| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Mature, alpha way to respond to "just friends"? | mechwarrior350z | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 03:21 AM | |
| 1 | "Date my friend instead" - not sure to flattered or upset | mechwarrior350z | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 04:22 AM | |
| 0 | [FR] It isn't always a win | mechwarrior350z | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 05:07 AM |
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| 1 | [FR]set up 3 dates in 1 night."Frankly, I'm interested in you, not your friends" If she bails, you still have the other 2 dates. | /r/seduction | 05/04/16 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Bringing her friend on our dateThose are immaturity red flags to me. How old are you/she? I could see if you're young MAYBE bringing a friend along for a first date IF you're going out of town (was this internet dating or have you met before)? | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Strip club field report: number closed a stripper!And cue the "Hey! You should come see me at work" texts. | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Bringing her friend on our dateA couple of ways you could go with this: 1) "I'm not interested in your friend, I'm interested in you." And be ready to move on if she pushes back. No, this isn't going to turn into a threesome. 2) is she coming to your area, or are you going to hers? If you have low investment timewise, meet up with them and have fun. Don't pay for drinks krncoffee or whatever for either of them (you shouldn't be doing this anyway). Drop that youre doing something later wigh friends. If they're lame: "oh, my fr… | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 07:32 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys ask a girl to makeout in the back of her car?I've used this before to make out with and spank (we'd covered her interest in S&M earlier) a girl her back seat: I walked her to her car, and made started making out with her pinned against the car door (before she had opened it) after maybe 30 seconds, I told her to unlock her door, and simply just opened the back door instead of the front, climbed in and beckoned her. It helped she was submissive, but something equally confident should work for you | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Women of seddit, pleases satisfy my curiosity about girls flirting!Men AND women flirt for sport. Women maybe more so for attention. I'd still engage with her, but keep her at arms length. When things end with the boyfriend, you'll have been simmer for months. | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Should I just straight up ask this girl for sex?"I didn't come here to sleep on the futon" | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 01:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First Approach in High SchoolNice job man. Your story kind of reminds of this Audi comercial, one of my favorites. I don't even know you, and I'm proud of you! This girl sounds lame. Neither she nor her friends can articulate anything fun about her? You want to surround yourself with attractive AND interesting people. Frankly, she is sending you IODI. You had the balls to go up to her and say that, and guess what? It gets easier the next time. Is there someone else equally attractive who'd be worth your time? Forget this gi… | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Tried to set up coffee date with girl in my class, she insisted on doing it with friends.Go along with and game her friends! Seriously tho, she's either being dense about what you want -- have you made your intentions clear? -- or she's gets it, but she's not mature enough to turn your romantic intentiaons down directly. My advice -- go, enjoy yourself (and yes, game her friends if they're fun, interesting and attractive)... but also be talking to other women. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Finally slept with a girl after a long dry spellCurious... What time of night was this? Close to last call? | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to have a more aggressive mindset?You'd previously made out, and you were in here bed cuddling? "I've been thinking about this since the last time we kissed" and then just kiss her. It really is that simple. You know what you've to do. If you're spooning, flip her over face to face as you say that. Or kiss her neck. | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Kissed when we first met, grinded on me, then said, "I thought we were friends""I don't kiss my friends" | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 05:20 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl broke up with me. Told her that I'd like to have her as my FWB. She acceptedWere you already sleeping with her? | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Got a HB on Tinder, what do I say?Stole this from a thread a few days back and have had good success: "two truths and a lie" nice belt by the way | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 01:52 AM |
| 2 | LMR has become my achilles heel, what can I do to fix this?I'll be blunt -- how's your make out technique? It sounds like you need to turn these girls on a bit more. Neck kissing, teasing etc. "We start kissing again and I start escalating and go for her pants when she stops me." Way too soon to try for her pants, make her hotter and SHE'LL be taking off her pants. Not a fan of the freeze out myself. | /r/seduction | 11/01/14 05:26 PM |
| 3 | What are some good ways to kino/build attraction on a first "coffee" date? (or dinner)If you are sitting, find something gossipy to say about someone around you ("I think that woman over there is spiking her coffee" or whatever). Lean in conspiratorially. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 12:07 AM |
| 6 | "I just get penis shy around boys I like" Where to take it from here?Ugh that "make you earn it" line is terrible. I'm sure she thinks it sounds cute but wow. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 04:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Single after 3years. First night out.It could have been her period | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 08:41 PM |
| 9 | Note passing conversation at library. Please review and tell me what I did wrong or right.I wouldnt have commented on her figure. | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 12:22 AM |
| 2 | [FR] If I hadn't grown a pair I would've ruined the night and any future chancesNice move on kiss on Night 2. I find my self in this situation a fair amount (especially on dinner dates), you took control of it well. | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 01:27 AM |
| 4 | How to recover from a poor first impression?The best in your mutual friend can do is get the 2 of you together again in a low pressure situation... like a small get together with few other people. here's your chance for second first impression. Do what ever you need to be on your game for that. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 04:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] #close k close first night. f close next.I could see this going very wrong, like demanding/pushy instead of confident/alpha. Any tips on when to use this? Is there a type of LMR its best suited to negate? | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 12:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Bonfire Night: doubtful #closeI would have said "great, im going to call you not text you any way." Then do that. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 01:01 PM |
| 1 | "I really like you, but..."Need more info. Lets focus on girl 1 and 3. Girl 1 -- How long ago was that first kiss? When she bails, does she offer alternate times that are good for her? Girl 3 -- Again, how long ago was the kiss? How far out of town? How have you been attempting to keep in touch--phone, text, FB, etc.? IMO, girl 1 is your best bet right now. It's very hard to maintain attraction over distance. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 06:55 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Social Proof Hard at Work - 0 Effort #ClosePlaying a musical instrument sure helps too! | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 12:14 AM |
| 2 | need help on a getting a shy girl to open upTry one of these. Keep the tone playful and light, but make it clear that you mildly disprove. She'll either comply, or she won't. "Hey, how about you tell me something interesting about XYZ instead of texting?" (You have to semi guide the situation by choosing XYZ based on prior comments shes made -- try the Noun Technique) or "I'm a lot more exciting that who ever you're texting" When you've got her attention, tease her. It will either work, or it won't. Re: low maintenance: BEING low maintena… | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Getting REALLY frustrated.I am going through this too my friend. Lots of great dates that just don't go anywhere for various reasons. Its tough to maintain a positive outlook/good inner game when it keeps happening, but I do two things: 1) Always be approaching. Everytime one girl flakes or FZs me, I already have another fun date planned with another girl, and that distracts me. 2) when I'm feeling especially pissy/discouraged, I lift/do push ups. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Mature, alpha way to respond to "just friends"?shot her a text something along the lines of "of course that's cool!" We're doing happy hour friday (some of her coworkers, some of mine), I'll have a better read then on this "just friends" bs. I ve gone on two dates since (both k closes!) So I'm not too worried. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else have trouble genuinely liking people?I used to be the same way until about 6 months again. Cue the cliches, but it was partially because I didn't really like myself. Not saying this has anything to with your situation, but its worth thinking about--It took hard retrospection on my part to realize it was part of the reason FOR ME. For the past 6 months, every time I found my self getting pissed some trait in a person, I made myself stop and just reframe it. You just nip in the bud, and eventually you stop feeling so pissed off. Try … | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 04:11 AM |
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