medic4401 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
79	What I learned from being married		medic4401	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/20 06:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Wife wants me back Every day	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/24 08:32 AM
1	Should I do counseling after 25 years? She wanted the best of both worlds regardless of your needs. She probably seen the gras wasn’t greener on the other side.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 11:45 AM
2	I screw up, does it get better? We all screw up. The fact that you realize and admit is the first step.Give up the booze for your next step. It’s a process.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 11:37 AM
3	What did you gain through divorce? The knowledge of how stupid getting married is.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 05:55 PM
5	Sexual Frustration 24 hours	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 03:49 PM
9	Hard day brothers... It’s not you. Never was. They change over time.Morph into another person possibly hormonal changes. Why should you suffer. It wasn’t your fault. New chapter with new opportunities for new partners. Perhaps many new partners. Life will be better.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 03:47 PM
1	Does anyone miss being loved? Adopt a pet. They will love you. They are more intelligent too.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/23 05:29 PM
32	Meeting ex's new BF for the first time tonight - suggestions? Be polite. In your own head you’re really saying Good luck! She’s your problem now!	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 07:12 PM
2	Ex Called to Meet Up She’s your ex for a reason.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 07:07 PM
1	How do you handle your ex wife smearing your name around town? She has to. She clearly has low self esteem and feels a need to smear you to feel better about herself. If those around town can’t see that then they’re stupid and realistically do you need or want their affirmation anyway?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 01:00 PM
4	Having fewer kids Marriage is fake.The reality is science and evolution. Men are driven by reproducing and women driven by offspring. After it’s all done it’s over. We are a species that was not meant to have a mate for life unlike some other species on the planet.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 12:54 PM
-1	Do you think divorce is contageius? Their so dumb	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 12:44 PM
2	Wife having affair with woman, need advice I keep reading this common denominator of HOARDING stuff. Anyone know why? What’s the psychology component with that?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 12:12 PM
2	Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdown Cause their all crazy.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/10/23 11:21 PM
3	I kind of expected that finding a new lady would be faster/easier post divorce than it has been You have become wiser. Yes they are all nuts!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/22 08:45 PM
1	I think she is leaving today. This happens more than you think. They lose their minds at some point. Get board with life… Whatever…. Run!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/22 11:35 AM
3	ADVICE PLEASE Your sooo lucky. Run now! Best thing you ever did	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/21 07:42 PM
4	Update - Hired the lawyer. Wife is now on best behavior. They tend to be on their best behavior when dating until after the wedding. Then the real monster comes out.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/21 12:26 AM
3	Struggling Think of the anxiety you had when you were with her. was it worse? Was it daily? For me it is every time I walk in The house and she’s there.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/20 10:57 AM
1	I know there is nothing left to be done I’m looking forward to getting away from it. I mean her.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/20 01:09 AM
3	Men can Love... Agreed	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/20 11:26 AM
3	Divorce or no You have to make that decision. Trust is the foundation of a relationship. You have to ask yourself if you do or can ever trust her again.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/20 01:17 AM
1	Doing Something Stupid...Family Photo Organizing Often	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/20 06:37 PM
2	What I learned from being married This is true. The system is set up that way.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/20 02:21 PM
5	What I learned from being married Yes this is true. Society has Changed for the worse. You see it in all aspects. People don’t have sense of commitment or honor anymore. No one has patience to work at things. We live in a disposable society. Very sad.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/20 12:16 AM
6	What I learned from being married Why? It’s not a substitute for love and frankly I don’t need a price of paper/ contract or a stupid word to show love. When the love is gone it’s a hell of a lot easier to depart for both parties.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/20 07:15 PM
7	What I learned from being married No point..... period	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/20 07:08 PM
2	The shame I feel I understand. But realistically do you think 10 years from now those people will even think about it? Did they even really care? If someone’s going to think bad of you because she left is that really someone you want to even associate with?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/20 11:27 PM
3	The shame I feel Let her carry the shame. You should be out partying.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/20 04:02 PM
3	The shame I feel Why do you have shame? She left. You can’t control her. Shouldn’t she the one have shame	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/20 04:01 PM
9	The shame I feel Your the luckiest guy on earth. Your young have your whole life ahead of you. Think about this do you want to spend another day with someone who thinks like she did. The best thing that could have happened is she left. Congrats	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/20 02:56 PM
2	I read her diary and it was the best thing I could do for my own sanity. I had a similar experience just last week. Looked at some of her texts. She wrote mean things about me to her male friends. I never said a bad thing about her to anyone. As a matter of fact I made excuses for her, blamed myself, showed her patience and empathy only to find her having an emotional affair on her phone. I was angry hurt and felt betrayed. She has lied to me and has treated me less than dirt in front of the kids. How someone could ever do that I’ll never understand. I can tell you t…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/20 12:00 PM
1	I need a hug Look for a support group in your area. Your not alone	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/20 08:55 PM
1	One day you wake up and she’s not the same woman. I’m not sure about that. I herd one say she was forced into getting married not once but twice! Yea.... OK..... I’m sure they used duct tape while they threw you on the alter!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/19 12:08 AM
1	One day you wake up and she’s not the same woman. Doesn’t sound like it	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/19 09:58 PM
3	One day you wake up and she’s not the same woman. Just out of curiosity are any of these females in menopause ?	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/19 06:19 PM
5	One day you wake up and she’s not the same woman. I didn’t have any friends just her and the kids. I put everything I had into that. Put all my eggs in one basket so to speak. I wasn’t perfect nor was she but that was ok. I was faithful. You could set a clock to my schedule. Never even lied to her. She became cold, distant and caught her in lies. The lies to cover the lies. It’s as if anger consumed her. I started to see this a few years ago with her family and friend relationships. The slowly melted away over the years. It’s as if she became m…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/19 05:04 PM
5	One day you wake up and she’s not the same woman. EXACTLY! Is this Inherent of the female gender? Is this shift made up of biological genetics?	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/19 04:17 PM
1	One day you wake up and she’s not the same woman. Yes emotionless.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/19 03:01 PM
1	26 yo, no kids, need advice Your lucky. No kids. only 2 years go with your gut and get out now.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/19 12:28 AM