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Just ask her, "Why are you telling me this?" Could open up a very deep and interesting conversation. Or turn it back on her, "Have YOU ever said one thing when you meant another?"
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:49 PM
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"I want you to suck my cock."
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:44 PM
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It's all about that hard tail.
/r/seduction05/03/18 10:21 PM
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This is timely. Last night, a girl that I recently slept with told me she wasn't interested in seeing me again. I was surprised as things were going well. I was bummed, but then I reminded myself that the only reason I got with this girl was because a previous, less hot, girl had rejected me. This girl rejecting me just opens the door for me to get with an even hotter girl. When the lord closes the door he opens a window. I'm not religious but I like the saying.
/r/seduction06/02/18 11:35 PM
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"Nah we should find someone hotter for our threesome."
/r/seduction06/02/18 08:51 PM
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These rejections have caused you to revise your own estimate of your dating market value lower. Even if your reading of your market value is accurate, it's not productive to think about. When you start to feel down, remember that your dating market value is not the same as your human value. Just think of all the people who have zero dating market value but high human value, like Stephen Hawking or Mother Teresa. These rejections should not affect you because you should be living life on your ter…
/r/seduction06/02/18 12:21 AM
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If you want to fuck someone you're not their friend. You're lying to her and yourself if you think otherwise. You can either tell her how you feel, "I'm not interested in being just friends." Or you could go cold on her: don't initiate contact, give minimal text responses, be polite but detached if you see her in person. By not giving her closure you essentially keep the door open should she change her mind.
/r/seduction05/02/18 08:44 PM
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You're OK (Mark Manson.net)
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:10 AM
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It hasn't hurt anyone's feelings in my experience. I still have girls pursuing me that I broke up with this way. Girls are always comparing themselves to other girls so this just confirms what they already suspect.
/r/seduction19/12/17 06:29 PM
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My personal favorite is "I've decided to start seeing someone else more seriously".
/r/seduction19/12/17 12:44 AM
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Full selection of hard alcohols. Always have beer and wine in stock. Always have solo cups and ping pong balls. Have some games you can play i.e. deck of cards, bananagrams, catchphrase. Have a decent sound system.
/r/seduction13/12/17 07:27 PM
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I have set times where I check my phone. I check my phone in the morning and respond to all texts while I'm eating breakfast. Then I put my phone on airplane mode and don't check it again until after dinner. After dinner I reply to all texts and will have longer conversations if the girl is active, sometimes up to an hour of back and forth. I adopted this strategy because it puts me in control of my time and lets me devote my full attention to the other person. If I'm rushed trying to respond to…
/r/seduction27/11/17 09:50 PM
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I think you did it right. The best thing you can do for your FWB is to be attractive, and the best external measure of attractiveness is the number and quality of girls you're attracting. Despite having your pick of the ladies, you chose her. Most girls will take that as a compliment. When I'm in this situation I flirt and dance with other girls but I don't ask for numbers or make out. Be sure to show your date/FWB plenty of attention over the course of the night so she knows you're going home w…
/r/seduction30/10/17 10:12 PM
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The guys in my feed who post stuff about themselves look attention hungry and try hard. It looks much better to show up in pictures other people take. So post pictures of your friends (be a value giver) and hopefully they'll take pictures of you.
/r/seduction24/10/17 10:59 PM
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It's ok mate. What helps me get out of the doldrums is to double down on fitness and hobbies. Channel those emotions into something positive.
/r/seduction23/10/17 07:29 PM
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LED light strings are a nice touch. Usually find them in girls' rooms but see no reason why a dude couldn't have them. No couch? No problem. I haven't had a couch in years. Sit on the floor or on your bed.
/r/seduction13/10/17 08:08 PM
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Going for the kind of girls I actually want and remaining outcome independent with them. These girls are attracted to me and I can open them, but I usually fuck it up, either by playing it too cool or getting overly invested and needy. It's hard not to care when you actually care! What I've been doing about it is approaching hotter girls and escalating to the point of clear rejection. I let myself get picked up by a not so attractive girl and experienced what a value/investment mismatch felt lik…
/r/seduction25/09/17 08:45 PM
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I agree with the general argument, and I want to add that it's important to be results-oriented in the right way. If you beat yourself up over perceived failures it can lead to frustration, discouragement, and depression. The better way to be self-critical is to focus on the process of improvement by asking, "What could I do better next time?" When you focus on the elements in your direct control and what you can 'do', it keeps you from thinking about what you 'are' ("a failure", "not good enoug…
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:10 PM
1

Bust your ass on a real major. At this point your life should be school, gym, sleep.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:22 PM
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Buffalo Buffalo buffalo Buffalo Buffalo.
/r/seduction13/09/17 09:28 PM
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I love reading field reports as they can be quite entertaining. They open my eyes to what's possible and inspire me to take more risks. I've been tempted to post but am afraid of revealing my identity or my girls'. It's a smaller world than you think.
/r/seduction13/09/17 09:23 PM
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Don't count your chickens before they're hatched. Plenty of time to screw up between now and your hook up.
/r/seduction30/08/17 10:17 PM
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I am not very physically fit Getting fit is a great place to start.
/r/seduction28/08/17 06:06 PM
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I have a gf so I don't want to flirt with the girls. Flirting is harmless and people in relationships, especially girls, do it all the time. If I was you I'd practice my skills and flirt with reckless abandon. The only opener you need is "Hey, how's it going?", backed by confidence and genuine value.
/r/seduction24/08/17 10:54 PM
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I usually don't text till a few hours before on the day of. They will often text you first. I say something simple like, "Looking forward to seeing you later at XYZ."
/r/seduction24/08/17 10:40 PM
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I assume the friends are from out of town. Plan something fun outside the house or host a party at the house. Show them around and be their social hub for the weekend. Be sure to stock up on booze. Maybe bring a wing so it's 2 on 2. When you get back to the house after whatever activity you've done, keep the booze flowing, play a game, laugh lots, and follow standard escalation protocol if you're getting positive signals.
/r/seduction22/08/17 10:53 PM
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Take up an instrument. Can sop up an infinite amount of time.
/r/seduction16/08/17 10:56 PM
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You're Okay
/r/seduction16/08/17 07:43 PM
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I wouldn't try to 'show' anything at this point, because I would not be attracted to her after she said that. What kind of person goes around shitting on other people using their deepest insecurities? Her comment has obviously struck a nerve with OP, and that's OK - none of us is completely free of insecurities. I would use this as an exercise in empathy and nonviolent communication, to try to understand why she said that, while also honestly expressing how it made me feel. You can use this as a…
/r/seduction10/08/17 10:55 PM
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I think she's looking for validation (how shitty can I treat this guy and still have him lusting after me?), and this response would give it to her. I think he should call her out on what was a pretty mean-spirited remark, or stop talking to her completely.
/r/seduction10/08/17 10:07 PM
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Or you could call her on it directly. "Wow, what an insensitive and out of context thing to say. How would you feel if someone told you they couldn't date you because your boobs were too small?"
/r/seduction10/08/17 09:54 PM
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"No worries, I don't recall asking you to be my girlfriend."
/r/seduction10/08/17 09:35 PM
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Yes. "How's the tindering going?"
/r/seduction10/08/17 07:28 PM
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How about Tinder? Might work better with your schedule than daygame/nightgame. It's OK to be bit braggy about your success. Show some pics of you in your penthouse, and mention your companies in your bio.
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:53 PM
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The amount of effort a guy is willing to put in is proportional to his attraction. You threw yourself at him and when he realized he was going to get laid that night without hardly trying, he thought 'fuck it why not.' He sees you as doable but he is not super attracted to you, and is unwilling to put in the effort to meet up with you again. At 35, he may be looking for something more substantial.
/r/seduction07/08/17 11:12 PM
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She won't call you. Might as well text, but likely to get ghosted.
/r/seduction07/08/17 05:57 PM
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I think it comes back to outcome independence. You only worry about things under your direct control, and spend zero time worrying about things you can't control. And you don't actually worry about things under your control because you take action, making it unnecessary to worry. I think this post explains outcome independence well: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ruugd/how_to_become_outcome_independent_using_a_stoic/
/r/seduction01/08/17 10:11 PM
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I think you should give socializing a chance and build an active friend group. Forming connections with other people is one of the most rewarding things you can do in life. Small talk is just a way of connecting with another person and can be meaningful and satisfying if done right. It sounds like you don't want to meet girls in bars, and you don't want to meet girls through hobbies, so that leaves work and friends. You're in CS so it's not gonna happen at work. That leaves friends. Go out and b…
/r/seduction31/07/17 06:38 PM
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Pack on some muscle while you're young. You become more attractive as you age. Identify your values and stay the course. Girls will flit in and out, but you should be like a container ship steaming onwards towards your life's purpose, steady strong and calm.
/r/seduction31/07/17 06:15 PM
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The haters don't crossfit. They don't even know.
/r/seduction28/07/17 11:38 PM
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It makes you more attractive, which increases the number of girls attracted to you and the intensity of attraction. You still need game to pull, it just gives you more options and a little wiggle room in your game.
/r/seduction28/07/17 11:29 PM
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Yeah big time. And when you get them into bed it is a universal pleaser. They get turned on at a visceral level just by running their hands over a muscled body and feeling your strength and power.
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:27 PM
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Be ridiculously high value.
/r/seduction28/07/17 06:22 PM
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Wait until after you sleep with her to give her anything sexual over text, and only if she starts it (and they often do ...).
/r/seduction27/07/17 10:43 PM
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When in doubt, wait it out.
/r/seduction27/07/17 10:38 PM
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I have the same issue, still waiting for a good answer. Somehow you have to trick yourself into outcome independence. Perhaps adopt a mindset of TRYING to fail. Talk and text as if you wanted her you reject you. Adopt an attitude of skepticism and amusement, and see how far you can get with her for shits and giggles, with the expectation that nothing is going to come of it.
/r/seduction25/07/17 11:50 PM
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Use your words. Say "I want to do X" or "I want you to do X", then do it. If she's into it, it functions as dirty talk. If she's not, it gives her a chance to say no. Whatever you say, say it with confidence and do not be ashamed of your desires, even if she says no.
/r/seduction19/07/17 08:41 PM
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I see no point in having a girlfriend unless you want to marry her. If you have to game your own GF to get laid you might as well game the whole field. My biggest regret about my previous LTRs was trying to hang on after they'd turned bad. I wish I'd ended things as soon as the sex stopped being plentiful and exciting. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
/r/seduction19/07/17 12:58 AM
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I experience the same thing. I can crush it with girls I don't care about, but as soon as I start interacting with a girl I see as a real prospect, I start giving too many fucks which kills the attraction. How to not give a fuck about girls I give a fuck about?
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:40 PM
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Practice piano for 4 hours.
/r/seduction28/06/17 12:05 AM
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It's their word for 'studying' in the UK.
/r/seduction08/06/17 10:32 PM
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Can confirm that 50yr old dude I bike with has more muscle, higher sex drive, is more fit than I am, and I'm no slouch.
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:59 PM
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Please don't do that. Life IS worth living. But you must accept that not ever getting laid is a possible outcome, even if it's one with low probability. The world owes you nothing. I think you will feel quite liberated once you accept this possibility. A strange thing will happen once you come to peace with this realization. You'll feel a huge weight off your shoulders, and you might even laugh at how absurd our tiny existence is. From there, you should feel an appreciation for the fact that you…
/r/seduction01/03/17 10:21 PM
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Accept that you might not ever get laid. Now what?
/r/seduction01/03/17 09:46 PM
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I'm in my late twenties and things are better than they've ever been. Late 20s/early 30s is prime age for picking up young chicks. If you haven't already, getting your fitness on can make the clock run in reverse.
/r/seduction27/01/17 12:04 AM
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That's exactly what someone with low self esteem would believe. Lucky for OP he doesn't have that problem.
/r/seduction19/01/17 05:45 PM
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What? She's saying she's not attracted to low value guys, and when a guy chases her excessively it lowers his value in her eyes. If you say any kind of 'go slow' bullshit she'll immediately lose interest. Be attractive, be high value, maintain your frame. And for god sake stop worrying about whether she likes you or not. Back to basics: assume attraction, be outcome independent
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:37 PM
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She's used to being chased by needy outcome-dependent guys and it turns her off. I'd back off for a bit to create space for comfort, and to show you're not needy. In the meantime, go out and talk to other girls so you don't get oneitis. When she's ready to come to you, it's on.
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:26 PM
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This video demonstrates the essence of seduction. OP has created such a powerful reality and sucked her in that she literally can't help herself despite her friends pulling her away. To build so much attraction that a woman will choose you in the face of her friends' disapproval is an accomplishment. I don't think it matters to OP whether this chick went home with him or not. I'm sure he's got 10 chicks he could text right now who are dtf. It's about the interaction, it's about creating heighten…
/r/seduction19/01/17 05:11 AM
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Think about your friends and why you like them. Is there anything amazing or extraordinary about them? Are they special? No, they're just people, and you like them because it feels good to interact with other people. Trust that people feel the same way about you.
/r/seduction07/01/17 12:20 AM
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