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Impossible dating subreddit challenge: conceive of a relationship between any human beings that is not transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:56 PM
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Yes I love living as nothing more than an atomized economic unit. My only purpose in life is to pay taxes and consume various products. I pray every night that my work that day will increase the hallowed GDP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:09 PM
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The Coolidge effect is a thing, but it turns out if you view the human experience as more than a bunch of meatbags eating, crapping, and fucking, you can see how endlessly chasing lust doesn’t bring you or society prosperity. I’m sure happily-married men with teenage daughters have that fleeting thought, but they understand that their union with their wife is more important than feeding that desire. Even a lot of atheists will still espouse Christian virtues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:29 PM
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The preferable outcome for these men is that they at least have a community be it through friends, family, church, etc. that still gives them a stake in the world. Perhaps maintaining these groups will even bode better for some of them to find mates. It’s not a perfect solution, but it’s better than them rotting away in their bedrooms browsing Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:19 PM
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There always have been and always will be incels. Cultural standards of monogamy would mitigate the damage. Even if it didn’t get everyone a match, at least the ones at the bottom would see people with their one partner rather than (wo)men falling all over themselves for a crumb of attention from gigachad/Stacey
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:09 PM
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It’s probably better than a dating app since you’re cutting right to the chase with the money rather than your data and time, but as others have already pointed out, no woman that I would want to meet is using a dating app let alone a matchmaking service.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:05 PM
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I’m so thankful I deleted them after meeting a girl irl. Even if it didn’t work out the rush of doing it for real made me realize how much time I was truly wasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:14 PM
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Maybe it’s not enough for the current meta, but playing the game of 30 years ago, even if it has far fewer players, beats playing one that I can’t win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:43 PM
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A lot of my friends (24M) have a hard time grappling with the fact that you can’t just be average anymore and get a nice middle-class life because your competitive pool is far too large. You’re not just competing with your community and approximate demographic. You’re competing with thousands of other people thanks to dating apps, so what makes you so special? Even just in your demographic for example. Maybe I’m boring for just having a job that I like, owning a house, and having hobbies that I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:28 PM
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I’m neither pro-choice nor a tinder player. I’d rather be forced to earn sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:41 PM
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Lust-addicted coombrains
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:40 PM
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I think there is healthy valuation of sex, but viewing not having it as an inadequacy that you identify with is definitely not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:57 PM
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I find it, not necessarily womanish, but certainly unmanly when men identify with something like their inability to get laid. Then again, I’m not the biggest fan of hookup culture, despite my participation in it. Problem is people have a hard time taking my experience as somebody who regrets it seriously because they haven’t experienced it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:32 PM
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I’ve been a (non-black-pilled) incel, volcel (what I am now as I’ve moved on from promiscuous sex), and a guy who could get laid, so I have sympathy for it all. Fact is getting laid isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. If you’re gigachad and/or super rich and successful and use that to sleep with anybody and everybody you want, I still think it’s wrong, but I can’t say I would act differently in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:30 PM
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Am I the only person who has trouble with the semantic overload surrounding the term incel? It’s hard to tell when people are talking about people who just can’t get laid despite their best efforts vs. the term with a very negative black-pilled connotation of bitterness and cynicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:12 PM
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“BuT wHaT iF yOuR OnE-nIgHt StAnD oR MiStReSs GeTs PrEgNaNt?” as if that’s a problem for a significant portion of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:04 PM
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I can’t speak to Europe, but you’re right about the over reliance on online dating in America. People fall into this trap that it might be better than doing nothing, but it’s not. IMO you’re better off sitting at home by yourself without an internet connection than you are deluding yourself into thinking your motion on dating apps is progress. Even gigachad would be better off going out into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:56 PM
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At least I’ll know since a living kid is probably a lot harder to hide than a dead one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:29 PM
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You mean you have to think twice before you do the thing that literally exists to create life and pair bond with somebody whose kids you wouldn’t actually want to have? What an atrocity!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:30 PM
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When I was pro-choice in the more traditional sense, I would have taken the Dave Chappelle stance of “if you get to kill it, I should at least get to abandon it,” but now I’m pro-choice in a different way. Abstinence, parenthood, contraception, and adoption are all choices. It’s barbaric and evil to sacrifice a child at the altar of money or lifestyle, whether you’re a man or a woman. Don’t stick your dick in, or accept the dick of, anybody whose child you wouldn’t want to raise with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:14 PM
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It’s infected Europe quite a bit too. That can’t be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:04 AM
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Thanks coach, that was the pep talk I needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:38 PM
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I want kids one day. There are already man-made horrors beyond my comprehension, but one of those things being realistic looking AND able to get pregnant might make me end it all. Edit: you meant woman, not bio-female
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:14 PM
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If you as the man have to act as the gatekeeper of sex (because you want a relationship or at least more than casual sex) is the relationship dead in the water from the start? I’ve had to do this in the past, and it’s awkward to say the least but doesn’t seem to end things immediately. Male or female opinions/experiences are welcome but please specify.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:10 PM
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For some maybe, but if what you’re doing isn’t working, you’ve got nothing to lose by trying any of the things I listed. Maybe it’s so bad that drugs are the only thing that have a chance of helping, in which case go for it, but I would go that route as a last resort if lifestyle/hygiene changes don’t work. I think throwing your hands up in the air and saying it’s genetic is a cope to justify inaction in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:01 PM
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Maybe but my siblings didn’t wash their faces religiously like I did and struggled with acne way more. Besides saying it’s genetic when somebody is trying to fix their problem isn’t helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:21 PM
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It’s a shame that this woman is saying promiscuous sex is a good option for anybody under any circumstances, but I fully understand her point that ignoring men/sexual feelings won’t bring her husband back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:35 PM
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Vitamin A, preferably from a whole-food source like grass-fed beef liver. It sounds gross I know, but it works. I’ve also since I was a teenager washed my face with a wash cloth and a bar of high-quality soap at least once a day since I was a preteen. I never had acne issues anywhere near what my siblings and friends had who didn’t do this. Addressing gut issues is a more complicated thing that would also help. Edit: cutting out seed oils and getting a sunlight would help as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:05 PM
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I’m for it but only because unlike pornography, or onlyfans, it’s a real interaction, at least in the sense that it’s not behind a screen, where you have to sit in what you’re actually doing to realize how horrible it is and hopefully get your shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:44 AM
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“No judgement, it’s just not my thing” works if you mean it. Leaving no judgement out otherwise should work.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:52 PM
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Talk less, listen more, and listen more intently
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:39 PM
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Young men would form normal sexualities due to not being exposed to extreme content in their early teens or even worse sooner. They wouldn’t grow up to be cumbrains who are slaves to their sexual desires. Mental health would likely improve substantially. Women would see less objectification. I think we’d see a lot of these improvements if only free internet porn were removed from the world. Opening a dozen tabs and going between them is far worse and far easier than going between dvds or magazin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:09 PM
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First we need to make a distinction here. Are we talking about divorce, dad died, dad walked out (and mom and dad were never married), or something else? We need to treat these differently. It is an unfortunate, and I’d argue reasonable, reality that most men don’t want to date women who already have children. This can be for a lot of reasons. They want children of their own, they know that they’ll always come second to the child(ren), they don’t want children, they don’t want to be a “ticket ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 04:21 PM
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Ok coomer, there’s more to life than impulsive fleeting gratification though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:57 PM
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What’s the point of having a sword if you can’t get ur bloody? Nah in all seriousness ime women are just as uncomfortable with the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:37 AM
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Regardless of whether you want to play the pronoun game or not you’re basically right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:35 AM
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It depends on whether you view marriage as a lifetime commitment or just super serious dating. If anything makes you say “I’m out” automatically when you’ve already committed yourself to the person enough to marry them, how is it any different from just dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:24 PM
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Like I said, it’s counterintuitive, and there are aggravating and mitigating factors. It’s complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:10 PM
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If we’re dating, automatic end no questions asked no second chances. I’m done with her. If we’re married with or without children, it seems counterintuitive, but I’d consider counseling an option. There are plenty of aggravating and mitigating factors, but I see marriage as an agreement to permanently tie yourselves to one another, especially for the sake of children. That’s not to say it wouldn’t be without consequence though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:24 PM
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Being a man, I do hate that large amounts of men and women have been deluded into believing that porn is simply a part of the male experience of “discovering” sexuality. Even if you don’t have problems having sex, it turns you into a cumbrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:50 AM
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Fill your time with hobbies or exercise.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:06 PM
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I mostly agree, but I don’t agree indefinitely. There has to be an upper limit and a statute of limitations. Surely a certain amount of time has to indicate that a woman has left a part of her life where she was more promiscuous behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:19 AM
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Glad to help. Cheers!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 08:50 PM
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If he’s inviting you, take him at his word that he wants you there. Keeping score and trying to “win” things are never worth it in the long run.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 04:34 PM
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Male perspective, but take it for what it's worth (I've learned a lot lurking around here). If you're a couple, and a potentially serious one, learning to be alone together is going to have to happen eventually, particularly when you start cohabitating, so why not get some practice now? Without context, there's possibly more to it than just the game. Does this friend live far away or have other obligations that keep them from getting together or talking other times? Gaming for some people is a s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 04:26 PM
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This is broad but probably generally helpful regardless. Take a step back and listen to what your negative emotions are telling you, particularly in your relationships with the men in your life. You may be hurting over something real. You just need to improve the process of checking your feelings if that makes sense. It’s not easy, but it’ll improve all of your relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 06:17 PM
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