meatball31522 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
110	The Man of YOUR Dreams!		meatball31522	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/25 06:11 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	MRP teachings, help us understand what intimacy really means OP, which of the resources listed in the sidebar have you READ? Not “skimmed through” but actually READ with a notepad and highlighter in hand. Who have you discussed your reading with? How many hours have you spent reading? How many hours in the gym? What’s your body fat%? You don’t have to reply. Everyone here already knows the answer	/r/askMRP	16/02/26 05:00 PM
8	Hypergamy in the Movie “Dirty Dancing” When you apply this type of analysis, looking at art and media with Red Pill glasses, it is triggering. I’d love a thread/forum where we take turns dissecting “love” stories, movies, and music. Think about Forrest Gump, Titanic, Me and Bobby Megee…. Ad infinitum	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/11/25 07:45 PM
3	Victim Puke or Authenticity? We ALL empathize with this sentiment. We are ALL a bunch of external validation addicts. Like any addict, you can be “recovering”, but you will NEVER be “cured” or “recoverED”. The Authentic “connection” you desire can only exist when YOU love and ACCEPT her AS SHE IS. What you’re planning is to essentially ignore reality and treat her like the magic fairytale you WANT her to be, rather than the real woman that she IS (with all her AWALT imperfections).	/r/askMRP	01/10/25 09:15 PM
3	Victim Puke or Authenticity? Just to clarify, Ur_fault is being VERY sarcastic. I want to make sure that doesn’t get lost in translation!	/r/askMRP	01/10/25 09:07 PM
3	The Man of YOUR Dreams! You’ve made a few good points that I’ll address, but I don’t understand your hostility. I am NOT an expert, doctor, psychiatrist, therapist or “coach”. I have NO credentials in the fields of biology, psychology, or inter gender dynamics. I am the first to admit my own ignorance. Having said all that, I don’t give advice lightly or speak about that which I do not understand. And everything I say is based on MY education and experience. If you have different training and experience, I am VERY will…	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/25 07:19 PM
5	The Man of YOUR Dreams! Are you a woman or a young boy? You’ve illustrated my point; you’ve made “sex” into this “mythical magical thing” in your mind.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/25 03:08 PM
9	The Man of YOUR Dreams! There is nothing wrong with “wanting hot pussy”, but sex is JUST a bodily function. We eat, drink, piss, shit, sleep, and fuck because they feel good. But the vast majority of men put ONE of those bodily functions on a pedestal. We DON’T “valuate” ourselves or other men based on the number of dumps they’ve had, or the number of meals they’ve had, yet….somehow….we assign an irrational amount of value to the amount of pussy one can muster. We DO valuate ourselves and others by the amount of pussy …	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/25 01:00 AM
21	The Man of YOUR Dreams! My sons are 19 and 22. I hear the same thing from them all the time. It’s frustrating to KNOW the answers but young men won’t listen! Keep going Brother!	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/25 08:42 PM
1	Why mastering dating apps is a tremendous advantage to attracting high value girls Done	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/25 06:12 PM
9	Why mastering dating apps is a tremendous advantage to attracting high value girls I would change #3 to “Focus on being the Man of YOUR dreams.”	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/25 05:34 PM
1	How would yall handle this Awwwwwww, where’d ya go sweetheart? One thing I HATE about Reddit, is allowing people to delete EVERYTHING they’ve posted and disappearing into the night! Thanks for stopping by and shittin in the pool! Twat!	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/25 05:06 PM
10	How would yall handle this So, you’ve come here with a 2 month old account, to ask for help. You get it, ignore it, insult someone trying to help you, and brag about “pullin hoes”. I guess I was wrong. You obviously got this all figured out. I gotta say, I LOL’d when I looked at your post history. Did you ever determine whether it’s ok for you to pee sitting down? Good luck with your journey	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/25 08:21 AM
13	How would yall handle this If a man TRULY…WANTS… to be a cuck, then good for him, living HIS Authentic life, as HE should, being who HE is. At least he wouldn’t be asking internet strangers how to live HIS life. Trying to differentiate the “correct” and “incorrect” actions to “get 90% more bitches” is what we call “Dancing Monkey Phase.” You asked a question. I gave you THE ANSWER, ie “Read up on OI and CC”. Did you do that?	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/25 08:03 AM
17	How would yall handle this You need to read up on “Outcome Independence” and “Covert Contracts”, but I’ll give you the summary. DO what YOU…WANT to do. BE what YOU…WANT to be. BECAUSE…THAT is what YOU WANT. Like Yoda said, “Do or do not. There is no TRY.” Good luck on your journey	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/25 07:07 AM
2	I Think I Just Found the Bridge Between Femininity and the Positive Side of the Red Pill Read Rollo’s chapter on the Five Phases of Unplugging. I think that explains it better than I can.	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/25 03:00 AM
8	I Think I Just Found the Bridge Between Femininity and the Positive Side of the Red Pill I think the “Toxicity” we hear so much about is from men stuck IN the Anger Phase. RP fucking hurts!!! Unplugging is the hardest thing most men will ever do. Discovering that your whole life has been a LIE, and the people who were supposed to love you the most, protect you the most, and teach you the most were the goddamned perpetrators!!!! How can we NOT be hurt, angry…..”toxic”? But….. We CAN grow and heal, and live awesome lives, IF we survive the Anger Phase(s). Anger Phase is where men kill…	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/25 04:18 PM
4	The BlackPill isn't for you and this is why Just Googled “ugly guys with hot girlfriends”. I reject your entire notion!	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/25 07:51 PM
1	Did I NUKE my Marriage OP, we say this with love. UNfuck yourself. That is your mission. The sooner you succeed, the longer you’ll get to enjoy your life!	/r/askMRP	26/06/25 10:49 PM
9	Girls will be... girls You can TRUST them to BE them.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/24 02:21 PM
17	Has anyone else given up after discovering trp? I FEEL you Brother. The hardest part of “swallowing the RedPill” is we all WANT our old blue pill reality to BE true. I call it “Santa Clause, Easter Bunny, and Tooth Fairy Syndrome”. Long after we learned those things ARE NOT REAL, we yearned to believe in them again. We WANTED to go back to when we believed! Even decades later I MISS the “magic” of believing in them. You are yearning for “a good woman”, a “soul mate”, and “love ever after”. Those things ARE NOT REAL. Work on being/ becoming th…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/24 07:00 AM
5	Marriage is over, but not divorced. Need some insight on how to act at home, since we still live together. Brother, I’m not trying to insult you. We’re all HERE for the same reason. And we’re all at our own place in this journey. It’s been a long and very difficult 3+ years for ME, but I’m in a better place than ever before in my life, thanks to The Red Pill (TRP, Rollo, Athol Kay, and a bunch of others). I wish you peace, luck, and God’s grace. Keep reading, lifting, and growing.	/r/askMRP	11/03/24 09:00 PM
4	Marriage is over, but not divorced. Need some insight on how to act at home, since we still live together. We should have a “colored belt” system like martial arts. Horns is a 9th degree Black Belt. NoRolex showed up for his first class and doesn’t even know how to tie the FREE white belt they gave him.	/r/askMRP	11/03/24 08:21 PM
9	To understand Narcissists is to understand women. Yep. We are disposable.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/24 09:10 PM
76	To understand Narcissists is to understand women. When women say “I love you”, they mean “ I love all the stuff you give and do for me.” When men say “I love you “, they mean “I want to jump on a grenade for you.” So, ya, slight difference!	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/24 08:54 PM
1	TRP Songs/Playlist? Ouch, that song could be titled “I’m an Alpha Widow”.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/24 12:46 PM
1	TRP Songs/Playlist? LOL, you want “honest”? Look no farther than an artist named CARR. She’s awesome. I love her…and I hate her!!!	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/24 09:19 PM
7	What started your RP journey I can’t repeat it all, but basically 17 years of being unhappily married. The more i tried to improve the marriage the worse things got. I posted my story on Talkaboutmarriage.com a few people mentioned a book called No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover. That book saved my life. And it led to Married Man’s Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay, How to Hold On to Your NUTS, Rollo Thomasi, trp, marriedredpill, The Game, Models, and others I’ve been doing this since August 2020. We are ADDICTS. We can be…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/24 04:25 PM
2	TRP Songs/Playlist? https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1zbpCU6j9oF8u83OfyTOBr?si=gLAy4LHTRlu_7CJc9j8D4w&pi=u-8okRkQoSSyyi https://open.spotify.com/playlist/22okcoi3euYJ2BDYCRH2aw?si=ERtZ_0bKQOKEgp4pkDwTEA&pi=u-VprB8BkPQymA https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4eapjPkt3X86iXeCXyOKoy?si=iW2FMCkfQf6OH0RG53awSQ&pi=u-JPkjR5uOSue0 https://open.spotify.com/playlist/77tZa9ZoIZiiMYy3MQIbfV?si=vvMIn0ubR0e7S8oDTnDgmA&pi=u-5Z3lSQvoR--U	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/24 04:02 PM
2	TRP Songs/Playlist? I’ve got 4 play lists on Spotify that start with TRP. Might have some of what you’re looking for.	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/24 01:13 AM
-2	Other subreddit where masculinity is discussed Yep!!! It’s called r/TheRedPill	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/23 03:29 PM
3	Sydney Watson video Jesus’ parable of “severely injuring people with a shovel” was always my favorite. Blah, blah, blah MY CHRISTIAN GROUP… It’s funny. It’s sad. It’s sooooo damn typical of “Christians”.	/r/ExRedPill	27/11/23 06:22 PM
2	What Does Genuine Desire Look Like? Welcome to the struggle Brother	/r/askMRP	08/11/23 01:00 PM
3	What Does Genuine Desire Look Like? Excellent dissertation. BIG BOUNDARIES are easy. Something like her trying to peg you, is pretty egregious, and an obvious line to cross or not. Its the goddamned little things that are going to get you because you don’t see the danger. Like skipping your morning run to cuddle because that’s what SHE wants. You do it once, then twice, then the next thing you know you’re googling “why won’t my wife have sex with me” and choking on the RedPil.	/r/askMRP	08/11/23 12:59 PM
2	What Does Genuine Desire Look Like? Interesting and poignant philosophy. My journey is in its third year and I oftentimes think I’m bipolar! I’ll be planning my divorce one week and OUR retirement the next. Ebb and flow INDEED. I’m going to take your advice and “give it room”.	/r/askMRP	08/11/23 12:49 PM
108	[40M][30F] Silence in Long-Distance Relationship After She went out. Advice? Have you read The Rational Male? I believe the chapter you’re looking for is called “Letting Go of Imaginary Friends”. The reason people constantly say “STFU, lift, and READ the sidebar” is because 99% of the cannon IS THERE. READ THE BOOKS!!!	/r/TheRedPill	03/11/23 12:00 AM
7	Wife wants to go out with no explanation 3 weeks? Let’s talk in 3 years.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/11/23 02:14 PM
8	Advice on dealing with sexual teasing and validation seeking behavior? DON’T “rape” your wife!!! Having said THAT, women WANT to be “taken”, “overwhelmed by you/your masculine power”, etc. the number one fantasy of women is some version of a “rape” fantasy. What you’re calling “rejection” is just a shit test. Ignore WORDS and believe ACTIONS. If the woman spoke NO English but did the things you described, what message would a reasonable man perceive from her ACTIONS?	/r/askMRP	11/10/23 10:15 PM
18	Advice on dealing with sexual teasing and validation seeking behavior? Are we still allowed to call each other FAGGOT or will that get me suspended? I can’t believe what just read. “MY wife tries to initiate SEX with me and it grosses me out. PLEASE help me make my wife STOP trying to have sex with me!!!	/r/askMRP	11/10/23 10:03 PM
1	What was your experience as a red pilled? I came very close to leaving. What “RedPill” helped me realize was this; SHE wasn’t the problem!!! And, I would have had the same issues with the next woman. And the next. And the next… Many RP authors including Rollo Thomassi and Athol Kay open their books with something like, “I promise you can have a great life with a wonderful woman, I just can’t promise it’ll be the one you’re with now.” They go on to say something like, “fix the man, you fix the marriage.” That’s what I’m doing and it’s wo…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/23 01:07 PM
0	What was your experience as a red pilled? It saved my marriage and my life. Good luck with your journey	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/23 08:49 PM
1	How to stop myself from falling into redpill ideology. Everywhere you look, you are “confronted with the Truth”, and you WANT us to help you ignore it. Dwell on that for a bit. Good luck my friend.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/23 08:09 PM
3	Comfort Tests and Sexual Dominance. OMG yes. Been there done THAT. Tried to get my wife to sign a D/s contract 3 years ago SO THAT I COULD BE “DOMINANT”. 🥵 I still can’t believe THAT didn’t work!😂😂😂	/r/askMRP	05/08/23 02:39 PM
5	Comfort Tests and Sexual Dominance. The “little question” your asking is actually HUGE, and the answer is above your current level of understanding. Your asking 12th degree Master Black Belts to just GIVE you “The Answer”, that they’ve spent YEARS developing for themselves. There is NO “short answer”, grasshopper. You’re a white belt, shut your mouth, observe those higher than you, and DO THE WORK (AKA, STFU, lift, and read”) I’m not trying to be mean, rude, cocky, etc. I’m TRYING to be helpful, but you CAN’T just walk into a dojo…	/r/askMRP	04/08/23 03:58 PM
8	This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniable Where can we get “There is only truth and bullshit” T shirts? I know i’d wear one!!! Preach it Brother.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/23 03:29 PM
4	Feelings vs facts How to avoid losing Frame? For me, the simplest and most efficient way for a complete Noob to avoid losing frame is “laugh”. When she does silly shit (shit tests, etc), it is often difficult for us to compose the perfect retort and we wind up in a bumbling, ranting, downward spiral of emotion that collimates in a “FIGHT”. The easy solution, I found, for this is “treat her like a child”. Ragnar posted about his 4 year mermaid daughter. That’s a beautiful example. When she acts silly, he just laug…	/r/askMRP	12/07/23 05:14 PM
2	How long did it take from the beginning og your MRP journey until you were in a state where you were no longer a beta with nice guy behaviour? I’m a slow learner. It took me about 3 years (47-50 years old). I cycled through the Anger Phase multiple times. I have a huge aversion to pain, conflict, change, and discomfort which your journey will be FULL of. Multiple times, I THOUGHT I understood it all, but couldn’t figure out how to apply it. Blue Pill is an “addiction”, you will spend the rest of your life fighting it.	/r/askMRP	25/06/23 03:32 PM
1	How to increase my SMV with a disability? Brother, you need to GTFO of your own way. Those women where checking YOU out in the gym. That comment, “how’s this disabled cunt benching more than me?” Is probably the most genuine expression of respect possible. In both cases, you missed an opportunity for interaction. You coulda, shoulda, woulda said something like, “These ain’t hearing aids, they’re bench press boosters”, or “wanna work in with me”, or “Ok, I’ll do you ladies after this last set, but I gotta warn you, I’m legally deaf and i…	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/23 03:56 PM