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| 3 | Recently started sexting with my guy friend. Now I'm confused if I should continue or not. | Removed: Specific Situation | medievalbitch | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 10:33 PM |
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| 3 | [deleted by user]I think yes. I personally don't want to be physically close or touch anyone I don't like. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Idk. Maybe they're just not interested in you but also not totally writing you off. I am actually up front with what I want but it also scares men away. Haha. I think it's matured to want things to be clear. You can also just ask them directly about it if you haven't. I think it's normal to talk about these things when dating. Just keep in mind the time frame. I'm also quite fast to determine whether I like someone or not. I can tell on the first conversation if there is a possibility I'd like a… | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 6 | An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidenceIn my point of view, when you are not too aggressive, I feel safe to express myself. Like if i am affectionate, I know it wouldn't immediately get us into a relationship so I can be chill while also flirting and controlling the pace. But if a guy is obviously so in love, and it's too early to be in a relationship, it's kinda scary unless I am so ready and sure about my feelings. Also, I don't like men who are very easy to catch. I'll assume he'll fall for any woman who flirts with him quickly. | /r/seduction | 03/07/21 02:34 PM |
| 6 | The one shit test that will make or break youThat's a very intelligent response, it showed you are secured in the relationship, you are confident and you trust her. Playful jealousy is fine too, kinda cute. But not drama. Hehe. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Finally gave it upThis is good news. Congratulations! You deserve happiness and love. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyHahahahaha. I wont kiss your knee. It's your karma. 😛 | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyYou ran too fast you didn't see a rock and you fell. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyWhy are you demanding 😂 | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyOk I forgive you. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyWow. So disrespectful. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyCalm down. 😆 | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyAww thank you. That's so sweet of you. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 01:59 PM |
| 2 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyCarefully thought out username. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyI'm glad it made you smile. Thank you, Oppa. 😅 | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 16 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesThat panty-dropping voice. 🔥 | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 12:15 PM |
| 2 | 5 Keys to Compliment a Woman Without Being CreepyI love getting compliments! Being sincere is so necessary. Even if you'll compliment about my looks or my body, knowing how attractive it is for you is a good thing. A man who don't shy away from giving compliments will definitely seem confident. I know someone who is good at giving compliments and he never seemed creepy to me. It just made me more confident too to show him more or send more pictures because I'm sure he'll like it. Or for instance, a man would say he likes my dress. I'd wear it … | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 14 | As a younger guy, am I going to regret avoiding casual sex when I'm older?I am so impressed with how you think. Since you are not interested in it, casual sex may leave you feeling bad about yourself post nut clarity. If you don't have feelings for someone then that must be just using their body? Although sex can be good with lust, it's still better doing it with someone you care about and who you know really cares about you. Just because society thinks a high body count or a ton of experience is cool, well it doesn't mean you have to go with the trend. It's for peopl… | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 6 | Primary elements of the Friendzone: Scarcity mindset, no self-prioritization, dishonesty with intent. A reality check.This hits me. Can't dodge it. But I don't really have this scarcity mindset with him. I just can't remove my feelings for him even though I try meeting other guys. And I don't tell him my feelings because I don't think there's a point. I'm not even ready for a relationship. Andddd he's a good friend who is always willing to listen to me and gives good advices so I don't want to cut him off just like that. And when I feel more inlove I just avoid him 😂 I'll admit he's my favorite notification. If… | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Holy shit.. I had a minor victory tonightThis makes sense. If you look at all the guys I liked/still like, they're very different. There's just a specific thing that gets me attached to a man. I think the most powerful thing that draws me to a man is the way he treats me. Makes me feel respected and beautiful. Even when a guy isn't my type, when I can see that he's kind, I keep entertaining him because good character is always endearing. Neediness in a man is kinda a turn off, it depends on the level of closeness. For me, I think it's … | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | 22 year old virgin just had sex for the first time. Here's everything I learned.Hehehe. Well you'll experience better sex as you keep practising it. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 05:31 AM |
| 11 | 22 year old virgin just had sex for the first time. Here's everything I learned.Sex for the first time won't always be good. That's normal. It gets better over time. But it would feel empty if you don't have any feelings for the person you're doing it with. Also, you didn't find her physically attractive and you're drunk and nervous so it's harder for you to have an erection. Try doing it sober with a girl you really like. But it's actually better exploring it with someone who is your gf because you can get to know each other's bodies well over time and figure out the best … | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 0 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.I 100% agree. This happened to me just last night. My guy friend and I was discussing about something and we have different views regarding it. He did get upset 😅 which was like the 2nd time he got upset at me, but he was never really like that. He's always polite and respectful to me. So I quickly knew that there was something wrong. In the end I just told him I care about him and he said he didn't wanna be angry at me. I understood his feelings and I'm glad he shared it with me. I really can't… | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Can't seem to create sexual attraction with ANY woman.He is sooooo smart! He has the most logical mind I know. He is so sure abe everything. Highly self aware. Polite. Serious about relationships. He took his time to get to know me. Gives me compliments about my mind and not my looks. 😅 He appreciates my mind. He is sweet in other ways like always tries to give me time even when he's busy. He is always quick to reply. It was just unlike the others. It feels more matured because he didn't have to outright flirt just to make me feel special. So we di… | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you suck that dick girls..If you're still comfortable with him you should try. Sex actually takes time to get better. I only did it with one guy and we did it for almost a decade. 😂 At first I really hated doing it too. 😒 But... since I loved him as time went on I just tried to enjoy it. It actually turns me on when I see my man enjoying it. Guys really love being sucked. I even let him cum in my mouth. I also swallowed but it would be too much for a beginner because the taste is really strong. 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 12:06 PM |
| 3 | We want sex but we're still virginsI did it with my ex for the first time and we were both virgins. Scary at first and even months after I still worry or maybe during the early years hahaha. 😂😂😂 condom would be enough I think and just make sure not to cum inside her. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 12:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you suck that dick girls..😂😂😂 it will get better if you get used to it. You have to convince yourself to enjoy it too. I agree the taste is somewhat weird. 😅 It's ok for a first time. Don't force yourself if you don't like it. 😊 | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 3 | What I've learned a week inI agree. 😊👍 | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 11:20 PM |
| 6 | My most embarrassing rejection😅 I think you are brave. 👍 | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 02:02 AM |
| 3 | New to dating, looking for tips/adviceIn my opinion, when a guy doesn't know what he wants it's a turnoff. It would make a woman feel like she can't rely on him. But if you wanna try out many girls it's ok there are girls too who only want a casual fling. 😉 1) Just make her feel safe. Earn her trust. Ask for her permission. If you two know each other longer, just touch her hand. Put an arm around her. If she doesn't complain then it's ok. Go for it. 2) Just imitate the fashion style of some actor or model. Simple but something that … | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 11:03 PM |
| 6 | The reason women love men who appear somewhat disinterested in themWhen I was young I go after men who are hard to get. It's a challenge for me. I feel accomplished when I got the guy I want. 😂 When you're beautiful guys would grab the opportunity to be with you. Now that I'm older, hot/cold, confused men turn me off. I want a healthy relationship where we both put in the effort to pursue each other. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Women make your life 'better', not 'good'This seems like very responsible man. 👍 | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Can't seem to create sexual attraction with ANY woman.Hi to OP. 🤗 I just find you a bit funny. 😅 Not because I'm laughing at you but because you are so cute overthinking this. 😂 It is kinda weird if a stranger would approach me and then proceed to have a lengthy conversation right then and there. What if I was busy or waiting for someone to meet with, etc. Other things that may not give me the mental energy to focus on a lengthy conversation with you. Just getting her number would be fine. You introduce yourself slowly. Let her ask you questions. S… | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Can't seem to create sexual attraction with ANY woman.Awww such a sweet line. I'd feel flattered if I was the girl. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Recently started sexting with my guy friend. Now I'm confused if I should continue or not.Haha. Ok. I trust your advice. Thank you so much. 😅 Yeah I will not be needy right away. 😂 I'm actually texting him right now and he's flirting again. It's like he wants to flirt all the time now 😂😂😂 But I'm trying to keep it playful. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Finding late 20's early 30's girls.I'm 27. 😬 I don't really go out anymore. Guys who like me are either teenagers or old men (40s-90s 😂) and it's difficult to find mature and emotionally available men who are around the same age as mine so I kept them as friends. I actually would go for 30s because they're more serious. So far, haven't met someone I can emotionally connect with. 😅 So I just give up for now. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Recently started sexting with my guy friend. Now I'm confused if I should continue or not.😂 thank you for sharing that. Glad to know you never really lost your friend after all the sex. We are still talking. He never ignores me. That guy wouldn't wanna lose me. 😌 We never talked about sex before until the sexting. So it was fun to know he's shocked. 😂 He is actually very polite. Even during sexting I could tell he's holding back, I think he is being careful. He's flirty but also not saying explicit sexual things, I'm the one who says those type of things then he does too after I do. … | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Recently started sexting with my guy friend. Now I'm confused if I should continue or not.Oh. I hope my friend isn't only after the prize. Maybe if he is he would have been much more aggressive. He is shy in person. 😂 Well, I tried talking to him again but I initiated a topic that isn't related to flirting or sex. He still talks to me like normal. 😊 I don't think he has an idea how much it affects me because I do like him and I enjoyed teasing him 😂 | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Recently started sexting with my guy friend. Now I'm confused if I should continue or not.Well I'm not mad at him or anything. Just scared our friendship will deteriorate into nothing. I mean like a one night stand where individuals don't care what happens afterwards. 😅 I do want to have him as a friend forever because he's very nice to me. In your own perspective, would you be bored if the conversation won't be sexual anymore? Once you go into sexting, does it always have to be like that from now on? | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Recently started sexting with my guy friend. Now I'm confused if I should continue or not.😂 ok then. Thanks. At first I just went along with it because it was fun but now maybe I'm overthinking. Haha | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 11:09 PM |
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