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| 2 | Q4W: Do you think men were better at some point in the past? If so, when exactly?Yes. I’m a middle millennial in my mid 30’s and when I was growing up and even in my early 20’s men seemed like better people. Now I see so much hate that men have for women. Them saying equal rights equal fights . It was strongly believed when I was growing up that a man never hits a woman and men protect women. Men were much more respectful and didn’t want to hurt women . Now they seem hateful , bitter, jaded, and lazy. I’m just glad I got married young back when men were better so I’m not dea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skillsYeah that’s exactly what I’m thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skillsYeah men just seem to have a lot of trouble moving on from their first love . I know some men who are actually married and have kids that admit their ex from high school or college is the love of their lives . It’s sad to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Dating is harder for men in their 30s vs their 20s due to increased market efficiencyThe men I’m talking about are men that are already attractive to women in their 20’s . They are the total catch type of guys . Im from the south so yeah all the good men and women do get taken in their 20’s . It’s actually uncommon for the good ones to not get married or atleast be in a ltr with their future spouse in their 20’s . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Dating is harder for men in their 30s vs their 20s due to increased market efficiencyThe good quality men get married or atleast are with their future wives in their 20’s too. All the attractive good men get taken early from what I’ve seen. I’m just glad I met my husband early because I would not want to date any of the men that I see that are single or that are in my friends dating pool in their 30’s or older . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesYeah I agree about that. 5’10 is tall to me and I don’t see the focus on a specific number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesTall dark and handsome has always been a thing and women have always liked tall men . I do agree that the height standard didn’t used to have to specifically be 6 ft though. It wasn’t a specific number it was just he looks tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skillsI don’t have any feelings for my ex and love my husband. My ex on the other hand apparently still says I’m the love of his life and still tries to contact me. Keep in mind he’s my ex from high school when we were teenagers. It’s odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skillsSee I’ve been thinking everything men say about women is projection. Men get hurt once or twice and are never the same after and never love the same again. It’s also why you have men still hung up on their first love they haven’t been with in over 10 years . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 05:05 PM |
| 19 | "Nice guys finish last", AFBB statementes are kind of true for most average guys.Yeah I know men that were basically what people consider chads and they were with all the hottest women when younger and then got to 27- early 30’s and settled with a plain Jane . Some of them will admit they were more attracted to their ex but wife is less crazy. One of them even admitted his bipolar ex was his type but he just couldn’t deal with her abuse or constant crazy anymore so he wanted a good girl that wasn’t constant drama. Men do that just as much as women especially if they have opt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:09 PM |
| – | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenI feel like nobody talks about the sex drive/ stamina difference. My husband is 8 and a half years older than me so not even 10 years and now that we are mid 30’s and mid 40’s there’s definitely differences. His sex drive/ stamina has gone down and mine up and I love him and our family so I deal with it but I’m definitely jealous when my friends and their husbands our age still have a very active sex life . I can see how if the woman doesn’t love him or wasn’t raised with morals would cheat with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.How tall are you? I really think his height plays a big part in this too. I’m not normally attracted to men with a lot of muscles and actually usually prefer skinny guys but I was definitely attracted to him. When I saw him I was like whoa he’s so big and tall and seemed so much bigger than Jake . I think the allure is his size altogether and his accent and vibe helped too. I don’t think it would have the same effect on shorter guys and I actually think shorter guys look odd when they’re muscula… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?I’ve noticed this too. My husband is 5’6 but has a very attractive face. Our oldest son is 5 ‘7 not far from 5’8 but all the boys at school call him Chad and want to be his friend and the girls are always asking him out. I always cared more about face but I heard gen z girls care more about height than anything ( I’m a middle millennial) but I also see them dating average height and short men in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Do most guys never experience the "talk" with their parents about relationships?Guess this is an advantage to having my oldest young. He’s 16 and I’m in my mid 30’s. I’ve already had talks with him about what type of girls to avoid . He’s pretty popular at school and several girls pester him so he has to focus on avoiding some of them because it seems most of the girls that like him have issues and he said he doesn’t like them . My husband still hasn’t talked to him about girls and I’m not sure if he will unless something crazy happens. My youngest will have have my older s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discriminationYeah most men will hit a smaller man back. I don’t think it’s ok for anyone to hit anyone but I do view it worse if a man hits a woman as do most southern people. It’s very much seen as men shouldn’t hit women and should protect them and much more traditional here. Women also have their own gendered expectations here . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discriminationObviously if his life is in danger it’s different and he should defend himself but I’ve never heard about a woman using a weapon in real life( rarely I’ve seen it in the news) so I wasn’t even thinking about that. Mostly what I’ve seen/ heard about is a woman slapping, punching or shoving a man which obviously isn’t ok but I don’t think justifies a man hitting a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discriminationIn that case yes obviously if she has a weapon but if it’s just fist women don’t stand a chance. We know women are physically weaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Mothers are the most misogynist groupI have 2 young sons and I want the best woman for them but I also want them to be the best person possible so I don’t see it as misogynistic . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discriminationSo I’m from the south and most people feel very strongly here that a man should never hit a woman no matter what. I honestly feel that way too as it is instilled in us from a very young age. But it’s more traditional gender roles here and for instance if the house is a mess or something happens with the kids the woman is usually blamed . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | An average young woman *isn't average*Usually black men and Asian men age better and white men worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all menIt’s actually men online that changed my view of men. I grew up around mostly good men and I thought most men were good but boy did coming on Reddit change that opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadAre you serious? I’m in South Carolina atm and have an iud wtf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?That chart seems off IMO. I think asghari and Ronaldo who are 7.5 on this chart are way hotter then the guys they have as 9s or 10s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Women shamed for being too thin, husband made fun of for being shorter than herIt’s funny you all talk about women wanting chads but how many women do you know that have a waist that small and boobs that big without getting breast implants. I wish y’all would admit the women you’re talking and fussing about all the time are stacies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:31 PM |
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