss at work for the goal of making income (and not be abused), but can't seem to apply the same concept to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:28 PM
2

A personal relationship is not like that. There is no goal you're trying to accomplish. Uhhh what? People have relationship goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:39 AM
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What is with you men in wanting a woman to “submit” to you? This isn’t old times anymore. Things have changed and will keep changing. So what? I want what I want and I have the value to get it. Like I give a fuck what the times are, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:27 AM
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I see this as a net good. The weak and stupid are sorting themselves to the bottom of the society in a coma induced social media haze. It makes assortative mating even faster and easier. Plus, with more genetic dead ends, it produces more forever-workers that we can stuff into studio apartments, sell products to, and tax the hell out of. They certainly have no inheritances to leave behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:41 AM
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Well, you bring up an even better point -- stable and predictable are usually pejoratives conflated with "boring". But what many people don't understand is that you can see and experience far more things in this world when you have a solid foundation to get you there. Nobody wants to fly across the world in an unpredictable airplane. The pandemic made that blindingly obvious -- you lose so much time having to fix and repair your life when it's unstable and unpredictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:48 PM
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The male offers the framework, the female either "submits" to his offer and subsequent stewardship, or she rejects it and finds another man. It's not like she gets clubbed over the head and then chained up in the basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:40 PM
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It's not about making every single discrete decision. It's more about setting the tone and providing a framework to operate within. Like ok for example some guys are all about social status and achievement. That guy is ok with you doing whatever tf you want as long as it's consistent with that framework. A girl's weekend in Vegas is probably ok. Getting too wild and posting pics with a male stripper on Instagram is probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:23 PM
2

I used to want a equal partnership with an educated woman with an assertive attitude and all that. We should intellectually challenge each other. She should be strong and independent. Even with that, relationships were work. Marriages were even harder work. Prospects for having a family were bleak, because you've got 2 separate careers to balance. Getting in fights about responsibilities, getting hurt was constantly a threat. Anyway, I ended up getting together with a girl who preferred to follo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:46 PM
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The problem is that modern society tends to endlessly gas up mediocre women into thinking they have high value as a way to market goods and services to them. These women are more likely to buy beauty products, subscribe to an influencer, or take a girl's trip if they're feeling good about themselves. Unfortunately you end up with a lot of delusional women with high standards. At that point you just blame the failures on the men, and then promote the concept of being "happily single" or "better o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:09 PM
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Strong leadership by a competent leader is usually the most effective way organize a small group of people. An infantry squad, a basketball team, a restaurant kitchen, or even a family. Everyone plays their role and promotes a unity of effort toward a common goal. I'm not saying equal partnerships can't work, but in my experience, that method is almost always chosen primarily to assuage the ego of people who refuse to defer, not because it's a more effective way to run a small group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:07 AM
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Well that's certainly a sexist assumption. What is this, the 1950's?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:27 AM
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Yeah, and your argument is dumb. You're trying to logic your way through something that you're clearly out of your depth with. But hey I'm a child of a single mom currently raising 3 kids myself so wtf do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:30 AM
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My precious baby girl is doing gymnastics and I am 100% on board with being a gangsta ass gym dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:22 AM
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You can be a mother without a man. Just because you can do something doesn't make it a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:19 AM
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An investment has to be tied to an outcome or a goal. Investing just to invest is an exercise in stupidity. If your desired outcome is perpetual hedonism (which it usually is), then yes chasing career is a better investment. If your desired outcome is to be a wife and mother with an intact marriage and family, a career may, and often does, frustrate progress toward that end. Sometimes it works out, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:57 AM
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Well, for women, fathers often tend to be your first and most significant male role model. So, if you grew up with a positive masculine image toward your father and agree with how he treats women, you'll likely seek out the same thing (at least on a subconscious level) and repeat your mother's choices. Of course, it cut both ways -- many women see their parents and say "I don't want that for myself", and end up doing the opposite of what their mother chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:31 PM
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Well, do you have respect for how your father treats your mother? Because that could go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:34 PM
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So, to what are you referring men being loyal to? The subject was about men in general, not incels. This is the first time in the comment chain that I've seen them mentioned or even implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:16 PM
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Absolutely, 100%. So many beautiful shades and features of men and women on this planet. But intentionally taking the mayopill 99% of the time? Nah that ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:11 PM
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Nah, not if you don't fit the right "type" that girls of your ethnicity generally want. By crossing ethnic lines, you greatly increase your chances of finding a more timely, complementary match. I'm black and I don't fault black women for wanting what they want, but I'm not going to sit around and wait for a unicorn to appear, when I can take matters into my own hands. Having said that, there's an element of white worshipping that can't be ignored, on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:49 PM
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My field literally has an unprecedented shortage of qualified applicants, and we earn mid 6 figures. I'm not particularly smart, hard working, or talented. I just have qualifications and can fog a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:34 PM
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You're the same age as my mom, so now I have to treat you really nicely. Hope you have a wonderful day on your farm today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:54 PM
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Lol if this was the cheat code to happiness and success, every man would be doing it. You're assuming people are rational actors. They can be shamed or culturally pressured into loyalty. They can be fed misinformation by unreliable sources. And people will believe it and act contrary to their best interests. It's hard to believe the narratives crafted to pit you against certain people once you interact with them and find out they're not so bad. And that's why racists, bigots, and xenophobes rail…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:05 AM
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Bro these are hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:05 AM
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I consider myself lucky to be a millennial, because literally all I had to do was just not be a lazy self-pitying piece of shit, and that alone automatically vaulted me to like the top 25% of my generation. Having that plus a 100+ IQ puts you in the top 15%, easy. This is definitely the era of soft competition. It's just so damn easy to succeed. Like, you don't have to even be good at anything, at this point if you manage to just show up and not be a dumbass, you're far above your peers. And, lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:58 AM
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Yes, those people exist. Doesn't make it a race. Curious to see how much you're going to double down on your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:05 AM
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More Karen logic. Mexican isn't even a race, and even if it were, it doesn't make you not racist. The sheer ignorance lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:53 AM
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If incels were smart, they would join police forces around the country en masse. Feminism simply can't operate without the cooperation of government enforcement agents, and police can obviously get away with anything. Hell, you can get away with intimidation and DV like 95% of the time by being a cop. It's a perfect venue to exact incel justice. But ofc they are lazy, worthless cowards so it'll never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:21 PM
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Shocking; the bigoted condescending middle aged white lady doesn't think she's a Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:03 PM
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It's not putting other women on a pedestal, it's the realization of getting shitty value in your home market. Women reflexively shame men who leave to do better regardless of where else they go. But the shaming gets ratcheted up by 10 if it happens to not be a country full of white people. And we all know why, especially when it's a Karen doing the shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:55 PM
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This just in: women outside of imaginary borders drawn on a map literally incapable of love. Source: some Karen from PPD with a low-key bigot vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:12 AM
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My wife was attracted to bad boys but scared off/turned off by how aggressive they were. So I come along and "fit the description" of an exotic bad boy, but after the first hookup, I'm nice and treat her well, and she fell really hard. Just raw desire and attraction. We ended up having a lengthy forbidden romance because she was afraid to tell her parents. I guess what I'm saying is, there's a cohort of horny, freaky ass good girls that secretly want to get dominated by a thug but are too scared…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:46 PM
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They'll marry an average looking woman who earns more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:22 PM
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6, 350k, 5'10"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:19 PM
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The 21 year old seems like more fun. Just because we're together doesn't mean I have to commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:06 PM
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White women have a long, long history of weaponizing their sexuality and victimization to punch down on lesser men in society. They know white knights exist and are willing to do violence on their behalf. It's wild nobody talks about it or admits that it exists. It still goes on today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:45 PM
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I don't actively think about women of my race dating men of another race. But if I immediately respond with hostility and shaming language when confronted with the topic, it betrays my own insecurities. The sheer amount of hostility and shaming I've seen on this topic from self-professed "unbothered" women proves otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:31 AM
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Those military benefits are part of a compensation and retention package for time served as federal employees. Women receiving government transfers and entitlements are not employees of the federal government.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:25 AM
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Maybe even a chainsaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:41 PM
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You can cut the insecurity with a knife lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:38 PM
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This is a sundress: https://hellogiggles.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2021/04/08/best-sundresses-free-people.jpg?quality=82&strip=all I've never really been into the whole sundress thing. I prefer the look of a flowy top and beachy shorts or maybe capris. Like this: https://litb-cgis.rightinthebox.com/images/640x853/202105/bps/product/inc/wbgmss1620205262707.jpg?fmt=webp&v=1
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:56 PM
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Idk if Tate was a dealer from the hood he'd get just as much. He's jacked, ultra confident, and charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:52 AM
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You know, looking back I realized I had a lot more success with women once I just started concentrating on the type of girls whose type I fit. From there I just became a more exaggerated version of myself and it was raining hoes. Makes sense to pick from the best of the girls specifically into you, rather than going around randomly and having low success. But I still to this day, do not understand why big booty cholas and feminist Asian chicks are so into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:43 PM
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I am very glad this woman you are talking about has such a boyfriend who (hopefully) loves her and respects her shakes magic 8 ball "Outlook not so good"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:12 PM
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Man they really can't get enough of this dude they love to hate. Ironically that's what makes him so popular with young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:45 PM
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Old school was Koopa all the way. Modern era is Hey-ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:58 AM
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Nah, his name keeps coming up in unrelated subreddits. He's definitely a topic du jour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:46 AM
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One of the best things about not waiting too long to have kids is that we were able to enjoy our youth, but are still relatively young once we go empty nest. By 60 I will have already been semi retired for 10 years and living abroad in my wife's country, entering full retirement around 61 or 62. We can stay really healthy by avoiding shitty American food. At least one of our kids will probably be settled down by then and have kids of their own, since we culturally value family over career. Our f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:25 PM
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My complaint about the topic was completely gender neutral. The tangent that followed was more directly related to biology. It's cruel and reckless to have a kid at 48.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:39 PM
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I am sorry but you're offended by women who would prefer to be fully indepenant so you don't have to worry about those pesky "gold diggers PPD hates so much or splitting "half". What is your issue with this way of life? I thought it would be a man's dream? I kinda appreciate the effort you put into these short fanfics that you post. Each one is unique in their own little way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:33 PM
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It used to be common to have shop and home ec classes, I think it still should be. It wouldn't be moving it onto the teachers so much as restoring something lost. Well that was back in the days where most people weren't expected to go to college. They were expected to be blue collar workers and housewives within 2 years of graduating high school. Kids schedules are already packed with subjects and classes. And you want to add more? Do you even have kids? I think we should do the same with recess…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:16 PM
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Additionally, I think we should bring home ec back to middle and high schools for all genders so everyone learns how to cook a little (particularly food safety), do their taxes, basic household and clothing maintenance, and keeping rooms clean and sanitized, how to keep a schedule, how to remember to get appointments and set appointments for the kids (if any) or the pets (if any) et cetera. My pet peeve is when people try to force shit that parents should be doing onto the educational system bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:01 PM
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This just sounds like some more dumb decadent western bullshit where self obsessed individuals just do whatever they want. That's nothing new. But then i realized, she's a 62 year old woman with a 14 year old kid? Holy shit. I'd wager the mom is "eccentric", and the kid is perpetually miserable, wishing he had a normal childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:45 AM
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Well southwest canceled something like 70% of their flights yesterday while all other airlines were in the range of 0-5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:52 PM
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Travel is actually fine right now. The problem is Southwest sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:40 PM
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I listened to his show a bit during the pandemic, mostly because the callers were hilarious. Didn't care for the preachy monologues. His "don't talk over me" thing was more about him being the host and them being on his platform. People overtalking really did hurt the quality of the show. It shocked me how often women would do that to win an argument. As for the divorces, i really think that was irrelevant. His hook was that he had a lot of interaction with high value black men as clients, and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:34 PM
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Well it's not the presence of religion but rather how it intrudes on your life. Asian-american families are often rather traditional but aren't oppressive Bible thumpers about it like a traditional WASP family from Texas would be. Or they're some form of Confucian-derived or Buddhist traditional, which is pretty easy to get along with. Latino families, while being super Catholic, tend to be reasonable about it. Like yeah there's a Virgin Mary statue at moms house but 90% of it is just going thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:57 PM
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Women have had the same rights for a long time now, that excuse falls flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:41 PM
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Even taking that stat at face value, a 40% chance is not "very, very, very lucky". That's literally the same percentage of non-overweight people in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:00 PM
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This statement reminds me of people who assume everyone is a cheater. Usually because they themselves cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:26 PM
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You can endure hardships and have experience without the baggage that comes with it. Besides, I'm a grown ass man -- boring is good. The people I've known who are drawn to hurt people and find healthy and stable people boring seem to always have fucked up relationships. Not saying that's you.... just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:21 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:38 PM
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Lol I've closed the deal with girls that couldn't even speak the same fucking language as me. It doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:19 PM
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Out of all my marriage requirements, a degree was never one of them. But finding a girl that isn't an abuse victim, from a broken home, hard drug user, single mom, tattoos, or a trashy hood rat is already hard enough, and most of the ones that don't have a degree will fail that gauntlet. On the other hand, being overeducated can be a yellow flag. Women tend to wrap up a lot of hubris, entitlement, and toxicity in their advanced education.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:04 PM
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I keep saying this, life is a series of choices. If you're too busy for a relationship for an extended period of time, at some point you are just intentionally putting new shit on your plate in order to have the excuse of not being available. Because that lets you off the hook. Hard truths are uncomfortable. People are weak. This is just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:22 AM
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Because people can't behave. That's the real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:01 AM
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It's amazing to me how every female troll manages to use the exact same formula; overly familiar language "dear, honey, sweetie, etc", and then try to attack your manhood. This is probably tied into the same reason why most female comedians aren't funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:56 AM
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That's only like 10 years from now. I think she'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:49 AM
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Nah bro I got a thing for milfs. That's what I browse at 11pm (3am is too late). Told my wife she isn't quite there yet, but with a few more wrinkles and gray hairs, she could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:28 AM
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Everything you listed is some shit that someone else has to do. It's the fault of society. It's the fault of gender roles. Or toxic masculinity. Fix that and fix the problem, right? But you fundamentally see it as not your problem, and don't care unless it shows up at your doorstep. I'm not bashing you personally, but rather illustrating the point that most women think like you do -- they simply just don't give a shit about men in general. You keep listing all these remedies but are treating the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:55 AM
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Eh, I get the appeal. Having broke thots thirsting after you for a change, having the power and leverage, and kicking hot girls to the curb when you're tired of them is such a reversal of fortune. It's about power. Those men want power, not love or desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:27 AM
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Yes. Your dominance is terrifying. I'm totally backing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:57 AM
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The fucked up thing is you're going to be tied up with a dead end relationship (because the kid thing will break you), and end up wasting years of your life. Even worse, you'll likely end up missing out on the girl who would have kids with you because you're tied up in this dead end. Mid 30s is like the prime man target age for women who are ready to settle down and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:23 PM
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But you don't get what's fair. You get what you can negotiate. If your woman feels you have enough value that it's worth giving up exclusivity AND access to other men, then you'll get that. Spoiler: most men can't negotiate those terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:57 PM
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Okay, whatever you say. You're all strong and independent! wink
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:52 PM
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And don't come at me with, ''but bruh, a guy like that is top 000001% in America, brah, he'd slay mad pussy,'' thing is, no one wants American women outside of America, so keep your fat chicks for yourself, thanks, and the ones who aren't fat, have nasty personalities. You kids must be really desperate to want ''women'' like that. Eh, you're not wrong. Men tend to be more desperate here, but it's all they know, since any real foreign experience is 3000+km away. But you can't blame a dude dying o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:50 PM
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Yeah that's what I said. A segment of men want the fantasy that they lead, and a segment of women want the fantasy that they are actually equals with their men. It's all ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:26 PM
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Can't win em all. But the willingness to go ass to mouth can be the great equalizer!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:22 PM
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Thanks. Sounds like you are, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:18 PM
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You know, it used to be women dumbing themselves down to save the male ego, but it seems like in 2022, men increasingly have to treat women with kid gloves to make them think they aren't submitting in order to save the female ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:13 PM
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IMO nipple texture and girth are more important than breast size. Amazing nips can really save a small titty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:05 PM
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And how can we teach boys especially better to not become like that? How can we teach our men to be empathic and good humans? The irony of that statement is that it utterly lacks empathy. Your words treat these men like a liability to be dealt with. The solution is to actually give a shit about them. But that requires effort -- easier to just say not my problem. You can't just teach someone to become a good human. They have to want to become that themselves. You do that by giving them pathways a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:18 AM
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Maybe it's because I'm surrounded by a happy family all year long, but Christmas kinda feels like any other day to me. The only reason we even acknowledge it is so the kids don't feel left out from everyone else. I like 4th of July, in this city the sky gets lit up like the first night of Desert Storm. New Years is great, too, and also Halloween. Thanksgiving, Valentines Day, St. Patrick's Day are all pretty lame to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:37 AM
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A dominant person wouldn't get tired of having the upper hand and doing the leg work. It's their natural state of being. What you're probably referring to are the other 90% of "dominant" women that are fake tough and only dominant when it suits them. But the other 10% go hard as fuck and I'd follow them into hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:50 AM
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Idk man, turtlenecks are amazing on big breasted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:01 PM
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Idk man, it's the law of the streets. Talk shit get hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:58 PM
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It's a basic white girl, probably from the suburbs. One of their tells is talking like they are the "default" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:36 PM
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Tamales are meh, but Tex Mex is fucking trash and I'll fight anyone on that. I didn't know what good shit was until I visited Mexico City and after I moved to California. Reattack: the entire fucking state of Texas is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:22 PM
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normal, average women Read that as "middle class American beckys".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:17 PM
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Why should I have to clarify it when the problem is your shitty negative bias? It's like me talking about black people and you're like "oh you mean the murderers and thieves?" And I'm like "umm.....no?" Again, there's nothing wrong with these particular women. But there's certainly something wrong with your irrational hatred of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:32 AM
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Actually, I mean the same women whose relationships generally work out and they feel fulfilled as wives and mothers. Like anything in life, sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. But I'm sure you don't like to talk about when it usually works out just fine because the success stories don't validate your irrational hate of women whose main crime is... checks notes... desiring and having uncontentious relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:59 PM
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Damn, and I thought red pillers cornered the market on misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:49 PM
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Couldn't have come up with a more pavlovian response than that, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:58 PM
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Women aren't having enough babies? Immigration solves that. People will move here and natives will import brides. No retirement savings? Work til you die. Who's going to take care of these elderly women? Nobody. The government will come collect the rotting corpse when someone notices the stench and the flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:54 PM
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Then she's not low value. Pick me's get picked. Sometimes they don't, but from what I've seen, it's a generally successful monogamist dating strategy. The issue is that it hurts the sisterhood when one of the sisters is undercutting everyone else by giving the menfolk what they want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:42 PM
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A pick-me that gets picked hurts women's leverage in the dating marketplace. It's a competitor selling a better product for a lower price. That's why they instinctively hate them and shame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:28 PM
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You're like a warrior monk. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:09 PM
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Because women don't like to attack other members of the sisterhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:07 PM
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Single as in not dating at all or celibate, or single as in not in a LTR or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:59 PM
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The one thing I really don't envy about women is that people are constantly trying to manipulate your emotions for one reason or another and won't be truthful. Rather than variability, the more likely explanation is that you have both people gassing you up to make you feel better, and people tearing you down to make you feel worse. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle. You're probably attractive to someone who likes your type, but otherwise just blend into the crowd, because that's what…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:56 PM
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Things aren't weird just because you don't agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:41 PM
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Well of course. I don't just go around looking to pick fights with innocent bystanders. But if you dump your purse out on the internet, then game on. Don't put your shit out there if you're not ok with getting called on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:53 AM
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A right to complain? Calling it a right assumes they deserve what they want. But in reality, you don't get what you deserve. You get what you can negotiate. The original sin is an incorrect estimation of one's own worth. They demand an equal, but in reality they are not equal with what they are demanding, and in the desperation to match up while not settling, they are more vulnerable to manipulation. In other words, "I'm a princess and I demand a prince, but I can't find a prince who will look a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:00 AM
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It doesn't bring out the worst in people. It just reveals who they really are. For example, I'm generally nice and positive, but also irreverent and I keep it real. But most people prefer a comfortable lie to hard truth, so I just don't say shit irl. But I have no reason to hold back on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:39 AM
1

5 and 5. An acceptable range for a serial monogamist in their late 20s/early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:16 AM
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crosses her arms after orgasm REST. IN. PEACE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:02 PM
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Lol crazy you said this, because my kid does jiu-jitsu. At first I just figured it was a way to release his pent up energy especially after covid lockdowns, but it's kind of grown into an entire way of life. The best part about it is, he also respects girls because they're out there on the mat going just as hard as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:56 PM
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I'm not sending my kid to yoga, lol. And he already has social skills. The dude somehow manages to charm 8 year old girls one minute and then bro out with the homies the next minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:49 PM
1

Nah. You can get the bag without having to play corporate slavery games.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:44 PM
1

This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:37 PM
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Nah they're just lazy with a dash of mob mentality. It's easier to put those men in a general box of "people I don't like" rather than actually have think critically and use nuance. Hell, they will call you an incel even if you agree with them 90% of the time but you dare to go "against code" in any way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:30 PM
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The act by itself is not wrong. But when it's part of a lifelong philosophy of shortsighted, self centered hedonism then yeah I can see issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:19 PM
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So in the latest episode of Chad child development, I'm thinking about introducing my kid to some light strength training. He's only in elementary school but seems to take a lot of pride in his warmup exercises before he does his kid sports. Obv not going to be doing 100kg powercleans, but maybe 20-30 minutes of calisthenics in the morning. Just the ritual of getting up and putting in work will go a long way in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:16 PM
2

I'd say kids are more influenced by their ethnicity and local/regional culture far more than the wider mainstream culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:21 PM
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I mean, they would be in a relative sense. If men drop off into expandability, women are going to be right there with them, most likely in even more dire straits than the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:03 PM
1

I can't imagine the amount of insecurity required to look at a topic and somehow feel attacked for a completely different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:56 PM
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Wow you managed to miss the point for the third time. Some people just aren't equipped for critical thinking, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:43 PM
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The point is that women are hypocrites because they judge men's anti-promiscuous preference while saying what you said when it comes to their own anti-bisexual preference. Please try to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:34 PM
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Based and eunuch pilled. The rush of being in the hunt is what makes life worth living. The feeling of being alive, the joy of victory, the agony of defeat. Going out onto the battlefield, besting your adversaries, and basking in the primal, animalistic glory of passing on your DNA to a new generation. A glory that all your direct ancestors have also known. This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:47 AM
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Serve: To perform duties or services for (another person or an organization). That's literally what a service job is. To serve and protect. Serve in the military. Work as a server in a restaurant. Work as a servant. Should I go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:50 PM
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Yes, I know women do manual labor. YOU implied that men were not taught to "serve". And there are plenty of jobs that are not solo. You can't construct a building by yourself. For some reason you just reflexively had to remind us that women do it too, which isn't even relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:35 PM
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Because they have to be. Women are taught throughout their lives to serve and work with others. Men are much more likely to hear that they're good enough doing things by themselves. Men are also taught to serve and work with others. Or did you think that millions of working class dudes doing dangerous manual labor were at one point being groomed for leadership roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:11 PM
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It's fine to just enjoy the company of others, but that's pretty superficial to me. Male friendship are typically forged by going through hardships together. We usually rather have a friend that has our back through thick and thin, than someone who's just cool to hang out with. Although both is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:50 PM
1

And when I was at uni most people were having sex, although there where definitely a few that weren't. How the hell could you possibly know what most people at a university are doing? I get disagreeing with a survey because it lacks rigor, but to say it's not rigorous then to make a claim like that based on anecdote is pure bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:34 PM
1

Dude you're literally the east asian male stereotype, right down to the violin, lol. First off don't try to completely remake your personality into something you're not. You have to keep improving what you already have: physically, mentally, professionally. Next, you gotta figure out what kind of girl is attracted to a guy like you. It's probably a girl that gets turned off/scared off by alpha bros, frat boys, and chads. Usually that tends to be introverted nerdy "good girl" types, which is righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:11 PM
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Talking a lot and saying nothing of substance is one of the worst traits a man can have. Makes you look neurotic, sniveling, and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:37 PM
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The ability (or lack thereof) to make an attractive captivating dating profile has absolutely nothing to do with their presence and energy in real life. There are too many women I know IRL that I'd never be attracted to, who appear smoking hot on the internet. And there's women who can completely capture my attention in real life, but if I saw their face on a dating site I would have skipped over them. I'd say it's even more pronounced with men. Some dudes have the charisma of a cult leader that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:22 PM
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Of course. After all, you must secure the existence of your people and a future for....Polish children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:37 AM
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I'm 40. I'd raise another man's kid as an addition to a previously established family of my own. I would not form a new family from scratch with a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:10 PM
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It's stable 2 parent households. the marriage changes nothing. Anybody who's actually regularly dealt with other human beings understands that symbolic gestures matter. Especially to kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:37 PM
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Yeah, but it never had the capacity for consciousness to begin with. If you grew a kidney and used it for a transplant, nobody would care. Now what if you grew the bottom half of a person? Whole body minus the head? Minus the brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:25 PM
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Bro when I lived abroad, it was great. I was completely disconnected from American politics, entertainment, sports, pop culture, etc. It really frees up brain cells to focus on shit that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:32 PM
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I actually appreciate small titties if they have huge nipples. Especially if it's a dark nipple. Anything else can fuck right off tbqh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:25 PM
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Well, okay, there's a supply and demand relationship, right? If women restrict the supply of sex (available to the general population) by raising standards, then demand skyrockets, and men are willing to overpay for it. Absent any alternative, he MUST either increase his value or demand less of his counterpart. Given an alternative, leverage evaporates. So, if this relationship underlies all interactions between the sexes, then there has to be a significant unconscious component of market protec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:32 AM
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ah, no need, just glad you appreciate the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:27 AM
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Then why even engage? It's like going to the South Pole for vacation and complaining that it's cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:15 AM
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Loyal, playful, responsible > fit, kind, has some ass > knows how to cook > boobs, legs, smart, educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:59 AM
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I'm only top 1.5% which is a bum by 1% standards, but when I first met my wife, she had no idea what I earned. I was just a regular dude that had all the basics (car, apartment, job, etc) who dressed in beach bum casual clothes. To be fair, we lived on a beach. It wasn't until she was casually chatting about me with a savvy gold digger coworker of hers, that she was informed about how much I made, but by then we'd already been together for half a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:47 AM
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A marriage is really only as good as the people in it. When you have two people that care a lot about a strong group identity, then it's a net positive. We have our own unique family culture. We each play a crucial role and position. We have a family structure. We have a family home. It's a strong banyan tree with deep roots that our kids can count on during their formative years. But the reality is that for most people in the west, it's just an excuse to have a big party, and for women to show …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:27 AM
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People do care, it's just that it usually doesn't come up if it doesn't affect them personally. Kind of like how people aren't racist until their kid brings a certain someone home for thanksgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:13 AM
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I deleted my other comment because I wanted to give a real answer. Look, the REAL answer is that men who circumvent natural market forces in order to affect a better outcome are looked down because it diminishes the value of the women within in that market. If you have 100 guys and 100 girls, the women will hold out for a top half or top third guy. But if 50 of those guys leave that scenario and find their matches outside the market, then 50 women are either going to have to be alone or end up s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:52 PM
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there's a lot more to it than "westerners only care about themselves." Westerners, particularly Americans, place a fundamental importance on personal liberty, individual achievement, and being independent. They name all kinds of things after individuals. They marry for love and split when it doesn't work for them. Doing things for the group is seen as foolish. All about me, myself, and I. Practically baked into their DNA. Good luck dating with that salty as fuck attitude that people can probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:45 PM
1

Good look getting a westerner to actually care about anything besides themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:18 AM
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Traditional marriage is the ideal life setup if you can pull it off, which is why it's so common among powerful, rich people that do it all over the world and across culgures. But most people can't pull it off, and honestly shouldn't even try. Just stick to some easy-mode DINK setup and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:31 AM
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The issue is polarity. Girls that look like you could actually run into them in everyday life have a broader appeal than girls with a polarizing min-maxed slutty look. I mean even our primitive monkey brains are wired to find faces with averaged out features to be more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:10 AM
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If anything, standards will slide. Working class life is defined by the death of romance and the crushing reality of needing to hook up for practical reasons. An average dude who has a job and doesn't treat you like shit is a catch. But the guys have to be ok with banging fatties, single moms, crazy chicks, and sluts. The odds are good, but the goods are odd. Lots of hooking up, lots of flexible situationships, lots of "special arrangements", and more women available that aren't locked down in L…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:39 AM
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Working class women will openly disrespect you if you act like a bitch, though. Like even if you're a broke deadbeat piece of shit, you can still do ok. But if you come off as weak, you're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:05 AM
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Congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:23 PM
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Bullish on studio apartments, cat food, and therapists. Buy low, sell high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:21 PM
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Depends. Real wages are down and men are earning the worst since the depression era. Morality is down, sexuality is up. Main difference is technology. So if you're wealthy then right now is the best time -- less competition within your class for marriage, and lower class women are more desperate, and technology makes it easier to discreetly communicate with all women. Not only that, but you have access to more women. It's not as taboo to cross racial/religious/class lines. Hypergamy works for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:26 PM
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Don't need to qualify the statement, most people are terrible at vetting but think they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:01 PM
1

The better advice is don't get married in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:48 PM
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Lol, clubs don't generate revenue by catering to broke thots. They generate it by catering to thirsty men catering to broke thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:44 PM
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She won't. If anything she'll get more insecure about it, and he ends up cheating on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:37 PM
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I worry that the hoops you have to jump through during the college admissions process is just an indoctrination into the capitalist rat race and hustle culture. Idk, I'd rather my kids go somewhere unique and life changing, rather than shooting for "prestige" and falling into a bland, comfortable corporate life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:12 AM
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Both are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:59 PM
0

I wonder if feminists are bad at trolling for the same reasons female comedians aren't funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:31 PM
1

Yes. Los Angeles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:29 PM
1

Even for a troll this is pretty low iq
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:14 PM
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Being an orbiter isn't friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:51 PM
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Social legitimacy is the last major non-legal perk of marriage, and even that's becoming less valuable with the younger generations' disdain towards traditional and mainstream community values. That disdain is mostly irrelevant, as the younger generation is mostly irrelevant. Nobody needs to appear legitimate to broke, indebted wage slaves with little influence on the physical world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:49 PM
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Thats what drunk middle age single moms are for. Like sometimes you just need a base hit to get out of a funk before you can start hitting home runs again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:30 PM
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Men, for sure. Aside from inheritance, women in wealthy households almost always marry into it, while men almost always are the ones who built it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:18 PM
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I think the point was more about her decade-long ineptitude, not him being the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:08 PM
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K. Enjoy jail. There has to be someone to enforce the law and run the jails. Who's going to do it? You? Other women? Highly doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:00 PM
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Not really. That's men's shit for their asses to figure out. Yes really, you don't live in a female only vacuum. If anything, you're more vulnerable to the consequences than the average man. And we did figure it out. Crime and lawlessness is the answer. I thought we already had 🤔 isn't that why y'all are always screaming about the gynocentricity of the modern world? Of course you thought that, the propaganda works well and feeds the biggest egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:56 AM
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Men can't both change diapers / wash the dishes while also following the law? Seems like a you guys problem. Seems like a problem for you too. Maybe you're not stable enough to be in charge after all.... Come and take it, if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:39 AM
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At least this will help push the Repubs away from insane conspiracy crazies, and more toward being generic evil rich white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:28 AM
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Wishful thinking, imo. Those masculine gender roles feed men into providing the protective services women rely on to embrace their new gender roles, and incentivize men to follow the rule of law. Take that away, and I can't see anything but a pervasive rise in criminality across society. Hell, it's already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:18 AM
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It's a well paid unionized technical job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:48 AM
2

The French Quarter is huge. In the morning, hit up Cafe du Monde for a coffee and beignet, and then float over to the french market. Frenchmen St. is just a bunch of bars and restaurants to float around, lots of live music and on the weekends you'll get a brass band.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:52 PM
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If you don't hit up the French Quarter/Market during the day then idk why you would even bother going to NOLA. And Frenchmen St. at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:41 PM
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Idk man I'd probably choose the dumb girl. Dumb people can at least be coached and taught to operate like an average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:39 PM
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I'm sure it's pure coincidence that their wants and goals change right around the time that their options start waning. But like I said, narratives can be rewritten over time, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:24 PM
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I'm the sole breadwinner of a traditional nuclear family of 5, and I do feel respected by other men for it, particularly older men. My wife doesn't work, and my schedule is so easy and flexible that I'm constantly home. Not only that, but I work so few hours that I'm at home all the time and free to hang out with my wife and raise my kids as a present father. We even take multiple weeks off for vacations throughout the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:11 PM
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I'm sure they exist. And they are certainly options for men who can't be overly picky. Ideal options? Well... narratives can always be rewritten over time. Personally, I'd rather couple up with someone who's always wanted to be a wife/mom, not someone who picked it up for lack of a better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:48 PM
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Idk man, I was pretty much set up for life and early retirement by my mid 20s. I even had a spreadsheet with my future earnings laid out, and could plan what kind of luxury i could live in. It felt boring to have everything figured out so early.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:14 PM
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Bass guitar is rather tame. Now, a drum set would have been the violent choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:52 PM
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I think most men with any sort of options know which women are for recreational use only, and which are worth committing to. If you buy into the "just get over it" bullshit, and try to turn a ho into a housewife, then you deserve whatever you end up with. But some men don't have options and have to end up playing a shitty hand. It is what it is. Better him than me, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:48 PM
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No, you made a terrible argument based on bad logic. You being young just explains how hilariously unaware you are about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:42 AM
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Not really. Dudes like that would rather be the captain of a tugboat he earned than the first mate of a motor yacht that he didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:27 AM
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Idk if I were in your position and had the money, I'd just use a surrogate or maybe adopt. Then we'd just bro out together with a live-in nanny. And then go clap the cheeks of a rando internet thot every so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:29 AM
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I don't think it's fair to say it's intimidation. But rather accepting the fact that the situation is incompatible in the long term for a man who's naturally geared to take the lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:12 AM
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Whatever you say lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:37 AM
1

Maybe I expected too much talking to a 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:24 AM
1

Sometimes I wonder if trolls are just that good at fooling me, or are college kids just that fucking dumb. It's like trying to argue with a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:43 PM
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You posted this thread, not me. You formulated this whole theory based off of how often men approaching you, not me. And the entire basis of the theory is that you're attractive, so it's a problem with society, not a problem with you. And I'm saying maybe, maybe, maaaaaaybe you're not as attractive as you think you are. Idk, maybe next time don't dump your purse out all over the internet and then complain about self confidence or being criticized on your attractiveness when it's literally the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:26 PM
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I didn't even say anything, I only asked you if you had even considered that fact, seeing how YOU are the one extrapolating your personal experiences into a theory that affects all other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:10 PM
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I’m a 24-year-old relatively attractive woman who exercises regularly (grew up an athlete) and still have not been approached or asked out on a date by a man in 8 months. Have you even remotely considered the idea that maybe you're not as attractive as your ego leads you to believe? Men still approach women irl. They just ain't approaching you, lol. I also see that you tried approaching and the dudes only took you as worth nothing more than a midnight booty call.... so yeah let's maybe not come …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:40 PM
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IANAL, but I know that prenups get thrown out all the time. All we know that she has a prenup to protect the business AND an infidelity clause that benefits her. If it was just to protect the business no matter what happens, that would be more conventional. The only logical explanation is that the business is protected AND he gets much less, or even nothing if he cheats. Nothing forces her to have sex. But it comes off as bad faith and manipulative to make sudden changes that would likely lead t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:07 PM
1

I just told you, because he shames you. It's a pretty big red flag if you know what a healthy relationship looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:28 PM
1

Well, okay so if Jane starts a business, grows it, gets married and puts an infidelity clause in there for John. If they just split for any other reason, business is protected. If they split for his infidelity, he likely gets even less than usual. Soooo...she tells John she will never have sex again, and suggests he sleep with other women, violating the prenup. In the judge's eyes, Jane is likely operating in bad faith considering the evidence. Entire prenup gets thrown out and everything is fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:24 PM
1

Not everybody lives in your state.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:58 PM
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I'm not gonna lie, I feel really satisfied at the OP and the other women in the comments throwing a fit that a career woman's soon to be ex husband is going after her business and got the prenup voided. He's probably going to get half the assets AND alimony. I feel like a win for John is a win for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:57 PM
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Nah, there's a patriarchial capitalist elite that tacitly supports those values as a means of generating revenue and keeping people pacified.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:43 PM
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A brief, lopsided, bloody war followed by the quick re-establishment of the patriarchy. Because if there's one thing women lack, it's the balls (ovaries in this case lol) to do the dirty, dangerous work that keeps the gears of society churning along.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:41 PM
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Honestly a lot of it has to do with the culture. As obesity has risen, men of successive generations have had changing standards of beauty. In the 90s you didn't see men going after fat, muscular, or body-modded women as much as they do now. Obviously fat women see the change because they live it every day, but the average man doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:36 PM
1

The fact that your bf shames you itself isn't good. It's a potential sign that he doesn't really respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:20 PM
1

So can they be "concerned from a genuine place" for a slut who hooks up with too many dudes? Because that's the OP's point, one is accepted and the other isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:10 PM
2

Those are only a few of the multiple comments i received regarding being a virgin, and all of them came from promiscuous women. All girls in my social circle who were virgins also got similar comments, always from promiscuous women. First time they do it, give a polite warning not to do it again. Second time they do it, tell them you warned them and go nuclear on them. People treat you how you allow them to treat you. When I lived in Japan I knew quite a few female virgins. These were kind, attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:03 PM
2

This is my point: women—everybody—is a poor decision maker when they’re young. Not everybody. Maybe you and the people you ran with were, but you gotta own that instead of projected it onto the rest of us. Tbh every big decision I made from 18-28 turned out to be a great one by 40. If anything, I wish I had trusted my instincts even more. That’s why people spend their 20s changing their minds, much to the chagrin of RP men. How could anyone assume that the man a woman thinks is a good “pragmatic…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:57 PM
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It's actually not BS. Women are often attracted to the idea of a confident and competent man taking them under their wing and making them feel secure. Especially if she's led a chaotic, unstable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:45 PM
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As an actual child-haver, I'll say this: My son is tall, fit frame, and has a handsome face, but has confidence issues. It's my job as a dad to develop his masculine confidence. Beyond that I'd tell him the best way to catch a girl is to just be in great shape, dress well according to a style he can pull off, keep being the fun social dude he is, and girls will naturally start orbiting. Learn to recognize the signs of attraction and he'll have a high success rate. My daughter is a manic pixie dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:24 PM
2

Wish you the best on your search!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:43 PM
1

I've gone away to college. It was ok. Going away to a war was a lot more interesting. Less chicks, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:41 AM
1

Sure, if your search is limited to within the borders of the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:34 AM
1

"Men" is too broad of a category here. Wealthy, upper class men will just monetize and profit off of women's lib and gender wars while living like the 1950s at home. But they are the ones dominating. They're happy to play both sides of the war. Middle and working class frustrated chumps are the ones who are really fighting it. But they are not the ones dominating anything. As for "stuff and obey", we'll, women are already kinda doing it. Childless career women work harder, for less pay, spend mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:25 AM
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International travel is just vapid, low hanging fruit for single men and women to look like they have a personality. Like, "hey I did this, aren't I so interesting?" Well, no, the place is interesting, you just happen to be there. Becoming interesting doesn't happen by osmosis. My career involves a lot of travel, and I fell into that trap early on of thinking the travel itself was interesting, but i found people more interested in cool stories of things I had actually done in my life, rather tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:10 PM
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I.... wasn't trying to insult you. I don't even know who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:46 PM
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If your entire personality is made out to be feminism and leftist politics, then yeah he's going to give you superficial platitudes on that end to get you in bed. But if you're just a normal person with malleable beliefs, if anything he's more likely to try to convert you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:43 PM
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I wouldn't wife her up because I couldn't ever really trust her. The only way I could really make an exception is if she was on a huge dry spell of like 7+ years. Like, she was a slut in college, swore it off, and managed to develop into some amazing person and is now 30. Main reason I wouldn't do it outside of that caveat is...well, pride, I guess. I'm too proud to put my family name on a woman who a bunch of other dudes just ran through and discarded. Like getting fooled by a prank that everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:45 AM
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Nah, women generally end up with a dating experience that's reflective of the type and quality of person they are. If there's an attractive girl who's single and "unlucky" in love, there's almost always a good reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:24 AM
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I think most men would be fine with all that for just dating. Not every relationship needs to be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:12 AM
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Depends on why #1 is vanilla. Does she have a low libido and is just reluctant to have sex? If so, I'd take number two but just never marry her and get full custody since she obviously doesn't want them. Then I'd be a single dad and hire a hot live-in nanny (who would fall in love with me because im an amazing man and father), and raise my kids to be absolute chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:21 AM
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900k isnt enough for an actual house on the westside or the nicer parts of LA, so you'd have to likely go with a small condo, or a house in places with higher crime/worse schools. Either that or commute from farther away. Hope your gf is cool with sitting in traffic on the freeway for an hour each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:02 PM
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This is unanswerable without your budget and location of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:56 PM
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Society allows males to chase their unpaid dreams while having young kids. Uhhhh no it doesn't. It tells men that they have to find work or else they're completely useless. It tells them to put in ungodly hours if that's what it takes to own a house or a car or make sure the kids are taken care of. Whenever I see stories about a female athlete having a child it always comes with a bunch of people asking “well who’s going to take care of that child?” “You should retire now to take care of your fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:50 PM
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It's not just that, it's the one-two punch of claiming that they'd "rather be alone than settle", followed by "I can be happily single and have no problem living alone forever". And while both of those statements can be true, the reality is, it's just coping with the failure to attract a mate. Like gunning for a promotion at work, getting passed over, and saying you never really wanted it to begin with. A convenient retcon designed to salvage your pride at any cost. The irony is that the pride i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:41 PM
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A week or so ago I saw a post about a guy married to a woman who had an older daughter. They were together for like 8 years or something. This man cared for and provided for the daughter as if she was her own. The wife doesn't even work, she lives off his income. Then the daughter on her 16th birthday ambushed him and asked for him to adopt her and he didn't want to do it. So now the daughter hates him and the mom is devastated and wants to divorce. The comments kept calling the dad a piece of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:31 PM
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People settle for what they can get. Life just happens like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:23 PM
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It sounds like performative activism from a fringe group of young women whose only real leverage in this world seems to be access to their vagina and the discussions around it. Like it truly shocks me how one dimensional these people are, but it's a good cautionary tale for how I raise my daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:57 PM
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You're projecting a lot. Lol, what exactly am I projecting here? I've responded with zero emotion on this topic. The only reason I could see a man getting offended by that is if he has this belief that he's "the man" and that's what he's supposed to do or he isn't a "real man." And he thinks if a woman offers to pay she's questioning his manhood and trying to make him look bad. In other words the mfer is fragile ASF if that's all it takes for him to feel his manhood is being questioned. When you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:47 PM
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In my 40s. 3x on the weekdays, 1-2x on the weekend. I like to start her day out with a couple orgasms before she gets the kids ready for school. Plus, with morning wood, if you don't use it, you lose it, so hey why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:33 PM
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Not liking or preferring something doesn't necessarily mean you feel like less of a man because of it. That's a convenient narrative you're using in order to contrast yourself as "not like those men" and validate a woman's emotions from a negative experience. What I'm saying is, the fact that you can't seem to stand on your own merits without talking down other men or pandering says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:23 PM
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Well I told her that doesn't bother me and those guys just have what you call "fragile masculinity." A sign of a weak candidate is someone who can only get support by attacking their opposition, pander to the crowd, and validate their feelings of failure, rather than being able stand on their own merits. Something to be said about how you chose to respond in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:54 AM
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She's not manipulating you because the idea that if she doesn't sleep with you right away means she's not attracted to you is not necessarily true, this is precisely my point. Like I clearly said before she could be making you wait to see if you are committed enough, while being attracted to you. I already addressed this. You're not even paying attention to anything I wrote. either way this got repetitive and boring, it's like you are refusing to understand logic so good day sir. Imagine how rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:41 AM
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You seem to lack the ability for critical thought on this topic. A woman who goes on multiple dates with someone she's not attracted to with no intention of sex is manipulating the man. A woman who goes on multiple dates with a man she's attracted to but holding off on sex because she wants commitment without being forthcoming about her intentions is also manipulating him. Doubly so if she is intentionally leaving out the context of her past. The filter isn't working, it's a failed manipulation.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:12 PM
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Did you literally not even read what I typed? Even if he waited 10 years for sex, she still wouldn't have desire for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:30 PM
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Filter worked? Not necessarily, because there was no attraction on her part to begin with, it has absolutely nothing to do with his willingness to commit. The filter exists to protect against men she's attracted to, but are seeking to pump and dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:08 PM
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"alright seeya" and then forget about her forever. If she contacted me again, I'd tell her it's obvious that the attraction isn't there for her, so I'm moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:31 PM
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"I really want this relationship to work and I don't want to ruin things by getting physical too early this time" It communicates that the attraction is there, she has a past of casual sex, but is changing her behavior and the reason why. It also gives the man a chance to opt out because now he knows he's on her timeline. This is how adults talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:07 PM
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Well the rule of thumb is that normally you'd have sex by the 3rd date, so I think if it doesn't happen by then, an explanation would be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:55 PM
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She should at least be forthcoming about her past and inform the man that he's being tested. Otherwise it's manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:17 PM
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Okay, then they can luxuriate in the comfort of their failures not being their fault as they continue to fail and fail some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:13 PM
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However, demanding casual sex because this person has had casual sex before is silly. Just like a woman is worried about being used only for sex, a husband material man is worried about being used for his commitment without genuine attraction. There's a far higher chance of that happening if a woman has had casual sex in the past but then suddenly changes her long-established sexual behavioral pattern with a new man. Not silly at all to guard against it. It might take longer to become comfortabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:00 PM
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I'm not earning 1M a year (most of my wealth is parental) but I genuinely struggle to see how it would help if I did Well there's your problem right there, you talk a lot (A LOT) about what you've passively experienced or have been given, but haven't mentioned a single thing you've actually earned. Strip away all the wealth, and what's left? Do people actually respect you or just see you as an ATM? I don't hate anyone for this. I just think you seriously overestimate the number of 18-25 year old…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:13 AM
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Just find someone willing to give you a chance. Some people can afford a turn-key partner, and some will entertain a fixer upper.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:17 AM
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Men generally prefer younger women than them. You're younger than a 35 year old. It's all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:10 PM
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What's unrealistic about telling women what to look for? You can simply describe what you would look for when you judge men. If it were that easy you could just look it up on Google and be done with it. I could simply describe to you how to fly a 747, but chances are you'll just crash and die anyway. The combined life experience of an older man who has been there himself, has grown up within the world of men (that you've never known), AND has your best interests at heart, will likely have more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:56 PM
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First big tell is being an attractive man who speaks in riddles. Uses 50 words to say something that should only take 5. Like if you ask them any kind of question and they can't ever give you a straight up answer, they are probably a fuckboy because bullshitting and hiding things is pretty much their entire existence. Second big tell is when they also shower you with compliments, validation, and gas you up constantly without even knowing you. Because women with low self-esteem who constantly nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:50 PM
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Well then I'd say it's more due to the over-reliance on online dating and being more experience-oriented, not resource oriented. They still think they'll be young forever and everything will just work out. But you can still catch a few girls if they think you can afford to fund the kind of lifestyle that they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:08 PM
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You're right, but if you're under 25 and earning 1M a year and having issues dating, then you're obviously doing something wrong on your end. It's like being 7 feet tall but not even making your high school basketball team.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:51 PM
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Peacetime military is very different than a wartime military though. Dudes who are rock stars in the field are usually not the guys in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:25 AM
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Blaming it on women is probably one of the least masculine things you could do. If you're weak, it's your fault as a man, so you can either adapt and thrive or stagnate and get rekt like the little bitch you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:21 AM
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I think in my 20s it was more about loyalty and being pleased with how my choices turned out. Now in my 40s, I probably lack better options now because I'm happily married, and not really postured for dating. I haven't let myself totally go, but I'm not exactly hitting up nightlife and going hard as fuck in the gym 4+ days a week like I used to, either. If someone hotter came along and wanted to jump on my dick I'd probably not go for it because I'm not interested in blowing up my entire life I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:14 AM
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yes and if by n count you mean number of dudes blown then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:28 AM
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Idk man, I was able to buy a house when I was 24 in the military. Most of my friends had homes too. It's not that far out of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:24 PM
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Yes and yes. Very different dating environment that restored my faith in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:39 AM
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I moved abroad for work as an expat around 2010 and dating seemed pretty normal. Felt like there were no culture wars or gender wars, or pills, or influencers, or anything like that. Then I came back to the U.S. in like 2018 and the whole fucking place was on fire. Like holy shit am I glad I was already married by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:21 AM
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Because we as a society empower adults with the ability to determine their own lives how they see fit. Unfortunately, most parents also spoil and infantalize their kids to the point where people like yourself can't trust them to be adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:13 AM
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Dude, women on the internet lie constantly to protect their ego, especially on this sub. If they were ever lonely and would rather not be alone, they would never actually fucking admit it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:35 AM
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Eh, we do it to each other but I'm not literally referring to her as my mother, but rather her title within our nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:56 AM
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The fact that you took it as one says more about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:02 PM
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This seems like some weird semantics argument, or you have to argue because you didn’t marry your best friend and you wanna be ok with that. Can you even mentally conceive of the idea that someone could have a marriage thats as good as you think yours is, if not better, and it not be with whom they consider their best friend? If you can't do that, there's no point in talking to a brick wall. I mean you already rushed to call it "sad", so something tells me you're not exactly predisposed to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:01 PM
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No, we're husband and wife. Which includes those things. And you intentionally left out family member. That is so much more than a mere best friend. If my best friend gets a terminal illness, I'm going to support them and check in on them. But I'm not the one maintaining a 24/7 vigil in their room, holding their hand as they pass away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:24 PM
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I said "best friend" not "only friend." I didn't say nor remotely imply anything about being an only friend. I'm talking about the requirement to be the best friend. But, at the end of the day, I would not settle for somebody as a romantic partner, who is also not my best friend. Sure, fine, but you specifically declared that people who don't follow that preference are not ready for a relationship. Which is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:05 PM
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So you're what then? Roommates and co-parents who smash from time to time? I said lovers. There's more to that than just smashing from time to time. We're also family members (not by blood obv). I can spend long amounts of time hanging out with my mom and not consider us "friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:56 PM
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Women who have game can purposefully escalate the level of attraction in a way that men they like will respond to. Women with average "girl next door" looks can make men crush on them just with a cute, sexy, or vivacious personality. On the other hand there are a LOT of lazy yet attractive women, or socially awkward girls that just kind of sit around and hope the guy knows what to do, because they sure as hell don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:42 PM
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My wife is not my best friend, she's my wife. The nature of a relationship partner is totally different than that of a best friend. Two people can be good roommates and not be best friends. Or co-owners, lovers, co-parents, or family members. Now imagine if that were all the same person, but they just had mostly different interests/hobbies and already someone else as a best friend. How fucking absurd would it be to throw away an amazing partner just because they aren't your best friend? There se…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:28 PM
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baby making baby raising food making "married filing jointly" bobs vagine laundry cleaning Idk what she gets out of it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:35 PM
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More like we abdicate that responsibility to police who end up getting free reign to crack down on whoever else they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:33 PM
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Nah, the appeal of a strip club is more the wild party atmosphere with sexy girls and innuendo, not the sex itself, although that is certainly an option sometimes. Usually not. Just hiring a hooker gets you access to sex but not the wild party atmosphere. However if you got money to blow, a full on orgy with multiple hookers is probably the most decadent way to go, but it's expensive. Unless that party is in El Salvador or the Philippines or something. The dollar is pretty strong right now....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:19 AM
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I take that as a compliment!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:04 AM
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I'd say it's even more pejorative when applied to men. But if submissiveness gets someone the outcome they ultimately want in life, why is it something to be avoided?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:53 AM
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Most redpill manosphere YouTubers like Kevin Samuels explicitly tell some women they need to be submissive. So this particular ideal isn’t coming from angry feminists Guys like him tell women they need to be submissive in order to achieve their desired lifestyle, which is to be the wife/partner of a wealthy "high value" man. And wouldn't that promote submissiveness and nurturing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:09 PM
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That's not what submissive means. Yes, that's the point. It gets conflated and makes nurturing get viewed as a negative because submissiveness is seen as a negative. Particularly by the groups I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:04 PM
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I think we're talking about two different things. What I'm referring to is a positive reaction to a woman possessing a nurturing instinct, not nurturing itself. It stands to reason men would prefer to be around women who have it, since they don't want to do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:58 PM
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It’s a straw man. While I’m sure there are individuals who occasionally say things that you interpret as anti-femininity , they hardly represent an entire global movement. This is the real straw man. You're dismissing the issue by attacking things I didn't even say. I'm not talking about a global movement ffs. Where do these stereotypes come from? Who is actually saying these things? Women online, women I've talked to in real life, women in articles, women on this very sub. It happens all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:54 PM
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Well see that's a fundamental difference in values and goals. As you said, financial independence and freedom are yours. The issue comes with relating to people with diametrically opposed values and goals. Like a militant atheist being able to discuss a devout Christian without coming from a place of contempt and hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:42 PM
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I’ve never actually seen a disdain for nurturing woman; more a disdain for the idea that all women should play a nurturing role, whether that works for her as an individual or not. That's a nice PR talking point, but then you see people say the quiet part out loud. Like, "OMG I could never <fill in the blank> in a million years". And it's usually not a measured, caring statement. I mean, we see what happens with the childfree people and the atheist people all the time. Is it that big of a mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:54 PM
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You're implying men see women's nurturing as a bad thing? Maybe that's true but I haven't seen it. Edit: actually I do see it, but usually it's men trying to appeal to certain women by trashing their opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:34 PM
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Absolutely. Feminists and career women in particular seem to have an overt disdain for women who try to embrace their nurturing side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:26 PM
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Submissive is usually a pejorative term used to describe what is just generally kind, feminine, and family oriented. Good domestic skills and a caring, diligent mother. That's what I prefer, and I can pay the cost to be the boss. I don't need her spending almost half her waking hours putting in time for some other rich asshole across town.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:09 PM
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Honestly it's not the surrogacy that gives me pause. It's more the fact that women who utilize it don't strike me as the best candidate to be a loving mother. Like if you're almost 40 and are just now wanting to have a kid, your values and decision making probably aren't what I'm looking for in a co-parent. And yes obviously there are exceptions for health issues or crazy life situations that might necessitate. Age and vanity don't count for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:27 PM
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Easier to just be in a trad relationship with a woman who knows what's up and looks the other way. That's what powerful men have done for millennia. Actually having a whole entire other relationship to manage, let alone a marriage, seems like a massive price to pay just to get variety in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:21 PM
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This is often outside of competition for jobs. I’ve seen my female coworkers often talked over or have others discount their ideas in meetings even if they had a point and it seems pretty targeted. Weakness gets targeted. If you step on the court, dudes aren't going to give you a handicap just cause you're short.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:15 PM
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It's called competition. You're in the fight with the rest of us dudes. This is what you wanted, right, to be over here with us?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:08 PM
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Death by snu snu.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:03 PM
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I want to say the sum total of dick pain in my life up to this point has been like...10 minutes? Definitely the better deal imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:02 PM
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No. My feelings are best summed up by renowned poet K. Duckworth; All my life I want money and power, respect my mind or die from lead shower, I pray my dick get big as the eiffel tower so I can fuck the world for 72 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:00 PM
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The power of imagination truly is a wonderful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:46 AM
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Ear piercings are an exception. But I'd rather swim in a small, clean pool than an olympic sized pool half filled with shit. but you do you. Well, it's worked out beautifully so far lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:57 PM
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Having any of the following traits is grounds for confinement to the fuckzone with no chance of a relationship: Any history of being an abuse or sexual assault victim. Tattoos, piercings, or other body modifications. Any sort of mental issues or a need to attend ongoing therapy. A bad relationship with her parents, especially her father. Close friends with exes. Casual or excessive swearing. Has kids, although I'm willing to bend this one if the situation is right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:36 PM
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But in the current society? There's no point in that anymore. That's assuming society keeps running as it is. People are increasingly falling into poverty and homelessness, while the enforcers of society and increasingly opting out. Good luck with your higher state of consciousness when a mentally ill hobo in the street stabs you in the gut just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:57 AM
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Sure, I'd do it. And in my free time I'd probably smoke weed and lift. And cheat when she's at work or out of town. But she'd have to be pulling down at least 1 mil a year to be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:34 AM
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Depends on the culture. Girls from the hood hookup with ugly felons and gangbangers all the time, because in that world, masculinity goes a lot farther than a pretty face. But if we're talking 20 year old middle class white girls from the suburbs, then yeah, pretty boys get more play.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:53 AM
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What a great observation, it perfectly describes what I see among zoomer dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:43 AM
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That's cap. If they didn't care, they wouldn't ever shame guys for doing it. Yet, it persists. Pick a lane, either don't care, or talk shit, but you can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:31 AM
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Well the whole point is for women to psychologically shame the big strong manly man into looking weak. Like oh hey you bought a big truck, you must have a small dick. Oh you said something I don't like, you're probably ugly and don't get laid. Oh you think this about women, you're an insecure little child. Having unshakable self confidence and a solid record to stand on is absolutely frustrating to a woman trying to shame you. Doubly so if she's projecting her own insecurities, because how can y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:28 PM
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I actually agree with your reasoning, but not with your conclusion that it's the "detriment of all". The more that people go childless, become genetic dead ends, and drop out of the family game, the less traffic there is clogging up all the family resources. People are still paying the same taxes, the schools and playgrounds still get funded, but it's paid by an increasing amount of single childless people, and has to support a decreasing amount of kids. In other words, a school budget of $100M …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:57 PM
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You're not even debating my points, you're just using it as an excuse to post about your personal life. You probably see yourself as the "main character", so I imagine that's why it feels insulting to you. But at no point have you had anything meaningful to say, so how could there ever be a meaningful discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:23 PM
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Okay, well it seems you're not going to bother actually trying to defend your earlier claims, but I'll head with you, anyway. Defend my claims? This isn't a fucking court case dude, it's my opinion. And in my experience, every poly person I've ever seen has been a ugly fat nerd with some sort of mental issues. When was the last time you left your house? 3pm yesterday, I've been sick and resting at home for the past few days. And conversely... surely you don't actually think that the people who D…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:50 PM
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Why does your experiential evidence matter more than mine? Because this is about my opinion, not yours. If I cared even the slightest about you, what you want in a man, or what your parents/grandparents do, I would have asked. I didn't. Also, I never insulted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:36 PM
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Wait, so older women get validation for getting used as a convenient wet hole by a younger dude, and that's supposed to be degrading for man? That's the dumbest logic ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:05 PM
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Why are they superior? What evidence have you found for this? Experiential evidence. Most people are poor leaders with trust and control issues. They don't want the burden of being in charge, but refuse to give up control because they can't fully trust anyone. That, plus their ego won't let them play second fiddle to anyone. So "equal partnership" is what they settle on, and they convince themselves it's the best thing ever, because, well, their pride. The happiest, most effective groups of huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:49 PM
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When I look at the type of people who do poly, they're almost always fat, ugly, lower class nerds with tons of baggage and mental issues, who usually have to publicly hide or at least downplay it. Either that or dudes from the middle east, but we both know you don't mean them. When I look at people going for Trad relationships, I see captains of industry, heads of state, community/business leaders, monarchs, sports superstars, and such. Are they always successful? No.... but it's the ideal they …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:43 PM
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Eh, I could never get into the VR stuff, it just feels like my retinas are getting burned out from someone flashing intense beams of light into my eyes for long periods of time. But I'm glad it works for you man!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:45 AM
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Here's an unpopular opinion for you: Trad relationships, when done right, are superior to every other kind of relationship there is. But it's incredibly hard to do right because it requires a strong, capable leader and a loyal, devoted follower. It demands expertise, like a finely tuned supercar like a Bugatti or McLaren. Modern men are often weak and incapable, and modern women are often unreliable and self absorbed, which necessitates the rise in "equal partnerships", relationships that are de…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:29 AM
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Because people in a society don't live in a vacuum. You get ranked at school, at work, in social situations, and even with family and friends, whether you realize it or not. I guess you can always just ignorant put your head in the sand by pretending you're above it all, but it doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:06 PM
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It's actually striking how much of the economy is driven by male thirst. And how many women would be completely lost in life if they couldn't trade on their sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:55 PM
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If I was in his shoes I'd get a split custody arrangement and take them either during the summers or the school year, and hire a part time nanny to cover for me as a single dad with the extra money I'd be making.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 09:47 PM
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Look I'm going to stop you right here. Being a woman doesn't make you seen as useless, being 22 makes you useless. Like most young adults, you probably haven't done jack shit to warrant any respect but somehow feel entitled to it. Like ok if you were 19 and running convoys in Iraq, then ok yeah mad respect. But when I think of women I respect, most of them are in their 30s and 40s, and beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:07 PM
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Well, here's the thing, you were probably in the position of thinking you had things figured out, and then something great happened, and you realized there was more to it. It's a humbling process, because it shatters the illusion that hey, maybe we don't have all the answers because we haven't experienced certain things yet. You'll find most people are Reddit are high in hubris and pride, and low on lived experience. Not everyone will react to your revelation positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:54 PM
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I don't find very young looking girls sexually attractive, because a "very young looking girl" is prepubescent. An 18 year old is a grown adult human being. That's it, done. That is an adult woman, with all the rights and responsibilities that go along with it including consenting to an adult sexual relationship. I'm not out here trolling the freshman dorm at the local college for ass either, but morally I have absolutely no issue between two consenting adults. You have no ethical standing to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:51 PM
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Bro, I live in LA. I'm not going to sit here and accept that the reality that what's going on in these streets is supposed to be normal. And I really don't care what happens to billionaires, because they're going to make their money regardless. And those handful of people cant move the markets alone. But suddenly dumping trillions into the economy weakens everyone's personal purchasing power. Means testing it makes it a direct attack on me and my family So, yeah, I have fiscally conservative val…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:25 PM
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Oh, lol. My morbid curiosity blinded me to everything else I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:18 PM
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I'm curious, how much does a typical sugar daddy spend per month? And does he get a discount if he's more attractive and has game, or do you just offer more of yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:55 PM
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Nah, they'll submit if they respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:48 PM
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Wanting to not get stabbed by a homeless dude on the way to dropping off my kids at school. Not getting taxed even more just for the government to mismanage the funds and not solve any actual problems year after year. Want to not have inflation spike 10%+ every year by dumping untold billions of free money into the economy to buy votes and erode whatever purchasing power my salary may have had.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:41 PM
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My wife and I started vaping a couple years ago and it was ok for a little buzz here and then got tired of it and quit cold turkey without any issue. But after we stopped, we felt a lot healthier and energetic in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:30 PM
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A person in their early 20’s or god forbid younger has nowhere near the level of maturity or brain development to develop an appropriate romantic and sexual relationship with a man ten years her senior. It’s borderline predatory. So, wait, should adulthood be based off of level of maturity? Should it be based off of brain development? While 18 isn't fully developed, it's the intersection of being fully physicially developed and mentally developed enough to be an adult. There are immature 30 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:14 PM
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"Basically a kid" is an adult. There's no "basically" about it, either you are or aren't. There's a reason why 18-19 is considered the age of majority across multiple developed, modern societies all over the world. You are the odd one out, so stop protecting your views as what is supposed to be considered "normal". You don't have to like it, you just have to live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:58 PM
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Crazy Angie from the Billy Bob years was pretty hot. Weird adoptive mom Angie, less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:01 AM
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Thank you for saying this. She's like the average girl next door from your high school class.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:57 AM
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Sex and dating pool, no. Commitment pool, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:54 PM
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Best way i can describe it is, if masculinity is the wood, steel, concrete, and glass that a house is built and erected with, then femininity is the paint, landscaping, furniture, and interior design that makes a house a home. Femininity is thus the ability to bring life, warmth, comfort, nurturing, and softness into a situation. And it often gets taken for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:20 PM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. Promiscuity has a branding issue. Young people (I'm talking easily influenced high school/college aged kids) look at life outcomes and imitate what looks like the better deal. Which is why I think conservativism looks more appealing as the life becomes more desperate for young people. They often see how slutty women and horny playboys get shit talked, end up as single parents, disilusioned and jaded by hookup culture, often cheated on, end up getting pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:01 PM
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My main yellow flag is how she presents herself to the outside world. Like, does she have tattoos, what is her dress style, makeup style, piercings, how she wears her hair, etc. I notice a lot. When I see how someone presents themselves to the outside world and the dozens of micro-choices they make to form a whole, I form a (usually correct) judgment on their personality. But I still allow for the fact that I could be wrong, which is why it's a yellow flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:33 PM
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I consider the women I surround myself with as HVW, and unearned wealth is pretty boring since all of us are in the 1% of earners in the US. 2 questions: Why are those women considered to be HVW? Do you think they are generally representative enough of the general population of HVW to be able to speak confidently on what HVW in general want? Full disclosure; I'm skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:21 AM
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