meant_to_be_alone Archive

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29	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. what changed was women not needing men (individually at least) anymore. Dating in the 80s, 90s, and 2000s were fine and women didn't need men then. The only change that happened was the internet, more accessible convenience, and low effort entertainment. That's the change that fucked us. So weird how people always use this arguement and exclude those 30-40 years. We didn't suddenly go from the 1960s to now in a flash. There are generations in between.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 10:48 AM
1	How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them? We also generally want a relationship were we feel equal. So unless you add "I am a simp/doormat" to your list, then it ain't equal. And also someone who can relate to us/our life experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 10:19 AM
–	How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them? And you willing to be one as well?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:58 AM
4	How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them? A lot of the guys here have gone their whole lives with nothing and would reject the average chubby girl from the USA. And you would reject the average chubby guy. You'd also reject every guy in r/foreveralone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:35 AM
1	How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them? was never the type to chase toxic men So you say...but is there actual legitimate of this that you know confirms this as fact?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:35 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Men would kill to have this level of regular access to potential partners, even if it meant 1/3rd of them came with dick picks or whatever This is the point I'm always trying to hammer into people. It doesn't matter that 400 of your 600 dms are being dumbasses. Ignore them like they never existed and focus on the ones who actually are trying to get somewhere with you. Filter them out, because that's what I would do. They act like 99% of their dms are total dogshit when it's just not true. Hyper …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 08:07 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread you have to post a picture of her too. You're not wrong and I'd say that's the flaw of my experiment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 08:04 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread But there's no evidence of these mass creepy messages. You guys just say this but never post any hard evidence of all of the dms received. And sure, the other side says the opposite without posting evidence as well. However, I even made a fake female account a few years ago and posted on r/lonely. Got ~20 messages, none were "creeps", how you all love to say. Again, not evidence that it never happens, which I'm not denying it doesn't because I'm 100% sure it does given the cherry picked dms I've…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 09:05 PM
1	Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa? Doesn't matter what she wants, though, huh? No, it doesn't matter. If one person can't find a way to reconcile their feelings and attraction to their friend who doesn't reciprocate those feelings, then she doesn't get a say so in keeping the friendship. Just like the guy doesn't get a say so in being in a romantic relationship with her. Stop acting as if men didn't lose a friend too and that it doesn't hurt them deeply to have to stop talking to the person they like because they want different t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 10:26 PM
–	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. How can you say you're invisible when you can go post on r/foreveralonedating and get a good amount of dms? Or a dating app and get 50 likes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 01:42 AM
1	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. It's not insanely hard like they act like it is. They just don't explore all of the avenues they have available to them, unlike men do. Why? Because we quite literally have no choice given that women aren't as desperate as we are and have no clue what having "no options" actually means. I'm talking messaging femcels, messaging foreveralonewomen, making dating ads on r/foreveralonedating and messaging many people on there, approaching/asking out people irl, at work, at school, at clubs. Many dati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 01:33 AM
2	A thought experiment for men Works for me since I'm very attracted to the woman you posted. And idk why you keep posting her because she's a horrible example of an average woman. Her face looks above average. She's not plain by any means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 11:49 PM
–	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Porn is the same thing. All you're doing is looking at it, you can't have what your seeing. Porn isn't and can't ever be a valid substitute for "eating" at the buffet. And really it's not good to imply it as an alternative either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 06:21 AM
1	If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more? When you've been called horrible insults about your looks by girls for years while growing up, being rejected by every girl you approached, barely ever getting likes and matches on dating apps, it's definitely true that being sexually appealing is a prerequisite. Otherwise, you're being settled for and will end up in a dead bedroom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:39 AM
2	If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more? If they aren't attracted to her, they wouldn't care at all. I believe a man shouldn't be friends with women he is attracted to, unless he has a lot of options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:29 AM
2	If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more? I was always taught to be kind to and to always respect women. Same here. I remember so vividly the disgust a girl had for me when I opened my car door for her when I met her for the first time. She told me a few weeks later that she respected me to much to date me or even be intimate with me. Pretty sure me being ugly had something to do with it too, but I'm positive that so many women have negative attraction to kindness and chivalrous behavior. I swore that I'd try my best to never in my life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:21 AM
–	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations What does this even mean? When you look at a picture, you can get some sort of idea if you find this person attractive. Why are you trying to make this into some "men dehumanizing women" bullshit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:12 AM
–	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Because men are mocked by people(women and simps) saying "Men can't even do the basics. My standards are on the floor at this point 🙄".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:10 AM
–	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations You do realize men want a trad wife that is submissive yet most men cannot financially support that. Most western men do not want a woman they have to pay everything for while they sit at home. You need to stop watching red pill podcasts and go talk to real men IRL. There is more to a relationship then looks and that something men don’t think about. If this was something men don't think about, then there would be far more broken homes than there are now. I don't think you even care to see that m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:06 AM
–	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations I understand that, I just wish everyone else would admit that and stop the gaslighting. Saying ridiculous things like "Men aren't attractive because most don't take care of their appearance. How hard is it to shower, shave, and put on some decent clothes!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 04:00 AM
–	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations I never get to eat at the nice buffet, so I'm not given the choice of "most of the time". And the same applies to many many men, and it's only getting worse as technology and society advances/changes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 03:57 AM
–	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations How is it a privilege to constantly want what you can never have? What nice life, you mean only ever staring and longing for the teddy bear in the store window but your mom always says "NO!"? Yeah I can feel the privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 03:55 AM
–	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Have you not realized that dating apps are 3x more men than women? And that women tend to be extremely more selective than men? So that means, the average man is not getting average women, he is getting women who look worse than him, such as morbidly obese women. How do I know this? Online experiments by other men, my own personal experience, and guys telling me their experiences. You have zero clue what dating is like for us. You could if you bothered to make a male dating profile, but you won'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 03:39 AM
4	If women are allegedly happier being single than men are, why are there 2x as many young single men as women? Many are on non-exclusive relationships. I use an app called Hiki where you can put your relationship status and I've seen a ridiculous amount of women who are non-exclusive. People are out here in harems, dating multiple people at the same time. It's crazy, no wonder so many young men like me are suffering in romantic loneliness. Of course that's not the only reason but definitely is one.	/r/MensRights	17/02/24 02:49 AM
–	Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurd A bad relationship isn't a solution to loneliness. Those guys have everg right to complain about not wanting a bad relationship, and pursuing someone they aren't attracted to will be just that. Idk how you can possibly take issue with someone not wanting to put themselves in an even worse situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 01:41 AM
1	It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual" Dude, truer words have never been spoken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 01:05 AM
5	It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated. It's one admitting it, don't get excited.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 12:49 AM