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| 3 | How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date?In the “first kiss” scenarios I’ve been in, in which the man asks permission it’s gone something to the effect of: “Would it be alright if I kissed you?” Or “I really want to kiss you right now, is that okay?” It was sweet, and showed that they cared about how I was feeling in that moment as well! I only rejected one person who did this to me, and it was a male friend of mine I’d had for YEARS who already tried to “put the moves on me” back when we first met and I told him I just wanted friendsh… | /r/seduction | 28/06/20 12:18 AM |
| 2 | How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date?You’re welcome! Happy to offer an inside opinion. And thank you, I love a good play on words! 🤓 | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date?Sorry if my point was unclear but what I was saying was yes, asking is a good thing! It is certainly better to have the option to say no than get an unwanted kiss planted on you, leaving the situation much more uncomfortable. Communication is absolutely key, again why I am in favor of asking first. The Doppler/dahmer mention was to liken the perception of whichever action you take (ask for a kiss or just go for it) potentially being perceived as either creepy or cute. Either action could be perc… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 09:22 PM |
| 14 | How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date?As a woman who’s been asked a couple times prior to a kiss if it would be alright, I am all for it! It’s sweet, and shows respect and consideration of her feelings. If we’re not into you then we will say no and would only feel “creeped out” if you were creepy about the interaction in the first place (kind of like the Doppler/Dahmer effect from HIMYM). If we had an otherwise positive experience but were not interested we can at that point politely say no - and that avoids a disastrous and embarra… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 4 | TeaThis!!! It makes me so sad to see when women internalize this and start constantly questioning everything they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:05 PM |
| 10 | Get a load of this 💩Chatting with women like normal human beings? What is this sorcery!? | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 03:51 PM |
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