meanttolive Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	Men are more likely to divorce spouses with terminal illness, while wives are more likely to stay. How does this fit into the red pill idea that honor is a only a male construct? I posted this in the red pill sub and it was deleted without reason after some discussion. If women's love is more fickle based on male fitness, why do they stay in terminal illness relationships more often than men? And how is that love related to honor?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/14 04:32 PM
3	Confused "beta" guy here. I've been reading TRP and, although I don't like it, a lot of it makes sense to me. Can any "blue pillers" tell me THEIR guide to a guy getting laid? It makes you less boring, more relatable, and easier to talk with. My SO is into computers & excitedly talks about programs, languages, etc. Do I always understand him? No. Is it sexy to see him passionate about something? Heck ya. It's obviously not the only thing that makes someone sexually attractive, but it definitely helps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/13 04:35 PM
5	Confused "beta" guy here. I've been reading TRP and, although I don't like it, a lot of it makes sense to me. Can any "blue pillers" tell me THEIR guide to a guy getting laid? TL;DR: you can develop hobbies and be confident without being an asshole. Different women find different things sexually attractive. I find intelligence and dedication really sexy. The people I had the most sex with had an interest and were surprisingly knowledgeable about their interest. Music, computers, food, martial arts... It's sexy when a guy is passionate about something and does something about it. You want more sex? Talk to more women. Talk to women whom you have no desire in sleeping w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/13 05:22 PM
-5	Since feminists like to rage over child marriage, where's their cries now? Eight year old BOY marries 61 year old woman based on dead grandfathers wishes. From the World Health Organization (2013): Child marriage – defined as marriage before the age of 18 – applies to both boys and girls, but the practice is far more common among young girls.. PBS: Although the definition of child marriage includes boys, most children married under the age of 18 years are girls. UNICEF (2012): Child marriage, defined as a formal marriage or informal union before age 18, is a reality for both boys and girls, although girls are disproportionately the most affected. …	/r/MensRights	29/09/13 07:13 PM
-1	Since feminists like to rage over child marriage, where's their cries now? Eight year old BOY marries 61 year old woman based on dead grandfathers wishes. The feminists who blame men for all evil and can't acknowledge that men have issues are very radical. Basing all members of a group based on the most extreme members makes no logical sense. That would be like me saying all Christians are bible-thumping, global-warming denying, Jesus freaks based on a few people.	/r/MensRights	29/09/13 06:31 PM
-2	Since feminists like to rage over child marriage, where's their cries now? Eight year old BOY marries 61 year old woman based on dead grandfathers wishes. It's not about the oppression Olympics, it's that the MRAs never give a damn about the issues that women face, and oftentimes invade feminist spaces to argue "BUT WHAT ABOUT MEN". My reply was just one instance of giving them a taste of their own medicine.	/r/MensRights	29/09/13 06:12 PM
-10	Since feminists like to rage over child marriage, where's their cries now? Eight year old BOY marries 61 year old woman based on dead grandfathers wishes. I've responded to some of these points in a comment to /u/ghebert001 but I'll address the rest of yours here. So you've seen one stat on child marriages and determined that was enough to get an accurate picture of the rates at which boys/girls are subjected to child marriages? dress is a risk factor for getting raped in the sense that women who dress "normally" or "conservatively" are raped more often than women wearing "provocative" clothing. Women are often told to watch how they dress for fea…	/r/MensRights	29/09/13 06:10 PM
-1	Since feminists like to rage over child marriage, where's their cries now? Eight year old BOY marries 61 year old woman based on dead grandfathers wishes. True, rape isn't about what the victim is wearing, but often time the victim is blamed for how they dressed. Yes, I get that it's about taking personal responsibility but at some point all these precautions interfere with someone's ability to lead a normal life. Men do not get sexually harassed nearly as often as women do, and suggesting otherwise trivializes the frequency that it happens to women. I'm with you on that in the cases of female-on-male sexual assault, men's feelings about the viola…	/r/MensRights	29/09/13 05:48 PM
-7	Since feminists like to rage over child marriage, where's their cries now? Eight year old BOY marries 61 year old woman based on dead grandfathers wishes. Feminists predominantly have women's interests in mind because women are not equal to men. It's about women being equal to men, since as it stands, women are not considered equal to men. You want men to be equal to women? OK so let's do this: men should watch how they dress for fear of being raped same goes for drinking, partying, walking by themselves at night because rapists are gonna rape so it's best to protect yourself rather than try to live a normal life men can get sexually harassed, cat…	/r/MensRights	29/09/13 02:38 PM
1	To the blue pillers, what alternative to TRP would you recommend for me? This is true but based on how TRP treats women I would say they don't follow this philosophy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/13 07:06 PM
1	To the blue pillers, what alternative to TRP would you recommend for me? No but the point is to stop putting woman in the fuckzone. Treat them like people - like friends - and you'll eventually happen upon romance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/13 06:25 PM
9	To the blue pillers, what alternative to TRP would you recommend for me? Dude, I get rejection. Maybe not on your level, but I've been rejected enough times where I've felt seriously crushed and wondered what the point is if no one wants me. But I've never taken it to mean that women are plentiful or disposable because I kept getting rejected. After a long internal battle, I eventually realized that I needed to focus on myself before thinking of romance. Once I realized this, my life changed - I moved up in work, got fit, developed a talent and just became happier in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/13 05:58 PM
4	To the blue pillers, what alternative to TRP would you recommend for me? Here's the problem with what you've said about my advice: TRP encourages the idea that women are plentiful and so it's acceptable to treat them as disposable (see: the idea of spinning plates and leaving ladies on a whim). By treating women as a group of disposable objects rather than like people, he further separates himself from women. Imagine treating men as a group of disposable objects rather than individuals - it would lead to a skewed perception of men as a whole and affect the way you tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/13 04:24 PM
4	To the blue pillers, what alternative to TRP would you recommend for me? It sounds like you were socially awkward and outlasted and never really had a chance at developing a relationship because women didn't see you as a potential suitor. Now you've changed your appearance and developed an interest (lifting), but your anxiety about women is still at the core of your issues with them. My advice? Keep lifting (assuming it makes you happy). Develop more interests. Work on who you are as a person. Interact with men more often. Get involved in some kind of club. Be comfor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/13 01:10 PM
10	My friend and "rapist" gets sentenced today. How can one consent when they are blacked out? If someone is intoxicated to the point of blacking out, they cannot consent, regardless of gender.	/r/MensRights	03/07/13 12:38 AM
8	Female colleagues have a list of male colleagues rated. rape comments included. HR won't do anything. Time to quit? Troll. Women don't talk like this... Why are you inciting the men here with anger? If this is seriously happening (which I doubt) then yes, report and consider moving on. But I have never heard any woman talk like that about any man. And why would she fantasize about dumpster diving to be impregnated by him? Wouldn't a much more common/normal fantasy be to imagine having unprotected sex with him when he ejaculates? I'm having a really hard time believing any of this especially considering your r…	/r/MensRights	30/06/13 03:59 PM
5	Lefty feminism (collectivism) and right wing appropriation of feminism (you go girl, have it, all individualism, consumerism). The mens movement don't differentiate or seem to be able to tell the two apart. Should it or is it best to treat it as one entity? Like I said, I won't waste my time showing you where you have said something wrong if you won't agree to even consider the possibility that you may have said something that is wrong. So again: will you consider the possibility that you have said something incorrectly or not? If you skirt around my comment again I will only ignore you.	/r/MensRights	21/06/13 12:45 AM
3	Lefty feminism (collectivism) and right wing appropriation of feminism (you go girl, have it, all individualism, consumerism). The mens movement don't differentiate or seem to be able to tell the two apart. Should it or is it best to treat it as one entity? I'll make a deal with you: if you agree to listen and consider how/why something you said may be wrong, I'll point you to things you have said that are untrue. Sadly I doubt that you are willing to do that, because doing so would force you to challenge your current beliefs, but I would like for you to prove me wrong.	/r/MensRights	21/06/13 12:39 AM
5	Lefty feminism (collectivism) and right wing appropriation of feminism (you go girl, have it, all individualism, consumerism). The mens movement don't differentiate or seem to be able to tell the two apart. Should it or is it best to treat it as one entity? Oh come off it. spermjack_attack is responding to your comments but you completely ignore theirs and attack them instead. Learn to debate, not make sweeping assumptions and generalizations that aren't even true.	/r/MensRights	21/06/13 12:32 AM
0	My fiancee on utilizing massacres for political agendas OR "Why I want to marry this woman" Feminism is not anti-men's-rights. When women gain the rights that men have, men are not losing their rights. Instead, both genders gain equality.	/r/MensRights	07/12/12 08:19 AM
9	My fiancee on utilizing massacres for political agendas OR "Why I want to marry this woman" If this was a case of an abused child developing anti-social and violent tendencies, why did he specifically act out against women and not people in general? From Wikipedia: He began his attack by entering a classroom at the university, where he separated the male and female students. After claiming that he was "fighting feminism", he shot all nine women in the room, killing six. He then moved through corridors, the cafeteria, and another classroom, specifically targeting women to shoot. Overall…	/r/MensRights	07/12/12 08:15 AM
1	Congratulations: if you're a man - especially a white man, you have absolutely no problems. I never said that I am the representation of feminism. Where you got that idea, I have no idea. Speaking of feminism as a whole, you can read about feminism's view towards equality for men and women here. It is pretty clear that equality for women is a priority of feminism. But to say that feminism does not include equality for males as well is ignorant. Furthermore, I don't understand the purpose of your comment. I stated that feminism works for both genders, asked why I am being down voted for…	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 05:52 PM
2	"Real men don't rape." It is an example I used to show you that you have power over your urges, you are not a whimsical animal forced to obey your capricious desires or follow others. Believe me, I understand the power the media holds over people. That doesn't excuse them from their choices or actions. The media spreads misogyny, people believe it is common to be misogynistic, and women are treated with misogyny. That doesn't mean that people aren't responsible for their actions.	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 03:45 AM
2	"Real men don't rape." I understand how much the message of "your worth depends on the number of sex partners you have had" is pounded into both genders' heads. I did not say you can't talk about this and/or why this message sucks etc. No where in here did I advocate rape to develop worth. "With all of this pressure on men to constantly dominate and fuck women, some of which is enforced by women, does it really surprise people that men go to great lengths to fuck women?" Except you did, right there in your OP. I under…	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 02:18 AM
2	"Real men don't rape." How is it not that simple? I should not have to tell you how to not beat your kids. The solution to not beating your kids is, don't beat your kids! Step 1: when your child angers you, remain calm. Do whatever peaceful thing you can do to stay calm Step 2: do not hit your kid What other steps are involved or necessary?	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 02:06 AM
2	"Real men don't rape." I seriously can't believe you are willing to HURT another person because you think your worth is based on how many people you have sex with. How can you make yourself the victim in a situation where another person is powerless and terrified and being forced to undergo sexual acts against their will? You are the victim, because society tells you that your worth is based on how many people you have sex with? Reality check, your worth is not dependent on the number of people you have sex with. Nor …	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 01:58 AM
1	"It's addictive and lots of fun but probably a bit sexist; I'd be appalled if it was women being objectified in the same way." If there is uproar about unsuspecting men having their photos being taken in public arenas for women to post, share & discuss online, why was there no such uproar over r/creepshots, especially when r/creepshots included much more sexually graphic photos?	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 01:51 AM
1	Congratulations: if you're a man - especially a white man, you have absolutely no problems. This is why feminism exists. We want equality for men AND women. We speak up for men and women when both are expected to fit a certain ideal. Edit: why am I down voted for discussing how feminism benefits both genders?	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 01:41 AM
2	I just realized that in the 17 years that I've been sexually active, not one woman respected my wishes when I declined sex. As a woman, you need to deal with this better. You'd rather not have sex, right? So don't have sex. If it comes down to "either I give her a quick fuck or I have to deal with her being annoying for a longer period of time", you go with the latter. Why? Because either you explain it in a way she understands ("would you appreciate it if I came to you in the middle of the night and you were feeling tired/sleepy/not in the mood/in pain etc etc but I still bugged you for sex? How would that make you …	/r/MensRights	21/12/11 07:05 PM