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| 11 | How did you improve in being yourself in order to communicate more confidence, being funny, project attractiveness? | Conversation | me_milesheller | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:54 PM |
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| 1 | What is competence in relation to confidence?Gotcha! By all means, it seems you're kinda depressed. The sooner you recognize and accept it as a fact -not that you're depressed (but I was in fact) , but that your mental health is not giving you what is needed to experience life as it is meant to be lived-, you will be right in the exact path of discomfort enough to put all your shit together to begin in this beautiful trip: to live with integrity. Emotional, material, social and sexually functionally and healthy enough to admit yourself as … | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 12:07 AM |
| 4 | What is competence in relation to confidence?I was about to sleep but somehow I want to share with you what I think about your situation. I think I know exactly how you feel. You looked at your friends to flirt and it seemed too stupid and non-genuine. Well... My response to your whole problem is this: To get women in your life requires lots of work. Lots of inner work -inner game- more than just looks -the outer game-. That's where nobody wants to pass through. Why is it? Because it requires the willing to become the man you're not yet. B… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Yes please | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | I find cold approach addictiveYeah, what does it mean? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I balance showing interest and not look needy when talking to a girl in person and texting.What it is about "Does she feel like you're a very selective man" is the first time I read that. Didn't think it'd be a bad sign . | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How did you improve in being yourself in order to communicate more confidence, being funny, project attractiveness?Thanks | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Need help Improving my game. Kinda shy?As far as I read you're not intimidating them. Because they stare at you, they touch you, and you're not doing an approach. So I dismiss that possibly reason. It's not about approach, maybe is about scalating. There's a lot of post of it. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Need help Improving my game. Kinda shy?It happened to me that I realized that I approached girls just to reject them. It was a very slow but important part of the process of my grief because I also had a relationship of 6y and the way it ended made me a resentful guy with girls. So whatever advance I had with a girl it ended up messed up by me because of my unconscious actions. I'm still learning. The main question for me to make you is... Why do you want to approach em? Maybe there's nothing wrong with you. In fact... Maybe a lot of… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Things are finally workingYou definitively should write a post out if this comment maybe elaborated a little more. This is the unique and the very top of the advice out there. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Dont be afraid to approach women.This is the attitude | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Dont be afraid to approach women.Lived happily forever and ever? | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How to Become a Man?General answer: If you need to become a 'real man' just say it, act like what you think it is. Observe what you admire of other men or man prototypes and try to base your choices of style to express it. In order to become 'a real ____' you have to be a real YOU firstly. And it won't work following any rules given anywhere here or on any book. Doesn't matter how much you try if you're not following the expression of your you true-self. As I can see being a real ____ is: * Be kind to others. * Spe… | /r/MenSupportMen | 16/11/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | My most effective pick up line..Might be just his style or to show confidence and goofiness. But only he can tell us the truth. | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | My most effective pick up line..I Second this question. | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Your clothes play a huge role in seducing women!This whole thread in a nutshell. | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesYes please | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesDoing what things? | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | A simple trick to reduce anxiety when meeting someone out of your leagueImagine her not pooping at all. Ew! | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 03:39 PM |
| 7 | A simple trick to reduce anxiety when meeting someone out of your leagueHoly Bible | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | The total lack of parenting in dating.Exactly the same. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 05:12 AM |
| 1 | A good way to combat neediness and need for approvalThanks for your comment | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | You can't logically convince someone to find you attractive.OK then, so how to close deals with women? | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | If you’re online dating and the questions you ask are never met by questions in response, it's time to end the conversation.Example? | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 07:28 AM |
| 2 | If women like good men, why do they date bad boys?I may say that it's about accepting oneself too, keeping the improvement, and lastly but not less important... Finding some professional help to ease the thoughts and life in general. To be honest, I'm in the same same boat. Something that I've read recently was to not fall in the obsession to like every girl out there. We still have to work on ourselves and I think it will happen. It's just a matter of patience and self love. Seriously, professional help is wonderful. | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 3 | If women like good men, why do they date bad boys?Hi! Sure! Being a 'nice guy' as you can read is more a symptom than a problem per se. It is more about self-estime/value/love than any other reason. Why? Because it's the main thing that drives us to have certain actings with people and with women. The way on what we assume love, caring, owning and giving it's reflected directly on how we choose to obtain love, caring, etc. So... how do we fix the nice guy syndrome? Improving the self value by making conscious (being aware) of ourselves. By not … | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.Keep on! | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongSo... Is anyone going to post this on r/madlads or nah? | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝It takes time, but definitively you'll know when it happens. How it happens? Accepting all the goods and bads of yourself and your life. It's about reality. How do you are REALLY? Not how you think the world sees you, but, how do you you want to be? And why is your behavior in some circumstances. | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝What I understand by this is to act freely weird. This is not just in the flirting scene, is in almost any non-expected-to-be-absolutely-normal social context. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?Very much appreciated. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?Oh, good! Thanks for the aclaration. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 05:16 AM |
| 2 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?I didn't get what sets apart a men from the boys. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?How this could become an advice? | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?How? | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?I thing there's a subreddit specially for Dating Advice. It may help more. Here your comment will be buried under all the other ones. Good look! | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Finally made an effortActually is her Master. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Did you ever regret not committing to a girl because you wanted to search for your perfect someone?This is the only and truest answer. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:45 AM |
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